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I don’t understand what world these people live in. My aunt is in her 60s and finds men in her field to date with ease. I’m 27 & most of my girlfriends are in their mid 30s and we have no problems either. Healthy men with respectable jobs & families don’t want to date women in their 20s. They date within their age group. The ideas in here are sounding way too red-pill delusional as a coping mechanism for being single. “If she doesn’t date me now, no one will ever date her later!” - it’s just not…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 07:24 AM
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I see posts like this every single day & this one finally convinced me to leave this sub. This mindset is psychotic. You & all the other men on here that think like this need to stop complaining nonstop and just grow up. This is SAD.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 07:19 AM
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If you think women hit the wall in their 30s, you must not go outside much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 08:20 AM
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Idk what you’re going through but life is full of ups and downs & it gets better. Have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 09:36 PM
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My comment history is mostly me talking about perfume. Are you okay? Edit: I just realized that you scrolled back over a YEAR ago to when some old creepy men from a misogynistic group started raiding me on Twitter 😂 Get a hobby LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:19 AM
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Lol well I don’t hate men at all but I find myself only attracted to most of them as friends. That’s typical in bisexuality though; it’s not an equal 50/50 split. If a woman asked me out on the date, it would actually be the same thing. But if I asked the woman out, I’d insist on paying it in full.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:41 PM
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I have no problem paying for my meal on a date & have done so many times. If I don’t like a man at all, I insist on paying for my own. But when a man doesn’t offer to pay it shows me that he’s less invested in me than someone who wants to pay and I find myself much more attracted to the latter. Either way, I don’t think this is such a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:15 PM
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Reading this in a full face of makeup when I haven’t left the house & am not going to is making me giggle so much at this & the comments. I’m sorry you’re upset (tho I’m not sure what you’re upset about to be honest) and hope it works out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 01:20 PM
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This sounds like something you should speak to a therapist about.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/21 12:24 AM
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I have a majority female friends. I’ve traveled across the country and consider myself quite social. Over the span of my life; I’d say that from a group of 200-250 women I’ve met three cheaters. They were terrible people both and didn’t have any friends; our groups left them quite quickly after realizing that their tendency to hurt men extended to all other areas of their life. All three were drama-prone and toxic. Cheating is a net negative for society; these people do nothing to contribute to …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 11:26 PM
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Personally when I’m looking for a romantic partner, I’m looking for a match; an equal that I can share and experience life with. That usually ends up being my age or a couple years older. Sometimes a couple years younger (rarely.) I am also extremely turned off by men that find significantly younger women attractive. I see it as a stunt in their development and a hint that they’re interested in a sex toy rather than a partner. There are men who date within their age groups. They’re infinitely mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 11:18 PM
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Good luck sir!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 07:02 AM
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Sad world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 07:00 AM
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Because the red pill is a bunch of men obsessing over how to get women to have sex with them. And blue pill is a bunch of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 06:51 AM
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Because my introduction to redpill was middle aged men unprompted telling me they’d have sex with me if I wasn’t a slut. And then I found out that blue pill is just a group of women making fun of these disgusting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 06:48 AM
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You’ve lost me on the word “truth”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 06:36 AM
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The more I’ve learned about it the more ridiculous their definition of the “female nature” becomes. The entire blue pill sub is just a bunch of women cringing at the red pill sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 02:34 AM
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Ahh I keep hearing people saying that RP gets the facts right but I’ve only seen either out dated scientific journals or complete bias and cherry picked information to fit an agenda. I can’t really get on board with that statement. 😭 A number of statements Ive found from the red pill community stated as “facts” sent me on a curiosity journey. The amount of cherry picking I came across was... eye opening as to this groups mental state. They seem the encapsulate the antithesis to scientific values…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 06:07 PM
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I don’t know anything about “blue pill” but the sub is just a bunch of women cringing at the red pill sub. So if you mean that women want men who would cringe at red pill, you’re probably right. It’s pretty cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 10:13 AM
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His name is rollo tomassi! I don’t know how to post Reddit usernames but he did it on Twitter. But don’t worry about it I was just sharing an experience. No need for any retaliation lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 06:15 PM
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Okie dokie
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 06:12 PM
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Absolutely. I agree completely with the relatability thing. However, I think that the term “daddy issues” is commonly known and understood but the idea of “mommy issues” isn’t. I’m grasping here because I truly am just a bystander. I’m not invested in red pill more than an idle curiosity and an idle discomfort but as someone peering in, many of the things I see stated in these communities are normal run of the mill cluster b personality disorder issues. With the right therapies, (specifically dy…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 12:01 AM
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Manipulating works. Until it ruins your life because you have no genuine relationships to back you up. Have a nice day but I genuinely encourage therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 11:39 PM
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Have a gr8 day!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 11:36 PM
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I’ve seen here that one of the staples of RP is an internal locus of control and I think that’s a wonderful philosophy for anyone to have. The cherry picking science studies thrown around about how women “are” or what they “want” seems to be catered in a way to make men think that it’s not their fault that they’re not successful in their romantic endeavors and I think that is why the hatred for women prevails. Overall, I’ll give it a 3/10 in terms of how successful I imagine it actually is. Stoi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 02:05 PM
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This attempt at character assassination is incredibly bad faith. The “drama” of which you speak was a guy that was getting called out for sexually harassing multiple different women. He volunteered an instance of when he touched me against my will without asking me to make it public first and essentially forced my name into his own drama. I made it clear that I absolutely didn’t want to be involved. But surely you guys are desperately grabbing for anything and don’t actually care about the valid…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 09:53 AM
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My cousins wife just had her first child and she’s 32. They have the set up for one of the healthiest and happiest families I’ve ever seen. ☺️ They were the ones to actually inspire me to hold off a bit before considering having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 08:54 AM
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He is just sharing good faith constructive criticism hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 08:52 AM
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Oh. okay. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 08:44 AM
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😭 I just can’t engage them any longer lolll
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 08:42 AM
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That’s called having an internal locus of control. Red pill seems to have taken this concept and claimed that it’s originally there. You can have an internal locus of control without engaging in false science.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 08:37 AM
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So, I maintain his same philosophy and neither of us are red pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 12:41 PM
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Yeah I feel way better after this. I was definitely worried/scared at first. But now I just feel like y’all need a hug and I can relate to that. Cheers, men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 12:40 PM
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... dude if you can’t afford therapy 29k is a free alternative. I don’t know how to respond to these anymore. You guys seem to speak the same way and there is a level of delusion going on here that I’m not prepared or qualified to tackle.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 12:37 PM
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The longer this post stays up, the cringier this gets. The cringe is out of control at this point. I may burst.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 12:35 PM
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...Nope. Men and women have the same dopaminergic system. Very strange psuedo science ideas you have there, sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 12:34 PM
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The more I look at redpill the more I go from being frightened to cringing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 12:32 PM
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I hate to break this news to you but an internal locus of control has been around long before red pill. Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 12:32 PM
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I loved it. Most of the advances I get are gross. He was authentic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 12:31 PM
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1.The link is in the thread of comments somewhere. 2. Are you okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 12:29 PM
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Pls stop cringe I can’t handle much more of this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 09:40 AM
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It’s an internal locus of control! Maybe red pill adopted this into their philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 08:35 AM
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This has to be the best thing I’ve read in this thread. This a million times.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 08:05 AM
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The last time I fell heavy in love he wrote poetry about me and then he’d call me to read it to me at 2 am. The most in love I’ve ever been. It was cringey I guess but never in a way that thinking about it didn’t make me smile. Maybe try that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 08:04 AM
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This made me laugh so much IRL thank you. No he is abhorrently against philosophies like this. Openly so and mocks them in his projects.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 07:58 AM
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https://therationalmale.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/smv_curve1.jpg Your breasts aren’t even fully developed at 15. It is simply terrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 07:45 AM
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Oh you were trying to hurt my feelings on the internet. I didn’t even notice. Have a good day man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 07:41 AM
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It is the way that mentally ill people treat eachother. Do not mistake this for a gender battle.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 07:35 AM
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There are some instances where you’re using non traditional chords; but I love breaking tradition in chord sequences. A bit more repetition in the sequences of chords will give the listener more of a dopamine release but no, not bad. For someone exploring sounds for the first time on FL it’s actually quite impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 07:34 AM
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I was expecting just samples thrown together. Chord exploration is for sure difficult. You’re going head first into the thick of it right after starting. That’s sick. Reminds me of old video games I played when I was a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 06:28 AM
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FL studio is less user friendly for beginners. & sure I’d love to!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 05:48 AM
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My life’s aspirations are centered on my career and doing my job very well. I am open to only healthy relationships that benefit my emotional and mental wellbeing; friendships and relationships. I don’t engage in nonsense or allow it into my life. Therapy has helped a lot with this. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 05:39 AM
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It is the mindset that there is a way to manipulate people into sleeping with you. Perhaps it works on some. But certainly not anyone that is smart enough to sense that manipulation. And when you reject someone who “did everything right” with the intention of just bagging you and leaving you they rage at you and obsess over you. Because to these people, other people are a game to them. It is the precipice of cruelty, from my perspective, to see the world as so barren that you become jaded enough…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 05:33 AM
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It was just scary because of the messages I was getting in the middle of my drama-free life calling me a desperate slut. It’s not that he is scary, the people that follow him are scary to me. Perhaps because I have been threatened by men that I didn’t want to sleep with that echo the sentiments he airs. “I have muscles and money. You are seducing me with your sexual body. You want to sleep with me. You’re playing hard to get” Followed by a drunken “i can’t get your eyes out of my head I am going…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 05:24 AM
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Both of my parents and my fiancé left me alone in the world and I won’t begin to go into how cruel the world is for someone who has no one around them because I’m sure you already know. Happiness and success is not so simple. I fight and grind every day and work harder than anyone I know with no success or validation to speak of yet. I am not sure my future will turn out well but I’ll be damned if I waste my life by giving up. With this mindset that you have solidified for yourself, it is true. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 05:23 AM
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We are very different kinds of people but I am happy for you if casual sex genuinely fulfills you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 05:19 AM
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Women can be sexist too, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 04:57 AM
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First of all, thank you for calling me pretty. But I grew up truly believing I was ugly. I was much bigger when I was younger after moving to America and spent a huge chunk of my life being invisible to men. So I turned my energy to books and music. Now, when men give me attention, I’m fairly receptive to the ones that are just attracted to me because of the way I look and I remain alone for this reason. I wonder how many people out there think that they are ugly because of how others treat them…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 04:54 AM
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There is certainly toxicity on the left (I’m not sure if that’s what you’re referring to), but those people are unhealthy! People that think that men are sex-hungry and stupid pigs are just hurt people. They need to work through some shit lol. My experience of attraction has been so wildly different and I am not an uncommon woman. Most of the women I meet share my sentiments. The types of girls that only date 6” and over I don’t have much in common with generally. So I avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 04:37 AM
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This is such an aggressive reaction. I really don’t understand it or know how to engage it further. Sorry. If you want to believe that this is the way women are and it’s natural, I’m not sure anyone will be able to convince you otherwise. Adieu
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 04:30 AM
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I understand what it’s like to be unattractive to the opposite sex. To feel alone and to pine after love. We are all conditioned so; to see love as something that will make you happy. I think a good rule of thumb to practice is this: Instead of thinking of finding just any woman that will have you, figure out who your dream woman is. What does she do? What are her interests? Personality traits, etc etc. Then, figure out what kind of man she specifically would want. Not what “women want”. What wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 04:25 AM
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I imagine these girls have been “red pilled” into believing it. That a proper partner must be alpha, tall, etc etc. It just sounds like improper socialization or upbringing to me. I wasn’t raised by or around an environment that glorified money or looks so I am not attracted to it. I’m attracted to passion and similar personality traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 04:18 AM
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Being nice doesn’t work on people that were socialized incorrectly and didn’t work through their traumas. This is a well documented and well studied phenomenon in psychology for decades. Pushing a century now. It is also not just applied to women... men also seek out women that treat them the way their parents did until they’ve gone through the proper therapies to correct this attachment style... I am really sorry and I hear your struggle and I see you. But this philosophy will only grant you un…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 04:10 AM
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Have you seen the Social game on Netflix? I suppose a lot of people knew about how social media operates but it had a lot of new information that I didn’t know about and it’s terrifying. You’re completely right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 04:04 AM
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I won’t pretend that I haven’t heard women say “I won’t date anyone under 6 foot” though. But my question is, why would you ever want to date someone who talks like that? They are obviously unevolved mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 03:59 AM
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Very sad thinking. I fell madly in love with a man that is an inch shorter than me and he ended up rejecting me. But he wasn’t self conscious about his height; he was never thinking about relationships. He works all the time and has passion and kindness that lights up the room. Women fawn to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 03:58 AM
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From what I’ve read today, Red Pill seems to teach you how to attract women that have not healed from their emotional traumas. If this assessment is correct, I agree with you, as I think more of the population of men and women are mentally unwell in the west than well. I doubt very highly that these tactics will bring a higher standard of living. I am a neuroscience nerd though; I try to stay away from black and white thinking. Red pill may indeed work for healthy pairs too. Perhaps women that s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 03:52 AM
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Eek. Yeah I think after posting this I’d just rather stay away from people like you guys. I wish you well but I can’t imagine this mindset bringing anyone anything but misery in the long term. To answer the men and women question though; The nature vs nurture is an incredibly nuanced and incredibly fascinating question in Neuroscience. But I can’t imagine that anyone with a biased interest would be able to consume it without cherry picking. The truth is: are women and men different innately or i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 03:45 AM
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He tweeted something about women’s only agency being their sexuality. He seems to think that women are not only another species but also incapable of meta cognition... I hope he figures things out and doesn’t waste his entire life on this stuff at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 03:33 AM
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You speak about men and women as if they are two distinct people. The generalizations are so perplexing that I don’t think I can even begin to respond to this. You seem to have made up your mind on how things work. I hope you find the answers you’re searching for in any case.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 03:31 AM
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He is the best. I will never be able to compete with that little wolf. I must hide him from the world lest someone will steal him from me. 💕
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 03:27 AM
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Hahaha I know
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 03:20 AM
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Hmmm. I think young people who grew up with mean parents are attracted to mean partners. If this is truly an angle with the red pill community, they are teaching men how to attract women that haven’t healed their trauma. This seems problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 03:11 AM
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How sad you must be to think that conversing with people is something unnatural in both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 03:09 AM
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I know this is going to sound like I am insulting you but I am truly not; I can tell how angry you are by the way you’ve been posting and I really think you should just walk away. I’m enjoying the conversations I’m having in this thread with other people that are opening my eyes to this whole thing. The way you’re typing is perplexingly negative and confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 03:07 AM
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Ahh I can see that too. Perhaps red pill men are attractive to some types of women. What a happy ending to this exploration; Works for some- not all. And most agree that violence is not the answer. I suppose there are some women who want to be trophy wives and for those women perhaps they would feel honored to be with such men. Life is always nuanced and people are always multi faceted. It is so annoying, isn’t it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 03:04 AM
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Alright sorry for offending you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 03:01 AM
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To be honest finding a mate isn’t really a goal in my life. I’m quite happy in my projects and am sure that I will meet someone good for me if I maintain my personal values and aspirations. Love is rare and in my experience you don’t get to decide when it comes. I was just sharing my thoughts and initial reaction to this community.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 02:59 AM
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Must make more money so that we can buy land and live in a forest to escape the shenanigans.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 02:56 AM
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“It's certainly not in TRP theory to scare women off. Sounds like some beta behavior.” This was good comedic relief for the post. Anyway, again, I may be wrong about the information presented by red pill, but from the things I read, it was a common theme to see people talking about women as if we are a separate species from men. Alluding that women will hurt you and break your heart if you don’t maintain the upper hand and so you must manipulate them. That you must make money to make up for bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 02:54 AM
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I’m open to being wrong but my initial impression of these groups is the same. I didn’t respond to that guy because he seems to be emotional right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 02:47 AM
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Calm down. I didn’t mean for this post to be abrasive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 02:42 AM
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I guess the frightening thing is that I didn’t intend for it to be sexual and the thought that how you are perceived may end up getting you in trouble without any intention of said perceival. I guess I’m open to Red Pill not being so bad. Perhaps it’s just this particular person and the links I clicked on. But the Red Pill Reddit community was full of things that seemed to just dehumanize women. I am open to people finding happiness through different philosophies but from everything I’ve seen I …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 02:41 AM
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I’m always open to being wrong. I was referring to some graphs and a concept called “sexual market value”. The graph insinuated that a 15 year old girl has the same sexual market value as a man that is 31, and that men are at their sexual peak in their 40’s and 50’s. When I saw this, my first instinct was to assume it was real, though shocking, but upon further investigation, men and women both get married at around the same age, with the gap closing in closer yearly. In fact the real data is qu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 02:37 AM
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I’m curious if I’m misunderstanding this community then, perhaps? Is there a part of Red pill that does not see women as something to dominate or win and perhaps focuses on finding a partner that will make you happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 02:32 AM
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I don’t have an onlyfans... or anything to promote. Sorry to disappoint and I’m incredibly confused by that statement. I might be in the wrong sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 02:30 AM
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I just wonder if the focus on finding a sexual partner might be hindering their chances in the first place, creating a self fulfilling prophecy. I don’t think about it anymore as I’m invested in my projects and it comes knocking quite frequently nowadays. When I was needy for romance I would always get rejected. I imagine this is the same for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 02:29 AM
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I don’t know what the incel angle is; I have only just discovered this stuff. I just think that sharing incorrect data in a group and talking about women as if they are all the same is frightening and reminiscent of the hate groups we’ve seen in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 02:22 AM
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Well, it was this that led me to explore the redpill Reddit community. Along with some of their personal blogs and YouTube videos. It puts a pit in my stomach that there is a sizable group of people out there that want me to suffer because I have tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 02:15 AM
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I’m not sure if the other one is showing because I blocked them but the thread he was responding to initially is this: https://twitter.com/xintanifae/status/1367636673559810049?s=21
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 02:13 AM
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https://twitter.com/rationalmale/status/1374946126332227586?s=21 It wasn’t really a war. Just got some people calling me ugly and desperate and a slut. It was looking through his other material that made it frightening.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 02:11 AM
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It seems all the pill communities are echo chambers where the echoes get solidified into babbling screeches.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 02:01 AM
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