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| 1 | [FR] "I don't want to bother her" or "she's out of my league". How many times have you said this to yourself and not approached her? A story this weekend opened my eyes to why that's bullshit and I'll never use that excuse again.Time to be even more blunt... Well, stop trying and start putting in a real effort. This is not something that you can change in a few days or even weeks. It will take months and years of daily effort. The rest of your life, in fact. Yes, it's going to be tough, but it's either that or die lonely (or get a shitty, nagging, wife). But honestly women seem to really not want to meet guys. The operative word here is "seem", because you don't actually fucking know! All you know is what your shitty li… | /r/seduction | 03/06/18 11:26 PM |
| 2 | [FR] "I don't want to bother her" or "she's out of my league". How many times have you said this to yourself and not approached her? A story this weekend opened my eyes to why that's bullshit and I'll never use that excuse again.I'm going to be blunt here, so please don't take it the wrong way. First of all, your "world view" needs some serious readjustments, as it simply doesn't have much to do with objective reality. I'm not saying that you're wrong, since obviously that's the reality you're living, but it's so clearly distorted by your own (negative) biases and beliefs that, as I said, your subjective reality is almost completely removed from the objective. On to your points: Almost no men get approached by women. Ev… | /r/seduction | 30/05/18 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Turned a work conversation into an "auction"....First of all, rejection is not a failure - it's a learning opportunity. Second, going to the movies is a terrible first date idea. You can't talk, keep eye contact, touch or kiss. So that's for the third date at the earliest. Go for a walk, a coffee or a drink instead. More on that here: https://youtu.be/_8ENbbvkZ2s This will help fix your general charisma and conversation issues: https://www.youtube.com/user/YourCharismaCoach It's not aimed at seduction as such, but will provide a solid foundat… | /r/seduction | 25/05/18 01:20 PM |
| 2 | The "Hey I just thought you were cute" line has gotten me from level 0 to level 1, but not much further...Yes, but notice that it's not the only thing he says. Honestly, it seems like you might be focusing too much on technique and not enough on understanding the underlying principles. | /r/seduction | 22/04/18 06:45 PM |
| 8 | The "Hey I just thought you were cute" line has gotten me from level 0 to level 1, but not much further...You don't say anything about what you do after opening. That is probably where your problem is. As long as she hasn't completely dismissed you, you can most likely pull it off. Also, is that the only line you use? If it is, then that's definitely a problem too. You really should say something more personalised to the girl. I recommend watching this YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/thenaturaltv It's from one of the very best natural-style coaches, James Marshall. | /r/seduction | 22/04/18 06:19 PM |
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