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If you are not able to give up your own life, don't get kids. When you get kids, it is not about you anymore, nor about your partner. It's your job to make the best out of and for your successor.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 05:49 PM
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Over 7 years building up a relationship and living with her, having kids; You should not drop all that over something you waited to face 7 years. If she is scared that you will leave her, then rightfully so. Make her clear that it's on her to fix the relationship. Ultimately, you guys want to stay together, even if it has to be not as a couple anymore, for the kids sake regardless.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 09:55 AM
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Yes, it can. It can also make you really aggressive. That's what happens in prison btw. The constant tension of an unsafe place, sexual frustration and inmates aswell as corrupt guards trying to walk over you can bring out the worst of you. Masturbating can help. But if you feel unatractive and don't think you can score, your problems might not be directly connected to sexual frustration, but more to your awarness of your SMV.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 03:55 PM
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Hey Milo! First time I heard about you was on The Rubin Report. I really enjoyed those segments and agreed with most of your points. Now I do have a couple of questions: Do you watch/follow Sargon of Akaad, Thunderfoot or Teal Dear? They are Youtubers, who dedicate a large portion of their actual content on debunking feminists and cover up their hypocrizy, hate and stupidity. Not only can I recommend them for their entertainment value, but they are also down to earth and on point. Would you say …
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 11:26 AM
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Well, you can quit. But you won't achieve anything through that. Strong people keep walking when it's tough.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 11:30 PM
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I now have to figure out a way to have her come to my place. Then just ask her? oO
/r/askTRP08/10/15 09:40 PM
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I get more and more the feeling "bad guy" just means "not nice guy". Even smoking pot or blatant comments already count towards "bad guy" already. Believe me, girls don't want real bad guys. They don't want to be sliced up and have their organs hanging from clothes line outside the window.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 02:27 AM
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Avoid pointing out the shitty state she is in. Formulate it differently to point out what she can achieve. "I am sure, you would look so much hotter by just losing a few pounds." In my taste I would probably add "I'd fuck you all night."
/r/askTRP08/10/15 02:22 AM
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The Way of the Superior Man gave me a good insight of the difference between men and women in the aspects of love, lifestyle and roles. You can find the audiobook on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HnaYROIzsus
/r/askTRP08/10/15 02:03 AM
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From what I read it seems to me you keep comparing yourself to other guys about your masculinity. If that is the issue, you have to understand and accept a couple of things. I'll try to give you a spectrum on this, but leave the usual TRP advices out (You can check the sidebar for that): Having worries is not a bad thing. Letting the negatively influence you is. Worries should be used as a heads up and for you to act against possible bad outcomes. Being nervous is not a bad thing either. Again, …
/r/askTRP08/10/15 02:00 AM
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In his defence, you are picturing the scenario as if one of your jobs was to hook up with her. Regardless of gender, you should get a clear picture of the company and the boss you might work for. You have to get a good guess, if the job you will take is well payed, fair and how your career chances are in this workplace.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 01:30 AM
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How could you fuck up? According to you the main event is still going to happen. You got a whole tutoring session just with her to get it on.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 01:19 AM
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I used to be pretty arrogant in the sense of talking about myself all the time. I also went for confrontations every single time. I also received feedback about it just like you. But instead of taking offence, I was actually curious what makes them think that way, so I just asked "Why do you think so? Can you give me specific examples?". From that I learned and toned it down bit by bit. It took a long time - a year at least - but now I am in a state, where I am confident in myself, but don't bra…
/r/askTRP08/10/15 01:14 AM
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The Way of the Superior Man is a great book by David Deida. Cannot remember which, but was also recommended on a podcast by the author of "No more Mr Nice Guy". Pretty much the first chapter is about how love works for women. If you don't like reading like me or prefer doing other stuff in your time, the audio book is on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HnaYROIzsus
/r/askTRP08/10/15 01:02 AM
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Telling the message in a decent manner is what you looking for I believe. How about "I am not interested in a platonic friendship"?
/r/askTRP08/10/15 12:28 AM
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Here is a bit of insight of my experience. (I am 23 years old right now): TRP tought me the difference in love, sex and dating between men and women. Sure, you also face some crap here. But TRP is actually only providing a concept about aspects in life, which can learn and intake in your behaviour. I am a bit picky and only choose some as I find them fitting. You have different cultures and circles around the world and have to experiment and see what works for you and in your environment. I alwa…
/r/askTRP08/10/15 12:08 AM
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Also, check out this guy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ObLCpKkRcsg You can find a lot of day game and gaming in general on Youtube.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 01:39 PM
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Well, if you want some tips on that: Keep in mind what the argument is about. Hold back attacks that are beside the point. They don't matter, if your goal is to achieve a factual discussion. Do not let someone push your buttons. When some is trying to be a dick, I usually point out that this is not relevant for the discussion and that I find it pretty disappointing, that the certain individual has to go on such a level, if they cannot win a factual discussion. Don't be vague in your argumentatio…
/r/askTRP22/03/15 10:13 PM
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Yeah, they are sensitive. I don't have this issue with other people, but they do have with others.
/r/askTRP22/03/15 10:02 PM
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Really stupid stuff.
/r/askTRP22/03/15 10:01 PM
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Doesn't mean we are going to copycat primitive behavior, if we have a better solution.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 11:56 AM
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So dragging someone unconcious out of an elevator is illegal now? The problem is that the media gets furious about "VIOLENCE AGAINST A WOMAN", when he clearly knocked her out after she charged him. It would be violence, if he beat the living crap out of her. But he didn't. You can dislike him all you want for how he behaved, but he did nothing illegal.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 11:30 AM
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Everyone will tell you that you shouldn't have said "sorry". That is a bunch of crap. You can be sorry for something, when you were in the wrong. Sometimes, saying sorry can even point out your greatness. Never give whimsey sorries though. "mmmm-sorry, will never happen again... promise." Instead a confident "Haha, okay, I am sorry! I'll go somewhere else to do my stuff. (;" can work like magic.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 11:20 AM
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Being tired makes me cuddly, but also idgaf mode. I don't know, sometimes I really have mixed tendancies. Except I am super tired and someone thinks he has to fuck around. I fall into blind aggression, like "MUST TERMINATE NUISANCE TO REST!", where I am about to go berzerk on friends and family members. I still am somehow able to control it, but god I am pissed.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 10:52 AM
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Why? I am subbed to it and find some inspirational stuff from time to time.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 11:33 AM
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Your shlong can stay limb, if you experience too much stress or you are too nervous. Other case can be through exhaustion. After 2 or 3 hours of sex straight my bud went limb too. Happens, not a big deal. Handle it as such and give it a little break, then come back for more. Guess this one doesn't apply to your scenario though.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 11:31 AM
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This was never directed at you, as I mentioned already. But I still might explain, why the stuff you posted is nonsense. The person the second half of my previous comment was contributed to was talking about not calling men - who are into cuckolding - a man. Guess what? If you are into that, you can hold frame, be dominant in everything else, be an alfa and still live out your cuckolding fantasy without risking your partner to fall in love with a replacible meatbag, who's only purpose in this wh…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 01:43 PM
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Ask for the cellphone. Put it in your pockets. "You can have it back after we are done with the dinner.". A) She says "ok", have a nice dinner together. B) I want it back now. "Sure. Dinner is now over anyways." Give her back the cell phone, pay your dinner. Leave. Smooth as fuck.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 01:20 PM
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My parents used to tell me what I have to do. I said "yes" every time, but when I wanted to do different, I did. I got punished a lot, but they gave up eventually, when they saw I do it regardless. So basically, I can do whatever I want, but I don't get their support for it. All they do is giving me a room, internet, shower and food. Basically what you need to life. I definitely don't want to stay there though, so I am looking for a job to finance my studying. I want to move out of here, if poss…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 12:10 PM
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From what I read above you are not mean to her. You are fooling around with her. (except the "fucking other women" part) And I disagree. Being mean or even cruel to women is not the long term solution. Being more of a dad, who jokingly makes fun of her silliness is the better one. Also, even though you seemed to be FWB of some sort, she just told you she has fallen for you, dude. And you basically told her "I don't care that you might die. I just find somebody else to fuck".
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 09:47 AM
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Well, she definitely needs to strife for her own happiness. If the job she is going for makes her life miserable, she should accept, that this is probably not the right choice.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 09:41 AM
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I don't think I can fully agree on this. Fetishes result out of many influences and you can be kind of born with it too. It's the same discussion about being homosexual. I might see though that a tendence can be further formed into a specific fetish through porn. After all though, the comment above is pretty ignorant. It's like saying gay people are not men, because they take it in the ass like women. You can be a man and still live your sexual preferences, how stupid are you? Look around the in…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 09:14 AM
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This is why porn is so appealing to man by the way. Why else would you like to see another wiener, if you are straight?
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 09:05 AM
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There is a difference between being nice and being selfless.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 09:03 AM
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Overachiever never said that you achieve too much. It just says that you achieve more than the average.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 09:01 AM
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Stop the car. "Cut it or get out. I need to focus on the road."
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 06:47 PM
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I have this one girl I play video games online with. She keeps insulting me in a flirty/fun way. I am totally into that and I cannot get enough of it. Never had that with another girl. I talk about this out of my perspective now, how I experienced it. I think, if a girl triggers a specific thing in you, something that makes you not getting enough of her, than this is something that brings you into something passionate with a girl. Maybe it's the taste of "something different" that gets you all e…
/r/askTRP12/09/14 12:16 PM
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Stepping in and standing up for other people is not only a noble thing to do, it can get the girls horny too. Many people here will tell you that this is blue pill behavior. They are not fully correct on that one. You can step in and help people out, regardless of being beta or alfa. The perfect alfa example would be: Keep your cool, be confident and do the right thing. I for example, did the beta variant: Someone went douchebag mode on one of the dudes in my group. I flipped shit and told him t…
/r/askTRP12/09/14 12:06 PM
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How about "They already know I am awesome! ;)" ?
/r/askTRP12/09/14 11:57 AM
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7.5, my ex made some comments on it while we were a bit longer in the relationship already.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 11:54 AM
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Maybe you like women in general? Anyways, next time you see a girl you like go ahead and talk to her. Repeat this step a lot. This might get rid of the spell on you.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 11:38 AM
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Cuckolding is actually quite alfa. He !allows! her to fuck another dude, while he watches. He doesn't give two fucks about her being with another man, that's how secure he feels.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 11:30 AM
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You spammed her with calls. You should be the one being called desperately. Never lose your cool. If you become anxious about doing nothing, remember that you should be anxious about doing SOMETHING. She should be anxious about hearing nothing from you. Put the pressure on HER. Don't brag about all the girls who were around you. You show her that you are actually insecure about not getting her confirmation. Also, pretty douchey.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 11:22 AM
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Why are you so butthurt about this?
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 11:08 AM
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Thought the same way. It's nothing negative what the woman is doing. The woman has a free will after all, why shouldn't he be okay with that?
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 11:05 AM
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Was that female teacher hot?
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 10:12 AM
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Believe me. I know how you feel, bro. And I guess, it is not stupidity, but ignorance, which infuriates you. Ignoring facts and logic is something beyond my comprehension.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 05:44 PM
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I only saw the video where he knocked out his woman. Did anything else happen?
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 01:44 PM
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If anything, you were pretty beta here, dude. If she is mad at you and you keep talking back and arguing, you basically try to put out a fire with gasoline. You tried to be reasonable with her, which obviously doesn't work. Also, you had some rather aggressive approaches. If you keep your cool, people in general are more likely to listen to you. Reading your texts I can see, how your anger is rising. You basically show her, that you are emotionally unstable right now.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 01:40 PM
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He is not her father. She is paying rent and as long as she doesn't fuck around with him, why should he care?
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 12:08 PM
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As far as I understand, he Got proof she would cheat on him He doesn't have to deal with her flipping shit He doesn't have to deal with seeing what happens to her
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 12:01 PM
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But some don't fuck out of respect for the other dude. I don't want to be in that dude's position, so I won't put him into that either.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 11:42 AM
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That is how I met my best friend.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 11:22 AM
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That's cute. Think about the guys who are 60 and still alpha as fuck. You can be such a guy.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 11:18 AM
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Fuck her. You basically life a typical man story. Dude gets rejected. Dude becomes man. Girl wants the dude now. Fuck her. Don't you want to know how the story ends? You basically manned up for her. She was one of the reasons you changed. Now give some back and start your new life, bro.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 10:42 AM
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If he calls a service for that, then it doesn't matter, because no one else gets to know. And if he does it with an actual girl he met, I don't see how this is beta. I could be wrong though. Edit: I actually had phone sex with a girl who was in a relationship at that time. Also with my ex. With my ex it was pretty boring, because it was that usual stuff. But with that one girl I had some kind of roleplaying, which was pretty exciting for both of us.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 10:32 AM
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You forget that as soon as a woman mentions "rape" regardless of context, the attention is all on her.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 05:36 PM
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I guess it was kind of the second. The other guys weren't that much of AFs either. At least from the impression I had. I could be wrong though.
/r/askTRP10/09/14 04:17 PM
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That is what "at least" stands for. It's 3 dudes I know of. I am pretty convinced it was more, but I don't have any mutual numbers for that.
/r/askTRP10/09/14 12:51 PM
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That is exactly what he said...
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 02:06 PM
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Welp, I was definitely that BP dude back in my relationship. My ex cheated with at least 3 dudes on me over 2 1/2 years. I found out pretty much at the end of our relationship. Anyways, she kept throwing that "you won't cheat on me, right?" and "I am worried you will" bullshit at me. "I am your only girl, right?", "I cannot wait to get married to you in the future". The typical "we are just friends" and "you trust me, right?" stuff came up too. I listened more and more to her demands, became mor…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 01:27 PM
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I have the feeling you are still lacking confidence, dude. If that is your main struggle, forget women for a few months and find something you love to do and/or you good at. Do it frequently to boost confidence and self-esteem.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 01:08 PM
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Look, here is how it is. Often, if something is presented to you - in this case TRP - you listen to it, form your own thoughts about it and agree with points and disagree. But people, who don't like the idea as itself, even if it is logical, dismiss the whole thing if they find ONE THING they can critisize in it. I for myself though am quite open minded. I came here to TRP and found many things that I didn't like to see, but have to accept. And I also found stuff, where I had to say "Sorry, this…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 12:50 PM
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Nope. You can be aggressive and still have tact. Let's just say, if you don't have the looks, you have to walk on a thinner line.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 12:12 PM
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This dude needs a wake up call. A HEAVE ONE! If 20k scammed is not enough to wake you up, then maybe only a fucking huge truth bomb does.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 12:06 PM
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It's obvious that this dude is a special case. If you want a protective woman, you have a way smaller market. It's not that betas don't have any options at all, just their pool is way smaller. :)
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 12:03 PM
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Well, obviously. But I already figured that a non-democratic society doesn't have democracy. But thanks for pointing that out, other people probably don't understand that dead giveaway. And thanks for mentioning non-democratic societies in the context of democratic societies. Because, that makes so much sense. /s Many modern democratic societies became so, because the population was unhappy about the choices their leaders made. Eventually, the people took over. Men were able to vote, because the…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 02:40 PM
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Please read up again why you have the right to vote. Your information is wrong, this is not how democracy works. You are able to vote, because the people of this nation should decide which path their country goes. And the rights you get are the price for being bound to a fucking country. If you don't realize this: No one of us is free. We have to follow the law, otherwise we are fucked. We are slaves to a more or less kind system. If we had no rights either, do you think the gov. would be able t…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 02:09 PM
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Let and allow is about asking your partner, if he is cool with that. Of course she can still go. But if your partner says "No, I wouldn't like you to do that.", then you probably wouldn't do it. That is why we use allow and let in that context. It is not in the sense of "Do you allow me to go, master?", but in the sense of "Do you allow me to go in this relationship?".
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 11:54 AM
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I did not "shit-test" you in anything. When we are forming rights and laws, we should think about thise things logically and be reasonable. That also means in the sense of being equal to others, even if they are different to us. Forming laws and rights though, just because we do not value someone for inferior reasons is pretty childish.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 11:39 AM
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Don't fuck other people over. Just not cool. Also, why would you sleep with such a girl in the first place? I would be disgusted by a girl with no morality.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 11:17 AM
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Or how about: This is just another fucking music video!? This is not reality and you don't think every BIT of such a music video through. Inb4: The bird probably was in that clip, because at this very season, it is on the hunt for more food for its survival. It has a more eager expression on itself, that probably means that it had a tough journey behind it.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 10:35 AM
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Sorry, but anti-equality is quite the asshole attitude. You do not deserve MORE rights, just because you have a penis. Neither do you deserve MORE rights, because you have a vagina. Why do you think you need more rights, can you explain that? And feminism is actually about bringing rights and priviledges, that were male exclusive, to the woman. The reason why we only hear feminazis speaking up is because they are the only ones getting attention from the media. Everyone loves to see people totall…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 10:24 AM
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I got a pretty simple trick, that might help you. Every time you see a girl and you are chickening out, you say to yourself "Ah!, there is my approach anxiety again! Now I HAVE to do it!" It's as stupidly simple, as it sounds. Also, getting rejected feels better than not trying at all. And lastly, fix your mindset. Starting your approaching mood shouldn't start, when you got in the park. Go with it, as soon as you leave the house. See an elderly woman confused on the busstop? Approach her and op…
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