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Field ReportXtraSaucyy/r/seduction18/01/21 11:21 PM
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Like you would any girl. It works better with older women because they don’t get hit on as often that it’s like getting hit on the first time.
/r/seduction01/03/25 02:59 PM
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lol yeah, you can tell yourself it will be okay as long as you’re honest about the intentions. But there’s no way to tell, hell you could be the one that will get attached to her. Imagine one day you see her with another guy and you get mad. Those are feelings you have for her now. Point is, even if you’re honest it may not work out the way you want. But I’d enjoy the fun. Once in a while opportunity and hell if she develops feelings why not. You’re obviously into each other.
/r/seduction06/02/25 05:05 PM
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I’d argue that most females unfortunately have an unpleasant encounter with a male and by seeing a male with a female it makes them think the male is not a threat. I don’t think it’s that they’re so high value ya know. I think they’re just being genuinely cautious (most of the time) when you’re by yourself.
/r/seduction19/06/22 03:13 AM
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One thing I will say is when you’re with a female(family friend or partner) and you meet another female, that stranger will be a lot more friendlier to you than if you were there by yourself. So if you see someone who drops your draw or something while you’re with a female. Just go back next time by yourself like oh hey I remember you and then it’ll go from there.
/r/seduction19/06/22 02:22 AM
5

Follow it up with sorry. I only fuck. Hard. (I heard this in a movie or something)
/r/seduction13/06/22 12:07 AM
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There’s a lot wrong with your statement. I’ve seen one comment here where it says how many hot girls have you been with and it’s 0. The reason you get uncomfortable around hot girls is you don’t know how to act around them. You don’t know how to act around an unattractive woman so of course you’re uncomfortable with a hot girl. I had the same mentality until I realized how stupid it is. What if the girl you want only wants hot studs and you’re not one. How would you feel about that? Maybe she wa…
/r/seduction11/05/22 03:19 PM
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I usually say “I was thinking that we should go out and get to know each other better” and maybe add with a what and when. Reason I believe this works better than the top comment is because it’s more direct in your intentions. It’s casual enough to sound friendly but worded right to mean a date
/r/seduction09/05/22 10:59 PM
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If a girl is actually giving you seductive eyes she wants more than an approach is what I’m saying. So if he try’s more like a kiss and gets slapped. His funeral not hers
/r/seduction30/04/22 11:42 AM
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Stop watching so much porn and you’ll know LOL Just use social clues and context clues. Also, even if she does want to, she’s probably not trying to be seductive and look like those pornstars. Safest bet is to always assume she is looking up to make eye contact because it’s respectful. Remember, it’ll be your funeral not hers if you assume the wrong thing.
/r/seduction30/04/22 12:36 AM
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You gain experience from every single time you try to get with a girl even if it fails and you get experience from hooking up with girls who are….um….not the prettiest. Listen if you wanna sit there with 0 experience wanting to hookup with college girl baddies you are gonna fail before you even say hi. You need experience. Start with girls that’s are 3, 4, 5s. Get a feel for how to talk to women. I didn’t start with college girls baddies then. I had my fair share of the spectrum. But it’s good b…
/r/seduction27/12/21 10:56 AM
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I started at 19 and by 23 I’m at 22 bodies and now I have a girlfriend. What I noticed is if you’re trying to get more it comes down to game, personality, and experience.
/r/seduction27/12/21 01:12 AM
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Well you should definitely get a car ASAP just because they’re useful. As far as living with your mom that shouldn’t cause an issue unless she’s being unreasonable. I’m 23 and I live with my mom and I bring girls over all the time. I’d start with brings friends and girl friends over to get her comfortable with the idea of having people over then bring a girl you wanna bang and see what happens. As for a car you just need one. Best advice for that is get a job, save up money. Buy a nice little ri…
/r/seduction30/10/21 10:21 AM
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Everyone else is right. You’re focusing on the wrong thing. Sexting doesn’t come before sex. Matter of fact. You can’t spell sexting without sex. You should focus your time on developing your in person game and yeah, getting laid. Once you know how to flirt in person you can flirt over text. Besides. If someone is blatantly flirting or sexting or sending nudes with you they’re into you in some shape or form. Would you really rather spend your time on how to send a dick pic or right response? or …
/r/seduction29/10/21 01:46 AM
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That’s a pretty bold statement. They’re supposed to know?
/r/seduction08/10/21 01:06 PM
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Yeah. If anything you should ask him how he does it. I’m the other guy in my friend group. My body count is easily double or triple or more of the other friends. But I noticed when they talk to girls theyre too shy they’re too slow. They don’t escalate and they just don’t succeed in the end. Ask him not us.
/r/seduction08/10/21 10:12 AM
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Hey man. I’m going through something slightly. I do the same when I masturbate but the pain I feel is from having sex by tearing the I think it’s called frenulum. The piece attaching the head to the fore skin. Not sure if you’re a grower or shower or what’s up but I can tell you that as a grower, I’ve noticed that you just need to get hard and the foreskin slowly retracts is same halfway. And you just nudge it a little and it goes all the way. But I can’t say I’ve had pain other than from the te…
/r/seduction07/10/21 11:40 PM
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I think it also matters on your goals with women. And in life. You can listen to any podcast. Any comedian any hobby any anything but if the people you want in your life don’t necessarily agree or participate or understand it then it wouldn’t make it better for anyone.
/r/seduction07/10/21 12:03 PM
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Yeah I think it’s lack of confidence/boldness/knowing how to flirt and touch to escalate on both ends.
/r/seduction05/10/21 02:58 PM
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Honestly you have better luck finding a girl who would accept you and take it slow with you and make you feel comfortable.
/r/seduction02/10/21 09:33 PM
2

Depends on what you want and what the red flags were. If it’s a one night stand type deal then idrc lmao. But if we’re talking about dating then usually one.
/r/seduction27/09/21 02:22 PM
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Yeah. Being just straight about having nice ass and boobs is nice. I like to also say I love your lips, mine want to dance on yours or something along the lines of the two pairs of lips dancing together aka kissing. I think also just admiring the body part is nice too. Like focusing on an area and just kissing it and rubbing it grabbing it is a compliment as well. IMO
/r/seduction07/09/21 07:45 PM
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You hate to hear it but it’s true. Best advice I can give you is if you wanna keep her in your life, lose the commitment as it’s obvious she doesn’t want you and just have fun with her. What’s better. One memory or none?
/r/seduction06/09/21 05:40 PM
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Lol. Walmart, bro. They had shirts on clearance at $2, moisture wicking. I bought 5 of them, put them on after work and usually have them on while I smash. Looking nice is great and all but it’s not required. And what’s worse is if you give off that persona and vibe and it’s not very accurate of who you are then you’re just being fake. Wear whatchya wanna wear and if someone rejects you because you had a black tee instead of a button down Calvin Klein then they’re not for you.
/r/seduction04/09/21 06:02 PM
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It could. It’s not so much the texting as the tool but rather the content of what you send. Either one will work. If you do it correctly
/r/seduction01/09/21 04:45 PM
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Watching text game videos doesn’t help if you don’t execute proper. If you go back and watch the videos, first off, did they start with your opening text. And secondly did they answer “what’s up” with grilling food. I hate texting because of the lack of connection you’re gonna get. Everyone agrees with this. You lack tone and rapport. Cant be witty on the spot. Too many variables that make you fail. So what do you do? Go over the top. Texting is a tool to arrange dates but if they don’t respond …
/r/seduction01/09/21 03:24 PM
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Talk to girls everywhere you girl. I know you’ve been to Walmart and seen a pretty girl. And if you don’t shop at Walmart and instead at Lowe’s food then you absolutely have met a pretty girl. Thing is you don’t have to be in college to have fun and you don’t need to marry a girl if you’re older. The more you talk to girls, even if you don’t wanna date them or even kiss them, the more you surround yourself with people and better yet if you did have game, you would further develop it and surround…
/r/seduction16/08/21 04:15 PM
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No. Quite the opposite. The only info I’ve found is in some Studies refraining from ejaculating did have an increase of testosterone but that’s obvious Bc levels of semen relate directly to level of testosterone so. More semen means more testosterone. However. Semen is made naturally. So maybe you’re down in testosterone for like 30 min ya know. But there are no long term side of effects of ejaculating. And if there was, trust me I’d be facing them.
/r/seduction28/07/21 03:26 AM
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If you think that’s exhilarating, how about you actually fuck them? That is the ultimate goal in this game isn’t it? (I’m writing this not even 5 minutes after getting sloppy toppy at a cookout) On a serious note. I feel this. Goin from hi, how are you to hey do you need a towel Is just so satisfying. The chase and the hunt and the game is just satisfying.
/r/seduction28/07/21 12:59 AM
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I wouldn’t feel left out. I mean you’re doing what makes you happy. It’s better for you mentally if you’re happier playing guitar and chess and regular friends than forcing yourself to meet girls. And honestly the more you just do what makes you happy the more it will attract the women you want. Not sure if you’ve heard the idea of the more successful and happier and better you are the more you attract higher quality women. That’s true. Keep doing you and women will notice, the type you want. An…
/r/seduction14/07/21 03:04 PM
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Missing out of what tho? Like if you dont care about the sex or need/want a girlfriend then dont do it. What experience would you gain from hook ups and short term girlfriends that would benefit you when you get married? I mean choosign the right partner is easy tbh, most people already have an idea for what they like and dont like. and what you dont like is very easy to tell and filter them out. Same with a relationship. You probably already know what you want. and being a good person in a rela…
/r/seduction14/07/21 03:27 AM
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I feel like this but only towards girls who show me the time isn’t worth it it. One thing you need to remember is you’re doing this for you and you need to have fun while you’re doing it. If you’re talking to a girl and it doesn’t feel right or fun or like you’re enjoying it then I’d leave. That’s why I do. If I feel like I’m putting in more effort if I feel like the energy is off if I feel like she doesn’t care I’ll just leave. The only thing I can think to benefit from talking to a lot of peop…
/r/seduction14/07/21 12:50 AM
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I don’t think it’s all about looks, but rather the chances of getting a chance from a girl while ugly is pretty low. Like you’re right. Doesn’t matter how good looking you are it doesn’t matter if you’re broke and live at home and stuff. But from a random hookup at a club to An actual relationship, the door opens faster and easier when you’re good looking than when you have your life straightened up and have a career and your shit together etc. Bc they notice the looks before they notice your st…
/r/seduction21/06/21 03:06 PM
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I think the realest unpopular opinion no one talks about is if you’re a guy, and you’re not seen as attractive you’re screwed. Like I’ve seen. Doesn’t matter if you’re rich or in theory have life figured out, if you’re not the ideal type like abs and good chin etc then you won’t have something real. You could have someone who just wants you for money if you’re rich but its ironic Bc if she wouldn’t want you if you’re unattractive then is it actually real? Ya know. I think for girls is finding th…
/r/seduction21/06/21 02:18 PM
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Dating in your twenty’s is really you’re looking for a girl with as little red flags and kids as possible
/r/seduction20/06/21 08:53 PM
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Bump. This should also double as don’t think about her so much either. Like after the first date or meeting. She’s not the only girl. It isn’t the end of the world. Worrying about yourself and making yourself better is way better for your health.
/r/seduction29/05/21 02:28 AM
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“Here’s my number”
/r/seduction21/05/21 09:44 PM
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One thing to note is also, if you say/do something that you’re passionate about, that is funny to you, that is genuine and interesting or intriguing topic, it’s also more noticeable and the girl would react positively. For example like you said use your surrounding. If you like art and there is art around. Or with me I’d say it’s crazy how much art can be worth and talk about that and switch it to other valuable things etc. I’ve learned that being genuine > just having a list of topics because I…
/r/seduction18/04/21 05:03 PM
1

Lol. They gonna take your phone or something? Unless you’re a minor you should have no issues.
/r/seduction31/03/21 03:40 PM
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No fr. Like I’m not gonna my happiness and hobbies for someone else’s what. Sleep schedule? Yeah right.
/r/seduction31/03/21 03:23 PM
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Yeah that wouldn’t stop me. I would still do it. Matter of fact I am in the process of buying a v8 and putting a loud exhaust and it being the only car I go get girls in whether it’s 5 am in the morning or 2am at night so. I say you should still do it
/r/seduction31/03/21 02:30 PM
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A) yeah you should have said that to your mom lmao. I do it all the time. B) sneak in? Graduation? Are you in high school? If so then you got no reason to stress. If you’re 18 then you should just do it. If you’re under then you’re stressing about nothing. Also, you saying no because it’s past your bedtime isn’t really a cockblock. You can sleep when you’re dead.
/r/seduction31/03/21 02:01 PM
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Bc he doesn’t think he is confident
/r/seduction30/03/21 11:54 PM
2

You must not be that good looking haha
/r/seduction30/03/21 11:52 PM
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Also even tho it sucked in a sense of it didn’t turn out the way you wanted to. It didn’t sucked because you beat the anxiety. Not every girl will be available or like you or even give you the time of day to talk. But that’s your decision to make. Your decision to make is to say hi. After that, you’ve already won.
/r/seduction03/03/21 01:43 PM
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Talk to her. Is this a girl that you’ve known for a week. Is this a girl you see yourself dating. Do you at least feel comfortable and close to her? Believe me perfect girls are probably more insecure than you and if you are close and she is a decent human being she’ll understand. Communication is the only way to get through this. As far as the actual sex part ask her to lead. Or start slow. You don’t have to have sex tomorrow especially if you’re uncomfortable. Communication and comfort.
/r/seduction08/02/21 01:29 PM
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The more you work on yourself and get the things you want the more overall happy you will be and in turn not have any negative insecure thoughts. I’m insecure about my body but I’m going to the gym now and slowly I’m getting better because at least I’m working towards the goal. That’s more than some people can say.
/r/seduction02/02/21 06:51 PM
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It’s true. About failing and wanting to come back better. I guess most people view failure as like a ready to stop trying instead of motivation. Instead of realizing it can only go up.
/r/seduction01/02/21 04:42 AM
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It’s true. Even if you’re guaranteed to fail, whose stoping you from trying? Whose stoping you from finding out or finding out. Attempting it. Still you. I’d rather fail than never find out tbh. People don’t realize even if you fail nothing changes. If she doesn’t wanna kiss you so what. Date you so what. Sleeping with you so what. She said no what changed absolutely nothing. So why not find out and go for it. Who knows what could happen.
/r/seduction31/01/21 04:00 PM
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I can be approached or I can approach? Anyone can approach. Are you having difficulty saying hi or going for the kiss. Do you feel comfortable after the kiss? Like with me my biggest hurdle was approaching. But after I said hi I was on a roll. Some people have difficulty turning it into a kiss. And some people have difficulty turning a kiss into sex. Where do you have trouble. Saying hi, going for a kiss, or turning it into something more.
/r/seduction28/01/21 02:35 AM
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I found that faking it till you make it until you are is true. I did this for a couple years and now with anyone I find myself making witty remarks that are funny and stuff. Just naturally. And with girls it becomes like instant reaction. Passive gets you nowhere
/r/seduction25/01/21 02:47 PM
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We go for different girls then. If I need abs to get a girl then I don’t want her. What if you get an illness and you can’t work out. Lose leg. You get depressed and fat. And she leaves you. If you want attention and you crave it. And abs is the only way you get it then more power to you. But none of these girls have any real value besides a piece of ass. Also the literal definition of a fuckboy is a boy who just wants to fuck on every dictionary. Body doesn’t matter.
/r/seduction23/01/21 08:45 PM
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I disagree bro. I’ve been overweight sense 8th grade and my pictures are recent. As in couple months ago recent. Fuckboy is a mentality. Persona. Its in your head. It’s how you act and what you do. And abs doesn’t make you any more or less of a fuckboy. Does it get you laid more. Sure. I’ll agree with that. But it’s not a requirement. It’s a cherry on top if anything.
/r/seduction23/01/21 08:19 PM
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I read it. Oh that’s not fuckboy. That’s normal boy lol. What guy isn’t trying to smash on tinder lmao? And your body doesn’t really matter to make you a fuckboy. I’m like easy 50lbs overweight with the highest body count of all my friends who are arguably better looking than me. I think abs will help you to an extent tho
/r/seduction23/01/21 08:11 PM
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What’s fuckboy method? What’s tinder platinum? Lol. Personally I don’t care about tinder. I’ve had better percentage success rate with girls I meet in person or social media than tinder.
/r/seduction23/01/21 07:42 PM
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I mean honestly it’s true. The date I was on last night after our first kiss she was not scared to touch me or kiss me. Hands all over my head and neck and chest and thighs. We didn’t even touch because we are working towards a relationship and agreed to be patient but like. Holy cow. I was so turned on. Like never before. I suggest kissing him. Why? A, if it works then problem solved. B, if it doesn’t work then you can ask him. Why can’t I kiss you. Do you not like me. Etc. you can transition i…
/r/seduction22/01/21 03:32 PM
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Do you guys do anything at all? Like you said you too sneak off on breaks but do you guys just talk. Do you kiss? He could be nervous because he works with you and maybe he likes you more than that other girl. When I had work romances it was very nerve racking. Especially because I was a manger and the girls were waitresses. I got fired for this but that’s besides the point. If you’re absolutely interested in him and absolutely want to even just hook up with him, then next time you guys sneak of…
/r/seduction22/01/21 03:25 PM
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I wouldn’t be so quick to jump to this conclusion. He could be a player that wants a relationship. I (22M) have lived this lifestyle since high school. I know that I want a girlfriend but if I meet a cute girl who I know I go out with and we don’t vibe as much as we could, I’m not gonna be like bye. She’s cute. I’d want to sleep with her and that’s usually what happens. Not saying that’s what he’s doing but it could be that he wants a relationship but while he’s single he’ll be single. Hell, I w…
/r/seduction22/01/21 03:10 PM
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Frankly, at the end of the day, if you want something more, she has to find you attractive. Think about it. Would any relationship work if you did not find the girl pretty? If she doesn’t turn you on? If she doesn’t make you smile and jaw drop? No. You wouldn’t wanna be with that and frankly it’s vice versa. I’ve had easier and better success from women who found me cute or handsome vs those who didn’t wanna say it and I kinda had to work for it. (Crazy right? Lol) (I meant to say the connection…
/r/seduction19/01/21 01:52 PM
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💪🏼 I should take up storytelling.
/r/seduction19/01/21 01:04 AM
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😅 what are paragraphs? To be honest I thought about that but I didn’t know how to separate them so I did three. One is background, two is the random girl, three is time with Nicole. Did it make you smile and laugh. Was it entertaining? 🥺
/r/seduction18/01/21 11:34 PM
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It’s the new kink. But only in Alabama
/r/seduction18/01/21 02:22 PM
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On the real side, all she was doing is testing you. It’s like if a girl said something like “you remind me of my dad” or anything else that kinda puts you into a lesser position. It was essentially the equivalent of a neg that we give to girls. Just a test. And either you failed by accepting it and not doing anything or you pass by pretty much thinking that you don’t care. You got one goal tonight and that’s that. Also, a lot of her things that she says that makes it seem like she’s not interest…
/r/seduction18/01/21 02:20 PM
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Maybe she meant step brother?
/r/seduction17/01/21 08:28 PM
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While I don’t have any knowledge on this topic whatsoever, I feel like vaginas are seen as more ... “sacred” I’m not sure if that’s the right word but look at movies. How many have shirtless men. A lot. How many have shirtless women. A good amount. How many have a penis shown. Very few but there are some. How many have explicit vaginas. Even a little bit showing. None. I can’t think of any. Not even devoted sex movies have I ever seen one. But I don’t think it’s because of it being gross. Some s…
/r/seduction17/01/21 03:13 AM
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