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M31, If anything it seems that all the hot cool girls are in LTRs already, sad I missed the first wave lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 11:12 AM
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As an autistic guy I definitely think Women have a better time dating in this context, even if it is to utilise sex to get someone’s “foot in the door”, at least you have a desirable door. I have even been on a date with an autistic girl once who seemed put off the moment I mentioned I was too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:53 PM
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Most claims to “socialization” are bs. Do you know how long it takes for evolution to meaningfully change anything? Biology drives us and intergender relations way more than feminists will ever admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:35 AM
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That’s of the people who get married, as a segment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:35 PM
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I can still fuck occasionally. But I hate that I have to be a minor asshole to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:20 PM
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How are 2/3 of Women in relationships with 1/2 of Men if hypergamy isn’t involved
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:13 PM
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Sadly in this world kindness is usually perceived as weakness, lack of boundaries or supplication.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 12:32 PM
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1000% Somehow 9 months of pregnancy is infinitesimally worse than 18 years of forced labour for a child you don’t want and only Men ultimately have to “take responsibility”. Both genders deserve abortion rights. Men, get a vasectomy to protection your freedom.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 01:58 PM
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27-29% based on your images, is where I would say it starts to affect her dating life noticeably, exponentially worse for each image after that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:32 PM
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Perpetual distraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:39 AM
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Women are barely attracted to Men when you take resources and security out of the equation. Nature is cruel and the forced socialisation of trying to make women equal to men in business is making it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:41 PM
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B-but the right person will come along, there’s someone out there for everyone!!! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:39 PM
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Sounds like you’re trying to convince yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:33 AM
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I’m not for keeping Women in relationships to achieve more dating. If that’s the only thing that would help to stop dating decreasing then I would be against it because of individual rights and freedoms. What I would say is, is there anything Men and Women can do, not anecdotally, but empirically to improve dating outcomes overall. IF and only if it’s important enough to people to improve them. At the moment the roots of the issue are beginning to show but there’s not a ton of mainstream recogni…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:08 AM
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Don’t put words in my mouth, I’m not mad at that at all, but it’s also contributing to a systemic decline in dating, so it’s surely worth a conversation in society? Unless we’re happy to accept perma-decline, virtual metaverse and sex robot relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:57 AM
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You know nothing about me and make a ton of personal attacks and judgements because your arguments are trash and feelings based. I feel sorry for you being IQ50 it must be nice living life in blissful ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:18 PM
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/the-new-resilience/201508/women-initiate-divorce-much-more-men-heres-why
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:59 PM
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Well the earth being sucked into a black hole seems like an even bigger issue but I don’t spend my life worrying about that. Spans of control and all that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:43 PM
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It’s possible for those things to be mutually inclusive, I am bothered about inflation and climate change also.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:11 PM
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Women have nothing to lose from marriage now. Just a fantasy day to play Princess and take half his stuff later if she’s bored
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:37 PM
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I don’t think about you at all
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:02 PM
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Because I’m interested in the stats and macro trends not anecdotal experiences. If you don’t think an empirically increasing amount of single people, a lot of them lonely and depressed isn’t a sad thing and not worth at least debating, then maybe we should all avoid each other and live in the metaverse idk
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:58 PM
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From a perspective. If potential reproductive quality is the most valuable and important factor. But who’s going to look after those kids when dark triad chad leaves? The other 80% are getting wiser and aren’t going to be happy being cucked for money by a single mom or indirectly via high taxation through the state. Not to mention the issues children are more likely to have growing up in a single parent household. So in a sentence they’d start with arguably the best potential for future realisab…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:51 PM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:43 PM
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You’re being intellectually lazy or purposefully disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:38 PM
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If income isn’t important to Women as you both say and they are independent, WHY are they still dating for income according to the studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:11 PM
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So independent that they provably choose to date across and up. Funny how “love” doesn’t typically work for Women dating Men with less status or salary than them. https://www.oregonlive.com/trending/2019/09/ladies-its-not-you-there-just-arent-enough-economically-attractive-men-to-marry-study-says.html https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/dating/marriage-rates-decline-reason-economically-attractive-men-jobs-income-a9098956.html
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:47 PM
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I wish I was gay sometimes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:24 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:24 PM
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She’s my team mate but it doesn’t mean we are the same. We’re not business partners or friends, we bring different qualities and energies to the relationship. I want to treat her more, be more of a rock emotionally and protect her if it came to it. Masculine and feminine energy and polarity means more attraction not less. If you want to find a boring relationship with a dead bedroom, look no further than the couples who strive for the “equal partnership” fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:59 AM
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What do you mean “equal grounds”?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:41 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:39 AM
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T̶h̶e̶y̶ society
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:54 AM
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Truth
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:51 AM
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Great post
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:49 AM
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I don’t want children. But to answer your question, of course not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:33 PM
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You’re assuming there’s enough incentive to do that. The juice isn’t worth the squeeze for LTRs with the majority of modern Women. Casual sex, no commitment and nihilistic hedonism are the only rational ways to live now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:18 PM
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I can’t discuss anything with someone who sounds like they’re IQ50 and from the movie Idiocracy soz
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:08 PM
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What, once, arguably? Lol. Nice anecdote.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:03 PM
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That’s not how the real world works. Other people decide what your value is. That’s why gender studies students can demand a $100k salary out of college all they want but no one is going to give it to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:03 PM
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Don’t have an issue at all, that’s great
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:02 PM
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I can’t explain it any simpler sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:27 PM
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Obsolete socially but not biologically. You can’t shift millions of years of evolution with 50 years of attempted socialisation. Women are still hot for these traits, they just struggle to find them since they are hell bent of bossbitch-ing themselves out of the market for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:27 PM
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Being stronger and more responsible than they are. No, I just don’t think 50 years of socialisation changes thousands of years of opposite socialisation and millions of years of biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:25 PM
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I don’t believe you on this and no guy I ask in RL would either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:16 PM
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No. I mean by itself. Are Women going to date people just because they’re good? Or is good something they aim for along other characteristics? I’d wager everything on the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:09 PM
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Because being a good person always got her excited /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:06 PM
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So whats the solution for increased dating in todays equal universe then
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:06 PM
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They’ll never recognise that until it does stop and the lights go out though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:59 PM
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They’ll never recognise that until it does stop and the lights go out though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:59 PM
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If you care, then people decide if you have value or not. If no one wants cereal does it have any value? No not really. What if literally everyone wants cereal? Different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:52 PM
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Right so the people who realllyyyyyyyy want to get married are staying together slightly more often. Overall marriages are still down though. In any case my fight isn’t necessarily for marriages but more LTRs. Marriage is an antiquated luxury for wealthy or older people at this stage. LTRs are the true battleground for younger people now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:51 PM
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Lol like Women date Men primarily for personality, give me a break
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:48 PM
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It’s absolutely not irrelevant. How else can you look at stats? It’s not possible to experience other people’s anecdotal experiences en masse to build trends
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:42 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:39 PM
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I’d expect her list to be the same but for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:38 PM
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Anecdotal experience doesn’t equal the statistical reality lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:37 PM
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These are just observations. I’m not saying what I want to happen other than I’d like to see us all dating more haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:36 PM
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Most modern Women offer nothing other than P, so that’s probably why we don’t get along anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:29 PM
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Because love is conditional, especially for Women and what they require of Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:27 PM
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Beyond physically attractive… nice to be around, friendly, feminine, makes effort looking nice, finds my sense of humour funny, holds me to high standards, respects me, let’s me be the leader, let’s me treat her more often than she treats me, not a h0e for the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:24 PM
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Go back to my first line………….
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:22 PM
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Who’s forcing them? Men used to earn more money, be of value to Women and needed and they were more happy to engage with us on that basis. Far as I can tell coercion hasn’t been legal or fashionable for centuries, so I don’t see what your point is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:22 PM
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No I’m a stats person, I just care about people and society and future.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:16 PM
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https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2016/may/18/womens-rights-happiness-wellbeing-gender-gap https://quillette.com/2015/11/02/the-paradox-of-female-happiness-2/ https://www.vox.com/the-highlight/2019/11/13/20959863/women-happy-chores-gender-gap
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:14 PM
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This is not about me, I’m talking about gender dynamics, society and trends into the future as a whole. Most Men in the entirety of history have probably buxxed, let’s be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:10 PM
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Said from a true position of privilege lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:08 PM
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Sure. That’s not the same as happiness though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:07 PM
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I can absolutely get a date, less and less with a Woman who is worth dating beyond casual fun though. That aside, does that not mean I can’t worry about society and trends and future of people generally?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:06 PM
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Lol this is painful… Firstly I said MARRIAGE rates have been declining not divorce rates are rising. Secondly, the reason divorce rates are falling are because marriage rates have been falling!! Someone has to be married FIRST in order to have a divorce next. So if there are less marriages overall, then there are less opportunities to divorce overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:02 PM
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Divorce rates are at a low because marriage rates are at a low. Oh gosh 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:52 PM
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Marriage has been declining since the early 70s. No, I just think there’s a difference between casual sex and actually dating. I don’t think that’s revolutionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:47 PM
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Largely agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:38 PM
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There’s a difference between using someone’s body to masturbate and dating .
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:37 PM
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And what if hardly anyone dates because of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:34 PM
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Agree. But I think it’s a struggle for most guys and I think it could hurt both sides. I hope everyone’s happy all said and done.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:30 PM
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Literally go back to the first line. Maybe the only reason Women largely dated Men was because they needed them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:26 PM
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Because I want to feel responsible and like I’m looking after her. Does this mean she’s entirely dependant on me? No. But she motivates me to be the best version of myself and absolutely kill it at life and the admiration and respect received in return is a beautiful feeling when you get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:04 PM
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Actually getting a decent LTR. But for the most part Women destroyed the incentives for Men to be motivated to engage in LTRs and marriage so
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:01 PM
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You’re putting the cart before the horse here. Historically Men have had to exhibit those things (at least on a superficial) level if they want a relationship, especially if they aren’t conventionally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 12:14 PM
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In English what I’m saying is, Women are choosing to spend their prime years buoyed on by the culture, in casual hookups with guys more attractive than them. The elite guys will bang them but not settle down with them and then the Women are getting to 30-35 and being like “fuck I’m running out of time to settle down and have kids” where are all the chads who used to bang me :(…” “Shit, what about all the decent average guys I ignored that will have to do!” And to a degree that used to work the l…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 12:03 PM
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Because i can take a 3000 foot view and play these elements out in game theory and the consequences of various changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 11:21 AM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:20 AM
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Well I’m sure the megachads are but I don’t see the Women winning after the fact lol. If you spend your 20s thinking a hot 10 will settle down with you because he’s happy to pump you and it never happens because you’re punching way above your objective match, that’s not so conducive to long term happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:19 AM
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Rape is not the only alternative, the things I mentioned are alternatives, traditions, social norms and social pressure - not force. The elite at the top are more interested in a fractured and atomised society of individuals who are easy to control, not communities of empowered, confident and incentivised people. Well that’s quite easy, you think there’s no downside to freedoms in sexual selection? We should be free to choose them but that doesn’t make it good for the individual necessarily. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:17 AM
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For a start, no one said anything about rape except you. When I say freedom, I mean the freedom from traditional, social norms and social shaming which could be argued existed for a reason to create a stable monogamous society. Of course more freedoms can be bad, don’t be naive. If I have the freedom to legally and easily smoke meth every day that’s not going to do me much good. It wasn’t worse for everyone lol. Racism aside it was easier to have a middle class life in America in the 1950s on on…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:00 AM
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Depends if you care about society and inter gender relations and birth rates - and on a deeper level happiness and fulfilment. Because all those things will be negatively impacted for both genders by the severing of the traditional social norms. If you care about total freedom at the expense of everything else, then sure it’s better. But it’s going to lead to a lot of unhappy and unfulfilled people. Actually I’m kind of on your side because I’ve given up on the old order, it’s very unlikely to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 07:38 AM
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Lmao in what way do Men benefit from marriage? And nice way to extrapolate the top 0.01% of successful men and apply that to the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 07:16 AM
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You all are and it’s usually the cock carousel with megachads in your 20s who happily smash and leave, but never settle down with you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 07:13 AM
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Sure, isn’t it problematic in the short term that modern society is trying to destroy much of the incentive for Women to date Men in the first place though? 30 years of changed socialisation doesn’t just magically wipe out 6000 years of socialisation and millions of years of evolutionary biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 07:10 AM
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Daft analogy. We don’t all have to compete in basketball that’s a choice out of hundreds of thousands of careers lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 07:08 AM
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Not right now. I’m in my early 30s so want someone who is a clean slate and ideally doesn’t want kids. That said if I’m 50 and single and their kids are over 18 then I wouldn’t mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 08:56 AM
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Marriage is dead and the incentives for LTRs are even seriously hampered. I see the future of relationships as casual sex for the top 20% Men and 40% of Women and everyone else filling the void with sex toys, sex robots and virtual metaverse partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 08:48 AM
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They have it the wrong way round. Married people make more money. It’s not because they are married that they make more money, it’s because in order to get married they have to have money. Especially the Man for the hypergamous spouse.
/r/MensRights15/04/22 06:12 PM
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Not often mentioned, but related… A child is the biggest financial liability of your life, attaches you permanently to a women who can divorce you at the slightest negative and makes you a slave to a job in order to earn child support. Vasectomy is freedom.
/r/MensRights15/04/22 06:09 PM
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Nice guys don’t create tingles. At least pre-30s anyway lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 09:26 PM
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This is very prescient. It sounds like freedom, but only if freedom ends in loneliness, sex bots, virtual partners, anti-depressants and increased suicide rates
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 07:54 PM
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For buxxing statistically yes, for casual sex no.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 07:59 PM
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Lol facts. wHy aReNt tHeY cOmInG tHrOuGh mY pHoNe sCrEeN!?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:08 PM
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Except the reasons are far greater than they’ve ever been. Of course not complaining and not saturating oneself in this stuff is going to yield slightly better results because you’re more optimistic. That said it’s not going to change technological, social or economic factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 07:18 AM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:46 PM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:45 PM
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Your whole strategy is to buxx lol Why not just play the alpha dark triad vibes and have fun smashing with the odd coffee date thrown in
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:45 PM
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Truth bombs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 05:25 AM
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Lol I forgot having a kid wasn’t a choice…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 05:24 AM
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Because. Where’s the incentive to start again?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 10:18 PM
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True, but Women broke their end of the social “bargain” first. Now no one wants to blink first, because you would be losing if the other side doesn’t immediately reciprocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 10:12 PM
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donthavekids
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:53 AM
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Except the food is mostly bang average or worse, so there’s barely any incentive except to sustain your biological imperative lols
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 07:11 AM
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Lmao this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 07:10 AM
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The metaverse and sex bots could be an opiate to the problem. As dystopian as it sounds it could be normal to have a virtual partner in 20 years, a lot changes in a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 06:54 AM
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I would be willing to wager most of them have issues in one way or another and they prefer solitude with a lot of masturbating rather than a lot of shagging.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 01:02 PM
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And aren’t todays population the descendants of the monogamists of yesterday 😂🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 12:14 PM
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Except if you backwards extrapolate that, that can’t even be remotely true since birth rates are declining and population growth is now disinflationary and set to be deflationary in a lot of countries by mid century.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 09:47 AM
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So? This isn’t the same as regular dating, regular sex or amount of partners. All this says is 61.6% of Men had sex with at least one Woman, at least once. Obviously minus the step dads.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 05:29 AM
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Dude have you ever had a Woman ask you to open a stiff jar or lift something heavy. Tell me you didn’t light up inside 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 09:09 PM
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How do you figure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 06:10 PM
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Still better 20 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 07:07 AM
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That’s all well and good but in reality, for dating and sexual relationships you don’t give yourself value, the market does.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 07:07 AM
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Society worked for thousands of years, we’ve taken a scalpel to the social norms and everything is cascading into nihilistic degeneracy. Where no one is really happy on average. I see only two choices, accept and double down on the degeneracy or return to somewhat more traditional ways which existed for thousands of years for a reason. Frankly I think it’s too late anyway, I think we’re all fucked on multiple levels
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 06:08 AM
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Never thought I’d say it but Islam might be the only hope lol. Only traditional belief system that actually takes itself seriously these days
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 10:09 PM
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Yeah max out your looks and get good at quick conversation, situational humour, light banter. If you can make her laugh and are relatable you could be halfway to having a really fun time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 06:57 PM
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The “truth” or “mainstream” view about many things just didn’t add up for me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 06:39 PM
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None of those are anywhere near the stimulating levels of dopamine release from a porn session. Who tf is checking into therapy for an addiction to reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:48 AM
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Your brain is “neuroplastic” it gets better at whatever you repeatedly do by rewiring itself for that activity or experience. That’s entirely up to you. But my answer for myself would be to mimic as closely as possible normal sex with one woman, so I’m not skewing away from the average sex experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:43 AM
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Depends what frame you’re going for. If you want to buxx then fine it works but expensive haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:10 AM
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Agree 100% with this. Training your brain to get off to being a spectator
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:06 AM
0

Bro just go for coffees haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:06 AM
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I’ve always thought if there were a pill to temporarily lower your sex drive, that would be a game changer for Men and destroy the tendency to overthirst.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 09:13 PM
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Also doesn’t take into account the amount of free stuff especially young attractive Women get lols.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 11:30 AM
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No absolutely not. It’s correlated heavily with pornified modern cultural degeneracy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:43 AM
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I don’t think you need a study for this one, just stating an observable truth for anyone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 03:57 PM
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Definitely. Too many cumbrains out their now and it comes with issues like sexual performance with a real person
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:26 PM
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It wouldn’t surprise me. The social engineering and technology changed now are essentially lessening the incentives that Men and Women had to engage with each other in this way. Why date when you can just fap? Why lose weight when you can just fap? Why settle for someone average when you can just fap? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 10:00 AM
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I think most Men want a submissive feminine pick-me Woman deep down. The problem is the modern world and dating scene is so warped, that it seems asinine giving up one’s freedom to occasionally pump and leave to that to risk settling down in a serious traditional arrangement when most Women are too changed by modernity. The only way I could see myself doing it, is in the very specific context of being mega religious and meeting an attractive younger Woman through church who is also just as relig…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 05:51 AM
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Lol big assumption that Men value actual reproduction with one Woman, over NSA smash abundance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 11:17 AM
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Ironically, Women incentivise dark triad and alpha male behaviours while simultaneously complaining about it. Start fucking exclusively betas and “toxic” masculinity will disappear in a generation. But that won’t happen, the tingles are too good to ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 07:29 AM
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This only works as a Man if you have (or at least perceived to have) a pimp AF lifestyle on insta.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 07:18 PM
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It’s not that we see ourselves like that, it’s that society as a whole does. If you’re a Man and you’re not creating value in some way you’re basically dog shit to society and drastically damage your ability to attract quality partners. I suppose the flip-side for Women is that while they are valued a lot more for just existing, their accomplishments in the business world aren’t recognised as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 09:58 PM
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Yeah #notallanything That’s not how data works lol. Almost nothing in this world is absolute.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 03:31 PM
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TL;DR: it depends massively on how she sees the individual guy. It’s classic AFBB, alpha fucks, beta bucks (on average and with exceptions like anything). Women are more likely to break rules, be more desperate and be more casual for guys they instinctively deem as alpha or dark triad or whichever psychological prism you want to use. These are the guys they are likely to be happy being exclusively casual with. Women seem happy to settle down with beta guys, especially after the epiphany phase (c…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 03:29 PM
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No but in modern dating looks are the biggest factor, especially online where you only get a ‘2D’ visual experience and inundated with potential choice people (especially Women) will filter visually. Of course humour and personality are dimensions, but the other strong reason historically for dating a Man; his ability to earn and provide resources is being naturally and artificially negated by modern social changes. Women don’t often date down, so the more they earn the smaller the pool of poten…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 03:19 PM
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Most Women would not fuck any guy who’s not fat or ugly. They won’t even swipe on them on OLD lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 03:04 PM
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This is what happens when you take a sociological experiment knife to thousands of years of civilisation and millions of years of evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 01:38 PM
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I don’t disagree with this, but the percentage is pretty high lol. It’s true that if you limit the supply of anything (assuming demand stays roughly the same) then it’s value will increase. There’s probably a lot of sex at college since it’s female dominated for that very reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 01:18 PM
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Lol no it’s not, because most Men would fuck basically anyone who’s not fat or ugly, whereas it’s actually an achievement for a guy to get laid. A true high value Woman (for guys) is someone that you would actively want to wife up, or at the very least have a long term relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 01:11 PM
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Great, Men too, can’t wait to get my vasectomy this year. Forever free from baby trapping.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 10:56 AM
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Don’t have kids then. There’s your solution. No blocker or disruption to your career rise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 07:12 AM
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“If she turns up pregnant is the kid definitely definitely going to be mine?” Now imagine millions of years of evolution around this fear
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:47 AM
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Because Men and Women aren’t the same
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:46 AM
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I think technology helped scale simping to an industrial level
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:34 AM
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B-but the tingles are too good to ignore!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/22 06:04 AM
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At work or for situational humour yes, otherwise no
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 07:02 PM
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Because people are having less kids and because the majority of men have less and less incentive to go above and beyond in their contribution to making society better. I don’t think societal decline looks like a collapse but more like apathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:13 PM
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Onlyfans. No exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 09:19 PM
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Right. 99.9% of FDS Women will never get what they seek. The Women high value enough for those standards wouldn’t waste their time in that sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 04:10 PM
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Things have changed so much that this is only worth pursuing if you go all out into fully dedicated strict religion. And most people aren’t willing to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:27 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:15 PM
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Believe it or not, other human beings need to labour to produce food for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:23 PM
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Yes but there’s an asymmetry in how much each gender values looks/youth/fertility. Sure everyone starts looking worse over 30 but Men value looks, youth and (implied) fertility much more than Women do. Therefore it’s fair to say that both decline after 30 physically, but the decline for Women is more extreme and more noticeable, both for her peers and herself. Men can sometimes make up for this difference in resources and status (even if he is buxxing in the process), but not many young studs ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:49 PM
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Not to mention, most men wouldn’t have an LTR with a Woman who has done OF and if she’s a big earner, the amount of Men she would date (dating up) is going to be an incredibly small percentage anyway - so I hope they are chill about no relationships for the sake of their mental health. Either way pet food companies could be good long term investments.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 08:33 AM
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