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| 2 | So here's the scenario... {criticism of all kinds are appreciated} | YOUNG_G0D | /r/seduction | 11/05/15 04:18 AM |
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| 5 | To anyone who messed things up with a girl they're interested in - take charge of your lifeSaved | /r/seduction | 06/04/16 09:59 PM |
| 7 | In about six hours I'm taking 5 girls to a dance, and I'm trying to get laid for the first time. What are the best last minute tips,tricks,mindsets, and hacks you can throw at me?You're already thinking of the result...just go out and have some fun dude. What happens along the way will happen. | /r/seduction | 02/04/16 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes just being out there is enough!When you said you like electronic music, I instantly thought of Darude-Sandstorm while I was reading the rest of the post, lol | /r/seduction | 13/06/15 01:16 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Approached two different girls, ended in rejectionIt sounds to me that you're taking yourself too seriously. Hand shakes? This ain't a business meeting. And I'm guessing the girls you opened up were young too, meaning they want a fun guy. You gotta start projecting a fun vibe (I personally like to swear alot; it makes me seem unfiltered and real). Other than that, good job on the back to back approaches. | /r/seduction | 12/06/15 01:55 PM |
| 8 | [FR] asked out girl at the counter in a food shop"a little" Meanwhile, I'm over here shaking my damn head at the lack of structure, lol | /r/seduction | 11/06/15 11:59 PM |
| 2 | What is the psychology behind being mean, brutally honest, and indecent to women and them wanting to be with me?They don't want kind, they want real. You know the way you treat your bros when you're all together? Like how you talk shit to one another for fun? They want that same shit. It's really not hard. You get out of character when trying to "be nice". So when people say be yourself, REALLY be yourself (assuming you actually talk shit to your friends and such). Don't be ashamed of who you'll offend, because they can fuck off. Some will love you;others will hate you. Just keep doing your thing and the … | /r/seduction | 11/06/15 11:57 PM |
| 1 | How I got over my crippling fear of rejectionWhat are you going to do with your 24? Sounds like the title to a 4/5 star novella. This was good advice. | /r/seduction | 11/06/15 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Feel like I was in a great streak and now I'm in a rut. How do I get out?There are opportunities to change your life everywhere you go. Hit the malls on weekDAYS if you are free. I say weekdays b/c you'll usually find the better quality women here, plus it's not as crowded. | /r/seduction | 11/06/15 01:57 PM |
| 5 | So apparently just not giving a f*ck is sexy.This is the realest shit I heard all month. I like it | /r/seduction | 11/06/15 12:39 AM |
| 18 | How important was losing your virginity to you? How did it finally come about, and how did you feel before and after?jesus fucking christ | /r/seduction | 10/06/15 12:17 PM |
| 7 | How important was losing your virginity to you? How did it finally come about, and how did you feel before and after?Right; just find a bitch that's down to get down n dirty and handle ya business. Those ONS's could've made for great stories to tell. | /r/seduction | 10/06/15 12:15 PM |
| 2 | How to be confident when kissing?Look at her eyes, and when you know that both of you are in THAT zone, just be blunt: "I REALLY feel like kissing you right now..," Literally, nothing could go wrong (assuming you both are in the same mood). It worked for me 3/3 times. | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 10:37 PM |
| 3 | Guys who are shy, awkward, unconfident, etc. but still date amazing women - how do they do it? What gives?There are all kinds of men and women out there with different tastes. Some women like upfront, no-bullshit men while others like shyness. Some men like big tits with little ass while MOST just like a nice ass. it's all relative. | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 01:57 PM |
| 4 | Tired of being ugly. Every girl I like, doesn't like me7.2 billion to be exact, which is more reason to get out and JUST DO YOU. They prefer a chase or mystery. Not all girls are like that, but he'll never know until he really starts getting the ground running with an abundance of women. Every chick you see anywhere is an opportunity, a chance to change your life in one way or another. | /r/seduction | 08/06/15 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Tired of being ugly. Every girl I like, doesn't like meUglyNigga Lol. On a sidenote, maybe its not that they find you physically unattractive. HOW are you engaging them? Because I've seen some pretty plump 'niggas' get the job done with some attractive young things. | /r/seduction | 08/06/15 04:00 PM |
| -1 | Tips on how to surprise a girl in bed?Go to the Amateur section on any porn site You're very welcome :) | /r/seduction | 08/06/15 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Girl Asking Your Intentions?She basically opened the window for you, so she definitely wants you to not only ask her out, but she wants you to kiss her on that first date. You might even be able to fuck, depending on how everything else pans out. | /r/seduction | 07/06/15 07:06 PM |
| 4 | which country to move to?Barcelona specifically. | /r/seduction | 07/06/15 06:25 PM |
| 7 | Girl Asking Your Intentions?Pretty fucking much, lmao. Don't overthink this shit; just ask her out to a date. From the sounds of it, you might just be able to do a bit more on this first date, if you know what i mean | /r/seduction | 07/06/15 05:56 PM |
| 25 | If you don't take the chance, someone else willI think we all had our fair share of this. I remember my first college party, I talked to this chick named Jane...she was a pretty little thing too. Gorgeous hazel eyes, about 5'nothing in height, fit, and had the most chill voice (you guys know what I'm talking about). She wanted to be my beer-pong partner and we vibed out pretty well. But then there was the ounce of "you're a pussy" inside of me that made me hesitant to make a move. I asked her where she was from, her age, etc...but not the fu… | /r/seduction | 07/06/15 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Seducing smart and sophisticated ladiesPrecisely. I actually enjoy the thrill of the hunt. There's just something about being tested rather than just being accepted that makes me wanna dive deeper. But the good thing about this 'testing' is that once you do finally 'win', the girl you end up with will probably be more loyal than anything, for obvious reasons. | /r/seduction | 07/06/15 01:28 AM |
| 6 | Seducing smart and sophisticated ladiesThey can filter bullshit out pretty easily. Be genuinely interested in not only their appearance, but their life. Ask them personal questions, yet take it one step at a time. You're pretty much gonna have to be her 'friend' first before anything else happens. EDIT: This is just my take on it; the definition of social clock could be something completely different. | /r/seduction | 06/06/15 11:33 PM |
| 2 | How to make my boring summer into a fun one?"Damn, I gotta go take care of something, but will y'all be here again sometime? Let me get your number, I'll hit you up when I'm available" or something along those lines. Just keep it casual, man | /r/seduction | 03/06/15 04:10 AM |
| 2 | How to make my boring summer into a fun one?Go out and look for some experiences. Just by getting out of your house, half the battle is already won. Go to the mall during the weekdays with a purpose, meeting women along the way. Hit the gym and play some pickup b-ball; you'll probably make a few friends. Reconnect with all friends and acquaintances...there are no limits to what you can do, but the only thing limiting you is your mind. So get that taken care of. | /r/seduction | 03/06/15 02:34 AM |
| 2 | How to respond to a girl's "you are not my type", "you are ugly" or facially expressed "euhh"?Re-invent yourself. If it means separating yourself from the social group you're already in, then so be it. This is your life; make the best of it. | /r/seduction | 29/05/15 12:46 PM |
| 2 | How to respond to a girl's "you are not my type", "you are ugly" or facially expressed "euhh"?The approach was weak, sorry to tell ya. Make your intention CLEAR next time. "Hi, how are you?" is as weird as it gets when trying to talk to women. "Excuse me, hey this might seem random as hell to you, but I saw you from weee over there [points] and I just had to come and say something. What's going on?" ^ This, on the other hand, would not only make your intention clear, but it'll make you seem more transparent, real, and to the point. That's 3 birds with one stone. I'm not saying she'd stil… | /r/seduction | 28/05/15 09:00 PM |
| 3 | First cold approach ever - A complete disaster. I feel like an idiotThe moment you saw her, you knew she was cute. So why not just tell her so? "Hey excuse me, this might seem random as hell but I saw you from over there and had to come over here to say something. What's going on?" Keep it casual, keep it simple, keep it sexy. | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 10:00 PM |
| 4 | First cold approach ever - A complete disaster. I feel like an idiotPermission seeking, and you didn't make your intention clear. But on the other hand, she could be pretty insecure or something might've went wrong in her life as of recent. | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 09:02 PM |
| 2 | How to start conversation if she is with her parents?"What have y'all been up to?" Just do something to get the ball rolling. Don't make it too complicated; conversation was meant to be easy. | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 03:12 AM |
| 5 | [FR] First approach ever: "Music or me."Approaching is easy. Deciding to approach is not. Fucking spot on. I know exactly what you mean. Once you get that initial "hi" in, you pretty much won. The conversation will just turn into a metaphorical dance of questions and answers with a little giggling. | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Dealing with guys hitting on your girlLol, right, They'll just be doing the dirty work for you, paying for her food and all. | /r/seduction | 25/05/15 01:22 PM |
| 2 | I'm not who I want to bePretty much, my boy. Pretty much | /r/seduction | 25/05/15 12:41 AM |
| 3 | [FR] I finally approached, a testament to this subreddit.I'm pretty great. I think that sealed the deal, lol. I actually kind of had a similar experience at a party. It was at the beginning of the year and I had a good time two hours in. Then this chick came out of nowhere looking fine as hell. She actually kind of opened up to me a bit; the chemistry was definitely there. Beer pong games were going on and the partner I had was pussying out; she ended up taking his place and we killed it. After awhile we kind of just chilled out, talking. At the time,… | /r/seduction | 25/05/15 12:39 AM |
| 3 | I'm not who I want to beElliot is definitely the guy to look into. So many self-help videos that tackle various issues you may have. I'd give the Hodge twins a visit too; they're pure comedy and just as helpful. | /r/seduction | 24/05/15 08:05 PM |
| 10 | I'm not who I want to beIt's actually more of a domino-effect. Girls love guys that have something going for themselves ie. having a hobby, self-improvement. Once they see you chasing your ambitions, they will chase you and make themselves available. But when you make women your goal, it's kind of a turnoff for them. So try finding something you're passionate about and focus on that. Women will fall in your hands like rain hitting the pavement. | /r/seduction | 24/05/15 03:33 PM |
| 2 | I have some oneitis due to my inexperienceYou should've went BALLS DEEP in them sugar walls. Ain't nothing wrong with a little action, so next time that situation presents itself again don't hesitate. Just remember to have fun, you're only in your early 20's. | /r/seduction | 23/05/15 04:13 PM |
| 11 | How to talk to girls at raves/music festivals?Your goal shouldn't be to talk to women at raves. Just go and enjoy yourself, man. If women see you having a good time while you're there, they might just end up approaching you or try to get your attention. | /r/seduction | 23/05/15 01:16 PM |
| 1 | How to have a direct approach when the girl is accompanied with friends?It's a bit tough with multiple friends around, but if she's with one ore maybe two, you could easily just ask the friends if they don't mind you flirting with the girl for a minute. More often than not, the friends will excuse themselves out of respect for you. And the show goes on.. | /r/seduction | 19/05/15 12:40 PM |
| 1 | What do I do when I'm a huge pussy and a beta male?"Just do you" Women like men that live by that motto. Just look at it this way: you're the flower, they're the bees. Produce your pollen (work toward your goals) and they'll eventually hop on top of your pedal :) | /r/seduction | 17/05/15 10:33 PM |
| 2 | HOLY COW day game is easy! Terrifying... but easy!you number close and you leave. Done< Why end it there? You're both at Starbucks alone, might as well get a quick date in while you're there. Build some attraction by flirting a little a bit amidst the conversation, playfully touch her if she's really diggin you, THEN get the number when its all said and done. Leave her better than when you found her ;) | /r/seduction | 16/05/15 08:15 PM |
| 2 | HELP! When a girl says she wants you to have a girlfriendOh god, I will never forget the pointless class that was TOK | /r/seduction | 15/05/15 03:50 PM |
| 35 | HOLY COW day game is easy! Terrifying... but easy!A good friend of mine told me: "I have anxiety, PSD, dyslexia, etc. so I understand. But that's no reason to stop living just because you got shit on your plate." Almost made me tear up, lol | /r/seduction | 15/05/15 03:47 PM |
| 1 | I'm a HS senior going to Prom. Can/should I get with a girl other than my prom date?Same situation with me. But, in my defense, when I asked her to dance, she was kinda awkward about it. Afterwards, she sat on the sidelines and just talked with her friends. So I just said "fuck it" and danced with some other girls who went alone or blew off their dates. | /r/seduction | 15/05/15 03:43 PM |
| 1 | HELP! When a girl says she wants you to have a girlfriendno pressure. I went to one in the states; was just curious. | /r/seduction | 15/05/15 03:22 PM |
| 1 | HELP! When a girl says she wants you to have a girlfriendjust curious, what school do you go to? | /r/seduction | 15/05/15 03:05 PM |
| 2 | HELP! When a girl says she wants you to have a girlfriendThat extended essay will bite you in the ass, 100% | /r/seduction | 15/05/15 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Have any of you ever roomed with a female?Lol | /r/seduction | 15/05/15 03:01 PM |
| 27 | Have any of you ever roomed with a female?You know what, you're right. | /r/seduction | 15/05/15 12:20 AM |
| 5 | Have any of you ever roomed with a female?Lol, what's the url? | /r/seduction | 15/05/15 12:05 AM |
| 0 | [FR] First day out in the nearby mallStop it with the "lines". Just be completely authentic, transparent, real. If you thought she was cute the moment you saw her, let your mind align with your mouth and tell her that. You eliminate so many birds with one stone just be letting her know this: -You're being confident -You're being sexual -You're being real To be honest, those are really the only things women look for. You actually had the chance to really get deep into her mind when she started talking about her university life and w… | /r/seduction | 12/05/15 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Random Facebook friend suggestion turns into unlikely scenario of her asking me on a dateThat last line was something I really needed to hear. I'm in the same situation with the whole facebook thing, and I wasn't too comfortable with it (I still feel this way). Atleast now I know the chick is aware of my presence, and I'm not taking my time with things. | /r/seduction | 12/05/15 05:44 AM |
| 1 | So here's the scenario... {criticism of all kinds are appreciated}So basically I have to start from scratch? | /r/seduction | 11/05/15 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Why do women talk so enthusiastically on dating apps, then go silent when you ask for their number?Nervousness? You're basically putting her on the spot, lol. Don't think about it too much | /r/seduction | 09/05/15 12:54 AM |
| 1 | How much does style really matter?Smell good, make sure your clothes aren't too baggy or too tight, and just don't look tacky. You should be fine if all of those things are checked off. | /r/seduction | 08/05/15 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Do you think having female friends is important?Give us some insight on how you all think then, in general terms. | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 11:20 PM |
| 3 | Losing motivation to cold approachLook at it this way: women want to be comfortable. And when you're constantly small-talking them (not saying you do this, just speaking generally) nothing is being built except a false version of who you really are. Let loose. Get straight to the fun stuff and talk about things that matter. If you swear a lot around your friends, do the same with her; basically just be comfortable no matter who you're talking to. Let the conversation flow, like a dance. | /r/seduction | 01/05/15 03:43 PM |
| 1 | How do you improve your date game when you feel you already have most of the basics down?Trial and Error. You'll never know until you go out and practice enough. If you're consistently fucking up at certain points, revisit what it was that fucked you up and fix it. It'll get better from there. | /r/seduction | 29/04/15 05:27 AM |
| 2 | No matter how bad it seems, never turn down a party. Be a yes man.Lol, I found out already but thanks pal. | /r/seduction | 28/04/15 02:15 PM |
| 6 | No matter how bad it seems, never turn down a party. Be a yes man.You could've just gave me an answer, but ok. | /r/seduction | 27/04/15 06:23 PM |
| 3 | No matter how bad it seems, never turn down a party. Be a yes man.What does HB mean? | /r/seduction | 27/04/15 01:28 PM |
| 5 | Today, for the first time, i got rejected because of my looks.This is good. After seeing her play on her phone + giving me a boring answer, I'd just say, "Alright, you seriously can't be THIS boring...you give me a lame answer and THEN stuff your face on your phone? What the hell is that?" At that point, things should definitely heat up from there, whether it be + or -. Either is ok with me, as long as I'm not bored to death. | /r/seduction | 25/04/15 03:49 PM |
| 3 | What's a better way to say "How are you?""What's been up with you? Anything crazy happen recently?" | /r/seduction | 24/04/15 01:22 PM |
| 1 | So what do you actually talk about?This, this, and this again. To be honest, I'm coming to terms with the fact that conversation was always meant to be simultaneous, and never thought about. It just fucks things up. Sometimes I have little dialogues in my head and it seems so fluid the first time around. That's how it's supposed to be with regular conversation. That's how personality is developed. | /r/seduction | 22/04/15 09:03 PM |
| 2 | FR: Did I approach a girl correctly?Why are you placing so little value on yourself? You're just another person like she is. She=you, that's just facts. If anything, asking her out would not only give you more confidence, but if she's as pretty as you claim her to be, you will get mad respect from your peers. Use it as experience...you only get this opportunity once. B/c once HS is over, the odds of you seeing her again are fairly slim. Then too, I think you're looking too much into the outcome and how people will look at you. You… | /r/seduction | 22/04/15 07:07 PM |
| 25 | How To Build Sexual TensionTL;DR | /r/seduction | 22/04/15 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Why social media is killing masculinityFacts. The only choice we had was to just go and talk to her. Or we could talk to a mutual friend to see what her deal was...or write her a letter or something else dumb. You just can't go wrong with simply walking up to her and asking. It's literally our duty as men to do this. | /r/seduction | 22/04/15 06:20 PM |
| 2 | FR: Did I approach a girl correctly?Don't take it from her friend. go to HER and ask her out for some coffee or something. That's the best way you'll ever see success. Plus you can actually look at her body language and feel what kind of vibes you're getting from her. Lots of smiles/not alot of smiling, blushing/no-blushing, etc. | /r/seduction | 22/04/15 06:17 PM |
| 7 | Why social media is killing masculinitymen are marrying their pillows and rice cookers I giggled | /r/seduction | 22/04/15 12:25 PM |
| 19 | What to do when the girl is willing to meet but has a boyfriend? Is it rejection?Friendzone her, get to know her even hotter, single friends :) | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 05:44 PM |
| 1 | FR: Did I approach a girl correctly?That's the problem man, showing interest in someone isn't deemed "creepy". I really don't know where people get this mindset from...I guess that's what this generation has come to. You're the man, so you have to make the move. Her job is to look pretty, your job is to be true to yourself (confident). If she isn't receptive after a few attempts, then just move on. | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 05:37 PM |
| 1 | FR: Did I approach a girl correctly?Her number...ask for it next time. Her smiling is a damn good indication that she wants you to make the next move. | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 03:47 PM |
| 1 | What to do when she asked to switch numbers, yet didn't respond to first text?Just be real with her, stating intent and what not. After a few days go by and she hasn't responded, carry on with your life. | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 03:36 PM |
| 1 | I approached a girl on the elliptical at the gym today..every thought in my head That's just it. Don't even think about. The more its in your head, the harder it becomes to manifest that thought into action. Go straight for it next time; I guarantee you'll be surprised by the results. | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 03:37 AM |
| 10 | What are the core differences between older and younger women?Older women are more confident, since they're more experienced. They also know what they want because of that experience, but this could work to your advantage if you're man enough. Also, if they end up taking you back to their crib, just know that she'll be making you eggs and toast in the AM :) Younger women are a bit sexier, but even then they're pretty bad at sex (speaking generally). They're kind of naive, as they're quick to jump to anyone who gives them validation. Basically, they seek at… | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 01:45 AM |
| 0 | [FR] Weird First Date w/ German Girl from Tinder in LondonThis is why I don't fuck with Tinder | /r/seduction | 16/04/15 01:22 PM |
| 2 | We are robots of our fearsExactly what I needed to hear. Thank you | /r/seduction | 16/04/15 05:01 AM |
| 1 | How I view looks and seductionIt really is relative to the girl you're talking to. | /r/seduction | 11/04/15 10:35 PM |
| 1 | If you’re introverted, stay true to yourselfThis post was textbook. Well done. | /r/seduction | 10/04/15 03:55 AM |
| 5 | Best pick up ever seen...Big Time. Lol, I missed this show. | /r/seduction | 08/04/15 02:31 AM |
| 3 | [FR] What an almost 19 year old learned from sleeping with three +20 girls in a week.Are you in college? Where'd you meet the chicks? Congrats by the way; this shit sounds baller as fuck | /r/seduction | 07/04/15 12:27 AM |
| 1 | [FR]First time trying to meet/talk to people. It went ok..... but a good day nonetheless.Try being more direct. If you see a girl/girls that look cute, open up to them by saying "Hi. I thought you/you two were pretty cute, so I figured I would come and see what you were up to. How's your day going...?" and so on. When you think about it, once you blow past the intro, the conversation becomes easy as cake. Just be attentive and real with them/her. The worst that can happen is an awkward "thank you" by them. Don't over-think it. | /r/seduction | 30/03/15 01:52 AM |
| -3 | Flirting with older ladies?3rd degree feminism lurking in the comments. Why are we so obsessed with stooping UP to a woman's level to match her rather than just being yourself while having a dominant-aura around yourself? I feel like roles have damn near reversed between men and women. Be DOMINANT, my boys. | /r/seduction | 17/03/15 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Leave your comfort zone. It's amazing what will happen.Spot on :) Thanks for this. | /r/seduction | 09/03/15 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Leave your comfort zone. It's amazing what will happen.I was really looking for something like this. Day after day I come on the sub looking for a guy like you to just give some insight on what worked for him based on experience. And not just some light post either; I was looking for something dense like this. Just recently, even though it was flying around my head all the time, I came to the realization that once you stop focusing on others' lives and work on improving yourself, everything else will just fall in place. I'd like to ask, just what co… | /r/seduction | 08/03/15 09:13 PM |
| 0 | Is it important to have common interests? And what do you do if most women aren't interested in the things you're interested in?I like this | /r/seduction | 01/03/15 06:36 AM |
| 3 | My First Cold Approachhow'd it turn out, man? :) | /r/seduction | 12/02/15 11:47 PM |
| 3 | How can I stay consistently charismatic?Just entertain yourself, and results will come. | /r/seduction | 27/12/14 03:52 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Cutie studying at a coffee shopThat's crazy; you almost were GUARANTEED a number. Even if its a little small talk, try to close with the number and text her to meet somewhere else. I'm loving your development though; keep it up! | /r/seduction | 15/12/14 04:39 PM |
| 2 | THIS ENTIRE SUB-REDDIT IN ONE SENTENCEYES. DO THE THING. | /r/seduction | 18/10/14 03:05 AM |
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