Xaxaima Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
679	Horrible things can hit you at any time. The only defence is having strength in every facet you can to weather the storm - that's your duty as a man	Building Power	Xaxaima	/r/TheRedPill	02/09/20 06:09 PM
11	Men are finally being forced to learn about sexual consent at university — it's about time	Men's Rights	Xaxaima	/r/TheRedPill	26/09/14 04:02 PM
1	Amber Heard 'is being CUT from Aquaman 2' after Johnny Depp trial loss - Huge step forward for Men's Rights!	Progress	Xaxaima	/r/MensRights	14/06/22 08:51 PM

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1	When is it time to end it? Could be panic on her part. You've planted the seed and gone nuclear. If you let this frame slip now it's game over, you've lost. Keep being busy, minimising affection but for gods sake get stuck in with your kids, who cares how much you're working or gymming, they're yours. Give it a few weeks now you've primed the bomb and see if any positive changes occur with her, when they do re-engage in some affection to show her this is how she gets what she wants from you. If not, leave.	/r/askMRP	19/02/22 09:51 AM
6	Just broke up with LTR of 1.5 years. What do? Tell you what worked for me when I split with an LTR of 7.5 years. Give yourself a week or less to feel it, mope about a bit if you need to. After that, that's it. You hit the gym, you smash your career goals, you get back out there and talk to women if you want to. You live your life like you want to live it, improve yourself, and never look back. For me 20 or so months on I'm stronger, significantly richer, happier, have a larger social group, and with an LTR that is leagues beyond my ex and b…	/r/askTRP	27/05/21 09:07 AM
4	Men with advanced prostate cancer set to be denied life-extending drug I highly doubt this is a mensrights issue and more a cost benefit analysis. NICEs role is to decide what is the best value for money for patients in the NHS, they have to find the balance and make the difficult decisions of whether something is too costly compared to how many it helps. In this case it would seem likely that the clinical data is not strong enough to warrant the cost. NICE uses a measure called quality adjusted life years to standardise each treatments outcomes and make a cancer d…	/r/MensRights	23/05/21 08:14 AM
3	Most redpill responses to girls giving compliments like “you’re absolutely gorgeous” on dating apps? I look better in person. I'm doing x at y, you in?	/r/askTRP	18/05/21 02:42 PM
1	My father just passed this past month and my LTR has show obvious support but there's as a huge increase in shit testing and the like. Is this normal? Take a look at my post on the main sub. You and I have a lot in common, I'm further into the journey than you right now but I think you could gain a lot from it. Nothing like taking a short cut. Feel free to message if you wanted to talk about anything in more depth, I'm careful to what I reveal otherwise.	/r/askTRP	22/04/21 09:45 PM
40	My father just passed this past month and my LTR has show obvious support but there's as a huge increase in shit testing and the like. Is this normal? If she is crushing on your room-mate enough that you've noticed it, she's doing it deliberately. Girls know what they're doing with this shit better than we do. Fact is she's been put off seeing you at your weakest (sorry for your loss by the way, I've been there), it's nothing you've done wrong really in this case, just a reflection on her being a shitty person. Advice is ditch her, use your inheritance to level yourself up - buy better food for nutrition, get a personal trainer or a better gym…	/r/askTRP	22/04/21 09:14 PM
1	Protecting yourself Don't sleep with crazy, don't sleep with someone that clearly doesn't feel comfortable, don't do anything too kinky the first time even if she asks for it aka anything that'd leave a mark as it's easily twisted into evidence. Also always message the following morning or better yet ask them to let you know they got home okay. Alternatively, if you're at your place, get a ring doorbell that will record her leaving and make sure you see her out and make it clear things were amicable when she left -…	/r/askTRP	22/04/21 09:09 PM
6	2 year LTR ghosting me after fight. Handled this wrong in many ways... If she's been getting lazier/complacent it means you have been too - hence the 'I didn't really care I was still fucking' - You think that's all you're worth then go put some effort in at the gym, work etc until you're worth a blowjob from a HB 10. She's comfortable to act like that cause you're not owning your shit. Decided to go home in the morning a few hours after she denied me = She wouldn't put out so I sulked and left. A better choice would have been to …	/r/askTRP	20/04/21 02:19 PM
1	Women becoming more attractive AFTER you stopped seeing each other? Nah I don't think so. Depends how motivated she is I guess. Mine put on the pounds and generally looks like a train wreck, but when I see her she's boasting about her job, like I care haha. She doesn't seem to grasp guys don't give a shit what you make they care most about your looks. She's not even making that much by comparison, certainly not enough to outweigh how bad she looks now. Bullet dodged.	/r/askTRP	13/04/21 06:11 AM
1	Are these red flags bad for a LTR Or plate? Is this a joke?? Steer well clear.	/r/askTRP	06/04/21 12:07 PM
1	Was a breakup inevitable in a situation like this? Sounds like her parents brought her up to be codependent to be honest. Particularly the father. I wouldn't lose any sleep over it, family is always going to have a stronger hold over someone brought up to be that way and you would have sacrificed too much to be with her. Move on to bigger and better things and leave her to a boring life stuck in her hometown with no prospects!	/r/askTRP	05/04/21 02:17 PM
3	Was a breakup inevitable in a situation like this? Honestly there's something to be learned for all of us from this and its given me some wisdom based in my last failed ltr. A red flag we may often miss: Overly dependent on family. The role of a good parent is to raise a child well enough to become independent and productive on their own. We see the same across the animal kingdom, humans are a stranger case as we take a number of years before we can become independent due to our decreased time in the womb due to pelvic limitations of birth etc. …	/r/askTRP	05/04/21 11:53 AM
1	Has anyone here ever improved themselves after a girl ghosted/left them and had the girl try to get back into your life after seeing you again? Avoid like the plague. She's looking for an ego boost that you're still on the hook, that's all. It'll drive her crazy that you ignore her and are with better chicks so just do that. This one has already proved she's no good by ghosting. Be thankful though, she made you get your shit in order.	/r/askTRP	30/03/21 04:33 PM
2	How to fix a fucked up gut? Suffered the same. Have you rapidly changed diet recently? Could be gut bacteria are out of wack. Try going to a FODMAP diet for a couple weeks, if that relieves it then it's likely food related so start reintroducing things and if it comes back you know it's something you've added. If not it could be IBS, ulcerative colitis, crohns etc. If its IBS its basically a 'we don't know what's wrong' diagnosis. For me I've been tested for Crohns and UC, confirmed no issues physically via a colonoscopy, …	/r/askTRP	04/02/21 09:50 AM
2	Any of u guys use zinc? Can use minoxidil re the facial hair development. Jump starts your genetic DHT response in facial hair follicles. Currently using myself to great results.	/r/askTRP	19/01/21 10:21 AM
1	Good job for mental illness This is something you should be asking your mental health support team or consultant psychiatrist/mental health nurse. No one here should be advising you on career paths as they're not an expert in the field or knowledgeable on the specifics of your case. If you've been officially diagnosed you should also be on treatment and/or in therapy to deal with the root of the problem. If you're not (which frankly by the comments you've made so far it doesn't seem like you are, there is far more hope for…	/r/askTRP	06/01/21 05:14 PM
5	Asked her where she'd like to travel, she said "your heart." How to respond? Pack a coat, it's cold	/r/askTRP	01/10/20 11:08 AM
2	Horrible things can hit you at any time. The only defence is having strength in every facet you can to weather the storm - that's your duty as a man Real valuable commentary there mate. If you actually want to add something back to the community maybe provide some constructive criticism. Otherwise, it seems like it's added plenty of value to most here and you can't please everyone!	/r/TheRedPill	04/09/20 04:46 PM
2	Horrible things can hit you at any time. The only defence is having strength in every facet you can to weather the storm - that's your duty as a man Haha yeah I'm well within the top 1% height wise, lucky me although when I was so skinny it didn't feel that way! Long journey to being a mass monster though. Glad it's helped you out and best wishes to you and your son. The knowledge you get here is a massive step up compared to your standard man on the street so I'm sure between that and a strong parental figure your son is well set to succeed.	/r/TheRedPill	03/09/20 04:19 PM
4	Horrible things can hit you at any time. The only defence is having strength in every facet you can to weather the storm - that's your duty as a man Eat loads, then add a little more on top. Sleep loads, then sleep some more. Drink a fuck ton of water, then chug some more. Honestly I used to eat 3 meals a day and probably had 2500cals. I've gained nearly 70lbs of what I assume is largely muscle over 7 years and I still feel skinny. I fucked around for years and wish I'd dialled in a proper regimen early. Look at Metallica PPL on reddit, I've been running that for a year now. If you workout at home like me, pay for 3 months of proper training…	/r/TheRedPill	03/09/20 03:38 PM
3	Horrible things can hit you at any time. The only defence is having strength in every facet you can to weather the storm - that's your duty as a man Glad to hear you've overcome your challenges too and great to have your shared experience as further support of my hypothesis. Keep fighting the good fight!	/r/TheRedPill	03/09/20 03:20 PM
1	Horrible things can hit you at any time. The only defence is having strength in every facet you can to weather the storm - that's your duty as a man It's good to hear you're bouncing back. Make sure to take the time to deal with your own feelings too. I spent a couple of years surpressing my feelings on it because I felt like I had to be strong for everyone else. You can do both and you can't be strong if you're fighting a silent battle.	/r/TheRedPill	03/09/20 03:19 PM
1	Horrible things can hit you at any time. The only defence is having strength in every facet you can to weather the storm - that's your duty as a man Precisely, I didn't go into much depth to keep it brief but at the time I split with my ex I also had a family member receive a cancer diagnosis and another receive an Alzheimer's diagnosis so I had multiple pillars crumbling together but as you say, some are much quicker to restructure than others. I could rely on a new hobby and physical health in the short term while I worked to rebuild the others. Fortunately the cancer issue was solved for now as well so there's a happy ending!	/r/TheRedPill	02/09/20 09:42 PM
6	Horrible things can hit you at any time. The only defence is having strength in every facet you can to weather the storm - that's your duty as a man That's a much better way of summarising my message. Very quotable.	/r/TheRedPill	02/09/20 09:40 PM
4	Horrible things can hit you at any time. The only defence is having strength in every facet you can to weather the storm - that's your duty as a man Thanks, I hope you never have to but we all have our own difficulties to face eventually and how bad they are is really a matter of personal perspective. I agree, I think we live in a society that is largely devoid of proper masculine influence. I think it starts with the dissolution of the nuclear family, divorce laws have a lot to answer for as it's basically encouraged with how these laws are set up. It means that fathers are largely separated from their children for the majority of the time.…	/r/TheRedPill	02/09/20 09:39 PM
10	Horrible things can hit you at any time. The only defence is having strength in every facet you can to weather the storm - that's your duty as a man That's it man, even if it starts as wanting revenge, whatever spurs you on to improve can consolidate those good habits for a life time. Keep at it and show them you're better.	/r/TheRedPill	02/09/20 09:28 PM
24	Horrible things can hit you at any time. The only defence is having strength in every facet you can to weather the storm - that's your duty as a man I'm not personally religious but it's one of the strongest pillars for those with faith and was the one I was thinking of when I said people may have others. I wish you all the best brother, keep on your path and always act as if he's watching!	/r/TheRedPill	02/09/20 08:54 PM
29	Horrible things can hit you at any time. The only defence is having strength in every facet you can to weather the storm - that's your duty as a man I don't really think so no. It wasn't an option, I had people relying on me and I didn't want to fall prey to what my dad had. I couldn't do that to those around me knowing what it does to people. I think the problem a lot of people have with depression is it's like being in a deep hole. Everyone else can look into the hole and see you're fine and you're surrounded by light but from your perspective all you see is the walls and the dark. For some people pharmaceuticals can bring you out of the p…	/r/TheRedPill	02/09/20 08:52 PM
27	Horrible things can hit you at any time. The only defence is having strength in every facet you can to weather the storm - that's your duty as a man I'm sure if you could bottle that and sell it you'd be a rich man haha	/r/TheRedPill	02/09/20 08:12 PM
8	Horrible things can hit you at any time. The only defence is having strength in every facet you can to weather the storm - that's your duty as a man Wish I was! I can verify with mods if they want, won't here to avoid being doxxed.	/r/TheRedPill	02/09/20 06:57 PM
14	Horrible things can hit you at any time. The only defence is having strength in every facet you can to weather the storm - that's your duty as a man Haha I have some photos where looking back I look dead, it's horrible. Great to compare for progress pics though!	/r/TheRedPill	02/09/20 06:45 PM
5	Fucked My Ex, Now What?? Do I Plate Her?? What Happens Next?? Dude, read the sidebar. A woman's biggest fear is loss of reputation. Men are physically strong, women are emotionally capable. Look at how kids bully each other and you'll understand. Boys physically humiliate, the strongest survive. Girls target other girls reputation and drag them through the mud, the strongest are the most popular. To a woman a loss of her reputation is the loss of everything and rightfully so, its her only defence against a harsh world. If you think there's any way that you…	/r/askMRP	23/08/20 03:48 PM
10	Fucked My Ex, Now What?? Do I Plate Her?? What Happens Next?? No, she'll say whatever it takes to get her meal ticket back and is arrogant enough to think she can hide it. That or she genuinely thinks she can change but the moment you mess up she'll justify to herself why she should cheat etc again. A prenup/post nup like that isn't likely to hold up in court and you're honestly digging through trash and causing yourself a load of hassle. She's proved she's not worthy. To be with someone like that you need frame, frame means loving yourself first and you'r…	/r/askMRP	23/08/20 11:10 AM
6	Fucked My Ex, Now What?? Do I Plate Her?? What Happens Next?? Put it this way. If you are at home with a partner that acts inexcusably, you are exposing your children to that 100% of the time and you end up miserable, further adding to the negativity. If you split they see that 50-70% of the time depending on your custody arrangement, but also get the added benefit of you being much happier. Kids are always better off in a happy home some of the time than a miserable one all of the time.	/r/askMRP	23/08/20 09:37 AM
2	Good job fields to consider now? Demonstrable sales experience in the pharma or med device industry and a science based or business based degree. I'm the youngest account manager in my therapy area as its quite specialist, most of my team are 40+. I made sure to put my hand up for everything in my 18 months as a sales representative though so I had a wide skillet to offer that most older people couldn't. I'm planning to do the same here and move into a management role longer term as sales is just a means to an end for me. I wan…	/r/askTRP	14/04/20 10:00 PM
3	Dad is threatening to kill himself, need help Claiming to feel like a burden is a big red flag for suicides. Contact your local healthcare providers and see what crisis resources are available. Better to take it too seriously than to forever regret not acting. Lost my dad to suicide and research since has shown me that was the biggest sign I could have picked up on. Please don't make the same mistake.	/r/askTRP	20/02/20 06:15 PM
1	What kind of jobs do you guys work, and how has TRP helped you guys secure these kinds of jobs? Pharmaceutical sales would take you in with that degree, bonus if you have a sporting background or good extra curriculars. Great for practicing social skills, gaming receptionists etc.	/r/askTRP	04/05/19 11:09 PM
2	I think its time we talk about losing your father. My dad killed himself December of last year. Got in his car, drove to a lay by I drive past to reach my girlfriends and doused himself in petrol and lit up. He'd been depressed for about 2 years but had been put back on medication he'd come off of before because he'd said he was having 'dark thoughts'. I remember sitting doing my uni coursework and my mum saying it was strange he wasn't back from the petrol station yet, then it getting past the time he should have been at work, then mum ringing …	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/15 09:27 AM
6	Men are finally being forced to learn about sexual consent at university — it's about time Just discovered this as it popped up on my facebook feed; I'm normally a lurker but couldn't help myself posting it here for any fellow UK students to see. TL;DR Compulsory 'sexual consent seminars' at Oxford University are coming next year, to 'teach men not to rape'. My view is that seminars aimed at teaching about sexual consent are all well and good; rape does happen and it is a bad thing, but it shouldn't be targeted at solely men, nor should it be something that is compulsory. 'Consent wor…	/r/TheRedPill	26/09/14 04:20 PM