Xero_Darknezz Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Was I too direct? You went too sexual too fast. Relying on lines that work maybe 1 percent of the time isn't a good idea. Going direct was good but be less pervy. What you did was the equivalent of a hail Mary.	/r/seduction	21/06/26 01:51 AM
3	Why is it always "maybe" with girls. That makes it boring and that the biggest killer of attraction. The will they won't they dynamic is what women dream about when they read romantic novels and is big part of maintaining sexual tension. Without it you are no longer a mystery and the girl will write you off as sure thing. It's all just part of the game and like it or not it's important to understand how to play it.	/r/seduction	06/06/26 06:53 AM
1	I'm told female nurses and air hostesses are promiscuous. But how do I use this information? That's irrelevant to the conversation and is missing the point.Also if all you have is ad hominem attacks on me then you've lost the argument.	/r/seduction	29/05/26 11:21 PM
1	I'm told female nurses and air hostesses are promiscuous. But how do I use this information? Nah I chose to not include it. If you understand the reference then you'll get the joke so it's unnecessary.	/r/seduction	27/05/26 12:02 AM
23	I'm told female nurses and air hostesses are promiscuous. But how do I use this information? 1) Go to a bar a near an airport 2) Screen girls to see if they work for an airline 3) Attempt to pick them up like you normally would 4) Profit	/r/seduction	26/05/26 06:32 AM
1	Do women expect you to try to kiss them on the first date? It's best to go for it. If she's not ready for that she'll tell you and respect you for going for it. Even then it doesn't mean she doesn't want to kiss you eventually it's just a not yet kind of thing if she's showing interest. It's the best way to gauge her investment if she wants more of a relationship or not. I know it can feel intimidating having to make the first move but when you do it you'll be glad you did and didn't get stuck in your head wondering what ifs. Any other way you shoot you…	/r/seduction	04/11/25 04:19 AM
1	Approaching Girls Alone: Any Tips for Avoiding Large Friend Groups? The issue with that is that hot girls are found in groups. You'll have more opportunities if you get over yourself and learn group dynamics. You're only limiting yourself if you only look for girls by themselves or two sets.	/r/seduction	06/11/24 04:18 AM
2	How to stop nerves when i'm talking to a beautifull lady? It's called being nervous, and it's normal if you are fixated on wanting a girl to like you. Get used to feeling like that when around girls you like, and eventually, you'll barely notice it. It's called getting comfortable being uncomfortable in situations where you're going outside your comfort zone. Practice doing things outside your zone, and it will help you indefinitely.	/r/seduction	23/09/24 02:38 AM
12	The biggest texting mistakes YOU make The best thing you can do when you text is reserve it for setting up dates. Don't have full-on conversations over text with women. It's much easier to save conversation for being in each other's presence. Then, you can build intimacy and create attraction and not worry about this bullshit.	/r/seduction	17/09/24 10:39 PM
13	What are the usual signs that you see when a woman wants you to talk with them? They stand next to you specifically, or they will look at you. Forms of approach invitations include the hair flick and smiling at you if you maintain eye contact. There's more but those are good starting points.	/r/seduction	12/09/24 11:31 PM
1	How can I break my fear of cold approach? What you're doing right now is overthinking. In order to have a clear mind, you have to be present to the moment. Learn how to meditate as it will help you with that. Really, what it comes down to is controlling your emotions and anxiety and centering yourself. I recommend reading the Power of Now by Echart Tolle because it is really the best resource on this subject.	/r/seduction	12/09/24 08:48 PM
1	How can I break my fear of cold approach? Just do it without thinking about it. Nothing is going to give you confidence to cold unless you cold approach. Doing the thing you are scared of doing is how confidence is formed. Also, have a low bar for having a successful interaction and take baby steps to get better at it. Set goals and work on achieving those goals, and slowly, you'll have gotten further than you thought possible for yourself. The key is to stay consistent and to always push yourself.	/r/seduction	11/09/24 07:43 AM
2	How to transition into sex when in bed Generally, you start with kissing and then work your way down. Mix it up, though, and try different things to start.	/r/seduction	08/09/24 07:13 PM
8	I suck at attracting This is exactly right. The notion of creepy is based on the perception of the woman, so if you put your intention out there, then some will think you are a creep, and others will enjoy the attention. I didn't really come to understand this concept until recently because it's hard to define what creepy is since it's subjective.	/r/seduction	05/09/24 09:06 PM
1	Do women not find me attractive enough? No, I'm telling you you need to connect on a deeper level instead of superficially. Don't have her touch you. You need to physically escalate on the girl in order to facilitate physical intimacy, so the girl gets used to you touching her. Moves like touching her on the back while walking together, holding hands, and touching her arm to emphasize a point. If you don't know what I am talking about, there are videos on how to do it on Youtube.	/r/seduction	05/09/24 04:26 PM
1	30 year old virgin that struggles with women, advice? Solid advice.I'm going to save this information.	/r/seduction	04/09/24 04:22 AM
1	How long should the conversation be before asking for the number? It's different for each girl. Be interested in the girl and talk about her until you find stuff you can connect on. Then, use that information to set up dates so you can naturally go for the number. If you can't connect on anything, then eject from the set and find a different girl.	/r/seduction	04/09/24 04:04 AM
1	Making a girl invest over text You're wrong	/r/seduction	04/09/24 03:45 AM
48	Do women not find me attractive enough? It's because you expect them to approach you. Men approach women, not the other way around. On dates, you should share about yourself, but also ask the women questions as well. Talk about stuff that is deeper than small talk and try to actually connect on a personal level. Don't be afraid to use touch during the date in order to facilitate intimacy.	/r/seduction	02/09/24 09:02 PM
3	Need advice: I'm a great funny intelligent good-looking guy that is actually really great at having fun funny conversations with women - but I rarely think about asking them out and rarely when I do they lose interest. Yes, women throw IOI's( Indicators of Interest)at guys when they are interested. Some of the major ones are proximity, hair touching, extending a conversation without you prompting it, and touching. My best advice is to assume attraction so that motivates you to move the interaction towards a relationship. Some people might say not to do that, but that's causes the issue that now you're waiting for the girl to give you permission to make a move, which may never happen. When you talk to these gir…	/r/seduction	31/08/24 08:59 PM
1	Making a girl invest over text From experience, I can tell you that it's a yes, so nice try, bud.	/r/seduction	31/08/24 06:33 AM
7	Making a girl invest over text Texting should be reserved for figuring out the logistics of the date. The more you text a girl before a date, the more needy will be perceived.	/r/seduction	30/08/24 02:25 AM
1	Gym and looks isn’t everything It should be obvious that women want someone they can talk to who has a backbone and isn't just eye candy. Do you date women just for their looks, or do you want someone you can connect with? Fitness is obviously important, but you need game to actually make anything happen.	/r/seduction	27/08/24 03:57 AM
2	How can I ask a girl out from work? Ask her out for coffee or something fun. The longer you wait, the more likely she'll lose interest if there is attraction. Shoot your shot. The worst that can happen is that she says no or some variation of that.	/r/seduction	26/08/24 06:26 PM
11	What should I say to an older woman when she said she worried that I am too young? Just don't make a big deal about it and show that it doesn't affect you. Make a joke about it.	/r/seduction	22/08/24 07:49 AM
9	When a guy tell you to “fuck off” This is exactly what he should have done. If this ever happens again, he knows what to do.	/r/seduction	17/08/24 06:36 AM
2	When a guy tell you to “fuck off” All you have to do is ignore them and shoot your shot. Don't compare yourself to anyone else. That guy who came up to you is insecure, and all you have to do is calmly ask the girl if what he is saying is true. If it doesn't go well, move on to the next one. Another option is to do day time game instead and you won't have to deal with competition as much.	/r/seduction	17/08/24 06:33 AM
5	Hot girls mother is adamant that I come to a dancing party at a dance studio Dude, it's a no-brainer because it's win-win. Get outside your comfort zone, and life will surprise you sometimes.	/r/seduction	15/08/24 01:54 AM
1	How do you make a conversation emotional, instead technical? Ask questions about their passions, ask how they feel about certain things, and tell stories about experiences you've gone through and how it made you feel.	/r/seduction	14/08/24 04:53 AM
1	What to do if someone is competing with you for a girl? The girl will decide who she wants to be with. In the meantime, talk to other girls so you maintain an abundance mindset instead of being stuck in scarcity. Hot girls are everywhere. you just need to have the balls to approach them.	/r/seduction	13/08/24 05:40 PM
3	Uninterested girls getting mad when you stop the attention? That's an interesting mindset shift. I've had friends say there is no such thing as the friend zone, but they would never elaborate on that topic. I would always think they were bullshitting me because they would never back it up with details.	/r/seduction	08/08/24 07:21 AM
5	Uninterested girls getting mad when you stop the attention? That's an interesting mindset shift. I've had friends say there is no such thing as the friend zone, but they would never elaborate on that topic. I would always think they were bullshitting me because they would never back it up with details.	/r/seduction	08/08/24 07:21 AM
1	I can’t bring girls over, what should I do Unfortunately, that wouldn't be a viable business model. Hotels are a business at the end of the day. If they did it that way, then they would have to charge astronomical rates to maintain a profit.	/r/seduction	08/08/24 05:35 AM
1	Sex workers that try to blend in on dating apps are the worst It's an inflated sense of ego because most men are simps when it comes to sex. She tried to pressure you, and it didn't work. You obviously don't need her, so don't worry about why this one prostitute is on there.	/r/seduction	08/08/24 02:58 AM
3	I can’t bring girls over, what should I do Hotels and motels are your best friends in that situation.	/r/seduction	07/08/24 05:36 AM
2	I finally got laid, thanks for all the advice! Was it your first time? If so, don't feel bad about it because the first time is always awkward for everyone. If you end up in a relationship, you'll get better at it with time.	/r/seduction	06/08/24 10:21 PM
1	What do you think is the reason woman reject you Exactly, it could literally be anything. It could be chalked down to something as petty as the girl having a bad day and doesn't feel like talking to anyone. The best approach is to not take it personally and find someone who will welcome your company instead.	/r/seduction	05/08/24 04:37 AM
1	What do you think is the reason woman reject you It's a case of the girl who doesn't want what I appear to be selling. I don't really dwell on it because I'd rather focus on the girls that are attracted to me than the ones that have rejected me.	/r/seduction	05/08/24 04:31 AM
4	What does “approaching” women mean to you? The only difference is context. Otherwise, the only reason you think it's deplorable behavior is because society conditions you to think that way.	/r/seduction	01/05/24 03:08 AM
5	Will most girls ghost you if you don't make a move on your dates? Yeah, unfortunately, the hotter the girl, the more likely she is getting multiple offers for dates, so you want to kiss within the first three dates. Go for it during a high point in the date.	/r/seduction	07/04/24 12:46 AM
1	The worst advice dating advice I've ever received. The advice you have to be your best self should be obvious once you realize that life is competition. The thing is, women are attracted to different things than men, so it is important to know what to focus on. As well, so you don't waste your time maximizing looks when you realize that's not the most heavily weighted variable even though it does matter.	/r/seduction	02/05/23 02:58 AM
1	This is how you cure approach anxiety. So, to summarize your post, become a giver instead of a taker. I like that mindset, and I'm gonna try it and see what happens. Part of my issue is that I'm apathetic about the whole approaching thing, too, but I can't figure out why.	/r/seduction	17/04/23 07:58 AM
3	If men started to respect themselves more, we would have a much easier time Part of it is society because women are seen as more valuable because they carry the offspring, so we are conditioned to see them the same way from birth.	/r/seduction	15/04/23 03:23 AM
1	Old school tip: the Knee test I didn't know about this but something to look for or use in the future.	/r/seduction	14/04/23 04:24 PM
63	The solitary best thing I ever did for my game was learn how to read body language. I assume OP is talking about if a girl puts her hand on your knee or tries to hold your hand. That's the only thing that would make sense in the context of body language.	/r/seduction	14/04/23 07:22 AM