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Your first post was kind of confusing but I was able to work with it but I have no idea what you're saying in this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:41 PM
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I've never heard of the I have a boyfriend meme. But now I have. As for the naivete of girls I think that shit slides if they're in their teens or a freshman in college but I feel like they should be hip to what guys are doing by the time they hit their twenties. And I agree TRP serves the duel purpose of informing both sexes about the others nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:27 PM
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I'm not about to do the digging but I've seen enough of what he's talking about to agree with him. And a lot of stuff in that ballpark. Like she should be able to make new male friends, hang out with them at night, Go get drinks with male friends, Even have movie nights with a male friend. And then you get the inevitable man saying "99.9% of guys who hang out with you are just waiting for the opportunity to fuck you" followed by "that's not true at all, They're all just really sweet guys who jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:15 AM
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I agree somewhat But I'm an ex-con who spent nearly my whole adult life either on probation, parole, or in prison. Just the last 2 years I've been completely free of the system. The vast majority of my girlfriends were "good girls". Most of them have been to or were in college and have white collar careers. I dated maybe two poor or trashy girls who were definitely damaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:51 PM
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I agree. I'm an ex-con who did 7 years in prison for a "violent crime" And I was recently single for 8 months and was kind of nervous in the beginning about disclosing that I was recently home from prison. To my surprise only one girl out of maybe 20 or more I've dated or slept with in that span gave a shit. I usually wait until I at least met them in person so I have a chance to present myself that I'm not like a lunatic or particularly dangerous and the one stop talking to me instantly I told …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:06 PM
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There's been a handful of times I've seen male celebrities that date a bartender or something. I've also heard of a few female celebrities who date their makeup artist. But most times it's usually famous men dating regular women If they're willing to date regular women at all. I want to say Matt Damon's current or former woman was a bartender when he met her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:30 PM
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Oh when I see stuff like "If you voted for the orange man swipe left" I always swipe right anyway and get a kick out of telling them I've voted for the orange man after I fuck them. None of them have ever stopped talking to me because of that or fucking me for that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:52 PM
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You're right and the exclusivity of an iPhone kind of loses its luster when nearly 70% of Americans use iPhone as opposed to Android. It's obviously not that high prestige when even teenagers who work at McDonald's have them but some people still seem to think means something to have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:53 PM
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I agree wholeheartedly. I got my OnePlus 8t almost two years ago and I'm still thrilled to have it. Haven't had any issues or any desire to upgrade. You're a wise lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:50 PM
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Which is completely stupid considering 95% of people have their phones on a payment plan. Almost nobody just coughs up a thousand to $1,500 up front for a new phone. I actually did because they don't sell my phone in stores in the United States. But then when I try to explain that fact to these girls trying to Android shame me it's just further confirmation that I'm a nerd that I would bother to import a phone or care about being able to use a custom ROM lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:29 PM
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No it's real I ran into it three separate times and a 8-month span of being single. One of them was explicitly grossed out by me having Android. The other two just gave me a hard time and made it seem like it was a slight knock against me having an Android but they would get over it. I didn't even understand what was happening the first time it happened. I end up happening to look it up and find out it is in fact a thing. There's even been prominent women social media influencers who have recomm…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:03 PM
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I was single for 8 months until recently and I did run into "ewww green bubbles" 3 times by women in their twenties. Never mind that I make triple what these girls made and most of them are on family plans and have their iPhones on a payment plan. There are actually people like this out there. Obviously it's a huge red flag that they're not worth my time anyway but there's definitely girls like that. There are no men like that because men don't give a fuck about shit like that. We don't care if …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:01 PM
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Did you see how The internet reacted to Mr Beast having standards? An obviously rich and successful guy had the gall to expect his woman to be intelligent and eternally curious. One of the most rich and famous people in media isn't allowed to have the standards of an average woman who works in an office making 40K a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:17 PM
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Lol for real. A dude with a 5 face becomes a 7 and a half by being 6 feet tall. Also being a drug addict helps get laid. Women especially young women in your '20s like the party and have fun and get fucked up. Of course a non-fat guy, who is the average looking, who always has drugs, who's over 6 ft tall is going to get laid quite a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:10 PM
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You're right about that on the looks match and sexual chemistry. Some of the best fucking I've had has been with girls I don't think are pretty enough to keep around forever but are enough to have for a couple weeks. Plus hotter girls are more likely to have sexual boundaries. Not always. I fucked some really hot girls with bottomless throats and open for business assholes but they are more likely to tell you no to certain sexual acts that a chubbier or less attractive girl will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:04 PM
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I don't agree. I'm right leaning. You know how many girls I've slept with that said "swipe left if you voted for Trump" that kept sleeping with me after I told them or was sneak dissing all the shit they hold dear? I think most people's morals and values go out the window if they think someone is hot especially too hot for them. Myself included. I've slept with plenty of girls I thought were huge "libtards".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:00 PM
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For real. I feel like any man who refers to his woman as his partner isn't capable of getting his woman wet anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:02 PM
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Yes, the word partner has typically been used by gay couples. At least growing up in the 90s it was. Just in the last few years has it expanded to straight people. I personally don't know anyone who refers to anyone as their partner but I'm from a working class, blue collar and diverse community. We got real shit to worry about on our hierarchy of needs before we get to thinking calling someone a husband or wife is an insult. I'm sure the breakdown of who uses the term "partner" would show a sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:54 PM
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Nah. I'm not changing my vernacular to make a tiny fraction of people feel more included. Suddenly we all have to talk like we're all in gay relationships. Forget that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:17 PM
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I feel like if they think the term "boyfriend/girlfriend" doesn't hold enough gravitas after a decade-long relationship it's time to strap your fucking nuts on and actually get married. If you can be with someone for that long and you think calling them your partner is holding them in especially high esteem then that person should be valuable enough to you that you would marry them at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:53 PM
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Idk, I asked you a simple question. What is a podcast hosted by a woman or has a majority female listenership that has on scientists, philosophers, activists, etc? Sure Joe has a bunch of morons on his show as well but I can't think of any female dominated podcast that has enriching and intelligent content like Joe gives to his audience very often. Almost every podcast (or any form of content geared toward women) tends to be about inane bullshit. So it's always hilarious to me when people use Jo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 07:15 PM
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What's an example of a podcast with a majority female listenership that is intellectually stimulating?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:49 PM
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I believe that is how you handle it but you can admit that that's not how the majority of men view casual sex right? I mean you're a man I'm sure you have guy friends there's no way all your guy friends are also like you. If so you just live in some weird little enclave of dudes who don't want casual sex because I've rarely run into those dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:18 AM
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While I think what you say about FWBs is true on some occasions I think for the most part it is somewhat damaging to the woman. The vast majority of FWB situations are really just the woman wants the man but the man won't commit to her so she concedes to at least have sex with him to keep him around. If you pass a woman's looks threshold to be able to have sex with her you more than likely are someone she would actually be willing to be with. The same cannot be said for a man. Men will have sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:13 AM
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I agree with much of what you're saying but at the end of the day its infinitely harder for men to attain casual sex than it is for women. So men are much more likely to act on the opportunities. You could go in your phone right now and ask almost any male friend if they would come over and have sex with you and they would no questions asked. Men can't do that for the most part. Even super hot men would have some difficulty. If you proposed that question to a random man he's jumping on it but in…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:06 AM
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Right but it's true any man who got in bed with you first pictured you in that bed with him before you even knew who he was.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:34 AM
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Now this is where I agree with you. Maybe some girls are like her but the vast majority of girls are just fine with being approached at a bus stop or any vulnerable area if it's a Chad type dude. It's only offensive if it's an ugly guy. Part of the problem is I think ugly guys are also less likely to have good game which is what makes them not be able to read a room or have social skills. Because due to his looks he gets much less practice spitting game to a woman or hanging out in friend groups…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:33 AM
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Unless she gives you signals. Yeah women are not going to approach we know that. But women will signal if they want you to approach so I don't know what the hell you're talking about that you can't approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:25 AM
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And shit You can even approach women at work If it's a place you go to all the time as a regular and it's become apparent that she likes you. I've gotten a handful of girls numbers while they were at work. But I've never asked a girl anything if she isn't giving me signals. I would say my success rate is in the mid-90s. I rarely misunderstand a woman's interest. I did about 4 months ago and it kind of surprised me. It's a woman that I see once a week and I asked her for her snap and she put it i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:23 AM
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Well yeah, that is the only way a cold approach works is if a woman is sending you signals and is attracted to you. You're not going to approach a woman who's not attracted to you and convince her to be attracted to you in the 1 to 3 minutes of time she's going to give you if you're lucky. Unless you can let a Ferrari key accidentally fall out of your pocket or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:15 AM
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Show me an example of someone getting arrested for cold approaching one woman in a place he belongs. I'm sure if the example you can think of is a man being in a place he is an even supposed to be and just jumping from girl to girl to girl for hours to get his content. Of course security is eventually going to catch up with his ass and take it as harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:13 AM
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That doesn't mean anything. Just said he was there to do a social experiment. Eventually someone's going to catch on and feel like he's harassing people. That is not a typical approaching a girl situation at all. I agree with a lot of red pill and incel rhetoric cuz you guys aren't completely crazy but then you guys say shit like this and thinking you can go to jail for just asking a girl for her number. It makes me think that you guys just never go outside and deal with actual women. Of course …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:11 AM
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I agree approaching her with how her body looks is not a good way to do it at all. But how the hell are you supposed to tell some random girl you just spotted 30 seconds ago anything on what you appreciate about her personality or whatever? Generally if a girl is smiling at me I take that as she's interested. I won't usually say anything about her looks but even sometimes I will tell her she's very beautiful and that seems to be a classy way to handle it that most women appreciate. About 3 month…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:07 AM
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Cold approaching does work as long as a woman is giving you the signs that she's interested. About a month and a half ago I went into a casino with a homeboy and me and him were walking One direction in a group of girls were walking towards us. One of the girls locked eyes with me and then smiled as she got close and passed. I told my homeboy "hey I'll catch up with you, I think she was digging me". So I turned around and approached her and what do you know I got her number. Yes approaching rand…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:03 AM
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Having some tattoos doesn't really mean all that much to me. Nor does a woman who socially drinks. Women who nearly exclusively have male friends and don't have female friends is a red flag. I've dated a few girls who only have male friends and two of them ended up cheating on me with said male friends. I've also known other women who cheated on friends of mine with one of their harem of male friends. And typically the reason they don't get along with women is because they flirt with their homeg…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:48 PM
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I for the most part and not attracted to legitimately fat girls but every now and then I see one with a really pretty face or some feature or two I really like about them and I feel like that would be enough for me to be able to get it up and enjoy fucking them. I drive for a living and when I go to some stops there's this fat girl who has really curly blonde hair and quite honestly she looks pretty adorable. And she's legit fat, not just chubby. Now I admit I wouldn't want to date her and bring…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:33 PM
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Are they skipping an actual date and just going straight to the man's place to fuck him? I'd say about 80 percent of the girls I slept with on Tinder either had came directly to my place or had me come directly to them the first time meeting completely bypassing the date. And thats always a relief that I can save 100 bucks or so and still get my dick wet. Especially with girls I know I won't actually wanna make my girlfriend. Ive actually insisted on going on an actual date instead of directly n…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:12 PM
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I think pound for pound being extroverted has more benefits than being introverted. As they say a closed mouth doesn't get fed. Some of my more extroverted friends seem to have a better social life and stumble into better job opportunities because they put themselves out there. I've tried to be better about coming out of my shell and sometimes it pays off. I'm not scared of women at all and I'm very comfortable approaching a girl I'm interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:39 PM
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I'm very introverted and feel drained being in crowds of people especially if I don't know them but I do get a kick out of talking to an attractive woman. You can be an introvert and still enjoy one-on-one conversations and should be able to develop enough social skills to tell when that woman or person is receptive to what you have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:38 PM
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I agree wholeheartedly with this. I agree with much of the rhetoric in the manosphere but this is beyond stupid to me. I don't see where approaching a woman with some respect and dignity suddenly goes from 0 to 100 of ending up in prison. I was in prison for 7 years and I never met a man in the joint or jail because he said some nasty words to a woman or She misinterpreted getting hit on. And so much of the awkwardness could be avoided with just reading some social cues. I've approached women wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:36 PM
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I never heard that actual argument. What I do usually hear is a man can be more attractive to a woman as a potential suitor. I agree a 23-year-old ugly man isn't going to suddenly be facially handsome at 40. But there's a lot of room for improvement for an unkempt gamer who eventually grew up and learn how to dress and groom and take care of themselves. They could at least bump themselves up from a 3 to a 5 which I think a lot of women would be okay with as long as he also had a shit together an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 11:56 PM
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As far as online dating goes I don't see why a woman would suffer reputational damage. You can mostly fuck guys without anyone else ever knowing about it unless you live at home or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:59 PM
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It appears to be that way. I do pretty damn well with women because I am handsome and I've been working out 7 years or so And while my job is not prestigious it is high paying. I'm 5'7 and just in the 7 months I've been single and dating I've had probably 8 to 10 girls Tell me I'm hot but I'm too short for them. Most of these girls are usually 5 to 8 in shorter than me. I've had 4'11 girls tell me they only date dudes 6ft or higher. And I've kept up with a few of these girls and of course most o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:45 PM
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Yeah this shit is way overblown. People who are terminally online seem to think girls are just accusing guys of sexual harassment left and right. I keep seeing that reprise every time. It's not true. You have any sort of social grace you can tell when a girl is not receptive to your come ons. I do pretty well with women but I've had times where I've completely misread a woman's interest and then I know to fall back and put myself in a friend zone. There's plenty of other women out here I don't w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:13 PM
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How old are you. I promise you brother or sister it was very socially unacceptable to use online dating in the early 2000s. Yes people did use it but it was relatively rare and you would get made fun of by your friends for using it. It was implied you must be a real loser to have to go online to find a girlfriend or boyfriend. You must be scared to talk to women or men in real life. I been doing this shit since buddypic.com I was a man and I had people saying whoever I'm talking to is probably a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:39 PM
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Yes internet dating was around back then. And I was one of the people using it but it was very socially unacceptable to use it. Every one of my friends was convinced whoever I was talking to is someone who was going to enslave me in their basement and I'm a man. Even in the late 2000s friends would make fun of me for using plenty of fish and OkCupid the actual website not apps. I think they're way more popular and ubiquitous now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:36 PM
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And the vast majority of women think they can secure that hot guy. They don't understand that that hot guy who won't take her on a date but will slide through at midnight and wouldn't dare take her out in public is just going to waste their time. Sure an average girl gets the fuck a guy out of her league in the short term but she's deluding herself thinking he's going to stick around and take her average ass out on the town and to meet his friends and family. I'm not proud of it but I fucked a h…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:31 PM
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Thank you so much. And I can relate with you. I've been sober since 2013 when I caught my case. I'm glad you got a hold of your sobriety before it turned into something much more serious. I like to hear success stories and I hope you continue to make gains in your life and stick to the positivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:09 PM
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Thank you kindly. And yeah things are going great. I'm in my late 30s now and feel like I'm just reaching my peak as a man. I spent 7 years in prison and been home over three and have a really good career and resources now. I've been single about 6 months and not trying to humble brag or whatever but I've been killing it and it feels good after spending 7 years lonely as fuck in prison and then 3 years with a crazy girl that made my life hell. Now I'm just earnestly trying to find a good wholeso…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:21 PM
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I looked the same just poor and scrubby. And couldn't afford frequent enough haircuts. My mom forced me to grow my hair out because her Hay Day was in the '80s and she thought girls love long hair. Nope girls just made fun of me and called me a girl lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:50 PM
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Here's a couple pics so y'all can decide if I'm blowing smoke or not lol: https://imgur.com/hAPIReM https://imgur.com/a/ZHP3rRT https://i.imgur.com/8woB6lT.jpeg I agree with much of this. I'm not trying to ride my own dick but I have developed into a handsome man but grew up poor so I didn't get much attention from girls because I couldn't really dress nicely. I was what they would call in the '90s and early 2000s a "scrub". My parents couldn't afford to get me American eagle and Abercrombie and…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:47 PM
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I agree with you on that part. If my wife was the breadwinner and worked more I would gladly pick up the slack. I think a big reason a high earning woman is more likely to divorce is simply because she isn't so dependent on her husband's income and has the autonomy to make such a decision. Obviously that's good for women to have that freedom. I'm old enough to remember the days where many women stayed with verbally and even physically abusive men to not end up in the streets or shelters. My mom …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 12:34 AM
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The higher a woman's income the more likely she is to divorce. If you're say a plumber and you marry a hot cashier at a grocery store you know she's working with other people at a grocery store most of her day. It's very unlikely she's going to monkey branch to somebody at work who also makes 30 grand. If your girl is a secretary at a high-powered law firm that's a different story. She's around people who drive nothing but beamers and Mercedes and you're much more likely to lose her to somebody …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:24 PM
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