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5

If you know said boyfriend. Abort mission. If you don’t, smash and dash.
/r/seduction28/04/19 07:36 PM
2

Oh like rock climbing? That’s more of a hobby/fun workout. I was thinking a gym with weights and treadmills.
/r/seduction24/02/18 01:55 AM
17

Just dont be a perv about it i.e. dont be THAT guy who just signed up to get laid. Be interested in actually learning and show that you are there to dance and an opportunity will make itself available eventually.
/r/seduction23/02/18 03:51 PM
5

For volunteer work, pretty much anything helping people (working with the homeless, disabled, elderly) or animals is a good bet.
/r/seduction23/02/18 03:50 PM
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gyms arent the best places to pick up. Most people just want to get their workout done in peace. Although you can pickup some pretty hot cougars. At pretty much every gym I have been to, there has always been one or two fit older women who flirt with younger guys at the gym.
/r/seduction23/02/18 03:45 PM
16

The only time KFC is a legitimate date option.
/r/seduction04/01/18 04:20 PM
2

Be normal. If you don't give them a reason to hate you, they most likely wont. Even if they aren't interested. Women aren't just going to flat out reject you unless you give them a reason to (Unless she's in some sort of fucked up mood or you are trying to pickup in Toronto).
/r/seduction20/12/17 10:56 PM
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If you are relying on having an interesting life to get girls you are doing it wrong. I am a programmer, not just any programmer a mainframe programmer. Literally the most boring programming job you can possibly get. I dont make mobile apps, or games, or even windows applications. The software I make, nobody will ever know it exists if it is running properly. When a girl asks what I do, and i mention I am a software engineer they immediately think I make apps or games or something. You dont need…
/r/seduction27/11/17 09:42 PM
1

Easiest way to get a girl to go on a date with you is make sure they are having a good time when they are talking with you (laughing, smiling at you, flirting with you etc.) Asking for the number shouldn't be some crucial step that needs to be taken during the conversation. It's something that should come naturally. Just like asking guy friends to go to a bar and watch the game, asking a girl on a date should come naturally like that. Otherwise it's going to look like it was awkwardly thrown int…
/r/seduction21/09/17 06:21 PM
6

Now that's how you get friend zoned.
/r/seduction30/07/17 09:12 PM
1

Are you religious? Do you have a very ethnic appearance about you? (Sikh tuban/beard, etc.)? I can see that being a turnoff to some women who themselves are not of the same religion/culture. But in general, skin colour itself is not usually what turns off people. Its more the style, body physique, smell etc. Are you fit? do you have a beard (is it well kept or long and scruffy?)? What type of style do you have? Its more important to be stylish/well groomed then it is to be a certain race. I am a…
/r/seduction29/05/17 12:53 AM
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Lose the weight, make yourself striking. You will automatically gain a bit of confidence if you start improving on yourself. Don't worry about the women and worry about yourself. The women will come to you if you put yourself in positions where women are present. As men we are lucky that many women like older and more experienced. So you won't have any trouble with girls 15 years younger or older. Also your a lawyer, if your not looking for anything serious, that title alone will attract gold di…
/r/seduction16/01/17 04:50 PM
2

Some of them actually have wait staff now. At the one near my work its literally one employee waiting on the whole restaurant.
/r/seduction22/08/16 03:58 AM
1

Basically in the same situation. Gf broke up with me (when I thought the relationship was really good). Left me feeling pretty broken. Basically have not been able to talk to women like I used to. I've been with a few girls since, but like you, I'm used to being with girls that are fairly attractive. As a below average looking guy and having dated hotter girls in the past, I've found that when it comes to hookups, I really can't expect maintain those same standards.
/r/seduction04/08/16 07:24 PM
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I always get the "you have a motorcycle, chicks dig motorcycles" thing as well. I always tell people who say that "I've gotten more guys numbers then girls numbers from owning a bike". If you ride a bike, you are part of a huge community of other bikers. It's like the ultimate way to make new friends.
/r/seduction30/06/16 08:23 PM
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This really hits me in the feels. I finished university and have finally started my full time career. Got a car and a motorcycle. getting an apartment in the next year or so. I've been with 7 girls so far, two of which were long term. During university I was severely overweight so I didn't put much priority on women. I felt as though I would be settling for girls I wasnt attracted to simply because I was fat. I'm currently still losing weight, but I've packed on a lot of muscle, and my height al…
/r/seduction30/06/16 03:23 PM
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But did it work?
/r/seduction28/06/16 04:30 PM
1

You going solo? Or with friends? If solo, I would recommend a nightclub rather then a bar. At a bar, most people are their with groups of friends. If your sitting alone your not going to have much social proof. At a night club, its a cluster fuck, you can tell people your going to go back to your friends and they would never be able to tell the difference. Just talk to random groups of people. Buy a single beer, drink it the whole night. Its a prop, not a means to get drunk.
/r/seduction22/06/16 06:12 PM
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it doesn't happen often. Its more of a fluke that occurs when the right stars align (super forward woman + booze + the right combination of physical features that she is looking for). The last girl I dated I met at a friends birthday party. She came up to me and the mutual friend and said "I didn't know you had hot friends". Another time I was at a club and there was a bachelorette party. The bachelorette came up to me and started singing to me. I started grinding on her. We sat down and started…
/r/seduction22/06/16 06:01 PM
2

what what in the butt
/r/seduction22/06/16 05:42 PM
2

This is exactly what most women would have said. I miss the simplicity of high school.
/r/seduction21/06/16 08:14 PM
2

"are your kids looking for a new father" lol
/r/seduction18/06/16 05:00 AM
8

I think hes joking about the whole stereotype about white women not being into Asian guys.
/r/seduction09/06/16 10:28 PM
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If you want to put little effort: Be tall Be attractive Don't be short and unattractive If you are not any of the above: Confidence Persistence Numbers. Keep going at it Also have your own place. It's possible to wheel if you live with your parents, but if you have a place nearby it's 100x easier.
/r/seduction07/06/16 03:01 PM
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8/10 times its flaking. 1/10 times its for a good reason (she will usually reschedule if she really does want to meet you). The last 10% is a shit test and it's usually an indicator that you should dodge that bullet.
/r/seduction30/04/16 09:17 PM
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"yes" doesn't even mean date confirmed. I have had many occasions where I got the number, got a date set up, and then day of the date the girl is nowhere to be heard from.
/r/seduction30/04/16 12:05 AM
0

That joke zoomed way over your head.
/r/seduction15/04/16 03:44 PM
1

So ignore them completely? Got it. Will report back results.
/r/seduction09/04/16 02:03 AM
2

One time a girl legit flat out said "Netflix and chill" to me. This was before it became a popular term so I was like "durr should I bring snacks" Ended up eating something other then snacks ;)
/r/seduction09/04/16 02:02 AM
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she went back to my place after dinner, and we salted a bunch of slugs. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/seduction05/04/16 03:53 AM
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Getting a number shouldn't be the goal. It is a tool to communicate with a girl. The goal should be getting a DATE. Tons of girls give out their number without any intention of responding or actually going out on a date with the guy.
/r/seduction05/04/16 03:50 AM
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This, I am 6 ft 4, white, balding, borderline fat (250 lbs). Cant get a match on tinder if my life depended on it. But when I go out to clubs and bars I often make out with 100 pound cuties. Online dating is not at all for ugly people unfortunately. But on the bright side we can still tear shit up in person.
/r/seduction29/03/16 03:37 AM
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That's one of the problems with women making the first move. We're more experienced with it (we have no choice) so we tend to come up with some interesting openers that can lead to crazy conversations or escalating things much faster.
/r/seduction03/03/16 05:10 PM
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I've heard about this before. I think it's more about stopping spam bots then blocking ugly guys. Like if you swipe yes yes yes over and over rapidly, they supposedly don't all register.
/r/seduction02/03/16 05:59 PM
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I get almost no matches on tinder. I see plenty of hot girls. Bumble is nice, however is has the same issue as tinder. If you ain't a solid 9/10 you ain't getting matched with anything above a 7/10.
/r/seduction02/03/16 05:57 PM
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What type of online dating are you using? Plenty of fish? OkCupid? Tinder? If your using an app like tinder, people usually do not read profiles. It's inefficient. You have about 2 seconds to impress someone or you are swiped into oblivion forever. If you manage to capture their attention, they MIGHT read your profile. It's the unfortunate truth about these types of online dating. Either your hot, get a ton of matches, or your average and get next to none. A few Reddit experiments have shown tha…
/r/seduction02/03/16 05:54 PM
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Be attractive don't be unattractive As an average looking guy living in a major city, I can pick up much hotter women in person then I can on a dating app. I have to drop my expectations to about 4/10 if I want to get matches on tinder here. But going out to a bar/club I can pull 7/10s without any issues.
/r/seduction02/03/16 06:55 AM
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Everyone has different preferences. I'm a white guy and I prefer thin, petite girls. Just so happens that a lot of Asian girls have that body type. Unfortunately I'm a bald, hairy, 6 ft 4 manly man type of guy. I have found white girls tend to appreciate that look more. As a result 75% of the women I've been with have been white. I have been with a few Asian girls in my life though. So it just takes a bit of patience and experience with flirting.
/r/seduction02/03/16 03:47 AM
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I mingle with new people. I usually go to a club with my friends, but often we split off and do our own thing.
/r/seduction27/02/16 11:13 PM
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I usually go a bit early. If I went solo, I mingle with people and build up a reputation with groups of people. Then around 11-12 when the club starts getting more rowdy, I have a "social circle" of people i can mingle with all night. It becomes pretty easy to pick up girls from a group when the rest of their group likes you.
/r/seduction27/02/16 10:31 PM
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Although I agree with clubs often ending in disappointment, I still do much better at a club than with tinder or online dating. I am not an attractive guy, I am really tall and imposing (which comes in handy more often then not), but my face is pretty much a genetic train wreck. Despite this, I have never actually dated a girl that wasn't at least a 7/10. As a result my standards have become quite skewed. In a social situation, this isn't a huge problem, because you can always leave a positive i…
/r/seduction27/02/16 08:48 PM
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I feel like if you are a decently attractive girl you really just need to make it obvious that you are interested. I know it would make my life and every other guys life a lot easier as opposed to girls who tend to play mind games. Here's an example, I went to my favourite restaurant recently with a buddy of mine. I noticed there was a new waitress working there and she was pretty cute. She was not tending to our table. I noticed her looking over every now and then, I just smiled and went back t…
/r/seduction01/02/16 08:07 PM
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be attractive Don't be unattractive
/r/seduction26/01/16 04:54 AM
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Yea this isn't going to work if your an average looking guy. From my experience, girls only tend to approach if you have a specific trait they want (in my case, I am ugly, but tall. Surprisingly, my height tends to overpower my looks in some instances).
/r/seduction21/01/16 04:08 AM
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Agreeing with you on your point about the afghan girl. Even if the girl wasn't exactly the body type I like, I likely wouldn't pass on it if she was generally attractive. Women are a completely different breed. Society classifies sexually active men as "studs" whereas if a woman shared our view on sexuality they would likely be labeled as "slut". As a result, women want to avoid this stigma by being very picky about who they sleep with. None of us can expect women to flock to us unless we are Or…
/r/seduction29/10/15 03:40 PM
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Everyone discriminates in some way. Its called personal preference. Its the same reason you wouldn't chase after a girl who was 250 lbs. I prefer Asian girls, not because they are Asian but because a large number of them have the thin petite body type. In alot of my past relationships/hookups, the initial spark that attracted the woman to me was my height and maturity. Not the fact that I am white. I'm not denying that some women dont date based on skin color, I've had a few girls telling me the…
/r/seduction29/10/15 03:13 PM
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LOL I am a 6 ft 5 white guy, its not as easy for us as you seem to think. I get rejected more often then not.
/r/seduction29/10/15 05:22 AM
2

As a guy who plays video games and isn't in crazy shape, I don't have problem with hot women when I go out. What OP wants is a woman who shares hobbies with him. As a gamer its something I totally understand as going out on dates to movies, restaurants, walks in park, etc.. gets really boring after a while. Sometimes you just want a girl that you can play World of Warcraft or something with at home on a night in instead of sitting around watching a Nicholas Sparks movie.
/r/seduction29/09/15 12:03 AM
1

grab his ass instead?
/r/seduction02/09/15 04:40 PM
1

"netflix and chill" basically the universal code word for hookup.
/r/seduction02/09/15 04:39 PM
1

I met my current GF at a mutual friends birthday party. The first thing she says to our mutual friend when i get to the party is "I didnt know you had hot friends". We have been dating 8 months now.
/r/seduction19/08/15 06:10 PM
1

But I don't pay a thing to fap.
/r/seduction23/07/15 01:21 PM
0

Also fapping reduces your risk for prostate cancer.
/r/seduction23/07/15 01:20 PM
3

Heres the secret: play with her clit while you penetrate her. She will orgasm (almost) every time very quickly you will last longer because your mind is too focused on multitasking that you wont even be thinking about your dick. You can give her multiple orgasms like this, and if you are really good at timing, you can finish off with a bang by cumming at the same time as her making it extremely intense.
/r/seduction27/04/15 11:35 PM
1

I'd say 10 day stubble is the golden rule. I don't know many women who find a full beard attractive and likewise for clean shaven unless you have a very defined jaw and attractive facial features.
/r/seduction31/12/14 01:33 PM
1

Can confirm the tall white part. I am 6 ft 5, have a shaved head and stubble. Every Asian girl I talk to when I'm out at clubs say I look like Jason Statham (I wish I did, I'm about a 5-6/10). The funny thing is I have 0 luck on tinder, but I can usually get a date with girls I meet when i go out.
/r/seduction31/12/14 01:28 PM
2

Same result here in Toronto
/r/seduction31/12/14 01:14 PM
0

Might want to delete pics. If she uses reddit, your in for a bad time.
/r/seduction22/12/14 07:03 PM
1

Yep, its part of being an introvert. I am still that way. You sometimes have to just go out and do what your not comfortable with. Eventually it becomes natural and you don't think about it.
/r/seduction20/12/14 02:34 AM
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23 here, up until about august, i had only had sex 1 girl in my entire life (we broke up in 2012, so i had a 2 year streak of nothing), and only kissed 2 girls. When i broke up with my ex, I started working out. About 7 months ago, I started putting myself in more social situations to become less socially retarded (i wish i had done this 2 years ago). Since October of this year, I ve picked up, and went home with 3 different girls I have met at clubs (all of which were a 7-8.5/10). On top of the…
/r/seduction19/12/14 02:37 PM
2

I don't know, I think if you have some old spice you can use that horse to your advantage.
/r/seduction14/11/14 03:34 PM
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I opened the link, did a quick scroll through, saw "horseback riding" and noped the fuck out. I don't know about you, but I don't have a horse in my backyard i can just bust out for free to take dates around on. I DO have an 'iron horse' (motorcycle), and i know that almost every woman who has seen it has wanted me to take them for a ride on it.
/r/seduction12/11/14 09:38 PM
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I tried teaching my ex how to drive my car (it was an automatic). She put it in park while it was moving about 10km/hr I will never forget the sound it made.
/r/seduction12/11/14 09:34 PM
1

Everyone has their own personal preferences. If one girl isn't attracted to you, another one will be. I have felt the same way as you for ages, I lost most of my hair already by age 23, have never been physically fit or all that attractive (I am probably a 4-5.5/10 at best). I am also tall (6 ft 5), which in combination with the right personality makes up for being generally average in terms of looks. The only advice I can give you is: don't act like a creep. act like you are having the best tim…
/r/seduction20/10/14 07:36 PM
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As a 6 ft 5 white guy, i have noticed a lot of asian girls always associate me with celebrities (and I am not all that attractive to be fully honest). Does it have something to do with me being tall and white? I never receive random compliments from other races of girls unless I am already acquainted with them.
/r/seduction17/10/14 06:21 PM
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Smoke weed. Im serious. A guy in my highschool used to studder so bad he couldnt get through a sentence without studdering a few words like 5 times each. He was also the biggest pothead in the school. He came to class blazing and didnt studder once when asked questions.
/r/seduction11/09/14 08:34 PM
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I was in the same situation as you, broke up with an ex of 3 years and felt awful and completely lost. You will heal with time, I have completely healed and no longer miss her at all. My biggest problem is that I was never any good with women, and I still suffer from that problem. Its been 2 years and i have not gotten anything more than a date (no kisses, no hookups etc..). My only advice to you is: continue to work out (i wish i had started long before i broke up with my ex, i would be in a lo…
/r/seduction30/07/14 04:58 PM
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as a 6 ft 5 white guy... yep me too.
/r/seduction28/07/14 11:42 PM
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find her imperfections I am by no means great with women, but I found this helps a lot. I recently went on a date with a girl I have had the hots for. After talking with her for a while and getting close to her I noticed that her bottom teeth are pretty crooked. It puts things in perspective that even if she's pretty hot, nobody is perfect and it really made her feel more human to me.
/r/seduction09/07/14 02:10 PM
7

This. I am subscribed to /r/deadbedrooms and I am not even in a relationship. Some subs are just interesting reads.
/r/seduction20/06/14 04:36 PM
2

The sad truth. Been on tinder for a few months now. Use it daily. 12 matches. Majority of them didn't even respond and a few blocked me before I could even speak. For my pictures, I have one of me riding a motorcycle, one making a human pyramid on the beach with 10 people, one selfie to show my face, and one in business wear. I don't consider myself ugly, but I'm def not hot stuff.
/r/seduction01/05/14 11:15 PM
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A girl i used to hang out with a few years ago always approached guys. In a period of a few months she dated 4 or 5 guys. Why did they break up? She got bored. She dumped them She just talked to them and asked them out. Guys dont expect it and probably wont say no. She wasnt a perfect ten either. Maybe a 7/10. Guys always have to do all the work when it comes to getting women, if they came to us for once, most guys wouldn't even know how to react.
/r/seduction31/03/14 03:49 PM
1

Tall =/= hot. I am 6 foot 5 in, balding, pretty much the hairiest guy you will ever see. And I have been told I look like Quentin Tarantino (not a pretty face i assure you). Not much i can do to fix that other than work out to get a nice chizzled body and hair implants to fix my balding (I aint that rich yet). Personalty > Looks You can be the hottest guy on the planet but if you spend your time in the basement your not getting any girls. Period. Be an interesting person, be confident. Don't thi…
/r/seduction10/02/14 06:03 AM
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Maybe this is the secret we are lacking...
/r/seduction07/09/13 05:20 PM
11

Can confirm especially if your talking to a black girl. Gets them really excited. So excited they accidentally hit you in the face when they raised their arm in amazement.
/r/seduction22/08/13 07:47 PM
3

Well its more like .5/30 I was at a club and danced with a HB8.5 but she wouldn't give me her number after
/r/seduction22/08/13 12:42 PM
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Man you do it the exact same way as me, except its been like 30 girls this year and no dates :'( Feelsbadman
/r/seduction21/08/13 07:08 PM
1

Ill take this advice and try it out. Next time I go out.
/r/seduction02/08/13 09:48 PM
10

Bringing a chatty friend can also be a bad thing. As an introvert I've had girls fall for my friends many times because they are more talkative than me. Makes me look boring in comparison.
/r/seduction02/08/13 05:45 PM
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Your an introvert. I am the same way. That paired with social anxiety really makes socializing and meeting girls a challenge for me. Its normal. Don't worry about it. Some girls find it mysterious. There are a lot of people who would rather spend time alone than with other people.
/r/seduction02/08/13 12:51 PM
1

Live here. I can confirm that unless your looking for the desperate girls, your going to have a bad time.
/r/seduction25/07/13 02:17 PM
1

Pretty much this.
/r/seduction25/07/13 02:16 PM
1

Maybe. It seems as though a change in style made a huge difference. Usually I go clubbing in dark denim, nice dress shoes and a button up shirt... Get nothing. This time I went in full black with a jacket (usually bad due to black lights) and got stopped at the door by a fat girl. Bad or not I'd say it's an improvement overall. I think when I'm done with weight loss, get some more clubbing attire, my odds are going to change.
/r/seduction16/07/13 11:42 PM
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Same works for fat chicks. I walked into a club last weekend and one jumped me at the door. I didn't even give her eye contact she just grabbed me. Its just my luck that the first girl to show interest in me since I lost weight is severely overweight :'(
/r/seduction16/07/13 06:29 PM
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Height dont mean shit. Im 6'4 average build. Absolutely useless with the girls. Throughout my life ive been fat as fuck, so as you can imagine that lead to alot of rejection by girls during high school and through most of university. I finally had enough of it and lost most of the weight. The mental effects of rejection still weigh pretty heavy on me ive been spending a lot of time practicing and getting better with girls (im still a tool but its getting better). On the other hand: I have a frie…
/r/seduction27/06/13 10:09 PM
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From my experiences at the gym, theres only two types of girls who seem to be interested in more than just working out. the ones who are not at all serious about it and use their lack of fitness knowledge as an excuse to get guys to help them and the ones who are basically olympic athletes. They avoid every guy in the gym who isn't also an olympic athlete, but will flirt up a storm with ones who are. the "normal" girls that most guys would go for tend to be in it just for themselves and if you a…
/r/seduction14/06/13 04:55 PM
2

You know... That might just work.... At getting me arrested
/r/seduction05/06/13 12:36 AM
3

I must be pretty ugly then, because i manage to make girls laugh at my jokes all the time, but the second I show interest they run the other direction.
/r/seduction04/06/13 01:11 AM
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