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NewsXorFish/r/MensRights19/11/14 08:33 PM
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Raising AwarenessXorFish/r/MensRights22/06/14 02:33 PM
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Blogs/VideoXorFish/r/MensRights15/06/14 06:11 PM
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mediaXorFish/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/10/24 09:19 AM
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MR Blogs/VlogsXorFish/r/MensRights14/06/14 09:03 AM
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Blogs/VideoXorFish/r/MensRights20/06/14 04:50 PM
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Anti-MRAXorFish/r/MensRights01/07/14 03:51 PM
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StoryXorFish/r/MensRights16/06/14 07:20 PM
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re: FeminismXorFish/r/MensRights11/07/14 12:47 PM
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It is difficult to get at the ground truth. From the studies I have seen I would argue that a female perpetrator is more likely to report their perpetration than a male perpetrator. On the other hand, a male victim is less likely to report their victimisation than a female victim. Same thing happens for domestic violence. A possible reason for that is, that the femininity of a women is not challenged when they report beeing a victimor a perpetrator of intimate or sexual violence. For men it is n…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/12/24 05:47 PM
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I found the discussion very interesting. It is clear that Richard Reeves as well as George have the best interest for men at heart and both are willing to engage with different viewpoints. The sliding scale of controversy of male issues (education, suicide/mental health, healthcare, domestic violence, sexual violence) is an interesting concept. Another interesting hypothesis is, that same gender environments tend to lower gender expression.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/10/24 08:30 AM
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Personally I think that religious reasons for mutilating the genitals of babies are not valid.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/09/24 01:38 PM
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Yes, mental load is definitely something to consider. The linked research is pretty flawed because it only asked mothers. You experience all the mental load that you do, but hardly any of the work that others do. There is already a big bias with normal work, it seems reasonable to expect the bias to be even bigger with mental work. I would also argue that paid work is also a source of mental load work. The total amount of paid and unpaid work done is about the same between the genders, I don't r…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/24 10:53 AM
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Here are two good videos about the term patriarchy. I personally don't think patriarchy is an accurate or useful term to describe today's western society and that "systemic sexism" is a broader, less sexist and more useful term to use when talking about systemic gender issues. Is It Time To Replace Patriarchy Theory? (Manly Monday) The Term The Community Chose To Replace Patriarchy Theory (Feedback Friday) Even if you don't agree with that, you are still welcome in this community.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/07/24 10:32 AM
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'i felt like i was being pressured into a sexual act i didn't want, but we didn't actually do it'. That is not one of the question that was asked. https://www.cdc.gov/nisvs/documentation/nisvsMethodologyReport.pdf Here are the questions for attempted rape: Physically Forced Rape, Attempted How many PEOPLE have ever used physical force or threats of physical harm to … [IF FEMALE] * TRY to put their mouth on your vagina or anus, but it did not happen? How many MALES have ever used physical force o…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/24 07:11 AM
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It also splis male rape victims in two categories, made to penetrate and rape. So even with these numbers, a third of rape victims are men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/24 06:24 AM
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Non-gender based violence is distributed equal among the genders if you don't want to blame the victim. So if all violence against women is gender based, then so is all violence against men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/24 07:55 AM
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What you describe is rape. The men were pressured into sex against their will.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/10/23 07:12 AM
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I'll just leave this here: https://ourworldindata.org/what-men-and-women-want-in-marriage So many surprising things.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/10/22 02:52 PM
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Thats why I use real median income and not nominal income
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/22 11:01 PM
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Sadly though, with the rising divorce rates, economic crisis, and such, Ithink its becoming less and less common for people to grow up inhealthy households where both parents are available. Divorce rates are not raising. Median real income is increasing nearly everywhere. So I don't think you can conclude that it is becoming less common for people to grow up in healthy households with both parents available.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/22 01:39 PM
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Yes, we should strive to create environments that lets more people get closer to their potential.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/02/22 07:11 AM
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In a perfect world, intelligence would be 100% heritable. Heritability in genetics is not that easy to understand. Heritability is defined as the proportion in the variation of a trait that can be explained by genes. The heritability of the number of fingers that humans have is pretty close to 0%. Knowing if someone is a carpenter carries much more information about the number of fingers than all their genes. The bigger the difference in environments for different people is, the less important a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/02/22 06:47 AM
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Memory is really unreliable. You can be absolutely certain that they have the right guy but still be wrong.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/11/21 06:12 PM
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where do you get the intimate partner part from? Is a rape less bad if it is by an intimate partner?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/21 09:03 AM
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because this ostensibly relies on largely homosexual or bisexual men, who occupy a much smaller portion of the population. How do you know that? You can't just assume that. Even with the lifetime data, you get that around 1 in 3 rape victims are men. Most of whom are raped by women. All the data we have points towards that most male rape victims are raped by women and that male victims make up 30% - 50% of rape victims. There is a plausible explanation for the discrepancy between 12 month and li…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/21 08:59 AM
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You need to look for the stats about the perpetrators of made to penetrate. Most men that are raped are classified as "made to penetrate" The perpetrators of made to penetrate are 80% women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/21 08:11 AM
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GiveWell is a good organisation if you want the maximum good per dollar.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/21 06:31 AM
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If you limit your options to effective birth control that does not use hormones and is reversible, then the list becomes really short. You are basically left with a copper IUD. However they make periods worse. (Unless you use an improved version like Gynefix, but this one doesn't seem to be available in the US) So there is currently no effective birth control option that is reversible and has no or mild side effects available right now.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/04/21 10:10 AM
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Regular condoms are too narrow for the average penis. I would recommend everyone to get condoms that really are the right fit for them. I also don't think that either a condom or the normal pill alone are save enough birth control options if you really don't want a child at the moment. The risk of a pregnancy is bigger than 10% with couples that only use either of them. It is a shame that there are no effective reversible birth control options for men right now, even though a possible technology…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/04/21 09:55 AM
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Testosterone is a status hormone. If aggression is rewarded with status, high testosterone levels will increase aggressive behaviour. However, if compassionate behaviour is rewarded with status, high testosterone levels will increase compassionate behaviour.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/20 03:35 PM
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Note that Phimosis is normal in children. It can also be treated by stretching the foreskin one or two times a day over the period of a few months.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/20 01:28 PM
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Yes
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/03/20 03:00 PM
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no, that is something different.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/03/20 02:31 PM
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Where is the made to penetrate listed in the rape statistics?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/03/20 02:25 PM
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What argument? Made to penetrate is not included in the rape statistics. If you look at the yearly numbers of men who were made to penetrate and compare them to the yearly numbers of women who were raped, then you see that the numbers are similar.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/03/20 01:45 PM
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Wasn't there a 2 minute video with 50k or so upvotes a few days ago?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/02/20 04:27 PM
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25% of collage women experience sexual assault. 20% of collage women will be raped. 25%-20%=5% of all sexual assaults are not rape. Are they seriously telling me that it is 4 times more likely to be raped than experience other sexual assaults?
/r/MensRights09/01/15 08:31 PM
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I'll try to give you a broader picture of what it is about. The Swiss retirement system builds on three pillars. Pillar is the age and disability insurance (AHV). Every employe and employer has to pay 4.5% of the salary to the AHV. The money goes directly to the retired. Rents varie between 1170 Fr. And 2340 Fr. Per month. It depends on how many years you have contributed towards the system. Pillar is a pension fund. The money you any your employer put in it will stay yours and is freed from tax…
/r/MensRights20/11/14 10:00 AM
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Oppression Quest... http://oppressionquest.com/
/r/MensRights13/11/14 10:31 PM
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Well, we have something similar: Just for the movies.
/r/MensRights10/11/14 09:35 PM
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Little hint: Don't read the comments. It's hard to find that much upvoted racism anywere else on youtube...
/r/MensRights09/11/14 02:05 PM
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Here you go
/r/MensRights06/11/14 08:01 PM
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Economic Left/Right: 3.25 Social Libertarian/Authoritarian: -5.59 But a lot of questions were just so unclear. Here in Switzerland we have Smatevote, it is much more specific and you can compare your results with the candidates. Here is my "smartspider: http://imgur.com/IORp8Dx For the last national elections, go here: http://www.smartvote.ch/11_ch_nr/election/index Some of the questions are specific for Switzerland, but you don't have to anwser all of them to get an accurate result.
/r/MensRights02/11/14 09:19 PM
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Yea, but is demonstrably not true. It may be true that of the 300'000 Tutsi Survivors, 70% were female (There was no source), but the Tutsi population made up only a very small proportion of the population. You have to concider that there were more killed Tutsi than survivors. So if the victims were 55% male, that would result in a great difference in the surviving population. Of the surviving population, many were infected with HIV (They recruited HIV-positives men for the rapping).
/r/MensRights28/10/14 06:43 PM
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The pre-Genocide population of Rwanda was 7.3 million. During the 100 Days they killed between 500k and 1M people. Just about 300k of the Tutsi populaion survived. A lot of them were raped and infected with HIV. I really wouldn't classify the Rwanda genocide as a gendercide. You have to remember,they wanted to exterminate the Tutsi and they got really close to complete it. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rwandan_Genocide Current overall sex ratio is 0.99male/female (as of 2006) http://en.wikipedia.…
/r/MensRights28/10/14 06:19 PM
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Sorry, I couldn't confirm the statistic about Rwanda. I didn't find any evidence that the genocide was gendered. To the contrary they killed everyone. Children, men or women. Furthermore, The killed population made up around 10% of the total population. Be allways aware that you are biased. Anyway, the other content of your comment is still great.
/r/MensRights28/10/14 10:03 AM
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I don't get that, why should any crime you commited influence the ability to go to college? But then, why let a criminal change for the better when you can keep him/her a criminal? /s
/r/MensRights04/10/14 08:24 PM
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TRANSLATION: I wish men for my son. It doesn't matter if they are athletic, live in a tree house or if they like fast cars. If they are tall or small, strong or fine. The main thing is that they like children and do their job as educators well. I was disappointed when I learned that it didn't have men in my son's creche. I would have valued it when my 16 month old child were surrounded by a man for the two days in the creche. But also at the kindergarden-age were all his external caregiver women…
/r/MensRights16/09/14 05:45 PM
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http://imgur.com/j4aiwYG That spider is far more accurate than an assignement to a party, even when there are more than 5 to choose from. (I'm from Switzerland)
/r/MensRights18/07/14 06:59 PM
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It should read Salon...
/r/MensRights16/07/14 07:04 PM
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So basicly they say the following: No, we specificly made a distiction between "made to penetrate" and "rape", therefore the men that were "made to penetrate" weren"t raped. Of course no response to the given reasons why the 12 month statistics is more accurate than the lifetime statistics. The rest is basicly: "We did a bad job at meassuring that stuff, therefor it isn't valid to use our data." Then do your fucking job
/r/MensRights15/07/14 10:53 AM
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Well here in Switzerland we have it a little better. If we get 100 000 signatures for something, the people vote on it and it becomes law when the majority supports it.
/r/MensRights13/07/14 10:28 AM
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Using rationalwiki as a source sure is the way to go. /s
/r/MensRights07/07/14 10:35 AM
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Well, I hold the opinion that women are capable human beeings who can state their opinion if they want to. So I treat them like capable huan beeings. Should I abandon that and treat them like children?
/r/MensRights06/07/14 10:30 PM
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Well, the population is now 270% greater than 1960. So the relevant number would be 320%.
/r/MensRights06/07/14 09:05 PM
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You should really make clear, that you speak about underaged kids and not grown adults who can make their own choices.
/r/MensRights05/07/14 04:11 PM
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http://imgur.com/j4aiwYG So that is my "smartspider" Political views are far more complex than the left-right dichonomy. Furthermore, ther is probably quite a difference between the average views in my country(Switzerland) and the USA.
/r/MensRights05/07/14 12:38 PM
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Well, in my country it is the same. On the other hand, the maximum sentence for rape is the same for sexual assault. Furthermore, the definiton of rape is very strict, there must be clear indication that the female does not consent. As a result, rape covers only violent acts.
/r/MensRights03/07/14 10:53 PM
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Well, isn't that something that your lawyer should tell you?
/r/MensRights02/07/14 09:31 PM
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Why should I invest time when it is apparent that you don't?
/r/MensRights29/06/14 09:39 PM
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Since you specificaly asked for detail: Dr. Tara Palmatier – AVFM Men’s Issues Conference Detroit 2014 ICMI '14 Conference day 2 #icmi14 Press conference they didn't want you to see
/r/MensRights29/06/14 09:21 PM
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Guess we just have to wait some days for that
/r/MensRights28/06/14 07:36 PM
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You should read what they say about 3, I think the majority would agree what they say about it. It's more like, "currently there are a lot of mixed messages about drunk sex and where the line is, we should clarify that". I don't think that is unreasonable.
/r/MensRights28/06/14 11:43 AM
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http://www.avoiceformen.com/program-of-speakers/
/r/MensRights27/06/14 09:46 PM
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I don't think that there is one awailable right now.
/r/MensRights27/06/14 03:29 PM
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Well he got banned shortly afterwards.
/r/MensRights27/06/14 10:24 AM
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Part 2: Your speech of privilege is something I do not agree with, and here's why. The group you claim is of the privilege class are the ones that: Can, to this day, still be drafted (forced to fight, kill, and die against their will). Make almost half, if not half of the domestiv ciolence victim statistics. Men are also 80% less likely to come forward about their abuse, so if men are almost half or half in terms of victims and yet men are very much less likely to come forward, yet still make 50…
/r/MensRights27/06/14 09:05 AM
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Very good post by SpikedYum part1: Diversity is important to progress, dictatorship is not. I am someone some consider an MRA, hell, one someone a feminist a few times, however I do not support feminism, I more so support the MRM. I find your statement here to be the fine reason why so many people reject the group you advocate for (feminism), your hypocrisy. You claim to be inclusive, however you claim that those that oppose your ideology are not welcome. How you could not realize this blatant h…
/r/MensRights27/06/14 09:04 AM
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There is Info about a twitter feed and a live stream. After that, they will probably upload the talks to youtube.
/r/MensRights26/06/14 10:14 PM
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I think it is because many don't read the entire article.
/r/MensRights26/06/14 10:08 PM
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My comment: I think a huge part of the difference could be explained with the number of males and females that go to college. The difference is quite huge. Ranging from 33 to 50% more women than men that go to college. It could very well be, that a lot of men that could major in female dominated fields drop out or want to do something what they deem more rewarding.
/r/MensRights26/06/14 05:12 PM
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There is a big difference, because most rapes are done by rapist who rape more than one time.
/r/MensRights25/06/14 07:49 PM
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I think it is bullshit.
/r/MensRights25/06/14 04:08 PM
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Not directly about IPV in the military. http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/28smbv/gender_symmetry_in_domestic_violence_and_why_it/ There is a huge mountain of evidence for gender symmetry in IPV.
/r/MensRights23/06/14 11:14 AM
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Thanks, fixed
/r/MensRights22/06/14 04:29 PM
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You can look here. Quote: If we look at the more reliable statistic, the risk of rape in the last twelve months, and we fix the NIPSVS’s mistake in classifying forced envelopment as “other sexual assault” and not rape, we find that 80% of men report a female rapist and 98% of women report a male rapist.
/r/MensRights21/06/14 08:53 PM
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Replace "Yes. it really is all men" with "Yes it is really all black men", that is all you have to do. (To make the hypocricy visible, not to make it true)
/r/MensRights20/06/14 11:16 PM
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Yea, I think the minimal age for beer and wine should br 16 and18 for everything else.(of corse for men and women)
/r/MensRights20/06/14 08:54 AM
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I think one of the honeybadgers would be great for that.
/r/MensRights19/06/14 08:18 PM
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There shouldn't be 13 lessons, there should be just one: Colleges aren't equiped to handle rape allegations just.
/r/MensRights19/06/14 06:15 PM
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Yea, Ali Mehraspand writes really good artilcles about Iran: The myth of patriarchal oppression in Iran Indentured servitude for men in Iran: The myth of patriarchal oppressive divorce Humanist Counter-Theory of Primitive and Strict Religious Cultures
/r/MensRights19/06/14 04:09 PM
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No one over the age of 45 has ever contributed to society Quite the opposite: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/science/evolution/8906811/Grandparents-give-humans-evolutionary-edge.html
/r/MensRights18/06/14 10:22 AM
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Were do you get that horrible idea? Of course not, Darwin was not a monster. Besides old man and women have been important for raising kids.
/r/MensRights18/06/14 07:03 AM
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Then the question makes no sense... If you get mugged, is it really important for you if the mugger is black or white?
/r/MensRights16/06/14 09:17 PM
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I don't know how it is in the US, but in my country, the age of consent is 16. Exept one of the partner is in a position of power (Teacher, ect) the it is 18. Another exeption is, when the age difference is less than 3 years. So a 15 year old can have sex with someone that is 18. I have heard of states in the us, where there is not such an exeption for small age differences. I could imagine that religion plays a large part in that.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 06:58 PM
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Are you sure, you have read a lot from the MHRM? (Not what some Anti-MHRM people want to say) Because it sounds more like a combination af al the stereotypes about the MHRM. Oh, and TRP or PUAs aren't part of the MHRM.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 06:40 PM
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50% of rape victims are men. I don't see how the gender of the rapist is that important. Even if you deem it important, the women still make up 80% of all men raping rapists.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 06:13 PM
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Thanks. Copy paste is sometimes really hard...
/r/MensRights16/06/14 03:20 PM
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Have you read the entire post? Because you missed the /s somehow.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 03:17 PM
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I think the other way around would be much healthier. "Women should worry about being raped as much as men do now." Because men are as likely to be rape victims as women. EDIT: fixed Link
/r/MensRights16/06/14 11:07 AM
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Women are often raped and murdered Any evidence? Because I don't think it is true. It is more difficult to get away with homicide than with rape. A "good" rapist(someone who knows what s/he is doing) will try to prevent a police investigation. The easiest way to do that is to guilt the victim into not reporting. I'm too lazy to search the source for the following statement, but most rapes are comitted by someone who did it more than once.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 12:33 AM
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Sorry, but that is probably just a troll.
/r/MensRights15/06/14 06:00 PM
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You enter a discussion but don't want to put an effort in to understad your oponents? I'm done with you.
/r/MensRights15/06/14 08:54 AM
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Women are not more likely to be victims of rape[1] or domestic violence[2]. Men are far more likely to be victims of homicide[3]. Furthermore, there are 30% more women than men who earn a bachelor's degree[4] for a master's degree it's even 50%[5] [1]http://www.genderratic.com/p/836/manufacturing-female-victimhood-and-marginalizing-vulnerable-men/ [2]http://www.csulb.edu/~mfiebert/assault.htm [3]http://www.bjs.gov/content/pub/pdf/htus8008.pdf Table 1 [4]http://www.statista.com/statistics/185157/…
/r/MensRights15/06/14 08:20 AM
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That's because there isn't much of substance to begin with. Secondly, I don't think you came here to have your mind changed. If that is wrong, I will invest time in a longer reply
/r/MensRights15/06/14 07:45 AM
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Now, Claiming that men are objectified just the same is even worse. That is completely false. Yea, and I landed on the moon with apollo 21. Men do get molested, Men do get raped, Men do get objectified, but mainly it comes from other Men. When I look at my past, my mothers past, I know for sure, that there are very bad men out there who would do very bad things for selfish reasons. So, Onto Men's Rights. Do Men get the shaft in divorce proceedings? Many Times, yet each situation is different, ca…
/r/MensRights15/06/14 07:40 AM
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If you follow through with this law, yes. That is kinda the point I'm making.
/r/MensRights12/06/14 06:44 PM
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Well, the rapist can claim that s/he did not consent to the act. If a the rapist was "forced" by the victim to rape him/her. In other words: What if the rapist says s/he felt that the victim forced him/her to perform a sexual act?
/r/MensRights12/06/14 06:30 PM
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It seems the law is written in gender neutral terms. So the best way to react would be to revoke your consent to the act in question. What exactly happens if a rapist claims he or she did not consent? That is gona be an interesting headline...
/r/MensRights12/06/14 05:30 PM
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Personaly, I'm as much an anti-feminist as I am an anti-conservative.
/r/MensRights10/06/14 08:15 PM
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2014 Fox News Detroit MRA vs Feminist For every lazy person out there, here is the interview that the article is about.
/r/MensRights10/06/14 07:03 PM
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99% of rape committed by man are men? What the hell is the other 1% then?
/r/MensRights30/05/14 10:14 AM
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