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| 1 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.K. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 03:23 AM |
| 0 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.I think your choosing to assign victimhood based on gender and not recognize that both men and women are capable of doing horrific things. You want the answer to be that men need to correct themselves, and because you've already created your conclusion you're just going to search for ways to reach it. What you're describing, is extremely rare. Most domestic violence involve substance abuse, most domestic violence is reciprocal. It has to do with damaged people getting into relationships that are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.Yes. Thank you for understanding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.Now you're calling women's dating preferences ghoulish. Wow. Misogyny much?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.I'm just saying it's inappropriate for you to go around attacking people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 05:08 PM |
| 4 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.Women are more likely to initiate partner violence than men. I mean if you just want to read feminist books about why men are bad. Sure.... You're free to live however you want. That doesn't mean you're actually aware of the problem or potential solutions though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.In what culture do friends get together to talk about how they're being victims of domestic violence but no one else knows about it as you're reporting? If people get together and talk about it then that means whoever is committing domestic violence eventually word gets out and everyone's kind of aware, which would support what I'm saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.I just think it's really tragic that you are trying to shame women for their decisions and control men. You think you have the moral high ground to just dictate to people how they're supposed to live their romantic lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.But magically learned about it, I mean you're just surrounded by all these friends dads and your uncles and your coworkers and your neighbors..... Everyone you're bumping into has this problem..... And they made sure to tell you all about it and you were just shocked every time... Sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.Stop telling women how to live their lives. It's about female empowerment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 04:46 PM |
| 0 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.I only know what I've seen statistically and heard from other people. I don't hang around a bunch of domestically abusive individuals. So I guess you have me there, you sound like a pretty messed up individual if all of your friends commit domestic violence and you know about it, but no one else outside of the people they're beating know about it. ( Eye roll) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.They have to hide that characteristic everyday of their life everywhere they go. You think people just magically one day reveal their true character? You don't think that people who have a history of domestic violence aren't known for having that history among the people who know them? Go outside and touch grass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.Where is your data to support that? Go look up the statistics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 04:30 PM |
| 0 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.Most abusive partners are just naturally violent people. If you look up the statistics, women more often initiate domestic violence. Men because of their physical strength just produce the most horrific results. Avoid people who get into fights, you will avoid being in a relationship with fights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.The men have to be vetted by their friends and family, a guy can keep his mask on a few days with a girl, but he has to keep a reputation with everyone around. So he has to keep it up all the time not just around her but around anyone that might know her. And it's not just her vetting him him but everyone that knows her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 04:08 PM |
| 5 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.Here is one for your convenience, but if you go read domestic violence statistics it's a routine finding. https://domesticviolenceresearch.org/domestic-violence-facts-and-statistics-at-a-glance/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.Yes, as a man, the fact that women do not want to be traditional is only beneficial to providing me what I want without having to put in as much effort or prove to them that I'm a good person or worth their time. Yes. High five for feminism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 07:56 AM |
| 2 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.I'm not personally advocating any particular way. I'm just giving my best answer as to how I would go about screening out abusive man if I was a woman. I would start by applying the practices that were/are used by various societies to ensure women are partnered with healthy and stable men. I picked 3 years because if they were going to be red flags, they should have came up within 3 years. The longer the courtship, the more serious he has to be that he's in it for the long haul as well. Anything… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 07:42 AM |
| 2 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.My knowledge of Muslim dating comes from dating within the Muslim community. ( I am not Muslim, but I have dated Muslim women) I was not referencing them for a long courtship only the position of meeting in public places or having family with the woman. http://www.muslimworldtoday.com/muslim-dating-courtship/ My reference to Victorian era comes from reading about courtships of famous historical or political figures and their description of meeting their spouse and courting them. Consider the rou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 07:20 AM |
| 33 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.Statistically speaking, the best way to avoid an abusive partner is to not be abusive/violent yourself. Domestic violence is often reciprocal. It is much more common to involve violent people meeting each other and attempting a relationship then a non-violent person being in a relationship with an abusive partner. Statistically speaking. I'm aware that statistics don't reflect the wide range of reality they just show what is the most common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 07:04 AM |
| 3 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.Look up how Muslim cultures do courtship, Victorian era, conservative Christians. Often in the 19th and early 20th century men would present women's families with a list of references to verify their history and background and vouch for their character. Granted these were practices more associated with the affluent then everyday people, but these cultural and religious practices came about specifically to protect women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 06:56 AM |
| 4 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.I'd date a man for at least 3 years with no sexual contact and only go out in public settings or have family with me. What women use to do, or still do in traditional cultures. The reason these rules where put in place was to resolve these very issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Child custody - Family lawInteresting you say that, I'm in Minnesota and I find that the larger liberal counties with cities are more fair to dads than the rural conservative ones. In the more liberal spots they are at least willing to think about the man's side of it. In the rural areas they think its 1980 and dad is just a ATM. That said, I agree that California and New York seems to be some of the worst for dads but I would rather deal with California than North Dakota in family law any day. | /r/MensRights | 16/03/19 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Child custody - Family lawI 100% agree with you its totally awful for the child. If you have no rights and no way enforce anything though what other choice do you have? Walking away or not you still will never be there. | /r/MensRights | 15/03/19 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Child custody - Family lawThat blows my mind! What's the point of even trying than? I'm starting to see it as a simple waste of money and energy. If the system could care less if dad is involved, and no one will hold mom accountable why not walk away? | /r/MensRights | 15/03/19 08:21 PM |
| 16 | When the kids solicit their own bailout.This would make a ok story line for a adult film, but as a pitch to get men to date you it's a hard pass. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/03/19 10:10 AM |
| 1 | If the gender was switched what would a feminist say?🤔If the United Kingdom had to ban the NASCAR style girls they have over there why on Earth is no one protesting this thing for objectifying people's bodies?? | /r/MensRights | 09/01/19 06:48 AM |
| 26 | 38 y/o Mommy needs a real man who will surprise her, hunt for her, and doesn't have a dirty mind. He better be white, too.At 38 you can sleep well knowing she is close to being past her reproductive years. She wants a older man who no longer wants children from a relationship is willing to spend the next 8 being walked over by her and her daughter. After her daughter is grown and she has gotten use to the lifestyle you provide, she will file to get half your stuff in court and tell you she just fell out of love. Her daughter will call you a loser. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/01/19 07:34 AM |
| 44 | Single, educated and perpetually singleTo prove to us that she doesn't need to explain her love life to anyone... she does a PowerPoint presentation about her love life in front of everyone...... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/12/18 10:10 AM |
| 5 | [27F] "I'm a single mom of 2. Been burned several times and had a pretty abusive marriage so I'm very guarded. Looking for someone to be happy with."Well we know she got the house and car when they divorced.... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/12/18 02:06 AM |
| 75 | [30F] "I'm a single mom of 3. Tired of BS and liars. I'm very picky and want a man who will text me good morning at 5:30 am for when I wake up."For someone who claims to be an intellectual she seems to have made a lot of poorly thought-out decisions | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/11/18 12:30 PM |
| 27 | [29F] "I’ve done so many things for the wrong one, I can only imagine what I’ll do for the right one. I do have 3 kids that are my life, reason why I want a good man."So she separated and not even fully divorced and has no issue bringing a new man into the situation who will likely be referenced in the divorce/ custody proceedings. What guy out there doesn't want to walk into a messy divorce without the hassle of having to date first.... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/11/18 12:44 PM |
| 49 | Step right up for friendship with absolutely no benefit, and possible constant emotional and financial support required!I don't understand why women think stay at home mom is an acceptable profession on a dating website. It's perfectly acceptable if you're in a relationship and only one individual is working but it's the same as a man listing unemployed on his dating profile. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/11/18 11:20 PM |
| 1 | She is accepting applications for friends with absolutely no benefits and the opportunity to completely emotionally and financially support her.Reposted with corrections you specified | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/11/18 11:17 PM |
| 7 | "Im 35 single mom of 2 i am looking for a good man to get to know grow with who can accept me for me and my kids... I have a huge family and a big ?... I work average 75 hr a week i love what i do and hope soon to further my career."Is the guy in the blue shirt her son or a ex? Either way it's a huge red flag to post photos with members of the opposite sex on a dating profile. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/08/18 06:21 AM |
| 31 | "I'm 23 I have a 4 year old daughter I'm not looking for a lil boy to play with my mind, I needa man to stay in my heart... I'm independent and I don't need someone to bring me down, more like. Some one to hold me up :)"She laughs at her own jokes so you know she's funny... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/08/18 03:53 AM |
| 26 | I’m a F***ing princess! Treat me accordinglyAt least she's honest and upfront about the fact the relationship will never work. What's really horrifying is there are guys who would try. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/07/18 01:25 AM |
| 1 | First time posting, I came across this gem......I was unable to get a full photo of her bio, she states in other areas she is seeking "A good man" but, I'll make sure to provide a full profile post in any other attempts I make, my bad. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/07/18 05:51 PM |
| 7 | [26F] "I just got out of a 6 year relationship with a total tool and looking for someone to just talk and be friends with."That's just the dark sense of humor she is bragging about. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/06/18 11:51 PM |
| 4 | [26F] "I just got out of a 6 year relationship with a total tool and looking for someone to just talk and be friends with."" But I like horror the most" You can be her next 6 year tool for horror too, if you can get her to laugh. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/06/18 11:50 PM |
| 12 | [18F] "I'm pregnant and the baby's father is not in the picture for me, but would like to be for the baby, so I need a guy who doesn't get jealous, trusts me, [and has a job]."Well if the other guy is not afraid of being a father he simply afraid of being in a relationship with you obviously there is nothing wrong with you......... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/06/18 10:52 PM |
| 15 | "Guys who just wanna fuck, don't message me. Im 20 years old, chill, stoned every day. Looking for something long term and serious. I don't play games. I am pregnant, the father wanted to not be in our lives. So gotta move one. If you don't like it. Thats fine. HMU on Snapchat as well"BUT BUT WHY!? why would the father not want to be involved in a relationship with this beautiful, educated, motivated mother of the year trophy wife 🤔 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/06/18 05:59 PM |
| 38 | [22F] "I majored in Gender and Women's Studies. I'm a feminist, and hope you are too! I've been burned a lot recently and I'm perfectly fine being single. Anyone who's gonna change my mind on that is gonna have to be pretty fucking fantastic."She spent four years of her life and $30,000 learning to be a strong independent woman that doesn't need toxic man.... so now she can beg men to try to assume the traditional gender role of vying for her attention. Classic | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/06/18 08:11 PM |
| 4 | ex-girlfriend pregnant and she ran away 5000 miles to her mothersI would wait and see, at 56 the mother is not looking to host her daughter and a newborn indefinitely. At some point the daughter is going to have to start finding her own way, when things get challenging she'll turn to you and that's when you have your own cards to play. Until then I would back off and make it clear that if they want your involvement they need to respect your opinion. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/18 01:35 PM |
| 7 | ex-girlfriend pregnant and she ran away 5000 miles to her mothersHow old are her parents? Once the child is born both her and the mother might have a very different attitude faced with the realization of a newborn in front of them. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/18 01:19 PM |
| 7 | [18F] "First of all, Fuck You. Yes I'm a short angry girl. No, I probably don't want to fuck you. Just looking for a decent guy. Buy me food and treat me good and I'll do the same for you! Im tired of parties, im tired of games. I want to kick some ass and then take names. Fuck you."After the first fight you have she can key your car and call the cops on you. Don't worry she is very reasonable and not vindictive it all, just ask her total lack of friends. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/06/18 03:52 AM |
| 26 | "I'm a nightmare mess. The last Chad I was with almost killed me and left me ruined. Here's hoping there's still a tatted, tall, fit, and unclean alpha man out there who won't abuse me."Can't stand Animals being hunted, is chill with her kids seeing her pushed around by Alpha male. Interesting. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/05/18 07:36 PM |
| 3 | [32F] "The struggle is real. Kick ass mom. Sorry white boy... I'm just not into you. Friends is great. I know I'm a big girl, bbw, thick... I like my man fit. Only one of us can be fat and well, I already hold that card."This is like applying for a job at a day labor service | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/05/18 02:03 AM |
| 133 | "Not here for one night stands, only message if you want a relationship"Huh..... Is it me or is anyone else getting mixed signals? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/05/18 10:54 PM |
| 15 | [27F] "I've was way too easy in the past and forgot to get a commitment, so now, you are going to have to be my best friend first, and then we will talk about having that relationshit that I deserve."" you shouldn't jump into a dating site and try to date"...... what does she think dating sites are for??...... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/03/18 04:03 AM |
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