Xennial3999 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	Women who got fit/in shape, how did your physical standards for a partner change? Chad?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/25 03:40 AM
3	Men are not attracted to young women because they are "naive and easy to manipulate" but mainly because they are thinner and have nicer skin. If you are a woman and you take care of yourself, you can post-pone "hitting the wall" and remain attractive even into your early 40s. Actually there's hot women well up to 40 and sometimes beyond. Younger women simply treat me infinitely better than women my own age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/25 09:30 PM
–	The real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is that there are more happily single women than men Imagine thinking this. There's tons of men with a solid knit friends group that still experience soul crushing loneliness. For women their friends are able to half fill the gap of not having a partner. It's not the same for guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 10:20 AM
23	Most Women Are Not Making “Husband Material” Men Work Harder for Sex You just explained it how we already understood it. It's not a compliment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/25 04:29 AM
2	Is Chad generally blue pilled? All the Chads I know personally are also the biggest misogynists I know. That's why I always laugh when women claim they can pick up if someone's an incel irl or whatever by vibes they give off. Chads get a first hand view at how disgusting many women are, how willing they are to cheat on their BFs, etc. I've heard some shocking tales.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/24 11:10 AM
3	CMV Dating only becomes easier for men in their 30s because women at that age become more desperate. In my experience dating in your 30s is more difficult. The women are not desperate, quite the opposite. They have higher standards. Rarey do I get a date with someone in their 30s, but 20s is quite regular.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/24 02:14 AM
4	Men are being wrongly accused of “blaming women” instead of simply “improving,”when the reality is they are rightly sick of having to work for less than they are worth A little disingenuous. Women did/do these things to get the best possible man from all of their opportunities. Men need to do all this just for a single opportunity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/24 01:55 PM
14	Complaining about women’s standards while being afraid of being settled for is crazy You just discovered the biggest order with all this discourse. Men's egos won't allow them to be seen as having no value. They want someone to want them, but most men are unwanted by most women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/23 05:42 AM
0	Does lovebombing even work when women do not like being put on a pedestal? How tall were they	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/23 12:43 PM
–	Today’s female dating strategy will lead to a demographic collapse of liberal progressives and a future where women are treated as second class citizens. I think about this often. If women had the same rights, choice, etc thousands of years ago that we have today. We most likely would barely exist as a species. Subjugation of women is almost a requirement for humanity to grow and survive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/23 03:20 AM
1	What’s the reason women as a group in general seem much more angry about guys playing video games than guys being drug addicts, alcoholics and criminals? Criminals make women wet. Video games do not. Congratulations you've figured out women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 02:00 PM
3	CMV: Men as a whole do not "gatekeep relationships", and it's not difficult for women to find men willing to have a relationship 95% of dating/gender dynamics would be resolved if everyone accepted that women's definition for men is like 5-15% or men as a population. Women in large only want to be in relationships with men that don't want them. Hence they're the gatekeepers to relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 01:56 PM
8	Bullying women to lower their standards Women are not single like men are single. Women at all ages are flush with attention and opportunities from other men. They also generally have good friends groups. Single man is an empty void that you can't fill.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/23 12:22 PM
2	"Does The Wall Exist?" Yes Lady, dating options change over time. Wall only exists in that women MIGHT have to drop down their chance to bag Chad/Brad for an average to above average guy. Even then it depends. Average woman's post wall life is full of possibilities that only a few men could dream of. Anything else is redpill ego cope.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/23 09:33 PM
9	I don't blame Deadbeat fathers as much as women, because women control almost 100% of the sexual market and still choose those men American society literally setup to benefit low inhib abusive men and impulsive women with bad judgement. Cucked by uncle sam	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/23 09:23 PM
5	CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below…. Literally like 85% of marriages since the dawn of time until tinder and women started making good income has been a woman settling for a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/23 09:21 PM
1	Forget sex or relationships, how tf does a man even become friends with a woman? What city are you in. I have similar hobbies and there's barely any women involved. Did Thai for years. Recently got into cycling. Any women that are there are not single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 03:26 PM
2	Forget sex or relationships, how tf does a man even become friends with a woman? Just say you're young without saying it. Women liking video games and anime at a mass scale is a newer Gen Z phenomenon. Maaaybe young millennial.. That aside I'm talking typical hobbies. Go to s few yoga classes and tell me it's split even. Go to martial arts class and tell me it's split even. Women barely even have hobbies now that I think about it. Most hobbies are male dominated , most meet ups are sausage fests. Women's hobbies are watching true crime on Netflix and yoga	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 02:16 PM
6	Why don’t men just do what women do? One, women are born with male attention. It's like oxygen for them. It's just there, you don't have to think about it. Two, yes men's lives mostly revolve around women. It's been like that since the beginning of time. Men will risk it all for the promise of women and treasure. Can go back any part of time anywhere in the world and find men are born and exist with one desire / goal . That's just how it is. We can't turn it off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 02:39 AM
10	Forget sex or relationships, how tf does a man even become friends with a woman? He's not wrong, stop acting dense. Men and women typically have different hobbies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 02:25 AM
32	Are most women not sexually attracted to their partners? No they're not and unfortunately most men don't even realize it. That's probably 80% of marriages since the beginning of time. That's why marriage rate is sharply down and will continue. Women make their own money, healthy social networks, and can fuck good looking men whenever. No reason for them to lock down with someone they only love as a friend or brother.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 02:12 AM
1	Is it worth it for average guys to get good at bedroom maxxing? All women care about it is sex, so yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 01:56 PM
5	How often do you see relationships where the man is significantly more attractive than the woman? I started paying attention to couples last few months. I'd say for every looksmatch there's 4 where the guy is clearly better looking One of those four the guy will be so far out of the girls league that you'll be in total disbelief	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/23 11:13 AM
-1	Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive? Women do this to themselves. You interact with enough girls and treat them like humans you soon realize most of them prefer to be treated like dogs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/23 11:09 AM
7	Just observe couples offline for a while and you’ll realise the bar isn’t as high as you probably think it is I started doing this a few months ago and noticed the guy almost always out of the girls league. Lot of couples I didn't even realize were couples at first because they look so far apart. There are some looksmatched out there, but I'd say for every looksmatch there's 3 or 4 where the girl is batting way higher than she should be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/23 11:07 AM
9	A lot of women, especially those on the younger side, crave excitement and adventure, not stability This. Modern dating is basically unspoken stealth cuckold situations	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/23 11:10 AM
1	A lot of women, especially those on the younger side, crave excitement and adventure, not stability Same with women on the older side as well, single moms even. Women are dopamine fiends and want you to be their IV drip of it or else you hold no value fo them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/23 11:06 AM
–	Could u in the 80s as a Man basically "just exist" and you were basically guaranteed that u will end up with a Wife + Family? Was it that easy? Absolutely not. This would turn women off like crazy on dating apps. Women now days would view that a desperation. Not even beta bux works anymore	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/23 02:27 PM
–	Could u in the 80s as a Man basically "just exist" and you were basically guaranteed that u will end up with a Wife + Family? Was it that easy? Growing up in the 80s and 90s it was pretty much guaranteed if you made 50k a year you would have a QT sweet girl that would love you. I got into a long term relationship pre tinder days and eventually separated about 4 or 5 years ago from her. I wasn't happy with things and thought I had a lot going for me. I thought I was decent to good looking, fit body, funny, loving, caring and made around 65k at the time in the Midwest. I thought I was a catch and it would be easy to find some QT that woul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/23 02:11 PM
6	The flaw with a nice guy argument is that it assumes nice guys are not genuine I'm not a doormat and I do things for women with no expectation, it's never once been anything but a negative for me. Either give women tingles through your looks or toxic behavior or don't even bother. Women do NOT care or want good men	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/23 12:02 PM
1	Before you can get a partner, you need good friends. Luckily I don't get euphoric flushes of romantic interest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 10:31 AM
1	Before you can get a partner, you need good friends. It's not someone as in anyone, but if I'm really into someone and they break it off my life is a mess. Horrible anxiety, panic attacks brain all over the place, deep emotional pain. Time the only cure, but the older I get the less resilient I am to it because and feels like I've given it my all and what's the point of continuing	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 04:20 AM
1	Before you can get a partner, you need good friends. Lot of armchair psychologists on here tonight. It's beyond sadness obviously. I'm just using sad as a short hand. Maybe being in a relationship doesn't help you out, but for me someone that I like, liking me back completely 180s my outlook and energy in life. I like how you're trying to negate my feelings and experiences because it doesn't like up with what you think you know about mental health.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 04:14 AM
1	Before you can get a partner, you need good friends. Because I'm emotionally mature and can keep my emotions in line. No one in my personal or work life would ever know I'm sad unless I intentionally let them in on it. Have you never heard of people that kill themselves and non of the family members or others had a clue that it was coming? Plus like I said I wouldn't be sad because I'd have a partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 04:08 AM
1	Before you can get a partner, you need good friends. No, I was just letting you know that you might want to get it checked out. Learn something about yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 04:01 AM
1	Before you can get a partner, you need good friends. Do you have any justification for that. Or just what reddit psychology daily digest told you ? My life is perfectly good in every other aspect aside from being apparently unlovable to the opposite sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 03:59 AM
1	Before you can get a partner, you need good friends. Wut? How are friends comparable to affection, desire, and love from a person you like and are attracted to. They're not even in the same realm. My friends are great, they def help me get through life, but much like how women can feel lonely and sad with a million men that want them, it's the same for me. Only I'm less picky. I just want someone I vibe with to to like me back and want to be with me. What's hard to understand about that ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 03:53 AM
1	Before you can get a partner, you need good friends. You might have autism	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 03:49 AM
1	Before you can get a partner, you need good friends. Where in the world did you get that they would be managing my emotions? If an ice cream sundae makes you happy is the ice cream managing your emotions?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 03:41 AM
1	Before you can get a partner, you need good friends. Because when a woman I like is interested in me I become happy. When they stop I become sad. Ez	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 03:36 AM
1	Before you can get a partner, you need good friends. Supportive as friends should be. They'll vent at times too. That's what being friends is for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 03:36 AM
1	Before you can get a partner, you need good friends. Too much TikTok psychology for you. You can't fathom the concept of not having anything but child like control over your emotions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 03:35 AM
1	Before you can get a partner, you need good friends. What are you talking about? Where in my post did I say I would put it on the other person?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 03:32 AM
3	Before you can get a partner, you need good friends. One person absolutely can fix your loneliness. Your post is just a spin of the bullshit narrative that you should be happy alone before you get in a relationship. I have close friends that I vent to about my worst problems and I'm still desperately suicidally lonely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 01:15 PM
1	It’s obscene that in 2023 there’s still a pervasive stigma that people who are single king term must be lacking in social skills or something major I've heard by several women in my life how "easy I am to talk to", how funny I am, etc. I'm not a wet noodle, I will challenge and push back in the conversation if I need to. Occasionally flirty, but not nearly as sexually aggressive verbally as a lot of guys. That all said. I'm almost never a girls choice and if I am for a moment it doesn't last. There's always someone else that comes along that they rather be with and im left with nothing. This is of course after spending countless hours throu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 10:04 AM
3	You might as well go for the most attractive women possible. What year was this grandpa? 1956?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 12:18 PM
1	Asking that women be with men they are not attracted to has never, is never, and will never be a remotely plausible solution to anything. The issue is this is how 80% of marriages happened from the dawn of time until probably sometimes in the 90s with a large acceleration in recent times. Women are not attracted to most men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 12:08 PM
2	Is gold-digging on the rise? COVID did something to break women's brains. I don't know if gold digging in general is higher, women have always been fond of guys that take care of them. Now it seems however they're all after the luxury lifestyle. Not that long ago if I bought girls gifts or helped them out of situations they were extremely appreciative. Now days they'll just absorb my finances and I might get a thank you. I make 160k a year in the Midwest. I don't even give off provider energy to chicks anymore because I don…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 12:05 PM
9	Women...ALL WOMEN...hate men who act like pussies Na, he's right. I have a strong personality, not a doormat, but there's always a direct correlation between how communicative I am about my feelings and how dry the girls panties get.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/23 10:59 AM
–	Why are so many women so casually accepting of the fact they’re attracted to toxic men? In my experience. Sex is all women care about. They base everything around it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/23 11:21 AM
–	Why are so many women so casually accepting of the fact they’re attracted to toxic men? Women are dopamine addicts and want/need a constant stream of it to be happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/23 11:15 AM
6	You cannot build confidence because it is a self regulatory psychological mechanism. There's only so many men that can be good at those things. Just brings us right back to 80/20. Majority of people are unremarkable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/23 11:53 AM
2	Patriarchy 2.0 Is Coming You've not heard anyone else talk about it. Everyone treats China like a giant super power to be afraid or. He's the only one saying otherwise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/23 11:52 AM
10	CMV: It makes sense that men (particularly ones who had a glow up) don't treat women with much respect. My most Chad friends hate women the most of anyone I know because they get to see women's true nature.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/23 11:21 AM
-1	The average woman is completely delusional about men's income and what they "qualify" for. This wasnt absurd until about a decade ago. Growing up in the 90s it was basically automatic if you had a 50k a year job you could pull a QT without trying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/23 08:45 PM
2	CMV: Men's stubborn belief that "all women are the same" is holding them back from finding success. Doesn't matter how many times I get involved with a girl that makes me think to myself "finally, this one is different", they inevitably prove they're all the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/23 02:16 AM
2	Question for the 35+ crowd 36, male, single. Majority of the discussions are too black and white. Young redpillers need to know that a man's prime is not 40. I make 150k in the Midwest and I've never been so lonely in my life. I feel bad for the younger average men. I at least got to experience a time when It was possible to get laid without being exceptional or have some angle like being a drug dealer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 02:56 AM