Xexanoth Archive

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1	The Red Pill is great strategy just to for dating. Enough to consider ending that relationship & seeking a better one? It’s unfortunate if you feel stuck in a relationship you’re unhappy with if you feel quite strongly about this. In that case, perhaps you should consider trying to figure out how to have more leverage / power / confidence to communicate the behavior changes you’d like to see from him & to end the relationship if he disagrees or fails after adequate opportunity. Then you might understand the potential appeal of where he’s coming …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/26 12:34 PM
-1	Sex is not a thing, like gold or land or peanuts. It’s not legal to pay for sex in many jurisdictions. It’s often not particularly safe to illegally pay for sex. Even in places with legal & safe options to pay for sex, someone who desires an unpaid romantic relationship may find that more difficult for reasons that are no fault of their own & outside their control if such reasons / attributes constrain the set of potential romantic partners in their area who’d consider them. Yes, that is a “you problem” for the person who finds it harder to sat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 01:25 AM
3	Sex is not a thing, like gold or land or peanuts. But ping-pong (and sex) isn't like food or money or housing--it's an activity, not a resource Potential ping-pong partners in your area could be considered a limited resource. If many potential ping-pong partners in your area decide they don’t want to play ping-pong with you because you’re too short, then the set of potential ping-pong partners in your area willing to play ping-pong with you is a more-limited resource for you than for a taller ping-pong player.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 12:00 AM
1	I don't understand redpill for woman. You seem to presuppose the inevitability of an unfair and/or undesirable relationship. You seem to miss that this is not inevitable, that it is not specific to starting relationship styles / dynamics, and that changes in behavior impacting relationship fairness and/or desirability are not gender-specific.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/26 12:47 AM
0	I don't understand redpill for woman. You seem to presuppose an objectively unfair and/or undesirable relationship, then ask why women would seek that out. You seem to miss that fairness and desirability of a relationship are subjective, and some women may see some relationship styles / dynamics as fair & desirable even if you don’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/26 04:43 PM
0	Men on here are contradictory Did you miss who I was replying to, or reply to the wrong comment? Either way, you might want to review this subreddit’s rules. They prohibit personal attacks / incivility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/26 08:32 PM
1	Men on here are contradictory Which of those studies demonstrates / provides evidence of individuals commonly behaving or talking in contradictory or hypocritical ways like your post is alleging / complaining about being common for “men on here”?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/26 04:44 PM
10	Men on here are contradictory Are you going to link to a peer reviewed study supporting the claim in your post first as evidence of its truth / prevalence? Or even any single specific example at all, which you failed to provide when requested here & again here? Are you being contradictory around requiring higher standards of evidence for others' claims/observations than for your own? Is that contradictory behavior concerning to you while attempting to criticize others for supposedly contradictory behavior / commentary?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/26 09:01 PM
41	Men on here are contradictory https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/Goomba_fallacy <image>	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/26 08:52 PM
–	What’s up with the Asian male stereotypes? No, I didn’t find that likely contributing factor hard to admit / agree with (aside from the effort put into wording it carefully to try to avoid offending anyone or breaking some sub or platform rule). I think it’s very likely more complicated than you’re pretending here. It strikes me as highly unlikely that this is the sole contributing factor. I told you I don’t know the answer to the question you posed above because I don’t know all the contributing factors nor how significant/important eac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 07:24 AM
3	Men will hit “happier alone” parity with women in the 2030s. I didn’t see you mention reproduction / offspring / passing on genes, for those who wish to have biological children & whose happiness varies with whether they’ve achieved that goal. Women could do so relatively easily without an involved-long-term male partner via sperm banks / sperm donors / sex without birth control (though the latter raises potential questions of the father’s potential legal child support obligations). It would be relatively difficult for a man to do so without an involved f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 07:17 AM
–	What’s up with the Asian male stereotypes? If you’re insinuating that one of the factors contributing to the apparent relative unpopularity of the content in question in Western media is some Western and/or white people being less interested in seeing the less-popular content because it may challenge some Western norms with roots in supposed white supremacy and/or a history of socioeconomic power disparities based on race in Western societies (i.e. some people feeling discomfort / unease / unfamiliarity with seeing a white person “domina…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 06:04 AM
–	What’s up with the Asian male stereotypes? I don’t know. Why do you care? A stereotype is typically at least loosely based upon observed patterns of what’s more common / typical. If many contributors to those NSFW subs are marketing content they monetize on other platforms like OF (I have no idea whether that’s the case), perhaps they tend to focus on producing / publishing the type of content they’ve found is more popular in those Reddit subs / those other platforms. There’s a feedback loop there between availability/publishing of conte…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 04:55 AM
–	What’s up with the Asian male stereotypes? The sub with more visitors is not as restrictive around content as the sub with fewer visitors. (Read the more-popular sub’s rule 3; you are interpreting the ordering of the sub’s name as more meaningful than it is.) Even if that weren’t the case, comparing 2 subs’ visitor stats is not reliably indicative of relative interest in their topics. Sub visitor stats are sensitive to sub age, amount / quality of content (whether there are contributors of high-quality content), moderation practices, and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 04:25 AM
4	Why does it seem like only in pill communities are men failing with women? People struggling with dating are more likely to seek out spaces to discuss dating & share their experiences / seek advice / vent frustration than people happily dating or in relationships. Same reason that discourse about dating apps skews highly negative: those who had more success with them are unlikely to be talking about them. On top of the typical negative-review-more-likely-to-be-written bias, people struggling with dating apps are likely to use them longer than average (unlike most produ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 12:52 PM
8	CMV: "I thought y'all chose the bear" is an immature response to women's frustration with dating Just because we wanted to send the message that we don't feel safe around random men doesn't mean they don't want men to approach us. You don’t see the connection between not feeling safe around random men suggesting a higher likelihood of not wanting to be approached by random men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/25 06:00 PM