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| 2 | Unless you are especially handsome, there is no reason for someone to find you attractive prior to you interacting with them. The majority of attraction is created via your actions and behaviors within an interaction. In many cases, the interaction comes prior to attraction, not vice versa.You're right. Sometimes looks trump all. And sometimes a woman isn't only after looks. So it's a toss up, it depends | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 06:58 PM |
| 2 | What behaviors or habits scream low self-esteem?Thank you for the kind words as well. Someone else suggested the 20-10-5 rule, this is an excellent strategy to being more social. At 20 feet, smile at someone. At 10 feet, offer a non verbal salutation, like a wave. At 5 feet, say hello, good morning, good evening, something verbal. You'll appear more approachable and will be surprised at some of the reactions you get, in a good way. This can lead to less fear of being social. Or less fear of rejection. And this will surely lead to a higher sel… | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 03:45 PM |
| 2 | What behaviors or habits scream low self-esteem?Anytime, Everyone needs a kick in the pants once In a while. I meant what I wrote in the best possible way. What's the worst that could happen if you try to be more social? Someone says 'no thank you'? It's not so bad, just make a concious effort to change the negativity because all it does is eat at you slowly. Do something about it. At least admit to yourself that something needs to change, that's the first step. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 02:18 PM |
| 8 | What behaviors or habits scream low self-esteem?This is fantastic advice man, I never heard of this 20-10-5 rule, well done! This can be a huge help to people who are super low self esteem or confidence. Just do it! Don't think, don't worry about the outcome, just do exactly what you said to do and I'm sure it will make the person more likable and more approachable. Who knows, you might even make a friend or two this way. Very nice advice man | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 12:39 AM |
| 3 | What behaviors or habits scream low self-esteem?Dude, your head is MESSED UP MAN! Cut those negative thoughts out of your head man, all its doing is turning you into a shell of yourself. Grow a backbone, stop feeling sorry for yourself, and get on with your life. Go to a gym, start eating healthy, go jogging or something, find a social hobby. Whatever you need to do to release some dopamine in your brain. Cuz all those negative thoughts will destroy you. Do you work? Start making friends with your coworkers, join them for a drink or something… | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 12:37 AM |
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