Xan_The_G Archive

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1	CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average man …so I feel by your immediate passion and aggro there was a miscommunication with my last post. I’m a guy and I totally understand and sympathise with pursuing women for relationships and the challenges we have in doing so that most women will never recognise or appreciate. I was not saying that men shouldn’t cold approach because it’s wrong, but because the risks are too grave. In contexts outside of dating or romance when you talk to western women as a stranger they tend to take it poorly, or t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/25 05:10 PM
2	CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average man You wouldn’t even need the boyfriend for this to be a bad idea for the average man. Anyone who encourages the general populace of men to cold approach at this point is deliberately ignoring how common and easy it is for a woman to already react defensively to a male stranger starting a conversation. Ask male waiters in bars/restaurants without a uniform how often women glare at them in the couple seconds between “hey there” and “can I get your order?”	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/25 10:07 AM
2	"Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie. The best man out of the last ten? And that’s not a high standard? I understand that saying it’s feasible or realistic to attain, But presuming your stats are accurate, being in the 90th percentile and being told it’s not a high standard is just gas lighting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/25 06:54 PM
–	Women settle down with and seriously date lesser men, but still hold toxic men from their past in a higher regard. Need clarity on what exactly you think is toxic. I’m assuming you’re referring to some aspect or action of the man?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/24 10:09 PM
1	Is FTM transitions a good example of male loneliness comparative to female loneliness? And unalived herself because she couldn’t recover from the experience of being a man for a few weeks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/24 02:02 PM
1	Is FTM transitions a good example of male loneliness comparative to female loneliness? The fact that you said you have to change means loneliness is the default. I agree with you that applying yourself will change that, but if you come from being a woman and farming a bare minimum of social interactions just for existing and transition, you’re in for a lot of failure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/24 02:02 PM
1	Is FTM transitions a good example of male loneliness comparative to female loneliness? I have friends. If you transition FTM and feel lonely, then other men think you suck and you need to work on your personality. The complaints that FTM make is the difference in difficulty. Things like entering a bathroom by yourself, and no one, including people you might know, actively trying to communicate with you; people not smiling at you by default, or making you feel significant just for existing. Now they have to actually be interesting/useful/captivating, and they spent a life time with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/24 02:00 PM
–	"More women should make the first move" yeah, and it would still be like Tinder Shrugs I’ve witness women “signalling” at a man to the point the whole friend group insisted the man approach her only to be rebuffed because she wasn’t signalling. I’ve seen the opposite, where women insisted that having a normal, civilised, brief conversation while selling a coffee was flirting. I know one woman who insisted he should have noticed her flirting because she said “have a nice day” as she rung him up at the till with no sarcasm whatsoever. I differ to not engaging with the thought…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/24 12:49 PM
–	"More women should make the first move" yeah, and it would still be like Tinder Side conversation but a women can smile in your general direction without it meaning it’s a signal. The same way she can glance or look at you and it’s just looking at you. The women at the register could be conducting good customer service, not flirting with you. And don’t get me wrong, I’m not attacking what you said just stating that women will say these are signals as and when it’s convenient to them and following them doesn’t mean anything more will it socially absolve you if you hit on a w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/24 12:40 PM
1	Having a lot of sex as a man is the ultimate way to show you’re a good provider Well if he’s having a lot of consensual heterosexual sex then he’s by default impressing women to some degree…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/21 04:03 PM
0	CMV: Women are far more entitled than men and don't expect to do even the bare minimum Because men outside of those incels don’t endorse what those groups have to say. … women voted for Trump over Hilary AFTER he spoke on grabbing women by the pussy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/21 12:52 PM
2	To Women: How and when do you like to be approached? Fair. So you also agree cold approaching is generally unsuccessful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/21 12:42 PM
1	To Women: How and when do you like to be approached? So hypothetically if you were single and not at a bar as OP said not to use, where else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/21 12:15 PM
2	To Women: How and when do you like to be approached? I respect the fact you were honest about this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/21 12:14 PM
1	Number of partners At this point it’s clear you’re so wrapped up in your emotional argument to stop and actually read what I wrote. Either that or you just don’t understand how counting works. If your measuring intersex intercourse then you wouldn’t count homosexual/gay sexual encounters. That’s not a political stance, any more then looking at the average height of men is misogynistic because it “ignores women”. My original point is that you can’t BELIEVE that most women have little to no sex with different men, b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/21 10:35 AM
1	Number of partners My statement isn’t about what people allege for themselves, it’s literally about what you believe regarding heterosexual sex. If you believe most men have a super high N count with women, then mathematically women must have a high N count. That has nothing to do with what people claim their N count is, which I accept and agree they will lie about. See 1. My statement has nothing to do with sexual preference or orientation. Every time a man has sex with a new women, that women is having sex with …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/21 07:27 PM
0	Women are more hostile to prenups than men, revealing the true nature of the marital transaction He’s probably not wrong. No way in hell do I actually think for a second any of my female friends could actually handle a guy talk without being offended or making it emotional before logical. Doesn’t matter how long we’ve been friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/21 07:14 PM
1	Number of partners This isn’t stats… it’s literally mathematics. I broke down mathematically why the total N count for heterosexual men and women HAS to be the same, so majority of men cannot have a high N count if the majority of women have a low N count. There is as much sex being had by men with women as women with men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/21 04:40 PM
1	Number of partners “A lot of men have significantly more” …significantly more than medium? So High? And by the maths I stated, why would you say men specifically, when the maths would prove that women must also have significantly more than medium for that to be true. It’s all your comment. “Most Men have N counts significantly higher than what I deem to be medium” Mathematically it makes no sense to distinguish men and women since it would have to be the same across the board, and it’s not true absolutely either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/21 01:07 PM
1	Number of partners …so if we agree, then your initial statement about it being difficult to find a man without a high body count makes no sense. Unless you also believe women generally have high body counts to match.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/21 12:48 PM
1	Number of partners You’re missing the point completely. This is mathematics, not your personal relationship. women cannot have low N count and men have high N count. That makes no sense. With 10 men and 10 women in a group, where each women says they’ve only slept with 1 man, and one claims to have slept with 10 women, for both to be true, every other man in that circle is a virgin. Even if he only said 3 women, for all the women to allege to have only slept wi the 1 man, then at least 2 other men must be virgins.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/21 12:35 PM
1	Number of partners Women say they have low N counts. Women say men have high N counts. How can a lot of men each have sex with a lot of women but women’s N count is low. You’re lying about your numbers or obvious in no way could a majority of men have high N counts. The proportion of men to women is not drastic enough for that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/21 12:02 PM
1	Does your partner's past sexual experiences influence your current sex? Fair, so naturally when it’s a deal breaker, irrespective of who they did it for, it’s gonna be an issue if they don’t do it for you. So say it’s not a dealbreaker; say it’s just something that makes the relationship better for you. For me cooking. If I found out my partner shared in cooking in her previous relationships but refused to do it with me, I would take great exception to this, even though I wound NEED my partner to cook or be able to. But I would have to ask why it was something she w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 08:11 PM
1	Does your partner's past sexual experiences influence your current sex? So I take it you want him to wait and not try to rush to sex? What if he said - or more likely suggested - that he waited to broach the sex question because he didn’t feel as sexually attracted to you? I only ask because you said if he wants to have sex with you but doesn’t ask right away you saw it as lying… so if he says he’s not that interested in you and hence he’s willing to wait before saying anything, does that make you feel better?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 08:07 PM
2	Does your partner's past sexual experiences influence your current sex? Trying something is not the same as saying you were open to something. Whether sexual or not, if someone says “I went an opera but it felt boring to me and I never wanted to go again” to a partner and said partner feels betrayed because they never got to go with them to the Opera, then they clearly weren’t listening. OP infers the person in question was regularly doing something they now don’t do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 08:03 PM
2	Is a woman who approaches men low value? There’s an expectation for men to never have insecurities, no matter how ridiculous, yet there is always opportunity for women to lean into their insecurities, again no matter how ridiculous. To relate it to dating, men are expected to man up and make the first move, even in this era of women expecting men to know instinctively or psychically whether or not she’s actually into you, where approaching the wrong women on an off day can have repercussions that affect your livelihood or social status…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 05:53 PM
1	Is a woman who approaches men low value? Exactly. I don’t actually think a majority of men are so insecure, or love the ambiguity so much that they are turn off by women who make a first move. But ladies come off desperate because they’re so bad at it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 02:13 PM
2	Is a woman who approaches men low value? I’m not complaining, I’m just saying girls are much cornier and awkward and weird for opening lines than men who have to survive through those skills from a young age, and shouldn’t make references about how men see women that make the first move, because it’s not tacky to try… you’re just absolutely garbage at it across the board. If women knew how to start conversations, they would be amazed at how successful they would be making the first move.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 01:35 PM
2	Is a woman who approaches men low value? Lol yeah, which is natural and understandable… except it kind of isn’t. I’ve stumbled over my words because I’m flustered or nervous… didn’t exactly work out, lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 12:47 PM
1	Is a woman who approaches men low value? I agree with the shift in sensitivity regarding intersex relations. The dance and courtship had a lot more good faith. I won’t argue whether or not the good faith was warranted; maybe it’s actually safer for all parties that so many additional check and balances are in place; but I do take issue when people pretend it’s a simple task of approaching someone and just opening your mouth. It clearly isn’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 11:42 AM
1	Is a woman who approaches men low value? It does matter if it’s lame as a man though. And I wouldn’t advise to catch ANYONE off guard as a tactic. That doesn’t disarm people, and I can 100% understand why the dude asked why. If you flipped the genders and the women came back a day later to say she felt coerced/threatened to give her number out of fear, you couldn’t argue against her. But again, this lack of nuance is what I’m referring to: women in general have no awareness of it, which is why their approach is deemed as “low value”. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 11:29 AM
1	Is a woman who approaches men low value? Not being picky, doesn’t mean it was good. It means you’re being patient/considerate. And I’m not against you being so either. I’m more pointing out that women don’t get held to a standard of actually being… witty when approaching. And I’ve heard some opening lines from women that make me question if they’ve ever lead any conversation ever in their life, lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 11:24 AM
2	Is a woman who approaches men low value? You also have to consider that women have horrible pick up lines across the board. They don’t have to do it so they are phenomenally bad at starting flirts and conversations with the opposite sex. It’s corny, awkward, and if done by a man would be liable to be creepy too. So the one in a billion women that has good conversation doesn’t come off automatically as low value.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 08:46 AM
1	There's a very simple solution to women's AF/BB hypocrisy for BB men. Don't Marry. No I’m not saying specifically wait until marriage. I’m saying when you have the conversation about one, you should be open to the other. Marriage is a sequence of progressive steps leading to the wedding day. Your sexual relationship can also progress in similar fashion how that progression breaks down is down to the two people in the relationship. My point is, if you don’t want to hear him talk about sex in your relationship, don’t talk about commitment. While you don’t have to have sex with h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/21 10:24 AM
1	There's a very simple solution to women's AF/BB hypocrisy for BB men. Don't Marry. I’m equating when it’s appropriate to ask for what you want out of a relationship to when your partner requests what’s interesting to them. You can be in a long term relationship without a ring or any legal binding commitment just as long as you can without sex. I explained how to spot scamming women in the posts above. I literally mirrored the steps you outlined for women to vet creeps from their dating pool. Quipping that you deem the vetting process I spoke off unreliable or not accurate or s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/21 11:42 PM
1	There's a very simple solution to women's AF/BB hypocrisy for BB men. Don't Marry. How fast is too fast to ask for sex? It’s the same amount of time. When you’re ready to hear sex on the table is the time it’s appropriate to ask for commitment. Easy concept to mirror. But please, keep insisting that shielding a few innocent women as collateral damage is more important than not ruining a man’s life by failing to get a gold digger or scam artist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/21 10:05 PM
1	There's a very simple solution to women's AF/BB hypocrisy for BB men. Don't Marry. Regard how man CAN be creepy: Stalking and harassing are fair. Id compare that to women that try to sneak into your vip room or hotel room or backstage or whatever. It’s an obvious violation and if you stand for that then that’s a clear dangerous kink you have and you run the risk entertaining that. “Not taking no for an answer” is too subjective. When way too many childish women will openly say they like a man who takes what he wants, or that he should just know when she wants him to approach h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/21 06:38 PM
1	There's a very simple solution to women's AF/BB hypocrisy for BB men. Don't Marry. You ask me how men would weed out fake women, but then said creepy guys are an obvious spot, then relented that no ones instincts are accurate. So basically, women can go off instinct because even when they have cases of being wrong, and labelling a guy a creep who actually wasn’t, they are right enough of the time to warrant it. It’s the same for men. Women who don’t mean you wrong aren’t savvy enough to dupe a man for the long con, they just usually don’t show the restraint and discipline to v…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/21 06:19 PM
1	There's a very simple solution to women's AF/BB hypocrisy for BB men. Don't Marry. Didn’t say majority either. You’re just reaching because you’re being sensitive. OP said betas can protect themselves by not marrying scammers. I reiterated that if a guy thinks he’s being scammed, OPs advice makes sense. Secondly, men can identify fake women the same way a women can identify a creep or “nice guy” from someone who is just being polite or civil. If you think one cannot be trusted to be accurate… neither can the other. Thirdly, it’s not a lot of effort to simply choose not to marr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/21 06:03 PM
1	There's a very simple solution to women's AF/BB hypocrisy for BB men. Don't Marry. It’s not people. It’s people trying to scam you. And like I said, the man who is being scammed is targeted because he is seen as a beta and an easy mark, someone who won’t assert what he wants in a relationship and will be smitten enough to give in to her whims without little or no investment from her. What makes him a beta is agreeing to that. But if he identifies that’s what she is doing, and chooses to string her along, its no reference to his character. She was trying to hustle him and inste…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/21 05:45 PM
1	There's a very simple solution to women's AF/BB hypocrisy for BB men. Don't Marry. Hold on. Even if that was my point - which it wasn’t - how on earth would saying only Alphas get stable relationships puts the blame on women? If anything that logic would excuse women but putting the blame on the man being a beta. My actual point is very simple: if you do not see your future husband as a betabux mark, then he has no reason to be protective. Idc if you don’t believe in alpha or beta. Do you have an issue with a man refusing to commit to a women he believes is trying to hustle hi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/21 04:53 PM
1	There's a very simple solution to women's AF/BB hypocrisy for BB men. Don't Marry. Remember to tell it that mortar doesn’t exist because you don’t have it in your joints, or at least you’ve never met a woman with mortar in her joints so it can’t be real.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/21 11:30 PM
1	There's a very simple solution to women's AF/BB hypocrisy for BB men. Don't Marry. Nothing you just said refers to anything I’ve categorically just expressed multiple times. If you’re so adamant about what you believe BetaBux means then ignore the term and deal only with the descriptor I gave. And once again, if you’re not tricking a beta for his money, or the women in question isn’t marking the man as a beta, then he isn’t the beta OP is referring to. Never heard anyone refer to any married man as a beta, nor any man a woman is willing to marry as beta, so you might want to b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/21 11:22 PM
1	Meeting Women Outside Just Isn't Viable Anymore Ahh, I was thinking, the result is ultimately the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/21 10:53 PM
0	There's a very simple solution to women's AF/BB hypocrisy for BB men. Don't Marry. The scenario specifically calls the man the betabux. He says if you are said beta, don’t marry. If you’re not hunting down a beta to prey on, then… don’t. If you’re good enough at communication and not a horrible person, then you’ll easily communicate this to you’re bf/future husband and they won’t see themselves as a beta and OP won’t even apply. Honestly I don’t even understand what you’re arguing here, other than the fact a beta shouldn’t refrain from marrying women that prey in him as a mark…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/21 10:33 PM
2	Meeting Women Outside Just Isn't Viable Anymore You make a lot of assumptions. The first one being that a simple straight forward “no” is the response most women normally give. The second is the notion that women aren’t above signalling that they are receptive to a chat or banter just to cause a scene. The third is that I don’t try to speak to women, or that I’m unfamiliar with talking to new people I’ve never met before to try and break the ice and build a rapport as quickly and seamlessly as possible. I’m saying, from experience, that women…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/21 09:59 PM
2	Meeting Women Outside Just Isn't Viable Anymore I don’t believe in a creep vibe for the majority of interactions like this. If a woman won’t take you’re approach in good faith, your vibe means nothing. And majority of women don’t take cold-approach interactions with men in good faith.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/21 09:47 PM
2	Meeting Women Outside Just Isn't Viable Anymore I’m not a woman. And I agree with you it’s excessive. I’m saying the climate as it is, that’s the annoying mentality you’re navigating as a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/21 09:41 PM
0	Meeting Women Outside Just Isn't Viable Anymore Sounds creepy. I’m nit accusing you of anything, but wait you’re constantly chatting up a ring-up girl at her job and teetering on the line of harassment, Or you are the ring-out lad who is chatting her up when she just wants to pay for her weekly groceries. I’m not saying either scenario CANT work, but I’m saying if you’re not incredibly handsome there is no modern women alive who will even take your cold approach in good faith.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/21 09:31 PM
1	Meeting Women Outside Just Isn't Viable Anymore What is it that you disagree with? I would think this term (first time I’ve come across it but very useful for explaining the scenario for men) would justify why cold approach does have the failure rate OP was referring to?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/21 09:26 PM
0	There's a very simple solution to women's AF/BB hypocrisy for BB men. Don't Marry. But if she wants to get married because she sees you as an easy mark or hustle, then not committing to her is the correct and smart thing to do, which is the scenario OP is presenting…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/21 09:21 PM
1	There's a very simple solution to women's AF/BB hypocrisy for BB men. Don't Marry. If the women was genuinely settling down for a partner that she loved and was attracted to, then the man in question isn’t the beta shes attempting to hustle resources from. And in that regards it would be a healthy relationship. If he is the beta and she is attempting to hustle him, I don’t see a reason to care about how she feels… just find another mark.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/21 09:01 PM
1	There's a very simple solution to women's AF/BB hypocrisy for BB men. Don't Marry. I would assume to be around the bucks they are stringing the beta along for? If the man is in fact the beta than the women in question is only procuring him for resources, so keeping her out of reach of those isn’t a mean thing to do when both parties are playing the long con.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/21 08:58 PM
0	CMV: Most of women's dating issues stem from the fact they just aren't likable to the men they get with But again. Men don’t pretend they don’t give a high importance to attraction. And I don’t know you, but you sharing interests with them wouldn’t count against you, but it won’t help if he doesn’t find you attractive, or you don’t present in a way that visually stimulates him. But as I stated before, just because he is attractive to you and will date you, doesn’t mean for a second that he thinks you actually have a half decent personality or actually enjoys relating to you about things that inter…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/21 09:14 PM
1	CMV: Most of women's dating issues stem from the fact they just aren't likable to the men they get with What I can say about male wants is we are very defeatist for most of the things we want in women. Men will have sex with, date and marry women that don’t meet their wants mainly because we realistically accept you will never be/bother to be/interested to be what we want, but it’s not the end of the world if you aren’t that. Most men would love to share their actually interests organically with their partner, and have the same sense of humour and relate on certain quirks. But you rarely ever do. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/21 08:45 PM
1	CMV: Most of women's dating issues stem from the fact they just aren't likable to the men they get with The thing is, you don’t see any in the way of men being called out as virtue signalling or trying to lie when women reference their questions to men mainly because the male answer is consistent with their experience. “Why do men only date us for sex?” - “because your all dating the same 20% of men who recognise they have options and don’t see you as the best one to settle down with.” - “…” I understand what you’re saying even with this topic at hand delving into men wanting companionship. While …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/21 07:50 PM
2	CMV: Most of women's dating issues stem from the fact they just aren't likable to the men they get with The thing is, it’s not enough to stop the conversation at being ignored. I work as an electrical engineer. I had to study before working and during work to be competent at my job. I speak to customers all the time that try to problem solve without the proper knowledge or context to the problem at hand. I’m sure I’m typically much more polite than in this forum but I do ultimately ignore their point of view most of the time. It’s not enough to simply complain about being challenged or even ignore…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/21 07:00 PM
4	CMV: Most of women's dating issues stem from the fact they just aren't likable to the men they get with That’s because women utilise the opportunity to speak their minds in the likes of FDS away from criticism and challenge, where as the men who make those posts typically encourage the challenge/argument, as opposed to either group having more or less to say. Women typically speak in echo chambers where there isn’t the possibly or capability of discourse for their ideas or rhetoric to be challenged because they see the benefit and value in the emotional exercise and catharsis in being heard withou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/21 06:14 PM
–	Why do guys need sex to feel validated? The thing is you say it’s obvious you like each other as a straight female. Are you dating? Have you shared any in tomato or romantic moments? Have you kissed or touched him affectionately? Do you even speak to him? Have you ever even consciously smiled in his general direction before? The reason I ask the continuously facetious set of questions is because it’s very hard for a women to play vague or ambiguous about her attraction to you when she is willing to sleep with you, and typically a wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/21 11:53 PM
1	One thing that is never talked about are the unfair social ramifications of a man shooting his shot and not succeeding Her metrics aren’t logical. That’s why you get to that point as a man in the first place. She wants plausible deniability of sexual intercourse. I’m gonna go ahead and advise no one to follow your thoughts and counter her slander of your masculinity with a threat to actually rape her. It’s insane that I need to state that but here we are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/21 03:13 PM
1	One thing that is never talked about are the unfair social ramifications of a man shooting his shot and not succeeding So just… threaten rape then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/21 03:09 PM
3	One thing that is never talked about are the unfair social ramifications of a man shooting his shot and not succeeding So your advice is to go ahead and rape. Glad you figured that out for us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/21 03:07 PM
1	One thing that is never talked about are the unfair social ramifications of a man shooting his shot and not succeeding We do that every time. And you just respond with more insults at manhood and “not reading the room” or whatever BS argument you put forward. And women who think this way are not the minority.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/21 03:03 PM
1	One thing that is never talked about are the unfair social ramifications of a man shooting his shot and not succeeding I don’t look to protect women. I’m just thinking results orientated. If all I want to do is have sex, and a girl is willing to do so providing we both pretend that ISNT what I came to speak to her about then whatever. If I want to have principled engagements with women where I say what I mean come-what-may, then I will do that. I get what your positions is and I endorse it. I’m just saying - if a women says “lie to me and I’ll give you what you want” and you don’t care about losing… then lie.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/21 12:47 PM
1	One thing that is never talked about are the unfair social ramifications of a man shooting his shot and not succeeding I don’t think women are good or nice. And I completely understand what you mean about the facade. I’m saying that they majority think they deserve to be treated like royalty even though they are in average the same mediocre POS that everyone else is. You’re right - they are not the Disney princesses they claim to be, but do honestly believe they should be treated as such as a God-given right to being female. So the offence can be genuine as much as them acting on code.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/21 12:32 PM
2	One thing that is never talked about are the unfair social ramifications of a man shooting his shot and not succeeding All I’m clarifying is your classmates will see you and say “hey that’s XXX from school” when you approach them. And it may not be a great connection, but you cannot downplay how much of a difference that makes to disarming someone in conversation than if you spoke to someone who has NEVER met you in any context before. You are in that social circle. Believe me. It’s not as cold if an approach as you think, and it does help.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/21 12:03 PM
5	One thing that is never talked about are the unfair social ramifications of a man shooting his shot and not succeeding In your example the first women is expressing your boldness to her friends because she found it degrading or insulting. Which I can understand why she would feel that way, although as a man, I personally wouldn’t. Now someone women in her circle might genuinely not see that as negative and just see you being clear and direct. That’s very rarely the case though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/21 12:00 PM
6	One thing that is never talked about are the unfair social ramifications of a man shooting his shot and not succeeding I’m not arguing whether or not what you said would work. But that seems pretty toxic. I agree that would intrigue a certain class of woman, but murderers get women wanting to be on their conjugal visits lists on death row… just saying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/21 11:25 AM
3	One thing that is never talked about are the unfair social ramifications of a man shooting his shot and not succeeding Classroom is a social circle. How do you not know your class mates? Your classification of social circle is pretty arbitrary because women frame you by how comfortable they feel around you, not how well they know you. This notion that people in general, never mind women in the age of me too and Rape Culture are up for completely unknown men introducing themselves to them on their way to lunch, or to work or while they’re shopping is disingenuous. It’s not about having good game or being able to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/21 11:22 AM
2	One thing that is never talked about are the unfair social ramifications of a man shooting his shot and not succeeding You don’t meet people in public. You don’t meet literal strangers on the street. A night club is a social circle. So is a pub/bar.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/21 11:05 AM
17	One thing that is never talked about are the unfair social ramifications of a man shooting his shot and not succeeding Women complain about men not “taking the initiative” after saying no or pulling away. I’ve heard that personally so many times, where a girl will text me and say “why didn’t you stay the night” after she point blank told me she wasn’t interested. I even got accused of not being a real man because her “saying no once” wouldn’t stop me if I really wanted it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/21 11:03 AM
10	One thing that is never talked about are the unfair social ramifications of a man shooting his shot and not succeeding …have you met a women before? A no is easy to process. Rejecting a man is like some right of passage to women. She has to tell everyone and make the biggest scene because you approached her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/21 10:53 AM
8	One thing that is never talked about are the unfair social ramifications of a man shooting his shot and not succeeding If your bold and they decide they don’t like you this will backfire. Women are not gracious enough to be reasonable if they don’t instantly find you super attractive. Confidence is always perceived as arrogance or obnoxiousness by women who do not see or don’t want to see anything appealing in you. They do not have the fortitude to respect elements separately from their underlying feelings. Woman validate their feeling and choices by justifying every element and attribute of their choice so that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/21 10:48 AM
2	One thing that is never talked about are the unfair social ramifications of a man shooting his shot and not succeeding So you like dating strangers that you have no connection to? Yeah I don’t but that for a second. That would mean you wait to be cold approached or so cold approaching. Which modern women do neither of so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/21 10:38 AM
1	How do you feel about knowing that a lot of men will sleep with anything? Report numbers of sexual partners in a market place where women depreciate and men over appreciate their respective N count being balanced would suggest in truth they are not balanced and a lot more women are having sex with the same men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/21 12:11 AM
2	How do you feel about knowing that a lot of men will sleep with anything? Logically as a man I agree with you. Statistically speaking - I wonder how many baby mothers are actually their baby-daddy’s first. I’d bet that women who get pregnant from a situationship tend to go for a man who already got another women pregnant in a situation-ship than a man who hasn’t yet. Also, while it’s true social media and society at large doesn’t stigmatise men who are promiscuous, neither society nor social media forces women to find them attractive or pursue them, yet they do and wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/21 11:07 PM
1	How do you feel about knowing that a lot of men will sleep with anything? From a male perspective, there is a difference between women you would sleep with and women you would pursue. Yes, technically there are a lot of women we would be comfortable sleeping with, but a plethora come with ALOT of conditions, most commonly being she would to be the one seducing us. The guys in your DMs trying to grasp at your attention, or trying to woo you on dates are not seeing you in the same way as the girl he will happily ignore for all eternity even though if she stripped naked …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/21 10:56 PM
4	If all women are attracted to a similar type of man physically...what type of personality appeals to the broadest amount of women? That’s a good question tbf. They are going to give you the PC “absolutely nothing answer” but a genuine, honest answer could break real ground…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/21 01:28 AM
1	Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling". So he’s above average height with a athletic contact sport build. And you tried to pitch him as a “nerd”. I know you probably weren’t being deliberate but hopefully you can see why your response is gaslighting. No matter where you met him. You met him as a 5’10 man with the build of a Rugby player. You didn’t first lay eyes on “a nerd”. You met a Clark Kent, lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/21 12:32 PM
1	Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling". It’s not about being a stay at home wife. It’s the fact that the husband will typically earn more because women tend to form ltr with men who earn more than them. Since the women earns less, that means the average earning per person will go down for the man when he gets married, but up for the women and typically substantially so. It’s technically easier for the man to survive financially without his wife so she is as the first poster said, a burden.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/21 12:57 PM
1	Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling". That is completely the average arrangement. The average arrangement for any married man is he has an additional mouth to feed, fundamentally. That doesn’t mean they’re all super rich and can manage it easily, but if you took their wives out of their lives just from a purely financial basis, and looked at costs of upkeep, mortgage - where did he live because he had a wife and kids compared to where he would live just to suit himself etc. - way less debt and financial maintenance needed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/21 11:48 AM
1	Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling". Chad isn’t a specific body type though. Chad is your reflection of an 8-10 physically, so by your own standard you’re trying to suggest you wouldn’t be activated to all the men that you categorically find more attractive physically than your current partner. That doesn’t make any sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/21 11:40 AM
1	Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling". How tall is your husband and what are his physically active hobbies? Because technically, Clark Kent is a nerd. He’s also quite literally built like superman so being a nerd doesn’t quantify anything, lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/21 11:36 AM
2	In your experience, what are some things that are different about men in the real world compared to men on TRP/PPD/the manosphere? I’m pretty sure TRP almost exclusive blames men for their success/failure with women. To the point where it crosses gas lighting the notion that any man can get a 10/10 women he just needs to wear a clean cashier and have enough game. Moreover, majority of men aren’t deflated or put off by the 80/20 hypothesis. They were experiencing unquantified interactions with women that they couldn’t explain or understand. And the idea of “no matter what you did it was never going to be received well” makes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/21 11:16 AM
1	Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman? The disingenuous element of their rebuttal is borderline gaslighting. The idea that women are so noble/ lazy they won’t get dressed for a free meal	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/21 08:38 PM
1	Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman? It’s not about determining whether a woman is into. You aren’t good at signalling. I’m sorry - what I mean is - you’re deliberately vague about it generally, as a standard ploy for power an a childish game and method to dating: and that’s when you might genuinely be dating. When you want to eat, it’s going to come with a deliberate amount of fake charm to promote the idea that you’re interested. The same kind of fake charm that men will use to go to the store and leave women as single moms or si…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/21 01:01 AM
1	Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman? Nothing to do with sex. Just integrity. You know that you’re not interesting in the guy asking you out. Forget the sex. You don’t want to date him. But you take his money for food. And no, I can’t afford to spend a single dollar on a dishonest leech. Just sit in the street with a cup and beg like everyone else who wants someone to pay for their next meal, lol. You can try to arbitrarily though non-sequiturs into your response as much as you like. You already know you don’t like the man in that w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/21 12:46 AM
1	Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman? I’m not the one purporting a delusional belief that no women ever utilise the traditional dating system just to get a free dinner. I assume you also insist women never cheat or lie either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/21 12:28 AM
12	Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman? FDS is only from a women’s perspective. It’s very likely (and typically the case) that the things you pore effort into as a women mean nothing to the men your trying to attract, and they in turn see no value in you. That doesn’t mean you’re valueless, but a man has the right to not give a flying fuck about whatever attribute or forte you’re offering.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/21 12:24 AM
2	Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman? Free food means one less meal you have to actually pay for by yourself, which has nothing to do with the presence of a famine. Women don’t dress up for men, they dress up for themselves. In this particular case, to get free food. So yeah, actually loads of women would take dates they know will go no where for guaranteed free nice meal. It would take integrity, not inconvenience to deter that. Foodie calls are very convenient for women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/21 12:20 AM
1	Q4W: How would you feel if you saw your male love interest/boyfriend/husband crying Mainly because the women who will allow you to be human with emotions and the ones that can’t handle it will both say that they can handle it and want you to be free. Basically the same reference for women and weeding out creeps from the nice guys. The problematic among you will never admit it and will continue to gas light until they are exposed or called out. But that doesn’t give credence to pretend that there aren’t problematic women who instinctive use a mans emotions against him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/21 11:17 PM
1	Your dating woes are probably your fault. I never said one was better than the other. I said men compromise in women’s character because they don’t expect them to resonate with each other. Just like someone who’s favourite colour is red, might compromise when they wear their blue hoodie. It’s not to mean the blue hoodie is bad or defective, or that someone else might not like the blue hoodie more… but men find your blue hoodie boring, lol. But seriously, my entire point has been male preference, not any absolute about women and all you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/21 07:31 AM
1	Your dating woes are probably your fault. I mean… you literally only have one case of where you believe your male friend doesn’t see your character as compromise. I’ve god 15 solid adult years of guy talk referencing partners full of banter and confessionals about gritting those metaphorical teeth when spending time with them in one way or another. And you’re so fully attached to this straw man about personality attached to gender no matter how many times I make clear that’s not my argument. My argument is that women tend to be lazy wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/21 06:37 AM
1	Your dating woes are probably your fault. Your mixing shyness with passiveness. I’m not calling women the fairer sex or challenging how dominant or forward you are when expressing yourself. Women will judge an idea or option freely. For instance: picking a date. Typically a women doesn’t take the initiative to plan one, and when they do, it’s isn’t sensitive to the male’s interests nor is their any room to critique a lack of sensitivity therein. The expectation is that her being willing to spend time with him or wanting to, is it’s own …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/21 01:09 PM
1	Your dating woes are probably your fault. Yeah this wasn’t a “women are inferior” point. Men typically do not class their female friends or partners as having engaging characters. They don’t see them as the ones to broach a conversation or activity. They are typically passive and expectant in the relationship and lean on the male to set the activity or conversation and entertain them. Most men do not have the seem expectation of their gf/wives character as they do from their male friends. I’m not saying women objectively aren’t funny or…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/21 12:32 PM
2	Your dating woes are probably your fault. Because most women aren’t funny, engaging, witty or captivating with their personality. So men are used to compromising in that respect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/21 11:51 AM
1	Plausible Deniability That’s fair. On the flip side, if it ever wasn’t theoretical for you, the guy would be the one that came off as the creep/predator/rapist, so the fear of it might not be as compelling to you as the incels you referenced. As I stated, there are many girls that are ambiguous and also take umbrage with needing to clarify when advances aren’t wanted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/21 07:20 PM
1	Plausible Deniability Actually it can always be 100% clear, you just always have the option to change your mind at any point. If you know from the beginning you’re not interested in anything physical or intimate, it could be said up front. I completely understand that something can go amiss at any point and you can not be interested any more. That’s very different from gas lighting that a guy should read the room when the core of your response is that your cues are definitively ambiguous. Why is it gas lighting? You …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/21 12:47 PM
2	Plausible Deniability “Ambiguity is part of the fun” - but if it’s genuinely ambiguous, doesn’t that by definition mean it’s not clear whether you want to be intimate with that guy after your date or not? So what happens if you actually just wanted to Netflix and chill, with none of the “implications”, lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/21 11:20 AM
1	Biology versus Cultural Conditioning. Female perception of Men showing Emotion and opening up and masculine Men. No - women generally just can’t tell the difference. Their view and expectation of men is about the same as a dog or a robotic sentry. You have no right to feel emotional pain or vulnerability about anything. You highly underestimate how much women are affected by seeing men cry at funerals, or when they stay quiet or passive during public altercations. If you’re being robbed at gun point and don’t fight all the gun men Bruce Lee style, women in your presence secretly mark you down, because thei…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/21 03:56 PM
1	Biology versus Cultural Conditioning. Female perception of Men showing Emotion and opening up and masculine Men. Women can’t tell the difference. The aren’t emotionally mature enough to sense that distinction about male sensibilities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/21 08:26 AM
2	Men's problem with the current dating scene Again - you’ve stressed this farcical notion that your only options are a bunch of objective dysfunctional men, as well as the notion men general open themselves up to dysfunctional women. It’s not true. It’s just virtue signalling. If you compare finding a partner to finding a car to drive to work, women will not buy a car unless it’s a Tesla and are confident they have the money to grab one eventually. Men do not have that luxury and will shop around for Nissan. Men will find a Nissan that wor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/21 02:20 PM
2	Men's problem with the current dating scene I will abstain from mentioning physical and sexual attraction because that is subjective and you have your right to your opinion. Excluding those to factors, you cannot convince me at all that women find it harder to find eligible/functional. Granted you might not be attracted to them, but that doesn’t instantly make them toxic or problematic. You could easily find a man who was of sound mind and body who would be a good partner to you - but you’re not attracted to them. You don’t have to be and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/21 01:37 PM
2	Men's problem with the current dating scene I read and agreed with what you said.you got my like because of the very last line. Kudos for avoiding the opportunity to gaslight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/21 10:16 AM
7	Men's problem with the current dating scene It’s not deliberate, but saying your 6’2 and then suggesting to try harder is like Donald Trump only having a starting fund of £1,000,000 dollars and talking about how to do business. When you have compelling attributes in your favour, and yet are still unsuccessful, then it’s not simple bad luck you’re clearly doing something wrong, and it’s not indicative of the starting point of everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/21 10:14 AM
2	Men's problem with the current dating scene To be more accurate “dating the asshole they saw ruining their friend’s life a couple months before”	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/21 09:54 AM
10	Men's problem with the current dating scene You literally break down the reference of looks and charm and (IMO) quite adeptly highlight how a lack of looks and charm can void anything else about you that makes you a good/better person. …only to gaslight and suggest the other poster wasn’t applying them self properly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/21 09:49 AM
3	Men's problem with the current dating scene Idk if it’s maths or reality she stuggles with but she is confused if she thinks that women equal out the same amount of dating options than a male counter part. There will always be more men that will say yes to a women than women to her counterpart man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/21 09:46 AM
1	FDS being as large as it is shows how out of touch some women are and that doesn’t help get women results. But you win people over off good impressions. Your CV and interview will be putting your best foot forward, not a casual one. How fragile is your sensitivity if you take issue with someone trying to look as good as possible as opposed to deliberately belittling themselves to mediocrity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/21 08:52 PM
2	CMV: Straight men have it harder in dating than women Even if it wasn’t manipulative, even as a friend you’re still meeting her for the first time, so you’re still cold calling as a stranger. It’s a logical fallacy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 08:55 AM
21	CMV: Straight men have it harder in dating than women I don’t think anyone is asking you to be easier. Just more considerate would be fine. If you think a guys first line to you was bad or corny, just stop for a second and appreciate that you couldn’t think of a line that would work, before you try to make a public spectacle about rejecting him or calling him a creep. Like the OP said, most women look negatively on cold approach, but have no solutions as to how a new guy would ever meet you. Since you seem to want to only date men you already know,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 08:35 AM
2	Men are overly criticized in society compared to women OP is talking about Western society. you are not, but you’re using your experience from outside of the scope of the conversation, to generalise the demographic within the scope of the generalisation. OP is talking about why he thinks chocolate is bad for your diet. You are arguing that Fruit is good for you, while acknowledging that fruit isn’t chocolate. Your generalisation isn’t really the problem, it’s just irrelevant to this specific topic. You’re experience is valid, but it answers nothing …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 02:57 PM
2	Men are overly criticized in society compared to women I didn’t say any of that. The OP connotation could also reasonably be taken from the context of Western Society specifically. No one has discredited your experience. But your experience doesn’t justify your generalisation. If your examples come from the culture of a third world country, then I doubt it’s part of the Western Society that’s being discussed. So it doesn’t challenge what the OP has stated, because it’s a different culture. That’s like arguing Automobiles didn’t catch on as a mode of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 12:39 PM
2	Men are overly criticized in society compared to women Notice she ignored your highlight of her logical fallacy. That’s what you get for making to much sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 09:52 AM
2	AskMen post discussion I do understand your analogy and for the men that have that point of view your advice is correct; but the reality is that they don’t have complete agency over that decision. The modern woman will you pull up in your sports car as a sports car driver, and is convinced that by allowing you to make her the passenger, she has right to half of the car. Example away from the analogy: I pay for dates every time I asks women out, not because I think it’s a man’s job, but because if I pay, I know - as yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/21 12:52 AM
1	There's a fair reason as to why men's version of "objectification" is deemed more potentially harmful by "society." Then you have clearly misinterpreted what the majority of male pushback is on this style of thinking, because your under the impression that men cannot see that the two conflicting desires are what women want at that time. They want the guy they like to approach them without having to risk social rejection. They want the guy they don’t like to feel like he has done something wrong so that they can feel seeing them as a creep is justified ass opposed to just an immature reason as. I don’t know wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/21 03:53 PM
2	There's a fair reason as to why men's version of "objectification" is deemed more potentially harmful by "society." No it’s irrational when you put the agency on men to accommodate a known conflict in the thinking of women. That’s like saying I want to get paid for a job, but I don’t want to work their, and pressing to my employer that they must be able to understand both feelings in a bubble and therefore they most figure out away to pay me without asking me to work when I don’t want to. ...hence why I presume this is a troll	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/21 03:42 PM
2	There's a fair reason as to why men's version of "objectification" is deemed more potentially harmful by "society." For the exactly reasons multiple other posters have already said. You expect others to engage but you also expect others to know instinctively whether you specifically want them to engage. You use gas-lighting vague generalisations such as “read the room” as if women in general are good at giving signals or give signals in general to indicate whether or not they are interested in someone. If not fr the sake of the actual discourse you’ve been having with others, I’d bet all I had on you just bei…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/21 03:33 PM
2	There's a fair reason as to why men's version of "objectification" is deemed more potentially harmful by "society." It’s irrational. It’s natural to feel that way as a woman, but that nature is irrational.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/21 03:04 PM
1	Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another? No not at all. I think most men on here already assume that to be the thinking. I guess the true purpose of this thinking is to establish if men can infer that a women that makes them wait, when she wouldn’t others is specifically because she’s not attracted to them. The argument you just made is “if you have other qualities I want other than physical attraction, I will make you wait while I get at those other qualities”. It’s tactical and manipulative. And I’m not judging you for playing into y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/21 08:37 AM
2	CMV: If all men were suddenly attractive, women would find all men attractive and not just the top 20% Would you be comfortable with a man wanting to confirm your height, weight and dress size with a similar check list?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/21 12:53 AM
1	CMV: If all men were suddenly attractive, women would find all men attractive and not just the top 20% Allegedly. She called herself attractive and the men she dates ugly. Red flag-ish behaviour to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/21 12:50 AM
1	When people blame single men for their lack of “ going outside “, what counts as going outside ? Not white women specifically. It was just an example using an archetype that most people who read the post would be able to identify. Also yes. I’d propose 90% of women you talk to do think you’re rapey as a man. Race/Xenophobia is just one of a plethora of attributes women are indoctrinated into registering as a sign of danger in men they don’t know. Just because they won’t admit it doesn’t mean it’s not true. They SHOULD admit it as it would be freeing for all parties. You cold approach women …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/21 08:19 AM
5	When people blame single men for their lack of “ going outside “, what counts as going outside ? I’m black with dreads. Part of my job is to cold approach on the phone or in person nigh daily - not to date obviously, but for interaction with customers - in 30 years of living I have never spoken to a white women outside of when I am clearly a customer talking to a woman at the counter that hasn’t flinched nigh-instinctively at the sight of me. And like I said, this even happens to me when I’m at my job; when I arrive or am present to assist in an issue or service they specifically called an …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/21 10:12 PM
1	What would it take for you to stop having negative views towards the opposite gender and to gain your respect? How should they interact with you for you to gain a positive view towards them? I didn’t mean to compare the probability. Even if there is only 1 crazy killer woman in the world still a 1 in 4billion chance she will date and kill me in my sleep. That chance is low, but that’s not for you to decide whether that is low enough that I should just risk it and treat all woman as if there is no threat at all. My point specifically, is that if woman as a whole were marked and treated as if you were all the worst of your demographic by men being precautious you would take issue. And…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/21 07:58 PM
1	What would it take for you to stop having negative views towards the opposite gender and to gain your respect? How should they interact with you for you to gain a positive view towards them? So is that just like all women lying about rape when they don’t get the man they want or frauding paternity or maiming/murdering their partners because they’re psychotic bitches? I know that’s not every women, but it only takes one crazy chick to kill me and... well, I’m dead. So might as well safeguard myself and deem you all desperate to murder your partners because you’re clinically insane psychopaths. Surely no women should take offence to being treated as a problem rather than a human being…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/21 01:58 PM
1	The term “ high value “ may have done more harm than good to men in dating I get that. It’s reciprocal. But it’s also 2020 and you are in a very small margin of women who feel this should be. That’s the only reason why I pointed the focus to you specifically. I don’t think it’s wrong to want a lot from your partner, only when you don’t have much to give. I’ve personally experienced a women suggesting that I should pay to go on a weekend trip with her platonically for MY birthday (I know her name, but we’re nit even close). Don’t come to pass funnily enough, but I was s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/20 10:27 AM
1	The term “ high value “ may have done more harm than good to men in dating Then that’s fine. If you spend big and want a like minded partner, then it’s no business of mine to say what you should and shouldn’t expect, providing what you said is true. But by your lack of any feeling of offence, I infer you understand what I was angling at.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/20 10:10 AM
2	The term “ high value “ may have done more harm than good to men in dating I feel this conversation can be easily resolved; name and price the last date that YOU paid for to treat your boyfriend. This discourse about the spectrum of cheap vs bougie is moot if there is only ever one side paying. If you never pay, then the idea that you can even have a say in the relative or acceptable level of invest in a date is both narcissistic and delusional. But I digress; again, what was the last date you paid for and what was the price range?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/20 09:36 AM
1	Absolutely beautiful gem from /r/sex: “Overheard my girlfriend of two years saying her ex was better in bed to her friend” To offer a male perspective: All the talk about being “no good for you” referred to relational issues, or at least suggested that you would be toxic to date. I don’t think the other poster was insinuating he was trying to date you more than have sex with you. I read his responses as someone who was looking for short term gratification. Typically when men have that mindset they have no intention whatsoever of keeping relationship going with the women they slept with so there isn’t actually any th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/20 11:48 AM