YaButtStank Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	What happened to “My body, my choice?” A man wrote this. Link.	/r/MensRights	20/07/20 06:22 PM
1	What happened to “My body, my choice?” Worth nothing that a man wrote it. Link.	/r/MensRights	20/07/20 06:21 PM
1	What, exactly, is this great disconnect between what you give in a relationship versus what you receive? Can you elaborate on gender role reversal needing to die?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/20 04:06 AM
6	What, exactly, is this great disconnect between what you give in a relationship versus what you receive? Yeah, I was honestly taken aback when I read the line about men being expected to take on their partners emotional load. That goes opposite of my lifelong social conditioning telling me to dote on men and act like their therapist even at the sacrifice of my own mental health. I’m also sure this guy’s definition of his GF’s mental load is listening to her occasionally complain about a coworker or a fight with a friend. Meanwhile, my experience was with a man who was abused as a child, was scared …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/20 03:57 AM
1	What, exactly, is this great disconnect between what you give in a relationship versus what you receive? But why only the man’s finances? Both parties should be contributing. Maybe adjustments can be made if one earns significantly more than the other. For instance, I took on more bills and bought groceries when my now ex-BF was making much less than I did.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/20 03:47 AM
1	What, exactly, is this great disconnect between what you give in a relationship versus what you receive? Ugh, I’m sorry you are dealing with that, man. In the brief time I dated between my LTR ending and meeting my current BF, I insisted on paying for half on dates and THAT was expensive enough as is! I can’t imagine being expected to front the full cost. This is a societal expectation that needs to die.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/20 02:49 AM
2	What, exactly, is this great disconnect between what you give in a relationship versus what you receive? He said women get more degrees because they majorly choose shit degrees that any brainlet can complete. Commenter talked about easy majors, not useless majors. The argument is “most women choose joke majors. My argument is that a majority women aren't choosing "joke" majors. The top majors are Health (aka doctors/nurses), Business (which is almost equal amounts of both men and women), Psychology, Education, Social Sciences (ie - PoliSci, economics, geography) and Biomedics. All these combined co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/20 02:32 AM
2	What, exactly, is this great disconnect between what you give in a relationship versus what you receive? Wait, huh? This is based off the same chart YOU shared. I guess that means your comment that men do more labor is invalid since men report doing this, not that they actually do more labor time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/20 11:22 PM
9	What, exactly, is this great disconnect between what you give in a relationship versus what you receive? I know this is anecdotal but in my social circle, my experience isn’t an anomaly. I have a few female friends that outearn their husbands. My own brother was a stay at home dad for a year. Hopefully this is a sign of societal expectations changing. Do you have more info on men being expected to take on their partner’s problems? I can’t help but think of the experience of myself and plenty of female friends who put their mental health on the back burner to support our husbands/BFs. Men are less l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/20 11:15 PM
1	What, exactly, is this great disconnect between what you give in a relationship versus what you receive? I’ve known a few men who enjoyed decorating their homes for Halloween and Christmas. Easter, not so much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/20 10:50 PM
1	What, exactly, is this great disconnect between what you give in a relationship versus what you receive? It does when your naggy wife constantly wants to uphold an unnecessary standard of cleanliness that matches the four seasons. That’s quite a reactionary response to a comment about simply keeping a dirty dish out of a toddler’s reach. 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/20 10:45 PM
1	What, exactly, is this great disconnect between what you give in a relationship versus what you receive? Not the person you are replying to, but I want to point out that the first link you shared shows men and women are nearly equal in working labor but men have much more leisure time than women. So your argument about men pulling more labor isn’t correct.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/20 10:20 PM
20	What, exactly, is this great disconnect between what you give in a relationship versus what you receive? It’s wild reading your comment because my experience as a woman in an LTR was SO different! I dated a college dropout with debt shortly after graduating. Went on to outearn him. We split our rent equally but I covered more bills and supported him financially when he was between jobs. I also became an emotional crutch for him after his father died shortly after our relationship began. Your mention of a man’s finances being communal and men being the rock in the relationship is not at all what I e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/20 10:09 PM
6	Women are complaining men don't want to commit. But what do you have to offer exactly? Do you think the problem is only due to men, or might also be tied to what the average modern woman has to offer? I don’t think you’ll get a rational response from someone who claims he went 100% Red Pill on his bio.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/20 09:34 PM