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Yeah, I think OP is confused a bit. He says, "approach 100 girls" which, when I read that, I think of doing cold approach sets in public. Not online. You challenged him rightly on his 2nd point about not being a glamor girl's type. Which you gave your testimony rendering his claim unfounded. I do think he has a true underlying question that people aren't sussing out because it's easier to dunk on unfounded claims (and such claims ought to be dunked on). And I think it has to do with 100 girl app…
/r/seduction20/07/24 03:43 PM
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Are you talking about cold approaching 100 random girls in-person? Or are you including online encounters, warm contact events, at work? What were you meaning when you said, "people say approach 100 girls"?
/r/seduction20/07/24 03:28 PM
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How did you meet her? Did you do a cold approach?
/r/seduction20/07/24 05:13 AM
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What is the context that your envisioning when you are approaching this 'unattainable' girl?
/r/seduction20/07/24 05:13 AM
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Yes. I think this about whenever I my bitch-genes kick in and starts calling me a loser. I just go, "I know."
/r/seduction05/01/22 12:35 AM
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I'm curious, have you ever done cold-approaches or had success with cold-approaches?
/r/seduction05/01/22 12:28 AM
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I don't think you offered any alternatives in this message other than to read Models. Which could be how you planned it; I haven't read Models and when I saw that you read it, I was hoping to get some more insight about the book as I continued reading the rest of your critique. However, after having read your response I wasn't able to pick out anything you suggested that it came from a principle, either a principle developed by you or read in a book. Maybe your answer was only tailored to his si…
/r/seduction05/01/22 12:27 AM
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Why not LEFT up the ass?
/r/seduction16/11/21 03:14 AM
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Lol, yes! I love blowing up my fears. It helps to cut them off and look at what exactly I'm afraid of.
/r/seduction16/11/21 03:13 AM
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It will only work if you can do what they're doing without judging it, the way you're judging them for doing it. You may not notice it and don't be too alarmed at my suggesting it but you're being a hater. Which means you think you are separate or above those guys in some way. This can impede your learning as you won't see the success as it is happening in front of you. You will judge success and then erroneously separate it from yourself. This is where self-defeating attitudes can grow. You're …
/r/seduction13/11/21 02:48 PM
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Sex like that requires no toys.
/r/seduction13/11/21 02:22 PM
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Try a little harder. You responded to TheQlymaX with some more specifics but for some reason not with me. Your original response was, "what's the point, hire an escort." Then you said, "bars and church are okay." And then I ask you to get into it a little more and you say, "Cold Approaching?" You can do it, dig a little deeper.
/r/seduction13/11/21 02:20 PM
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Ok, you right, I sorry baby *kiss* *kiss*
/r/seduction13/11/21 06:40 AM
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Not even. I approached yesterday and today. I made two girls days and three others who were genuinely flattered.
/r/seduction13/11/21 06:33 AM
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Yeah you're fine. You showed up. Keep doing that.
/r/seduction13/11/21 06:22 AM
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You have to do it 100x.
/r/seduction13/11/21 06:18 AM
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I have had sex that would be worth that. I do consider myself a lucky man.
/r/seduction13/11/21 06:17 AM
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Who says there is no going back?
/r/seduction13/11/21 06:17 AM
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This is all part of the game. All is fair in love and war. You have to be able to hold all of those complexities without losing your shit. It's called having posture. You laid out the scenarios pretty well. I'm not sure what your overall disposition is but I can tell you see the mess and that is half way there. Now you have to be willing to dance through it.
/r/seduction13/11/21 06:16 AM
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You had way more legitimate responses to your actual situation, and you limited your attention to this and the other one about giving free meals? C'mon man, you're giving into the algorithms.
/r/seduction13/11/21 06:09 AM
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What's popular on Reddit is popular to center-left young men who don't have boomer responsibilities or experience. No offense redditors 😉
/r/seduction13/11/21 05:59 AM
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Is it because you don't have a car or are near areas where girls are?
/r/seduction13/11/21 05:55 AM
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Who hates being approached?
/r/seduction13/11/21 05:54 AM
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Is it because you will create an everlasting awkward aura in the gym whenever you and her are both there at the same time after she rejects you?
/r/seduction13/11/21 05:54 AM
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Which men?
/r/seduction13/11/21 05:52 AM
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What specifically are you responding to in OP's post?
/r/seduction13/11/21 05:51 AM
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You say hi, make them do the rest. If they don't oh well.
/r/seduction13/11/21 05:49 AM
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Be okay with being a loser. Like evaluate yourself and if it comes up as a loser, say, "that's okay!" I love telling my friends or peers when I have loser reflections, observations, actions. They look at it as me being hard on myself but they dismiss that I'm laughing about it. I love my loser self. And I'm not always a loser but I love noticing when I am. For bonus self-love points, really consider that this life you were given is a wash, you're too far in the hole and you don't have the natura…
/r/seduction13/11/21 05:48 AM
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Your post was worded as if you were talking about people-at-large, not OP. But now I see you were referring to OP's conditioning.
/r/seduction13/11/21 05:37 AM
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How many approaches are you doing? And are you asking for their numbers at the end of them? Essentially you want to get good with rejection, not conversation. Think of rejection like death, when you're at peace with it, nothing else matters. Asking for their numbers perfectly puts you in a position to be rejected. A warm conversation doesn't have much room for rejection. Not saying you shouldn't have warm conversations but if you can't handle rejection well, the warm conversation sours quickly a…
/r/seduction13/11/21 05:34 AM
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That is good for you. I mean that. For me I can't shake the idea that I'm procrastinating. It has to be right to the point. In the past though, when I couldn't bring myself to approach at times, I would just do a lot of free association.
/r/seduction13/11/21 05:30 AM
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Don't do it. Just ask for their number. When you find that you can't even utter those words, is where you begin.
/r/seduction13/11/21 05:27 AM
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Touche
/r/seduction13/11/21 05:26 AM
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Love this. There is nothing wrong with being up front about how someone is attractive, asking for numbers, with the idea that sex may happen in the future. In fact being up front about that as early and as often is another way to learn and communicate with people. You get a slew of reactions when you're upfront in that way. All reactions are good for you to experience. But I understand when you're out there and you just want to jump ship and you haven't actually approached any body in a meaningf…
/r/seduction13/11/21 05:25 AM
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Yes sir. Perfect reason to be up front with people.
/r/seduction13/11/21 05:18 AM
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I've been in a similar situation and didn't have sex. Lol. Edit: and she slept over.
/r/seduction13/11/21 05:12 AM
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It really is. Inspiring even. And everyone wins at the end of the day. The girl who thought you were fun and went for it with you, you getting laid and learning life lessons, the girls who reject you because they needn't spend time with you, and all of us who get to read and emote at your story. There is so much value in this. I love it. Thank you for sharing.
/r/seduction06/11/21 03:52 AM
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i This is a fear I've had. It's a non-issue at the end of the day. You can approach the girl multiple times and theoretically, can be considered an entirely fresh approach. E.g. "I was just not in the mood yesterday."
/r/seduction06/11/21 03:46 AM
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You are forgiven and I love you. Thank you.
/r/seduction25/09/21 09:17 PM
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I honestly don't know if you're being a troll. You were hyping on ghosting this while thread.
/r/seduction20/09/21 11:26 PM
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They're being too humanitarian with their responses and getting you to think about the feelings of someone else. Like what? Stop trying to get me to assume other people's thoughts and motives so that I manipulate my own emotions. Don't think of it as not ghosting her/ghosting her. Give her an assignment. "Hey text me back when you're interested in me giving you all of my love and attention, physically. Until you're ready for that, only send timestamped nudes." If you ghost her, where are we left…
/r/seduction20/09/21 03:52 PM
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I agree with you. You were using 'obvious' to describe the MANNER in which she rejected you. They read 'obvious' as you describing WHY she rejected you. I am laughing trying to make the latter interpretation work. They're just projecting ;-) I thought your OG post was correctly worded
/r/seduction17/08/21 10:49 PM
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So tru. This is def, "if I can move past my fears, so can you" post. Not, "getting a girl is ez, see?" post.
/r/seduction18/07/21 05:56 PM
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Felt.
/r/seduction16/07/21 01:04 AM
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Read back to me where I made an indication as to what I thought about his game. In fact, I was asking someone else's opinion of his game. With all credit due you gave me more than the other comment. But I also will say that what you took away from this isn't necessarily a highlight shared by most people and rightfully so, he took the girl home. How is that not factored in? I think you are missing the main points of this reddit post. But thanks for your input. Truly. By your comment, I also don't…
/r/seduction16/07/21 01:01 AM
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Still not a reason. Edit: Rather, I was asking you, who made the statement, for your genuine thought, of why you made said statement. Not questioning you for making the statement. Albeit, I thought it could use some explanation.
/r/seduction16/07/21 12:36 AM
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It's frustrating. It's the Tao.
/r/seduction15/07/21 01:21 AM
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and you gotta be able to tell when a girl really doesn’t want you there anymore. Lol, this.
/r/seduction15/07/21 01:20 AM
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What about it was horrible?
/r/seduction15/07/21 01:17 AM
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I agree with most of this post but I hardly think that this was a tale of self analysis. This sounds like a tale of intuition and surfing. But I agree with your point. Don't be a doormat for the no, stick around and see if there's more juice to squeeze out of a rejection.
/r/seduction15/07/21 01:14 AM
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Dude. Good. For. You. Not listening to that voice.
/r/seduction15/07/21 01:10 AM
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Thirst is in the eye of the beholder. He could chat up 15 women all right in front of them and if he embodies and believes he had a good run, he had a good run. What other people think of you does not define you.
/r/seduction12/07/21 02:09 AM
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Send 15 messages and then do the same thing in 6 months to the same or different people. It's not weird. You can even talk to people you don't know all around you. It's all about how you handle the stress of starting an engagement. I.e. not taking it personal when the person you reached out to responds negatively. It helps to say, "you're weird" to people who act confused or angered when you talk to them. Keep doing that you can get creative with your responses and even have fun handling people'…
/r/seduction03/07/21 04:21 AM
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When you do it enough you begin to read the signs. Then it's less 50/50 about a binary outcome and more like 70/30 of having at the very least a great conversation. Keep coming up with low pressure, stress free, and dare-I-say FUN reasons to approach women. Key phrase = 'coming up with', that's only effort you need to work on. Your gut will get excited and the opportunities will present themselves.
/r/seduction06/05/21 03:28 AM
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Hey, from your message it seemed that you wanted to know the answer to your question. However, how it was worded it doesn't seem like that you want to know the answer to the question. If you have a question that you want answered, try to remove statements that are "obvious" or were already shared, because stating the obvious signals to people that you are putting emphasis on a subject for a judging or shaming effect. And if you want honest information from people, you're going to not want to mak…
/r/seduction02/03/20 05:54 PM
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Always be advancing yourself in as many ways as possible for when you get in states of ambiguity like this that you are not immobilized by times like these. You should be pairing this experiencing with all other experiences that you are going through in your self-development. How am I doing with girls? Should have the same answer as everything else you are holding value at the time. How am I doing in school? How am I doing with my family? How am I doing in my craft? My career? Etc.
/r/seduction06/10/19 06:57 AM
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"Yeah well that's just like, your opinion man." this is a quote from the Big Lebowski that I am blessed to have a friend who often quotes it. Essentially what I get from the quote is no matter how popular, credible, and famous a person is, whatever advice they give is only like, 'their opinion man.' Instead, life makes more sense when you look at it in terms of Joseph Campbell's 'the Hero's Journey,' where, although there are trends and patterns to human behavior, there's only one (1) you and wi…
/r/seduction05/07/19 01:28 PM
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Personally, I love when girls tell me exactly what you they told you because it just means you’re bordering the line between something happening and nothing happening, which is a lot better than nothing happening. This also means that you’re state is in the ballpark of things possibly happening. Congratz to you if that is a change you wanted happen. Since there are a thousand things you could do differently to experiment and test things out to see if you yield different results, you could focus …
/r/seduction07/06/19 01:56 AM
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Hey Meme Poacher, it means A. you have to start carving out a space in your mind in which will B. hoist you just high enough to see your potential. Even for a glimpse. Then you will C. sink back down, as ALL do. A. What this means is to do less or stop what you know leaves you in a hole the next day. Most likely, that even isn’t the level at which you see it. It will feel more like the thing you, “told yourself you wouldn’t do a week ago.” But at this point you forgot. Go back to basics. No matt…
/r/askTRP21/02/19 04:57 AM
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Dude, yes. And a thousand times yes. Thank you for this. I needed this as well.
/r/seduction09/02/19 07:56 AM
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