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What things do you think she’s playing up?
/r/askTRP08/01/20 12:17 PM
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Yeah idk man. Dealt with BPD before. She has no other characteristics besides what you mentioned, and it could just be her aspergers way of avoiding conflict
/r/askTRP08/01/20 11:36 AM
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Haha fuck man
/r/askTRP08/01/20 10:55 AM
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Different when it’s just her & I vs a group of them
/r/askTRP30/10/19 11:35 PM
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Gym
/r/askTRP15/07/19 10:14 PM
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Do you know what the medication was?
/r/askTRP04/01/19 12:15 AM
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Yeah if it was just pubes I wouldn’t care but this shit goes all the way up the side of my cock.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 12:15 AM
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Alberta. I know of an STI clinic here in Calgary that’s good. I’m gonna check that out
/r/askTRP04/01/19 12:14 AM
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Where do you live? I’m in Canada. Healthcare system is fucked.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 04:10 AM
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You’re right man. Not gonna avoid my boys because of a club slut.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 08:27 AM
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Yeah I don’t wanna give her that much power to where I don’t see my friends. But she kills my vibe when I go out and see her and rather not deal with it.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 09:25 PM
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I’ve dated an actual diagnosed BPD before unfortunately and I didn’t see many similarities at all besides what you’ve brought up. She’s still blaming me but also apologized. She does go back and forth though, like rapid cycling moods. She’ll say she has doubts and act all quiet. Then she’ll say she doesn’t want to leave and hates not spending time with me. Etc Idk how to deal with this, my scarce mentality has me hooked on this when I know I deserve better.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 12:23 AM
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I asked her to meet the other night and she came, we hung out for awhile and talked. She said she didn’t want to lose me. I told her it wasn’t okay for her to go through my shit and she apologized for it, reluctantly. She said she knows I didn’t do it on purpose but says she is very hurt, scared it’s going to happen again, and lost trust in me. She was acting distant and I could tell she was thinking a lot. I said look, this isn’t gonna work again if you can’t see past this and trust me, if you …
/r/askTRP26/09/18 08:31 PM
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When it originally happened, before DEERing myself, I got pissed at her for going through my shit. Her response was "Yeah I did, it was open on my computer, and thank god I did because you were obviously hiding shit from me. What else are you hiding now?" and I really didn't know how to deal with that response. I agree this is an obvious reflection of my confidence, I lack abundance and definitely have traits of codependancy. I appreciate you calling me out on this.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 03:01 AM
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I think you’re right. But I am curious into your insight on how this could be fixed if you don’t mind.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 05:47 PM
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Yeah I think she overreacted pretty badly, its clear these are her own insecurities causing all of this. I still don't know how to deal with it, even if she comes around do I just accept her back? I'm not sure, I guess that's for me to figure out. But like you said, accepting her back is basically just rewarding her insane behavior. Maybe it will have to come with some boundaries and terms, unfortunately she truly believes she did nothing wrong and that I'm the one who fucked everything up, this…
/r/askTRP24/09/18 07:10 AM
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Appreciate that. I definitely argued too much and acted childish. I couldn't swallow my pride and just let her be right, felt like I needed her to see my side, big mistake. I'm not going to give her an ultimatum or message her, I'll let her come back around and if she doesn't then I move on.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 06:50 AM
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