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He believed me. He knows that when I say something, I have facts to back it up.
/r/AntiFeminists01/01/21 01:39 AM
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I told my boyfriend this. He said that he thinks male privilege is the fact that he and I can walk around at night and not get attacked. But I told him that's just because we live in a very small and safe town. Anyone can do that, regardless of gender. I told him that actually, he's more likely to get attacked as a man.
/r/AntiFeminists01/01/21 01:37 AM
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Man, I took a women and minorities in media class because I needed some random classes in communication and humanities to get my degree and it was seriously like this. Everything was overanalyzed to the point of just being annoying. I often think of what the overly PC crowd might think about certain things in media and they're always just ridiculous overanalyzations that end up being funny. But I literally just wrote down the parodies of the PC crowd I've come up with for this class and got full…
/r/AntiFeminists01/01/21 01:33 AM
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That was actually a really good post if it's the one I'm thinking of and I think it's sickening that they would take someone's heartfelt confession and want to get better and make fun of it.
/r/MensRights01/01/21 01:18 AM
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Lol that was great. Thanks for that. 🤣
/r/MensRights01/01/21 01:14 AM
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I would be careful saying this. It's brigading and against Reddit's rules and they WILL come after this sub for doing it. Since Reddit sucks when it comes to this stuff, I'm willing to bet that this sub is already on thin ice for the sole reason of questioning feminism, we don't need to give them an actual reason to ban us.
/r/MensRights01/01/21 01:09 AM
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Huh?
/r/MensRights13/12/20 08:43 PM
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Feminists suck ass at intersectionality. I'm a bisexual trans man in a relationship with another man, yet in somehow still an oppressor depsite intersectionality in feminism basically saying that I don't have it so great (according the them.)
/r/MensRights13/12/20 12:41 AM
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They can also make fun of dick sizes and no one bats an eye. But god forbid I say literally anything about a woman's body. Another "funny" thing, in the trans community, you can't say anything bad about trans women and especially not their surgeries, lest you get dogpiled and exiled. But people can make fun of trans men til the cows come home. They make fun of our height, our dick size, our surgeries and their results, etc...and if we defend ourselves or correct the misinformation, then we're "t…
/r/MensRights13/12/20 12:35 AM
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Plus, they can test for HIV in blood and plasma and they have to anyway. There are reliable tests that show HIV infection days after contraction.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/11/20 09:55 PM
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A lot of feminists don't like us because us trans people are the proof that there are differences physically and mentally between men and women. I don't mind things like "men aren't inherently smarter than women" that's true and that is a scientific fact. But saying that there's no difference at all is a lie. If there weren't a difference, I wouldn't have felt the need to go through such painful and costly transition to be a man. I would've been ok being a masculine woman. But I wasn't. I know t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/11/20 09:52 PM
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This is the experience of a lot of trans men, including myself.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/11/20 09:49 PM
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That's fucking terrible. I can't believe they would do that.
/r/MensRights16/11/20 10:05 PM
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There's a shelter in my area that helps all domestic violence survivors, including men and I just give everything to them. They also keep families together, rather than telling them that they need to be split up and put into separate shelters, which is really nice.
/r/MensRights16/11/20 08:28 PM
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Here's the link
/r/MensRights12/11/20 06:52 PM
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I have this book and can definitely vouch for it!
/r/MensRights30/09/20 09:02 PM
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You're totally welcome to come join us at r/transmedical. I'm actually a mod there!
/r/MensRights30/09/20 08:21 PM
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The ingrained misandry in society is obvious when you are a man, but hard to see when you are a woman. This is definitely true. I wasn't ever a staunch feminist before my transition (also FtM) but I did get behind a lot of what they did and supported some of that "girl power" rhetoric. But now that I'm treated as a man, it makes me want to gag. Women have no idea how good they have it. I've been socially demoted because I'm a man. People treat me worse, they don't trust me, they look at me distr…
/r/MensRights30/09/20 08:17 PM
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It's an amazing book. It's definitely one of my faves. I'd love to read another one like that.
/r/MensRights30/09/20 08:12 PM
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I've noticed this too!! I'm glad I'm not the only one to see this double standard.
/r/MensRights30/09/20 07:52 PM
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Yep. That's how I feel too. I feel like men have been completely left out of the equation.
/r/MensRights28/08/20 01:35 AM
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This is seriously one of my favourite books. I wish more people would read it.
/r/MensRights17/08/20 08:36 PM
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I'm not knocking abortion. But yeah, my surgery was cancelled til god knows when due to this pandemic. I fucked up my last college semester because it was supposed to happen around March (I took less courses and effectively added half a year onto my degree) and now I'm having to fuck up another semester, just in case it does happen. I added yet another semester onto my studies, so a year altogether at this point, so I can have time for surgery and recovery. And the surgery might not even happen.…
/r/MensRights12/07/20 02:17 AM
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It's unconstitutional thanks to men fighting for that push
/r/MensRights20/06/20 11:31 PM
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Norah Vincent maybe? I actually am almost done reading her book Self Made Man. She crossdressed as a man in several different settings and situations over a year and a half. It's a really good book. I've wanted to take pictures of some of the passages and upload them here before.
/r/MensRights20/06/20 10:24 PM
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I've seen men fighting it. It's how it ended up getting billed as unconstitutional. They're just not sure whether they're going to make women sign up for it now too or abolish it altogether. I'm guessing it's gonna be the former.
/r/MensRights20/06/20 10:23 PM
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I did, unfortunately. I used to believe the lie that feminism was for equal rights for everyone. The more I'm actually read as a man (I'm a trans man who's only about a year into his medical transition) and the more I'm treated as a man and the more I read about men's issues, the more I realize the lie of feminism.
/r/MensRights20/06/20 09:17 PM
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What's (or was) blackpillfeminism? It says that the subreddit was banned.
/r/MensRights20/06/20 09:10 PM
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Either this or to completely abolish it. I hardly see either fought for in feminist circles. Which kind of proves that they don't really give a shit about men. Well, between this, believing every female victim always and not caring about men who are abused or assaulted.
/r/MensRights20/06/20 08:50 PM
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The societal standard, especially right now, and even six whole days ago, women are believed at a massively increased rate as compared to a man, even when they are lying, and it is eventually proven or they admit to it. This also applies to sexual assault and domestic violence. Regardless of what you think about Biden, you can see this in action with what's happening to him. Some random bitch is accusing him of sexual assault and is constantly changing her story, so much even, that her own lawye…
/r/MensRights20/06/20 08:42 PM
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Right? I did a presentation on this (kind of) in my English class in college one semester. We were reading Lolita and had to find a way to relate it back to the real world. So I thought I'd do a presentation on how rampant pedophilia is in the US and never thought that I'd find what I did. When a male teacher rapes a female student of his, he's called a monster, it's rightly called rape, he loses his job, etc...when a female teacher rapes a male student though, it's all about how sexy she was, w…
/r/MensRights20/06/20 08:38 PM
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Here's the video It might make you feel a little better, actually. It's a long one, but it's worth it. I do wish that it was seen as ok for men to protect our spaces. I don't understand why it's ok for women to do, but not men.
/r/MensRights28/04/20 06:18 PM
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It sounds a bit too conspiratorial to me, but who knows at this point? I have a good video about testosterone though if you'd like to have it. It's a long one, but it's a good one. This is pretty typical stuff I've seen from women though. They think that natural male is inherently toxic and they think that masculinity is inherently toxic as well. It's made it very hard lately to talk to most women in my life because of this. They're already jist demonizing me.
/r/MensRights28/04/20 05:23 PM
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You're welcome. :)
/r/MensRights28/04/20 03:24 AM
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Yep, exactly. TERFs are everyone's enemy, really. They're just shitty people in general. And of course they don't care about trans men, we're men, so now we're just trash in their eyes as we are to most feminists 🙄
/r/MensRights28/04/20 03:21 AM
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I'm a trans man and this has been one of my biggest pet peeves. I worked hard to transition and be a man and I fucking want to be in mens spaces, spaces with just men. Not women, not people who don't identify as men or women. Just men. But God forbid I say that, otherwise I'm a mysogynist. 🙄 Seriously, people in the trans community get all up in arms if you want a space for regular old binary men. Hell, I know someone who presents as a woman, doesn't take any kind of testosterone, doesn't even c…
/r/MensRights28/04/20 03:19 AM
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If you mean trans men, we're men now so they give no shits about us. Once you start passing as a man (as in, you look and sound like a dude) they don't care about you and will usually just tell you to shut up. It's actually been quite the eye opener for me in my transition. Now that I pass as a man, I've been harassed in LGBT spaces for having an opinion. I'm two of the god damned letters, I get to have an opinion on my community too. Hell, I do way more activism then most of them ever have. It …
/r/MensRights28/04/20 03:14 AM
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I actually ran across a video that touches on it too if you're interested. It's a TED talk that's a really good criticism of modern feminism.
/r/MensRights28/04/20 03:04 AM
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You're welcome. It turned into a novel when I didn't mean for it to 😂
/r/MensRights28/04/20 02:41 AM
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I'm sorry you had to go through that, man. I hope you're ok.
/r/MensRights28/04/20 01:23 AM
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I did a whole presentation on this in one of my college English classes. We read Lolita and my group had to do a presentation on it. We had to relate it to the real world and I was originally going to just talk about pedophilia in general, but then I did research into the different ways that men and women pedophiles are portrayed in the media and holy hell is it disgusting. When it's a man, he's rightfully called gross and what he did to his student is rightfully referred to as rape of a minor a…
/r/MensRights28/04/20 01:19 AM
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This is exactly what it is and they purposely misrepresent it all the god damned time. It's annoying and in sick of people screeching about it. You don't like it, then work more or go get a degree and get a better paying job and don't be a stat at home mom. You have those choices for the most part.
/r/MensRights28/04/20 01:14 AM
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I just wrote a whole big thing on this a few comments up. 😂 You said it better and more succinctly though.
/r/MensRights28/04/20 01:11 AM
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In my sociology class, we had a group project and we were all given a topic. My group had to do this shite. I ended up completely changing up what she expected us to say (she gave us "approved" sources we could use, talk about bias) and used the actual, full study which cites that it's women's choice to earn less. Women typically turn down promotions, they go into fields that don't pay as much by choice and typically have a more balanced work/family/personal life schedule because that's what the…
/r/MensRights28/04/20 12:55 AM
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How is it not already against the law to lie about a crime? What the fuck? Edit: also, when is this going to be voted on and do you have sources for it? I can only find things from back in 2019.
/r/MensRights27/04/20 10:30 PM
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I love how people can say things like "men are trash" but you criticize feminism and suddenly they act like you're criticizing all women like criticizing women is a bad thing and telling men that we're trash is acceptable.
/r/MensRights25/04/20 11:38 AM
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I have a friend who was fucked over by this. He was even told by a doctor that he shouldn't sign up for it since he took ADHD medication and the doctor said they wouldn't take him, so he listened to his doctor and never signed up. I tried to help him sign up for community college and he can't get FAFSA. We tried filling out the form that says he's exempt from the draft, they didn't accept his form. It's bullshit. No one should have to sign up for the draft.
/r/MensRights25/04/20 11:11 AM
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