Man women get really goddamn bitter about that cool girl shit. Reading GC and wew. https://www.np.reddit.com/r/GenderCritical/comments/7z5vad/a_laughable_post_with_laughable_claims_but_hey/ Women have strange ideas.
I did witness women going totally bonkers over the refugee thing (LET THEM IN LET THEM IN). Was also fun to watch demobbed fighters get ID’d coming in by OSINT people. Like it was fucking crazy. You couldn’t say shit. I lost friends for posting Ross Douhat’s piece on Colonge.
‘Nice’ is actually code for gay. I have a paper on this if anyone wants - it really takes the wool off. ‘omg these gay dudes want to sleep with me wtf??’ -> this all makes way more sense
‘Nice’ is actually code for gay. I have a paper on this if anyone wants - it really takes the wool off. ‘omg these gay dudes want to sleep with me wtf??’ -> this all makes way more sense
I have seen it in the nerd scene, and its a big reason I don’t engage with that anymore. Its less harassing women, and more gibbering to all and sundry about what a good feminist boy you are. And lecturing other dudes, sooo many lectures. Noone was getting laid at any point during this shit. The highlight was probably listening to a woman ramble about how she did watersports for an ex and an entire table of sexless nerds leaning in. Gross af, and then people would be like ‘gee yangel why don’t y…
Taking a look (no more uni library access alas): theres tons of social psych papers. Some sites: http://geekfeminism.wikia.com/wiki/Nice_Guy_syndrome http://feministing.com/2011/11/13/regarding-nice-guys-and-why-women-only-date-jerks-a-critique-of-a-masculine-victim-cult/ https://collectivefeminism.wordpress.com/2017/08/31/just-another-nice-guy/ https://www.themarysue.com/things-we-saw-today-909/ ‘Are all the nice guys gay? The impact of sociability and competence on the social perception of mal…
I found a really hilarious article from Yes means yes (the book) and its...just something else. Like its a serious Nice Guy piece in a big feminist text. not sure on the best way to share :/
GUYS GUYS I FOUND AN INCEL FROM 1962 http://www.vasulka.org/archive/Artists2/Flint/Blueprint.pdf https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Henry_Flynt this is WILD
So I was looking at the nofap forums...and I noticed theres an awful lot of the user base dealing with issues pertaining to gay/trans porn. It becomes pretty clear this isn't porn - these guys are closet cases.
People will go out into the weather instead of keeping out of the wind/snow. This isn't consistent and doesn't happen in other contexts. maybe I look angry reading.
oh I'm not saying its not helpful! it is, and I am listening. it just puzzles me the more I look into it. the issue seems to be a disconnect between what I'm actually experiencing, and how people perceive it. Maybe I need to smile more. :/
you emit an emotional energy that others pick up ...but im just dicking around on my phone or reading. its not like I'm in full skinhead getup glaring at minorities or anything.
Had another incident of bus shelter avoidance (different city now). Kind of at a loss. I've been told I look intimidating but um...that's very hard to believe.
The crazy shit is when women freak out when you point this stuff out. You get the impression they think men have infinite choice and what not. also e-dating is fucking terrible.
Nope. My usual bus stop. Wasn't out of place at all. I just noticed women would go to the end of the street (in the rain!) vs standing under the shelter. Really weird behavior. Also just random hostility from them in general. I can't find any other explanation. I actually stopped going outside for awhile because of this.
/u/GroovyEFS my 100 tabs came in from GG. Should be pretty sweet. also https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B00462RV4G/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1 worth reading!
Picking up skills, making yourself interesting, acting dominant and cocky, learning PUA? TBH they have a point. These things are driven by genetics, not learnable skills. That being said, incels overran most of the manosphere in the last two years.
So last LSD use resulted in...something. Not sure if it was one of those religious ecstasy things or a seizure...but it was waaaaaaaay better then sex.
http://www.maps.org/news-letters/v21n1/v21n1-25to29.pdf https://thehustle.co/how-to-lsd-microdose CRISPR means LSD manufacture is gonna get easier (as soon as someone starts cooking the right yeast up)...then it'll be the 60s 2.0 man!
Like three pages of notes. Visually the wildest it got was the ceiling breathing and freaking baroque gear trains made of shadows...and like weird Olmec statue faces. Watching them form was like watching ice forming... Goddamn man, I’m dropping 2/2.5 next (tonight? I dunno lol). Put this shit on EVERYTHING.
Canada. It snowed to the south. :( I was a history major, I mean there were women but they all seemed so obsessed with victorian women's lit...still don't get what yall see in that stuff.
I figured it was right wing nerd territory. >_> Most women I've met tend to obsess over things like Wuthering Heights and Pride and Prejudice. If I ran into one reading something like The Plumed Serpent I'd probably jump out of my socks or something. Nabbed Paglia, and I've really been meaning to read her for awhile. She sounds like a fun person to hang out with.
it isn't just having 'an education' - your BA is useless. it needs to be a masters or PHD, ideally above them (because...I dunno) and the income. but its always framed as 'boo hoo my degree made me a femcel' and it just seems a bit disingenuous.
If some cocksucker wants to mouth off, just give him my address and dare him and his fuckin' boyfriends to make their move just so I can blow their fuckin' brains out. Is someone threatening you or something?
I think it could be possible. http://www.aclweb.org/anthology/D09-1035 Spin off of the gait recognition thing maybe. Bring it up because machine detection of stuff is interesting.
Didn't love-shy and incel basically merge though? and yes, its really off the wall batshit crazy. PPD needs a thread on it or something - its just goddamn...
Love shy and incel basically became the same thing at some point. You should read it - its one of the most wacked out books I've ever run into...and believe me I have read some shit.
They weren't sex partners...just emotional tampons from what I could figure. She paid attention more then anyone I'd ever met. Watched me doodle things (I saw this from corner of eye). Initiated physical contact, talked about sex stuff...it was very unusual.
I mean they pretended to be interested. Everyone I asked about the weird behavior was like GO FOR IT DUDE...that wasn't the case at all though. Still don't know why anyone would do that. Best guess was some kind of emotional stand in for her ex. :/ Did meet my replacement on the bus tho - woo boy.
Did you check with the mods? As far as my limited knowledge tells me, the idea of an "incel" originally started because of 4chan's /r9k/ board, originally used to test out a bot that attempted to ensure original content was posted It started as a result of Gilmartin's Shyness and Love book in the 1980s - which is complete crank bullshit as far as anything goes (astrological eugenics! a master race of pretty girls to serve the whims of incels, etc). I haven't found anything in the historical reco…
My personal script would be becoming best friends with an extremely shy and weird guy who is obsessed with me, and whom other people reject out of disdain for his weirdness. this would freak me out fwiw
things like the "freeze" instinct whilst under sexual assault). this actually just got exposed as bad science https://www.theatlantic.com/education/archive/2017/09/the-bad-science-behind-campus-response-to-sexual-assault/539211/
I went out last night...but it was really dead at the places I hit up. I don't get it. Burned out on tinder, burned out on everything really. Outside of work and the gym, I have nothing and it kills me.
Nah, I just went to one or two meet ups. Didn't have the coin to commit. the OTO sex stuff is hilarious, especially the high level stuff they try to conceal.
uh not really. we got our share of iraq war defenders up here. unfortunately in the absence of a populist movement, we are stuck with the harperites. their idea of campus free speech is a bit different then how people might otherwise define it. (i'll give the machine vision one to you)
don't know if he argues that "BRUTISH MEN forcing their desires on INNOCENT WAIFS", as i never actually read his book other than a few reviews, Thats the spin put on it by the NRO/TAC guys. They have no idea what they are talking about. this creates an inbalance in the "mate market", where there are many women looking for men with decent jobs or college degrees Believe me, its only the job part. If it isn't a STEM/Biz degree, it counts against you. The university gender ratio thing only intensif…
It would be a GODly step forward to just acknowledge the goddamned problem exists. Won't ever happen I'm afraid. Best we can do is to burn the goddamn thing down.
That last point is being trumpeted by the NRO set and its just ridiculous. BRUTISH MEN forcing their desires on INNOCENT WAIFS - IF ONLY WE HAD MORE JESUS AND FREE MARKET PRINCIPALS THIS WOULDN'T HAPPEN. rod dreher swoons into fainting couch Sex in the 19th century was easier to get then it is now. Dead serious. Read some of the stuff we have from that time period, like My Secret Life...dudes got plenty.
IRL dating seems to have totally vanished tho. When I went out to bars, it was just people swiping tinder. No talking or anything. It was really bizarre.
Peterson is just a middling Jungian dude who fell into controversy. He 's aligning with the neocons up here to try to cause some kind of conservative comeback under Scheer - which isn't going to happen. Also thinks machine vision isn't real or something...which is amusing. The end goal here isn't anything aligned with TRP - its MAN UP AND MARRY THESE SLUTS. He's vastly overblown, and the cult like devotion to him is honestly kind of hysterical.
Women make TERRIBLE friends. Say what you want about dudes - but they will at least check up on your welfare and shit (unprompted even!!). Nothing like that from women.
So it's also "just a coincidence" that this "pollution" shows up nearly everywhere we are, and in nearly everything we touch/consume? Yeah actually. Like lead in gasoline.
No - I think that is one of the few useful points they have. Not only aesthetically, but you want to be ready for unpleasant eventualities in the next few years.
No one believes me. Unfortunately, its the baseline in terms of interaction with women. Every expression of interest (and they will feign this - to a legit scary level) comes with ulterior motives. One actually pretended to know people I knew on a first name basis. turned out she had never met them, much less was involved in the activism she claimed. I don't know motives, not sure knowing would be a good idea.
I get labeled as such - but I reject all the game shit. Sex is a waste of time, about as enjoyable as a dentist appointment, and really just a past time of the rich. There's so much toxic bullshit, weird cultural anxieties, and outright lies - and it hurts people. Ideally it would be done away with - but unfortunately the best that can be done is self-segregation and a focus on other things. The realization that other people see you only as a resource to be exploited is a heady one, and knocks h…
Here I want to instantly cut shrt any clammering about evolution by pointing out that 5000 years(roughly from the advent of agriculture which was the first earthshaking event as far as mating selection goes, to today) is basically absolutely nothing when it comes to evolution of such an innate instinct as mate se you'd be surprised tbh. stuff can evolve pretty fast.
Oh yeah. Basically think friendzone complaints...but from women. And they loooove to whine to you about it. It takes a toll on you, god forbid you don't put up with that shit tho.
At best I've never been anything more then a stand in for the rich guy who won't touch them. It hurts. Unfortunately not wanting this is 'entitlement' so what can ya do~
He was mentally ill, and I believe he was sucked into a honeypot (long story - but remember the Atomwaffen guy who converted to islam and killed his roommate? There are degrees of connection...).
'um people treat me like shit from the get go and I feel this is unwarranted...' 'UR A NICE GUY11!!!1!!! YOU NEED TO BE A FEMINIST ALLY!!! >:(' generally goes like that. I don't know why I'm supposed to just tolerate people treating you like pondscum for whatever reason.
So I moved to a new city, tried Tinder...~4 matches in succession. Didn't act on it ofc but...this is really weird. Like ive gone from pariah to normie because I moved? what the fuck
https://theawl.com/the-darkness-before-the-right-84e97225ac19 https://www.theatlantic.com/politics/archive/2017/02/behind-the-internets-dark-anti-democracy-movement/516243/**** have you read these yet?
No surprise that as homosexuality is more accepted in a society, more guys experiment. I'm not sure tbh. http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/19419899.2017.1328459
The cops where not called because some guy approached them like you claimed. except at ubc and the eatons center. Bottom line is that they don't like to be approached in public, hapa freakouts or not.
http://viewthevibe.com/toronto-pickup-artists-arent-just-creepy-theyre-dangerous/ The eatons center guys got security afrer them. http://globalnews.ca/news/1873395/women-raise-concerns-over-vancouver-pick-up-artist/
I mentioned that I sometimes keep bottles of water in my car to hand out to homeless people and panhandlers during the summer when I come across them at intersections. She thought this was VERY sexy and expressed her fervent desire to do dirty sex things to me at that moment. What
Cold approach leads to the police getting involved. Happened to PUA workshops in Toronto and Vancouver. Its just not a good idea anymore. Much of this stuff is also just internet marketing, not so much working techniques.
I saw it in uni; women would talk about the free stuff they'd get from dudes on OKC etc. It was really weird and I really think it migt have been a sex ratio thing. People don't act like that elsewhere. Seriously it was really bizarre.
screaming God I've seen so much of this shit. Not just this stuff either. I had one claim to be a huge activist, that she knew this transperson I knew, etc etc. Complete horseshit as it turns out. :|
The performance either tends to be manic pixie or pollyanna. OH GOD so much of the maniac pixie shit. makes me want to puke. They turn up in low SMV male groups, yammering about their sex lives, and of course, all the nerds lean in with eager looks on there face (gross!).
https://www.nytimes.com/2017/05/24/us/neo-nazi-roommate-murder.html?_r=0 TDS is just one facet of the whole. Outside it, ie twitter, you don't get the aping muslims thing.
Just people I met in university. Then he stalked me for a bit - screeched at this chick I knew... eventually got robbed of like 10k by some gogo dancer. Otherwise its mentally ill women screaming at me in the street, or dudes pointing it out in front of women (to secure their status or whatever). I really don't like being around people now.
Oh no. You can get T injections. Apparently they have clinics in America for this (not sure about up here - its a bitch to get them to look in the first place).
I mean sex isn't enjoyable. Its not worth persuing at all. Its a vast expenditure of time, money, and effort to shape yourself into some kind of bizarre parody of masculinity to attempt to appeal to some of the worst types of people I've ever had the misfortune of meeting. Theres nothing to get out of it.
The mate guarding shit I've seen is pretty nuts. Might be a sex ratio thing. Regardess you can't even joke around with women because the other dudes will get incoherently angry. Had more then enough passive-aggressive shit over this.
Some - but I think it was addressed in the Thornhill/Palmer book. The people getting attacked tend to be women in peak fertility or whatever, instead of all over the place age-wise like you'd expect in a power scenario.
http://thefederalist.com/2017/04/04/men-women-can-never-just-friends/ these guys do the #nevertrump conservative dance on twitter - but after stuff like this...
no its clearly caused by invisible rays of patriarchy that emanate from white men. you need to take a humanities class to appreciate the dynamics of human interaction~~~~
Yeah - but they don't talk to you. Sex toy linked to your phone boyfriend app - bam. Compare this to sex robots, which aren't affordable for most guys.
Long-term outcome of cognitive behaviour therapy clinical trials in central Scotland RC Durham,1* JA Chambers,1,2 KG Power,2,3 DM Sharp,4 RR Macdonald,2 KA Major,5 MGT Dow2,6 and AI Gumley7
You don't have the orbiter swarms over there? They make shit really unpleasant in mixed company with the dominance testing and shit. The ratio of them to dudes who get laid is pretty big.
The CBT/mindfulness/whatever flavour of the month therapy gets promoted as effective again and again - and then the studies find it does fuck all. That eye movement desensitisization thing also turned out to be a huge bust - but was sold as super effective.
Never saw women do this. If anything it was the opposite. People would lose their shit and demand to know why I wasn't happy with porn when I mentioned meeting women. :/
even if you flounder in college or aren't particularly ambitious, someone will probably help you land your first job. mom's boss's brother is on the board of a sustainable living nonprofit that you could get some great experience at... and he'll write you a recommendation! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Like if a bunch of 21 year old women just cannot score a decent guy because they are all taken or, when they do, they have to accept him cheating as part of the deal. They will share a dude.
If we (the men responding to thread) respond with gendered examples, we'll have pejorative terminology used to pigeon hole us into a woman-hating caricature. They were gonna do that anyway dude
Its less alarming in context of a specific conversation. Otherwise (the majority of this stuff) its out of the blue and the alarm bells start screaming in my head.
Its marketing. You see the same stuff with occult gurus. I sell you the ticket to the magical world where your wildest dreams come true, etc. Dude fakes his PUA vids to take advantage of spergs (he's a manlet to boot). Whole thing is gross tbh.
Well the frat guys sure talk about it a lot on the Uni confession pages. The word is 'war pig' and they get split roasted. Women love being treated like this.
Perhaps if that happens, a resurgence of tradition and conservative views towards sex and romance will fix a lot of the problems people have in finding decent women to marry and have children with. Won't happen.
outside observers that may not appear to be true No. They generally know the truth. What they do is demand you keep smashing your face into the wall for their amusement. People like this are worthless and should be cut out.
Then why do feminists try to brow beat this bullshit into you? Imho its all some just world fallacy shit. 'my politics are beyter then yours thats why i get laid' shit.
Now means women only fuck 20% of men and 80% of men have nothing to look forward to in life besides inceldom, followed by marriage to a post-wall wife who starfishes and plots how she's going to take his house and kids Its also true.
Now means women only fuck 20% of men and 80% of men have nothing to look forward to in life besides inceldom, followed by marriage to a post-wall wife who starfishes and plots how she's going to take his house and kids Its also true.
Lifting itself won't do - you have to use gear. Also body acceptance is the biggest load of horseshit. Note the guys partaking are incel at best (least the twitter activists I've seen).
I feel like a lot of them would be too shy/socially awkward/anxious to get up the nerve to go to a brothel or book an escort, tbh Social stigma still exists.
This latest research also offers encouraging news to all those bitter guys on the Internet whose resentment toward women stems from romantic rejection: Maybe you're not being turned down because of your looks, but because of your attitude Holy shit lol
