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| 1 | I think before anything, The system of men chasing and women choosing needs to changeOr she's too distracted thinking about her next Slumber Party. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 02:51 PM |
| 19 | RIP to Japan, you guys had a good runherbivorous men [ 1 ] " ) , is used in Japan to refer to men with little or no interest in seeking marriage or finding a girlfriend I don't see a requirement that herbivore men are celibate. These herbivore men are actively not participating in the dating pool for a handful of reasons, social and economic. Prostitution is generally legal in Japan already except for p to v. Consider sex work, including something typically portrayed as non-sexual, like the girlfriend experience. A person could gue… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 11:51 AM |
| 4 | Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “.slow clap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 02:52 PM |
| 2 | If the man doesn't like the woman more the relationship will never work out. Youtubers and red pill men need to stop telling women to pursue men. Men hate to be pursued and feel uncomfortable with a woman thirsting after himOP is a troll | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenWhere's the vid? Need to verify that she was masturbating as part of research to form a well thought out opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 03:13 PM |
| – | "No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to lose"...accepting single mothers and divorcees..." lol guys this dude has solved it - be content drawing from Chad's discard pile | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 04:13 PM |
| – | "No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to lose*slow clap* This line got me: "Women also mainly reward benevolently sexist behavior. Which is more or less akin to treating women like children." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 03:43 PM |
| – | Almost half of the women having a plan B and the 80/20 rule are the legit reasons for a guy to have self-esteem issues and women shouldn't complain about it as they are the reason behind it.Bro try grammarly, free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 03:41 PM |
| 0 | It's almost impossible for a man to "use" a woman for sex unless she is mentally challenged or something.I know that you know this, you just think you’re slick. Are you a high school principal from the 70's? Who talks like this lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Below average men consider themselves average, which is the root of many problems in datinglol based | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 06:50 PM |
| – | Below average men consider themselves average, which is the root of many problems in dating"But I have seen..." Chad isn't taking Shamu out for sushi. He's backdooring her in the parking lot outside of the club. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Below average men consider themselves average, which is the root of many problems in datingWhat you see isn't necessarily an indicator of what happens. Have you ever heard of mopeds? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Below average men consider themselves average, which is the root of many problems in datingThank you for clarifying on my behalf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 02:25 PM |
| – | Below average men consider themselves average, which is the root of many problems in datingObese women think they're hot because their friends lie to them and tell them that. They ALSO think they're hot because they're Chad's last call when he needs a sure thing. "If this super-hot Chad is nailing me I must be hot." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 01:12 PM |
| – | Below average men consider themselves average, which is the root of many problems in datingBased. Men are far more likely to be realistic and honest about their appearance. Women living in echo chambers about their appearance and value in life is more than just a TV trope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 11:10 AM |
| 5 | Wife hit me, I called cops, now what…?Unfortunately, this | /r/MensRights | 20/11/23 10:58 AM |
| – | Q4Men: Why is it important that people agree that men have it harder in dating?This is a point one finger and there are several pointing back at you statement. Some men are seeking some acknowledgement that their positions in life have been misrepresented in the dating/mating world. This "victimization" is different from women, who are career-victims. You offer a great example of the female perspective, which I summarize as follows: "Look at all the things we have to worry about! How dare you have any complaints about your life, and if you do, they're 100% your fault!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 02:38 PM |
| – | Men don't get it. Women have moved onOP dropping a master class in "how to tell everyone I'm fat without saying it directly". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 05:15 PM |
| – | Men don't get it. Women have moved onLol rekt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Men who refuse to raise a child that isn’t biologically yours but want kids, why do you want kids?based | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 10:50 PM |
| -1 | What do you think about the moms who refuse DNA paternity testing? Would you refuse one yourself and if so what would be your reason or reasons?A guy can get a paternity test at any point in time (after birth) and mommy doesn't need to know. Furthermore, if you split from him you'll be getting one by court order for him to pay support. I'm sorry ladies, your collective whoring has screwed this up for the 5-10 good women remaining. Any man who can trust a woman has no idea just how bad you are, and how bad you're all okay with being. Edit: (after birth) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 01:34 PM |
| 1 | How can the friend zone really exist when women don’t really have male friends?PSA for dudes - if you're doing things for an available woman that a boyfriend/mate does, (such as helping them move or household repairs), and you are NOT plowing that field, you are in the friend zone and you don't know it. Women ghost because you made a move after correctly assessing that you were performing services/duties for her that a mate would do but misinterpreted her using you as a tool as her having a genuine romantic interest. That shit is awkward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 01:21 PM |
| 0 | Men should just refuse to get marriedThe dissenters are women who want you to be more emotionally available, but also keep your emotions on the DL. Men aren't allowed to have needs outside of the most basic needs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 01:28 PM |
| 9 | Fellas do you guys think there's some truth to this comment?This opinion may be shared by many people, men or women. This commentary I feel represents the product of an en masse lack of self-awareness on the part of the modern woman. The truth is that women saying things like this are in complete denial of their position. The hottest chicks aren't out there arguing with non-Chads online; They're too busy screwing Chads. Whoever authored this is likely a low-value option who believes she is worth more than she is because Chad last-called her and knocked t… | /r/MensRights | 03/09/23 04:31 PM |
| 1 | It's not all badThis belongs on the front page. | /r/MensRights | 24/08/23 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Do men want a woman like this?Yep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: what do you REALLY think of chubby girls?It's because getting raw-dogged makes them feel pretty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Why would a woman marry young if her husband will eventually end up lusting after younger women?I don't agree with the premise of this question. Let's be real - we are all rotting, 100% of the time. You can glow up all you want, but you're older today than you were yesterday. This it true of all people. We are never as attractive as our younger selves, assuming you're in good health for comparison. This is true of all people, not just women. You have to decide if you think that you can live with not being the most attractive person that your partner sees every day. This is true of all peop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 05:54 PM |
| 3 | Online misandrists remind me of my mother.Thanks! My karma is all from shit-posting. Tl;dr, you have to take those feelings and all that negativity and eat it, and suffer it, because nobody, ESPECIALLY not women, gives a shit about a dude's emotional struggles. | /r/MensRights | 22/08/23 05:30 PM |
| 8 | Online misandrists remind me of my mother.Toxic masculinity is the chief way to cope my dude. | /r/MensRights | 22/08/23 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Too many women want a father, not a husband.These same bored, pampered women often cheat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 07:32 PM |
| 1 | My partners ex super sucks. He needs some support, but we’re lost and can’t find it.Pay a meth head 50 bucks to deal with her, or woman up and fight her. | /r/MensRights | 21/08/23 11:07 AM |
| 5 | Do you think it's problematic for men to prefer petite women?BASED | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentBased | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 01:02 PM |
| 20 | Australian journalist believes women should 'date up' and choose richer, successful men as she explains why it's not 'gold digging'. OP: Top comment, "Every day, the same old gal with no husband, telling single girls how to get a man".We should normalize hypergamy-focused conversation with our boys so that they can do nothing with their lives and wait for a rich woman to financially secure them. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/23 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentYikes, you got me. Sorry it took me so long to respond, my partner and I were putting our kids to bed. You are a typical woman who can't be bothered to logically defend your feelings-based argument against an honest counterpoint. I hope your bf of 2 months finds a new cocksocket. Bro is probably sticking around until you get your next period so he knows he goes to bounce. I'm monogamous and shooting blanks btw, since you seem to be extremely concerned with where my shot goes. Peace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentNo emotional rant here. I'm a dude. So, what is your position if the law agreed that men shouldn't have financial responsibility? Or, better yet, pre-sex contracts to dictate expected behaviors in the event of unplanned pregnancy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentIt sounds like you agree with me that the reason you think that a man should pay is because it's his legal responsibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentYour answer was "because". My entire position is that the real issue behind this topic is a matter of what's legal and what isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentI mean this one https://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/PTnaH2bu2R | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentShe said you still didn't answer this question https://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/f62ZyKu4t1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentMy pretend girlfriend is here laughing at you too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentI can do this all day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentBitch please. Don't act like my being bored with your emotional argument is the same as you running me off. You're low-value, in your thirties still dating, childless, and at or approaching the age of geriatric pregnancy (the milk's gone bad). This conversation that you're having doesn't even apply to you since you'll have to go to a fertility doctor if you want to get pregnant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentOk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentYou sound like a single mother | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentWomen saying they need men's financial support to raise a child is just reinforcing the idea that traditional relationships and traditional gender roles are superior. Come up with a better reason than "because". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 02:17 AM |
| 5 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentWhy should he pay for a child he made? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentIMO, the more practical step is to legislate this further with sex contracts so that expectations of all parties involved are discussed prior to intercourse. Then the parties will be forced to discuss potential outcomes of intercourse and both parties will have contractual, legal obligations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 01:51 AM |
| 5 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentIt seems tit for tat. If the woman's biology can make a financial choice for the man, why shouldn't his biology be able to make a choice for her? It's hyperbole, and I truly don't condone violence. I do consider it violence that a night of consent for both parties can result in a woman taking money from a man. Money is earned and costs time that you can't get back. You can put a price on the cost of life in years or dollars that an unwanted pregnancy could cost a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentBased biology take | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 01:33 AM |
| – | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentI like that you're acknowledging that the issue is rooted in biology. Let's process this with a hypothetical. Say a man and woman consent to sex and the woman gets pregnant. Assume the woman doesn't want to terminate, but the guy does. Is it ok for him to biologically throw her down the stairs until she miscarries? Is it ok if the male biologically spikes her drink with some plan B? The argument is a matter of law in all scenarios. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentWho hurt you? I appreciate that you're acknowledging that men have less control. I'm no deadbeat, and any man who sees logic in the concept of "financial abortion" isn't doomed to be a deadbeat It's wrong to say that this is "the case due to biology". This is a legal matter, plain and simple. Governments will not let a child suffer hunger or homelessness, which costs money. There is a practical case for forwarding those costs to the sperm donor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentThat's why I posted a reply. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 12:59 AM |
| 6 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentThe idea of a financial abortion is about the man having a stake in whether a birth happens, but being powerless to influence the outcome post-concepton. This is not about men trying to abandon children. The heart of the argument is that women having total control over an outcome that affects others. A man makes one choice, a pregnancy happens as a consequence, then he's victim to a mutual failure to use contraception, contraceptive device failure, or feminine deception tactics. A woman makes on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 12:53 AM |
| -2 | Would it be a dealbreaker to you if a man lied about his height by saying he is shorter than he is?It's a debate. The point is discourse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 03:45 AM |
| -3 | Would it be a dealbreaker to you if a man lied about his height by saying he is shorter than he is?Based af | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Would it be a dealbreaker to you if a man lied about his height by saying he is shorter than he is?https://gprivate.com/6684d | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Would it be a dealbreaker to you if a man lied about his height by saying he is shorter than he is?Doesn't seem internalized to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 03:30 AM |
| 6 | Would it be a dealbreaker to you if a man lied about his height by saying he is shorter than he is?The question is like asking if someone is going to bounce if they find out that their partner has some other universally desired trait. This scenario is cousin to any of the terrible deception men participate in, like the extremely common scenarios below: "The date was great, but I found out he was an Internet millionaire and I was pretty upset that he didn't tell me". "The date was great, but his abs were perfectly formed and he lied about it". "The date was great, but his penar was perfectly f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 03:22 AM |
| 3 | Would it be a dealbreaker to you if a man lied about his height by saying he is shorter than he is?I'm proud of this comment and it looks great out of context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Would it be a dealbreaker to you if a man lied about his height by saying he is shorter than he is?Based | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Would it be a dealbreaker to you if a man lied about his height by saying he is shorter than he is?You can't honestly expect women at large to value honesty over a superficial lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 03:13 AM |
| 4 | Would it be a dealbreaker to you if a man lied about his height by saying he is shorter than he is?Based | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 03:11 AM |
| – | Would it be a dealbreaker to you if a man lied about his height by saying he is shorter than he is?Anyone who says it's over is a liar. If I find out my date is a claimable mountain of man instead of a manlet, I'm definitely going to climb and plant my flag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 03:05 AM |
| 6 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?At some eventual age I assume most men who aren't Catholic want a vasectomy. You don't want to be knocking the bottom out of it when you're in your 40's and 50's and crank out kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 10:03 PM |
| 27 | I am still trying to figure out what "emotional labor" means.Women typically think of men as intellectually/emotionally less than. This is why you often hear about women "training" men like they're dogs. Women believe that men are not capable of processing emotions in a meaningful way. | /r/MensRights | 15/08/23 04:50 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Women don’t like men who have to approach because the men they want are the sort of guys who don’t have to approachI say just make a tshirt with your dick size, height, body weight, and salary on it and see who comes at you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Would you marry a promiscuous guy?Women prefer men who have had a lot of partners because it affirms their decision to be with him. The implications are that he's experienced, he's been vetted by other women and doesn't have major red flags, and other women theoretically would be envious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 04:10 PM |
| 1 | A lot of women are awfully entitled to male company and friendshipAnd even then, they would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 08:07 PM |
| 1 | A lot of women are awfully entitled to male company and friendshipThey would, unless you are so fat and/or unattractive that sex is off the table. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 08:06 PM |
| 1 | A lot of women are awfully entitled to male company and friendship"This gets my wonder if this explains the so-called male loneliness "problem". Maybe it is not as much a problem at all, men simply are choosing loneliness over doing free labor for women." I think that most people in general would prefer not to participate in a unidirectional relationship. The male loneliness "problem" as you put it isn't about friendship. You are conflating friendship with the struggles of men who want to be in relationships and are struggling to find an avenue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 03:40 PM |
| 1 | So how exactly do men "deceive" women into sex?I've slept with women and ghosted after. It was never because the sex was the prize. It was because I found out that they had hygiene issues, were pillow princesses, or we simply had other sexual incompatibilities. Ladies you need to understand, you're not easy to break bad news to. It's much easier to cut ties on a nil investment relationship than try and help you learn how to not smell downstairs or wash your ass proper. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 11:57 AM |
| 2 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeThere's some truth to this, but the real question is why is this advice directed at men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 10:21 PM |
| 1 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeBased | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 10:19 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women are incredibly entitled and take male providers for grantedThis should be cross-posted to r/unpopularopinion. Women are obsessed with being considered equal to men in a household when they constantly choose ridiculous jobs that don't pay the bills. The typical woman has the mentality of a daydreaming child who follows their shitty dreams because they have the luxury of being able to rely on the responsible adult male who is unlucky enough to carry their burden. You can't pay the power bill by cooking for your family and doing your own house chores. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 10:17 PM |
| 0 | I feel like i am going crazy - isn't it the de facto standard when the genders are reversed in marriage?I realize it's not in the spirit of the original post to this sub, but I'm about equal rights and lefts. Fuck women and their societal advantages that they refuse to acknowledge (upvote plz) I didn't say plan for Parkinson's, I said plan to take care of them. In the US this typically means move them in with you or put them in a home, in which case Parkinson's isn't a big deal. Source: had a relative with Parkinson's who went to a nursing home same as any other elderly person. What's the expectat… | /r/MensRights | 17/07/23 01:12 PM |
| -5 | I feel like i am going crazy - isn't it the de facto standard when the genders are reversed in marriage?Unpopular opinion- I don't think this guy's an asshole. I think he's being a baby. He should have had the foresight to plan for this outcome and now he's mad because his wife doesn't want to support another household. If I expected to/hoped to financially provide for my elderly parents, I sure as hell wouldn't be a teacher. I'm a guy in the US and I cannot argue with the wife's position. | /r/MensRights | 17/07/23 12:07 PM |
| 2 | One of my friends has to pay alimony to his ex indefinitely, and I think it's insane.This is why husbands kill wives. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/23 09:08 AM |
| 2 | If it were truly about equality, why aren't feminists trying to make it so that the default awarding of primary physical custody is not always given to the woman?My comment was intended to be satire, but til about tender years. | /r/MensRights | 23/05/23 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Be a deadbeat.You're either not a father or you're a woman/simp. You think OP is going to let his kids starve or do without basic needs? Divorce is too easy/attractive for women because they know they can continue being pieces of feces and get a free house as severance. Mommy chose to make these kids outcomes worse, and that's what I'm pointing out with the article. | /r/MensRights | 23/05/23 11:46 AM |
| 4 | Be a deadbeat.https://www.fixfamilycourts.com/single-mother-home-statistics/ | /r/MensRights | 23/05/23 11:22 AM |
| 0 | If it were truly about equality, why aren't feminists trying to make it so that the default awarding of primary physical custody is not always given to the woman?This is a consequence of natural order. When a prehistoric man was hunting, his partner was already on her ass at home eating bonbons, bitching that he doesn't bring home enough food, while also complaining that he doesn't take an active enough role in raising the kids. That's all before she cheats on him with an unemployed man of lesser means. Then she abandons her partner for supposed greener pastures, taking away the kids that "she raised" out of necessity and at least half of our caveman vic… | /r/MensRights | 23/05/23 11:11 AM |
| 34 | Women cheat more than men in pre-wedding parties - 43.36% of female guests compared to about 40.06% of male guests. In the state with the widest gap, 59.4% of women compared to 21.9% of men. 5% of brides vs. 4.8% of grooms. And the feminist menbad while excusing women's cheating still lingers.Oh, hey Chad, didn't know you were on this sub. All men pay for sex, even if it's money or time spent on self-improvement. | /r/MensRights | 23/05/23 10:50 AM |
| 4 | Be a deadbeat.Daddy issues detected | /r/MensRights | 23/05/23 10:38 AM |
| 26 | Why is female locker room talk allowed nowadays?Modern Western women genuinely don't seem to understand the concept of shame outside of not wanting to be "slut-shamed". | /r/MensRights | 23/05/23 10:22 AM |
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