YallNeedMises Archive

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6	My [40m] 5 year marriage to my wife [40F] just blew up and my wife ended up in jail and I don't know what to do. She can't undrop this nuke. Any reconciliation at this point will just be circling the drain, and next time may well be even worse, potentially even escalating to murder if she's already enlisting her family to intimidate you. If she's still in jail, keep her there and stand firm on the charges against her. Be prepared for false allegations of abuse to get you removed from your home on an ex parte protective order, which will require zero evidence on her part, and use this time while she's locke…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/06/26 02:19 PM
2	Can teen girls also do "Nun Mode"? Sleep, diet, & exercise are the fundamentals. You'll be constantly trying to pull yourself out of a hole if these aren't squared away. Getting time outdoors, preferably in nature, and ample sunshine will have additional benefits. Being diligent about policing your media consumption (both social media and movies, TV, YouTube, etc.) may be the most significant measure for improving mental health for girls these days. Less in general is better, but the content itself matters too. Practice discernme…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/06/25 06:24 PM
3	Can teen girls also do "Nun Mode"? 'Nun mode' used to be the standard for young women, as it was historically understood that a woman's value is primarily something she's born with and must be preserved, and that the period in her life before marriage & motherhood is to be used to cultivate her femininity if she's wise. Girls are 'born rich' with the opportunities & attention that youthful beauty affords them, but sex & sexuality are the price to play that game, and to indulge that temptation is to spend your innate wealth frivol…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/06/25 06:22 PM
23	If men think women are expired by the age of 30, why do men even bother to get married in the first place? I don't agree that it's in opposition to RP ideas. But note that there's a schism in the RP men's community, where some fraction sees cultivating one's masculine qualities simply as leverage for having as much sex as possible & no attachments, while the others want fulfilling, healthy marriages to quality women and to be fathers. I don't agree with the idea that we are a doomed civilization and that we should just enjoy the decline, and I see family & traditional values as having been what made …	/r/RedPillWomen	03/05/25 05:32 AM
67	If men think women are expired by the age of 30, why do men even bother to get married in the first place? If all a woman brings to the table is her being a pretty toy, then of course she's going to be passed over when her fertility indicators (which we perceive as her attractiveness) begin to fade. And often men grow bored with such women on a much shorter timescale than that, even when these women are perplexingly still well in their prime. On the other hand, I'm sure you've known at least a few successful, high-value older men who aren't simps but who are thoroughly enamored with their wives, and …	/r/RedPillWomen	03/05/25 05:12 AM
8	My boyfriend comes from a wealthy family and now I don’t know what to get him for Christmas Man here. In my opinion, no man will ever be disappointed to receive a quality knife as a gift. It has to be one of the easiest & safest gifts for a guy, and he doesn't even have to be a collector to appreciate it. You can browse for some ideas at r/KnifeClub & r/BudgetBlades, and there are many Christmas sales posted right now on r/KnifeDeals. Kizer & Civivi are two brands I'd recommend that offer a lot of value for the price and present well as gifts. Many models under $100. If you get somethi…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/12/23 04:29 AM
1	My Ex Had Me Kidnapped My dude, with all due respect & empathy, I'd recommend learning to shut the fuck up. That opening paragraph is a great way to find yourself in a home invasion a moment later. There's no need for you to ever open the door for a cop unless it's about to get kicked in, and any conversation proceeding from that point goes as follows: "Am I under arrest?" If no: "Thank you, then have a nice day, officers." If yes: "Talk to my attorney." You have the right to remain silent well before they read it to …	/r/Divorce_Men	17/12/23 11:35 AM
6	Books like the surrendered wife but for men? Man of Steel & Velvet by Aubrey Andelin, Helen Andelin's husband.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/07/23 08:33 PM
21	Advice please. Girlfriend says she will never change her last name... What's wrong with patriarchy? What's wrong with wanting to own your woman and wanting her to be proud of it? This is her telling you that you are a placeholder and that she will never belong to you. It's your call, dude, but I think you should expect better. You already know this though, which is why you feel discomfort around it. Listen to your balls.	/r/MarriedRedPill	01/12/22 09:09 PM
8	Why Are So Many Christian Women Physically Unattractive? By their fruits ye shall know them. This might say something about your church and/or the state of Christianity more broadly. Ever met any Mormon girls? Typically very cute & feminine. Traditional Catholic gals too, to a lesser extent, in my experience. Even the Mormon & Catholic churches are headed down this path though, albeit with more resistance, in my opinion because they've maintained patriarchal organizational structures, at least officially if not practically. Any organization that isn't…	/r/RPChristians	24/10/22 12:46 AM
15	Looking For Communities That Encourage Big Families r/ParentingInBulk	/r/RedPillWomen	17/09/22 05:43 PM
1	Is it the "right" thing to do to ask a Father's permission to date his daughter? How about for marriage? Well said. You covered more succinctly much of what I was getting at. I'd be interested to know your thoughts on the response I was writing out when you sent yours.	/r/RPChristians	11/05/22 06:26 PM
21	Is it the "right" thing to do to ask a Father's permission to date his daughter? How about for marriage? We've lost or thrown away so much hard-won wisdom on these matters. In RP terms, all women are alpha-widowed by default by their fathers, even by 'beta' fathers, even by fathers who were never in their lives at all, for the simple fact that no other man is more immediately & personally relevant to a woman as her model of masculinity. In terms of evolutionary psychology, she is the living proof of the success of his sexual strategy, so he defines the shape of the hole in her life against which al…	/r/RPChristians	11/05/22 06:14 PM
3	Revisiting Fascinating Womanhood: Introduction To anyone reading, would you recommend the updated edition or the vintage edition, and why?	/r/RedPillWomen	09/04/21 07:46 PM
20	Beyond willpower: a simple philosophy to stop struggling with your own mind, to stop living blurry days in a blurry life. Lo, what a world, What a world so good In which Somebody would What Somebody should.	/r/TheRedPill	23/01/21 05:09 AM
15	Any advice for women who have never dated before? Ideally your first should be your last. The sexual revolution and its consequences have been a disaster for the human race.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/01/21 03:32 AM
3	My friend wants a piece of my plate Abased & bonobo-pilled. This is nasty. "She's not yours, it's just your turn (p.s.: no mateguarding)" is beta propaganda, and ^^^this^^^ is why. Let Grima Wormtongue have the slut and make sure he knows it cost him your friendship.	/r/askTRP	15/12/20 11:07 AM
6	Family vs. Freedom at 35+ years old (A question for older repillers) Do it, brother. Take the Dadpill, take your place in the Patriarchy, and when you do you will realize just how petty and meaningless everything in your life was prior. By no means will it be easy, but when has that stopped you from reaching where you are now? No one will challenge your frame, your fortitude more than your children, but this is your purpose as a strong & capable man, to be the rock in the lives of your children, to raise hard, honorable sons and soft, virtuous daughters, and noth…	/r/askTRP	15/12/20 10:28 AM
5	Best gift under $100 for Old School Boss? I don't think you can ever go wrong by giving a man a quality knife, and you can do pretty well for $100.	/r/askTRP	12/12/20 05:55 PM
23	Why do women try to change you, if they just end up hating you once you’ve changed? Women try to change you because they want (need) to know if you're vulnerable to being changed, and they resent you when you do for the same reason. That is, women need (evolutionarily speaking) to determine your fitness as a protector & provider by performing destructive testing, and your failing the test reveals to them that they have been saddled with a weak man for a mate, hence the hatred. To them, if you can't stand your ground against a woman, how can you be trusted to stand up against th…	/r/askTRP	11/12/20 08:56 PM
6	Girl has been playing me for a few months and I feel so shitty right now. It's pretty normal here, but I don't think it's exactly healthy either. I reject the 'AWALT' blackpill personally, but to me trust is earned on an ongoing basis just as you demonstrate your own trustworthiness on an ongoing basis, and over time you develop mutual rapport to draw from when conflicts arise. More so than being untrusting of women, a man should be... wary. Wary & watchful in a kind of amusedly detached way. It's a subtle distinction. In your case, you failed the first test and conse…	/r/askTRP	06/12/20 09:23 AM
23	Girl has been playing me for a few months and I feel so shitty right now. Am I really such a loser? Only if you talk about yourself like that, so cut that out posthaste. You didn't do anything wrong other than failing to protect yourself against bad actors like her, and often the only way to develop that awareness is to experience betrayal first, unfortunately. As you said, she played you. You were honest & trusting, and she saw that as an opportunity. Consider it a learning experience and realize that her revealing herself to be this type of woman was doing you an ac…	/r/askTRP	06/12/20 07:27 AM
-2	Just standard female behavior. It's not that she couldn't help it. Lauren Southern was never a hypocrite because Lauren Southern is a Duginist --a cryptocommunist, globalist, & proponent of white genocide posing as a nationalist, as many (if not most) of the prominent figures in the Alt-Right are. Thuletide[dot]wordpress[dot]com and Jared Howe at jaredhowe[dot]net cover this extensively. If you lean that way, I strongly encourage you to investigate it.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	22/11/20 06:50 PM
5	This guy left because he found his unicorn 🦄. Good luck, buddy :) I can understand being addicted to the Bluepill, but bro... you don't have to take it as a suppository.	/r/MGTOW	11/11/20 01:45 AM
11	Don't do No Nut November Okay, coomer.	/r/MensRights	03/11/20 02:36 AM
40	So 650 moms willingly paraded their daughter there in hopes of making it? AWALT gents. What a cohencidence.	/r/MGTOW	13/09/20 04:54 AM
4	Yes, you can have female friends. In fact, you should. All true, but I wouldn't call that friendship, and what is the value of a woman's everything anyway? Not to suggest that it has no value, but she is simply incapable of reciprocating what you have to offer a man in friendship.	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/20 09:35 PM
4	Yes, you can have female friends. In fact, you should. Don't discount the value of the time & energy you put into the relationship, and keep in mind that your male presence is a resource in itself to a woman which traditionally she would have had to 'pay' for. You can decide to control it or not, but your biological imperatives (both hers & yours) are constantly working against friendship, to the point where I would say it's foolish to try. You can have female companions of course, but attempting to maintain the appearance of friendship in her eyes …	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/20 09:31 PM
3	Yes, you can have female friends. In fact, you should. You're right, I should clarify: it's not about the sex(es) of those involved so much as the incentives at play, and we can still categorize behaviors & attributes as masculine vs feminine regardless of whether it's a man or a woman displaying them. Whether he's pitching or catching, if you get the sense that another man is gaming for you, you're going to rightfully be on guard just as you would around a sexually aggressive woman. On straight men exhibiting these behaviors, this is of course quit…	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/20 09:08 PM
136	Yes, you can have female friends. In fact, you should. Gross post. Here's the deal: sex for resources is the biological law, and everyone wants to get without having to give. Your unconscious male lizard brain is constantly scanning your environment and calculating for sexual opportunity; it has a set of conditions for every woman you meet under which it will greenlight fucking her, and its 'SMV cutoff' is way lower than yours. A woman's unconscious female lizard brain is always running the same program, it just scans for resource availability inste…	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/20 04:55 PM
10	Men Are Exiting You're on to something important here, something that most MGTOWs miss. Yes, it's women's nature to seek resources from men by any means necessary, but we (men) realized this a long time ago and designed systems (e.g., patriarchy) to manage this nature, and we had it pretty well handled until quite recently, historically speaking. Women didn't fundamentally become any more unruly over the last century, we as men just slacked off in maintaining their training.	/r/MGTOW	13/03/20 12:52 PM
2	What Women Want Over The Years And what they actually want is often at odds with what's actually good for them.	/r/MGTOW	11/03/20 01:03 AM
6	Mass banning of sub Reddit just happened That what a coomer is, but r/coomer was about making fun of that sort of person, porn addicts, whores, trannies, pedos, etc.	/r/MGTOW	05/03/20 10:46 PM
5	Women are not property. Women are property, it's just that the sexual revolution made them into communal property, and as such they are now subject to the economic calculation problem of all socialized systems --they have no value because there no longer exists any means of price discovery. They rail quixotically against the mouldering corpse of patriarchy while simultaneously coasting on its inertia (e.g., simps, 'women are wonderful' mentality), but once upon a time women were wonderful, and it was private ownership …	/r/MGTOW	18/02/20 07:45 PM
9	Feminism has women unaware of obvious differences between the sexes. Understand that this is part of the female reproductive strategy though, a collective 'shit-test' --the equivalent of the doe instigating conflict between two bucks to be bred by the victor-- on a societal scale. If their men won't govern them properly, they will seek men who will.	/r/MGTOW	08/02/20 05:26 PM