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Blue Pill ExampleXanderS311/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 08:46 PM
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Red Pill ExampleXanderS311/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 11:15 PM
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Yes I had my fun...... After I got divorced
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/23 07:58 PM
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The biggest mistake that women in this age group make is that they assume that their priority (commitment, provisioning) should also be a man's priority at precisely the time they need it most. A guy of that age with his life together has plenty of options, so they get a rude awakening.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/23 11:11 AM
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You beat me to it, I was scrolling to find this. Every time a dude kisses her he has to taste 36 other guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/23 06:43 AM
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I'm currently traveling in Mexico. The local girls here are open, friendly, sexy and really like white guys. Work on your Spanish and you'll have a ball.
/r/seduction30/10/22 08:07 PM
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Ultimate Guide to Text & Phone Game by Braddock is a great book
/r/seduction17/07/22 10:23 PM
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It's fucking easy, just get the private room. She's not going to ride you like a pornstar in a dormitory. Although if you find a girl who will, give me a call. She's far away from home, nobody will find out so the anti-slut defence is way down, and she wants a few stories. I'm going from Istanbul -Vienna via the Balkans this summer and I'm newly single, this is my plan of attack although I do prefer going local when traveling.
/r/seduction14/07/22 08:07 PM
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The most expensive sex is free sex
/r/seduction14/07/22 07:58 PM
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She already knows that you like her, and doesn't care. If she felt the same way she would have made it blatantly obvious by now. Date someone else who is preferably more attractive than she is and her reaction will tell you everything, she'll either either try to steal you or be happy for you, either way you win.
/r/seduction28/06/22 01:27 PM
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You've made 2 mistakes before you've even started, coffee in the afternoon. Basically the exact same date that loads have other guys she has rejected have taken her on. You're now JAG- Just Another Guy. Physical intimacy is equated with night time, so go out at night. Also, you need external stimulation for her emotions-music, comedy, art, dancing etc are great for this.
/r/seduction24/06/22 10:45 PM
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To be honest I'm not surprised. I'm British and my experiences with the police aren't great, and ours don't even have guns.... Also many people regularly do illegal things, would I have to give up the weed and occasional cocaine use? No wonder the police is an incestuous environment.
/r/seduction07/06/22 05:58 AM
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Ive always been overweight and I've never really had too many problems, many times I've heard the world's greatest compliment- "what is she doing with him?" It helps that I'm tall, quite dominant and have an outgoing and extraverted personality. However, there's no point in pretending that I wouldn't have been much more successful had I been in shape all these years. Don't bother with online, you need good cold approach skills and strong social circle game.
/r/seduction03/02/22 09:04 PM
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This is great advice. The Madonna-Whore complex is rampant in many men, you do not want to give out a slut vibe. In a similar way to how women put men in the friend zone, men put women in the bang-relationship zones. I'm not saying it's right, just the way it is.
/r/seduction05/01/22 10:27 PM
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People wouldn't rather be glued to a screen. It's just more convenient and easier, and carries no risk of rejection, negative consequences or requirement to adhere to social norms. People are craving real world interaction and stimulation. As for women, they want guys they like to approach them. They want men to self select and self censor and to automatically know when they're going to be rejected. Just do it anyway and accept that some won't like it. That's always been the case, apps or no app…
/r/seduction18/12/21 11:42 AM
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I couldn't possibly disagree more. I'm British and I haven't dated a British woman in 15 years as they have the biggest prevalence of bitch shields of any nationality I've ever seen. The sense of entitlement is off the charts (especially since apps have become more popular) and they think they're so much hotter than they really are. I voted for Brexit but even I have to admit that less female immigration is disaster for the red blooded British male. It can only be the exotic factor or your looks…
/r/seduction17/12/21 11:47 PM
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I work in sales and the story is very similar to this. I get an appointment in around 10% of calls where I get hold of the decision maker, and then I close around 30% of those- so about 3% in total- I make good money in an industry where there is such a revolving door its used as a fan in summer. Why do so many fail? - because they have to go out and SEEK rejection and will get what they're seeking more than 95% of the time. It's painful and frustrating and most can't just barrel through it. Sam…
/r/seduction10/06/21 09:17 AM
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Woody Allen said it best- the most expensive sex is free sex
/r/MGTOW27/04/21 11:12 PM
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But I'm losing £1 for every £0.77 they're missing, how is that fair?!
/r/MGTOW31/12/20 10:41 AM
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TIL that dope is just a much more widely available form of truth serum, I'll remember that. A woman saying "You're different from other guys I've dated" is possibly the biggest red flag there is, it's TRP 101.
/r/MGTOW17/10/20 02:55 PM
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Have you ever heard a woman blame herself for a breakup? Didn't think so.
/r/seduction20/09/20 10:18 AM
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The better looking you are, the better luck you'll have on dating apps and online Vs in person as that's all girls have to go on. Get some great photos (should be easy) and work on your text game. You'll get loads of matches, the sheer law of numbers means you'll get loads of dates and then just go from there.
/r/seduction02/09/20 04:22 PM
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My wife wears Chanel Chance, it's fantastic. Your get what you pay for. Most people of both genders wear absolute crap.
/r/seduction26/08/20 09:38 PM
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One of the reasons why Asian women like white men is because in their minds they're getting alpha fucks and beta bucks in the same man.
/r/MGTOW12/06/20 04:23 PM
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Chris Rock said it best: When one of your boys meets your girl he says " She's nice, where can I get a girl like that?" When a woman introduces her boyfriend to her friends they say "How can I get HIM?" It's called pre-selection- to show something is valuable you show it's scarce and that other people like it. Women love men who other women like- it's why they don't care that a man has banged 50+ women (in fact it makes him more attractive) but men do not like hoes.
/r/seduction26/05/20 07:57 PM
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As good as this post is, it certainly isn't original as I read it at least 4 years ago. I think you should clarify that it's a repost.
/r/MGTOW25/05/20 11:42 PM
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You were unlucky then, as my sixth form Sociology teacher at the same time 2001-03 was one of the most red pill men I've ever met.
/r/MGTOW21/05/20 05:51 PM
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What kind of independent, self-sufficient male doesn't own a car?
/r/TheRedPill09/04/20 02:11 AM
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A guy I know who lives in London and took the tube 20+ times per week had it, its almost impossible not to catch it in that environment . He was in bed for four days and now he's fine.
/r/MGTOW04/04/20 02:54 PM
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The PUA 5.0 said it best - ” two words, emotional spikes"
/r/seduction26/03/20 01:16 AM
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Chanel Allure Sport- I've tried loads over the past 15 years and keep coming back to that.
/r/seduction16/03/20 05:51 PM
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Some guys are Arthurs and some are Marthas, you know which side of that divide you're on you should just accept your nature.
/r/seduction07/12/19 12:57 PM
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If she has moved here in the last couple of years (as someone from outside EU) then she will be on a spousal visa and will instantly lose her right to live in UK if she gets divorced. If she takes the children to India (who will be British citizens as they are born in UK) then she is a kidnapper. She only gets full rights of a UK citizen after she has lived in UK for five years and gotten permanent residency. She doesn't have a leg to stand on, he has nothing to worry about. He has lost the mone…
/r/MGTOW22/03/19 09:28 PM
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All I know is that my cock did not get hard watching Monster.
/r/MGTOW02/02/19 10:00 PM
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He needs to listen to "I wish I was queer so I can get chicks" by The Bloodhound Gang.
/r/MGTOW17/12/18 07:50 PM
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It's impossible to make history politically correct, end of story.
/r/MGTOW30/11/18 11:05 AM
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Get the private room and be as sociable as possible. That's all there is to it.
/r/seduction09/11/18 09:13 PM
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A woman would far rather share an alpha than have a beta to herself. The fact that you fucked her friend will actually turn her on, they want a man who has options. Fuck them both real good, make them drip like a broken coffee machine and them get them both in the same place preferably with some alcohol involved.
/r/seduction17/10/18 11:12 AM
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It sounds like a threesome is a serious possibility.
/r/seduction17/10/18 07:42 AM
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That's not actually what happened. The story was in my local paper. He won a stupid competition on the radio called "punching above my weight" where the prize was an expensive wedding IIRC. It was for ugly guys with hot gf's. He became a minor local celebrity because of this. It was after that he won a few million on the lottery.
/r/MGTOW12/10/18 10:42 AM
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Disqualify yourself. "I have a friend you really should meet" etc. Keep her onside, and if she's pretty use it as social proof. If she isn't attractive, excuse yourself or fake phone call should do it, assuming no attractive friends.
/r/seduction21/07/18 09:30 PM
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I used to live there, the standard of girls there is shocking. They have a saying amongst the local men that all girls are looking for are the " 4 C's - cash, car, condo and career" As for this particular girl I prefer Android so I'm out.
/r/MGTOW23/04/18 07:17 AM
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Look at who she ended up with, not exactly an example to follow as I'm sure he wasn't the man of her dreams.
/r/MGTOW17/04/18 07:55 AM
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I'm happily married and I lurk on this sub for the reason that I consider MGTOW to be a rational and logical response to the shitshow that is modern society. Finding a woman worth marrying is like trying to find a pube in an afro. I totally understand why men are opting out en masse and if I should ever be single again may very well join the gang. Groupthink is not healthy.
/r/MGTOW14/04/18 11:42 AM
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The amount of times that I have listened to a conversation between two young women and wanted to vomit at the banality of it. This old adage has never been more apt: Great minds discuss ideas Average minds discuss events Small minds discuss people
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 10:51 PM
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Keanu doesn't need to worry about #metoo because he's an out and out Alpha Chad whom women would crawl through a mile long shit filled sewer to lick his cock cheese.
/r/MGTOW07/01/18 05:19 PM
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It's not time for schadenfreude, it's time for him to get reading. He'll never be more open to the truth as he is right now.
/r/MGTOW07/01/18 11:37 AM
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Ask yourself this- if she went to give you a blowjob and your cock smelled disgusting do you think she'd be posting on Reddit agonizing over what to do about it? Would she fuck, she'd just ghost you.
/r/MGTOW17/12/17 11:32 PM
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What bothers me is that she doesn't think for one minute what she has to contribute, or why she deserves such a man, or why the hell such a man would want to be with her.
/r/MGTOW10/12/17 09:46 PM
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As Rollo has pointed out many times, there has been a re-labelling from "toxic masculinity" to all masculinity being inherently toxic.
/r/MGTOW28/11/17 09:04 AM
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I read this the other day in total fucking disbelief.
/r/MGTOW28/11/17 09:00 AM
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Everyone goes hog-rolling, sometimes you just need to drain your balls. I once had sex with a girl who was so fat and ugly even her brother made fun of me about it.
/r/seduction01/11/17 05:35 PM
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Women act on emotions- change her mood, not her mind. Get her in an emotional state by doing something physical like the outdoors stuff you know she likes or take her somewhere with external entertainment such as some live music or my personal favourite - stand up comedy. When women say things like "it just happened" what they really mean is they acted on emotional impulse, they change their mind about men all the time.
/r/seduction29/10/17 08:40 PM
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In a nutshell: So fucking what?
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 09:16 AM
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Scarcity=Value, it's that simple. I lived in China for seven years and I got propositioned by loads of girls even though I'm best part of 20 stone.
/r/MGTOW28/09/17 09:55 PM
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I'm a competitive level Backgammon player and most women who play are rubbish. It's a very analytical game involving a lot of maths and probability, so no wonder men are better at it. It requires a hell of a lot of study and work to get to a good level. On the flip side, there has been 3 female World Champions in its 45 year history, which is a lot more than Chess and Poker which have zero between them.
/r/MGTOW05/09/17 05:11 PM
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Absolutely not. On dates, you should be engaging the emotional side, not the logical. It should be about fun, progressing physically and emotionally until you hopefully end up in bed. If she likes you, she'll drop not so subtle hints as to what she is looking for. Conversations which are logical will possibly kill attraction.
/r/seduction02/02/17 08:04 AM
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They are all over guys because attraction is transferable. You have warmed them up and gotten them in an emotional state then someone else is taking advantage of your work. Your logistics aren't as good as you think they are. You are working and therefore cannot physically escalate when you should. You can't leave and take them out to places. Working there doesn't really give you any value or status IMO, and no-one wants to be seen as the girl who sleeps with the staff. Hot female backpackers ge…
/r/seduction29/01/17 05:51 PM
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It's fine to NGAF about what women think of you, and I completely agree that men being far too concerned with pleasing a woman and desperately trying to avoid upsetting them really turns women off. However, it is very important to remember that passion is very attractive to women- having opinions and actually thinking about things differentiate you from being "just another guy". If there's one thing you must avoid, it's being seen as JAG. Too many guys are boring, banal and have nothing interest…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 01:59 PM
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I was having EXACTLY this conversation with my woman tonight over dinner when we were talking about a friend of ours who has oneitis. My diagnosis was very simple- they don't know how to create emotions and always come across as "just another guy". The problem is that such men delude themselves that they are different and that they are a nice guy in a sea of dickheads, but that's just not true- they come across as generic and focus on pleasing women and not doing anything to offend them which ju…
/r/seduction16/01/17 05:21 PM
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I have a good friend whose wife "punishes" him by spending copious amounts of his money on useless shit every time he does something that she doesn't like, like daring to hang out with his male friends. She sits on her arse in the house that he is paying for watching mind-numbing TV shows and spending his money online whilst he has built a very successful business. WTF is she contributing to his life? I have no idea why hasn't just told her to fuck off.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 02:46 PM
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Act as if, it's that simple. If you act as if it doesn't bother you, then other people won't care. I'm a tall guy but I've definitely seen a difference between short men who make the most of what they have and those who are negative and attempt to compensate by self-deprecating or even worse, being overly aggressive.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 09:00 AM
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Don't worry about "finding fit chicks", they will find you. Late 20's/early 30's is when you finally get to fuck the hot early 20's girls that you couldn't get 10 years ago because you didn't have the status. However, you'll be shamed by all and sundry for this because they think that you should settle with "a woman your own age" as she smacks into the wall like a cyclist into a car door. She'll be eyeing your condo and Navy pension for the day that she vanishes like a virgin on prom night. Well…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 04:05 AM
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Some light FB stalking is involved. Basically look for threads that she has replied to and then reply to them also, strike up a bit of rapport and add her as a friend yourself. Take it from there. In the Gentleman's Guide to Online Dating Cajun talks about doing precisely this.
/r/seduction22/11/16 07:09 AM
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Lets get straight to it here. She almost certainly knows how you feel and doesn't give a shit. I appreciate this is not what you want to hear. Women now live in a world of instant validation where they can get all the attention they need from Facebook etc and therefore constantly have the attention of guys who desire them, or orbiters as they're known in the PUA community. From now on you no longer contact her. You focus your effort on working on your game and fashion sense, and try as best as y…
/r/seduction22/11/16 06:20 AM
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As per Aaron's recommendation, I am now enrolled in the Smith & Wesson retirement plan.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 05:03 AM
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Consider befriending the guy. If he is her BF you'll soon know the score. He'll provide a bit of social proof, and then you can come in under the radar and it won't seem creepy at all. Don't focus on the number. College is just one big nightclub you need to break ice with her first, show some value and she'll still be around. Start a conversation with her by any means possible, any bullshit ruse will work- people are supposed to talk to strangers at college. Just go up to her (it must appear spo…
/r/seduction02/11/16 05:30 AM
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My first question is what are you doing with them on the dates? A lot of guys make the mistake of going to a place with no external entertainment whatsoever and just sit in a bar/coffee shop or something like that. Girls on these sites go on dates ALL THE TIME so if you give off the "just another guy" vibe she'll be quick to next you as she has nothing invested. Go to places with external entertainment- concerts (or if that's too much of a commitment, try an open mic you live in NYC lots of choi…
/r/seduction02/11/16 05:20 AM
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