XzaviorJordan Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
76	Stop tsking opportunities for granted		XzaviorJordan	/r/seduction	01/04/20 02:15 PM
3	How to approach without appearing like a try hard?		XzaviorJordan	/r/seduction	24/03/20 07:40 AM
1	Inner Game? What is it? And if and or how can it help me in my current situation?	Inner Game	XzaviorJordan	/r/seduction	30/04/20 04:08 AM

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1	How to meet women during the lockdown? Any essential business if you reside in States with stay at home orders. Supermarkets, home improvement stores, gas stations, pharmacies and hardware stores come to mind. I know hardware stores seem strange, but they usually have a lawn and garden segment attached to them. Just make sure you have a reason to go there other than to approach women. That is tertiary at this point. You have plenty of time to look for approachable women when we have a grasp on the current circumstances. Keep an eye o…	/r/seduction	19/05/20 04:21 AM
2	How do you make a turnaround when a woman shuts down your opener early on? Forget about pick up tactics and seduction for a minute. In your original post, you engage with a woman and ask her how she is doing. She responds with "good" but doesn't ask how you are doing. This is basic conversation. Talk about why you came to the setting you are both in. Ask her open-ended questions. "Why are you here?" "What are some things that made you decide to come here tonight?" These are questions she cannot just give an okay, or a yes or no answer to. If she does not even attempt t…	/r/seduction	18/05/20 04:55 AM
2	How do you make a turnaround when a woman shuts down your opener early on? There is no magic elixir to what you are looking for here. You cannot simply force someone to engage with you. If they do not intend on furthering the conversation, then it is very likely time to move on. Sure, you can try again, but you could probably read body language and tone of voice with their reply to give you an inclination as to whether they want to continue engaging with you.	/r/seduction	18/05/20 01:41 AM
1	Ex-girlfriend was too cute Totally. I treat it like the playoffs. Sure, you're the underdog, you're riding lighting in the bottle. But think about it. All you have to do, is be better than the best ever for one night. Rex Ryan, he was better than Bill Belichick for one night in the 2010 playoffs. That is all you need. One ounce of confidence and dontgiveafuckaboutism can lead to some incredible results. One night of some crazy shit can lead to a lifetime of happiness you can enjoy forever. If you don't pull that awesome g…	/r/seduction	13/04/20 04:33 AM
1	Ex-girlfriend was too cute Oh, I get it. I have a certain type too. Easing that up helps a ton. The basic act of caring about oneself appearance is attractive in my opinion. You will find one with those dimensions. Believe me, I never thought I'd find a girl with all of the physical dimensions that I prefer. The one that first drew my eye had some specific characteristics. She was shorter than me, had dark hair, mocha skin, dark eyes you could get lost in, and a somewhat thickish frame. The problem was that she worked wit…	/r/seduction	13/04/20 04:24 AM
3	Ex-girlfriend was too cute You will find another one if you look hard enough. You have a type I guess. Look for that type and try to spark it up. Forget about the ex is the first part. Giving anymore thought to her in your life is a total waste. Either you didn't want her, or she didn't want you enough. Move on and find another one.	/r/seduction	13/04/20 12:58 AM
1	Stop tsking opportunities for granted That is awesome.	/r/seduction	02/04/20 05:51 AM
1	Stop tsking opportunities for granted Yeah...Good one.	/r/seduction	01/04/20 08:58 PM
2	Stop tsking opportunities for granted Just saw that I misspelled the title of the post. JFC...	/r/seduction	01/04/20 08:31 PM
5	Stop tsking opportunities for granted It's awful. The more I thought about it, the more I convince myself it would have worked. It was not busy and only an old man was nearby. Not like I was going to embarrass myself. Ugh...	/r/seduction	01/04/20 04:59 PM
1	How to approach without appearing like a try hard? Good point. I would have a pretty good idea of how successful a date request would be based on our social activity throughout the interaction. I will not go to Instagram though. I view a NO as a NO. Most women probably won't reject me by outright saying "NO!" It will likely be some form of "I'm busy" or "I have something going on" or "I would but I don't know you well enough yet." The first two are mostly lies, as they would either find time for it or look for another time and date for you if th…	/r/seduction	25/03/20 12:01 AM
1	How to approach without appearing like a try hard? I think that is good advice. I'll switch it up and be more imperative. I do have high self-esteem and view rejection as more of their loss than mine.	/r/seduction	24/03/20 11:51 PM
1	How to approach without appearing like a try hard? Reading body language is definitely something I need to work on. What are some exit strategies in case I do get rejected? Me: "Well, it's been a good night. Are you doing anything next week at 7:00 P.M.?" Her: "Uh I am going to be busy with some things. Sorry." Me in my mind: "Clearly she is not interested, period. Now, on to damage control and trying to seem totally okay with that." I just don't want to get to that awkward phase of the rejection where she might perceive hard feelings or disappo…	/r/seduction	24/03/20 08:55 PM
1	How to approach without appearing like a try hard? I agree mostly with your sixth "bullet point". I am concerned that I will lose power if I make an approach. I approach: "Well, I am basically at the mercy of her now. Here we go... buckle up." But that is totally true. Like it or not, it is all up to her now.	/r/seduction	24/03/20 08:46 PM
1	How to approach without appearing like a try hard? I socialize well with others, not a problem at all. In fact, I feel my social skills are very developed and effective. I know when to inject my conversation, and I know when to listen. I do not just hear people, I listen. This has allowed me to develop a network in some select areas. My issue, in my opinion, lies in getting started per se. I can socialize with women I find attractive quite well. I can carry a conversation without nervousness, I can make her laugh and feel comfortable. But here i…	/r/seduction	24/03/20 08:39 PM