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NYE Purge Post!XtoDoubt/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 06:14 PM
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CMVXtoDoubt/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 05:32 PM
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PurgeXtoDoubt/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 12:04 PM
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DebateXtoDoubt/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 03:21 AM
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Question for BluePillXtoDoubt/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 02:59 AM
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Question For MenXtoDoubt/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 07:01 PM
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Question for BluePillXtoDoubt/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 04:16 PM
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XtoDoubt/r/seduction18/05/18 02:57 AM
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Question For WomenXtoDoubt/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 02:12 AM
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DiscussionXtoDoubt/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 05:04 PM
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Question For MenXtoDoubt/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 09:09 PM
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DebateXtoDoubt/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 11:30 AM
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DiscussionXtoDoubt/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:36 PM
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??????
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:44 PM
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They make actual arguments, not just insults. "you have mental issues" is not a good faith argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:41 PM
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https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/pathologize
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:38 PM
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I think that the women who were arguing with me yesterday that status isn't arousing were arguing in good faith. They're laughably wrong, but they weren't just trying to fuck with me or "win".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:36 PM
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I don't think you know what pathologizing is, or this is, YET AGAIN, another bad faith post from decoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:33 PM
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Oh, for sure. I have learned a lot from the bloops here. Seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:32 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:31 PM
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It's not a good faith effort. It's a shaming tactic, as explained to you yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:29 PM
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This is actually a really good good outline of stuff that can be fixed by learning game. Don't be yourself. Learn game.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:17 PM
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Worked well for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:14 PM
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Yeah, it's always recommended to guys serious about using apps to use the paid version. For something so important, it's not expensive or anything. I don't see what the problem is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:19 PM
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Commenting on and discussing is not "vicious anger"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:00 PM
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I have literally never seen this on this forum or anywhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:43 PM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:25 PM
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Classic alpha fucks beta bucks. You're going to need to learn some real girl game to lock down an alpha. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:25 PM
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You don't HAVE to pathologize those who disagree with you, you know. You could make good faith arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:35 PM
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These men are being themselves. They should learn game and take the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:32 PM
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Everyone you named is an extremely high status individual in their context.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:30 PM
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Ppd women have reliably informed me cold approaching is sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 12:15 AM
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???????
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:42 PM
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Status is contextual. It doesn't have to do with earning potential. Being a cool musician is high status in that context.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:41 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:31 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:18 PM
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You sound mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:10 PM
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Women who are aroused by you are an asset to your life. I couldn't imagine a happy life without them, just as I can't imagine a life without friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:10 PM
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This lady actually believes status is not arousing, despite all of the evidence to the contrary. Remarkable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:04 PM
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Fear of Inadequacy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:14 PM
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If you never question individuals in a group because of their genitalia, you are more closed-minded than anyone who does. Irony overload!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:59 PM
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Chad the country? PPD quote of the century.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:42 PM
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Charge of Instability (Code White) - The White Padded Room Charge Discussion: The target is accused of being emotionally or mentally unstable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:42 PM
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The OP was referencing the actual scenario, not a theoretical one, where men are concerned about their woman's past.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:37 PM
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Chad got to fuck her in the bar bathroom the night they met. He got to fuck her 3 months in and 30 dinner dates later.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:36 PM
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Society trained you well. Any questioning of its teachings is a character flaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:35 PM
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So, we see the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:33 PM
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Rollo wrote about this before I was even posting on PPD. Still true to this day. They believe that debates are a competitive process between two people, who each have the goal of establishing their views about right and wrong by attaining a state of moral ascendancy over the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:33 PM
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A classic blue pill shaming tactic. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:11 PM
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Why do you think these dudes are posting on reddit? Because they're happy with their sex lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:10 PM
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This is what you got out of my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:04 PM
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This is a truly fascinating look into the mind of a woman. I'm not joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:54 PM
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Don't think, Billy Beta! Just accept your place!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:48 PM
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She did that with Chad. No interest with her beta bucks boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:47 PM
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Let's think this through logically. Would a significant portion of the women hot for BTS feel the same way if they were not famous? I'm not talking about reach, here. If they happened to go to school with one of them, or work with them. Again, good looking dudes, but you're not hitting such massive levels of arousal on looks alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:45 PM
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Arousal isn't a reasoned through process. Whether they "care" is not relevant. Status arouses women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:39 PM
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She didn't choose him over Chad. Chad pumped and dumped her, or wouldn't let her get out of the fuck zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:23 PM
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I feel like I'm being trolled and I love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:22 PM
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And if it's the latter by the way, growing out a neckbeard, carrying an AR15 everywhere and dressing exclusively in camo isn't gonna help. Who has ever suggested this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:13 PM
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They're paying a higher price for a worse product. Chad got to fuck her in the bar bathroom the night they met. He got to fuck her 3 months in and 30 dinner dates later.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:10 PM
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Extremely high status and a good looking face cover the alpha fucks side. Boy bands have always been super beta in the lyrics. It balances out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:08 PM
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WHEN combined with a good looking face and extremely high status.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:06 PM
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First of all, that is only true in tiny corners of the internet. Second, it's because women have more options than men, and either choose bad men or leave good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:08 PM
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Natural alphas, miserable relationships, or exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:19 PM
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Spanish is rough too, as I'm learning.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:32 PM
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Not kidding, I have never heard character used in any other way than in relation to morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:08 PM
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The only context I have ever had someone use the word character is what I defined above, aside from someone using it to mean an actor's character they play on TV or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:47 PM
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moral excellence and firmness
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:45 PM
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If it's that weak, it's not a factor at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:01 PM
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Oh, you have autism. I'm sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:30 PM
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So many top tier actors out there, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:30 PM
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So.... his character didn't get her pussy wet, did it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:23 PM
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You're a man who is looking to get women. You read her statement. What is implied you should do from her statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:20 PM
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Why are there tens of millions of women with horror stories about getting pumped and dumped if character gets pussies wet?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:19 PM
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If character got pussies wet, there wouldn't be tens of millions of women with horror stories about the guys who pumped and dumped them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:18 PM
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It's implied in her statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:57 PM
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True blue pills. You don't see them much these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:49 PM
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Women's pussies don't get wet from character.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:54 PM
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Hi PPD women! This is a great example of the TERRIBLE dating advice men receive on a regular basis!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:48 PM
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No woman's pussy ever got wet over a man's character.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:46 PM
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You should reevaluate your premises. Maybe trp doesn't mean hating women :o
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:45 PM
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Same night lays all of the time? It's not realistic, outside of celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:37 PM
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I've said it before and I'll say it again. When you really boil it down, the blue pill is the black pill with a smiley face stapled on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:25 PM
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TRP is for developing and improving your sexual strategy. This gender war bullshit belongs in the trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:08 PM
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Who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:59 PM
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No sex? Lame!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:47 PM
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If you think TRP is men vs. women I don't even know where to begin.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:47 PM
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Who said they're already doing what I suggested?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:22 PM
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You just sound mad. I can't help with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:12 PM
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You're confusing red pill with black pill. Lift, get in shape, and learn basic style. If you've done that and learned game, and are still having major issues, I'm not against surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:03 PM
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Dudes need to looksmax and learn game.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:58 PM
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Too pricey for most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:49 PM
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Exceptions prove the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:41 PM
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You really think finding one person makes your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:35 PM
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Because ONE person said it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:52 AM
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Not bully them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:19 AM
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Uh, have fun with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:03 PM
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Well, now you've jumped up a level. We were talking about incel shootings, now, we're talking about all mass shootings, which have various reasons, like the Madden guy I linked.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:13 PM
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When you're talking about this low of numbers, there's dozens of "new types" of murders that didn't happen before. A dude shot up a Madden tournament, for example. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jacksonville_Landing_shooting They should be ignored as the aberrations they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:00 PM
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Correct. I'm glad you've learned something.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:53 PM
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You saying we should care about a percent of a percent of murders.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:40 PM
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You are overreacting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:25 PM
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The lesson you took from the passed 20 years is that when terrorism happens you should overreact?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:22 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:16 PM
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And compare it to any other kind of murder? So, a percent of a percent?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:13 PM
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Incel=involuntary celibate femcel=involuntary celibate woman
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:12 PM
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I mean, that must be what works, right? Because that's all anyone ever does when they find out someone is an incel is insult them. It can't be that they get off bullying losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:09 PM
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A female version of an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:08 PM
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I know that if I trust anyone, it's the FBI!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:07 PM
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We have an incel epidemic! Quick! Insult them more!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:59 PM
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Bro, I was waiting for someone to figure it out in this thread haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:57 PM
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Forced sex IS a kink. Just get yourselves a safe word and you're set.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:45 PM
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Femcel confirmed. BAN HAMMER INITIATED.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:43 PM
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You motherfuckers are STILL crying about Elliot Rogers!?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:42 PM
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We have more than two women. Come on!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:41 PM
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Fact check: false. All PPD women are femcels.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:41 PM
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Well then... get to it!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:40 PM
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Incels can get laid too, just not with people they want. Hookers and dudes would bang them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:40 PM
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Every woman's post is femcel content here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:39 PM
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You would know better than us. Do tell!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:35 PM
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A woman's version of an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:34 PM
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No incel content, so there shouldn't be femcel content. Equal rights for all!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:34 PM
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Are you denying that we have women?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:34 PM
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I will defend the femcel concept until the day I die. It's as real as incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:33 PM
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The first step to recovery is admitting you have a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:33 PM
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Including yourself!?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:32 PM
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We're getting some weird trolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 03:43 AM
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I don't think you're understanding what I'm saying and I don't have another way to say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 11:45 PM
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Yeah, dude, that's a casual dating timeline. There aren't tons and tons of same night lays. You just put out too many boyfriend vibes and get locked down quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 11:13 PM
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How long before you were "dating"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 10:58 PM
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Help me understand what you mean by this. How many relationships have you had, how long were they, and why would you not consider them to have come from casual dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 10:33 PM
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You misunderstand me. Who cares if what you say about male sexuality is true? Other people can get mad at the truth as much as they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 10:23 PM
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I think what spergs don't get is that ltrs, marriages, and kids come from casual dating. There is no separate casual dating and marriage market.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 08:08 PM
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What the hell are you rambling about?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 07:29 PM
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You people need to let the beta bucks shit go.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 07:13 PM
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You need romantic love. I'm sure people with friends are happier and more successful than those without as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:31 PM
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Arousal is a three legged stool for women. Looks, status, and game. Looks encompasses how in shape you are, your style, your height, and your facial structure. Two pieces of looks are very hard to change, face and height. If you have looksmaxxed and learned game (status is very difficult to increase as well, and very situational) and you still can't get laid because of extreme shortness or facial problems, get surgery. As to the last bit, "every girl being attracted to you" is a bizarre fantasy.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:30 PM
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Why is the first piece of advice we give to lift?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:54 PM
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Reread what you just wrote. You sound triggered.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:24 PM
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I should clarify that this is in the context of how men should be approaching women if they want a romantic relationship with them, i.e. you started flirting and she has responded back positively. If you're in boring friendly interview mode it isn't necessarily a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:04 PM
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Yes, absolutely. It's a comfort test, and actually a really good sign. She's already aroused, she just needs to balance it out with some comfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:40 PM
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I don't care. I'm not an MRA.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:32 PM
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I like that my tag triggers people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:30 PM
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It's basically calling you defective.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:29 PM
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This is a sexual strategy debate forum. I'm sure there's some small percentage of men with dating issues that have other mental problems affecting their dating lives, but most dudes just need to looksmax and learn game.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:29 PM
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I don't know man, I like sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:25 PM
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Who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:25 PM
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Dudes need to get laid, not talk about their feelings more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:03 AM
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I never have.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:00 AM
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What is it with reddit and therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:51 AM
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It just shows wealth is a non-factor in arousal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:50 AM
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I have personally experienced this in Brazil. My friend, in multiple countries like Thailand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:49 AM
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Do you think that if we talk frankly about male sexuality that it will be flattering?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:13 AM
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I swear to god if you read one trp article it would be your first.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:11 AM
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Many countries around the world have more relaxed attitudes about sex than the US. Thailand comes to mind. It still isn't a cheat code.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:55 AM
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As a man who didn't have game, learned it, and implemented it, it makes all the difference in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:53 AM
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Women are aroused by status. Admittedly, this line can get blurry sometimes. A doctor has status and money for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:52 AM
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I'm not against moving. Just don't think it means you don't have to looksmax and learn game.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:07 AM
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No woman ever got wet seeing a bank account. It's why she bangs the pool boy while her beta bucks husband busts his ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:06 AM
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Money has no impact on smv.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:40 AM
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If you can't get laid in the west, you're setting yourself up to be a beta bux hated chud anywhere else. I'm not against leaving the west for better puss, but you need to fix yourself first.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:17 AM
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Rollo has it right. 23 for women and 38 for men. https://i0.wp.com/therationalmale.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/smv_curve.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:14 AM
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It definitely does.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 06:27 PM
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It's so embarrassing. Johnny Depp and Amber Heard, the list goes on. Anyone who says Looks/Status/Money are all that matters have such obvious examples that destroy that idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 06:08 PM
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To some extent the ideas are timeless. Women have been women since they last evolved. There's certainly new aspects that TRP has brought to the table since then, though. We've never had the ease of travel and communication like in the ancient days, which changes the game. Spinning plates wouldn't have been possible in an isolated village, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 06:05 PM
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A woman divorced Channing Tatum. Even top men would benefit from the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 06:02 PM
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Think about why wealth-flaunting influencers Influencers have a shit load of status. It's why they're influencers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:36 PM
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Having it isn't arousing for women, either. I admit that this line can get blurry, though. Being a doctor confers status, and they make a lot of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 03:58 PM
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NOT power or wealth as the naive TRP notions would make you believe. Motherfuckers out here STILL thinking TRP says money confers status. You know we use the term beta bucks, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:09 PM
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It's a rarely used technique for a specific circumstance, but it makes pickup sound bad so PPD pretends pickup=negging.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:04 PM
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You really think this helps your argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 08:36 PM
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Dead on, and so bizarre from the male perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:57 PM
2

This makes me really want a cider.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:32 AM
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Lol she did.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:55 PM
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Fun for women. We also don't care about Suzy, the lady who annoys you at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:51 PM
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You're a woman. Women love that shit. I've done it with my wife. Because she's my wife and I love her, not because I wanted to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:50 PM
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Maybe I'm just oblivious, but I have never met an of girl in my time dating or anywhere else in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:43 PM
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Your guy friends want to bang you if they're willing to do that shit with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:39 PM
8

Lol apple picking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:36 PM
4

Incels vs. femcels, the forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:14 PM
6

No idea. I see a lot of dudes saying "don't date an only fans girl because of x" when is that ever going to come up?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:13 PM
2

I have never met a single OF girl, as far as I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:33 PM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:32 PM
1

You're not showing strength by throwing a tantrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:22 PM
2

Does throwing a tantrum over someone saying something you disagree with sound mature?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:48 PM
2

Does lashing out violently sound mature to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:37 PM
3

So, she'll prove the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:29 PM
11

I'm fine with the our money concept. It doesn't magically convert to yours because you got bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:13 PM
12

You don't have the right to other people's money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:05 PM
11

Ppd women gonna ppd women I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:54 PM
39

You really nailed it. The problem is the mean phrase, not that it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:50 PM
10

Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:34 PM
7

This is genuinely shocking to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:04 PM
4

You can pretty much give this criticism to any interest. Weight lifting, politics, language learning, all have their weirdos and scammers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:03 PM
5

Most dudes are just fine socially. I can go up to any random guy on the street and he'll be able to have a good conversation. Dudes need to learn game. Pretending that social skills will get you laid outside of luck is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:56 PM
46

They marry a post wall single mom in their 30's.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:38 PM
5

Completely false. I have always been a social butterfly. But I didn't get laid outside of luck until I learned game. It's a unique skillset.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:36 PM
5

This master flirter/escalator that is also a social retard doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:26 PM
95

A better question is how many men on this forum have met an onlyfans girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:24 PM
3

"fuck off" isn't the slam dunk argument you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 01:57 PM
5

How many only fans girls are you meeting!?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 12:24 PM
5

Women are just women. You need to get passed the anger stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 08:37 PM
1

You build a life with a woman only for her to get bored and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:05 PM
1

Lol I tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:44 PM
0

Whatever helps you sleep at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:27 PM
2

Height is a part of looks. Looks is a part of arousal. It matters, but it won't kill you on arousal outside of extremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:23 PM
-3

I don't know what you think you're arguing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:20 PM
2

I'm not trying to get you. It was a compliment. You're learning.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:02 PM
18

Men are not cookie cutter manospherian charicatures that fit only in some “alpha” or “beta” bucket. The best part about ppd is when blue pillers start to internalize our teachings. Trp, to them, shrinks into a smaller and smaller bucket as they begin to accept the truth. You have the same opinion on alpha and beta as Rian Stone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:45 PM
1

It's not. Men and women are different. But when she moves on, it ain't fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:41 PM
1

Women are serially monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 01:33 PM
0

I love ppd women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:41 AM
1

You tried?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:33 AM
5

Hi ppd women! This is that garbage advice from women you say doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:40 AM
2

Male sexuality is as unflattering as female sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:39 AM
8

Theoretical, but imagine telling your mom you're red pilled and what that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 09:19 PM
7

High. I could very comfortably have sex three times a day. I would not change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:22 PM
2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:42 AM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:15 PM
23

That's not how it works for men. We could be with the hottest woman on earth (to us) and still want to jerk it to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:11 PM
44

My arousal window is large. We'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 08:57 PM
0

Cool, but he's not a hermit freak either. If his goal is to improve his romantic relationships with women, his best bet is to get in shape, learn basic style, and learn game, not see a fucking therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 08:56 PM
1

Game is a unique set of skills. I've always been a social butterfly, but didn't get laid outside of luck. Learning game changed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 05:40 PM
1

This is a rare issue experienced by a small percentage of men. There's lots of men who socialize just fine, they just can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 04:48 PM
3

Betas have to care because they don't want to be hustled. Alphas don't have to care, because they're filtering out the hustlers naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 01:54 PM
1

That's the vast majority of the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:02 PM
1

So, back to what I said. All that trad shit is dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 04:53 PM
1

This is a sexual strategy debate forum, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 04:39 PM
1

This trad shit. It's over. We're not going back.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 04:23 PM
1

That shit ended 60 years ago. It's time to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 04:06 PM
0

So, 400 bucks? Lol. A therapist isn't going to teach you game
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:42 PM
8

Good LORD this sub is misinformed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 12:12 PM
1

Social skills are very general. Game is unique subset.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 12:08 PM
1

Of course. Game works. Why not learn it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 12:07 PM
4

Why practice blind? I always find this argument so bizarre. You wouldn't say the same thing about any other area of life. You'd look up a workout routine and techniques before starting to lift weights. You would read "How to win friends and influence people" if you had trouble making friends. The therapist line is a joke as well. A therapist is going to cost you more than 600 bucks. Even ignoring insurance, you'll go over that amount with 50 dollar copays in 13 sessions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 12:06 PM
14

Those not born with certain skills want to learn said skills. There's nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:06 AM
5

One of the biggest topics in pickup is how to overcome approach anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:05 AM
2

There's very few rp men. You'll be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 01:12 AM
3

We do what we do and think what we think because it works for us. Is this that complicated for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 01:00 AM
0

Take it up with god.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 11:26 PM
7

Cool, then move on. Why are you worried about us?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 11:05 PM
4

Reread my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 10:48 PM
16

Rian Stone says it all the time. It doesn't matter if it's true, it matters if it works. If trp isn't working for you, find something that does.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 10:33 PM
3

If she's less hot she still needs the tools.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 05:25 PM
8

There's definitely girl game. I have banged some terrible looking women who absolutely seduced me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 05:03 PM
8

This is a legendary quote. A better description of alpha fucks, beta bucks than any person in TRP could come up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:11 PM
1

That a woman is unchanged from 18 to 80.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:46 PM
2

TBP doesn't have an explanation for this. Learn game, for god's sake!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:25 AM
1

Some of the shit that comes out of men's mouths.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:55 AM
1

And they never change?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:10 PM
3

As explained below, men lack the ability to determine. Also, women can just change anyway. It's hubris on men's part to think they can find a "good woman" and be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:29 PM
5

We call this a plow horse. Like the one from animal farm. He was worked to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:27 PM
2

No idea. My knowledge is in men dating women. I can't help women date men. I've never dated one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:09 PM
3

I don't know how that's a response to what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:01 PM
8

Sure. But men have limited ability to assess it and women change regardless. It's great hubris on men's part to think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 07:59 PM
10

There isn't such a thing as a bad woman either. They're just women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 07:09 PM
7

There is no such thing as a good woman. She's not independent of how you act.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:20 PM
62

If you think you're red pilled, and still hold on to the concept of a "dream girl" you need to go back and read the sidebar.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:10 PM
3

These threads fucking suck. Are they right or are they wrong? What's the alternative?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 12:51 PM
1

PUA techniques will turn any self-respecting woman of values away. This is the line that always fascinates me. Do dudes really not think you actions or your words can arouse a normal woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 10:31 PM
1

Pickip started because guys were trying to look at what guys who were good with women did and copy them. Trp started because guys wanted to know why those techniques worked. Until you have other parts of society open and willing to have these types of discussions, without filters, guys like me will need pickup and trp.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 09:49 PM
2

Wrong definition of character, bud. She meant moral character.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 06:05 PM
-1

It's a facade.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 12:17 PM
-1

It's a facade.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 12:17 PM
-1

Cimzim is terrible. A pickme.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 03:14 AM
2

The bar is low.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 03:10 AM
2

Atlas. That's the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 02:30 AM
3

Nobody gets wet over a guy's character.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:55 AM
3

They had game and status. Attraction for women is a three legged stool. Looks, status, and game.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 12:00 AM
0

What do you think dread game is? Where did you get this information?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:44 PM
3

I spent too long watching ugly dudes pull to believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:43 PM
5

It's because looks is a smaller piece of arousal for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 10:54 PM
67

I was reliably informed by ppd women that younger women are not more attractive than older women. This is fake news.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:14 PM
13

So, ppd women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 06:29 PM
0

"this is all you have to do to have women fall at your feet!" Does TRP seem easy to implement to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 01:30 PM
1

You tried?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:07 AM
1

For example: In American culture, we’re taught to look someone in the eye to signal honesty, whereas refusing to meet someone’s gaze makes you seem dishonest or weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:31 AM
3

That's why you don't talk about it with women. Or men, really, irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:47 AM
2

Yes, they are. As you admitted with your own example.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:36 AM
2

If you're giving advice to a western man, which you are, it's a bizarre exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:39 AM
1

I wish I had a term for getting lost in exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 12:26 AM
2

How can something be learned if there aren't generalizations? For example, if the advice is, look people in the eye when you talk to them, there must be a general rule that people like it when you look them in the eye when talking to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:39 PM
2

You wouldn't be able to learn social skills of there wasn't generalizable human behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:11 PM
2

You don't believe that. Tons of social skills can be learned. Why not dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:27 PM
2

I would need better explainations than a shoulder shrug to compete.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:15 PM
2

I'm concerned with what works, not your moral code.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:21 PM
4

It's funny. My first experience with ppd was a trp post explaining that the blue pill argument's goal is to prove their moral superiority. Trp is concerned with what works.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:20 PM
3

You go ahead and fix society. I'll be over here with a good romantic life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 04:50 PM
3

It's not about right and wrong. It's about what works.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 04:34 PM
3

I learned game, spun plates, she was plate, and she earned a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 04:28 PM
2

I mean, if you want to be black pilled have at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 04:27 PM
4

Trp is what led me to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 04:01 PM
1

Awalt is a feature, not a bug. It makes improving a man's romantic life easier that there is consistency among women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:34 PM
3

Yes, trp is more than some scare quotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:32 PM
1

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:31 PM
1

Shit, we have another candy apples on our hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:08 PM
5

That's literally what trp is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:08 PM
-3

I don't like prescriptive advice in general, unless someone is shooting for a desired outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:07 PM
4

I'm married with a child on the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:06 PM
6

Once you see it for yourself, you can't unsee it. And then you start to think of your past experiences and connect the dots. If it didn't work, I would find something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:52 PM
5

First, I learned game. Arousal is a three legged stool, and I was missing a leg. Second, it helped me understand why women do what they do. I spend a lot less time confused or angry and more time fixing things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:35 PM
1

Well, I tried. I'm here to save me, not "men". Trp helped me, and I'm very thankful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:17 PM
4

We're talking about male sexuality here. Is it flattering that he would be more aroused by some secretary than his wife and the mother of his kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:05 PM
-1

She can divorce you and take half and not have to deal with you. Why bother staying with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:40 PM
7

So, when a 40 year old woman's husband gets a hot 20-something secretary, she has nothing to worry about?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:39 PM
8

If you were to describe male sexuality openly and honestly, without filters, would it sound flattering?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:22 PM
-1

What is this supposed to mean to us? Are we supposed to lie down and rot instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:17 PM
-2

Sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:13 PM
1

Fire comment. Men and women aren't bad. They're just different.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:20 PM
7

The alternative is to forget about social norms and do what works for you. TRP isn't about changing the world. It's about changing men, if they want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:13 PM
10

And they're the pathetic ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:31 PM
1

I have literally never met one. These bizarre scenarios don't happen outside of ppd.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:07 PM
1

Yeah, that's not what vetting means.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:00 PM
1

So, you'll set boundaries, and then enforce them? Where did I hear that before?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:42 PM
1

Once you think you have vetted, what do you think happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:43 PM
0

Vetting is hubris plus a confirmation bias. Great women are made, not born.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:53 AM
1

Where dudes fuck up, is they think that their perception of a person is that person, and that person is static. Women you want to be with aren't found, they're made.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:06 AM
-3

Any more bromides you would like to share with us today?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:07 PM
18

Vetting is an idiotic concept. You aren't that clarvoyant to figure out another human being, and people change. Set boundaries and enforce them. That's all you can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:06 PM
1

Ahhhhh. That makes more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:51 PM
0

That's wild. No weirdness in the late 20's that you can remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:45 PM
0

Dating at 18? That epiphany phase is going to be rough, bro. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:21 PM
2

Lift Spin plates Ignore all dating advice from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:18 PM
-2

Utterly bizarre. So an eunuch could be attracted to someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:09 PM
0

What the fuck does attraction mean if not arousal?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:28 PM
13

The rational male is such a foundational work. If I have a son, he's getting a copy at 12.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:35 PM
1

It's because the "be comfortable alone" line is bullshit. We would think it was bizarre if someone had zero friends and claimed to be happy. You need romantic love just like you need friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:49 PM
0

If you want her to die of boredom.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:25 PM
1

It would have made life a lot easier for us if TRP wasn't right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 12:14 PM
1

12 minutes of negging! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=reZVUV7InJ4
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 12:13 PM
1

This is why we get frustrated. You're debating about something you don't know the first thing about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 09:20 PM
-2

I suppose you can lose weight or whatever but it's limited. A man must make himself arousing in many other ways as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:27 PM
3

We includes me, personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 05:07 PM
7

I think what is happening here is that women are, and men become. So, for women, TRP men were always TRP men. So, it would make sense that men's experiences are BECAUSE of what they always were. Instead, men had certain bad, or in my case, not ideal experiences, and wanted to fix it, so we became who we wanted to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:59 PM
3

Negging is a rarely used technique for a specific circumstance. But, it makes pickup look bad, so it's all tbp knows about pickup.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:34 PM
1

I don't complain about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:10 AM
4

As stated many times on this forum, god help the man who listens to women's embarassing dating advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:54 AM
7

Dudes, could you imagine spitting this cringe at a girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:48 AM
3

Help us with sexy banter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:30 AM
6

Can you give us an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:12 AM
2

Can men act certain ways that are more arousing to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:09 AM
4

By your definition of misogyny, this is objectively false. This all came from us asking why pua techniques work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:59 AM
4

How does that help me?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:55 AM
2

The best thing I learned was to keep it light and flirty in the beginning. Comfort can come later.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 01:03 PM
1

I was never a PUA but I have learned PUA techniques.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:47 AM
1

It's a rarely used technique for a specific situation in pickup, but it makes pickup look bad so we have to pretend it's the #1 technique, or, hell, the only technique.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:12 AM
16

If men listened to women, we'd never get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:37 AM
3

So when women talk about men not getting laid because of their bad personalities, it's bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 07:27 PM
5

What happened to women's magical personality detectors!?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 06:49 PM
13

This is the line. But the actual danger to women in their romantic lives isn't from the neckbeard incels they reject, but the men they choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 05:11 PM
2

I have been hit on directly by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:13 AM
1

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:58 PM
6

Fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:15 PM
0

Yeah, when you're hitting on someone, that doesn't count as getting hit on when they respond positively. If that's the case, I can't even count the number.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:27 PM
7

Oh, so you're approaching her. Lol. Yeah dude, different animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:23 PM
8

Who's surprised?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:16 PM
0

You're still wrong. There aren't good women and bad women. They're just women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:15 PM
1

I don't know why you're explaining things to me I already know.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:14 PM
8

I'm not a 10. Probably a 7 when I'm in good shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:14 PM
6

As in, the woman cold approached you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:13 PM
2

I was wondering what the fuck was going on. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:12 PM
1

They're just different, and that's okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 02:51 PM
71

Number one is brutal. I'm a tall guy with a good face and I've been hit on no more than 5 times. Women just live in another universe.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 02:41 PM
1

Women are just people like us they are shitty ones and good ones. This is literally blue pilled shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 02:39 PM
8

Why do you bitch incessantly about men who bitch incessantly?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 12:22 PM
0

You sound mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 12:20 PM
18

She isn't going to TELL you. You'll just notice a drop off in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 12:42 AM
5

I'd say an 8. The only thing that brings me down is the stress of work, but I love my life outside of it. I think western men are less happy because they lack easy pathways to money like our parents and grandparents had and, unless you follow TRP, the bluepill offers you a shitty romantic life unless you get lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 12:39 AM
1

Damn zim did we just become best friends!?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 07:41 PM
1

Guidlines is a good word. That's what trp is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 07:28 PM
–

They're aiming too high. A guy with options has a half dozen girls who look like your friends on tap. What is she doing to differentiate herself from the pack?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 06:56 PM
1

A stay at home woman is not a norm in either sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 06:43 PM
1

Sure, but can we develop general rules because there are norms?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 06:42 PM
1

No. What relevance does that have?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 06:32 PM
1

How can we all be unique if there are norms?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:35 PM
-3

That's your whole schtick.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:00 PM
5

Why would you need to smash gender norms if there isn't a norm?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:17 PM
4

I don't see why they should worry me. They aren't saying anything new, unique, or unusual for a western woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:38 AM
11

This is why you don't bother with social circle game unless you really know what you're doing. Leave your friends your friends. Daygame, nightgame, and OLD is the way to go for the newbie.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 12:31 AM
1

Useful to you, which is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 05:09 PM
2

Utterly useless. God help them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 04:11 PM
0

It's just a shittier version.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:54 PM
-4

As if men's rights could get any more useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 01:30 PM
1

An anxious, avoidant attachment style?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 12:04 AM
0

A bunch of dudes yelling at only fans thots isn't going to convince anyone trp is worth their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 10:07 PM
-1

It's just yelling at women. A waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 10:02 PM
2

Alexander grace is just a more boring version of a fresh and fit circle jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:53 PM
1

Then I think we know that he couldn't pull.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:42 PM
1

There are dudes with options who choose to not exercise them. We call those religious men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:32 PM
1

Women are so innocent sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:26 PM
1

You think your husband could pull but chose not to?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:16 PM
2

Yeah, but could he have been? As in, was that even an option for him?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 08:40 PM
1

By choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:58 AM
1

That sounds like a serious mental issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:14 AM
1

Whether they are or they're not, do they think it's 1950?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:57 PM
2

Duh. I don't know what point you're trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 09:58 PM
1

When do you have to say it, in your world? Does it have to be your opener when you meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 10:04 PM
1

Who's hiding? Again, women aren't dumb. They don't think it's 1950.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 10:01 PM
1

Again, your argument does not make a distinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 08:54 PM
14

Nothing wrong with being romantic with a girl who has earned it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 08:05 PM
2

I mean, if dudes want to piss all over their sexual strategy plans by laying them out for women, that's all and well good for them. But it isn't immoral to not be weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 08:04 PM
1

Very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 08:02 PM
1

I am against child genocide. This is, apparently, a controversial opinion on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 08:02 PM
1

They want lower SMV men to lie down and rot, not complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 08:01 PM
1

Because non-autistic people don't talk like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 07:20 PM
1

You out yourself as a weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 07:13 PM
1

Again, why would someone assume exclusivity in 2021?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:43 PM
2

I'll be more blunt, then, AMALT and AWALT has to be true to some extent if you can learn social skills, because otherwise the people wouldn't be consistent enough to improve upon said skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:42 PM
1

When did I advocate lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:31 PM
3

Why would a woman assume a guy is exclusive with them in 2021?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:25 PM
1

So, standard woman advice haha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:24 PM
1

I don’t believe in AWALT or AMALT Let's take this slow. Can social skills be learned?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:24 PM
0

The only reason women call for this autistic conversation is because it signals that the dude is a guy with a sexual strategy, which is an instant turn off. Women aren't dumb. They know when things are exclusive and when they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:23 PM
-1

If you don't have an autistic conversation with women, you're hiding it!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:14 PM
1

What is unique about FDS advice that isn't just standard woman advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:11 PM
1

So, you're "not like the other girls"?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:10 PM
0

It's not about Cosmo being "accurate", whatever that means. It's understanding that FDS is nothing new or unique, and it's what TRP was built to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:10 PM
1

Taking the red pill is realizing how modern western women see relationships. That's basically FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:09 PM
3

women's lives were ruled by Red Pills This might be my favorite thing ever posted on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:08 PM
0

I think women get mad at FDS because they're giving the game away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:07 PM
0

Ah, this is why dudes get worked up. They haven't swallowed the red pill, yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:54 PM
1

They're Western women, what do you expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:51 PM
2

I mean, really, TRP was made to deal with exactly what you described.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:50 PM
0

What are they doing that is uniquely bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:49 PM
2

So, they're your normal, Western woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:48 PM
0

ok. Why does that bother you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:47 PM
0

It's standard woman advice, bruh. Why worry?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:46 PM
0

Why dislike it? Use the knowledge of what it is to your advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:45 PM
-1

Is there anything that isn't what Cosmo already says?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:43 PM
0

That's modern women in general. One could argue it's why trp exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:42 PM
1

Yeah, I can see that making sense. I count going over or someone coming over and having sex as a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:33 PM
2

It's a total contradiction. Like asking "When the sun rises in the west...."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:32 PM
1

I'm sure you don't. But the logic in your argument holds for any unwanted kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:25 PM
5

By any sane definition, you date plates.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:23 PM
0

We're still genociding kids at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:13 PM
2

If only!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:11 PM
2

He said excluding girls you're dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:10 PM
8

I got flowers from a girl I sat next to in class on Valentine's day. We would sometimes have a friendly chat coming in and leaving. I shut her down hard, mostly due to confusion and being put on the spot in front of the entire class. I have a lot of empathy for when this happens to women, now. Don't declare your feelings out of the blue, guys!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:06 PM
2

It's the identical section with poor kids swapped for abortion. Notice how it doesn't affect the argument, AT ALL?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:00 PM
2

Clearly not. You think women are child-like retards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:58 PM
2

Feminist dudes have the lowest opinion of women. Good lord.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:20 PM
1

So many, feminist dad? Do you think women are stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:10 PM
2

The entire rationale of killing poor kids is centered around the societal cost of unwanted and usually dysfunctional children, not getting your dick wet
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:01 PM
1

But wait, feminist dad, I thought women didn't like bad men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 03:59 PM
1

You tried?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 03:50 PM
1

The thing that'll really bug you later is when you start to think about why so many women are having sex with deadbeat men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 03:50 PM
2

Read your argument again that I responded to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 03:33 PM
0

It also includes ethnicity, culture, or any other particular group. In this case, it would be poor kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 02:39 PM
1

He's on another planet now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 02:31 PM
0

????????
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 07:16 AM
0

I did not know that rape is legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 07:03 AM
2

For now. This helps fix the future by removing the bad incentives.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:59 AM
1

I literally said it in my first comment in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:47 AM
1

Either it's enough to be an incentive or it's not. Make up your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:42 AM
1

If it's so little, I guess it's not important to give it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:38 AM
-3

Why do abortionists ALWAYS make the case for genocide?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:37 AM
0

Oh, if it's not a reward we can just take it away then. Phew.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:32 AM
0

Look around. Funding women's lifestyles already degraded society. The worst of society comes out of these homes. It's time to stop incentivizing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:31 AM
0

It's not a punishment, you just don't get a reward for doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:28 AM
0

This is embarassing, please stop. Roosh, Style, and countless other puas all of the sudden see the error of their ways when that special girl comes along. It's a tale as old as trp. Hope it works for you bruh, but you're not putting yourself in the best position with this quality woman insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:27 AM
1

Are you really making the case against kids ever being taken away from their parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:21 AM
1

So, we agree. Equal responsibility, equal authority.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:19 AM
1

The money is handed to women with no strings attached other than to not have cps take them away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:18 AM
0

You have no fundamental right to have other people fund your lifestyle. If you can't take care of your kids, that's your problem. The kids have a case for care, the parents don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:17 AM
0

You get special welfare benefits when you have kids and can't afford it. The vast majority goes to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:15 AM
0

Ding ding ding
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:12 AM
1

You don't get to be the care giver if you can't afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:10 AM
-2

Keep your legs closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:06 AM
0

I'm fine with safety nets for kids. Not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:03 AM
2

So, we're good banning abortion, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:59 AM
1

I'm not arguing against it. I'm arguing against giving that money to women with kids. Can't afford them without special welfare benefits? No kids for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:58 AM
1

As always, women want men to take responsibility over which they don't have authority.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:53 AM
-4

That doesn't happen to kids with no parents now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:52 AM
8

Jim says it best. Women are serially monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:15 AM
10

"she's not like the other girls!"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:12 AM
6

But for those rare few of you who want to marry or at least have a long term/lifetime relationship, The relationship/marriage as a goal mentality is fundamentally blue pill. This is a contradiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:11 AM
11

Why does everyone think that yelling at and insulting people is the way to convince them they're wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:00 AM
1

I would agree with this if you also agree this is subconcious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:26 AM
-4

That's why you cut off the special welfare benefits too. Also won't happen, because women want their bail outs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:25 AM
1

I might as well talk to a brick wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 02:26 AM
1

Good for you. Not sure what that has to do with anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 02:18 AM
1

You tried?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 09:53 PM
-1

I'm not on a team. Go save the world. I'll be over here having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 08:47 PM
3

This isn't a team sport. Nobody gives a fuck about you but you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 07:44 PM
1

Years!?!?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 07:25 PM
4

Mainstream my ass. Who is talking about this in mainstream media other than random hit pieces?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 06:45 PM
1

Anxiety is IN the definition!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 06:25 PM
5

Rollo Tomassi invented much of red pill ideology, and I expect that most of his sexual experiences came as a rock musician having sex with the kind of women who have sex with strangers who are music artists. All things considered, such women, "groupies" are almost certainly exhibiting traits of Borderline.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 06:19 PM
1

anxiety https://www.dictionary.com/browse/tension# You'd think you would have checked before posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 06:18 PM
1

Where did you meet them? This is like a fraction of a fraction of a fraction of men who would 1. believe this 2. be retarded enough to say their beliefs to a woman and expect anything good to come out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 06:17 PM
1

You met these dudes at TRP meetups?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 06:13 PM
3

FDS advice isn't new or radical. Fucking Steve Harvey has a 90 day no sex rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 06:11 PM
9

How the FUCK are you people meeting MULTIPLE people at work who follow TRP when it's a tiny corner of the internet!?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 06:10 PM
1

Which views?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 06:10 PM
3

So, considering the other three huge figures, one of which precedes TRP WEREN'T musicians, does your premise make any sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 06:08 PM
1

I mean, when you equivocate on the word I'm using, you can win any argument you want. Her anxiety is key. That's why they call it sexual tension.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 06:07 PM
2

Much in your context means most, which is definitely not true. He's definitely a big part of it, but we're talking about two other huge figures at the same time as him and the one preceding it was extremely crucial in its development. As far as I know, neither Pook, Roissey, or Roosh were musicians.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 05:56 PM
4

The chance of you meeting BOTH a TRP and FDS person in real life is so close to zero I'd run out of space typing the zeros in the percentage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 05:54 PM
59

Rollo Tomassi invented much of red pill ideology I like how this is factually incorrect from the first sentence. TRP came from the SoSuave forum. It came from guys starting to wonder why game works. If you're looking for a founder, the earliest well known name is Pook. After him, Roosh, Roisse(I always spell it wrong), and Rollo each added a ton. From there, a million flowers bloomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 05:50 PM
1

Lol we're not talking about the weather. A good example of how anxiety gets women aroused is when she's anxious that the man she wants might choose someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 11:06 PM
1

False. It's called sexual tension for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:57 PM
4

Women's libido changes a lot over the course of their lifetime. It WILL change.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:48 PM
2

In the modern era, women have plenty of comfort. What they don't have is arousal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:41 PM
1

How many women have you seduced? How many LTR's with women have you had?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 12:59 PM
-1

An overabundance of comfort kills the sex drive in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 11:51 AM
1

You tried?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:06 AM
1

occasionally ə-kā′zhə-nə-lē adverb Now and then; from time to time. In an occasional manner; on occasion; at times, as convenience requires or opportunity offers; not regularly. From time to time; now and then; once in a while; irregularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:47 AM
2

We’re not just roommates who sleep together occasionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:27 AM
2

We’re not just roommates who sleep together occasionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:01 AM
3

Enough women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:56 AM
5

Enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:40 AM
5

Oof dead bedroom confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:26 AM
6

Like I said in my response, a lot less sex. Nobody wants to fuck their buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:26 AM
0

A lot less sex. Wife is more likely to get bored and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:25 AM
1

Sure, why not? Lots of women have all sorts of ideas about how they'll date until Chad comes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 06:01 PM
1

TRP thinks that looks, status, and game is what arouses women, The black pill thinks it's only looks, and specifically, looks that are really difficult to change, like facial structure and height.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:07 PM
7

I don't understand what you're trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:23 AM
1

Still need to work out on roids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:23 AM
5

I have my own problems with the men's right's movement, mainly, that it's a waste of time, but your brother sounds like the problem, not the men's rights movement or their writings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:18 AM
1

If you're willing to lose 20 years, what is holding you back now? Are you in top shape? Learned and implemented game? What about plastic surgery or height surgery if needed? There are very few men who couldn't at least get some plates if he does all of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:01 AM
2

If anyone takes the time to study that story, they would learn that Rodgers thought game didn't work. Game is a core tenet of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:59 AM
1

I would take 10 years off of my life to be in top physical shape. The time saved working out, and the quality of life improvements from eating whatever I want, not having weight related health issues, and being more arousing would be well worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:56 AM
2

What did the literature actually say? Who wrote it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:13 AM
6

Which rights was he advocating for?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:58 PM
3

Yes, twice. After the first, I wanted to get better at romance and got curious after a fb friend posted a trp hit piece. It was the full interview with red pill school that piqued my interest and led to a lot more reading and implementation. Rian Stone posts a lot about how terrible the ppd arguments are so I swung by to see if anyone was making a good case for the blue pill. I've learned a lot since coming here, although some of the more challenging posters have left. I need to just start ignor…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:57 PM
6

The mra literature? What does your dad leaving your mom have to do with men's rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:51 PM
11

Lol of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:50 PM
0

To ppd women, the red pill is the black pill. Full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:26 PM
8

If you want loyalty, get a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 10:09 PM
0

This thread is going to fucking suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 04:38 PM
14

Arousal and comfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 02:03 PM
1

The story in the op didn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 04:53 AM
1

It would be cruel to a child in some circumstances, so we might choose to prevent that from happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 11:14 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 10:45 PM
1

It helps children by making less children be born in non-ideal circumstances. This is an argument for the genocide of any child born to non-ideal circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 09:04 PM
1

Old is great. You just have to know how to use it. Make it fun and flirty and set up a date. Stop with this conversation bullshit. Nobody wants to be your pen pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 06:55 PM
1

But you did, so, here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 05:28 PM
1

Your logic is identical whether they're born or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:26 PM
1

Abortion harms foetes, not children. It helps children by making less children be born in non-ideal circumstances. When "for the children" arguments are used when genociding them, you start to realize it's not for the children.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 12:55 PM
1

Responsibility without authority again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 12:46 PM
1

The bar being getting your kids taken from you is extremely low.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 12:45 PM
0

As said elsewhere, if it was about the child abortion and divorce would be illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 12:42 PM
1

This doesn't contradict what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 10:08 AM
1

This is pretty much the blue pill red pill split right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 02:11 AM
1

Humans aren't that unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 01:53 AM
1

If you want to have an open and honest conversation about men, will it sound flattering?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 01:44 AM
4

Whatever is or isn't true about me has no impact on the truth of what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 12:29 AM
1

That's why you cut off special welfare benefits too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 12:25 AM
3

I don't understand what you're trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 12:22 AM
3

What percentage? @
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 12:21 AM
2

As I said elsewhere, if that was the goal abortion and divorce would be illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 12:15 AM
3

Whether anyone in trp is or isn't is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 12:00 AM
3

Whether I am or not is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 11:55 PM
2

How often does that happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 11:50 PM
7

Who actually receives the money?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 11:31 PM
4

If it was about the kid divorce and abortion would be illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 11:31 PM
5

How many single dads are there in comparison? Who actually receives the money?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 11:30 PM
1

You don't get extra money for having a kid, child support or welfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 11:01 PM
4

Remove all special legal privileges women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 10:08 PM
2

The point is to test the core ideas. The principals carry over, no matter what the culture is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 05:04 PM
0

All sorts of things. Reality is what she feels, not what actually happens. Dudes lose their minds because they can't just accept this and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 09:24 PM
1

Dudes spend a lot of time wondering why women believe provably wrong things are true when they date them. It's because it doesn't matter what actually happened. She feels it happened one way, so that's reality for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:16 PM
2

You have the causation inverted from the correlation. Everything is better when the sex life is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 10:20 PM
1

The bar is below the bottom of the Ocean haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 09:49 PM
1

Responsibility comes with authority. I would never advocate anyone take one without the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 09:48 PM
3

The authority to choose to have the child remains in the woman's hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 09:22 PM
1

For women, how they feel is reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:25 PM
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3) You're really humble.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:00 PM
1

I don't know how you could get that from what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 07:02 PM
1

I don't know what this has to do with anything I've said.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 06:23 PM
2

Or he has oneitis.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 06:12 PM
5

My impression is that he hates it. Even if he hooks up with a girl here or there, this is clearly a Jada thing. Jada never believed in conventional marriage … Jada had family members that had an unconventional relationship,” Will revealed. “So she grew up in a way that was very different than how I grew up.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 06:08 PM
5

Will Smith Confirmed He And Jada Pinkett Smith Have An Open Relationship And Admitted She's "Never Believed In A Conventional Marriage" A Year On From That "Entanglement" Drama Huge oof. Basically cuckoldry. This just shows guys that looks, status, and money can only take you so far if you're blue pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 06:00 PM
10

Is it open for him?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 05:38 PM
3

More responsibility without authority.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 05:38 PM
1

So, even less responsibility for women. And the blue pill wonders why trp exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 05:37 PM
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Cool, so we'll end the special welfare benefits and child support. I'm glad we agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 02:17 PM
1

Again, if it's so little, just end both the welfare and the child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:46 PM
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Kind of making my original point for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:45 PM
1

Who receives the money and decides how to spend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:01 PM
2

Women collectively are not all receiving benefits (neither are men) nor are men collectively paying for all of them. And men aren’t collectively paying child support for children that they aren’t responsible for either. Nobody is claiming it is 100% of men are paying 100% of women. It's that men pay the vast majority of child support to women, and men pay most of the taxes, of which the vast majority of special welfare benefits for those with children go to women. It's an argument at an aggregat…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:31 PM
1

If the woman doesn't want the kid she aborts, if she does, he (or the state) pays. Authority without responsibility. It's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:24 PM
0

Cool, then end both, if they're not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:09 PM
2

lol. you missed the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 02:58 AM
3

Who gets more child support? Are there special benefits for those who have custody of children? Who has more custody of children?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 02:07 AM
1

Why not just flip to a CMV?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:42 AM
1

The second part, but not "men" and "women" but a man and a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:42 AM
1

How she acts is not independent of how you act. She's made by your actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:06 AM
0

If you find someone who made that claim other than yourself, ask them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:59 AM
1

I don't know how to explain this to you another way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:49 AM
0

You already explained my point, agreed with it, and then moved on to a point nobody made. Unless you have something you disagree with me on, we have resolved this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:43 AM
-1

In general, it's true in this example. It has exactly to do with what's between their legs. It's not a coincidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:36 AM
-1

Men as a whole tend to make more money, so their share is of course larger. But that's just basic math. Literally what I explained to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:28 AM
0

Who has the bigger share? Is it really close when you compare it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:22 AM
1

These dudes think how women act is independent of how they act so a "non-shallow, long term worthy" just exists floating out there waiting to be located.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:21 AM
1

Is this really that hard to follow?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:10 AM
0

You have a flawed mental model if you have a long term relationship as a goal and think "non-shallow, long term worthy" women are "found".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:04 AM
3

hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:02 AM
8

This might be the single funniest thing you have ever claimed. And that's saying something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:01 AM
3

It's one example, but it's a clear example where men, who pay most of the taxes, take responsibility for women, who take most of the benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:00 AM
4

How often does that happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 11:54 PM
2

Who gets the money?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 11:53 PM
13

So, you don't think there's a pay gap between men and women? Interesting. The total tax payers and receivers is what matters in this math. Men pay more in taxes to women who take more benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 11:53 PM
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As I responded to Poppy, who pays more in taxes? Unless you don't believe in the pay gap, it's men. Second, who recieves the special welfare benefits more, men or women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 11:51 PM
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Who has final say if the child is born? Women don't pay an equal amount of taxes, unless you don't think the paygap exists. Then, you factor in how many women receive these special welfare benefits vs. men, and you know who's bread is being buttered. Oh, and divorce would be illegal too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 11:48 PM
13

Do you think there are more women than you in the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 11:08 PM
14

I paid for my own kid. I didn’t get child support. I didn’t ask for it. Starting to think Orange is a red piller playing the long game.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 10:43 PM
3

I don't see how this disagrees with my op in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 10:34 PM
8

The mother doesn't have to do anything but keep cps from taking the kid away.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 10:18 PM
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We've done this before, but I'm fine explaining for the newbies. The best example is child support and special welfare benefits for women with children. Women have the authority to choose to have the child or not, but not the responsibility to pay for it. Men pay child support and special welfare benefits to women. It's not for the children. If it was for the children, abortion would be illegal. It's for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 10:17 PM
8

Nature doesn't make child support and welfare laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 10:14 PM
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The best example is child support and special welfare benefits for women with children. They have the authority over whether they have a child, but not the related responsibility to pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 09:40 PM
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What frustrates men is that women have authority without responsibility, and men have responsibility without authority. Men are expected to watch women be openly hypergamous but not change our traditional role of being responsible for you. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 08:08 PM
1

No, if you mean a guy would have had a chance if he’d acted sooner. That’s something guys tell themselves. I’ve had a couple of guys admit to me they think I friendzoned them; I was never attracted to them and nothing would have caused me to see them as anything but a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:01 AM
2

The black pill says only looks matter for arousal. You agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 11:12 PM
1

This doesn't refute what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 08:11 PM
1

Read the OP's explanation of the study.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 06:59 PM
1

Actual conspiracies (in anything) are rare because people are too dumb and/or talkative to pull it off. People with the same goals acting in the same direction to achieve those goals isn't rare, though. It's how the world works.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 06:58 PM
1

When blue pillers are black pillers. Sad!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 06:56 PM
2

It's often not lying with women. They FEEL it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 06:55 PM
4

As the study was explained, they're asking women at random times and they respond that they're doing housework. You understand the flaw in then assuming that means they're doing housework, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 06:33 PM
5

This is gold. You don't think men get friend zoned?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 05:24 PM
6

This is how dudes get friendzoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 04:53 PM
5

All that tells you is if you ask women what they're doing they tell you they're doing housework more.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 04:51 PM
0

Women will backwards rationalize everything. He could be doing a ton at home, but she'll pick out something that is undone at home and fixate on it because the real answer is not flattering. Women don't want stay at home men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 04:27 PM
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Or, that's how women perceive it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 03:30 PM
1

He's trying to make out like he's the average dude. He's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 03:29 PM
1

It ends up being the same number in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:28 PM
1

Assert that even though we say we're not attracted to a man's money or resources because we've already got our own, this is a lie and we'd all immediately dump our current partners for an interested millionaire Some of this shit legitimately comes off as a parody of the blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:39 AM
-3

Not sure how old you are but you're literally below average in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:38 AM
3

That isn't a major issue. Most dudes lack looks, status, and game, and an understanding that that's what they need to get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 05:20 PM
2

Who cares if men do it too?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 05:13 PM
3

We're men fucking women. This battle of the sexes stuff is off topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 04:21 PM
1

Why worry about things you can't control?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 04:29 PM
2

There isn't a middle ground in fixing your life, unless you want to do a shitty job of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 03:52 PM
4

The blue pill is society's general view of romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 03:15 PM
3

Yeah, I mean, I stumbled into things too. The question to men is if they just want to rely on dumb luck or work on it. Up to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 02:55 PM
5

Romantic relationships are an extremely important part of life. If you need to make radical changes to fix it, do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 02:49 PM
5

So, according to you, game is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 02:35 PM
5

Reread what you wrote in your first response to me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 02:25 PM
6

Game works.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 02:21 PM
6

If you treat women the way you treat men you'll get the same result barring dumb luck. This is why dudes end up friend zoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 02:15 PM
2

I'm proud of who I am because I've changed myself to be who I want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 02:07 PM
9

What context is provided in the phrase? All you did here was utter the phrase and then immediately contradict it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 02:01 PM
8

It's literally changing yourself. This is why the be yourself advice is so terrible. It's incoherent. You decide who yourself is. If you don't like it, change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 01:56 PM
7

What the hell does be yourself mean if you're changing yourself by trying?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 01:50 PM
7

How about you do what’s comfortable to you. Being a try hard comes off as awkward. The blue pill is an incoherent mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 01:46 PM
0

Generally speaking I would say a solid style base that is attractive to most women is the way to go for the newbie. It's hard to nail a niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 01:14 PM
9

If I wore just what was comfortable for me I would be in boxers and at shirt all the time. Yes, you have to actually try and not just "be yourself".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 01:12 PM
13

You decide what yourself is. I choose to be someone who gets laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 01:11 PM
11

Hi ppd women! Here’s the terrible advice we're always telling you is given to men. Please remember it next time!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 01:10 PM
3

I use the London Daygame Model. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PQQYKKqPYhc&t=78s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 11:59 PM
2

Like, do you want the blow by blow or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 11:02 PM
1

Do whatever you want. But everything else in life can be worked on and improved. Romance isn't different.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:52 PM
5

As someone who didn't have game, learned it, and implemented it, this is completely false. I know approach anxiety sucks, and if you don't want to do it, fine, but don't pretend it doesn't work to save your ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:51 PM
1

You did the equivalent of going to the gym without researching what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:27 PM
0

Again, replace the romantic life with a career. If I just let my career "happen" I would have worse outcomes than if I worked on it. It's not just sheer numbers of hookups or gfs, but the quality of those experiences over all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 01:38 PM
1

I don't understand this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 12:02 PM
13

It's extremely easy. Getting a bf that you actually want is hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 11:17 AM
2

It sucked because doing anything without thinking about it beforehand sucks. Imagine weight training without research or consistency, but just "letting it happen".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 11:10 AM
-4

Yeah dude, it's what most dudes do and it sucks. I lived it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 10:44 PM
1

You tried?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 10:28 PM
0

Any rando can say anything. I just referenced what is effectively the trp bible in the rational male. You would be hard pressed to find a trp forum mod/ec or prominent youtuber who didn't say the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 10:02 PM
3

Most alphas are naturals. I think it's silly to think nobody with blue pill beliefs is sexually successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 09:58 PM
-5

And yet I have no problem getting a lay or a girlfriend for most of my adult life. My body count is between 5 and 8 I had that when I was blue pilled too. I guess if you aim low enough, it's success.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 09:57 PM
-2

Mostly because I believe NAWALT. I think all women who are attracted to men are sexually hypergamous, but they can be hypergamous in different ways. No one in trp disagrees with this. And I definitely don’t agree with TRP’s more misogynistic AWALT views. Do you want to have an open and frank conversation about male sexuality? Do you think it's flattering as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 09:55 PM
6

There's a whole chapter in the rational male about the importance of having a look. Just once, I would like tbp to have a single clue about trp.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 09:52 PM
1

I don't find boring neurotics respectable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 06:32 PM
1

So, we're back to paranoia and neuroticism. So, yes, we really do like the types of people who are open to a cold approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 06:22 PM
0

For fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 06:10 PM
0

How long do you have to talk to not be a stranger? The typical approach is 5-7 minutes. Also, there's lots of daygamers who go for the instant date, i.e., they go somewhere and get coffee. Are they strangers after that as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 05:52 PM
-1

There's tons to explain. Do you think we recommend to men to be super sexual right away? Or just go right for a number?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 04:45 PM
0

How, exactly, do you think a cold approach works?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 04:39 PM
4

There are probably some people who would, but do men really want to get with the women that are desperate enough to give their number to a stranger who picked them solely on their appearance? Yes, we would like the kind of woman who isn't so neurotic and broken as to be accepting of a man approaching her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 04:25 PM
3

Fucking wear a condom, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 12:26 PM
2

How many abortions ocur every year in the uk? Do you think that has a birth rate impact?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 06:14 PM
1

There just aren't enough numbers out there to make that story realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:57 PM
13

When a man wants to keep a child when a woman is pregnant, and the woman doesn't, who gets final say, by law?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:07 PM
12

And when she doesn't want to have the kid anymore, and he does, who gets to decide, by law?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:06 PM
14

For the 10 billionth time, decisions are not made "together". Someone has the final say, and in the West, it's women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 01:55 PM
0

Fucking Bill Maher says that and he isn't red pilled at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:25 PM
0

What, 10 years ago? ROK is a religious site now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:25 PM
2

Again, put down the bong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:02 PM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 07:43 PM
1

RP/BP have completely different meanings in the context of this forum than elsewhere. Tradcons are the absolute bottom of the barrel in terms of useful dating dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 07:33 PM
19

"I appreciate the guts it took for you to approach, but I'm not interested."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 07:31 PM
4

Put down the bong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 07:28 PM
1

It's also interesting to me that TRP takes a more traditional stance on pretty much everything else in life except marriage. I mean, who's tradition? Openly fucking multiple women at the same time wasn't super common in the 50's as far as I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 07:27 PM
0

Question for men that are in a LRT or marriage, or are looking for that in life. Especially pertinent for those that want kids, or already have kids. Perhaps a pro-marriage stance isn't exactly BP, but just stay with me. The relationship-as-goal mentality is fundamentally blue pilled, although that doesn't mean you don't end up in one. Blue-pilled men are stuck in a mentality when they set goals based off of societal programming and not what actually would make them happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:51 PM
2

Try bringing up male body positivity on this forum. That's about how well it'll go outside of here as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:36 PM
2

Have you been on this forum called "Purple Pill Debate" before?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:14 PM
7

be a large percentage of users on dating apps. Delusions of grandeur. This is a tiny corner of the internet. The idea of some dude, somewhere, being a red pill sperg on a date is believable. It's just not believable with you, someone who cares about this niche topic enough to hop on a debating forum about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:08 PM
2

Alright, I'm being trolled, I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 04:33 PM
4

I also wouldn't believe you if you said you walked on the moon.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 04:30 PM
7

It's just not possible. A fraction of a fraction of a percent of people know about this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 04:28 PM
18

No one on PPD has ever met a red pill sperg in real life, meaning the kind of dude who would openly tell a woman about hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 01:43 PM
1

Stop orbiting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 10:45 PM
13

Responsibility without authority is slavery, and authority without responsibility is a dictatorship. Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:05 PM
2

I don't care. I do well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:07 AM
1

I'm not here to try to convince you otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:48 AM
4

Fortunately, that's not trp. It's built to reflect reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:49 PM
17

Nobody needs a set of assumptions so complex that no one can follow them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:07 PM
2

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:02 AM
1

Good lord, are you trying to red pill women in real life too!?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:24 PM
1

The nature of male sexuality is not hating women. Utterly bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:23 PM
3

And WE'RE the ones with issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:14 PM
1

But who cares about that? Trp is about fixing your life. If you want to change the world have at it. I'll be over here having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:03 PM
2

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 11:45 AM
1

There's so many bizarre and false assumptions being made in this post it's hard to know where to start.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 10:37 PM
1

Her sexual history is not relevant. It's what she does for me that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 10:37 PM
3

Who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:21 PM
33

Who cares what women online think? We're not trying to convince them of anything. Trp is about men and what we need to do individually, not changing the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:14 PM
1

I'm good at this haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:06 AM
2

So, the same answer somebody's mom might give? This HAS to be a troll account.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:57 AM
2

What the fuck is this low value man fds speak?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:16 AM
2

A red pill man using fds logic? Sus
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:09 AM
5

Focus on arousal traits because comfort is a lot less important.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:58 PM
8

It's a piece of style, which is a piece of looks, which is a piece of attraction. It's not that important.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 05:42 PM
7

Style is an important part of looks, but your shoes are not having a 50% impact on your attractiveness good lord.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:55 PM
14

Huge difference between telling a dude that his shoes have a 50% impact on his attractiveness and that style is an important part of looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:54 PM
13

Do you really think shoes are most guy's problem in getting women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:35 PM
33

Hi ppd women. THIS is that terrible advice we're always telling you women tell us. Look at it in all its glory.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:30 PM
6

Lol. What's next? "can space travel fix the sexual market place?"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 06:44 PM
5

You keep offering off the wall far fetched solutions when the answer is right in front of your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 06:27 PM
3

And again, enough with the fake solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 06:11 PM
9

I guess that's what they tell themselves while their wife is getting railed. Enough with the "man up" horseshit. Men need to learn game and how women work, that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 05:27 PM
1

There's six articles in total here about it https://therationalmale.com/the-best-of-rational-male-year-one/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 05:04 PM
14

Fuck no. These are the kinds of places that teach men to take responsibility but not authority. Unless your goal is to pump out a bunch of beta bux slaves who's wives will get pumped and dumped by Chad while they're off fighting in Somalia, this is a fail on its face.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:49 PM
2

I thought you were a dude. I don't have advice for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:46 PM
0

Nobody wants to be your pen pal. That's what friends are for. She's there to fill your romantic needs, not be some all-in-one fiction in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:24 PM
1

I honestly just don't know how you walk away from it suggesting that you become friends with girls or cheat on several girlfriends. Just baffling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:21 PM
1

Did you even read the article?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:48 PM
2

Would you think that someone with no friends is happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:41 AM
1

You can try to change society, or you can help yourself. Up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:40 AM
1

Get good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:39 AM
2

She was a plate, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:39 AM
1

The goal is being able to have good romantic relationships with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:38 AM
1

Absolutely. Huge indicator.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:38 AM
2

https://therationalmale.com/2011/08/19/plate-theory-2/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:36 AM
1

The goal is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 08:15 PM
2

You need romantic love, just like you need friends. This weird idea that you can just go without is bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 08:03 PM
2

The straw men are getting weaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:33 PM
0

Because you're setting yourself up for failure and putting the cart before the horse. Men need to learn how to get good with women. That's done by spinning plates. If the wheat separates from the chaff, fine, but it isn't a goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:27 PM
1

I'm married with a kid on the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:23 PM
3

Most dudes are blue pilled. More at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:31 PM
1

Correct. Those are two statements that are not inconsistent with one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:31 PM
-1

Spinning plates is how you get regular relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:24 PM
1

When did I say I oppose getting married and having kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:20 PM
0

With no experience? Again, good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:19 PM
1

It sounds like you're setting yourself up to be a beta bux. Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:12 PM
1

Most dudes are blue pilled. That is not a surprise to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:11 PM
-3

Dudes who struggle with women need to learn how to get good with them. The end goal is happiness, and the way there is by spinning plates and learning how to get good with women. The LTR/Marriage as a goal is the number one mistake guys make in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:02 PM
0

If you ever wonder why you fail, this is it. You're putting the cart 1,000 miles before the horse. You need to get good with women. Spin plates, develop your skills. If the wheat separates from the chaff, fine, if not, cool. You don't find women who treat you well. You make them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:59 PM
5

The goal is not an ltr, or, lord help us, a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:40 PM
4

Just a bizarre post on so many levels it's hard to know where to start.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 09:33 PM
9

Nobody cares about any of this shit outside of small corners of the internet. I know it would be fun if all of your buddies had conversations in real life like ppd but it aint gonna happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 09:32 PM
1

They really don't, relative to any other topic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 06:21 PM
1

Yeah right. Nobody cares about this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 05:46 PM
1

There just aren't that many guys aware of this stuff. It's a tiny corner of the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 05:27 PM
26

Run this experiment for yourself. Average dude, average girl. Online dating profile. It will be easier to both get sex and a bf as a woman. Not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:48 AM
2

Can you give us examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:44 AM
7

I buy weird. I don't buy you happening to meet a person from a tiny corner of the internet IN the subject you're interested in debating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 12:57 AM
6

i was on a date with one man, he kept using words such as "hypergamy" and how glad he was to get a date with me with how difficult the current dating market is. This didn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 12:45 AM
13

People don't know what motivates them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 01:19 PM
0

Hi ppd women. THIS IS WHO SAYS THIS GARBAGE. It is not a straw man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:31 PM
12

You didn't know the cock carousel includes boyfriends?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 09:15 PM
2

Honestly, I see the work place as a blue pilled person sees the dating world. No discernable difference between the sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 10:37 PM
-1

Being alone. Virgin spinsters are a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:59 PM
26

Nobody is more bitter in dating than black women let's be real.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:26 PM
3

Fire post
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:45 PM
4

It's so fucking retarded on its face.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:52 PM
1

Men care about status?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:33 AM
-1

That dude is like that all of the time. While it might not work in the street, he keeps it sexual all of the time and makes him more likely to get laid over all. Right place and right time, he gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:58 AM
3

That doesn't make sense at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 09:42 AM
3

TBP=holds generally accepted societal views around romantic life. You can be a blue-pilled alpha and a red pilled beta. Alpha and beta are how your romantic relationships with women are focused, arousal or comfort. You could be great with women and not know, or even think about, why.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:30 AM
8

Agreed except for the Machiavellianism. A big chunk of women have no idea why they do what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:27 AM
28

You can just feel the sexual hangups screaming in these bizarre posts. Successful people love sex just like every other able bodied human.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 07:34 PM
1

You misunderstand, those studies CANNOT be done, due to ethical restrictions on studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 04:46 PM
4

Do whatever you want. My sugesstion to men is to not bother with the reformed slut, or the woman who doesn't find you arousing. There's plenty of women out there who will fit the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 12:33 PM
3

Until you can run a study that allows people to use pua techniques to get laid, with a control group that doesn't use them , trp cannot be scientificly studied. Current ethical guidlines restrict this from happening. So, guys swap notes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 12:30 PM
3

Women generally don't wait for sex with all men they've been with unless they're religious weirdos. Men need to live in 2021, not 1950.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 12:27 PM
1

You're not special. Like other women, you don't know what it takes to seduce women, short or long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 12:18 PM
4

You seduced yourself? You keep yourself satisfied?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 03:37 AM
2

Oh, so you have no idea how to maintain a good relationship with a woman. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 03:35 AM
2

How many women have you seduced?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 03:31 AM
1

Enough of these posts. Are the ideas correct or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 10:16 PM
3

Women's. Phone fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 09:07 PM
1

It's more about what she should be doing with you, in order for you to allow her to stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 08:03 PM
2

I don't have any issues with religion. If I can be more specific, when I said religious weirdos, I mean women in small religious sects, not the vast majority of women at church.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 07:29 PM
-2

Please explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 07:24 PM
29

This is the real answer. Dudes think they can jedi mind trick the girl into revealing the truth about her N count when the reality is she's probably done it passionately and quickly with someone if she isn't some religious weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 04:43 PM
9

Are you okay with guys doing what it takes to get that kind of passion? Learning and implementing game?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 04:07 PM
19

Sadly, a lot of guys don't know what's possible from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 03:54 PM
28

While I agree that women's libido is cyclical, the difference is that Billy Beta gets zero passionate sex at any point from his ltr. I think that most men would agree that a cycle is acceptable. A drought is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 03:29 PM
11

Caleb Jones was talking about this when Tomi Lahren was losing her shit about men. If you want a handsome, tall, socially dominant man, he's not going to obey your orders. That's just not the same guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 09:59 PM
1

Who? Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 02:08 PM
3

Fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 07:51 PM
1

It doesn't matter on an individual level, but in the aggregate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 07:36 PM
7

How many introverted men pull, in general? How many abusive men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 06:26 PM
1

The mistake is the monogamous relationship as a goal mentality. You need to develop your dating skills. Monogamous relationships are hard mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 11:48 AM
1

Yeah, you are the dominant one in the relationship, and it's miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 04:20 PM
1

Trp uses the analogy of the captain and first mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 01:01 PM
1

Because you confuse being dominant with being domineering. Two different things. A good leader doesn't sit there shouting orders to his slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 12:01 PM
1

Again, do whatever you want. I don't know you or your situation. All I'm saying is a reason and an excuse are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:05 AM
1

Making the call when we meet and what we do. Leading the conversation when we do meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:03 AM
8

They would just want to fuck Chad more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 01:31 AM
0

I'm not here to tell men and women what to do. All I would ask is that you make an informed decision whether to date or not, and not just make up excuses to protect your ego when you realize that improving your life is hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 01:31 AM
1

Reread my op again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 11:48 PM
1

Do whatever you want. I'll be over here having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 10:26 PM
0

Just got to get you on board with game, and you're red pilled haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 08:30 PM
0

Arousal is about more than looks. Status and game also have a huge impact. As I said, three legged stool. Objectively, they were shorter, some, much shorter. Can't really misperceive that. Status was unique to the place and time. Popularity in high school, being in a cool fraternity in college, and, later, having connections in bars and clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 08:23 PM
13

You're all just not that unique, Mimoxs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 08:04 PM
3

Looks are an important leg, but it's a three legged stool. The vast majority of men would benefit from learning game and increasing their social status to be more arousing to women. I spent most of my life wondering why uglier and shorter dudes than me pulled better. I was missing status and game.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 07:54 PM
2

She chooses to not understand. Most ppd women aren't blue pill or red pill. They're team women and say whatever they need to say in a given argument to be on team women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 04:51 PM
2

Depends upon the friend. Most dom/sub relationships are beneficial to both parties, or they wouldn't bother to be in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 04:36 PM
-1

All social relationships have dominant and submissive partners. Romantic relationships are no exception. Any relationship that is nominally egalitarian has the woman as the dominant partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 04:03 PM
1

Why are they confused poppy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 12:04 PM
0

They are confused. Why are they confused, poppy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 11:17 AM
1

If you want to date 9's and 10's, social circle game is the way. You won't see the most beautiful women in the world just walking around. They're in high end social circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 04:14 AM
1

You tried?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 04:09 AM
1

Again, I don't know how to be more clear. When women struggle in dating, they point to their career success and are confused as to why they fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:56 AM
1

You didn't ask a question. You built some weird straw man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:05 AM
1

I know we in trp don't take women at their word often, but they're the ones who point to their career success and wonder why they struggle in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:04 AM
0

I don't know how to be more clear. Maybe you're just stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 02:00 AM
1

It's the first thing women point to when they can't figure out why they struggle with men. Meanwhile, they're obese and grating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 12:16 AM
1

I'll go first; women believing that being a dominant, boss chick with a high-level of career success, makes them more attractive to men is a blue pill mentality. This is the post you responded to in this chain.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 12:02 AM
-2

Read your own responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:19 PM
2

Exactly what you're complaining about here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 10:58 PM
4

It's the first thing women point to when they can't figure out why they struggle with men. Meanwhile, they're obese and grating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 10:44 PM
1

More than 0 is more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 07:12 PM
1

More than 0 is more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 06:35 PM
0

Exactly. It's not about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 05:49 PM
5

Spin more plates.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:37 PM
5

Hell yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:27 AM
15

We're not a men's rights group. It's not about saving the world. It's about saving yourself. Nothing needs to change except the men who want to suceed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:26 AM
2

There isn't someone for most of us. Happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 08:01 PM
2

I directly quoted. Being caring and affectionate is a non factor in the vast majority of cases. There isn't someone for everyone, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 07:30 PM
22

The great thing about that though is beauty is in the eye of the beholder so most of us should be able to find someone. Aside from that women do want someone who is caring and affectionate. For any ppd women out there who say no one ever says this crap, here it is, on full display.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 01:43 PM
1

500K. If you live in an expensive city, which you do, is just okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 12:54 PM
2

It's a fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 12:15 PM
1

Or my mid six Figure salary?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 11:33 AM
1

As I said, it's not a bad thing, it's just not relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 11:32 AM
1

You make OK money for a big city, which im sure is where you live. The ratio comparison is not men to women in med school, but women in med school to women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:10 AM
1

I don't include law, because that's a shit career, but how many women doctors are there, compared to women as a whole who are working in lame ass data entry jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 01:46 AM
3

Puas who started asking questions about why what they were doing was working.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 11:29 PM
4

This is what the blue pill actually believes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 11:28 PM
1

Do you think most women have jobs like your friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 10:19 PM
1

Are you okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 08:04 PM
1

You sound mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 07:51 PM
0

Her league isn't higher because she has a shitty data entry job and a communications degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 07:23 PM
3

Your shitty data entry job is neither a career, nor interesting. Your college degree does not make you smart, nor interesting. Both of these things don't raise your smv, and, in fact, shrinks the pool of men you would be open to. That doesn't mean you shouldn't have a shitty data entry job and a college degree,but we're on a sexual strategy debate forum, so that's the focus.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 03:38 PM
2

Seduce right away and avoid this crap. Stop making friends with girls you want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 12:03 PM
–

Your theory is wrong. Most people don't think very much at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 12:24 AM
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Sure you have. They just walked up, and the woman puts out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 12:23 AM
1

Yeah, what the fuck? People don't think this much about anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 12:23 AM
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Low effort and will be deleted. The thing that you're missing in your analysis is game.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 12:21 AM
4

Do you think that human genetics evolved between the invention of contraception and vasectomies and today? Do you also think that homosexuality and a small percentage of women who indulge in non-sub fetishes has any impact on a man's sexual strategy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 12:20 AM
8

is it not healthier to adapt and play the game to the best of your ability? This is literally TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:00 PM
10

Modern western civilization wants men to take 100% responsibility over which they have zero authority. It's a complete joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:47 AM
13

Maybe women will be a little more careful who they sleep with when they don't get cash and prizes for having a kid without a husband. They would also be less likely to leave their husbands if they're married. People respond to incentives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:48 PM
3

?????
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:49 PM
11

To some extent, the sexual prospects of a beta is shit no matter what. On the other hand, if you wanted to rebalance the field a bit, getting rid of alimony, child support, and special welfare women get when they have kids would do it. It will never happen though, as evidenced by the screeching ppd harpies that think this means I want children to starve.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:30 PM
4

Stop pathologizing those who disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 12:25 PM
1

And one of the best looking ones works with gridxx?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 04:35 PM
1

You're too nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 04:18 PM
0

A 10 though?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 04:17 PM
1

Should have said work with
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 03:55 PM
0

You with one of the best looking people on earth, and he's an indian man?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 11:47 AM
3

This is the absolute difference between trp and tbp.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 08:28 PM
2

Dudes really think they're going to out fox women on their biological imperative.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:49 PM
5

What is an example of evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:09 PM
1

Women aren't dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 03:36 PM
4

You wouldn't know either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 03:26 PM
7

What contrary evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 03:19 PM
16

My biggest BP belief is that there's no such thing as a slut tell. You will never know her true lay count, so don't worry about it. Worry about how she treats you. This comes from experience. Once you've fucked the quiet, shy girl who gives ZERO of the common slut tells (tats, social media presence, daddy issues) you realize what a fool's errand it is. The dudes who point to the divorce stats are making the same mistake as always, asking what women say, and taking it at face value. All we can le…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 01:48 PM
10

Everything before the comma is correct. As soon as you realize that simply asking the question means to women that you're not an alpha you'll stop asking and you'll realize why they give you horrible advice. The goal after you ask the question is to never let you fake being alpha. Women don't think about this consciously, it's an unconscious process.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 10:13 PM
3

Why do you have to pathologize those you disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 04:27 PM
7

Lol at the appeal to authority at the end. We need better trolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 01:46 AM
4

Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 11:13 PM
5

This isn't a "who's better, men or women" argument. Take that shit up with someone who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 10:35 PM
24

I think this is a really good example of the "team woman" thing I was talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 08:30 PM
83

We have tons of blue pillers on here as well as a large amount of women that just say whatever supports team women in a given argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 05:48 PM
3

This reminds me of the Henry Ford quote, "Any customer can have a car painted any colour that he wants so long as it is black."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:25 PM
0

Like I said, it's a combination of the stereotype and how you act that led me to this conclusion. If you don't want to fit the mold, change yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 12:41 PM
4

Why does she have to be you, with tits?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 12:14 PM
0

Russian women are notorious for being the bitchiest women on earth. If I was to make up a stereotypical Russian woman to post on PPD and act out the character, I would act exactly like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 12:13 PM
-1

Just read this thread. Heck, women will tell you themselves that they can be everything. They can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 12:12 PM
0

From what else you have posted, and the fact you're Russian, I don't believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 11:56 AM
2

Often? Congrats and bless. There's always exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 11:37 AM
5

Nobody wants to hear about your data entry job.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 11:35 AM
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That's nice and all, for a while. Later, he'll realize that best friends don't fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 11:33 AM
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You can literally read Rollo's articles explaining a longer version of what I said back in 2011. https://therationalmale.com/2011/08/19/plate-theory-2/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 11:32 AM
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Something as simple as an unqualified "Ah, that sucks" would suffice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 11:14 AM
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Spinning plates isn't a goal, it's a strategy. Men need to learn how to be arousing and develop an abundance mentality with women. If the wheat separates from the chaff, and an LTR develops, cool. That most major RP figures are in LTRs should show you that they don't actually teach what you think they teach about needing to spin plates forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 11:12 AM
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Dudes put so much pressure on women to be everything for them, lover, money maker, best friend, and then wonder why the lover part drifts away. They can't do it all. Make other friends. Stop making her be your everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 11:07 AM
1

lol. I don't know why I bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:02 AM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 11:56 PM
1

A sexual strategy is what is used to achieve your sexual goals. It's not a goal in and of itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:56 PM
1

It achieves your goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:43 PM
2

Developing and improving your sexual strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:19 PM
3

The main goal of TRP is spinning plates, and the main selling point of TRP is it gets you laid. Spinning plates is a strategy, not a goal. The main point of pua is to get laid, not trp.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:20 PM
6

Your straw man of trp is not what "they represent".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 08:14 PM
3

These dudes really "Are themselves" so they couldn't tell you what they're doing or why.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 12:21 AM
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No, most alphas are naturals. They don't know why what they do works, it just does. Dudes like me, who had to learn, are a percent of a percent of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 11:49 PM
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Naah, women do what they want, just like everyone else. This doesn't actually mean anything. There’s this idea of a woman “molding” herself around a man that’s straight bullshit, but a common symptom of people with BPD. I think it’s called “mirroring”, and like many things, is silly fantasy of TRP. The link you shared doesn't describe what I'm talking about. Bpds seem to change themselves for whoever they're dealing with at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 05:36 PM
1

No idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 03:53 PM
3

You definitely can. Adapt to the way things are, not how you wish them to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 11:04 AM
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Again, I said you can control how you act. If she responds well, great, if not, you have decisions to make, but at least you've put yourself in the best position with her, or other women if need be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 11:03 AM
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Nothing. I don't mean that sarcastically, or for it to mean that all women suck. Women fit the container that they're in. How you act is what matters, not finding some unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 03:14 AM
2

Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 02:33 AM
3

Wouldn't it be easier to just improve yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 02:20 AM
2

Hard to change in general, or hard to change by you are two different questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 02:15 AM
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I don't disagree. But what is easier, doing the best in the environment you're in, or remaking society? An alternative option would be to move environments, but there's limits. Maxxing your looks, status, and game will always be the best option.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 11:56 PM
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The blue pill wants you to believe that your romantic life is too complex to develop a plan for, so that you lie down and rot. But, like everything else in life, dating can be learned and improved upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 05:57 PM
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If you're in TRP and saying "women should do x" you're missing the point. Men need to focus on we can control, which is ourselves. Let the tradcons yearn for the 1950's.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 05:01 PM
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The best night game stuff I've seen is from Todd V https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCo9XJennsRNhyPbXCq6e8aw The best daygame is from Tom Torrero https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PQQYKKqPYhc&t=1s And the best OLD is from Playing with Fire https://www.playingfire.com/ I never really got into social circle game because it's pretty advanced stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 01:46 AM
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lol. Just lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 12:55 PM
3

The single most popular piece of advice is the literal opposite "be yourself".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 12:43 PM
2

Change yourself is the advice they need.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 12:29 PM
1

You realize "lie down and rot" is not advice, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 12:27 PM
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Looksmax - including getting in shape, style, hair, and, if you need it, plastic surgery. Game - Learn how to seduce women with how you act. This is what pisses the blue pill off. Status - Be the most liked guy in a social circle, have a job with a lot of prestige, have other high status friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 12:24 PM
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I don't understand the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 07:47 PM
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Everything is fine. Men just need to adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 07:45 PM
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Have you been on this forum?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 07:33 PM
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The beta uprising?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 06:25 PM
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Women are aroused by assholes. Haven't you listened to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 06:20 PM
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I was explaining how the position is incoherent, hence the use of the word parody.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 06:19 PM
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People can find whatever they like. I'm not accepting an agreement, social or otherwise, that only disadvantages me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 06:17 PM
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I was giving an explanation of why I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:49 PM
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It could be me, or anyone in TRP I'm referencing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 04:49 PM
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The difference is that no one argues that it's 100% on you to make money. There's tons of laws and socially enforced rules around money making. The blue pill is a parody of a social darwinist position in which your romantic life is 100% on you, but you're supposed to restrict your response for some ambiguous moral reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 04:32 PM
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I'm cool with taking 100% responsibility, but I don't want to hear any whining from the blue pill about how I make myself more arousing. If it's on me, then it's on me. I'm not going to worry about anyone but me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 03:41 PM
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So now that I'm 27, I should probably get for a dude that at least sorta has their shit together, so in not in same boat as I was with my ex. Oh, hi there, epiphany phase!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:57 AM
1

No shame. He's good to go lying down and rotting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 03:04 AM
1

My backup is in the sentence. Women have a lot to do with romantic relationships with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 05:38 PM
2

Are you trolling me?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 05:27 PM
2

I assure you, women have a lot to do with romantic relationships with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 05:18 PM
9

Genetics matter, but you can improve your looks, status, and game. If you don't want to, don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:44 PM
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You're stating a truth again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:42 PM
5

But how do we know that, if there is no truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:16 PM
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There is no 'truth' Then attempts to explain the truth. Gotta love when the "perception is reality" crowd 's logic collapses in on itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:11 PM
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I wouldn't touch a Red Pill man with a ten-foot pole. Most women wouldn't. Game, and later TRP, came from men trying to figure out what other guys were doing that made them have successful romantic relationships with women. Why do you think one of the rules of TRP is never talk about TRP - especially not to women? This thread is a great example. Women don't want a guy who has to learn to be arousing. They want a guy to "just get it".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 12:26 PM
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Feel free to lie down and rot. I'll be over here getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 12:22 PM
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And if you're not "spinning plates", it's essential that you lie and pretend you are. This one made me chuckle. How would you pretend to spin plates? Game is all about the man saying things that he doesn’t mean and that aren’t true. It’s all pretend, mislead, redirect, trick, coax, manipulate until you get what you want from her (i.e., sex). There are certain ways of acting that are more arousing to women. I favor men learning what those things are. They need it for all of their romantic relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 12:04 PM
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Why does he have to try to deceive women into thinking he has more options than he really does, as an example? Trp explicitly tells men to create options by spinning plates. If he were so high value, why can't he just be completely himself? Men aren't high value automatically. They have to change themselves to be more arousing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 11:30 AM
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What are you going to do, genetically modify women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 11:14 AM
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As always, the blue pill reverts to lie down and rot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 11:13 AM
2

What would men's liberation look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 11:10 AM
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There you have it. The blue pill wants you to lie down and rot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 11:09 AM
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I would not suggest that. I would suggest learning how to have successful romantic relationships with women. That is, worry about learning to swing a bat before worrying about your home run celebration.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 07:47 PM
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Dude, you're stressed about whether or not to marry a woman you haven't even met. Does that seem like a healthy approach to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 07:09 PM
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This is how time works. It is limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 04:23 AM
1

Again, focusing on unrealistic risks takes time away from actual risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 08:51 PM
1

You only have so much time in the day. Focusing on non-existent risks means you don't have as much time to worry about actual risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 07:47 PM
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You don't get it. The assholes weren't their exes. Women wanted them to commit, but couldn't have them. Men started asking ourselves, what is he doing that I'm not? PUA came from that, and TRP came from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 05:25 PM
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Asshole is what women call the men they want to commit but won't. We're using women's terms. Take it up with women if you have a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 05:08 PM
1

If I was to say that the worst case scenario for going out on a walk is to be abducted by aliens, would you say that's delusional?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 02:27 PM
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It's not a worst case scenario. It's a delusion. There's a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 01:17 PM
1

It's a delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 12:44 PM
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Do you think it's a healthy way of thinking that you made up a disaster scenario for a normal situation out of whole cloth?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 12:41 PM
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Like, do you think that's how women trafficking works?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 12:21 PM
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Worst case scenario you’re trying to traffic me Women are so fucking neurotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 11:12 AM
1

Nobody who struggles with women needs another bitchy woman in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 08:48 PM
1

Coming from a guy who has his shit together, you're not helping anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 08:03 PM
1

It's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:17 PM
1

Is that how you see yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:58 PM
1

And that's you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:47 PM
1

Have at it, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:13 PM
2

Why do you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:11 PM
2

I don't understand what that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 02:59 PM
2

Yeah, but what's the joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 11:58 AM
2

What do you doubt?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 11:36 AM
1

No... Wait... Stop... Come back... Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 02:49 AM
1

You sound mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 02:33 AM
1

So, you shot an arrow, then you painted a target around it and are claiming you hit what you were aiming for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 01:19 AM
2

I'm not in the business of convincing people to change their minds. If you don't want to try, don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 12:43 AM
2

I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 12:39 AM
0

You vetted your non-existent options?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 12:38 AM
2

The blue pill is society's general view of romantic relationships between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 12:38 AM
5

This is where the blue pill fucks up. The goal is happy romantic relationships with women. Not a 1950's fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 12:15 AM
2

So do you. This is why spinning plates is so important. Make options for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 12:04 AM
2

What's the bet?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 12:02 AM
2

You don't get it. YOU make the relationship. How she is is dependent upon you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 11:48 PM
1

People don't suck. You suck. Get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 10:55 PM
2

Good quality what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 10:54 PM
4

I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 10:54 PM
5

I'm with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 09:19 PM
7

What isn't hard in life? Making money, staying in shape, relationships? Sure, some people are lucky here and there. But for most of us, we have to bust our asses to succeed in anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 09:19 PM
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Dating doesn't suck. It's just hard work, like everything else in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 08:54 PM
6

Even when explicitly laid out, the dots are not connected. Long con confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 04:49 PM
7

Let me try to explain again. Women, and in this example, YOU, will always know the paternity (outside of some bizarre Maury situation where multiple men are cumming in you on the same night or days apart). You're absolutely certain. So much so, that you're telling us the facts. The man does not have this certainty, since he is not the one giving birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 04:43 PM
3

You don't get it. You just explained exactly why it's right, using yourself as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 04:39 PM
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What you wrote here is basically a personalized version of what TRP explains, that women don't need to worry about who the father is, since they are in control of the process. Men, on the other hand, need other ways to ensure paternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 04:28 PM
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I was not a virgin when I had my kid but I knew exactly whose kid it was. Starting to think Orange is a red piller playing the long con red pilling normies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 04:18 PM
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Nobody gives a fuck about Russian dating dynamics here, Narnia.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 04:16 AM
3

Tough to take care of a kid while working at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 04:15 AM
0

Because unless you're a real high earner, daycare is eating what you're making anyway. Also, why would you have a bunch of randos raise your kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 03:11 AM
1

There are many things to like about Jordan Peterson. His views on sexual dynamics are not one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 05:40 PM
1

Pretty much. The modern tradcon is wasting his time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 03:49 PM
1

Whether it was conscious or unconscious doesn't really matter. It's what she did.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 03:23 PM
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How are you going to make a culture of monogamy when you don't even try to enforce it in your own family?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 03:20 PM
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Who cares? Watch what they do, not what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 03:17 PM
0

See my other response to this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 03:13 PM
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She divorced her husband to sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 03:12 PM
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He has vocalized support for culturally enforced monogamy, which, again, he couldn't even enforce on his own daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 02:14 PM
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The dude can't even police his own daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 01:46 PM
2

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 10:52 PM
2

Would you consider twice a week regular exercise?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 10:32 PM
2

I don't know if you're playing dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 09:09 PM
2

If I told you I exercised regularly, would that mean once a week to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 07:13 PM
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Like I said, unless you have some sort of physical or mental problem as a man, you need regular sex. If you can't figure out what regular means in this context, think if you'd be confused if I said men need regular exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 06:52 PM
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Do you think guys aren't trying to get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 06:35 PM
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Unless a guy has some sort of physical or mental issue, he's going to want regular sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 04:46 PM
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