Xanax_ Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	"Nice girls" are just as common in dating as "nice guys" but their complaints get validated instead of made fun of. A nice guy is an ugly man who cracks after being led on one too many times.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/25 05:36 AM
1	Women use ‘nice guys’ as a dumping ground for their projections Can't you pick up on the body language and social cues that he likes you? You could not be friends with him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/25 01:09 AM
1	More men aren't single because they have "bad personalities" This, it's an classification problem. When they say "personality" they don't mean a mans virtues or his inner being. They mean how he expresses himself, are you exciting? can you entertain people? will her friends think you're interesting as a kind of social proof? This is what they mean by good personality. So when they say you need to work on your personality, it means nothing of your personal character or whether you're a kind person or morale person. It means you need to work on these attrac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/25 12:40 AM
3	Alot of people arent attractive nor rich enough for the attitude they have. They're ugly, neurodivergent and/or have no money	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/25 12:02 AM
–	Attraction is the first thing women have to sacrifice I agree with you 100%, that's my experiences and observations in life also.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/25 12:37 AM
-1	Friendship and family don't fully replace romantic relationship Yeah, that's obvious isnt it? Why would a friend (even a really good friend) replace a romantic relationship. That's got to be very bluepilled advice you're listening to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/25 05:08 AM
1	You need to practice being friends with people of different genders, including your own. Tbh I've never had a female friend in my life (I don't count online friendships). Clearly treating them like other men doesn't work. Mostly I think it comes down to how the woman perceives you, lots of women want to make things crystal clear to you that they are not interested in you. Which doesn't typically lead to friendly conversations or any kind of friendship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/25 04:37 AM
4	Have you witnessed the 80/20 thing for women IRL? Do you think that situation you're describing is accurate for the average autistic 4/10 man? If that's true it sounds like he hit the jackpot, it's akin to winning the lottery. There is a massive overlap in incel communities with autism. It's so strong that I'm almost willing to make a declaration that for the autist, it's not looks that turns women off but rather the uncanny valley nature of a man who is autistic. Most women find them creepy and off-putting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/24 08:25 AM
7	Dating advice for men is implicitly condescending. Just world falacy refers to common blue pilled platitude that there is someone for everyone and that looks aren't so important. Given that criteria failure to find a partner in a world where only the persons character matters suggests the man has a moral failing that's preventing him being successful. We know this is bullshit hence just world falacy. You are right it's evolutionary forces weeding out the undesirable men but we're looking for ways to deal with the truth, blue pill leads to gaslig…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/24 02:09 AM
7	Friends of perpetually single men often have a different perspective than perpetually single men themselves If a man is perpetually single but has a lot of friends, then it's pretty to safe to say it's his appearance. It's something that is unfortunate because the guy could be a very kind and caring person and just doesn't have the physical traits necessary. Some people just don't have it to make it in the romantic world, I do believe all lack of confidence and social awkwardness comes from the initial point of not being good looking, and this behaviour that has been learned has been conditioned into …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 04:46 AM
2	Women don't really have high standards, they just like the exact same guy If we're talking physical, it's pretty obvious isn't it. Gynecomastia on a man is universally unattractive, recessed lower jaw, leading to "softer" facial features. Social awkwardness, Austistic behaviors and other indicators of mental illness such as ADHD or OCD ticks	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 04:29 AM
3	People who think being single is no big deal have no way to know how time would affect them. It comes down to the kind of person that you are, one person will say it's no big deal, another will say it's a form of hell. If you're someone whos always longed to have a wife and a family it's pretty bad, I'm 38 and I've never had a girlfriend in my life. I'm only not a virgin because I've seen escorts, but last time I did was over 10 years ago so I'm a born again virgin for all intents and purposes. I think you get used to being alone, and I just think people who say it's no big deal haven't…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 09:27 AM
–	"I see unattractive men date beautiful women all the time" has to be one of the most self-unaware statements I almost never see it, mostly it's looks-matched couples.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 10:40 AM
1	Attractiveness matters to men so there’s no reason for them to be upset when attractiveness matters to women. It is true there are a lot of incels who are neurodivergent, but even they understand that looks matter, as a matter of fact it's kind of the prime directive of the blackpill.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 05:18 AM
1	Attractiveness matters to men so there’s no reason for them to be upset when attractiveness matters to women. I'm a millennial as well, and I knew from very early on in school the importance of looks. It's only really in very bluepilled spaces that are very invested in women not appearing shallow that the idea of looks not mattering has become a thing. and well, that kind of message just leads to ugly men gaining hope. That maybe... just maybe it wasn't their looks that caused them to have no friends or any girls interested in them in high school, but something more sinister such as suggesting they're a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 04:59 AM
2	Attractiveness matters to men so there’s no reason for them to be upset when attractiveness matters to women. There is a tendency to deny looks based attraction on reddit and bluepill spaces in general. I believe this is to attempt to pushback on the blackpill by overcorrecting, and also because the bluepill doesn't want to concede any argument that might suggest women may engage in looks based dating strategies. This has been an obvious truth for such a long time that it really does go without saying, if not for the strong push against it, then it wouldn't ever be discussed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 04:52 AM
0	How do I leave the Black Pill? I'm not the OP but I thought I'd share some insight into the archetypes, whether or not you believe them to be real is something else entirely. I would say the most defining thing is the appearance and the social "weight" a person has. If both those people are identical looking and the only difference is their demeaner or emotional intelligence I'd say they're both chads. But if you put them together and said pick the chad, that's where you'd probably draw the line. You're essentially asking who…	/r/ExRedPill	28/06/24 05:46 AM
1	How do I leave the Black Pill? a chad is the masculine ideal, the latter in this case would come under "chad lite" or "high tier normie".	/r/ExRedPill	27/06/24 08:59 PM
1	Boys need a lot more than most Girls It would be kind of an amusing irony if your son ended up as an incel. Even you gotta admit that. Sort of like the cosmic scales of the universe being balanced out, very poetic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 03:53 AM
2	I feel like I've done literally everything possible in my power to hedge my bets with women and dating and it's never mattered are you neurodivergent? Do you have trouble socializing and making friends?	/r/ExRedPill	18/05/24 04:15 AM
3	I'm not really wrapping my head around how having a good personality makes someone sexually attractive to another person It doesn't, it just makes someone you already like look more enticing and the more traits they possess that you're into you'll find yourself falling head over heels for them. However, generally If you find a person ugly or completely unattractive there is no amount of endearing traits they could possess that would make you want to sleep with them.	/r/ExRedPill	15/05/24 01:36 PM
21	If she’s into you, it’s painfully obvious. If it’s ambiguous, you’re an option at best whether she’ll admit it or not haha, very true. It is amusing to watch girls fumble over a good looking guy though. I wonder if they just think that's how some women are. Not realizing what is actually happening.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 03:09 AM
1	How does one "Work on their personality" It basically means you have to be able to carry the conversation. Practice, practice, practice. Learn a persons interests and feed their ego, learn to pick up on social queues. where/when they show interest and what appears to bore them etc etc	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 02:51 AM
1	Women's failed relationships and dating abhorrent men proves women's "intuition" is bullshit Okay, what's the real reason then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 02:36 AM