Xiena78 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	For all the times we’ve said, “I wish those a-holes came with a warning”...Tinder Introduces Background Checks To Increase Dating Safety.	STAY WOKE	Xiena78	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/03/21 12:23 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
218	Old men and their entitlement to young women (specifically their wombs) are poisoning the dating market for professional women in their twenties. I've been one of these women who was used and discarded by men when I was dating... Actually, so many women I know were used and discarded. These men don't deserve a "happy ending" in life.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/04/22 02:47 AM
120	💯 But why is she white and angelic and he's dark and demon looking? Like really?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/22 03:00 AM
2	A confusing man is a dangerous man - Excerpts from Lundy Bancroft And notice he's not emphasizing "NOT ALL MEN", and he's not victim blaming, asking the women to choose better men. He's keeping the blame where it belongs. On the shitty men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/02/22 07:50 PM
33	Men cannot be trusted with an idea like polyamory and its popularity shows how naive and desperate women have become Hmmm....if THEY'RE not satisfactory for YOU, leave Him. It sounds like you're placing the onus all on you for the relationship working. It's not only on you. They have to satisfy you as well. And if you're feeling like he's not getting what he wants from you, then he's not satisfying you also in that dynamic, I.e. he's not giving you validation, appreciation and emotional security....so then perhaps you should leave him and find someone else who are you MORE THAN ENOUGH FOR.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/10/21 08:09 PM
3	This post will probably be removed. You are so correct, imagine an online community that comes together to uplift each lift and support each other in dating in healthy, positive, affirming ways. That would help many develop the confidence and self love to leave toxic patterns behind and adopt healthier ones, which could lead to finding better partners (if some so wish). Validation on relationshits is one thing, ONLY focusing on them really leaves no room for self growth.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/21 04:54 PM
13	🚩 Don't get suckered into "protecting/respecting" the guy you're dating by keeping his dirty deeds a secret from your longtime trusted family/friends I've always felt that If they feel their shitty behavior isn't "that bad", then they should be proud that everybody knows what they've done.. Don't keep their secrets. If they don't want to be seen as a POS, then don't act like one. It's not rocket science.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/08/21 03:24 AM
41	We used to think we were always at fault "Ejaculate into socks and tree trunks" Holy shit I spit out my tea reading this! lmao.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/06/21 01:36 PM
3	Educating my daughter on what men will say when she is confident and strong in her opinions, what are we missing? Women explaining her boundaries Men: you think too much.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/05/21 04:06 AM
20	I live in a van down by the river - is this a turn off? The dog from the ‘Littlest Hobo’ had better hygiene and less commitment issues.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/21 01:46 PM
89	I live in a van down by the river - is this a turn off? “Runaway child labourer from a Mark Twain piece”.🤣🤣🤣 Brilliant!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/21 01:43 PM
17	You did the right thing! ✨👑 I need to hear this. Thank you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/04/21 11:43 AM
17	The reason some men are so awful is because pick-mes let them get away with using and disrespecting them. It's satire. They're saying "Wow, you told me you're fucking your ex and best friend AND you told me? Wow you are an honest man". Complete sarcasm and the clapping is like "yeeeaah to the men for being honest". In other speech "the bar is set so low that these men THINK what they are doing is such a prize....it's not".	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/04/21 01:06 PM
21	I was calling out Pickminique on why NOT to date guys with mental health issues, because I grew up with a man WITH serious mental health issues which seriously affect my own mental health (Note: she didn't like it) “He can’t afford therapy, he can’t afford me”. I’m going to use this!! Brilliant!❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/21 03:14 AM
40	Men get off on treating women like shit A woman’s worth and value is not determined by how many “keys” are in her “lock”. Her “reputation” is given to her by men as a means to enforce control over her actions and autonomy to enjoy sex. The issue isn’t about protecting this bullshit virtue system developed by men, the bigger issue is why should my value as a human be solely determined on which key I choose to use?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/03/21 07:22 PM
3	Crazy ex trope-do not fall for it queens. No for sure, I agree with your point about sociopaths. My comment of reactive abuse speaks to people who gaslight you, manipulate you, and other forms of abuse and then when you reach your breaking point and react back (=reactive abuse) this person then turns around and calls you abusive, crazy etc, and sociopaths do this as well.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/03/21 10:46 PM
13	Crazy ex trope-do not fall for it queens. It’s called “Reactive Abuse” and people that do the Abusing HATE when someone reaches their final straw.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/03/21 07:30 PM
47	Boomers Mad Millennial & Gen Z Women Aren't pushing out enough babies for them to leech off of to their graves. Maybe if they didn't spend the last 40 years demonizing mothers, providing absolutely no support, and raising garbage sons, we'd think about it. HA! I've been saying this for years!! You know why there's a baby bust?.....Cause of MEN!!!! 1) MOST IMPORTANTLY, MEN RUN OUT WOMEN'S CLOCKS. The men in this article are in their 40's - 50's worried no own will take care of them as they age. GOOD!! How many women in their 40's and 50's can't have kids cause men their same age "weren't ready" when they were younger, so these women did not/could not have kids cause the clock ran out, then these men started targeting (yes I say targeting) younger w…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/21 11:57 AM
12	Found in another sub; shining example of the audacity of men and the ties between fundamentalist religion and the patriarchy. This right here!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/03/21 11:56 AM
3	The audacity... Makes me sick 🤢	/r/PussyPassDenied	15/07/20 08:09 PM
71	The audacity... Makes me sick I’m confused🤔. There are women out there with 2 and 3 jobs, working our asses off and this little sprite is legitimately just asking strangers. For money. Over the internet. Asking them to send it to PayPal?!!! What in the absolute fuck these “girls” be doing? They didn’t go to school?!! They can’t work?!! I can’t even. Then they want to talk about equal rights and what not? GTFOH!	/r/PussyPassDenied	15/07/20 06:16 PM