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I don’t think it’s about lie it’s about social expectations, when everyone’s young and dumb there’s no point being mature. So many people I know faked it until they made it. They were known as bullshitters but them declaring confidence at an age where n There’s nothing to really prove confidence other than word and peacocking would lead to actual results. Also know plenty of guys who would lie about their entire life “I’m an investment banker” to get laid, meanwhile he was a janitor lol. But it …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:04 PM
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No here’s what I mean. I’m saying sure I can do okay by talking to some women sometimes first. But I’m saying the raw attention that have gotten from women I’m mesmerised by, I have never been able to just create that from a stranger I approach first, never. And it can be done. Because I have seen it. I had a friend who was Casanova incarnate, he could meet any random girl (not 100 percent success rate) but one example he met the hottest girl in our uni who was like an e-girl just from her looks…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:56 AM
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I’m a man, one example of this is how women’s skateboarding was really bad 10 years ago. Brands still supported the best women, gave sponsorships and made pro some women. After the Olympics you’ve seen that Japan there’s skateboarding schools where kids boys and girls are treated equal and compete in like 10 different divisions of beginner and novice ( mostly just for fun and progression) , from barely pre-pubescent to late teens and adults. Guess what? They encourage both boys and girls to join…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:31 PM
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I noticed this too. After my glow up got in the best shape of my life, got older and noticed sometimes when I’m out and about in my own little world it would always be when I’m in an awful mood and not taking notice of anyone that I’d meet a woman that approaches me first and is super into me. Not every day of course but like a few times a month max, if I’m out for several hours every day. When I’m in the mood and thinking to look for a girl, I notice unless I’m dressed super swag it’s not the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:11 PM
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I saw a podcast I wish I could find by a woman (not a self hating red pill panderer but like an actual academic) and she was talking about how she counsels people on avoidant attachment. She stated that she speaks to grown women in their 30s that speak about how they can’t help it. They will always be repulsed by an available man, they will always feel like a man that is the lone man that doesn’t notice them is stirring something in them that they need to get his approval. I do think from visits…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:13 AM
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People are ignorant of how strong alcohol is. Even something like having a very empty stomach (even more empty than you think) and drinking a bit faster than you thought can have a massive affect. Also many drugs interact with alcohol and have long half life. Taking a benzo even the day before can make you really affected. Taking weed even hours before. Many drugs can do this. Also being tired, drained, dehydrated can make someone become super drunk without realising it. That doesn’t even get in…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:48 AM
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Well you can work on your fitness. And yes the guy I don’t know his diagnosis but he was totally low inhibition and not living a standard life, he didn’t work a 9-5 he was doing some under the table hustle culture. I don’t know if it’s some grey cash business or full on illegal whatever it was gave him the confidence and seize the moment attitude. The point was he had absolutely no fear. Also you don’t need to black, I’m black and I know you can very much make yourself corny and I’ve seen white …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:16 PM
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Guys who actually approach clean up. I remember this one night I saw a black dude that was middle aged, he still had his hair and he dressed youthful, like in swag. He was in our group. Dude was no fat, but wasn’t ripped either, just slim with a little muscle, not tall either just a bit above average. All day he threw his shot at women aged 30-44 years old thereabouts. All of them sneered, or ignored him or gave him a reaction like he was revolting. They were in zero cases “hot”. Maybe one was o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:40 AM
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Hmm I see
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:10 PM
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Bro your words were “ I don’t think women enjoy casual sex, I think they have been pay op-ed to pretend like they do” That is an extremely broad statement that comes off like you are no living in reality. You stated that women as a whole, millions of them. Are pretending to enjoy orgasms. Pretending to enjoy the rush of having sex with an attractive man. You didn’t say “women have been conditioned to think they don’t want a stable relationship or one day have children” That’s an entirely differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:06 AM
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Dude I’m not a player but you know you have not gotten out enough recently or lost touch with reality to say that. I have seen it with my own eyes. Before I had a glow up my friends that were male models women would go crazy, they would attention seek, they’d become annoying. They’d degrade themselves. In one case a woman married with kids was banging my friend because he was that handsome, she would get plowed in the back of her car in the school car park. Women wouldn’t care for t one of the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:13 AM
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I’ve seen those comment chains it’s clear coping by women who ages out of privilege. You see it often, the 18 year old girl with flawless skin who walks around arrogantly as if she is going to be 18 forever. I’m not being silly, a lot of them legitimately think that the reason people favour them, turn heads constantly and are super nice and serve them is because they are special and it will always be that way. I’ve seen in some cases this kind of s of woman talk on a podcast and calmly state how…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:49 AM
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There are many incredible women out there. They’re taken. Because only an idiot ( like me and some others here) would take them for granted and give them up. These women are incredibly gorgeous, smart, rational and amazingly loyal. They’d never cheat, in fact they don’t find other men than you attractive. But they are only single for maybe 6 months their entire dating lives. One boyfriend at 16 maybe date for 8 years, he doesn’t feel like marrying her at 24 and dumps her. She is heartbroken, sin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:32 AM
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I can’t blame someone whose circumstances I don’t know but as a teenager I had a very depressed outlook. I viewed myself as ugly because the cute girl I wanted didn’t like me back and I had very hot friends who were the best guys ever, awesome and like brothers, but they showed me what it’s like when a woman is truly crazy for you. What’s more I was so lucky that my first girlfriend asked me out and was crazy for me and really good looking: Even still I had low confidence because I was expecting…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:22 AM
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Honestly it is kind of true.. I remember when I was 18 there was this girl who was kinda hot but very shy, but she coasted by on her looks. I can’t remember the reason but I remember she was quite nasty to me. It stuck out because generally I found more attractive women to be kind.. Well, like many 18 year olds who are attractive she had loads of social media followers and she was narcisssitic as hell, like of course everyone likes all my photos and all my postings because I’m so smart and inter…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:29 AM
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But bro years before I worked really hard and made myself much more attractive there were times I thought I was a dead end years ago and thought it will always be that way. Even when I very very rarely had a woman like me for me, I acted depressed and self hating because life wasn’t paradise where every cute girl I wanted would like me and make the move first, ignore my awkwardness and be smitten by me because she thinks I’m interesting and a good guy. I was insatiable. I was lucky enough to hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:26 PM
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Exactly bro. Women look to validate the guy they want, you would never need to buy a woman you don’t know a gift or do favours, they will be begging to do so just for a chance at affection. She will never ask you to do her homework for her, or help her move house. What she does is ask the chump orbiter to do it so that it’s easier to bang the guy she’s actually wanting lmao If she’s mad she’s never going to take it out on the guy she wants validation from, she will just lash out on an orbiter, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:12 AM
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I think one thing guys don’t realise especially when we’re younger like 16 to maybe early 20s, women have the most options. Never feel sorry for a woman you don’t know and be weak, learn to say no. A lot of not as classy women can be cruel, but many classy women I met were truly amazing people despite being like a 10. Almost all the very cruel women I met were not hot, they were mildly above average. I remember when sadly before I got in the best shape of my life and had a glow up I did well wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:19 PM
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The hilarious thing is rather than spiteful comments, trying to get out more or gain more been/muscle will show exactly why men do this. I had noodles for arms, i was not in good shape. I never understood why men who are gym rats immediately start wearing tight t shirts etc Until one day my clothes were in the wash so I only had an undersized top. I noticed so many women just looking to check me out, because I’d never had it like that before. Sure I was lucky and even had the occasional approach…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:05 PM
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I really don’t think this is true. Some women just want a nice man. You would be amazed how many women who are like 5’10 or 5’11 are actually very lonely. A lot of guys don’t ask them out because they don’t think they are tall or amazing enough. I’ve always found the most forward women have been taller women because if they don’t act forward to guys they like nobody goes for them. I regularly see taller women with men that are like 5’7. So i disagree that “women will always want the guy bigger r…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:20 AM
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Do you think there may be an ethnic element to it, you being in the south?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:44 PM
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I know the make up thing is an incel Meme but it’s kind of true. So many women that I thought “oh she’s quite hot” that I was friends with. The second she took her make up off her looks plummeted by like 4 points. Like unrecognisable… And in all those cases they were super arrogant they’d always talk about how most men are ugly, would be openly be rude to so many guys. But it’s so weird how the women I met that are really attractive both with and without makeup were so much gentler and nicer.. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:35 AM
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You may feel this is universal but there’s a small number of people who learned that maturity early in their 20s. And also shockingly a great majority of people who take decades to become like that, like by the time they’re in their 60s when significant numbers of people they knew have died and there are no peers left to care. It may seem obvious but sadly a lot of people really aren’t like that. They attack people to feel better. Engage in blatant projection or attacking people of what they hat…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:54 PM
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Definitely. If you are raised to be kind, think about when you have a pet dog. It’s wagging its tail and begging to be hugged or pet. It hurts you to see the dog longing for you and not give it attention. As a guy, the best route to Maximum success is treating women worse than you would your dog… From a young age, if you can have a woman begging for your attention, longing for you, but bread crumb her, leave her on read.. Better yet if you know she’s stalking your social media obsessing over you…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:49 PM
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Definitely true, I was really embarrassed about the incongruity tbh. I basically totally deflated and you could see how I went from looking snug that she was miring to, omfg please stop looking at me this is humiliating, I’m still hot to you right? Oh fuck I guess I’m not the one anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 11:49 PM
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There are opportunities indeed. But you gotta make sure you are not just cool, confident etc but your self improvement is top level. Most embarrassing thing that ever happened to me. I was dressed up well. Damn this hurts to even type out. A cute girl, like generally real good looking but also looked very classy, smart doing well for herself. Was at the self checkout next to me at a grocery store. I was flat broke and in debt. But wearing a suit and looking dapper as I had gone out for an event,…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 10:05 PM
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Perfect advice man. It’s incredibly useful. I’m in the same position except I’m just trying to put on a bit more muscle. I relate to your story a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:18 AM
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That deserves its own post tbh it’s very true. I would have a woman that likes me tell me that she assumes I must have been a “player”. I thought she was lying, because I felt so worthless. But she just assumed wow he’s so handsome (to me?) others must find him handsome and he must be killing it. Haha that’s amazing that she assumed the other date must have been attractive. I think as well with the assuming it helps a lot when you stfu. I had by one woman strongly interested in me and managed to…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:15 AM
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Exactly. I experienced the exact same thing, I wasn’t over 300lbs but I was close to chubby years ago before I spent years getting into shape. I did have some women show interest in me despite my self hatred and feeling so ugly and it makes me feel sad that if I had gotten in such good shape years before it would have been so easy for me and I’d have had so much potential, I’m sure you feel similar given that you were 6’3, being that tall and actually in peak condition is easy mode. Yeah and abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:16 AM
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I had issues with my teeth too. I think self improvement and earning enough money to fix them is a big thing. You may not need 30k there may be other options for implants. Even consider travelling abroad? Being able to have a big smile all the time can be very magnetic, ever met another guy that you generally liked hanging around because he was always so Damon positive? In my case I found there’s a company in my country that offers full teeth implant replacement on a payment plan of $200 a month…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:12 PM
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Oh my fucking god, thank you! That’s all I was trying to explain. This happens to any and probably most guys, many people. The saddest thing is the ones that probably never even realised they had a chance and denied themselves. I remember some of my best success was when I was oblivious to my normal self limiting attitude. I would connect with random people on social media, oh she’s really hot, oh we have a similar hobby let me tell her it’s a random add let’s talk. We chatted, ended up meeting …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:39 PM
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I think this is true at younger ages. I remember around teen time when some people had their first experiences clumsy and embarrassing with the girl being shamed in almost all cases. Suddenly within like a year basically every guy you would ask would say “yeah I lost my virginity at 14” or 15. And it was seen as being a loser to still be one at 17. You would think you were the only 16 year old not getting laid from how guys would talk. But as an adult I find it’s different, I met a guy who was 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:08 PM
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So the Samsung heiress who is a billionaire that ran off with her body guard.. Do you think the bodyguard said “oh my god she’s so hot and she’s a billionaire and I’m broke in comparison, she’s so out of my league..”.? If he said that he would never be with her, he does not treat her like there are “leagues” and he’s “not allowed to be with her”. You can say delusional if you want it’s your loss, it’s a sad life to literally have a quasi Elliot Rodger mindset and be walking around thinking “that…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:47 AM
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You’re just proving you never go outside, have zero confidence and have a miserable life. I didn’t claim to be a player, a millionaire, or have hundreds of bodies or countless models. It’s actually really really sad that you would describe the absolutely unremarkable and totally common experience I spoke of as “wow you are exceptionally delusional” and aggressively call it “larping”. Like I’m taken a back, as if someone called me a liar for claiming to have a few hundred dollars in my bank accou…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:40 AM
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Exactly… I don’t know why people find this so hard to believe. And especially when you’re dealing with less mature ages or immature people. Another thing, I felt so ugly at one point in my life like ten years ago long before my glow up. I had muscle but also some fat, nearly chubby build, with low confidence. I liked sports but I was slightly flabby and I wasn’t treated as if I was attractive mostly. One day I was at a party and we played this strip game and this girl who was a super scene rawer…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 07:11 PM
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It’s literally my life experience and in my case it’s influenced by factors like ethnicity, prejudice, culture, class. I didn’t want to give my life story the comment was long enough. I know this is Reddit but you do realise how weird it is that I spoke about something totally unremarkable and you act as if it’s unbelievable? I didn’t claim to be a billionaire or famous or gods gift to whatever. It’s like if on an exam sub someone says “yeah I got (insert great but feasible SAT score)” someone s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 04:33 PM
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Larping about what? Do you realise how truly absurd it is to me to be called a larper when I’ve spoken about nothing in particular other than going outside.. this is Reddit after all. It would be like posting on a finance sub that you invest a few hundred dollars a few times and someone says “dude you’re larping”. I don’t understand how the very idea that someone had experience and shares that is so extraordinary. I didn’t say I pulled 10s every day or every week. I didn’t say I have 400 bodies.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 04:02 PM
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Wtf are you talking about? When did I say to date a fat girl? The point is don’t say “she’s too good for me” in my experience it’s simply not the case, if you “lower your standards” instead of raising confidence and getting better at approaching less attractive women don’t give a better experience, it’s better to do your best to maximise chances in terms of looks and style and go for what you personally are attracted to most not self defeat and say “she’s not as pretty as others maybe it will be…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:48 PM
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Im not “larping” and I hope anyone seeing this saves themself pain and disabuses themself of the notion of “leagues” you will lose out on perfectly amazing opportunities with great women believing in that shit and you only live once.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:25 PM
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Wear a suit and look presentable or if not wear the best Paris’s style male fashion drip, song DG SUNGLASSES, designer jeans, designer jacket etc.. If you approach a lot of women and act confident it will happen. And no.. there’s no such thing as “leagues” or “ SMV”. I was with a 40 year old guy who approached 6 women all day, he would throw lines and say what’s up. All the 30 something year old frumpy and haggard looking women, some with saggy chins or a little bit too much bingo wings or look …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:22 PM
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I don’t think this is true. I think it’s just that often a woman’s hotness has nothing to do with your chances of getting with her. A lot of men realise this, especially if they go through a phase of trying to approach a lot of women. You get rejected often. But what you find is that a lot of the time the most conceited and nasty or unnecessarily cruel women are actually the least attractive and interesting. I actually get approached sometimes by some women and I found that the women that approa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:59 AM
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Except when you’re the young dumb guy who has a hot girlfriend you don’t know what to do with and you break her heart and are emotionally damaging , the chump nice guy is alone and you have the girl and she’s fucking your brains out. Nobody is calling you an abuser while you’re winning with the “insecure” girls and not treating them the best. Believe me, I’ve experienced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 09:02 PM
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Trust me it happens, especially less mature guys. When I was younger a girl I was with that was an a 10 I became like that. Also some women here spoke about their experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:04 AM
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It’s actually easier when younger as a lot of women have less baggage and more innocence. Also trauma embitters women. A lot of beautiful women have gotten with average guys or below average guys just to have that shlub become big headed and start thinkiv if means he can always pull super models, take her for granted, be a loser and fail to make her happy or be the best man he can thinking he will always have her or a girl like her loving him. So they give up on that idea and say “why not just d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:37 PM
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Yeah tbh if you are at university and you cannot get laid it’s your own personal failing. Women were hooking up and hunting, not because it “hot girl summer” and “they wanna get their back blown out”. It’s because uni/college is ultimate preselection, you are automatically smarter and dependable. I wish I wasn’t so much of a pussy back then. I remember I was fatter, lamer, much less attractive and I never got a bad reaction from a girl I approached. I was even surprised at how many times you cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:05 AM
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A 4’11 or 5’1 woman in her 30/ wearing youthful clothing from behind will always look like a teenager at first glance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:33 PM
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It’s actually pretty realistic to look ten years younger when near 40 because that is comparing two mature ages with a huge proportion of people on both ages that let themselves go massively. A guy who is bald, fat and dresses sloppily can look like he’s in his 40s at 29. Likewise a fat woman wearing frumpy clothing and with the classic “Karen” short hair cut will look middle aged. A guy who is almost 40 but clean shaven, in great shape can easily look much younger compared to men that let thems…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:27 AM
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Totally fair tbh, I didn't mean to put anyone down tbh and I've never insulted anyone about it. I do think it's better for people to be happy and well, let them cope if they feel to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:12 PM
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Thanks for sharing. Here’s a link to the TikTok showing how much younger the golden girls would look like with modern hair styles. I can’t find the other one that shows how aged women like Halle berry etc would look with golden girls hair styles though. https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGeXbaDGo/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:50 PM
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Yeah. I suggest he go out more often. He could still meet the one A good thing I suggest if he’s in very good physical shape. Put on more muscle and show it off. Wear skin tight t shirts and dress shirts that show definition. I used to be like what’s with these dudes wearing tight stuff all the time until I had to get changed after gym and only had a childhood shirt that was skin tight. I noticed I kept getting the eye like two or three times, and thought wtf? It’s been a while , what’s differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:23 PM
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Women do enjoy sex but they cannot win with how we treat them in society. Think about an attractive woman, well fairly attractive. How often does she lock eyes with a handsome guy her age, who might be interesting or seem sweet every time she goes out? She becomes accustomed to it. If every time she locked eyes with a nice looking guy who is bedazzled by her and just gives in and accepts his advances. She’d be sleeping with a different guy like nearly every other day. Imagine if she said yes to …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:52 AM
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🤷 well if the overly long winded explanation came across that way, it’s a fair risk
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:59 PM
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I’m like an African marathon runner build. But I think with my style at my age women that find me their type like me but the broader population don’t take me as serious as if I had a proper built out frame. Putting on muscle and having it visible I genuinely found I get treated with more deference, that’s my genuine experience tbh. It may be highly situational and affected by my overall style, demeanour and way of dressing to be fair. I think in a nice suit looking like a brainy successful perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:58 PM
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Another thing even I took a lot of time to come to terms with. Being skinny is actually just as bad as being fat for a lot of women… When women say don’t get too muscular they literally mean a body builder. Women like a grown man to look like a man. Not “dad bod”, but like a strong looking build. Like the type of men you looked up to as a kid. Women in a lot of cases find grown men that are skinny as bad as being fat. You see when that stand up dude you know called Don folds his arms and you can…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:43 PM
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If you reject a woman or in any way get an “ego win” over a woman she will mentally remember that forever. I swear to god. Any chance of being the bigger person totally disappears. If years later you’ve forgotten about her and it’s something like you approach her at a party or something most women I feel they’d have a strong compulsion to find a way to humiliate you just to “get even”. I didn’t even realise it, there have been a few women I’ve met that aren’t like that, don’t take rejection pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:01 AM
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I actually was far less attractive when tinder was first released, far less. Had a very average joe profile too. No holiday photos or “pre selection” of me with ten women or a sports car or on a yacht or plane. Doing something like a boost actually felt like a cheat code, I’d have hundreds of matches. Also when I matched at least the majority of people responded. It wasn’t hard to hold a convo. The women were clearly looking to either meet someone or find a partner. And I have to say, there were…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:37 PM
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I think another simple thing is everyone is more neurotic. People have “phone anxiety”. Like you can make a friend and they’re too anxious to even speak on the phone. People can’t handle even genuine public interaction unless they’re already inhibited by alcohol. It has to be through social media and that fake world. That affects everything. Do you know how easy it was to get women when I was like an adolescent like 13. Super easy. Because the girls were just as aggressive as the guys. It was eg…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:41 PM
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I don’t think your comment was unloading tbh it was 1/3 mines length and very inoffensive and sincere, I doubt OP would mind, best of luck too man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:24 PM
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Just an incredible woman, as if god decided I should have far more than I deserved and have a gorgeous girl exist purely to please me and treat me well and do so selflessly. She acted as if she could never be satisfied unless she did more for me and her needs were irrelevant, just me attempting to care for her was always appreciated. I was the best man in the world inside and out and she sincerely felt that and made sure to express that verbally and physically all the time. We never even had one…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:46 PM
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Yeah, a man is more likely to default into “let’s sort our selves out and get through this” mode. The assumption that any random Man would immediately be dangerous and more Perilous than a bear that will eat you slowly intestines and face first is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:57 PM
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It would be different if the question was, would you be alone with a man that is hunting you and seems dangerous or a random bear. The question is literally any man. It could be Brad pitt, it could be your neighbour, it could be Joe Biden. It’s a sad state our society is in that this kind of misandry is promoted. If guys were saying they’d rather be alone with a feral boar with razor sharp tusks in a room for 48 hours because “I’m worried a woman would take advantage of me when I’m sleeping and …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:54 PM
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Got to be honest here. My first girlfriend was like more beautiful than any woman I’d then dare to ask out. I was so dumb I actually believed in “leagues”. As if it will keep a woman or be attractive to her to act as if you don’t deserve a teenage girl who is at the end of the day at least as dumb and unproven as you are and still finding their way in the world. She was very attractive, stupidly gorgeous. And she was beyond her years. Extremely caring, she put a lot of “emotional labour” into mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:52 PM
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They make such a big deal out of it because they’re down bad. Any man in his 20s who is well put together.. go and tell your own mother, father or aunt whoever. “Hey Im in love with this woman, she’s a single mother”. The first thing any of them would say is get with someone else. They’d say it’s not worth it etc etc. It’s not an innovative discovery to realise that dating single mothers is a bad idea. The reason these guys dated these women and had horrible experiences is because they really re…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:24 PM
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That’s why when people say “the girls are so Much hotter in Russia” for example I don’t get why people don’t just understand it’s that there’s no fat women. Imagine Chris hemsworth with 150lbs of extra weight, all his chiselled facial features are distorted he’s not a hunk and so magnetic anymore. So same thing. It’s just in places like Russia all the women that would be at best a chubby or a fat woman that has nice eyes, good nose shape etc, but just a fat face would all be slim attractive wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:09 PM
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That’s awesome man, I wish you the best and you keep winning in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:24 AM
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Man the greatest tragedy is male hair loss. So many people notice it but delude themselves until it’s gone too far for finasteride or a hair transplant to work. They see it happening say “I’d never take fin that’s poison” and throw natural remedies or some sc they fell for on their scalp. The hair loss gets worse and worse and only when they are like Norwood 3 and above and the comb over is looking ridiculous they decide “I’m going to consider anything, hair transplant, meds whatever” But by the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:18 AM
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I remember way back in the MySpace days there was a few guys in our city that you have a common link with from a friend of a friend. These guys had no talent, no abilities, never found d anything but flunked school. But they were genuine “pretty boys” with soft features but lost of all they really took narcissist level pictures and used photoshop a lot. Every single photo these guys put up there would be 50 comments from girls just worshipping them. Shamelessly. Straight up “you are the most bea…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:02 AM
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It has happened to me a lot in life. I have to admit that I think a big part of it is demeanour and style and if you’re their type. I know I’m not a Calvin klein model. I’ve had friends that weren’t models but were all American type looks, like pretty boys. We’d be out and groups of girls would literally turn their heads to look at them, start fidgeting, talk more loudly and do things to seek attention and be noticed. But they generally wouldn’t approach. I know I don’t have the same top level a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:28 PM
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You can never do well if you tell yourself EVER that a woman is above your league. Is the billionaire Korean woman that ran off with her bodyguard dating a guy who told himself “I’m just a bodyguard I’m out of her league” or is he smashing because he truly doesn’t act like she’s better than him. Honestly one of the hottest girls I ever got a date with was when I wasn’t even into white girls that much. I didn’t tell myself “white girls wouldn’t like me” “she’s super hot she’d never say yes” In fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:56 PM
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It happened to me once. This model looking girl was absolutely sloshed, she just comes up to me and starts dry bumping me almost putting her hands over me and caressing me and telling me I’m handsome what’s my name. It was at a big festival. Her friends basically tell her “come on we got to go, we’re walking you can be with him or you come with us” and are very firm. I didn’t get upset whatsoever because I could see she was drunk and it’s not like I could have done anything with her. It kind of …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:45 PM
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I think some guys can’t accept the fact that they aren’t lucky. There’s some amazing women out there that are hot, have had few if any partners and love men… Guess how I know? Because I had one in my life and didn’t understand how lucky I was. She was an absolute stunner. She was a virgin, (not that I care about that) she only cared for me but as a dumb young man I immediately took her for granted as if women like that are a dime a dozen. She made the right decision and found another guy, they h…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:37 PM
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A lot of what I see online just doesn’t match with reality, I used to walk around a town in suburb of London and a lot of the couples in the late 20s or early 30s I saw were 5’11 women and a balding 5’7 or so man. Or taller good looking woman with a decent wholesome looking guy. Multiple times I saw above average looks women who were maybe 2-3 inches taller than their male partner looking very happy. A lot of the time I see short guys with a short girl. And if I’m honest like every tall girl 5’1…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 05:40 PM
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I think the whole thing is ridiculous to be honest, just some people dancing. Someone is far gone if they are actually getting that wound up and making so many assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:31 PM
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I felt ugly due to bad experiences with trashy women I approached. But I realised I wasn’t when I spoke to my friends about my experiences and none of them had ever been asked out by a woman before. But it happened to me multiple times in my life. It’s funny as I was often friends with “chads” and walking down the street it would be just like when a couple of hotties walk down ten street and all the men stare. All the women around would keep looking at us, they’d possibly fish for attention, lin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:18 AM
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In the west the sustainability is broken. Sure it’s men’s fault for becoming overweight in many cases, but it also feels like as men we are fighting over fat women( scraps). I’m telling you even in the city, a girl that would be a Moscow or Tokyo 3 walks around like she’s a 10. What do I mean by this? I mean they’re genuinely arrogant as if they’re a move star. As a man it’s really unbecoming of one’s country when you go out and because you’ve been painting your house and you’re wearing work clo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:58 PM
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Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 11:04 PM
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Rock on man. It’s so weird when you get older but then finally maximise your physical looks and wonder why the hell didn’t I do this before. I was never fat but I was close to it at times but was in self denial. When I massively shifted my life in terms of demeanour and learnt that I cared too much and was too kind. I also became very athletic quite some time before that, had much more defined bone structure and also very lean muscle. You just become straight up more magnetic. dumb to think how …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 06:51 PM
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I saw a joke somewhere from someone in the queer community that lesbians are official after a week, moved in with each other after a month, engaged in two months and by the third month they’ve split up and both are accusing each other of being abusive psychos. I’ve forgotten the accompanying explanation but remembered that yes there’s the reputation that lesbians move too quickly and there can be a lot of drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:54 PM
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That’s true but also especially after trying not to care you generally don’t. Sure a lot is a spectrum. Sometimes you can be nice but it can be that you have to force yourself when being nice not to look like you enjoy serving. Don’t make it look like you put effort into pleasing and enjoy serving and can be asked of anything. “Whatever I’ll do this for you” later she says “oh thank you so much I’m so sorry for the inconvenience ” and you just say “yeah” or “ whatever, [insert firm statement]” j…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:51 PM
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I think you’re making good points tbh go off! I do think pretty women get rewarded but there’s no illusions about that. Women are well aware of that we have trends. Women actively maximise this for the most part. I find quiet girls that could “glow up” but “it’s not her style” are a rarity. Think how many maximise by following trends “does my butt look big in this”. The heroin chic phase, rampart anorexia. Then as soon as big butts became desirable you saw BBLs going crazy women dying on the ope…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:39 PM
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Exactly, i actually agree with her strongly. But I’d differ in that yes there are men like me who are dumb enough to dump the virgin 9/10 girl who was nothing but loyal and loving and smart and emotionally healthy, you love her she loved you back. She has such attachment that she genuinely only finds YOU attractive and no matter how objectively other men have more she sees you as the most attractive man in the world. But these women are only single like 3 months their entire lives, they’re speci…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:29 PM
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Yeah not the average reddit woman. I’m referring to the most narcissistic and unkind women that have never had any introspection their whole lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:37 PM
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Style and keeping in shape makes a huge difference. I’m amazed how many people just “let themselves go” or wait to combat hair loss when it’s completely beyond saving. Being in shape, dressing youthfully etc vs putting on the pounds and waiting to you’re a Norwood 4 before considering propecia or rogaine is a huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:36 PM
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I have to be honest there are a lot of very hot and kind women that aren’t like that and my mistake was dumping her, that’s the honest truth. She was a straight 9/10 but i took her for granted got bored, didn’t reflect on my own short comings. I acted like you could just find a woman like that anywhere and was rewarded justly for that. She’s married now after her second relationship ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:28 PM
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I did see a lot of it as cope but didn’t want to bedisrespectful as she took the time to write a thorough intelligent perspective from a woman’s perception. But was some cope and did read into things wrong, i clearly explained I was the one shown messages after a chump helped her move. Also was quite violently twisting my words to say how i must treat classy women bad and must only date insecure women. It’s the typical deflection that tells you some parts ring too true. Though i think she has no…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:37 AM
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So many women complain about the men they date being jerks and hurtful but t listen to this explanation When you start out as a romantic but you were disrespected and treated badly and you he. You became a bad boy you attracted far better women.. what is the eventuality when you have to force yourself to not be loving and caring. You go from being enamoured with women feelings warm and romantic. Then when you have to force yourself rather than seeing features in a woman that makes you so swoonin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:31 AM
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Your buddy is getting out of a 21 year marriage? I think that means you’re likely a distinguished gentleman. I don’t think it’s as applicable around there. People talk about jaded or bitter older women but I find among older women, like 35+ even though older than me, I find that’s where you a lot of women are earnestly trying to be mature and are more moral. Not just kind to you because you’re attractive but kind to other men regardless of status. Whereas in 20s you’d have a woman look up and do…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:14 AM
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Yeah it's really bizzare but the most loud voices are childish and selfish women. When we were younger they really enjoyed making use of their options, dated older guys, had rich men wrapped round their fingers. "I used to have sugar daddies when I was younger, they gave me an apartment". A lot of these women truly milked it and enjoyed it. But hold on, oh I'm 28 now.. I'm 30.. There's talk of pregnancy not being as viable. They can't be the sugar baby anymore. They aren't that 19 year old wallf…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:31 AM
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When you're an empathetic person you think every time in your life you felt someone didn't support you, you wished someone was selfless and did x or y for you or happily sacrificed z for your welfare. But with most women in this dating scene it's the opposite, it's how much she feels less than you therefore needs to validate YOU. You can't feel sad for her feeling you're inattentive because it's what they want. She wants to be pining for you affection, craving just a bit more validation. It goes…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:23 AM
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To be honest I've only ever seen aggressive mate guarding for older men who have an above average/ hot wife who is younger than them. it is hilarious actually, they mate guard like their life depends on it and don't even hide it. I was talking to the neighbours wife who has a tight body, clearly younger and kinda really above this short fat middle aged mans attractiveness if we go by pure physical.. I swear to god, when we had the second conversation of talking, the next time he just came out of…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:15 AM
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Because women are just like men, they gravitate towards who they are attracted to.. Consider the many frustrated men discussed on this sub, some of whom are members. If they could be with a woman that turns them on even half as much as angelina jolie, but there's a catch, she has mood swings, she is trashy and insults everyone. She behaves in a boorish manner, she often humiliates him, always gives him headache and is occasionally physically abusive, slaps him, is hurtful in the worst ways e.g b…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:41 AM
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Yeah exactly! Also I think it's totally sensible and important when they talk about genuine predation, coercive and abusive relationships of an older man with a much younger woman who is delicate and has suffered a lot and needs a healthy relationship. Or of course when it's clearly illegal due to age (disgusting and evil) or overt baby snatching like 50+ with an 18 year old it makes sense so denounce it. As I said it's more the ones that are just whining about women just a few years younger bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:23 PM
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The things I was always told, when a woman says she "doesn't care" its because she really does care and she's trying not to. Every woman I've seen that proclaims age doesn't matter tells on herself. The furrowing of the brow, the clear emotive defensiveness. Later giveaways such as crying on their birthday when the cake comes out with their age on it. Trying real hard to morph reality to cater to their now increased age. No joke it's hilarious whenever you see a discussion about age gaps, there'…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:21 AM
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Chasing women never brought me anything good. Every hot woman I ever had approached me first. And occasionally a good looking woman will approach me and make the first contact. Whenever I would chase women I’d have bad treatment from average women that were far beneath what I’d normally attract. Chasing women turns them off. Women like it when you don’t care and they come to you for validation. I understand as I long ago was the nice caring loyal guy. When you’re like that you’ll have women be n…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:17 PM
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I grew up around some wealthy women (their families) and they were very classy. Even at the age of 15 if a woman didn’t like you she’d treat you well and politely let you down and say “I wish us to be the best of friends” and mean it sincerely! You’d be treated well, she may even wingman for you, never use you. And if she changed her mind later on you’d never feel used- because she wasn’t using you as a back up. It’s generally trashy women that ghost and use you. I say this because in my experie…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:32 PM
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In my experience I've known some women who are never seen without makeup. I even had a friend who fled when I saw her after she was walking home from swimming as she was not wearing make up. I asked her feeling hurt why she treated me that way, she was very apologetic and said she wanted to talk to me but felt too embarrassed as she had no make up on. ​ There's definitely some women that are distinctly average without makeup but apply thick make up religiously and see themselves at the level of …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:53 AM
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