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I'm fine with body shaming as long as everyone is allowed to do it. Right now, only men are fair game when it comes to beauty standards. Women will never be "allies" because it doesn't benefit them. The reason why body positivity works well for women is because men are much more forgiving towards female beauty standards and they're also more willing to throw other men under the bus.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:08 PM
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Passport bros are still leveraging money and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:50 PM
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You have zero rizz, mate. You're likely tall and handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:34 AM
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This is exactly how I go about my day. I always assume women are repulsed (sexually and/or romantically) by me unless proven otherwise. I've always been right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:33 AM
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just tall No shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:49 PM
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I agree with the premise that prostitution should be legal. It's legal where I live and works perfectly for everyone involved. I do disagree that Chad and Tyrone "pay" for sex with their looks. If anything, Chad and Tyrone are the ONLY types of men who do get sex for free (AF/BB).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:44 PM
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Men dont want their wives to be prostitutes Just don't marry a prostitute? the world is not run by young single loser males. What the fuck does that have to do with anything? Here in Germany (and other European countries) it's perfectly legal and it has nothing to do with "loser males" or any of that nonsense you wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:42 PM
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George was an ugly, fat, bald, neurotic, unemployed manlet who was never without a woman, he even got engaged at some point; I don't think many men here would be able to resonate with his experience. If anything, that show and many others illustrate how women's standards have in fact risen to ridiculous levels. A character like George would be unthinkable today. No one would believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:58 PM
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>"Don't posts tik toks of real women's laundry lists of requirements, they aren't valid!" >Posts a clip from a 30 year old sitcom.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:58 PM
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I'm glad you said that and not the usual "it's because they can't get women their own age" or "they want someone young to manipulate".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:17 PM
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It may have happened once or twice. A really cute girl from Uni who was bartending at a party came over to me after she had served me a few beers throughout the night. We ended up talking but toward the end of the night she was too drunk and she feel asleep with her head on my shoulder. I never got her number and when I saw her on campus I felt too awkward to ask her. I've also had a girl who offered me ket at a club, and girls who ask me for cigarettes. Other than that I've never been explicitl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:05 AM
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Most guys who aren't tall and handsome don't even get to talk to women in the first place. Then they go on dating apps and also never talk to women there. OP's failure is to think that it's only a minority of women who care about looks when it's the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:57 AM
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I'm sure you're underestimating. No woman has been hit on zero times.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:43 PM
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Where is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:29 PM
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I can carry a conversation better than 80% of people I'm quiet around people and am almost physically unable to talk in a group situation f What?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:28 PM
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men typically said work, school, and money made them depressed You're almost there. It's almost as if heightism affects men in all areas of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:26 PM
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An AI rated me 7.7 which I think is fair. I'm athletic and well groomed but I'm 5'6 so never had any attention from women as far as I can tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:08 PM
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Is it good if a woman describes you as flirtatious? A while back I went out with a buddy and his female colleagues, some of which were decently attractive to me. I talked with a lot of them and we had a great time. One of them described me as flirtatious to another one of my buddies from that same friend group. What did she mean by this? I wasn't doing anything specifically or thinking about flirting, but just being "myself". Is that a good thing? What do y'all think? (Women especially)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:03 PM
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Why would you feel strong guilt for buying a hair dryer?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:57 AM
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They think that because they only sexualize the top 1% of men that they're somehow morally superior to men who do the exact same thing but to a larger percentage of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 10:17 AM
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Do you value men beyond their looks and sexuality? Just because you're only sexually attracted to the 1% of men doesn't men you're not doing exactly the same thing men do to a larger percentage of the female population. Unless you tell me you have a lot of male friends because you value their maleness in the sense that they offer you something that female friends couldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 10:14 AM
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Love it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:43 PM
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Lotus.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:42 PM
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there’s a reason people avoid them Just world fallacy. I've never been a person people actively avoid. I've always end up in different social groups. Yet, I can feel lonely as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:19 PM
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I can still enjoy sex with women while being aware they are only truly horny for Chads. There is no contradiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:35 PM
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How does it make you feel when you see so many non Chads fucking those hot women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:35 PM
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Mate, skinny girls are amazing for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:12 PM
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lol I still have the iphone 7 and its battery health is at 73%. It'll probably last me another 3 or more years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:10 PM
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Brutal whitepill.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:51 PM
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We need sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:33 PM
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who I think might like me Mate, women make it extremely obvious when they're attracted to you. My rule of thumb is, if you have to ask, chances are she doesn't like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:28 PM
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>preference It's not, though. Women are actively rejecting men under 6', as in they do not qualify to begin with. A preference is something much more flexible. I have a preference for women of more or less my height (5'6) but I would never reject a woman because she happens to be significantly taller or shorter than that. Men have preferences, women have requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:47 PM
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Do the women here not see why this is exactly the reason why men don't like ran through women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:55 PM
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Counterintuitive, I know, but it's how it is with women. They can't be with a man they don't feel is superior to them in most ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:38 PM
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That’s called booooooooooooooring. Sounds like you're still 19.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 08:02 AM
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And he doesn't even mention wholesomeness at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 08:02 AM
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1 comment Did he say he was "wholesome"?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 08:01 AM
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But it is. He is totally right.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 07:55 AM
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You're agreeing with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 07:52 AM
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nowadays he would be described as mid Not really. His features are still what women consider attractive now; hunter eyes with a positive canthal tilt, strong jawline, lean, tall, etc. The only difference between him and the other guy you posted is that the emo look is quite antiquated and we all know it's from way back. Also perhaps the height requirements weren't so strict two decades ago. ​ the woman at the time would know that this guy was essentially a model to our generation, and it wouldn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:37 PM
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just trying to get in their pants And? What is so morally reprehensible about that? Do you realize that your boyfriend WANTS to get in your pants and that's how he got you to begin with? If you fuck a random Chad, guess what? He's not some saint with no sexual desires, he ALSO wants to get in your pants. The only difference is that your friend is a guy who YOU don't want to have sex with. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:27 PM
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what constitutes as “trying” You're the one who brought it up so you should define what YOU mean by "men are not trying".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:38 PM
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Mate, this unhinged fantasy of yours never happened. Women weren't sold as cattle and married away to "undeserving" men. A 5‘6 ogre faced dude should NEVER been able to date ever Based on what? What is the argument for this other than "short men bad"? they are just not manipulated anymore But they literally are. If you're trying to appeal to nature then the current standards are in fact highly manipulated thanks to our current technology. Also, what about ugly women? Are you going to say that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:34 PM
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Neither do men. Also, you know very well he's not talking about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:30 PM
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The graph makes no sense. I have no idea why women would message the guys at the middle of the distribution when they consider most men unattractive. I guess it'll just be a mystery.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:14 PM
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I guess so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:04 PM
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Women view most men as unattractive so those guys might as well just message the hot ones. This proves nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:50 PM
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Yeah, like what are they going to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:00 PM
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It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:57 PM
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I don't know of anyone specifically but I have heard it before too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:48 PM
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He's an eternal white knight whose sole purpose in life is to defend women at every turn. Don't expect a sensible discussion with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:39 PM
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Mate, I'm 5'6 and fairly athletic, do bouldering and play tennis and am in decent shape. The only drawback of being this height is that women don't consider you a human but other than that it's not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:29 PM
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This is like asking billionaires what hardships they face in today's economy lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:48 AM
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It's almost as if that's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:51 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/17fuykb/besides_physical_unattractiveness_what_are_the/k6cqbsm/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:52 AM
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She was supposed to be 16 and looks 30 lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 07:31 PM
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Is there a trend of male influencers publicly shaming anyone who looks in their direction?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:01 PM
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Male influencers aren't shaming women who glance in their direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:58 AM
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It's because youthfulness is a crucial part of women's beauty, whereas for men it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 07:51 AM
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I'm surprised by how much support he got.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:17 AM
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It is pathetic, but some of us have no other choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:13 AM
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That is incredibly common, especially in the US where prostitution is illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:13 AM
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There are different levels of needs. You don't really need to live in an actual house, you can just as easily survive under a bridge or in a tent, that doesn't mean we don't consider housing a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:07 AM
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Sex isn't a fucking basic need. Of course it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:05 AM
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Nothing makes a man happier than seeing their mom and sister die. LMAO nice shitpost bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:54 AM
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average ass women can just add go fund mes to their dating profiles and get money? Absolutely. Are you imply they can't or don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:53 AM
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You seem confused. There is no inconsistency here. Yes, they are sluts, they'll sleep around and fuck hundreds of men. BUT, also their standards are quite high, as they only fuck the top 5% of men in this manner. Sure, they do fuck some of the men in the top 20% but they make them wait, while they get pumped and dumped by Chad. It's not that hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:40 AM
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How many women responded negatively to it though? Yeah, this is fair. Probably some women did, but enough of them threw themselves at him to validate the blackpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:40 PM
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some skinny women have no curves I actually prefer a skinny girl with no curves over a fat one. I just don't like fat bodies at all. I don't like having fat on my own body, so I strive to be always be lean. men claim to have a wide range of tastes in women This is true both individually and collectively. There are plenty of men who do like fat women. Go to r/nofans and you'll see how women of all sizes and shapes are told they are beautiful by countless men. Also, each individual man might have …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:40 AM
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Some guys don't even like sex beyond penis in vagina, it seems. For me the feeling on my dick is only a fraction of why I like sex so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:21 AM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:19 AM
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I don't know. Sometimes I see couples that look very similar to each other. I personally love having sex with blondes, yet I only see brunettes as dating or wife material, so I guess there is some truth to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:10 AM
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You also have to acknowledge that "hate" here just means being even slightly critical of what women do and say.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:08 AM
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Sure. You'll dismiss it, but here it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:33 AM
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How convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:14 AM
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It's almost as if it's bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:09 AM
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Check out this playlist by the channel Playing with Fire. He does a lot of tinder experiments. As others have said, most of those experiments prove redpill and blackpill talking points.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:36 AM
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Because women will fuck Chad within minutes of meeting him but will make the Beta guy wait months lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:29 AM
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It does sound like a you problem. Maybe choose better; use that radar you women have that lets you smell misogyny a mile away or whatever you guys say.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:27 AM
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Why can't women engage with the topic of discussion instead they resort to irrelevant, petty ad hominem attacks?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:57 PM
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women will always be considered unworthy unless they are physically attractive The bar for women's attractiveness is in hell. And it is very much under your control, just don't be morbidly obese and take a shower. It's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:25 AM
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Sweetie, if you don't want to give advice to men or discuss these topics then don't come to a forum dedicated to exactly that. Your alleged intelligence is not evidenced in this incoherent rambling of yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:03 AM
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Ugly women lead the lives of average men, at worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:57 AM
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He sounds young.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:31 PM
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He needs to take a shower, get a good haircut, shave well, work out consistently, have a useful personal aesthetic, a nice smell, and learn to actually smile nicely and carry himself with confidence. And we tell him this. And it is not shallow to not want a man who takes no pride in his appearance and looks like a thumb when he could be o la hot if he just gave a shit. Ah, the eternal "just take a shower bro". This caricature you have of men is utterly detached from reality. Guys aren't getting …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:18 PM
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Sure, but let's admit that women do behave more like a monolith than men ever could. They even have to create facebook groups because they always end up dating literally the same guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:40 PM
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Typical female response here in this sub. A guy gives a detailed rebuttal to your post and after presumably reading that, the only thing you could come up with was to attempt a petty little insult and make unsubstantiated claims about him personally, rather than engage with was actually being said.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:50 PM
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Ah, so nothing. Nice of you to admit that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:09 PM
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I'm sure most women can't even cook. I cook better than all the women I know lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:07 PM
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Not really. I've responded to some insta stories of some girls depending on the context. For example if she lives in my city, I'll comment something about it. Just friendly banter, nothing sexual tbh. A few of them have responded, surprisingly enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:44 AM
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Actually, I've seen one example of that. She's a gorgeous model and seems like she genuinely likes him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:37 AM
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None of those people introduced themselves as horrible. You'd like to think that. But the truth is that a tall good looking man can say he's a child rapist right off the bat and women will still throw themselves at him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:56 AM
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Is he genuinely himself? How does he treat others? Is he consistent? Does his actions meet his words? The reason I ignore your "advice" is precisely because I am NOT delusional. Women don't care about any of this shit. If you genuinely do, you're an extreme outlier. What 99% of women care about first and foremost is if the guy is over 6' and has a male model type face and physique, the rest is practically irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:53 AM
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the Internet inspired women to develop unreasonable expectations You answered your own question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:49 AM
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Absolutely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:47 AM
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How many? What's the actual percentage? The truth is that there are enough men who like obese women. And as he said, it's because as a society we decided that it was time to give fat women a place in the dating market, decades worth of effort and propaganda shifted men's preferences within one generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:43 AM
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We do not see women blaming men. Bro, I see you seething about men here every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:31 AM
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It seems he's talking about how much of a numbers game it is to date as a guy. We have to swipe endlessly to maybe even get a single match and that leads nowhere, the majority of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:04 PM
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Well the main challenge is that "working on yourself" is just a bullshit trope. Of course, you should work on yourself, that is a no brainer. It's infinitely better to be in good shape and have your shit together than not. But that will never be the determining factor in whether you'll have success in dating or not. Women don't compare you to the worst version of yourself, but to other men around you in any given situation. So work all you want, but there will always be a taller, more handsome, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:28 AM
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5% of men sleep with 66% of young women This is unsurprising and most men can verify this anecdotally. A few years ago I was living with a couple of friends in an apartment. We're all normal, relatively social and put together, not the caricature people have of men nowadays. Out of all of us, one was tall and handsome, and shockingly, he was the one getting laid the most, if at all, while me and my other short and average sized friends were getting none. Again, we were all in the same social cir…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:23 AM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:10 PM
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Because sex is fun and pleasurable? Again, there is no contradiction. Women claim to also put men into separate boxes, the ones that are for hookups/fwb and the ones that are relationship material. As a man, having sex with a woman I don't really respect or who doesn't belong to the 0,1%, or who isn't my perfect soulmate takes nothing away from me and does not impact how fun it can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:08 PM
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knows grammer The fucking irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:47 AM
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This is reddit, bro what did you expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:41 AM
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Why can't you get it through your thick skull that men will fuck sluts but not respect them enough to date, let alone marry y'all? It's that simple, it shouldn't be so difficult for you to grasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:38 AM
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True. In real life, all the women I meet get along with me perfectly well and are for the most part really nice, yet here most women are incredibly hostile and insufferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:19 AM
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It's your personality bro. We all know women love to date fat bald ugly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:49 AM
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No one is claiming to be morally superior. What people say is that women will overlook the worst possible attributes and behaviors from men that are in the top percentiles of looks. Women will throw themselves at a child rapist if he is a tall male model.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:43 AM
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online dating sucks for men because they’re not being charismatic. Holy shit, this must be the dumbest take I've ever seen in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:37 AM
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They can't because all the evidence points to looks mattering overwhelmingly much more than personality. How many times have we heard women complain about their friends hitting on them? If they were friends to begin with, then it mustn't be his personality that made him unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:31 AM
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It's because women consider most men unattractive, not because they are objectively unattractive or mediocre.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:27 AM
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What? Women literally drool over men's height (the ones over 6').
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:21 AM
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Kafka trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:53 AM
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Aw, that's cute. Couldn't think of anything intelligent to say, buddy?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:42 AM
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What are you on about? No one rejects short women because of their height.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:14 AM
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Only 14% of the male population is 6' and over, it's not the "norm". It's about chasing the top, not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:14 AM
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Loaded question. victim blaming women If men struggle with dating women that does not make women the victims. "women hate me cause I'm short" or "women are all stuck up and liars" is why exactly why you aren't succeeding with women. Bullshit. The prerequisite to be tall exists, pointing that out is not the reason why it exists. You're just using circular reasoning here. In fact, this is more akin to victim blaming: "It's your fault we bully you, you insecure manlets, and since you get mad, you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:43 AM
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Sure. I'm in great shape so I'm strong and have good stamina which I guess helps a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:39 AM
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Yeah it's not just height. Considering only 14% of the male population is over 6' and still you'd have to be extremely handsome to be considered attractive, no shit most guys are undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:18 AM
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And it's not even the 15% once you consider the guy has to be under 12% body fat with significant muscle mass, as square jaw, etc.; now add income and all the other intangible attributes and you're in the 5% or below.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:10 AM
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Women are incredibly attracted to the top percentiles of men. This has been discussed here at great lengths. You'd be surprised how sexually forward women are towards tall male model types of guys. Like they will literally say things like "put your dick in my mouth" to a hot guy they met 5 seconds ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:04 AM
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Wow, what an intelligent response. You sure showed me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:02 AM
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Nice larp.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:01 AM
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evolutionary fucking biology So you agree with OP in that women will only chase the top % of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:50 AM
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When we talk about these things it's strictly in the Western context. Sure, I can go to a mountain in Bolivia and women will be marrying men that are 5'2, but that's irrelevant for me here in Germany, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:47 AM
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Really? I'm 5'6 and I've never had any issues while having sex with taller women up to around 6' lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:45 AM
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True. Everything that women say here is exactly the opposite of what happens in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:41 AM
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Wrong. Men consider a vast number of women attractive, so much to the point that compatibility, personality, and interests become the defining attributes. The opposite is true for women, considering they are only attracted to a tiny percentage of men, so facial structure and height are the most important features that women look for.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:38 AM
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So you couldn't come up with anything intelligent to say so you resorted to petty insults. And the good old "you don't see women as people" trope because, check notes, I care about their personality more than their looks. LMAO you can't make this shit up. Not that I should justify shit to you, but women get along perfectly fine with me, I've had plenty of female friends and acquaintances throughout my life at university, work, and elsewhere. Women just never consider me attractive because I'm no…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:31 AM
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Of course I care about personality. I'm attracted to such a wide variety of women that personality and how well we connect are the defining factors. The same cannot be said for women. Women care about looks first and foremost, especially genetic attributes such as height and facial structure. That's why it's annoying whenever blue pillers tell guys who struggle that it's our personality, when in reality it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:29 PM
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Based woman *wink wink* Thanks for speaking the truth, the honesty is refreshing in this sub. I agree with you wholeheartedly. Young women are the most desirable and therefore hold the most power over men, at least in the dating context. It's perfectly reasonable for them to extract as many resources from spineless men as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:57 PM
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She's hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:13 AM
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I'm with the women on this one. It's not their duty to give men the "correct" advice. In fact, there is no advice to be given. You're either born with the genetics to be attractive or you're not. So what do you want them to say? I would like the gaslighting to end tho, no more "it's your personality" bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:00 AM
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"work out, get a productive hobby, build a personality that isn't toxic" I don't agree with OP in that it's women's responsibility to give the "correct" advice, but let's be honest, what you just said there is plain bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 07:47 AM
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If you're not trolling, this is such a bizarre take.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 07:46 AM
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Are you unable to understand what is being said? I think I'm being perfectly clear. Again, the male version of Selena Gomez would likely be an incel by women's standards. She'd be a 30 year old brown manlet with an unremarkable, skinny-fat physique, 99% of women would consider him repulsive. I'm saying that if we were as picky and unforgiving as women are with men's looks, a lot of women would also be considered unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 07:35 AM
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I love how you failed miserably to use reason to refute what I said. Instead you resorted to a petty little insult. Again, all emotion, zero logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:55 PM
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You don't have to look for "signals". Women will make it abundantly clear when they find a guy attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:28 PM
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I'll grant you that some of those men aren't what we would call Chads. But as explained already, the fact that they're famous makes it so that they have exposure to the (small) number of women who would be attracted to them. Still, that is a dead sub, most posts have very few upvotes and even fewer comments. Now I invite you to check out r/nofans. There you'll see the some grotesque looking women being lusted and simped by hundreds if not thousands of men whose male counterparts would be deemed …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 12:47 PM
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1960s Mick Jagger Yeah, he didn't age well, but to say he was hot is crazy. This could be the face of an incel in today's dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 12:42 PM
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You'll never attract a woman with resources but you'll keep her entertained enough. Genuine attraction only happens based on genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 12:39 PM
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You must be trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 12:25 PM
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You'll find that whatever incels and blackpillers say, most people actually agree with but will deny depending on whatever narrative they want to perpetuate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:28 AM
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You're basically illustrating OP's point. But the thing is that yeah, a guy who has a fleshlight probably doesn't get laid, whereas women who have dildos and vibrators get sex with the snap of their fingers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:17 AM
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Exactly. This has always been the case. Women just managed to convince men that personality mattered. To this day they'll blame a a guy's lack of success on his personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:14 AM
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Why would I care what some random ugly woman from the internet thinks? You really are pathetic. Keep seething sweetie.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:05 AM
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That's just an expression, I didn't say it was the bar. And I don't know what you're arguing here when it's well known that men are much more forgiving of women's physical flaws than women could ever be. This whole thread's premise is that looks are the most important thing in attraction and that personality never mattered that much. Which is what the blackpill has been saying all along and gets constantly dismissed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:56 AM
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Because "women good, men bad".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:33 AM
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Stop talking out your ass, manlet. LMAO you really are triggered. You must be a fat old woman. It's even more hilarious how you use the word manlet in the same breath where you act as if her height wouldn't lower her SMV if she were a man. You're proving my points, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:32 AM
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For a man it's all about genetics, ie height and facial structure. Of course grooming helps but most men already do that and it's not the reason why women consider them unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:22 AM
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You're arguing with emotion, not with logic. Let's break it down for you: She's 5'5 first and foremost, that already would put any guy at nearly zero in SMV. She's also overweight, old, and her face looks puffy and undefined. Again, her male equivalent would literally be a stumpy Mexican manlet that no woman would want near her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:19 AM
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Two second google. Sorry, but she is mid at best. Her exact male equivalent would be a disgusting incel in most women's book. We are very aware that these men see us as holes to masturbate into. Props for the self awareness, tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:05 AM
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We all know that women overrate themselves and other women while they underrate men. It's a successful strategy they put in place to inflate their own perceived value in the dating market. When Gorlock the Destroyer comes in and demands we consider her a 10, then all the other women can only be perceived higher than a 10, breaking the scale. Women know this and so it benefits them to call fat, ugly, unattractive women beautiful because their own value can only go upwards from there. This also wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:51 AM
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Where are these "amazing" women being called mid? That's just you overinflating their value, as OP is calling you out. No, Gorlock the Destroyer is not a 10 and neither are you. The only reason ugly women think they're so attractive is simply because some men are willing to sleep with just about anything and will simp for anything with a pulse and a vagina. It's just how Gucci t-shirts aren't ACTUALLY worth 500$, but some morons are still willing to pay for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:47 AM
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Sounds more like a fantasy of hers if anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:53 AM
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This individual rated herself a 10. The guy you described is much closer to an 8 than she is a 10. Women vastly overrate themselves and it's a collective effort on your part.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:51 AM
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Different needs exist. You don't really "need" a house, you could just as easily survive under a bridge or in a makeshift tent on the side of the road, but no one is claiming that housing isn't a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:44 AM
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Just anecdotally, this is a comment from a woman in a different sub: It’s obviously severe insecurity. It doesn’t matter what a man looks like or how tall or how big his dick is, if he is a genuine and good person, women will be attracted to him, sexually and emotionally. Men really don’t understand that personality is half the battle If you spend enough time online, you will find uncountable examples of this in many different variations. Everyone on reddit seems to know that one 5'2 Indian jani…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:24 AM
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poorly dressed, unkempt, men And there you go again. This has nothing to do with the issue we're discussing here. Most people take care of themselves. This myth that men aren't dating because they don't shower is more of the same bullshit that guys are being fed which OP pretends is not happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:02 AM
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more so than the vast majority of 20 year old girls Not at all. inability to get a partner within five years of himself. Why do you keep deluding yourselves with this trope? It's not because they can't get with an old woman, as if that were more competitive than getting with younger women who are in their prime. Given the chance I don't see why a man would go for a 35 year old over a 21 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:09 PM
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It's crazy how this stuff is going mainstream. The other day I heard a guy talking about Chads. I live in a major European capital too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:45 AM
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Yes. I remember a post here a few months ago of a woman who was outraged because she saw in the flesh how PUA tactics worked. She was livid that some guy she saw as low value could just emulate Chad's behaviour and get results. She was even talking about how she wanted to sabotage the guy's success by telling on him and "warning" those women of his horrible intentions of wanting to sleep with them. It's just a crazy line of thinking. Like rich people hating on poor people who're learning how to …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:42 AM
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I think it's because people here misunderstand what red pill actually means. To be red pilled just means you know the "true" nature of women, that they are hypergamous and date up, that they will consider most men unattractive unless they offer some sort of value, and that if you want to have a modicum of success, you must put a lot of effort to place yourself higher in the caste system that women have set up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:36 AM
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What else constitutes bottom 50%? My face has been rated at 8.5 (by a gay guy so take that with a grain of salt). Realistically, I'd say I'm at least 7/7.5, well groomed with clear skin and a full head of hair, not the strongest jawline unfortunately so I have a beard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:33 AM
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I'm around 15% body fat with decent muscle size and I am quite athletic but am 5'6. So a morbidly obese woman is my looksmatch?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:19 AM
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Height matters less than you guys pretend it does Holy shit, imagine turning down an attractive woman for something as irrelevant as how she spells her name. and women do the same kind of things for hookups as well It does sound like the kind of thing a woman would turn down a guy for. That goes to show how much better it is to be tall. You're really just proving OPs point here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:18 AM
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Not to beat a dead horse, but there are no women, or barely any at all, that really like short guys. Even morbidly obese women have a subset of men who genuinely go crazy for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:15 AM
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Those aren't mutually exclusive. What makes you think overweight women don't want tall men too?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:09 AM
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Of course. Just look at how women are treating that one guy who dared to speak to a woman at a public library. Imagine if Henry Cavill asked if he could borrow a chair or something, do you genuinely think that they'll shame him as a creep?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:43 AM
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Because plenty of women say verbatim they like toxic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:38 PM
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This but unironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:35 PM
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Nice Kafka trap you got there, buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:31 PM
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Try online dating Ok you're just a troll, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:04 AM
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I'd fuck a whore who's been with a thousand men and I don't care. But I would never "date" her let alone marry her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:54 AM
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Choosing not to have intimate relationships with men due to the personal risk involved is not misandry. So if I choose not to engage with black people due to "risks" then it's perfectly fine too? Not racism, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:39 AM
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Yeah pretty much. I wouldn't fuck a woman i don't find attractive tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:35 AM
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You only consider it "desperation" because you picture a fat unattractive man. Do you call the Chads with triple digit body counts "desperate"? Of course you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:27 AM
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It's funny how when a woman just wants to get smashed by some random Chad she barely knows she's just an empowered queen exploring her sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:21 AM
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you’re bitter that you can’t get a Chad They always are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:17 AM
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there should also be compatibility that will allow for goofiness, laughs, awkward moments without embarrassment and pressure. Yes, of course this is important and a huge plus. And given the choice between a woman who's just lying there vs one who's sexually compatible and enthusiastic of course I'll chose the latter. But the way I see it, sex is simply an enjoyable and pleasurable experience and everything else is a bonus. I've experienced both: sex with women I find incredibly attractive but do…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:14 AM
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Do you genuinely believe that women didn't have a choice in who they married prior to 1990? Like, don't you have parents, grandparents even?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:30 PM
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All the evidence suggests that environment and culture also play a big part in determining what and who women find attractive. This is true and people don't really discuss it here. What people find attractive can change within one generation. I was born in the 90s and back then the skinny women with huge tits were considered the most attractive. Nowadays women are more into going to the gym and building huge asses than getting plastic surgery to enhance their breasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:28 PM
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You don't have to worry as a woman. No guy is going to get his panties in a bunch because a girl hit on him at a "non designated" venue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:26 AM
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now you have to have a personality Can you explain what "personality" did this guy develop to have women throw themselves at him?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:25 PM
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Women have other societal expectations from/towards men. Nope. Women explicitly say they need a man to feel protected.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:10 PM
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That's the expected answer. Women hate low value men, what did you want them to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:54 AM
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lol the men who view women as inanimate objects will continue to pump and dump y'all like worthless fleshlights while you beg them to be your boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:49 AM
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36 I almost puked. Lmao he can have the leftovers, I'm good!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:06 PM
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the reason why people hate on short men is because of how you act. LOVE the victim blaming here, truly amazing. "We love to dehumanize you because you get angry when we dehumanize you therefore you deserve it. Also, I'm going to spew a bunch of unsubstantiated bullshit about your character even though I know literally nothing about you." short men who own their height and don’t let it consume them are drowning in the sea of beautiful ladies If this were true I WOULD be drowning in pussy. I liter…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:58 PM
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You just summarized the Red and Black pills in one post. Props for that. Just keep that same energy when men date young women or reject you for being a ran thru 30+ year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:13 PM
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if you started watching more TikToks where people shame the shamers and advocating for men of all body sizes I guess that if those existed you'd be able to post some examples here. Pro tip: you can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:57 PM
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a hyper-viral meme of a man standing next to a very thin woman with the words "sorry, I'm not into fat girls" Not only would it be widely critiqued, it would be removed immediately from any platform.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:52 PM
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You couldn't be farther from the truth. Men are constantly policing each other, in fact that's a huge reason why we live in a functioning society. Women, on the other hand, will always place womanhood first and condone and even encourage shitty behaviour if that would benefit them as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:45 PM
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Not at all. If the majority of men can't get laid what makes you think they can get into a relationship let alone be the gatekeepers?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:53 AM
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Good for you, mate, and I'm not being sarcastic. However, you seem to be an extreme outlier given what you just said. try going to a rave or techno club I literally live in the techno capital, Berlin. I've been to countless raves and clubs over the years. The guys who get the girls there are the usual tall good looking ones. I will admit I saw one (1) short, chubby, brown guy with a gorgeous tall blonde girl once and she seemed really into him, but again, a highly rare occurrence. That being sai…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:32 AM
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There's nothing to "dismantle" here, you said nothing. The guys that will get results at parties are the same guys that get results in online dating and elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:11 AM
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All of the above minus the sex. You just said a lot of words only to end up at the same place. 2 is the most likely scenario for most guys because, as we have discussed here ad nauseam, what ultimately matters the most is your looks and height. Inb4 touch grass or some other bullshit: I've been partying for over a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:11 AM
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revered, and rewarded by men for men Says under a post with countless examples of women doing the body-shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:09 AM
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Found the fat ugly female lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:57 AM
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