YeOldeDog Archive

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2	Have you ever made the first move? Depends on what you have in mind as a first move. Depends what you think a 'first move' actualy is. There is a gulf between asking someone to spend time with you Vs asking someone out on a 'date' where its implicitly understood as romantic Vs going in for a kiss. I have heard each described as 'making the first move' but its clear they are way different from each other.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/09/17 12:20 PM
1	Why am I such a mess?? 'We then made a deal that we didn't want anyone else' These types of deals are unworkable. People want what they want, they can only choose not to pursue what they want. 90% of the time those types of choices cannot be projected into a person by their partner, they can only arise from an act of will and understanding in the person themselves, about what they value in their choices and how it affects other things in their life.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/09/17 12:52 AM
2	Projecting You said 'the chase', thats what I replied about. Sounds like what your talking about is more 'the dance'. Sure, men can like that because if sex is not the payoff (the journey is the reward) then they can enjoy the dance. But, having done this myself many years back, women can seem mighty confused when it does not proceed to sex because they expect it too.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/09/17 10:38 PM
3	Projecting Sure, but I think that applies to a cross section of men who are commonly successful in chasing, or players invested in 'the game' of serial chasing more than an individual woman they chase. Those are small cross sections of men... fine for f'ing or the excitement of a drama bomb relationship, I guess, but the odds of a stable LTR with such men, I would think, are on the outer.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/09/17 10:33 AM
6	Projecting Men do not like the chase, they never did, not ever. If you could talk to a tiger, tell it that it enjoyed the chase of the prey it failed to catch, it would like as not turn and bite your head off. Of course you could talk about it in broader terms, of a completed chase-to-sex scenario, where the reward of sex feels greater for the man due to the effort invested in obtaining it. But, there is a flaw in this thinking as well: If the man does not ultimately enjoy the sex his attitude to the chase…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/09/17 06:26 AM
7	Projecting I dont think 'women find kindness boring', its almost like saying 'women find cruelty interesting'. Sure, almost universally women find a man who is constantly 'kind and agreeable' as dull as dishwater, even if she is grateful for his presence for other reasons. I think individual men are more accepting of a 'kind and agreeable' woman, but thats hardly surprising because part of machismo is that some men are driven to fill dominant roles and define others roles to shape their self worth. But wha…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/09/17 03:26 AM
1	What do you guys think of this scene from the Big Bang Theory? (Spoiler) Some women have their act together. Such women would say or otherwise make it crystal clear 'I want us to have sex.' Unfortunately society, in its efforts to promote men as the agitators for sex and women as the recipients of it, has created women who are not allowed to openly want sex lest they be seen as sluts, either in their own eyes or others. It has created a lot of women who want sex but in a passive rather than straightforward way. They want their male partner to be the initiator, to 'go…	/r/askTRP	18/12/15 10:26 AM
1	Can Men & Women Bed Friends? (vid) Yea, you can be friends, all that’s required is you don’t want to fuck each other, not really rocket science. Sex between friends from alcohol/drugs, yea, I lost a friendship that way. But its a screw up if you get drunk and smash your mates shit up. Screw ups will bust up friendships but I am not sure why sex is seen as more special than any other screw up.	/r/MGTOW	29/07/15 11:06 PM
3	Why are older men looking at women half their age? ~ The Lamentation Hmm. I dunno. I spent my twenties in the company of older women. Age has never been that relevant to me. If I could say anything from my experiences it would be that older women want younger men just as much as older men want younger women. Many women would love to be Helen Mirren (whose sexual relationships with much younger men should be well known). However they feel they will, either, be judged harshly for 'cradle snatching' or feel they lack the 'sex appeal/style/status' to be able to carry…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/03/15 11:48 AM
2	Hey men, catch up with feminism, now carry my bags.... "Gillian Anderson on Feminism, Being Asked to Smile, & Not Feeling Sorry For Men" I sure as hell hope you have same fame to back up that assertion.	/r/MensRights	10/02/15 11:21 PM
3	So... I got banned from r/Feminism and r/AskFeminists for one post and I'd like to know if this post was ban-worthy. I got banned from one forum because I said that Belle Knox was not a feminist and was not doing feminism favours claiming it as a platform. I got banned from another for suggesting that women like men who are hung more than feminists are comfortable admitting. As someone else said its an echo chamber. Even feminists of a particular mind set have specific forums they share their views in, quite literally what they write would be looked down on and mocked in one forum yet held up and admired in an…	/r/MensRights	23/12/14 08:53 PM
8	After a woman murders 8 children, after the media was blaming men for the Sydney siege, Sunrise brings on the CEO of Australias National Research Organisation for WOMENS Safety to talk about how men...are the killers of children mostly? Fucking seriously. This is not a sub that deals with protecting children, there are others that do. This is a sub, like any feminist sub, that deals with how one gender is seen/portrayed/processed in a wider social context... at least that is what some people try to do here. In regards children it does not protect them to imagine men as being more of a threat than they are while imagining women to be less. In some ways 'violence against children' is simply subsumed into 'violence against women and children' (450,0…	/r/MensRights	21/12/14 07:15 AM
17	After a woman murders 8 children, after the media was blaming men for the Sydney siege, Sunrise brings on the CEO of Australias National Research Organisation for WOMENS Safety to talk about how men...are the killers of children mostly? Fucking seriously. Did you even watch the video? Statistics are not the problem, the problem is that sections of feminist thinking project women as having diminished agency and maximised 'purity' as a matter of course. An 'evil' woman cannot be allowed to exist, nor a prostitute who is 'content' with her work. Bad choices and actions must be transferred elsewhere, ideally to the patriarchy if possible. The desire to give women agency and laud them when they make positive choices and achievements and the desire to …	/r/MensRights	21/12/14 02:10 AM
2	Man Gets Harassed Over 30 Times In 3 Hours Walkin… I guess what you are saying is harassment should incorporate a level of perceived threat, beyond inconvenience, annoyance, inappropriateness, etc. Not unreasonable. Another problem you can see in this thread is that 'alpha' men are ridiculed by other men who would love the same attention. Truth is they would enjoy it, for a while, not unlike being fed chocolate. However once your belly is full and you say 'no more' but it still keeps being shoved down your throat you suddenly find it gets real o…	/r/MensRights	15/12/14 10:24 PM
2	A former Texas nurse poisoned and killed up to 46 children and was sentenced to over 150 years in prison. She will be released in 2017 to prevent prison crowding. (x-post from /r/todayilearned) As a ratio to population.	/r/MensRights	15/12/14 10:37 AM
1	A former Texas nurse poisoned and killed up to 46 children and was sentenced to over 150 years in prison. She will be released in 2017 to prevent prison crowding. (x-post from /r/todayilearned) America has an insanely high percentage of prison population compared to other developed countries. Umm... not exactly... it has the highest rate of incarceration of any nation on the planet.	/r/MensRights	15/12/14 12:30 AM
2	We Should Name Rape Accusers: It is time to lift the veil of anonymity They do already. edit: Though I guess that depends where in the world you are.	/r/MensRights	10/12/14 06:36 AM
2	GTA V removed from Target's Australian shelves. The reason? Not violence in general, but specifically violence against women. So mass murder by the thousands = a-okay...as long as no virtual women get killed in the crossfire? Suppose a great deal of 'feedback' is brought upon your company to do something. Perhaps one route you take is a generic 'family oriented shop' press release, as The Warehouse did. Of course that is understandable, not just because it is reasonable but because it is the safe way to proceed with such things. But suppose you, for some reason, want to communicate what the driving core of that feedback was?	/r/MensRights	03/12/14 09:29 PM
1	Piers Morgan on rape of Shia Labeouf Then if a woman were engaged in a similar art piece and a man came up and did much the same as what is alleged it would not be rape?	/r/MensRights	29/11/14 07:04 AM
1	'If he can't be bothered to pay for your dinner, he can't be that bothered about you' There is no 'true' feminist, its like asking which is the 'true' religion. Put a sex positive feminist in the same room as a more conservative feminist and bring up issues of porn and prostitution and see the feathers fly. The thing is that unless someone is clued into feminism its not easy to recognise things that other feminists would also want to go to bat on. For example, 'Why women should never go halves on a date.' is just crap most feminists would have serious problems with. But why? Beca…	/r/MensRights	29/11/14 12:58 AM
2	'If he can't be bothered to pay for your dinner, he can't be that bothered about you' She may think she is a feminist, people can get all manner of weird notions, but just because she thinks it that does not make her a pillar of respectability for other feminists. She makes money and keeps her job by people reading her pieces and its easy to get clicks though controversy and pissing people off, it gets passed around.	/r/MensRights	28/11/14 11:03 PM
0	'If he can't be bothered to pay for your dinner, he can't be that bothered about you' Come on guys, its just click-bait, 'feminist' gets invoked for no other reason than the term is flavour of the month. Its actually very much anti-feminist IMO. Try her other piece for more entertainment: http://metro.co.uk/2014/11/25/21-things-you-only-know-if-youve-got-big-boobs-4961964/	/r/MensRights	28/11/14 06:26 AM
-2	"The femisogynists talk constantly about how women are so interested in science, technology, and engineering, but when there is a major, groundbreaking story involving those exact subjects, the only t I was interested in the mission so I saw the shirt before shirt-gate got rolling. Frankly I wondered WTF he was doing wearing it. I understand the desire to be individualistic and a little rad because science to a lot of people can be dull, but if your going to wear a shirt so risqué you would get sideways looks at an anime convention you have gone a step beyond.	/r/MensRights	20/11/14 01:43 AM
6	[rant] paid maternity leave is bullshit It works like that where you live? Unfortunate. I have no idea what country you live in but when my bubs came along I took paternal leave, and that was a lot of years ago. In some countries paternal leave is specifically extended to fathers, ie, two thirds of leave for either parent, but at least one third must be taken by the father or is lost. Also, companies don't spread wealth to employees, what a fantasy, they spread it to directors and shareholders. That 10K you take away from a woman, god…	/r/MGTOW	29/09/14 03:18 AM
-4	10-year-old raped Afghan girl: An expose on the international corruption of feminism I don't really much care. Its a part of the world where girls trying to get an education are poisoned en-masse or just plain shot in the head. Where they are promised in marriage and get internally damaged through sex, some to the point of dying. All that is verified in AAA rated news services blah blah blah. Sheesh. Its like watching a house burn down while the next door neighbour is obsessing about a cockroach in his kitchen.	/r/MensRights	25/08/14 05:00 AM
2	Apparently I am a sexist for questioning by my 19 year old friend having sex with her 66 year old married boss and 36 year old co-worker simultaneously An odd thing to say I think. Do you also work for the same company as her friend or does your girlfriend work at the same company? If so then, yes, be very very careful.	/r/MensRights	13/05/14 12:11 PM
-7	Because beating up a man is funny... Something like this would have been funny in western society back many decades ago in the 50's. Back when wives were more commonly beaten and rape was impossible in marriage because the law said so. Hence the humour being in the incongruity of a man being beaten in a culture of entrenched machismo where women were more commonly beaten. Considering the kid looks 'third world' I suspect the same applies in whatever culture he is currently part of. Irony.	/r/MensRights	20/03/14 04:25 AM
10	Feminist blog doesn't understand the bias against male babysitters. Could it be due to the fear-mongering about males that this same blog has spread? Letter me expand on this: A man and a woman are at a restaurant eating a meal, on a 'date'. Its an OK date but the man is not 100% sure he is interested in her. In the middle of the meal she gets a phone call from a guy she says is a 'friend'. The call puts the man off, he losses all interest. Now reverse the situation, the man gets a call from a lady 'friend'. Men get embarrassed by this because they think their date partner will feel the same way they would in the same situation- put off. But …	/r/MensRights	19/03/14 09:07 PM
1	More than 120,000 men in Texas who aren't the biological fathers still on the hook for back child support. http://staffweb.hkbu.edu.hk/ppp/HKPC/Genetic_Counseling_Intro.htm Google as much as you want for more. Reference the section on 'The Decision' (and read the whole piece for an understanding of paternity and ethics of disclosure) I do not know how they calculated those Texan figures, the numbers seem wrong, it looks like they took the 1.5% false paternity baseline and made an error in who it applied too. But on the other hand its a complex issue- paternity tests are sought by men when they feel t…	/r/MensRights	19/03/14 03:52 AM
1	More than 120,000 men in Texas who aren't the biological fathers still on the hook for back child support. If this number were true, that would mean 120000/(26000000 .497 .623) = 1.49% of all adult male Texans are on the hook for child support for children that are not theirs. That estimate seems a bit high. As I posted in the other message 1.5% is thought to be the best guess. But you don't comprehend the scope of this, it has nothing in particular to do with child support at all, 1.5% represents incorrect paternity in the entire population- men who are said to be fathers or believe themselves to be…	/r/MensRights	19/03/14 01:57 AM
2	More than 120,000 men in Texas who aren't the biological fathers still on the hook for back child support. Well, mistaken paternity is estimated to make up 1-3% of births. 1.5% is the most realistic estimation. If 1.5% of mothers were leaving hospital with the wrong baby because of a mix up the earth would shake and the sky crack open with fury. Yet 1.5% of men are in the situation of not being the father and society would like that to be buried, even to the extent of lawmakers suggesting both 'parents' must consent to a DNA test before one can be carried out.	/r/MensRights	19/03/14 01:34 AM
-2	"Primary-school education is a crock, basically. It's oppressive to anyone with physical energy, especially guys," pointing to an obvious example: the way schools have cut recess. "They're making a toxic environment for boys. Primary education does everything in its power to turn boys into neuters." "She sees the tacit elevation of "female values"—such as sensitivity, socialization and cooperation—as the main aim of teachers, rather than fostering creative energy and teaching hard geographical and historical facts." Yea, lets not teach boys about sensitivity, socialization and cooperation, you dont want to risk ridding the male gender of entrenched alexithymia, it would put feminism out of business. You need to mould boys into the legendary heroes of old manhood to keep perpetuating the sam…	/r/MensRights	17/03/14 12:45 AM
2	Feminist sexuality clarified; Women who choose to be with men have been tricked into thinking they need men to have good sex. Women who choose to be with women do so because they see men as dangerous, 'Thirsty beasts'? This has a most remarkable ring to it. Rock band: 'The Thirsty Beasts' Couple meet for first time: Her: 'So, can you tell me about yourself?' Him: 'Well, some say I am a little dangerous, they call me a thirsty beast.' Her: 'Drink me..' Only works if he looks like a tall handsome vampire of course.	/r/MensRights	15/03/14 10:50 PM
2	6 Manipulative Things Every Girl Should Do When Dating (I wish this was a joke...) It is a joke, just not a good one.	/r/MensRights	23/02/14 10:20 PM
2	Male privilege at it's finest: two men stop to help injured woman, give first aid and call 911. Police beat up and imprison them. Not at the moment, but with the highest per capita rate of incarceration of any nation on earth and a distribution of wealth akin to Brazil rather than any first world nation you can be sure that women in the US will achieve equality in treatment in a couple of decades. They will, however, not regard it as a triumph of feminism.	/r/MensRights	18/02/14 09:30 PM
1	The politics of misandry No, its just that controversial shite gets a lot more attention paid to it.	/r/MensRights	11/02/14 07:08 AM
1	One of the best critiques of anti-pornography feminism ever written... All this was thrashed out in feminism during the great Porn Wars. The most common feminist position today (ie the middle ground between sex-positive feminism and rad-fem) is that its fine for individuals (men or women) to enjoy porn. In a relationship, thrash out the attitude to porn as a couple (along with smoking, junk food, snoring and whatever). Current mainstream feminism is of the opinion that commercial porn does no favours for either women or men. It thinks that the vast bulk of commerci…	/r/MensRights	10/02/14 12:21 AM
2	I'm Trying Really Hard to Raise a Feminist Son. Article hits me in places. Trying so hard yet failing so badly and not even realising it. Epic.	/r/MensRights	30/01/14 02:37 AM
4	Just saw this posted on Facebook. Textbook example of a straw man fallacy. Ultimately if you do not find someone sexually desirable you cant easily magic that up, since its a gut level feeling. Sure, you can rationalise the 'friend' would be great for you at a higher level of conciousness but your in a deep problem. Only three possibilities are open to you, you either compromise your sexuality (which does not work out long term) re-examine your sexuality (if what you desire does not sexually satisfy you) or rework your own sexuality (hideously difficult but possible, y…	/r/MensRights	28/01/14 11:05 AM
3	Obviously not real, but it reveals a worrying double standard It does not reveal any double standard, it reveals nothing but stupidity and malice. Having the clitoris removed is exactly akin to having the glans penis removed, the tip of your penis the foreskin wraps around. The thing that, if removed, would lose all your chances of ever having an orgasm ever again. Does that sound equal? Male circumcision is akin to labiaplasty in women. To make the jump to removal of a clitoris as comparison diminishes our rights by making us look like idiots.	/r/MensRights	24/01/14 11:46 PM