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Xycotic/r/seduction28/01/15 02:33 AM
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Xycotic/r/seduction01/07/15 11:03 PM
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Xycotic/r/seduction04/03/16 05:29 PM
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Like others have said, just enjoy it. I'd rather have someone who is having fun, enthusiastic, communicates, and at least try to reciprocate. Because that's what it's all about, sex is supposed to be fun and feel great! If it's not fun, and doesn't feel great what's the point? And to reiterate, please dear GOD communicate. You're an active player in your pleasure, give the guy some direction. If the guy doesn't care about your pleasure and doesn't make it fun, then I refer to the above fun comme…
/r/seduction27/04/20 06:53 PM
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Bruh, that friend of yours is gold. Keep ones like that, and return the favor if it ever arises.
/r/seduction19/12/18 11:51 PM
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Oh dear Lord, I didn't even think sucking the clit off was an option! Yeah that clarifies a lot! Thank you.
/r/seduction12/11/18 11:49 PM
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Quick question on the intensity of the oral. You say that it shouldn't be too intense, would you mind clarifying? Are you suggesting it's a form of teasing and less so intended to get her off?
/r/seduction12/11/18 05:52 PM
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She's not outta your league. If you're reasonably good with women already you basically have no league. I think your placing too much value in the outcomes with the attractive women. While being outcome independent with the less attractive girls. A girl is a girl, doesn't matter how attractive she is. If it doesn't work out then on to the next one.
/r/seduction24/08/18 09:18 AM
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You're still here right? You still have your friends, family, hobbies, and what not. What's changed? Nothing. A interaction went poorly and nothing happened. The only bad part about it is you feeling negatively about it. You lose nothing by failing in this context, it's part of the road. You did it, failed, and you can learn. Now, analyze the interaction and find the why behind the awkwardness and figure out what you screwed up. And the next time, do something different and adapt. Rinse and repe…
/r/seduction02/05/18 05:12 AM
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Probably because you're not actually meeting new people. You can have a life, hobbies, friends, sleep well, work out. And it's all well and good, but it's comfortable. I realized that I wasn't meeting new people after I had got a friend base. I got comfortable. So, and I don't know your life, just talk to people. For the fuck of it. Eventually shit will work out.
/r/seduction01/05/18 08:33 PM
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Literally just happened to me. If you're not careful it can really fuck you up.
/r/seduction20/04/18 08:23 PM
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You are correct. But dieting at what is already considered a "healthy" weight is something refuse to encourage. If he is even working out twice a week at even moderate effort he should be eating more.
/r/seduction22/03/18 11:52 PM
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First off, wrong sub. You should be in some food or fitness related sub instead. Second, because 150 is skinny as hell. 162lbs is also skinny. You shouldn't be dieting to lose weight anyways, if you workout you should be on a surplus of calories. Over in /r/fitness there is a guy who went from 158lbs to 202lbs and hes 6'2. Go take a look and honestly decide which looks better before or after. Here is the link, https://www.reddit.com/r/Fitness/comments/86dky0/m246210_months_progress_158lbs_202lbs
/r/seduction22/03/18 11:39 PM
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Clean up your beard my dude, take care with your hygiene and I'd figure you to be a guy who gets some on the regular. It seems like you already do shit to self amuse because why the fuck not. So just keep progressing AND talk to girls. Talk to everyone and gain more social intelligence. You got this.
/r/seduction20/03/18 08:20 PM
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Advice is like a buffet. So are peoples comments. Where one sees you as shy another will see you as outgoing. The important bit is that YOU feel like you've come a long way. If you feel that way that's all that matters. Her baseline for shy might be different than yours so try not to dwell.
/r/seduction20/03/18 08:09 PM
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I've got the same issue my dude, honestly frame it back as a compliment. You're tall, probably a little imposing, girls are hesitant to something like that. Demonstrate you're not to be afraid of and put them at ease.
/r/seduction09/03/18 01:44 AM
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Approach it like you would any new person. You find her attractive. Find out if who she is as a person is also attractive. Most importantly, have fun. Don't over think things. If you run out of things to say just play the noun game. Whatever she says and whatever noun she includes in the convo inquire about it or comment on it. Remember to ask open ended questions, avoid yes or no questions. If you're curious a out something she says, inquire her to elaborate. There is probably someone much bett…
/r/seduction08/03/18 09:52 PM
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Advice is like a buffet, you can pick and choose what you want.
/r/seduction23/02/18 09:50 PM
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Just go in without any intentions of getting anything out of it my man. You're there to find out if she qualifies for your time, not the other way around.
/r/seduction07/02/18 08:17 PM
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She's not the prettiest girl in class. She's the most interesting. What do you do when you find something interesting? You find more out about it. She's got a sense of humor? Well, time to flesh it out and find out exactly the kind of humor! She's just another person my man, and like everyone else she's had explosive diarrhea. She's not anything special or important. Just her. So, find out about her.
/r/seduction07/02/18 04:01 PM
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Thank you for your response. I'm always looking for input.
/r/seduction03/02/18 08:10 PM
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Quick question. I've tried to shift my mindset from talking to men/women without the intention of sex. But just to get to know them to see if it's worth including them in my life. If I see an someone I find attractive I want to get to know them to see if their character is as attractive as their appearance. Is this mindset and approach mentality incorrect? I appreciate any response so I can adjust accordingly.
/r/seduction03/02/18 07:35 PM
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I had the same mindset when I was your age till about 20. It's since shifted after focusing on what I want out of life and becoming comfortable with who I am. Basically life is a story that everyone goes through. Where you have dramatic changes or events another may not. You may not change ever, or you may change tomorrow. The only thing I can recommend is sit down and see if what you're doing currently is congruent with where you want to be in the future. And adjust accordingly.
/r/seduction26/01/18 11:02 PM
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Be you as hard as you can be and if it doesn't pan out, you're still you. Obviously still search for self improvement and increasing levels of awareness.
/r/seduction19/01/18 09:45 PM
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Emotional connection. You be got initial with the attraction. But now you need to develop the emotional connection.
/r/seduction13/01/18 07:58 AM
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Question. So apply the whole not texting thing to my dating life with a modicum of success but my recent relationship failed because of the lack of communication (I think). Can text be used to further an emotional connection after dating for a bit? Or should it always be used for only meeting up and what not.
/r/seduction12/01/18 02:13 AM
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I disagree with the meditation. I can't stand it. Instead I actively analyze situations as they arise, or immediately after. Mediation is honestly boring and counter productive for me.
/r/seduction30/12/17 05:53 AM
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Hey, thanks for this. I just went through a shitty breakup and this comment put things in perspective. Thanks
/r/seduction21/12/17 11:19 PM
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Do something because you want to. Talk to someone because you find them interesting. Self amuse. Do because you want to do. Don't worry about everyone else, and don't worry about getting the girl. Live life and try to make it full of things you enjoy rock climbing, riding horses, fishing, literally anything that has depth and just do. Girls will come. Oh, and don't worry about being nice. Just be my dude. And don't be a dick.
/r/seduction25/11/17 03:51 AM
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Constructive.
/r/seduction19/11/17 07:42 AM
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So was I. Work on yourself. Girls will come.
/r/seduction19/11/17 07:05 AM
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I've got the same problem. What I've found is it's the eyebrows, look at yourself in the mirror and slightly raise your eyebrows. As if you just got asked a question and are listening to someone explain it. It gives less of a "leave me the fuck alone" to a "oh, that's what you're saying" That may help. Also, if you can kind crinkle the corners of your eyes it helps to make a smile "genuine". This is what I've found helped me but you need to find what really does it for you as an individual.
/r/seduction16/08/17 04:25 PM
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I offer this, the gentleman able may have the idea that seddit if for self improvement purposes. Self discovery and the like. Taking advice from a women may seem like cheating. Also, no two women/men are alike. The dislikes and likes are probably completely different from another. While this gentleman's comment did seem a tad curt, this may be a possible explanation.
/r/seduction18/03/16 11:21 PM
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Yeah, fairly. Flexible as hell. I just don't know if I'm morally ok with having what amounts to as a sex toy.
/r/seduction05/03/16 03:09 AM
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Some girls just don't know how, or don't want to make moves back. If you're invested talk about it. Otherwise, escalate with more physicality as long as she seems comfortable and is responding as such. Its kinda basic operating procedure. Keep moving forward as long as comfortable.
/r/seduction17/02/16 04:32 PM
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I suppose it all boils down to moderation. In my case I only play video games when I have someone to chat with or play with. If no one is on, I just go work out or walk to a buddies. I enjoy video games, I like them as a time suck and a brain waster. And I appreciate the skill and story some have. But I don't let them control my life. I suppose my point is, if you're happy with you're current state of being then stay there. But if one has a desire to change then change.
/r/seduction24/01/16 09:04 PM
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Ok, just curious. Well, look at it this way. You are in a perceived unique situation. Neither you or your partner are going to have exact duplicates. Everyone in the thread is merely providing similar situations and examples from their own experiences. If you choose to acknowledge opinions or not is up to you.
/r/seduction15/01/16 01:12 AM
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Out of curiosity are you an immigrant or native United States resident?
/r/seduction15/01/16 12:54 AM
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Dude, now you're just humble bragging. People are giving you advice yet you keep repeating yourself.
/r/seduction14/01/16 11:29 PM
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Bro, height has nothing to do with it. I'm 6'2'', white and have been told I'm <7. I haven't had sex since September. And I've never had a serious girlfriend. Ever. And I usually go through year periods without sex, making out, what have you. So, I said fuck it all. And started working on me. Gym. Everyday for two hours. Became obsessed with fitness, and healthy living. I started to read again. I've never been happier and pussy is farther from me than ever. But, I have seen positive response fro…
/r/seduction02/01/16 01:44 AM
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R.I.P op. Kidding, kidding, have fun, goodluck.
/r/seduction26/10/15 07:04 PM
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It's called resting bitch face. Contrary to popular belief it happens to guys too. If you look like you're about to murder someone at the drop of a hat then you'll receive negative feedback. Smile and just tell yourself "Life's to short to waste on being sad/angry"
/r/seduction04/05/15 09:04 PM
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I've had this same policy. It just seems to me that I only ever meet any one IN class or IN places I'm going on a regular basis. So I have the same reservations that you've mentioned, I'm just kinda fed up being alone.
/r/seduction28/01/15 07:07 PM
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No no not at all, I was saying in general. As in her interactions with everyone.
/r/seduction28/01/15 08:05 AM
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Well, today she forgot something in class an I had an extra so I offered it to her. I don't know anything else but she seems totally positive and upbeat. So is the general objective to just escalate slowly at first and then when there is sufficient build try a conversation then maybe a coffee date or something?
/r/seduction28/01/15 04:17 AM
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