Xulion Archive

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1	When not getting a response, is it ever more beneficial to say you expect reciprocation and are pulling back before doing so, depending on perhaps the type of girl or how much you overpursued? just wanted to let mr "knows objectively what he's talking about" that she's back lol so have fun being uh.. "all-knowing"	/r/seduction	01/11/22 11:35 PM
1	When not getting a response, is it ever more beneficial to say you expect reciprocation and are pulling back before doing so, depending on perhaps the type of girl or how much you overpursued? I understand. Yeah for a FWB you can still navigate the flakiness but it still caused headaches, them rarely being clear about when they have time, knowing you can never spontaneously text them because they won't reply until late anyway, them constantly having to deal with a roommate and so on, and giving me the excuse that that was the reason she couldn't text back (or something else, even when we were still meeting up), it was a frustration for me and I think I wouldn't have asked this questio…	/r/seduction	30/10/22 10:03 PM
1	When not getting a response, is it ever more beneficial to say you expect reciprocation and are pulling back before doing so, depending on perhaps the type of girl or how much you overpursued? You are right but again, she was very difficult to communicate with most of the time. That was the one big headache. I didn't say it exactly the way I did, by the way. I was very civil and respectful about it, just said hey, it's a bit difficult like this, hope you've been well though, I've been doing great, etc. just happy voice and stuff. I just felt that she was probably gonna let this drift apart anyway. As for social group... I know her from a cold approach... don't know anyone she knows. B…	/r/seduction	30/10/22 09:28 PM
1	When not getting a response, is it ever more beneficial to say you expect reciprocation and are pulling back before doing so, depending on perhaps the type of girl or how much you overpursued? Hey man, let's not make assumptions about each other here. I'm not trying to have a moral high ground or a high horse. I changed my mind here and figured that, since she's always shown flakey behaviour, maybe it's just going to be a headache for me. I asked for advice because I was in a desperate state. People change their minds as they process feelings, I guess. I am learning what attracts women but I'd rather date the right one who doesn't play texting games as she seemed to do. I understand w…	/r/seduction	30/10/22 08:49 PM
0	When not getting a response, is it ever more beneficial to say you expect reciprocation and are pulling back before doing so, depending on perhaps the type of girl or how much you overpursued? I decided to do it anyway and give her my boundaries. I'll be honest, I turned a blind eye to it but communicating with her has always been an absolute pain and was only getting worse. She was always too busy to text, even when we were meeting, so I felt like I had to set my boundaries here. Whether it comes across as overbearing or not, I can't fuss over someone who communicates like a high schooler, can I? I have a lot of good to say about her or at least what she showed me when we did meet bu…	/r/seduction	30/10/22 08:28 PM
2	When not getting a response, is it ever more beneficial to say you expect reciprocation and are pulling back before doing so, depending on perhaps the type of girl or how much you overpursued? I want advice from someone who doesn't feel the need to act abrasive and all-knowing like you're doing	/r/seduction	30/10/22 04:46 PM
0	When not getting a response, is it ever more beneficial to say you expect reciprocation and are pulling back before doing so, depending on perhaps the type of girl or how much you overpursued? Geez man She writes long texts herself as well	/r/seduction	30/10/22 04:34 PM
1	When not getting a response, is it ever more beneficial to say you expect reciprocation and are pulling back before doing so, depending on perhaps the type of girl or how much you overpursued? You.mean I should say that?	/r/seduction	30/10/22 03:05 PM
0	When not getting a response, is it ever more beneficial to say you expect reciprocation and are pulling back before doing so, depending on perhaps the type of girl or how much you overpursued? I know in real life would be better. But how do I get back to that point again? I haven't texted her in 4 days, do I just ask if she's okay now or what can I do? My most recent thing was an unanswered invitation followed by a semi double text where I corrected wrong info about the event. Perhaps speaking about it would remind her of the food times. It's been 3 weeks since I saw her after all	/r/seduction	30/10/22 02:32 PM
1	When not getting a response, is it ever more beneficial to say you expect reciprocation and are pulling back before doing so, depending on perhaps the type of girl or how much you overpursued? I see, thank you. I tried to invite her a few times recently to no avail. After the first cancellation she offered to reschedule but I said I'd be busy the next week and that the weekend would be best, otherwise I'd have to check. Other than that, I don't know. So you say, don't send the voice message even if it seems sound? My friend suggested it'd be a good idea because she might be trying to avoid me so it can bleed out. But I dunno really. Someone else suggested, just send "..?" And leave it…	/r/seduction	30/10/22 02:16 PM
0	When not getting a response, is it ever more beneficial to say you expect reciprocation and are pulling back before doing so, depending on perhaps the type of girl or how much you overpursued? Yeah But more like just dropping a voice message and letting her know I just want to know what's up, and that we should, if she wants to, get a meetup going finally before things just fizzle out needlessly. That only seems reasonable after these great dates we had and the strange switch of late	/r/seduction	30/10/22 01:26 PM
0	When not getting a response, is it ever more beneficial to say you expect reciprocation and are pulling back before doing so, depending on perhaps the type of girl or how much you overpursued? With this kind of girl I got the idea that maybe sending a voice message trying to kind of restore things would be best, reminding her of how it'd be a shame to let a good connection wane, otherwise it might be a thing where she doesn't want to confront me about it and is just letting it slip because she doesn't know how to deal with confrontation and needs someone to ask about what's up. It's not advice you'd typically hear but after these intense dates we had, someone I've been so close with f…	/r/seduction	30/10/22 01:05 PM