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So true. I hate sifting if it isn't for gold or diamonds. After getting out of a 10yr relationship with a true NPD psycho, you really know what to look for. I find it funny when these women look at you funny when you're not entertained with their BS stories or problems. I ghosted one only for her to text me like mad asking why I was ghosting her.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/20 09:56 PM
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After turning RP, I've noticed that the dating market has turned to crap due to the catch and release program that we are taught. When you catch one, if she's fucked up, release her! So when all of the good ones are gone, we are left with the ones that are all screwed up. I'm having this exact problem right now while trying to date. All of the women I see are fucked up with various issues. Some are hiding their NPD really well. Hell, one chick had NPD so bad that I went to the bathroom while she…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/20 02:18 PM
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You better believe I did.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/20 04:34 PM
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Can confirm this from experience. The first time we went to therapy the Therapist was totally on my side. She didn't like how my ex was reacting and basically gave her a shot of reality. You wouldn't believe the fight this caused afterwards. The second one, years later took her side and it was obvious that this guy had no morals. I found out later that his whole goal was to sleep with my ex. After one session this guy flat out told me that I fit all of the checkpoints of a domestic abuser. It wa…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/20 03:45 PM
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As I've lived through this and try to bring awareness to it, abuse is not only physical. There is mental abuse, verbal abuse, etc. Each one does its own kind of damage. The biggest kicker is learning the signs of these things and either not allowing them or walking away. One thing I have noticed is that you will see this kind of abuse when the sex is the best. They make it really hard to walk away from because of that.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/20 01:44 PM
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I'm afraid to hear what my ex had to say about me. We were in therapy, right before I left, and she called me a financial Nazi. Even the therapist looked at her with the WTF expression. "He controls the finances..." She was asked if she wanted to and she said "HELL NO!" The funny thing about narcissists, is that they will say they are the ones abused but will actually be the one abusing. My ex was crazy like that. Always hitting me and thinking she could get away with things. Being blue pilled S…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/20 01:41 PM
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One thing a friend and I constantly joke about, because we both have been there, is that with psycho women the 1hr of awesome sex isn't worth the 23hrs of shit they bring. I was with mine for almost 10 years and my friend with his for almost 7. They both ended the same way as the women were bat shit crazy. It was a rough 10 years for me!!
/r/TheRedPill05/09/20 05:27 AM
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I do not regularly visit here anymore because I don't vibe well with most of the posts here. Too negative. Exactly my thoughts. I skim the topics and sometimes find a hidden gem.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/20 12:41 PM
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As much as it sucks to hear, you are going to need to secure funding. Either pick up 2 or 3 jobs, get someone to lend you the money, or try to take a personal loan out. There is no way around this issue unless you hit up every single lawyer in your area and see if they will either do payment arrangments or work pro bono. Yes, the situation sucks and you need to defend yourself but you just cannot do it without money. Try the GoFundMe page, even if you think they will take it down. You never know…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 03:27 PM
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As a man you are alone when you are single. Same when you have a girlfriend. In fact, you can die in bed an old man surrounded by a picture perfect family and you are still very much alone This. Couldn't have said it better. To me, this is the main point of TRP. We are alone even when we have a picture perfect family. Everything we do should revolve around this fact and things should be done for ourselves not for someone else. We should be working out because we want to build muscle, not because…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/20 12:17 PM
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That's the beauty of TRP. We learn that it doesn't matter what anyone says, no fucks given. I'm going to do what I want to do and if you don't like it, well that's your problem. You really got to love the internet. Anyone can say whatever they want because there are no repercussions. I bet these same people wouldn't have the balls to say these things to our faces if given the chance.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 06:32 PM
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It took me becoming red pill to realize the "my girlfriend is my best friend" idea is utterly blue. Just like the scale to measure a man and the scale to measure a woman are not the same, the scale for a best friend and a girlfriend are not either. While I wasn't all red pill when I started dating the one concept that I figured out on my own is that my partner/lover/wife/ex-wife cannot be a friend. I don't date friends and I do not keep in touch with ex's after a relationship is over. I've never…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 06:24 PM
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Yes, you're new to this and the first thing I am going to suggest is read the sidebar. When you're done with that look to amazon and find some books about red pill dating. Worse comes to worse, get on YouTube and look up some of the well known red pill content providers. Next I would tell you to STOP dating! Don't go out with another single girl as the mindset you have, which is evident in your post, needs to change. Never entertain a date with any of these women. The goal of TRP is to show you …
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 04:30 PM
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Yea, I don't care if I am roasted or not just saying I expect it since so many guys are for "the game". First I say this. The sidebar is your best friend if you're behind on things or new to TRP. Secondly what I mean by how things linked up and women showed up, well that is simple. I quit worrying about the prize being the women and flipped my thinking. Once I realized that I am the prize and women should be fighting over me I gave up things like going to bars and clubs to pick up chicks. I did …
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 08:43 PM
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I know I am going to get roasted for saying this but I find cold approaching to be a waste of time. If you're chasing tail then you really haven't grasped fully what TRP means. I've found that when I stopped chasing tail and focused on myself, things just lined up naturally. Start working out, chasing money and achievements and the women will somehow manage to "show up". ​ Just my two cents and what has worked for me not work for everyone.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 08:25 PM
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I didnt even read half that crap. Same. I feel I got the main point in the first few paragraphs. I felt this way as well because I was uneducated and not confident. Once I fixed both of those problems, the stress went with them. Didn't read even half of it but I am sure someone else will need to read it.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 12:17 PM
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I'm not sure how you're basing your decision on Wing Chun. It does work in real-world situations. It might not be feasible in MMA but it has saved my ass on multiple occasions while on the streets. So before you say it doesn't work, please offer an explanation as to why you believe this.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 12:39 AM
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eing the beauty and stren I'm a big fan of wing chun. Been studying it for a while and the quick fast hand/arm movements really mess with people because they don't know which side it is coming from even though it comes from the middle. HAHA
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 12:02 AM
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I agree with this and will add that I respect men who don't fold and become bitches. Are you willing to stand up for what you believe? I respect that.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 03:40 PM
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One day, your girl can just decide you suck and look to any human error you make as an egregious one. I now look at this like, one day I will wake up and decide my girl isn't cutting it and have to let her go. It really does go both ways. Plan for the future with your girl but always keep it in the back of your mind that it will most likely not last forever. Enjoy the time while you're there and then move on.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/20 01:57 PM
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This is not all women This... Not all women are like this. I will say this to the topic for guys who want to think about opening up. I told my now current GF about the physical abuse, domestic violence, from my ex-wife in my past relationship to help her understand why I make certain decisions, however, I did not approach the situation in a manner of "woe is me" or anything like that. I expressed it to her in a fact of manner that I am not putting up with that type of BS. I guess it really just …
/r/TheRedPill15/06/20 05:54 PM
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A quick google search brings up a very good report on NPD. https://www.helpguide.org/articles/mental-disorders/narcissistic-personality-disorder.htm I will say this, speaking from experience. My ex-wife had NPD to the max and I didn't notice it until a good year into the relationship. I will say, looking back, the signs were there but I refused to see them. Trust your gut.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/20 08:25 PM
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A lot of this stuff can be found out during the dating phase within the first few dates. The problem that most guys have is that they are blinded by beauty and the thought that they might get some after the date. Instead of being in that mindset guys should be looking at the tell signs while on a date. Are they rude to the wait staff? Do they only talk about themselves in a very NPD way? Stuff like that. If you do not see any signs by the second date then it is a go, otherwise run like hell if y…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/20 07:41 PM
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No matter how hard they goad you into the importance of “commitment, relationship, and communication,” they are really just attempting to open you up emotionally so they can better understand you in order to manipulate you for their own benefit. Opening up to a woman about feelings, past hurts, childhood trauma, baggage etc will also destroy your mystery and make her more familiar (bored) with you. So I disagree with this portion for a few reasons. While women do try to manipulate us guys, sayin…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/20 05:31 PM
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I don't even know where to begin on this one. I just got out of a 10-year relationship, 7-year marriage with someone like this and this is spot on. At first, you knew nothing. Everything seemed fine but then it blew up. There were tells and signs at the beginning but I was too stupid to see it. Without going into a long story it was a horrible relationship and NPD really showed near the middle and the end. It wasn't until I went TRP before I saw this and said enough. Women..They aren't the prize…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/20 12:23 PM
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+1 to that. Where there is a will, there is a way. You do not see many blue pilled guys doing anything to help themselves because they are dependent on the system. While people gave me shit for buying the X3 Bar, I've been using it at home with my crossrope and my fitness has not suffered to covid. Moral of the main story...You want something, do it yourself.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/20 03:03 AM
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Exactly! Thanks for pointing this out.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/20 08:43 PM
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I feel like dropping all your blue pill friends is a bit overboard. They can be used for a multitude of things like further opportunities for networking, financial support may be possible, could be helpful for social proof, and maybe some more I couldn't think about. You're welcome to do what you want but my answer is still no. You are the sum of the 5 people you hang around the most, is what they say. I don't know about you but the idea of turning red pill is so you can better yourself and it d…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/20 08:00 PM
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I totally understand this and being saved from my blue pill ways I can see where a lot of this hits home. First change I made when I went red. Drop every single blue pilled friend. They serve no purpose in the red journey. Friends are there to help and if they do not have the same mentality then they are of no help at all. This doesn't just apply to advice about women. Not going to take advice from a blue pilled person on anything, financial or job wise. Screw that. Give me the red pill thinking…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/20 01:51 PM
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​ A few nights ago, I was at a party. I won't get into too much detail (since I have a habit of droning on). What matters is, a woman was there that two of us were interested in. The other guy is objectively just a good-looking dude, and was really putting his all into pursuing her. She picked me. So you kind of leave this open and I am curious. What type of game was that dude putting on her and what were you doing to her? If the other guy was really good looking but showing "bitch" tendencies t…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 07:09 PM
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This is my thoughts exactly. I will not take the blame for something I have no control over. I simply will not care, however, I will take blame for a choice I made. I think the real idea here is choices. Own them, control them, drive them. (Smiles and cries)
/r/TheRedPill01/04/20 01:45 PM
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Someone that adds a little "fire" to the heart. This is my point exactly. That fire comes from the passion. When red pill knowledge is done right, this is what you get from the woman that chase men. You will not get this from women who are being chased by men.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/20 02:35 PM
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Is it bad that if there's no emotional connection, or not in "sync", I can't get as turned on or hard? I believe this happens in two different situations in our life. When you get older When you get red pill aware/smarter When you finally obtain the knowledge, and I mean truly obtain the knowledge, you tend to realize that the only type of women you're looking for are the ones that have some kind of emotional connection to you. Not just the hot looking woman who wants to have sex now. The second…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/20 02:04 PM
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HA. My ex-wife's favorite saying was this. "You're a guy, you're always wrong." She would constantly say everything was my fault regardless of who was really at fault. Gotta love those people.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/20 03:10 PM
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It's funny you say this. I noticed this over the course of grade school and how quickly those kids were eaten up by the older kids. I noticed this all the way through high school and well past college. Freaking nuts. I don't like to share my problems with anyone even though I do have a few close friends. I've come to use a tactic that does work and helps me solve my problem without stating I have a problem. Essentially, I will ask my close friend about finding a solution to a problem but will as…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/20 08:05 PM
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When I first started looking for reasoning and understanding, I couldn't figure out why things were the way they were. Then I found TRP and that shit changed my life. When you find a good post, it is a perfect reminder that in the end, the only thing that matters is you and your life. Everyone else is just an NPC. Now when I read these posts, I get a sense of motivation. Another shot in me to keep me moving toward my own goals and living the best life I want. I can remember the moment it all cha…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/20 07:29 PM
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That's why you should mind your own business next time you see a damsel in distress coming in your life. You aint her goddamn therapist, nor are you her father to be there for her. In retrospect, when we man are down - nobody gives a flying fuck about us - man or woman. ​ This right here! I am guilty of this. Why I am not the BP average Joe, I am still guilty of trying to help people. I cannot help it, it is in my nature. What I find is that when I tried to help them and listen, they would someh…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/20 01:10 PM
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I believe on some level that this is true but it only scratches the surface of only a few types of kids. In my case I was a very blue pilled beta because I didn't have a male role model in my life and was raised by two women who didn't know how to raise a boy. While I didn't have many insecurities, I was raised with the woman mentality and carried that through 2 marriages which failed horribly due to lack of male knowledge. Picked up the red pill knowledge and now I see where things went wrong a…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/20 08:34 PM
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I've never used my position as a yoga instructor to get laid from a student in my class, or even try to get laid. Teaching is one of my missions so I don't want to queer that up for myself, plus I could possibly lose my teaching gig and get a reputation in the small city where I teach, thereby killing my mission, because as I note below, a *lot* of people know me. This is exactly my point of view too. Hard fast rule that every guy should adopt. Never dip your pin the company ink. No bitch, good …
/r/TheRedPill16/03/20 08:29 PM
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