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Don't act like you "found" this channel when your last three posts are advertising it as your own. If you're going to shamelessly advertise your content at least don't try and trick us about it being yours.
/r/seduction09/07/17 03:39 PM
9

It's not about defending your business, it's your attitude and how you said it. You came off as an incredibly immature kid.
/r/seduction24/06/17 03:35 AM
13

This comment exemplifies why I'll never trust any of the low-budget blogs posted here. They're run by immature, insecure sedditors parroting shitty advice from every other shitty blog out there. You think it's good advice because you get a lot of readers but it's because 90% of sedditors are drawn to the overly-macho facade you bloggers like to put on. If you overreact with such gusto in a comment thread then I have no doubt you are a tiny man.
/r/seduction24/06/17 02:15 AM
8

You are so pathetic lmao
/r/seduction12/06/17 08:20 AM
12

You are so immature. Grow up, kid.
/r/seduction12/06/17 08:09 AM
10

Hahahaha holy shit, what the fuck. Are you twelve?
/r/seduction12/06/17 07:53 AM
23

Exactly the kinda limp response I'd expect from someone who came up with such nonsense advice.
/r/seduction12/06/17 07:29 AM
8

This is so dumb lmao. Bet seddit's gonna eat this up.
/r/seduction12/06/17 07:24 AM
2

Mate, I'm not trying to criticise your approach to tinder, I'm criticising your suggestion to dumb yourself down across the internet (is that what you're doing right now or is it unintentional?) You shouldn't try and change large aspects of your personality just for higher chance of a chick on tinder being into you.
/r/seduction25/05/17 10:30 PM
3

Not trying to pick a fight, trying to warn other people here about your shoddy advice.
/r/seduction25/05/17 09:55 PM
3

Your personality is shining through clear as daylight 'cause you sound like a real tard. Hope nobody is taking your advice seriously.
/r/seduction25/05/17 08:23 PM
3

So you're saying he should dumb down every aspect of his real life just to get laid on tinder? Stop spewing your bullshit.
/r/seduction25/05/17 07:58 PM
5

No, this is reddit. He didn't use that word on tinder. You're overthinking this.
/r/seduction25/05/17 07:57 AM
12

Are you seriously recommending that he dumbs down his vocabulary so that densegirls will like him more? Why are people upvoting you?
/r/seduction25/05/17 07:47 AM
34

For real though, who is upvoting this? It's bad advice. If you actually want to appear confident and charismatic, go pick up a copy of how to win friends and influence people.
/r/seduction17/05/17 09:06 PM
2

This is so bad... he comes off as a complete awkward weirdo who relies on scripts and lines. There's a reason one of the girls literally runs away as soon as he starts talking. The worst part is his "it's cause I'm white" shtick. Ugh, can't handle it.
/r/seduction20/04/17 01:39 PM
1

Woah, good job on over thinking this. Why not talk to them if you want to or don't talk to them if you don't want to?
/r/seduction01/04/17 05:30 AM
1

Bad advice.
/r/seduction01/04/17 05:16 AM
4

Dude get the FUCK off seduction forums; you're over thinking the shit out of this. Go out into the real world and actually talk with people and stop trying to "run game". You think the dudes who regularly slay are thinking about negs, frame, push-pull or any of that "PUA" bullshit? No. They have confidence from experience. Tldr you're trying too hard and that's why you fail.
/r/seduction01/04/17 05:13 AM
5

Nope, no way to fix it, sorry bud. Your two options are to keep trying and look like a huge creeper or move on. I suggest you move on.
/r/seduction01/04/17 05:05 AM
2

Brush, floss, mouthwash twice a day. Drink heaps of water, don't eat sugary foods and no sugary drinks. If you're a mouth breather that'll be the biggest cause of your bad breath (dry saliva smells like shit) so don't mouth breath, it's bad for dental hygiene anyway. If you're not a mouth breather then focus on those first things.
/r/seduction01/04/17 05:02 AM
1

Yup. Had a chick I've been talking to message me on Facebook the other day saying I'm really hot and cool but I seem like the kinda guy who'd tap and gap. I say move on. Plenty of fish and all that.
/r/seduction01/04/17 05:00 AM
0

Because people use it as an excuse for their social issues. If it were just another piece of slang I wouldn't care but you have misjudged what people have turned the term into.
/r/seduction08/03/17 06:50 PM
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You're still missing my point in the those labels don't describe anything because what they describe doesn't exist. Also you keep downvoting my comments and then playing the 'helpful pal' card 😂
/r/seduction08/03/17 11:31 AM
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What I'm really getting at is the there's not actually such thing as introverts and extroverts. It's a made-up term popularised by reddit from a ted-talk. Never been proven that it's a real thing. Your blog isn't for introverts, it's for socially awkward people to try and learn social skills. My point is why does so much of reddit hide behind calling themselves introverts instead of admitting to themselves they just need practice?
/r/seduction08/03/17 11:22 AM
-1

If it doesn't drain your energy levels then you aren't an introvert.
/r/seduction08/03/17 10:46 AM
0

Can we stop using "introvert" as a synonym for "socially awkward"? That's not what the term means. Literally the only thing the term means scientifically is that you expend energy when interacting with people. It has nothing to do with comfort levels in social situations.
/r/seduction08/03/17 09:37 AM
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Stop thinking about her, stop fantasizing about her, stop inventing romantic situations with her in your head. Fun fact: your brain has trouble distinguishing invented situations you make up in your head from actual reality. While you know they're fake, your subconscious doesn't. Your brain still thinks you've been hanging out with this girl, hence why you're still infatuated. You need to move on, I mean really move on. Stop thinking about her.
/r/seduction26/02/17 06:42 PM
23

She wasn't into you, bud.
/r/seduction12/02/17 12:18 AM
4

Get both
/r/seduction07/02/17 11:40 PM
1

She won't talk to you because you're a creeper who won't leave her alone even though you know she hates you.
/r/seduction02/01/17 12:58 AM
2

80% of people will get married at least once.
/r/seduction22/12/16 10:29 AM
3

Nope, not insane but it saves so much awkwardness when your partner tells you it's their first time. Sloshed off your bonce and taking a bird back to your perch for slays after a night at the pisser? Yeah maybe don't tell her but if it's a more intimate setting then you deffo should.
/r/seduction22/12/16 07:30 AM
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First time? You might have trouble getting it up. You will probably either cum too fast or not at all. It's going to be pretty average but can still be fun. Loosen up. Don't take it so seriously. Do not expect to be a changed man after having lost your virginity, you will not feel any different. Do: Tell her you're a virgin or make it obvious if you are. Use protection. Make some noise. Have fun. Don't: Be quiet Be shy "Accidentally" put finger in her butthole. Her first time? Don't: Be rough, j…
/r/seduction21/12/16 02:52 PM
35

Holy shit dude. Went through your history and all you do is spam you crap all over /r/seduction
/r/seduction25/11/16 04:40 AM
1

Yeeeeah, this is an advertisement. This dude spams his blog all over reddit, it's literally all he does.
/r/seduction10/11/16 12:26 AM
8

Jesus dude, yes, she was being serious when she called you creepy. Back the fuck off. Relevant username, lol.
/r/seduction11/10/16 12:19 PM
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You're a bit delusional about how this whole thing works. Yeah, tinder is pretty popular but it's not what the "vast vast" majority use to hook up. I have exactly 0 hookups through tinder (back when I used it) even though I match with most people. I don't find the interactions to be genuine. For me and everyone I know, we get laid by going to the clubs. That's still primarily how it works especially among young people. However, you are correct that social media at large has increased their "mark…
/r/seduction06/10/16 03:02 PM
1

This is bad advice and will make you look like a serial killer.
/r/seduction17/08/16 08:15 AM
1

There's no secret. It's confidence. That's literally all game is about.
/r/seduction27/07/16 04:45 AM
56

That's awesome dude, you're the coolest.
/r/seduction16/07/16 05:58 AM
2

Yeah dude that actually works very well considering the context. Maybe change "I did think you were cute" to "I enjoyed talking to you" if you want more than to fuck this girl. Show her you like her as a person and not a body. If she's cute she gets told it all the time even if she doesn't believe it. Be different. Be nice. Be a man. Chicks want dudes with feelings and personality and not "hey babe you're hot. Let's get a drink this Friday at 8:16 at <bar>."
/r/seduction11/07/16 10:41 AM
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Nah in a casual and relatively tight-knit setting of a uni campus you don't want to be that forward and cold. I actually really like his proposed line. If he wasn't that decisive in person yet he is over a message the girl is going to be a bit hesitant as that's a total change of character. Going against the grain here but it's not always a good idea to be the overly assertive alpha male. Chicks often want a normal, casual dude. Being so intense will often freak a girl out especially if she's in…
/r/seduction11/07/16 10:39 AM
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The very fact that you actually put that much thought into what to say shows me you don't have a clue what you're doing or are relatively inexperienced. When your game becomes flawless you stop thinking about the right thing to say. I primarily nightgame with good results and my "gimmick" is making out with a chick as soon as I see her. I don't know what I say, I don't know what I do. It just happens. I don't have to think about it. Same goes for inviting someone on a date. When you get better a…
/r/seduction08/07/16 08:18 PM
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Nope, practice being a robot and you will become nothing more than a professional robot. Your wording is irrelevant. If she digs you she'll accept the invite.
/r/seduction08/07/16 11:38 AM
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I'd like to help you buddy but without having been there, I (or anyone else) cannot accurately answer your question. All the same, I will do my best. I'd just like to take pause here and apologise for any spelling, grammar or formatting mistakes. I'm on mobile, tired and without the willpower to edit mistakes out. How did it feel? Did you enjoy yourself? No, did you genuinely enjoy being with her that day? Not the activity but did you feel good simply by being around her? Do you believe she felt…
/r/seduction20/06/16 10:53 AM
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The very fact that you think losing your virginity will actually change anything about your personality shows me you just aren't emotionally developed enough to be attractive to women. Every man thinks losing his virginity will be a milestone and will change him in some way. It fucking doesn't, don't give into these pussy cop-out behaviour.
/r/seduction29/05/16 09:23 PM
1

Even if I did post there, you're still admitting that you browse it. Nice try but maybe you wanna try again.
/r/seduction12/05/16 05:25 AM
1

Mate, I get that you're trying to come off as a slick womaniser but you're only managing to come off as a creep. Go back to the drawing board and rethink your approach.
/r/seduction11/05/16 07:31 PM
1

Lol are you a troll? That's rookie-league shit. I slept with six girls before even leaving high-school. Kissed two milfs? Is that a qualifier of success these days? You are pretty creepy, dude.
/r/seduction11/05/16 09:20 AM
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You've edited your comment. It's still creepy and you clearly do not understand how social situations work and have no place giving advice about these things. You should be taking advice, instead.
/r/seduction10/05/16 07:34 PM
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N just neg her N take it a little further N take it too far. Eventually climb across the desk N abuse her. N bring her chocolates. This comment is a joke, right? So much questionable advice on this sub.
/r/seduction10/05/16 11:22 AM
0

Hah, yeah. What's worse is he still has downvotes and my comment has upvotes.
/r/seduction22/04/16 10:26 AM
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I don't see why you're getting downvotes for this. The rest of the responses are copy-paste, cliche, basic bro lines. This one's genuine and has the possibility to start a real conversation.
/r/seduction22/04/16 05:04 AM
1

I'm a member of the gets laid without being a cunt squad.
/r/seduction18/04/16 11:18 AM
1

Your tears are so fucking salty I love it
/r/seduction16/04/16 03:10 AM
0

"He used an emoji, how could she not understand?". I'd react the same way if some chump like you were to say that shit to me. "but the emoji!!!"
/r/seduction15/04/16 10:16 PM
0

The difference being that this shit doesn't work over text. If someone insulted you over text of course you're gonna think they're a cunt. Look at it from her point of view, mate. Get away from that keyboard and see for yourself why it won't work.
/r/seduction15/04/16 08:59 PM
5

( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)--💍
/r/seduction15/04/16 06:52 PM
1

Confirmed to have missed point of post. You are welcome to try again.
/r/seduction15/04/16 06:50 PM
1

Let me ask you this: If you simply assume that there is nobody in this community with experience, what's the point of it all? I see this kind of self-defeating attitude all over this community.
/r/seduction15/04/16 06:44 PM
1

"ever had sex? ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)"
/r/seduction15/04/16 06:42 PM
2

I thought it was when you'd just eaten a plate of shit and were really happy about it.
/r/seduction15/04/16 06:32 PM
5

I like to pull by the spleen. Gets 'em in a right state.
/r/seduction15/04/16 06:29 PM
5

This is such shit advice. You are advocating being an insulting, rude prick and justifying it by saying "well it's her fault for not finding me charming." You then follow this up by giving some grade-A "expert sedditor" advice which would never fly in the real world. Trust me, I used to be like you and this shit doesn't. work.
/r/seduction15/04/16 06:03 PM
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Yeah except he didn't get anywhere with any of these girls as he mentions in a later video. She dodges every single one of his kiss attempts and never looks at him dead-on. She ain't really into him.
/r/seduction08/04/16 09:09 AM
26

Yep. He genuinely got friendzoned by every woman in this video.
/r/seduction08/04/16 09:06 AM
2

Hahaha dude I love it. Pickup lines are usually a bad choice but this is actually hilarious. Less flirty and more banter which is exactly what OP should be going for.
/r/seduction28/03/16 08:37 PM
1

Dunno man, feel like no matter how you phrase it, it's kinda a dick thing to say and too easy to be misconstrued. If this is a girl that OP is legitimately interested in, he's going to have to be genuine rather than a genuine-sedditor.
/r/seduction28/03/16 08:36 PM
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This is professional sedditor material, not pickup material. I have plenty of success infield and reading all this shit makes me think OP must be a robot.
/r/seduction28/03/16 09:15 AM
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I think you'll find I'm a little better at picking up on these things than your average guy.
/r/seduction13/03/16 11:28 PM
1

That's not what I was talking about, 'bro', you missed the point of my comment, bro
/r/seduction13/03/16 11:08 PM
0

How did the interaction continue after the video? Seems at the end she was super hesitant to actually go anywhere but the "pushy salesman" approach got to her.
/r/seduction13/03/16 03:10 AM
-3

Lol this guy... Smh
/r/seduction29/02/16 01:32 AM
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You're being way too negative, dude. I've got nothing to prove to you. Don't worry about what I'm doing, worry about what you're doing. Trying to shoot down someone giving you advice is only gonna make you suffer. You aren't so good that you can afford not to listen so sit your ass down, lose the ego, lose the attitude that nobody here actually games and listen. The alternative is being miserable. EDIT: and fuck no, dude. It's not about getting laid, it's about developing your confidence and hav…
/r/seduction28/02/16 07:23 PM
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That's your definition of witty and sharp? You need new role models. Getting numbers doesn't even count, anyone can get numbers. I'll go out at night and get 10 numbers in a row by walking up to someone and doing nothing other than asking for it. It's not about the numbers, it's the connections you make with these people you meet and this dude is getting about as connected as if he were to throw sausages at them.
/r/seduction28/02/16 06:33 PM
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This dude sounds like he has about 10 braincells left. You don't wanna be this guy, you wanna be the smarter, shit-more-put-together version. I wouldn't even call this a video of pickups, it's really just a video of him talking to random chicks. "The internet will think I'm cool if I put my arm around a real woman"...
/r/seduction28/02/16 10:10 AM
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This trick only works in the minds of people who've never used it as it's actually a really clumsy and ineffective technique. You know what works? Actually taking the effort to remember their name when they tell you it. EDIT: Or get their number in the first couple of minutes. Seeing something in writing often helps me remember is better and if you still forget her name you can go to the toilet and whip out your phone to check.
/r/seduction26/02/16 08:10 AM
5

Your title contradicts your post. Your mindset is the problem.
/r/seduction24/02/16 05:48 AM
1

Hey dude, thanks for the expert advice. Tipping isn't a thing over here in NZ but I always try to be nice to bouncers, try to remember their names etc. Do you guys mind when people chat to you if there's no line?
/r/seduction23/02/16 05:24 AM
1

Practice. There's really nothing you can do except to practice. There are no secret tips or tricks which will make you an expert overnight. Listen twice, talk once and practice, practice, practice. Open the sets and feel awkward as hell. Get used to that feeling because that's how you build a tolerance to it. Observe your friends and strangers as they're high i
/r/seduction21/02/16 10:21 AM
1

It's tough and I know I still struggle with this sometimes. I try to channel it into something positive. Instead of worrying about if she's gonna like me and losing sleep I instead use that passion in a way that shows her I care about her. If it doesn't work out then it was never going to because you already tried your best. You cannot let this get you down. There are so many awesome women out there and you are not going to be alone, my friend. The world is a big, beautiful place and you just ha…
/r/seduction21/02/16 09:51 AM
1

To be fair, there are some bad choices for dates (mostly first dates, though) such as going to a movie.
/r/seduction21/02/16 09:41 AM
3

OP, this is fluff advice from a professional sedditor, not someone who actually has experience gaming IRL. Be wary of his advice as his post history indicates he subscribes to the redpill school of bullshit. Honestly OP, tricks and gimmicks? Waste of time. Work on yourself, develop your hobbies and interests, grow your confidence through practice and you will have success. Doesn't matter how much theory you know if you're awkward.
/r/seduction21/02/16 03:30 AM
2

Brand new account created just to plug your video? Nah mate, fuck off with that shit.
/r/seduction21/02/16 03:23 AM
0

That means nothing to us without context or a screenshot of the conversation.
/r/seduction17/02/16 06:23 AM
1

Firstly, accept that you made a mistake. Secondly, reflect on your mistake and think about how you can avoid similar situations in the future. Thirdly, go out and do at least slightly better than you did last time and keep your spirits up. Occasionally I mess up a barre chord when playing guitar but I don't let it emotionally affect me.
/r/seduction09/12/15 07:02 PM
2

Talk to everyone everywhere you go, not specifically guys. The cashier, person next to you on the train, neighbours, say hello to people passing you on the street, high-five the street busker, interact with everyone you can. It might take one or two thousand approaches but eventually you'll be a natural conversationalist and can begin to turn those skills towards pickup.
/r/seduction25/08/15 02:53 PM
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This is perfect advice and the only advice worth following in this thread. This method is how I and many others acquired our skills. Get good at talking to people and those skills will transfer to pickup. Either that or start a career in sales.
/r/seduction25/08/15 07:25 AM
1

That's absurd.
/r/seduction25/08/15 07:22 AM
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Hey man, don't mean to harsh your vibes or anything but you're reading too far into this. You've opened a single set and yet you seem to already know the answers. This is a fatal flaw of the seddit community, new members go into robot-mode and parrot seddit's "pickup" bs. You had the balls to approach which is more than most can say for themselves. Do that again. Seduction isn't about playing mindgames to trick women into sleeping with you, it's about developing as a person to the point where wo…
/r/seduction22/08/15 06:43 AM
1

Nah man, you only get to be young once. There's always time to earn more income. I'm not saying don't save when you're young because you still should, I'm saying enjoy being young and doing the things that young people enjoy doing.
/r/seduction18/08/15 06:32 AM
1

Any experience with this? Yes. Go ahead and talk to her. Whether she has a boyfriend or not will become readily apparent. There's a 50% chance she has a boyfriend and nothing will come of it. If you don't talk to her there is a 100% chance. Even if she does have a boyfriend there's no harm in befriending her. If you befriend her there's a chance that in the future she'll see you on a night out and say hi. She may at this point be single and you can work your magic. Even if she's still in a relat…
/r/seduction17/08/15 01:47 AM
1

Yes, I mostly tend to night game because I'm busy during the daytime.
/r/seduction25/07/15 10:31 PM
1

Hahaha that's hilarious. No matter how good you are this sort of shit will always happen, throwing you off your game but that's how you learn; tackling new challenges that arrive
/r/seduction25/07/15 09:07 PM
1

My philosophy is that telling gets results, asking gets answers. You can try it yourself. Grab a blank piece of paper or random piece of junk, walk up to someone and hand it to them without saying anything and they will take it. Try it again with a different person but this time instead of handing it to them, ask them if they would like to take it. It's a subconscious thing. People will do what confident people tell them to do. Asking questions can work for beginners when lines such as "put your…
/r/seduction25/07/15 09:01 PM
1

Of course the line should only be used when you know you're going to get the number so what you are actually saying isn't sure important. However you will always get a better result by telling someone that they should do something than if you ask.
/r/seduction25/07/15 08:57 PM
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Like any technique it's not perfect and success rate gets lower the more extreme the command or request is. Play it cool, be nice and you'll get results.
/r/seduction25/07/15 06:48 AM
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Yep, always approach them in their line of sight. Definitely. Even just "hi, how's it goin'" works. People overthink this part and say "it can't be that easy". Well it is that easy, literally any string of words is a valid and perfectly reasonable opener. Sometimes all I do is talk gibberish and it works. Again, solid advice. Don't be too pushy. This step is of greater importance than every other step, method and routine in the world combined. You can have all the tricks in the world but if you …
/r/seduction25/07/15 04:40 AM
5

F.O.R.D: Family, occupation, recreation, dreams. What's her relationship with her parents and what is their relationship with each other? Does she have and siblings? Does she get along with them? What does she do for a living? Is it her passion? If not, what's her dream job? Ask her what she does for fun. What her hobbies are, her favourite restaurant, how often she goes out with her friends, her craziest drinking story etc. Does she have a dream in life? When she's laying on her death bed what …
/r/seduction18/02/15 06:59 AM
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It's at a 6 on the scale of ridiculousness.
/r/seduction07/01/15 08:12 AM
3

It helps to actually read the post before commenting, dude.
/r/seduction04/01/15 07:56 AM
1

It's not a great idea to buy all of the drinks and food. You don't owe them anything.
/r/seduction04/01/15 07:53 AM
1

Honestly, anything that expresses what type of person you are. A guitar, a bookshelf, skateboard etc. Give your bedroom some personality.
/r/seduction04/01/15 07:44 AM
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Try a new approach. Take a step back and evaluate yourself. Practicing a skill 24/7 will not get you anywhere because to learn and improve, our body requires a break.
/r/seduction19/12/14 12:08 AM
2

Conversation 101: Firstly, you need to realize that not everybody is an amazing conversationalist that can talk for hours. Not everybody will be good at smalltalk. Not everybody will be good at talking about deeper topics. You need to find out what you are or what you believe you have the potential to be. Are you a high-energy or a low-energy person? High-energy people will excel at small-talk and short sentences and generally speak in this manner to everyone. Low-energy people are typically pre…
/r/seduction07/12/14 03:25 AM
1

If you want to spend more than a night with a girl you should practice pickup at a venue that allows you to talk. Clubs aren't good for what you're trying to do because there's a purely physical connection between you and the girl, that is, you both want to fuck eachother. Bookstores, coffee shops, sunday markets, bars etc will allow you to find girls that you have a physical and emotional connection with which is vital if you want to continue to see someone.
/r/seduction07/12/14 03:15 AM
0

This is fuckin' pathetic. Do you guys only live to pick up women? How about attending an event because you're interested in it, not because of the possibility of getting your dick wet?
/r/seduction02/12/14 06:00 AM
2

The goal isn't always to escalate and fuck. What's wrong with having a normal conversation?
/r/seduction29/11/14 02:51 AM
2

This man is right. I have a friend that deactivated his facebook and stopped using his phone because he "didn't need them to maintain his social life" and nobody saw him for months until he got a phone again. It's okay to not like texting or instant messaging but in this day and age it's necessary to have at least a phone or a facebook account. How else are people supposed to get in contact with you otherwise?
/r/seduction29/11/14 02:34 AM
2

Don't be unsure about your height. You can't change it, it's a part of who you are and what makes you, you. Embrace and accept your height and you'll be a better man for it.
/r/seduction24/11/14 08:50 AM
2

Next her and move on.
/r/seduction24/11/14 08:49 AM
2

Think of it like a halfpipe. Your goal is to "bounce back" or get up to the lip of the pipe. Failure is when you run up but can't quite make it and fall back down. Good news is falling gives you the momentum you need to make it up the other side.
/r/seduction24/11/14 01:21 AM
4

Get rid of the "post might shock you!" clickbait bullshit.
/r/seduction16/11/14 04:17 AM
6

No it isn't. It's bad advice and the only reason it's getting upvoted is because it makes all the average dudes on this subreddit feel special because of one person's anecdote.
/r/seduction09/11/14 03:15 AM
15

God I hate how the majority of people on this subreddit are up themselves. Just because a girl is anxious about talking to a guy that she is attracted to and finds very hot doesn't mean that she's going to be nervous when some dude she hasn't met before approaches her.
/r/seduction09/11/14 03:13 AM
1

Walk up to the group and loudly say something. Anything. Doesn't matter because you're going to immediately change the subject. The opening line is only there to announce your arrival. I like to squeeze my way in and say "is this where the party's at?" but anything will work. Go for it.
/r/seduction25/10/14 10:49 AM
4

The good: people who look young for their age tend to live longer. The bad: you look young for your age. Hit the gym and grow a beard.
/r/seduction25/10/14 10:46 AM
1

God, I hate people that do this because it's so obvious that they're lying. Eventually, all your friends will figure out you're a compulsive liar and a boring person. Then you will have no friends. Instead of pretending to be an interesting person, why not actually make an effort to be interesting instead of boring?
/r/seduction23/10/14 08:59 AM
2

If everyone does it, that means there's a larger amount of people that you can socialize with.
/r/seduction23/10/14 08:52 AM
1

Don't make it your goal to date 7 women at once. Date however many girls you feel comfortable with. If you're only interested in dating one girl at a time then that's perfectly OK.
/r/seduction19/09/14 08:16 AM
1

The activities that you enjoy don't have to involve people at all. Many of my hobbies are things I do alone. The point is to just do what you enjoy because it's makes you a better person.
/r/seduction14/09/14 05:40 AM
1

Yeah, sometimes I've heard of them or seen them around town/parties. If I have to guess, I'd say it's because I've recently "come out of my shell" and suddenly they feel that this ex-nerd is impinging on their status as an "alpha".
/r/seduction13/09/14 07:07 AM
1

I like to ask what their schedule looks like for the next few days.
/r/seduction13/09/14 06:51 AM
2

I don't know, I don't tend to stick around to interview them.
/r/seduction13/09/14 06:46 AM
1

Unfortunately, I live in a small town.
/r/seduction13/09/14 06:32 AM
1

Just because someone doesn't want it doesn't mean they don't need it.
/r/seduction06/09/14 07:06 AM
1

Before I try and help you, answer me this: How many girls have you approached, flirted with, obtained their number and dated?
/r/seduction06/09/14 06:53 AM
2

If you think you are the most confident person in the room, chances are you're wrong. Confident people don't spend time worrying about how confident they are. They don't give it any thought at all, ever. It's a personality trait either innate or gained over time but it is most certainly not an "act" as you say it is. You shouldn't be acting confident, you should be confident.
/r/seduction06/09/14 06:48 AM
1

Not everyone is funny just as not everyone is attractive and not everyone was born as an oak tree. Play to your strengths, not your weaknesses.
/r/seduction23/08/14 02:43 AM
0

This advice is a little rapey. Are you telling me that if a chick says no but she's wet I should continue? Didn't think so. Definitely listen to what a woman says. Just because body language and actions are strong forms of communication doesn't mean that verbal communication is moot.
/r/seduction23/08/14 02:38 AM
1

I've seen you round this subreddit a few times. You are full of bad advice, aren't you?
/r/seduction23/08/14 02:35 AM
2

IF you find it hard to look someone in the eyes without feeling self conscious just focus on the point between their eyes on the eyebrow line. It works ... What's the point of trying to get better at something if you're going to avoid doing that thing? Don't pussy out, just make eye contact. You won't get any better if you're looking at someone's fucking eyebrows.
/r/seduction19/08/14 06:10 AM
2

Why does it matter? If you want to try it, use whatever your interests are, don't use OP's interests.
/r/seduction18/08/14 08:38 AM
11

No it isn't.
/r/seduction14/07/14 11:28 AM
-1

That depends on the person. For most people, losing it is no big deal.
/r/seduction14/07/14 11:28 AM
1

Text at relevant hours and be sporadic. Do not try to time your texts. So which is it, pickup master? I wonder when seddit will grow out of this "wait 5 hours to text her back 'cause she'll think you're cool" attitude. If you get a text from her and you know you received it, fucking reply. If you're doing something, sure, wait until after you've finished your immediate task but don't be a douche and wait all day. People carry their phones in their pockets everywhere nowadays. Girls will think yo…
/r/seduction27/06/14 11:42 AM
1

remember to wash the Cheeto dust off your fingers Nah, just wipe it off onto your cargo shorts or graphic tee.
/r/seduction27/06/14 09:04 AM
1

"You've known me for four years..."
/r/seduction06/05/14 09:55 AM
0

I usually send one paragraph messages Chicks don't want a lecture. Stick to one sentence max; there's no decent reason to go over. All you're doing is opening the conversation, not actually having it. usually always What the fuck does that mean? It can't be both, it's either one or the other.
/r/seduction06/05/14 09:42 AM
-1

Being an introvert doesn't mean you don't enjoy going to bars it just means it's more tiring.
/r/seduction06/05/14 09:38 AM
0

Why the fuck would anyone rent a dog?
/r/seduction16/04/14 03:55 AM
0

Your point is the reason why I'm not obsessing over sports. I never really liked watching them I think everyone should play at least one sport. Watching them is so much different to playing them. I cannot stand watching any sport but they're still fun to play. People who don't like sports either haven't played any or were too intimidated to actively participate the times they have played. As you get fit and gain more skill, sports will become even more enjoyable. I'm not going to change who I am…
/r/seduction09/04/14 09:35 AM
23

Ugh, I doubt I'll ever use planned jokes again. I'm often told that I'm hilarious and witty but planned jokes always bomb. I feel a need to force it into the conversation which means planned jokes never really fit. It's much better to live in the moment than plan every joke.
/r/seduction09/04/14 09:26 AM
0

Why can't you get into clubs? Are you sure people don't throw many parties?
/r/seduction30/03/14 09:50 AM
2

It will give a "glimt" in your eyes because the light reflections changes or something Looking somewhere different won't create a "glint" in your eye because there's no displacement. The eye itself isn't changing position which would be required to create any sort of glint. Now, tell me: have you ever noticed anyone's eye glint? The answer you're looking for is "no."
/r/seduction20/03/14 07:08 AM
1

People on seddit like to think it does. People here are obsessed with tricks that supposedly work and don't require any actual courage to pull off. Truth is, the girl doesn't even notice.
/r/seduction20/03/14 07:05 AM
1

How on earth do you find hobbies? Well... what are you interested in? What hobbies did you have in highschool? What classes did you take? Chances are you're still interested in them today. I am starting crossfit next week Please, for the love of God, avoid crossfit. I'd give you a list of reasons but the biggest reason is to become a "certified" crossfit instructor, all you need is a spare $1000 and a weekend to attend a seminar. Join a real gym and you'll see real results. I want to make electr…
/r/seduction20/03/14 04:38 AM
2

It has 7 points and 6 comments. Obviously the community thinks it belongs here.
/r/seduction18/03/14 06:52 PM
2

Don't follow too closely or they'll get spooked
/r/seduction18/03/14 10:24 AM
1

playgrounds or kindergartens are good.
/r/seduction05/03/14 05:15 AM
4

How are we supposed to know if you're a douchebag based off of one sentence? Protip: If you think you're a douchebag, you could quite possibly be a douchebag.
/r/seduction04/03/14 07:48 AM
1

Dancing is so undervalued here Are you kidding me? I challenge you to find a nightclub thread that isn't full of comments about how dancing is important.
/r/seduction02/03/14 04:42 AM
1

House parties are the way to go for same-night lays and meeting new friends. Almost guaranteed you'll have something in common with everyone.
/r/seduction24/02/14 08:49 AM
2

Yup. This article belongs over on /r/theredpill.
/r/seduction05/01/14 01:35 PM
8

Geocaching (I'd also recommend geocaching as a hobby. It'll show you some great locations around your town or city that you probably never even knew existed. You can then take future dates to these places. Arcade. Arcades are still a lot of fun regardless of your age. Walk in the park. Good for a cheap first date but is best coupled with something like grabbing coffee. Museum. Museums are really cool places and super fun to explore. Most museums also have a cafe where you can get some lunch, too…
/r/seduction03/01/14 12:12 PM
22

You actually made it worse.
/r/seduction23/12/13 09:52 AM
3

If you're good at what you're doing you won't get as nervous because you know there's a low chance of failure. If you aren't good at what you're doing you have to suck it up, fight the nervousness and do it anyway or you'll never be good at it.
/r/seduction13/12/13 08:52 AM
9

Don't go out with the intention of getting numbers and practicing pick-up. Go out with the intention of having a great time. Pick-up should be the by-product of a good night, not the other way around.
/r/seduction13/12/13 08:49 AM
14

but try expanding your chest outward as much as possible as if you are trying to take a huge breath of air Minor correction: you should be aiming to expand your stomach outward as much as possible. Breathe into your stomach, not your chest. Breathing into your stomach will allow you to take in more air.
/r/seduction17/11/13 10:05 AM
14

Everyone's on molly anyway.
/r/seduction04/11/13 09:19 AM
1

Of course it sounds odd when you phrase the opener in that way. It isn't odd, though. Is approaching a group of girls odd, too?
/r/seduction26/10/13 04:43 AM
1

Get in there and approach the first group you see, male or female. Tell them you can't find your friends and ask if you can hang with them for a bit. If they ask if you know anyone say yes, you know some people, you're a friend of the host. If they ask you who you're with say you came alone.
/r/seduction26/10/13 04:28 AM
1

Alcohol doesn't give you confidence. I've been to parties where I've been ultra-confident and talking to everybody, getting numbers etc and I've been to parties where I've been introverted and quiet. All alcohol does is removes your inhibition. You're still going to have as much difficulty approaching when drunk as opposed to when you're sober. The difference is that when you're drunk, you don't feel as anxious about it when you've approached.
/r/seduction23/10/13 08:10 AM
8

This comment oozes insecurity from every pore.
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:41 AM
30

Alternatively -- If you aren't getting rejected on a daily basis, you might just be really good at this
/r/seduction05/10/13 07:32 AM
2

But the thing with #16 is that it's obviously a joke. She won't take it seriously when you ask her who the hottest chick at the venue is because that's the punchline. It's an opener and a neg all in one.
/r/seduction03/10/13 11:41 PM
2

I don't like #6 and #8 either, but #1 and #16 could be quite effective in my opinion.
/r/seduction03/10/13 10:57 PM
2

I hate all these bullshit texting mind games such as "always take a lifetime and a half to reply to her texts because it shows you're a cool, trendy, handsome fellow with a nifty beard who's busy doing all sorts of cool shit like parachuting and basket weaving." Just reply when you get the text and when you're not currently busy. Treat it like a regular in-person conversation but make sure your words accurately speak your emotions and there's no room for misinterpretation (you can't use body lan…
/r/seduction03/10/13 10:21 AM
5

Could it be that you're just not speaking properly? Practice speaking from the diaphragm. I have a deep voice when speaking from the diaphragm but a significantly higher voice when speaking from the throat. Diaphragm speaking also helps voice projection.
/r/seduction03/10/13 10:06 AM
1

This happens to me, too. I find the solution is to remember how much fun I have when I go out.
/r/seduction29/09/13 08:36 PM
158

Just let other guys hit on her. It'll show her you're not the jealous type and that you know the other dude is absolutely no threat. If you feel like having a bit of fun with the situation, walk up to her and the other dude, introduce yourself to her, talk for 10 seconds then start making out. The other dude will think you're a pick-up God and he'll stop pestering her.
/r/seduction22/09/13 05:18 AM
1

Talk about whatever you want to talk about. If she's not interested in the same topics as you, she isn't a good match.
/r/seduction05/09/13 06:04 AM
2

I laugh at everyone who thinks that's fantastic advice. The truth is that it isn't. It's misleading. If you do something that is confident only because you're "faking confidence", you were never faking it in the first place. What you did is actually confident and you were actually confident for doing it. You can't fake confidence.
/r/seduction01/09/13 05:56 AM
1

Those girls weren't lame, it was you. Girls tend to respond with short answers to interview questions and if you just keep asking them you won't get anywhere. Don't ask, talk. Talk to them about things, have a conversation. Don't just interview them all night.
/r/seduction27/08/13 04:35 AM
1

Stop doing loser shit. A.K.A: Stop doing things you enjoy because you'll have more fun doing things you don't enjoy. OP, you sound like a douche. That's not a good thing. Part of being alpha is respecting others and if you can't do that, others won't respect you. The "alpha" that has everything except respect turns into the guy that people see at a party, turn to their friends and say "look at that douche over there."
/r/seduction24/08/13 01:38 AM
9

concubine.
/r/seduction20/08/13 06:04 AM
12

"hodor," hodor hodored.
/r/seduction14/08/13 07:35 AM
0

Possibly a shit test. Her: I have a boyfriend You: Is he bigger than me?
/r/seduction10/08/13 07:59 AM
1

A couple of quotes are relevant here: "Be interested rather than interesting" "If something about you is worth bragging about other people will brag about it for you"
/r/seduction10/08/13 07:41 AM
5

A retirement home is always a good choice.
/r/seduction04/06/13 09:24 AM
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