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The husband is really bad. He’s gaslighting her and making her doubt her decisions. He isn’t respecting her boundaries. He needs to stop asking her if he can try her milk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 12:34 PM
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Awesomeness!!!! I hope this forum keeps growing. There’s lot of bad men out there. We need to keep women safe from bad relationships. Some women doesn’t know their value so they’re short selling themselves. They shouldn’t be doing that. All women are valuable and they should recognize that. They shouldn’t be tolerating bad behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 04:52 PM
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I really like those 2 images also. It proves that it’s better to let things happen and not make things happen. When we use force, it’s actually that we are trying to guilt and shame them into doing things. When that happens, the action is meaningless. Letting things happen creates freedom and it precedes love. Without force and only without force, can you be seen as you truly are. “Through force, you can never really find what you are looking for. Without force, what you are looking for will nat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 11:08 PM
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Keep doing you. Never change yourself for him. I’m glad you didn’t shave your pubic hair. That guy that freaked out about it really do watch too much porn, and fried his brain or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 01:00 AM
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I’m sorry that you had been in that situation. It isn’t your fault. I hate guys who try to play the victim. Your ex is definitely the aggressor. It’s good that he left. He isn’t worth your attention or your amicable friendship. There is nothing wrong with what you did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 12:40 AM
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What your friend did is very messed up. I’m glad you block them both. They don’t deserve your friendship or your loyalty. They just prove themselves to be super bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 11:27 PM
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Absolutely true. The behavior right now is who they are. You are fooling yourself if you hope that that behavior will change for the better in the future. Waiting for the person to change is a complete waste of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 11:22 PM
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I’m going to remember this. I need to search for someone who actually does stuff, not the thought of it. We shouldn’t be accepting “I could have done this but (insert whatever reason)”. That is just low standards. If they really want it, they would have done it, no question asked. I have had those type of people in my past and I’m glad this place is really opening up my eyes on how to raise my standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 12:11 AM
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This is so true. Men who say that don’t really deserve my time or my attention. We have to see start seeing their behavior as who they are. It’s not a good idea to hope that they will eventually change. They will never ever change who they are. It’s the same thing with men who say “what kind of men do you like?” And you say “oh, I don’t like smokers.”, and they say “I’m a smoker.” If they’re trying to disqualify themselves in front of your eyes, they’re a waste of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 09:33 PM
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Agreed. I really dislike getting emotional abuse. I recently learned what exactly is emotional abuse. For me, I’m going to try to educate others on what is emotional abuse so they can recognize when to stop the relationship. I probably have been gaslighted lots of times in my past. “You’re so sensitive!!”, “you’re overreacting!!!” , “I don’t get why you are making a big deal out of this.” The way how I feel is extremely valid. They can’t just tell me that I’m not feeling what I’m feeling. It’s n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 09:08 PM
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I hope that woman realizes what a super bad partner she picked. There’s like so many things wrong with him. He’s not even treating her correctly. He isn’t entitled to anything a woman gives him. He doesn’t even care if she is in pain during sex. That is very messed up of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 10:25 PM
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That is just not right to follow their needs on their time line. There is no way to make a guy realize that the girl he is with, is the one for me. It is best to avoid those guys. If he would have valued you, he would have proposed to be in a relationship with you instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 03:25 PM
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I need to learn this more also. If people want it to happen, they will do their part. It’s bad to say “oh, how come you didn’t meetup with me when you agreed to meet up with me.” What I found out is that when you come up with rationalizations of their behavior, (oh, they must be forgetful, etc), it is cognitive dissonance. I need to learn to see their behavior as is, not that they are clueless with good intentions. It will save me from all the heartache.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 08:12 AM
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Chris is just weird. He needs to get his life together first before hopping on a dating app. He says such weird things after “what’s your job?”. Good thing he said that since it’s an automatic filter, so you don’t need to spend more time on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 12:33 AM
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