Xstinaballerina Archive

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1	Husband only male at second job Thank you. Can't stress enough how helpful this has been. And I'm so glad I came here first, because I was able to speak with him and give him the genuine support he needed. I just needed to get my head out of that jealous space first. Whether he stays at that job or not, I feel so much better about things now.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/07/16 09:57 PM
1	Husband only male at second job Agreed. My upbringing sucked, so I had no model for relationships or parenting. Still, I read a shit ton, and emphasize empathy and logic in parenting, and my daughter seems to be doing really well, even with all the stress we've been under. As for time spent with kids, I managed to stay home with her for the first two years, though after the first year, I had to find some work from home gigs and make all our food from scratch- but still, you make it work. Even now, she only goes to an in-home d…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/07/16 09:50 PM
2	Husband only male at second job Thank you for your input. That's actually similar to the way he says he feels too. I guess I have a tendency to quietly discredit positive statements made toward me, but I've been working on that. I know neither one of us likes this situation, we both want more time together, and we're both scared about money and doing this whole parenting thing right. I think I need to help set the tone that life is bigger than this bullshit, and that even when he needs to tune out, we are still in this togethe…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/07/16 08:47 PM
2	Husband only male at second job This is so encouraging. Thank you. And yeah, I know talking over stuff can be annoying- I just miss him. Just met him for lunch and feeling much better. Yummy food is a good idea- I think I might see what fruit is on sale and bake a pie since I haven't in a while. My friend owes me some babysitting time, so I will probably cash in on that soon. I guess the bigger issue is that we are both burnt out, and not taking time to enjoy life, and I need to address that regardless of whether or not I perc…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/07/16 08:13 PM
0	Husband only male at second job I'm not holding it over his head. I was trying to give overall clarity of the situation to help with responses. And he didn't act on his attraction, so it's not that I think he is an unfaithful person, but it does feel strange that he is surrounded by women all day, apparently sometimes alone with one, and we don't get time together. It's not an insult against him, but I'm wondering if this is a wise situation for any relationship, and whether it is or not, what I can do to keep him happy with o…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/07/16 05:53 PM
1	Husband only male at second job Thank you for responding. Been making myself feel kind of sick over this. You make a lot of good points, though I don't feel comfortable expressing jealousy directly, because I fear that may put too much pressure on him and I would be creating a sort of self-fulfilling prophesy. It's validating to hear my concerns may have some merit, but of course it also increases my anxiety about it. It's also nice to hear input from someone who believes the same as I do about parenting. My daughter goes to d…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/07/16 05:50 PM
0	PSA: To all of the guys out there with a pregnant woman unsure about paternity... Find a Red Pill doctor! Already got the bod. Size 2. But I'm also 30DD, so I guess I'll never be a ballerina. And I prefer the elliptical. :) If you're trying to play on my insecurities, try to be a bit more original, and not such a pedantic putz. Hey, alliteration! How fun!! This girl's alright, eh?? Ne'r a jimmie rustled either! But yeah, dude, this whole thing is 2-dimensional as fuck, and frankly quite boring. All the best to you, sir. And good luck on your pursuit to become Alpha Dog or Top Man or what-have-you.	/r/TheRedPill	05/03/15 06:19 AM
0	PSA: To all of the guys out there with a pregnant woman unsure about paternity... Find a Red Pill doctor! Oh good! It didn't die when you shoved it up your ass. Congratulations. Enjoy your life as a whiny little bitch. Reason is apparently not your language.	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/15 06:18 PM
0	PSA: To all of the guys out there with a pregnant woman unsure about paternity... Find a Red Pill doctor! No, being an Alpha certainly doesn't obligate you to BE anything. But, generally, people that are so blatantly asinine feel like they have to "puff themselves up" to get respect, but then, I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt. Maybe some people really are just dicks. It sucks, because it really isn't necessary, and the world would be a much better place if everyone didn't have to try so hard to protect themselves. Fuck it. Live how you will, and I'll do the same. I'd rather be a "petul…	/r/TheRedPill	28/02/15 03:29 PM
0	PSA: To all of the guys out there with a pregnant woman unsure about paternity... Find a Red Pill doctor! Thank you for putting me in my place. You really are an Alpha, aren't you? I realized my mistake after reading some of the comments, so though I think it's sad that they can't have a more honest relationship, I retract my previous statement. However, you must really feel like you have something to prove for you to be so bitchy. Honestly, real Alphas I know don't find it necessary to be assholes to women, because they don't carry the resentment and insecurities of being rejected so many times. Th…	/r/TheRedPill	26/02/15 05:34 AM
2	PSA: To all of the guys out there with a pregnant woman unsure about paternity... Find a Red Pill doctor! Those tests have a risk of miscarriage. That's why they normally only push it for women over 35, when the risks for those conditions are higher. Feminism has indeed become quite a ridiculous movement of women just wanting to be pissed at men. But to say that waiting until after birth to perform risky tests is a feminist farce makes no more sense than saying that men piss standing up in order to assert their dominance over women.	/r/TheRedPill	31/12/14 05:08 PM
1	People do not want you to become Alpha I think you're reading too much into this. I know a body builder who is still very much a Beta male. The confidence aspect is everything, however. The thing is, a lot of girls do find too big unattractive. There are girls who love it, too. Just do what you are doing for yourself, and no one else- that in itself is more Alpha anyway.	/r/TheRedPill	18/10/14 01:19 AM