YakAttack4260 Archive

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1	Help me out fellas Thanks for the additional context here and the rest of the thread. He definitely sounds depressed. I am assuming the weight loss is from the depression and not because he is trying to get in shape. I would recommend some therapy, which is what others have suggested, if he can't pull himself out of it. You could both go to the gym together or some other sport, not b/c he needs to be fit, or you need him to be fit, but b/c he will feel so much better about himself. He will have more energy and fee…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/01/26 03:52 PM
2	Help me out fellas You ask a really broad, general question, so I imagine you will get broad, general answers. I think the first thing is to probably get to the root cause of his depression, before getting into what men want. Men want a lot of things, and they are not a monolith. I assume since you have not communicated the exact known reason for his pain and his depression, we are guessing it is related to work, family, the accident, or the emotional affair. If this is really the cause, then some of these are pro…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/01/26 03:01 PM
4	Found out my wife hasn't felt the same for a year, devastated - Update Kids will not solve this. Kids do not equal happiness. For that matter, marriage does equal happiness. If the other issues in a marriage are not addressed, kids only magnify the problems. If you have poor communication, it will be 10x worse with kids. If you do not have similar values, then it will be way worse with kids. And from what you have said, it appears that you both have very poor communication with each other. If you can be amicable, why not both live in the house until you figure out …	/r/Divorce_Men	05/09/25 06:28 PM
5	Found out my wife hasn't felt the same for a year, devastated Sounds like she is having an affair.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/09/25 09:18 PM
3	Trying to Reconnect Emotionally After Betrayal I went through exactly that. Was married for 25 years. I'm not sure if your ultimate goal is reconciliation or divorce. Mine was a divorce. The divorce was hellish, but it went fast, as I live in a no-fault state and kept it amicable. Divided all the assets, split custody, and moved on. Focus on yourself before entering the dating scene. You will need to put the work in. You owe it to yourself and to a future partner. If you are drinking and taking drugs, stop. You don't need something to pull y…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/09/25 08:56 PM
1	Anyone else struggle with the ex’s SO? My ex's SO led to the divorce. This was 4 years ago. I have moved on. When she is happy in her relationship, she is off my back, but when she is not, it spills over to the kids and her attitude toward me. I have since moved on and am finally in a healthy relationship.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/09/25 08:35 PM
5	How do you fill your time? Gym, hobbies, cooking, classes, hiking, and traveling.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/09/25 05:52 PM
5	Who regrets their divorce? My only regret was getting married in the first place.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/09/25 03:25 PM