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| 2 | My LTR keeps getting upset with me because I don't give her as much time as she would like and she thinks I'm keeping her at "arms length" and not letting past my walls. How do I get past this?From the start of our relationship I made it pretty clear that I am a person that likes my own time and that I don’t do weeks of being together at a time. I have always gone to the gym whenever I wanted to and always made my own commitments. That’s why I feel it’s strange I’m getting this response from her now. She said she always understood but seems that she’s taking my shedual as me saying “I don’t like you enough to sacrifice” | /r/askTRP | 20/12/20 01:23 AM |
| 2 | How do I accept my height?I’m 5’6 and to be honest apart from the occasional short joke which you learn to brush off (frame) I rarely think about my height as a limiting belief. It’s just different and if you’re friends and girls you’re talking to constantly bring it up and belittle you about it then you shouldn’t even be hanging with those people at all. Get some less shallow company. The second thing that helped me get rid of the limiting beliefs was becoming attractive enough where it didn’t fucking matter to the larg… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 03:18 AM |
| 7 | Is it always a pussy/beta move to not go for the kiss on the first date?Why do you say not to do it and the end? | /r/askTRP | 06/05/20 08:04 AM |
| 4 | Why do I only game well with girls who have boyfriends?Yeh good point. Im thinking im all smooth while in reality im just wasting my time by not talking to girls i actually have a chance of getting with. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/19 04:29 AM |
| 13 | Why do I only game well with girls who have boyfriends?Nah man to be honest that makes sense haha. I knew writing this that there was likely a pretty obvious answer other than "maybe they just want me durr" lol. need to bring myself back down to earth. cheers. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/19 04:25 AM |
| 2 | FINALLY AN LTR WORTHY GIRL!!! But How Do I Maintain Frame and Keep One-itis at Bay?Don't mean to sound like a ass here and I'm sure your smv is through the roof and stuff but ask yourself what "LTR worthy" girl goes out with an almost 40 year old dude. Like I'm sure you're attractive and successful but In my mind this is a red flag in its self. Just a thought being 22 myself. Any girl I know that goes out with significantly older guys has a bit of a complex. But then again what do I know. Enjoy your conservative Christian virgin. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Got a girls number; no reply.Hey bro, don’t rip into yourself over this. Exact same thing has happened to me plenty of times as well as many other guys on this sub. You ask out an attractive girl and she actually says yes and you’re feeling on top of the world. You start thinking about how you can’t wait to fuck her and then date her and then maybe she’s a magical unicorn( pedestal/oneitis) You then text her a few days later and then...ghost. It happens man some chicks just love the thrill of the hunt and then bail when dud… | /r/askTRP | 14/09/19 11:32 AM |
| 2 | Ltr wants comfortImagine breaking up with someone just because they don't text you sometimes. That's enough for her. To end it all. Doesn't add up if you ask me. You sound like you have intense oneitis. Not to say that this girl is bad in anyway but it sounds like your loosing your only option and you're panicking tremendously. So much so that you're willing to grovel and beg for her back and that you'll promise to be a nice beta and text her all the time. I would be asking myself why does she want to break up w… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/19 02:35 PM |
| 1 | What is the 'no bullshit' process for clear skin on the face? Need help!Did you notice any side effects while taking accutane? | /r/askTRP | 15/08/19 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Drunk/tipsy/little high I can fuck like a porn star but sober I find it hard to last. How do I overcome this?Thanks for this reply man there is a lot of helpful stuff in here that is making a lot of sense. All the stuff you said about anxiety and using weed/alcohol as a coping mechanism makes complete sense. it's a process that I'm still working on but as you said with experience and time ill get there. Thanks again. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Do you ever feel like your just trying to fuck a girl because you can and not because you want too?It's not the fact the I didn't have some sort of out of this world deep and meaningful conversation with this girl it's just that I found her so boring and average aswell as the fact that I don't struggle to get sex that to me it seems like my desire to get her over just to try and get in her pants is less than me wanting to hang out with my brother, chill and get a good night's sleep. Not to mention why risk std, pregnancy or fake rape accusations over a chick I don't find that interesting. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/19 11:27 AM |
| 2 | why does everyone here try to talk like a drill Sgt?Absolutely agree. People come to better them selves and some guys who are most likely losers in real life make them selves feel better by aggressively belittleing people on an advice subreddit without offering any insight. Needed to be addressed. Good job. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/19 06:38 AM |
| 3 | How to avoid possible attraction killers?Do you have any specific resources for where you learnt better "online game"? Im the opposite atm. physical dates go well for me but i struggle to set up offline dates before they loose interest/get a probably newer or better match. as for my two cents on your scenario it sounds like you are getting all the small talk done on the app so when you continue to do it in person you come off as boring. maybe working more on your teasing game as well as trying to masker her laugh a bit more during the … | /r/askTRP | 07/06/19 12:06 AM |
| 1 | How should I respondIt's not a shit test. Translation: I don't find you attractive enough to let you fuck me but if your beta enough I'll let you me my "friend" aka orbiter and do things for me while I continue do nothing for you. If you agree to be her friend you're the beta she thinks you are. You tell her "I'm not interested in being friends. All the best" and then you don't ever contact her again. Soft next. If she texts you first (after strict no contact) you ask her to come over and cook dinner and then intur… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/19 05:06 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else never felt love?I'm the same age and I know how you feel man. I think it's part of becoming red pilled. Once you see the matrix and the flaws that come with it, it's hard to think you'll ever find love beyond some magic HB10 but as we all know unicorns don't exist and most importantly that 'women are incapable of loving a man in the way he expects or thinks he should be loved'. Once you know that and more importantly have experienced that I think it's hard to believe that real love is out there and easily avail… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 04:21 AM |
| 2 | Is it just me or do bitches seem to contact you in bunches? I just had 3 girls who have been MIA the last few months just blow up my phoneIt's happens to me aswell. Just be cautious though, a lot of times the medium is the message. Likely whoever they have been fucking with lately has fallen through so now they hit you up. A lot of the time with situations like this the girls are just as likely to ghost and flake like they have done before they blow you up. But If you can catch one then all the more power to you. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Hey askTRP, please tell me what kind of fuckery this is.How did I approach her repeatedly like a "beta class faggot" when she messaged me first, added me know Instagram first, messaged me on Instagram first and said yes the first and only time I asked her to meet up. Apart from me changing the time of the date where is my betaness? Where is my neediness? | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Hey askTRP, please tell me what kind of fuckery this is.Yeh I have the feeling she's just a weird as fuck person. I tried to set the date initially on the same weekend she started messaging me. She said she had stuff on. So I rescheduled to which she agreed. Just weird. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Girl from a bar, need to hold frame?Too much to fast. Asking her to hang everyday shows you got nothing better to be doing. Very needy behaviour. Give it a week no/little contact then set up a date. She's already starting to show signs of flakeyness through excuses because you are to full on. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Why am i so petty? - applying dread or just being a fuckwit?I think that by constantly thinking that AWALT, me sometimes acting in this way keeps her more invested in me that I am in her. If shes chasing me than she isn't chasing someone else. I guess i could possibly be always keeping myself at distance to stop/prevent over attachment or involvement? i guess its a form of possessiveness but i could also see it as a sign over the over investment im trying to avoid? what do you think? | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 12:29 AM |
| 3 | Rowing vs BJJBJJ gives you both physical and mental skills for life. Self defence, confidence, resilience, fitness and competition are just a few. The technical skill cap in Jiu jitsu is almost infinite. You can play a different guard or skill set while with rowing you have one movement that you do over and over again. Jiu jitsu is just so much more mentally stimulating and for longer. You say you don't make friendships but I have to disagree some of my best friends I have, are through the gym. Everyone is u… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Rowing vs BJJBJJ for sure. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 02:08 AM |
| 2 | How to tell if a girl is just a flirt or will be receptive to you making a move? Best course of action?Funnily enough I did those exact things last time she did it haha. When she tried playfighting me I poked /pinched her titties and when she leaned on me I put my hand on her lower back and brushed it against her ass. She seemed to respond well. Didn't physically or verbally recoil or anything. I guess next time we are hanging out together I'll see if she keeps giving IOI and escalate more. Thanks again. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 07:09 AM |
| 2 | How to tell if a girl is just a flirt or will be receptive to you making a move? Best course of action?Yeh for sure i man i totally get and agree with what you're saying. in your opinion, what is the best way to act on the IOI when she gives them? for instance what would be the best move for when she starts leaning against me or trying to play fight? | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Feeling a little emasculated, did i do this right?You did good man. we all have an idea of how we think shit should go down in our head but doing it in real life with a fuck load of Adrenalin pumping through your body is a different story. no one got seriously hurt or died and you have walked away from it learning a thing or two. just one tip as a guy who has been doing jiu jitsu for 7 years or so standing face to face with a clearly crazy person who is looking for a fight is always a bad idea regardless of how good of a fighter you are or how … | /r/askTRP | 22/10/18 01:25 AM |
| 20 | Did I pass this shit test?"who says I'm trying to seal any deal with you?" "Easy there, slow down were just getting food" "Got something on your mind there do you?" All said with a grin and maybe a slight chuckle. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/18 03:21 AM |
| 5 | Is this a shit or comfort test?The root canal line was probably a bit much and most likely offended her more than she found it witty and playfully teasing. I would say it’s a comfort test. Maybe should have replayed with something like “well bring over some drinks to mine tonight and I’ll show you”. Something playful but still deflecting. Just keep going about your life. Might take a week or two but she’ll initiate contact again. Keep it light, meet up, have sex. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/18 01:24 AM |
| 1 | How to next a girl without it getting messy? How to avoid her going nuclear?I feel like this could have more chance to backfire especially if the girl is really into you. Wouldn't this only work in the long term? Like After 2 dates of me being extremely needy she might go away but that dosent help if I want to get rid of her right now. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 03:56 AM |
| 1 | How to next a girl without it getting messy? How to avoid her going nuclear?Thanks for this. Good wording to use. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 03:55 AM |
| 2 | How to next a girl without it getting messy? How to avoid her going nuclear?This makes sence. Thanks for the reply. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 03:54 AM |
| 4 | 3% man by Corey Wayne thoughtsGreat book for beginners in understanding how to not be needy around woman and how to act when you first start dating/seeing women. he goes over the basics of setting up logistics for dates, holding frame and understanding when to push and or pull with a girl. i personally think its great book to get a good solid understanding of the fundamentals when dealing with women along with TRP sidebar. He tells all his viewers to start an audible subscription and get the book for free (what i did). As fo… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Why am I afraid of competition?I am exactly the same man. I have been training BJJ for a while now and I fucking hate how competing makes me feel. I love training and pushing myself at the gym but as soon as I think about competing I get a sick feeling in my stomach and my head starts racing with thoughts like "what if this happens", "what if I loose" and so on. This goes on until eventually I find excuses not to compete. This made me feel so shit about myself that I was such a pussy. So I spoke about this with someone close … | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 04:24 AM |
| 4 | Climaxing too fast?Are you stupid? putting on 2 condoms has been proven to be less effective as it causes friction and is more likely to result in condom failure as well as increased chances that one or both will tear or slide off. also although very low pre-cum still has a chance to get a girl pregnant so if you're worried about that its best you just use a condom from the start. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/18 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Girl asked if I was dating another girl - how should I respond?"well, i always have room for one more" with a James bond grin. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/17 01:02 AM |
| 3 | Lost my Virginity, but what now?Bro, although you say that you are unattached and don't care it is clear that it is not the case otherwise you wouldn't have wrote this long ass post. That's fine though it's to be expected she did take your virginity and that on some level means something to you and that's completely fine. Now she told you explicitly that she was worried that you were going to get clingy and by the sounds of it that's exactly what you have become. You keep asking her out and she keeps giving you bullshit excuse… | /r/askTRP | 22/09/17 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Is there a guide or signs to identify correctly the attraction and comfort level of a girl?Read "how to be a 3% man" by Corey Wayne. You can get his book for free by subscribing to audible or signing up to his newsletter. The book has this info you are looking for. | /r/seduction | 21/05/17 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Girl texts me first then dosent reply to me trying to set up a date.Thanks for the reply man i appreciate feed back. Just a few things: It is up to debate as to the right amount of time to wait before texting to set up another date. Some have a belief similar to yours but others say that constantly texting the girl too quickly and setting up too many dates early portrays a sense of neediness as it shows that she is your only option. it also may make her feel trapped after only a small amount of dates. best to let her wonder about you, show that you have a life o… | /r/seduction | 12/05/17 11:20 PM |
| 11 | Would a guy become hot if he went from super skinny to more lean and muscular?Bro, you know the answer to that. if you want someone to say you dont need to improve your self and you will find some HB10 who will love you for who you are then this might not be the right sub for you. Improve yourself in what ways you can. you can become more lean and muscular it just takes time. being so will inturn make you more attractive than just being skinny. A guy who reads and is more intelligent will be more attractive than someone who does not. Go get lean :) | /r/seduction | 16/03/17 06:01 AM |
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