Xabster2 Archive

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1	What’s a good response to the claim that all of men’s issues are caused by the patriarchy? Those things aren't something they strive to do to be more feminine. Violent and aggression and looking dangerous is something men do to be more manly.	/r/MensRights	18/01/25 06:01 AM
1	What’s a good response to the claim that all of men’s issues are caused by the patriarchy? The problem is.. despite the claim being "Toxic Masculinity" doesn't apply to all men.. Well, replace it with toxic apples for a second in your mind. Does that mean all apples are toxic? No, of course not. Toxic apples refers to a subset. Toxic masculinity also refers to a subset of masculinity that is toxic... Toxic masculinity gained traction because there are some real big and obvious things that aren't good and healthy masculinity that men strive for to be more manly. I can't think of anythi…	/r/MensRights	17/01/25 09:45 AM
0	The mindset of because women are being treated in whatever way in the past should not be use as treated men badly Freedom, to me bodily autonomy is when you're restrained in a psychiatric ward or being force fed food or somehow you can't control your body like you want to... it's very "near" to the body... and those things you mention are societal things	/r/MensRights	17/01/25 07:25 AM
-2	The mindset of because women are being treated in whatever way in the past should not be use as treated men badly Right, I wouldn't call that bodily autonomy though, i'd call that freedom from being forced into things or something or just freedom... but i get you, we have forced military service in my country while the women do nothing	/r/MensRights	17/01/25 06:49 AM
1	What’s a good response to the claim that all of men’s issues are caused by the patriarchy? Talking about toxic femininity would be interesting too. I'm sure there are ideals that women stride for that are actually toxic. Women also add to the toxic masculinity by being attracted to certain antisocial assholes. It gives the rest of men the idea that that is what they want and the ideal we should be. You know what I'm talking about... the bad boys... Toxic masculinity doesn't apply to all men and it doesn't mean masculinity is toxic itself. It's just a subset of male ideals that men do …	/r/MensRights	17/01/25 05:21 AM
1	"I know all about toxic masculinity; toxic feminism isn't the answer" (K. Donnelly, 2019) There is no toxic masculinity. There’s only bad behavior. The concept is idiotic from the start. In some groups, like a former friend group I had where we did a lot of drinking and a lot of drugs later on too, there was a sort of... respect... for a person who acted a certain way, you know? Sort of "Don't care about anything, let's just fucking go"... they were seen as more masculine to be daring and risky and not doing what anybody told you... I think that's toxic masculinity in effect there. I…	/r/MensRights	17/01/25 04:23 AM
1	"This is a world where violence flows from men towards women and girls, and from women towards men and boys." The majority of the victims of violence committed by males are boys and men Why exactly are we so violent? And why is it we look up to strong aggressive people in the group? Why exactly is it that we shun the intelligent nerds and listen to the loud mouths? Seriously, I don't understand why we give so much respect to obviously bad moral values in an aggressive man who threatens violence and then we ignore the people who're intelligent and calm...? Is it some sort of game theory where we try to g…	/r/MensRights	17/01/25 04:17 AM
1	Resarch: Women Ask for Raises as Often as Men, but Are Less Likely to Get Them I don't believe that employers do this to be evil against women. That is if the study can be replicated. But why then? Are women more loyal perhaps and the threat of them quitting for a different job seems less likely?	/r/MensRights	17/01/25 03:39 AM
1	What’s a good response to the claim that all of men’s issues are caused by the patriarchy? I'd like to answer this. The patriarchy does not mean priviliges and rules FOR men, but it means generally that men have been responsible for shaping society for a very long time and women only recently given right to even vote. So it's just saying "men made society's norms" And even if it's men making the norms they can easily hurt men themselves. Take "toxic masculinity" such as men trying to be more manly by proclaiming how little they care about anything and how angry they can get and how vi…	/r/MensRights	17/01/25 03:31 AM
1	What’s a good response to the claim that all of men’s issues are caused by the patriarchy? I think women are sometimes delusional about what they really want and think. They say they want men to show more emotions and be more in tune with emotions but every woman absolutely cringe at men showing sad emotions or crying. They delude themselves. They also delude themselves into thinking they're attracted to this very "middle of the road" man with emotions and stay at home job and stuff like that... that's not what they really want but it's what they have deluded themselves cognitively to…	/r/MensRights	17/01/25 03:27 AM
1	The mindset of because women are being treated in whatever way in the past should not be use as treated men badly men do not have bodily autonomy I'm new to this sub, what do you refer to here?	/r/MensRights	17/01/25 03:17 AM
5	Stop saying the left has changed. Stop calling it the left. It’s Feminism. It's actually very often that a topic comes up and I get my opinion from Reddit about how it's bad and then it dawns on me that my own country has that exact law and I agree with it. For example strict immigration. How can Europeans hate Trump for anti-immigrant talk? We're way stricter. However, his plan to deport 20M illegal immigrants using the military is wild talk....	/r/MensRights	17/01/25 03:11 AM