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DiscussionYeaNobody/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:54 AM
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Implying I'm going around demanding women be in a relationship with me and sleep with me or else lol....it's a complicated issue that saying "git gud" to doesn't wave away even though what you said is also true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:09 PM
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I'm perpetually online...there are no women around me lol I live up to the stereotype perfectly so you can breathe easy. When I said genitals I didn't mean it in the most literal sense....hot women effect what's said in a room....hot men effect what's said to them by other women....pretty privilege and all that which is related to what gender you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:10 AM
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Basically....the only take away I get from this quote is love people not for their genitals but because they are people....and that's just not how things actually work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:03 AM
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*shrugs* their problem no doubt....but when you put people in a box like that....but then suggest talking things out or seeking therapy....somebody is gonna listen to it. Maybe they'll say the same thing, maybe not, either way life carries on and men are shamed for being thirsty or a slew of other descriptors that boil down to tough luck loser....not really many options. Damned if you do, damned if you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:35 AM
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Yet in their eyes it does....it's something kept from them....they aren't allowed to have. Even if everyone else around them has relationship issues, the the whole idea of being in one is almost insanity these days....it's still a downer and it definitely belittles men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:23 AM
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that won't stop him or other men like him for wanting either a gf or fwb or really anything from the opposite sex...and I think that shouldn't be shamed, even if nobody is obviously owed it. In the end, if it boils down to paying or acting desperate....well that's their choices to make, it's the only path they see forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:15 AM
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More judgemental statements that many people think true, but does nothing to actually fix the world. Just admit you love things outside the realm of "normal" because if everyone were universally acceptable life would be painfully boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:31 AM
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And honestly I can understand that....you can't negotiate desire no matter how hideous and overweight you are....but nobody of course is obligated to provide either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:17 PM
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Yes, but they still desire sex. Is simply wanting something, but not trying to force it upon anyone else, entitlement?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:54 PM
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How? I'd not touch anyone who never gave me permission....if your example is about the guy willing to defend you or whatever.....I mean that just sounds like a decent thing to do as long as it didn't lead to other motives.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:48 PM
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I'm so lost here.....does yearning for human connection, most definitely including sex, imply entitlement now?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:41 PM
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Strong disagree if behaviors don't indicate as such....yearning for something is allowed....obviously nobody is obligated to provide but we're allowed to exist with thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:37 PM
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I can say that men who yearn for sex but don't act out do in fact exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:35 PM
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Problem is if they're getting it....they are lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:33 PM
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Except never in the history of ever has anyone said to themselves "wellp heard it here first, dat's lyfe lololol" as if the anguish is magically extinguished from information they already knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:31 PM
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Are they though? Perhaps they simply suffer in silence?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:29 PM
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but not mothers riiighhhttt.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:35 AM
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Pretty sure your opinion is center of the sun....and by your opinion I really mean most women folk lol. I may not be rich, but definitely fat and ugly thus fall into the "only way to have anything to do with women kind sexually is money" so just trash. Why not push for legislation to send us all off?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:14 AM
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True it's unfair to expect you to know anything about me. And these issues always end up boiling down to an individual basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:39 AM
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Why does it make me so angry then? I'm not a virgin and have had so many opportunities i didn't have to initiate to get....clearly it must mean I'm not cut out for a relationship but why does it make me angry?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:03 AM
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Yes yes me bad in every way fine
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:07 AM
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In a way it feels it....not logically perhaps but in spirit it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 01:40 AM
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People are allowed to want things other people have ect
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:27 AM
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I'm not sure how much that will even matter to those who understand the birds and the bees....who cares about whether or not you live up to gender roles if you feel entitled to sex anyway. Until everyone can get off equally and be satisfied from that, this crap will never end. Which of course is the point ultimately...division is profitable so.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:15 AM
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People are allowed xyz but not you, stop complaining.....is what I take away and that is exactly what creates a victim mindset to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:07 AM
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then why not just segregate all the rabble then? If we're that offensive...we should be at the back of the bus right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:53 PM
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talk about encapsulating the entire incel "movement" with this post lol....but hey if hate is what brings comfort by all means.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 10:26 PM
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You can't truly buy desire though....as an introverted man paying just results in awkward no boner situation and wasted money. Without vibes, sex is meaningless. You cannot force people to have vibes with you if you have none to share either.....endless give and take to make any of this work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:38 PM
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Some men don't have to do this....and you'd be surprised to know they aren't all CEOs or people with vast wealth....some girls are willing to give it their all to a guy they like unfortunately as the same desired outcome isn't usually reciprocated and obviously vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 07:14 PM
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I don't want to be but I'm also a useless selfish loser so there's that.....some men die alone due to being weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:35 AM
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How exactly is this enforced per se? Do they get butt hurt and rat them out? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:00 PM
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Because you validated him by giving him the time of day....for alot of guys that's literally it. Obviously not all men, above average guys who can pull don't give a fuck but for average men....being picked by you is like the greatest achievement in their lives basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 04:43 AM
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If a guy likes you, they will want a relationship even if you clearly stated you were only looking for a fwb type situation. I'm all too familiar with that feeling and it sucks because you know you come off as pathetic but it's basically just a reflex....like when the doctor checks yours with the little hammer thingy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:30 AM
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Maybe now, but it has happened in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:18 AM
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Go out, get drunk, and pull some bitches lmaooooo....the people who actually pull that off aren't anywhere near this sub lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:09 AM
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Dude whines about other dudes whining online....please tell me you see the irony. Yes, please tell me how stable your life is, how your 12 wives are, your mansions gaining value by the second, your various lambos you drive depending on your mood....by all means share your warm inviting life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:51 AM
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lmao dude you are delusional if you think that's all it takes for the types that complain online.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:07 AM
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You will never squash the insatiable and illogical desire for women....their kind are simply more desirable in every way in life.....even after learning that ultimately they aren't all that they're cracked up to be, the insanity still persists because the notion that getting laid every night is the way permeates into their skulls anyway and incel land here we go. If you want a world devoid of gender bullshit, make it equal. And right now, the only likely way that will ever happen is robot waifus…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:35 AM
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That mentality will never go away as long as women hold all the power in the sex game.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 08:42 PM
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Not really.....but it's one of those things that doesn't care about reason either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 08:41 PM
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Yes this is 100% horrible....but is it possible that the most common form of bitterness is perpetually online men? And that if any women approached these men irl....the conversation wouldn't immediately shift to all that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:43 PM
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First point....I don't even know how to respond to that other then lol....the rest is a direct result of who you are and how reality has shaped you. A repulsive soul is a direct result of life...you didn't come out of the womb cussing and being narcissistic right? Point being....an ugly soul isn't a natural consequence of nature...it was created...and while that doesn't justify it in the now, it's worth considering if you give a damn about the why...if you don't carry on shaming the incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:56 PM
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You don't "get better"....you're already that by virtue of existing or you aren't...this fairy tale montage of self improvement and then women want you is just that. As others have said, self improvement should never under any circumstances be taken on solely because you think it will make a women want you suddenly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:46 PM
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Honestly don't think you even needed to meet most of those requirements...just not fat was always one lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:34 PM
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This right here justifies all the vitriol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:32 PM
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not a fallacy...it happened I lived it...whether or not that was because of the times or because I was literally 80 pounds lighter and thus better looking....that's debatable I suppose but better times regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:39 AM
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Dating was 1000% easier back in 2010
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:36 AM
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I don't ask anything....I just finished reading A Promise Best Left Unkept....and I just feel blank.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:01 AM
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It's definitely a me problem too....hence why I said I'd expect some fuck off type replies once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:58 PM
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adapt in this case is simply be attractive because I'm pretty sure that aspect hasn't changed much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:57 PM
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No doubt that plays a part....but also when you send message after message to nothing....you start to think....are these apps even functional anymore? Like....I'd expect some "fuck no creep" replies once in a while but just silence. Yes, I'm well aware of the volume most women get in terms of DMs online...but 0% replies is basically dead app imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:48 PM
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You didn't need to be top tier man 15 years ago....as long as you weren't fat you could hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:18 PM
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All I had to do long ago was say "hey what's up" and we'd meet....which of course was when I was 60-80 pounds lighter. Obviously the combination of looking like a fat slug now along with how dating apps have become effectively worthless....I'm mostly clicking on AI/bots/catfiish/girls 7,000 miles away.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:15 PM
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This thread is basically "ugly incels don't succeed" shocker....sucks to suck, git gud, blah blah. You will never convince me that people who are attractive have to put in any work to get into the door (relationship, fwb, whatever).....because I've experienced this myself long ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:40 PM
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It's an option indeed....but one that usually leaves you unable to even get a chub lol. The ranking system is bullshit, I might be a 0/10 but I still only will get hard to hourglass shaped women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:05 AM
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Agree with this post....why try to convince everyone? Women don't care what you do, nobody does. It does however seem more logical to look for hoes nearby rather then go overseas imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:01 AM
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Nah I just fap and complain lol...women need top percent men and the rest become meaningless losers to them. Either way life carries on till it don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:41 PM
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another post feigning ignorance of the fact plenty of guys confuse "support" with "please fuck me, kiss me, validate me as a man"....and I'm saying this as such a man lol. I wish there was an answer....I truly do but....you can't make people want other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:30 PM
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Can you truly explain away irrational behavior? Maybe to yourself of course, but you won't convince many others if I had to guess. You just watch the car crash happen in slow motion....because who wouldn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:17 AM
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Nothing will save hopeless men lol.....but either way catching a buzz isn't a bad idea. Sure you could do it alone without tipping a bartender....but part of the intrigue is soaking up humanity, even if you don't speak to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:45 PM
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Yet what people consider kinks isn't something anyone else can dictate. Sure we have laws for behaviors deemed too extreme by society....but that doesn't mean there's a magical force that prohibits said undesirable behaviors from happening anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:38 PM
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I mean not really....it's obviously possible but it's also entirely possible it's just bad luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:27 PM
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Not always about porn....sometimes it's about the chances you never took when they were presented in front of you on a silver platter. It's those rare instances that all men aspire towards with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:24 PM
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The majority of men have minimal or zero options the metrics speak for themselves on all the dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:43 AM
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lol @ thinking 100 swipes for 1 match of someone who's probably somewhere overseas is options
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:41 AM
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I mean ok? This thread implies anyone without a backbone is completely tone deaf to their own inadequacies based on the need to define the state.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 03:04 AM
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The only real solution is to cope with the fact you aren't it....or pay if transactional affection actually works for you. Otherwise it's the same old story, obsessed about it all till whichever hub video gets you off then the insanity washes away for a bit again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:57 PM
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I don't overestimate shit I know I'm fat and ugly lol....but the thing that's always underestimated is a man's libido as they get older. It's always assumed it decreases to the point you "forget about women" but that just isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:54 PM
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Porn is always the cop out answer
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:54 AM
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I recall liking the french movie "love"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:24 AM
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-90000/infinity probably lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:51 PM
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I don't support the notion that girls under the age of 18 (16-17 range) have less agency over themselves then the 18 year old girl.....this is as female centric an era as we've ever lived as a species and warning signs/what to avoid are as plain as day to all girls all the time via social media. The belief that all relationships that don't adhere to the strict laws we've established as a society are 100% predatory and the man is shit....I don't subscribe to those beliefs. Of course there have be…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:24 PM
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You're right....being with a women forced to me through whatever means wouldn't even trigger a single spark of arousal. So the idea of "forced" anything in this context is a total wash.....nonetheless the issue persists and there's no real solution in the immediate future anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:01 PM
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You can't speak away the insanity of life....just take comfort that if what you say is true....then you're good.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:48 PM
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Maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:17 AM
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No....not at all....clearly just entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:55 AM
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Not really....I think people are what they to be honest. Unfortunately that doesn't mean genitalia ceases to work so....here we are lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:09 AM
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Nothing...everything is hatred and want I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:08 AM
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Looks like plain English to me....though truthfully I dunno how accurate it is in terms of actually wanting to go it alone. I feel the truth for most lies somewhere in the middle....we crave women, but refuse to bend over backwards for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:57 AM
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The world is a jumbled mess of insanity and there is not a single cohesive strategy for life besides narratives people with power push. Kids cost tons of money, plenty of people see the downside of having them, here we are. Sex dolls already exist....but quite frankly I'm not interested in cleaning a realistically sized fleshlight...plus the ones worth a damn are a fortune. Dunno about artificial wombs.....gives me matrix vibes when Neo is unplugged from the system and we see all the pods. AI ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:35 AM
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2010 onwards if I had to guess....maybe a bit before. I can 100% guarantee you I had no more "game" back then, but was probably 80 pounds lighter at least so...."hey, what's up wanna chill" actually worked lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 05:58 AM
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20 years ago you could be like "yo" on a dating app and get the 3am hookup....it did in fact used to work in a way that was conductive to far less work, with looks being the most important thing. Granted, maybe it still works that way and I'm just a 300 pound jaba the hutt now preventing the same access....but I do think things have tightened up since then as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:31 PM
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Exactly....cause and effect. Yes, a whole lot of men have nothing to do with vagina...but we all share the same planet and finite resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:45 AM
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Because men and women suffer differently is the reality....but ultimately it's like telling a bum as a billionaire money isn't everything as you prepare to board your yacht. The words don't land.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:24 AM
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I think alot of men don't actually blame women, like seriously in ernest, shouting from the rooftops style....they just quietly yearn while not being able to get what they want through a combination of factors. Before you say it, yes complaining online is pretty quiet in comparison to stirring the pot IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:26 PM
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Nothing....overweight shut in incels provide negative value to the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:40 PM
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there isn't any advice for men....you either are ok with being single, angry and flailing into the wind, or already taken as you jump onto the bandwagon of laughter and ridicule of all the sweaty peasants (incel men) outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:54 PM
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Dunno....none of us do despite how strongly everyone is either protesting or defending ideals.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:10 AM
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As if this is something that ever could be explained away
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:07 AM
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Tell me how explaining that to men who can't get a single person to lay with them in bed will do anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:53 AM
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Even within the farce you've described...it's still easier to be female in regards to pulling attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:02 PM
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leagues are a bullshit metric because you cannot force yourself to be attracted to what you aren't and it goes for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:26 AM
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Most are thinking about how women don't even have to lift a finger and they have at least 500 dms....that's privilege.....options at your fingertips without having to put in any work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:55 AM
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Weak can mean a few things....not necessarily just physically weak (though plenty of that as well)....socially weak, mentally weak, unable to focus on anything that leads to a job, ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:11 PM
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Right...so again the whole conversation should be reframed towards getting these men into a job of some sorts. Working can open doors.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:09 PM
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I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say that what the OP is getting at is more towards an overall lack of ability to intergrate into society in a way that allows them to be independent....not being able to date is obviously a facet but not the most crucial one. Once they become independent, I doubt such a status would work against them in terms of dating.....or they could simply pay for temporary companionship. Either way, becoming self sufficient is the main goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:06 PM
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Look...I'm also just gonna lay the obvious out there....if the girl you're dating isn't attractive to you, you're pretending. Attraction matters, the magical fairly tale of personality trumps all is just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:21 PM
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I don't think anyone with even a tiny sliver of a functioning brain cell thinks this....but as one post here says...it's the collective behaviors that end up being something society has to consider, hence why prostitution has existed for as long as it has.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:49 PM
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Like everything in life, there's kernels of truth to what the OP says along with the inevitable debate points made within this post. If I had the opportunity, could I be adequate in pleasing a women? Possibly....I don't think it's fair to say even in jest that sexless losers are secretly "sex gods" or whatever....it only really takes one person that likes what you're doing, or pretending at least lol for any of this to matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:42 PM
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Not wrong....completely right. Problem is....I can't really control or properly dictate to anyone else what arouses me....and when you mix paying into that equation....it feels more like a scam despite it ultimately being the correct distribution model for these types of guys. I always say to myself that if somehow AI text prompts could be coupled with real life women....it'd be the ultimate solution for extremely isolated zero social skills based men who can't even make paid transactional sex i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 06:26 PM
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I agree...without structure or any sort of plan....general advice of this nature falls flat. Yes, nobody can know exactly what every single person needs/will gravitate towards, but saying "fix yourself" is about as useful as mentioning water is wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 01:17 AM
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It's not easy anywhere I think is the tl'dr summary I'd make
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 01:13 AM
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Drug addicts, lazy ass dudes gaming all day, not learning anything, not a single spec of work ethic....but 20 years ago dating apps worked and if even a bonehead like me could hookup, anyone could. Then all those women learned the hard way and here we are, a baby shortage as women wised up and standards increased ten fold to the point of "male loneliness" now. Little wonder they're trying to promote the nuclear family...been on the decline for a long while now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:56 PM
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They want people reproducing....but not just anyone because well....the last twenty years was the result of that refuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:24 PM
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Oh noes....biology is evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:07 AM
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Way I see it...the more you focus on women and obsess....the less interest/none whatsoever they have. The less you focus on women and instead on other interests....the more likely it is a lady chats you up....unless of course you're just legit hideous then it's forever alone or pay for a romp.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:53 AM
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I mean...who said I didn't? I posted it...it's mine....if I'm ridiculous, not an adult, useless, ect....fine...but I still said my piece. I don't consider it wrong...but that's simply where I'm at headspace wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:15 AM
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Because women flaunt themselves as objects the way they dress and act, further signal boosted by social media, creating fomo. You can say get over it, and we definitely try, but half the world's population is female so. Legalizing sex work is the only real viable solution, and while it's not a true cure....it's the best "incels" are gonna get until sex robots become real.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:58 PM
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Kinda like how depression works tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:29 PM
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It's almost assuredly a waste of money...if you're good looking you can catch someone on the line without that, just have to skirt the bullshit by leaving contact info any other way besides DM.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:39 AM
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We don't....it has never been what you're aspiring to. We've been killing and maiming each other for as long as we've existed as a species.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:33 AM
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They do this though...called the Tea app or whatever. Plus honestly I'm sure women talk amongst themselves anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:40 AM
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Desperation leads so many of us to whoever quite frankly....hopefully to someone without herpes but beggers can't be choosers really.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:38 AM
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I guess it doesn't really....just a parallel to balance your side I suppose. Everything all at once kinda thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:13 PM
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I think both can exist though....kinda living it as we speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:11 PM
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Nor can you tell men who want it that it's not all it's cracked up to be either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:09 PM
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Ok and that I'm 100% in agreement with....however do you really think perverts exist solely in the "can get their own" space? Also...let's not pretend this wouldn't ultimately be about money, it would be. Helping lonely men would just be the up front optics. And finally....prostitution isn't a replacement for desirability....and it can't be stated enough that men are more likely to be aroused from the right words then simply a naked women in front of them. AI robot gfs would be more of suitable …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:59 PM
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I'm sincerely curious...what would a man being a perv have literally anything to do with this proposed idea? Serial killer or violent felon sure...but being a perv is the bread and butter of prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:35 PM
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Pretty much....the signs are quite obvious even 20 years ago when dating apps actually worked lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:17 PM
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I think it can be both feeling that one wants or even needs love/sex....but also understanding why they are not getting it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:04 PM
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I skimmed....and agree yet nothing changes. TikTok baddies keep the bar impossibly high while average to below average men have nobody/their hand. Maybe good enough, but not enough to wipe away the bitterness from it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:53 PM
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Yep....the boiler plate format of "acceptable" dating is pathetic...."getting to know one another" can honestly end up being a one night stand turned into many nights/relationship if the vibe is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:26 PM
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That won't ever happen....because one gender, while having different struggles, still can obtain easily the fundamental thing that so many men struggle with/never even get. It's not unlike the saying "money isn't everything" when doing something that actually is contradictory to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:39 AM
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that might be true but you can't force attraction simply because you aren't "in the right league" or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:33 AM
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It really is....because if a women is attracted to you, they actively encourage being degraded (within reason of course) But if she is not, it turns into a morality thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:31 AM
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Having choices is still better then being invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 02:56 AM
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Ok...you called out that people want hot people....now what? Same conversations will continue all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:27 PM
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from the title tl;dr become gay which is not how any of this works
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:22 PM
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Pretty sure 10+ years ago I was still online using dating websites....but man were those days so much better. Also probably didn't hurt that I was significantly lighter too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:06 AM
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It also would never happen if it were reversed though lol....such is the times.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:02 AM
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Been hearing this my whole life, nothing has changed. Real easy to say any of that in a position of power/relevance (simply being female) these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 01:18 AM
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This is easily the fucking worst....this advice is dropped so god damn fast when a women finds a man she wants.Everyone else "treat me like a human" lol. Pretending it's anything other then you're not interested is fucking useless....you don't need to slam people verbally into the abyss, but stop virtue signaling over something as simple as you ain't into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 01:08 AM
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This is so easily flipped the other way lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 06:03 AM
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We will all be plugged into something akin to the matrix to get our rocks off.....STD free and no unwanted pregnancies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 04:45 AM
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Is this even a real question? You have a literal app that stalks men and tells you who's good and who's shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 04:22 AM
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Implying that a world where sex robots existed would be the same social constructs as now lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:07 PM
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But every time men say that women don't have to lift a finger and sex is there....it's always "but...but that's not what we want!" implying that the hungry wouldn't eat the crumbs left from your meal and you're over here complaining about the excess in choice you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 04:25 PM
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That's not how it works for plenty of men lol....that is how it works for women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 04:32 AM
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Yet that's simply not how it has ever been throughout all of human history. Control has played a part of our lineage as a species since we crawled out of caves. Bet your ass there was some game of thrones shit going on even then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 04:27 AM
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Because it's biology and nature itself? Forces beyond trivial words we distribute amongst ourselves here?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 04:23 AM
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There absolutely is no true solution besides technology which is hogging so much of our world's resources as is, let alone to somehow create humanoid AIs with realistic human bodies that speak fluently and believably and will serve your every whim without question.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 04:13 AM
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This will never happen...it's like saying the world would be better off if everyone got along. Men inevitably want women and more then a few have absolutely nothing to offer back, whether that be personality, status, wealth, ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 05:33 PM
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It sincerely was much easier to land dates/hookups 20ish years ago....then all those women got pregnant and well...here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 12:44 AM
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I'd assume it's creating some type of gotcha moment where the girl can gauge a dude's entire life based on some setup she creates in conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 12:40 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 03:49 AM
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I don't know what world exactly you live in, but they have. If anything it feels like you got this mixed up and it should be reversed. But I guess it all just boils down to anecdotes and personal experience lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:46 AM
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and prostitution shouldn't be illegal imo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 08:36 PM
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There is no way in hell most normal adjusted humans are going to side with people who piss and moan all day about no pussy. That's just not a hill to die on for the majority, even as one such mongrel of a "man" myself lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 08:26 PM
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Who knows....glutton for punishment or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 12:22 AM
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I don't think most anyone has adequate advice for anyone of any gender tbh. Blame the rich, you're lazy, bootstraps, late stage capitalism, you're an incel, you're a misandrist, hypergamy, yada yada.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 04:32 PM
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Only if put in extreme circumstances...the regular shut in gamer is just going to continue doing that, not suddenly become a raider instantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:28 AM
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I doubt people irl really care...this seems to be mostly an online thing, where yes, men generally out number women in vast quantities. The shame of not having a women is real...but then you turn around and look at someone else you know who is married.....probably unhappily. Every thing gets lost in the endless sea of bitterness based on personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:17 AM
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But the only reason any of that gets any traction is because so many men are simps. You can tell them how to consume media...but that would not change this behavior. All about engagement, as you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 02:02 AM
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What does media literacy have anything to do with horny men exactly? How do you squash that? Literally biology we're talking about here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 01:37 AM
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Of course it is....that's all reality has become....take a step forward, then several back real quick in the hopes to trip others up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:08 PM
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Nope...not even remotely comparable. Women can sleep with anyone they want of either gender, your suggestion implies that men have only half the same power. (Way less tbh since even on that app, dudes got standards)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:16 AM
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100% without even reading the rest of the post....no girl will make a guy wait if they genuinely like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 04:13 AM
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Probably not....the best that could happen is fully legalizing prostitution since that already happens in a vague, technically but not official way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:27 AM
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Awesome, glad to hear it. Just fyi though even partaking in this doesn't guarantee a dude or gal a good time. People like to think paying allows people to bypass the "connection" element but I can say....without a vibe it still sucks and you're likely better off just taking care of it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:07 AM
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When has telling someone something is overrated ever mattered to the person you're presumably scolding lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 02:50 PM
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Good luck, we've existed as a species for a long time. This thread is one of countless other voices that get lost in the sauce. If people want the noise to stop, there's really only one way of which I won't say but it's pretty obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 02:48 PM
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I hate anal tbh...just isn't comfortable. A hole that wasn't designed for my flesh rod.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:46 PM
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We need the visual element and that's gonna take time to make it streamlined and efficient. As it stands now, it takes way too much computing power for a few second long video.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 01:52 AM
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This of course assumes they cannot distinguish fiction from reality....in which case I'm in agreement with you it's not a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 05:10 AM
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But it enables it towards something that isn't real versus actual people having to listen to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 04:19 AM
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I mean....incels are already considered failures so what's another layer right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 04:17 AM
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It's still fun to create fiction with them....obviously it's not real but better then nothing. Just need the visual aspect and AI could almost be considered a partner of sorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 04:15 AM
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It's quite obvious that AI aren't real people....but honestly hearing anything positive from whatever it is, is better then silence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 04:11 AM
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Very true but honestly....at least with my own experience, we're already doing that even without AI lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 04:02 AM
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People do care...not because they give a shit about incels or loser men (nobody ever has) but because AI itself is a net detriment to the environment, communities, talent/employees, and social integrity (deepfakes, ect)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 04:00 AM
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Interesting point....would definitely appreciate less unwanted attention from lames...but not willing to go all in on the Skynet approach either so perhaps lames/incels are just a necessary evil of life?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 01:49 AM
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I mean...outside of telling people to "do better" what else? Isn't this better then being harassed with "hey sexy" from men who obviously only see you for one thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 01:16 AM
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lmao true when you break down reality to these conversations online it seems ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 04:47 PM
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Sadly it seems much less random then you're suggesting....looks get people in the door. Guarantees nothing about having a successful/healthy relationship, but it does get people in the door versus not having looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 03:48 AM
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Yea...I don't have a 20 inch cock nor can I hold you in the air sorry lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 01:17 AM
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I can't answer the science of it....all I can speak of is what I know and that is....the insanity of believing I want a women never goes away, even if it's not true. Even if everything I've done in the past indicates the opposite....it just doesn't go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:36 AM
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Nobody wakes up saying I can't wait to feel trapped.....and in the end maybe everyone being against one another is the only inevitable outcome of this "society".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:30 AM
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I agree that is the norm in terms of expectations....alas personality type isn't something I'm going to attempt to change, if one can even do that without being fake as hell in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:01 PM
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Yea you're probably right that most women wouldn't want to do this....maybe a few...maybe none at all. Either way, wishful thinking (again in measures, don't want a total control freak, just not someone equally as passive because two subs don't make for a good time)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:29 PM
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Depends on to what extent...too much of that you're right wouldn't work at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 04:56 PM
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I'd want the exact opposite honestly since I'm a very passive person
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 05:53 AM
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Because vagina feels good
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 02:45 AM
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What a joke to say it'd be as affordable as possible...if anything it'd be way more expensive...all the overhead involved in terms of security and medical costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 02:42 AM
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I disagree...the more thirsty you act, the less people respect you in a broader sense, at least as a man but women receive plenty of shame for that behavior as well. Thing is...it's an endless toxic feedback loop of you're trash because you just hit up anyone...but you're unwilling to change. Fine, you're garbage for that, case closed except not really because you still exist and are sending those DMs. Which erodes any respect anyone has for you....just a useless little child expecting something…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:35 AM
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You say deserving of basic decency and respect....but let's be honest...if they're DMing every female in their town via social media/dating apps....they're not getting that. Why shouldn't they try though?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 07:30 AM
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Even at 2-3 of those problems, is a man who cannot get female companionship, gf, fwb, ect still a human?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 07:16 AM
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slippery slope going down that road....once we decide death can be decided for one thing....who's to say it won't be decided for less in time?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 07:07 AM
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tl'dr being expected to control other adult humans who decide to do things is utterly insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 07:03 AM
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So in conclusion a sub class barely human, right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 06:49 AM
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Who cares though am I right? Nobody gives a rats ass about loser men who can't land pussy....yes I'll word it as crassly as possible because that aforementioned frustration is very real.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 03:52 AM
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Nobody gives a shit about dudes who don't try....we have less then nothing to offer the world whereas women, even the ugliest ones, have something to give or some spark that makes them give a shit about something other then porn and video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 09:44 PM
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At the end of the day the label neet and the label unemployed are interchangable really....if a neet could maintain employment doing something that fit with their life, they'd do it because it gives them money which in turn allows them to distribute it back to society one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 09:36 PM
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That will never fucking happen and you know it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 09:33 PM
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It sincerely was a different world 20 years ago for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:20 AM
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I think the uncomfortable truth for most humans is that this is exactly it....and not just men but women too. It's not even specifically a gender thing....it's just human nature. We preach about morality and teach it to our children....but we don't truly learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:53 AM
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But does it for every thirsty guy? I'd say no...else we'd be living in an actual dystopia right now with flaming trash cans, gunfire in every alley, and misery in general at 100%. Last time I was outside a couple hours ago....none of this was visible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:08 AM
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I mean....and? As long as this doesn't translate into actual real life harmful behavior, what's the problem? Everyone wants, even wishes for things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 02:33 AM
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There will always be people who want what they can't get either through lack of effort or inadequate effort....just how it is. Fee free to block what you dislike seeing...free country and all that jazz.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 01:40 AM
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You're free to hate me at your leisure and vice versa...isn't that what freedom is all about?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 06:24 PM
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People think there's such a thing as freedom, liberty, and justice for all....there most definitely isn't and attraction is included in that. Discarding gender norms won't fix people liking other people more for xyz reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:39 AM
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I don't have much hope for the future the way things are going....young people are better off not bothering imo of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:33 AM
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100% it's not necessary, only people with vested interest in that industry say otherwise. Love is love regardless of a sheet of paper or some priest saying you're together now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 06:54 AM
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This about sums up any conversations about anything of the people with flesh sticks and the people with flat land.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 03:24 AM
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And? I exist, I have shit genes, my brain likes what it likes....should we just be killed then if we're not acceptable? By all means...propose any solution beyond "do better" as that's the most fucking worthless platitude ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 06:46 PM
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I'm sure there are definitely people who don't care about it....but those people aren't the majority else there wouldn't be so many women complaining about unwanted attention/advances from other dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:33 AM
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Amen to this....assuming you're serious and not trolling lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:11 AM
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People fucking has always existed and will never stop being a thing...people fucking as lovers, as husbands and wives, as friends of husbands or wives, ect....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:07 AM
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We'll never move past that....sex, sex, sex, people see sex, they want sex regardless of their appearance or circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:02 AM
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I don't think it's as simple as that either....if incels are mostly introverted sedentary creatures, why would the approval of other men mean anything? Perhaps they derive value from sex because society told them it's cool and you're missing out? Perhaps they're living out their existential crisis wondering what could've been? Maybe they're just horny...of which case seeking out escorts might actually work if they're genuinely just needing physical release and their own efforts aren't satisfacto…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 04:29 AM
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Wait...what? If anything...those "basement dwellers" are very sex positive! That being said...I guess I've only myself to base this on...perhaps most take up some false crusade simply because they cannot get what they seek?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:04 AM
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Literally none lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:02 AM
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Sadly not mine
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:01 AM
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Younger people are dragging the average down because.....there's a perception of a disadvantage getting married versus just living together. Too much of our lives get legally tied up through the official song and dance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:06 AM
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A quick google search told me roughly half this country is married....that's hardly most everyone. That being said...I'll of course acknowledge that plenty of people will in fact get married. But using a term like most is a bit hyperbolic imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:50 PM
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Not sure about this....there are definitely ugly people whether it be genetics, mental health issues preventing someone from properly taking care of their hygiene, or both.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:32 PM
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Want me for whatever inexplicable reason lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 05:33 AM
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Because they're hurting inside and want to be loved....so instead of sulking, congregate with others who share hardline anti women stances to feel belonging somewhere, anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 07:42 PM
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Not really.....it's just that people avoid being uncomfortable face to face....doesn't mean the ideas don't actually exist. That "online" is some fantasy land based off of nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 07:39 PM
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Or none of the above if both people are compatible and just....live their lives? Happily even dare I say? Maybe the female doesn't have to assume the worst, maybe the guy doesn't just leave trash everywhere expecting her to take care of it.....shocking I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:22 AM
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I'd wager the women who make it that way already have broken/non existent families anyways because otherwise you'd be correct, the negative perception would be massively crippling.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:51 AM
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Prostitution is one of the world's oldest professions so you might want to include the state of men throughout the ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:49 AM
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I mean the thread could end with this post...I don't condone feeling this way....but reality shows me otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:42 AM
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Do you really think most men pay for porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:31 AM
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It'd be one thing if the actual models were engaging with the men that are supporting them....but I hear they outsource that aspect to AI or other people, probably dudes lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:24 AM
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It has everything to do with this conversation....certain games target the people with the most disposable income aka whales the same way OF models prey on the most desperate of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:22 AM
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Because it's pay for the illusion of care....it's not worth it to me at all. I'd rather talk to an AI and listen to that tell me what I want to hear for free...seeing as I've heard OF creators use AI anyways lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:20 AM
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Lol one of a kind stupid more like it but oh well. Probably what you meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:00 PM
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To be fair....at least from my own experience....some of us losers won't actively try to change anyway so....why bother, even in the best case scenario where everything said here is in good faith? Women aren't obligated to be playthings for people who offer up nothing to them...yes they hold all the power of sex and that won't change until technology but even then bet your ass the gatekeepers will skew it to their benefit anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:30 AM
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Words, more words, who cares? Been this way forever....been thirsty men all throughout the ages of humanity. Maybe one day prostitution won't have to exist...till then continue shaming losers or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:03 PM
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You can't get rid of human sexuality....you can imprison people who commit SA.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:40 PM
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Sounds like you're asking for them to bust in 1 stroke if delaying is the strategy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:35 PM
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Ok and? Is this a gloating thread that men will have even less opportunities to find intimacy? Or the typical "do better" platitudes? I'm not entirely sure what the intentions are here other then what I've described above. No matter what happens....do you really think a world where women shrug off men 100% will ever exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 08:34 PM
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This is the only cheat code....and that still guarantees absolutely nothing of what we humans consider "true happiness"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:41 PM
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lmao also ask for marriage instantly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:38 PM
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To play devils advocate...what exactly do you expect anyone to do/say to people who won't change? Nobody is owed physical love.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:46 AM
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I think most dudes here speak of hating the game surrounding mating/being together/marriage rather then specifically hating women as a whole. After all that hate would disappear instantly the moment a girl gave any of us "below average" men a simple genuine compliment that isn't just societal NPC speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 04:35 PM
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Men are simply less sexually lucrative to women then women are to men...that's just how it's always been. Less to see on us...more to see on women means more desire in women means more value to more people versus men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:27 AM
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No we don't....as someone spawned of the technological age I wouldn't last on a farm or in any hard labor. The old ways are gone no matter how much people try to push forward....the only way to force their return is to eliminate technology completely. In other words, no
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 01:01 AM
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we can skip that term then...it's still a male problem now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:53 PM
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Oh hell no I believe the fumbling narrative too I've done it all my life lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:03 PM
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It's not unlikely there are a fuckton of bots on all those sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 03:59 PM
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I agree nobody is truly ready but obviously some handle it better then others.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 03:57 PM
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Suicide is actually really, really hard and very few people have the sack to do it. The people that do have overridden their programming from mother nature for self preservation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:43 PM
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Right...so why should women just give themselves to men who provide no incentives besides maybe if you're lucky a positive K:D ratio in Call of Duty?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:40 PM
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I don't think anybody said they were the only ones oppressed ever....but everything feels like it's leaning women these days....it's hard to not sympathize with feeling left out as a way below average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:06 AM
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No....this take is nonsense as well. People will easily see through this and your pepe will still be dry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 11:15 PM
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I think the phrase "being yourself" needs to be reworded dramatically....taking it at face value, it just allows losers to stay losers and continue to get nowhere with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 11:13 PM
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If anyone has to label themselves "good" they're doing it wrong and will be judged accordingly. Actions speak louder then words ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 02:27 AM
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And yet without the first one.....we probably wouldn't be here today.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 02:24 AM
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Because we're so cooked in our heads, probably in life too....that it's just delusions. Not unlike playing the lottery every day....only far more destructive on a personal level.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:44 AM
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I'm a glutton for punishment....I live in hell mentally every day and almost wish for people to shit on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:38 AM
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Does that make any difference though? Have you received less DMs for shaming guys? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:55 PM
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No.....but still the heart wants and pretending with women/men of whom you aren't genuinely attracted to...well that just doesn't work from my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:51 PM
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0 terrible thing that sucks up oxygen and is the downfall of civilization ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:49 AM
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Being attractive is the most important thing to be honest....I'm not talking super model attractive as that's not realistic but most would probably be happy with a 6 or 7 if they happen to be a smudge above the average line.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:21 AM
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True...and I'd wager that is a fair amount of humans period let alone just single men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:58 AM
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There is absolutely nothing to be done as far as men and women are concerned. It's a combination of nature and our economic systems that keeps things the way they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:19 AM
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Forget your biology....embrace anything else because the opposing group said so....in other words no.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:06 AM
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I think he actually said he did just that during his school days....thing is that's just a house of cards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:58 PM
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This absolutely is normal......the only way this doesn't apply is if the girl/guy is just that into you by default that outside of the most egregious behaviors, you'll get a pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:57 PM
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Nothing will change....it's by design. The best we can hope for is technology further bridging the gap between below average incel type men and sexual gratification ultimately. Paying is too expensive, changing is something you're genuine about or it's bullshit....aka too much work for most imo (also important caveat, not a guarantee any women you're interested in will be interested back) I know people love to laugh at the "sex robot" idea but honestly....if it ever gets to a point where they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:41 PM
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Why are there so many lazy men is the better question?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 03:53 PM
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I have zero issue with women involved with anything UNTIL it actively deteriorates the integrity of whatever it is..."looks at the MCU for the last five plus years" when what genitals you have are used to virtue signal and weaponize people....then it all just sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:39 AM
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I mean...I'm pretty sure we're doing exactly what you describe...carrying on lol. And also....the first post hits it on the head...most people regardless of gender don't care about each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 03:46 AM
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Trust me that's already been happening lol....people will find a way and the devs will probably cave if the money is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 01:46 AM
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You can mentally....and it can lead to plenty of self destruction. A choice, as everyone is always quick to point out for their spec of clout in the conversation, but a regrettable road to take.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:50 PM
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Not being pushy yes....but if you just sit back and say nothing....then no...no women will come to you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 03:03 AM
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Just because they aren't actually viable options doesn't mean it doesn't count.....again it's like saying money isn't everything when you're in a position to say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:56 AM
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Why? I think a key pillar of an incel is the belief they are owed sex for simply existing....and quite frankly, as someone who also feels this way, you cannot reason with that in any way, shape, or form.
/r/MensRights11/01/26 04:43 PM
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Yet the proof is so obvious when you have 1000 dms on any social media website.....you will associate with barely 1% of any of them and only because those few were already people you knew irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 05:52 AM
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Soon enough higher level thinking will be reduced to terms such as incel, chads, ect.....we're base level creatures and that's not something you talk or honestly even teach away. It takes a colossal societal push to get rid of things....and as the saying goes...the more things change, the more they stay the same. Basically....hope for a quick demise so that you can leave this circus.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 04:15 AM
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What a startling revelation....you've cracked the case genius.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 09:06 PM
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Not really....not without putting in any effort to receive it. If your only activity every day that keeps you afloat mentally is crack....not a whole lot of room for love there imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 02:59 AM
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The problem with this is that we have to then define what "garbage" even is....and let's just say that's a can of worms that you won't succeed in convincing everyone of. No doubt you will default to the lowest hanging fruit....but honestly....if you had to listen to them beg and scream in front of you....might you not reconsider their humanity compared towards your own?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 02:54 AM
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But honestly....it's also because some people are so shitty that they don't deserve one as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 02:48 AM
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The only solution is sex robots or something so realistic in the VR realm that it tricks the mind into thinking it's real....but otherwise no the imbalance is just nature itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 03:44 AM
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This is like saying stop doing anything I disagree with...honestly we all wish it were that easy. You could wish away degenerate men such as myself and us lame incels could wish to be worshiped by women. Power of positive thinking or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 07:41 PM
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I didn't even read the text of whatever this post is supposed to be.....I get it...we want fuk....and we don't get much fuk when we're suboptimal humans whereas women get all fuks no matter what type of human they are. Still.....nobody will side with anything that says feel bad for men....just kinda how things are structured currently. Maybe things will change, maybe nothing will change, meanwhile just cope best you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 07:25 AM
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Who cares? Nobody does.....men are losers if they whine about lack of romantic interest/sex or whatever.....so as one of such aforementioned losers...the only way to cope is to continue masturbating, seeking out escorts despite the terrible value proposition, realize the very real risks of such an action, turn away back to masturbation, rinse repeat till someone eventually throws you a bone, no doubt hideous but your behavior is equally that so....and it's at that point you either accept your fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 07:02 AM
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Curious why it would matter what an escort thinks of a man? They already don't think much of themselves if they're paying imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:14 AM
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It's not the best option...but in lieu of any others....why not I guess. Well...besides the whole it's illegal except Nevada and anyone in that world could be a cop at any point. Saying that nobody cares doesn't alleviate those concerns.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:10 AM
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The fact that this is still even questioned is absurd....yes I get it there's nuance to it...more possibilities doesn't equal better chance of finding what said women wants.....but comparison is always the thief of joy so....telling that to an incel is like saying money isn't everything as you laugh sailing off on a yacht.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:58 AM
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negative if their only reason for doing it is so that they can get laid....the more you hyper fixate on women, the less they want you no matter what it is you're doing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:41 PM
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Because self improvement for the sake of pussy is fucking stupid and more importantly not even a guarantee of said thing. Then, for the sake of argument, you've climbed the mountain so to speak, you've shed the pounds, you've made friends, hell you even got a job. You've become respectable....then suddenly you find yourself a gal. Congratulations....you can now join the rank and file of miserable pairs either "together" or married. Point being....there's no end to the tread mill of life, no guar…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:31 PM
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Capitalism.....create scarcity (high value/attractive women) and then make the other side look like fools....the puppet masters laugh to the bank while we all fight over nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 07:56 PM
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Self improvement is such bullshit....you're either already working on yourself by virtue of simply existing or it's not in the cards in any visible capacity. Yes, you can't force women to be attracted to you....but waving off grievances as "look in the mirror" is like tossing fuel into the fire. It's just one day at a time till either I perish, or I continue to persist....the only constant is that I still am turned on by women regardless of how useless I am to the ones of whom I find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:18 AM
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Which is why I can only hope technology can bridge the gap between loser men and unsatisfied women....cause the way it is now isn't' much fun for anyone really.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:59 AM
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Nope not met her yet lol...my sparkling personality just begs the question how amirite? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 03:32 AM
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No advice given on dating/hooking up/situationship/whatever the hell people wanna call it will ever matter lol....you simply have to work with what you got even if you're horribly disfigured, socially inept beyond comprehension, or a soul blacker then satan himself. Pay, wank, or "go your own way" or whatever lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:56 AM
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It's either everyone deserves merry christmas or only most people, which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:26 PM
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Still...this message we're currently posting in implies everyone so.....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:26 PM
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no not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 01:03 AM
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No different then crackheads or any other action that's negative yet people still continue to do. It's an ugly world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 10:39 PM
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Some of us will do whatever it takes to get it regardless of the consequences or futility.....Just how it is. Not much different from crackhead.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 10:27 PM
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lol right....go figure people say "looksmatch" but it's actually a pretty rare thing. Everyone always trying to punch above their weight so to speak....and I don't even blame them because you can't force yourself to be attracted to someone you aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 01:34 AM
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if by "looksmatch" you mean overweight the same as they likely are.....ehh I certainly disagree. I cannot force myself to be attracted to an overweight women unless her face is exceptionally cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:51 AM
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Hasn't class systems existed since we have? There has never been such a thing as equality for all....that's simply not human. Some are smarter, some have more personality, some have looks, charm, ect, ect. The rest that have nothing....well....are forgotten.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:48 AM
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All I know is that I get easy boners with chat bots that roleplay as whichever fantasy I'm imagining or good adult virtual novels. The same cannot be said for real life encounters I've had with women in my experience. I'm quite positive there's more to it then just a body....though how much more is certainly debatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 01:03 AM
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Location is simply such a cop out answer to this issue....you can't just magically relocate and expect women to drop to their knees upon arrival. Even in foreign lands, I'm pretty sure that's not how reality works unless you are wealthy beyond comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 12:58 AM
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More likely just an aging populace that will get sick and die alone.....grew up and still live in an era of endless stuff....meanwhile the "rage" broadcasted is temporary at best till the next emotional pacifier.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:01 PM
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Sure....but if you never can life is so much more difficult when nobody gives a shit about you. Any number of things can happen that, because you have not a single soul in your life, cause you to perish simply because nobody is around.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:25 AM
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While I agree there is a certain level of subjectivity to attractiveness....I also feel there's a general baseline where most men would agree she's smoking hot. Not everyone obviously....but more then not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:21 AM
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Because that's what it feels like....if you're ugly, fat, both, or if you have shitty tendencies that cause everyone to ostracize you....then yes reality feels exactly like this. "Looking inward" or "touching grass" or any slew of other typical replies are dumb because they are vague platitudes that don't narrow down anything said guy would do realistically to "improve". Of course most people will say that this means you're a shit person and you deserve what you get....and thus the cycle never c…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:16 AM
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It doesn't actually matter what the truth is....it's what reality is and what we see, even if we're just being dangled along on puppet strings.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:56 AM
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This one time.....at band camp....we blame each other because reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:32 AM
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Still exist....when they're barely breathing in a hospital waiting room I guess you can take comfort in knowing something makes sense in reality. Doesnt replace the terror of not wanting to die even if you've lived a shit life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:52 PM
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Not really accomplishment but rather immersion.....the same feeling of getting lost in a good book really.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:39 AM
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Considering my resume includes lives at home, gaming, and porn........absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:37 PM
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I'm not facing anything....when I look at the overarching plot of our current reality.....I realize that there will come a day where an argument over whether or not women will fuck me would be a welcome distraction compared to what is in that moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:35 PM
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I think that was the aforementioned "growing pains" which is true
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:30 PM
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This is completely useless for the average man....tickets range from 1k to 9k.....righhhhtttt.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 03:44 PM
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There's definitely truth in what you say....but sometimes it might really just be as simple as not having the right spark to talk up a gal either. Nobody can read minds.....though I do think society would be pretty interesting if we could.....or completely turned to ash potentially as well lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 03:30 PM
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Wrong....as others have pointed out, it's about genuinely being wanted. Everyone wasting time with "self improvement" advice just are pouring more fuel to the fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:56 AM
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Wait...so it's creepy to be old and still get hard ons? I mean...yea optics wise fine...but I'm not entirely sure the label is completely fair. As for hitting on people not asking for it in an irl setting....100"% yea you get the creep label.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 05:11 AM
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Pretty much....any arguments against them from average women are useless....you're either preaching to the choir amongst fellow women or talking to starving peasants aka most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:50 AM
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Yes, no, maybe? Not contentless rhetoric....sincerely do not know. Maybe this would work, maybe it'd be too weird. I do know that even now, you can talk to AI and get colorful replies. The way you frame this scenario....you'd never say anything more then "yea" or "no" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 11:24 PM
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Problem with this is all anyone can say is "better yourself" which is a fucking worthless platitude. Nobody can know what each and every single person needs to do to improve themselves, it's going to vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 12:35 AM
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That is impossible when one is an incel and just views women as holes. Sure there are probably reasons why anyone is this way....but that means nothing when no effort is made to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:57 PM
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You will never get rid of people who want sex and want to bypass everything you're discussing. If anything, you should be for it since it weeds out the dishonesty in the dating game right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:12 PM
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Why though? Men who are "awful" will always want ass anyway and will try anything. Why keep them in a"moral" (lol) society?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:09 PM
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Always the least respected gender when it comes to sex....because having a penis we bad. Because we have desire, we bad. Because we're mentally/emotionally not compatible with what a women wants in a relationship...we bad. Everything man bad. No wonder men gravitate towards more extreme ideas. Men wanting ass without ultimately being able to commit to anyone will always exist. Instead of wasting time with judgement......hurry up and get the sex bang bots made.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:04 PM
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At this point....several beers and shots deep.....the only thing equal in life is that we all expire eventually. Everything else is just someone else twisting shit for their benefit regardless of whether they have a pepe or flatland. A random man doesn't go up to a random women and talk about patriarchy and matriarchy and misogyny and misandrists lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:10 AM
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The gender war is happening because....men and women are different and both sexes find it impossible to reconcile that fact. Not that there aren't bad actors grifting off it either....but at the end of the day, women have more to look at....therefore are considered more valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 11:09 PM
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Even if all the strife is rooted in puppet masters and manipulators....that really doesn't matter. You can tell people the truth point blank....it has never made much a dent in stopping the madness of how we do things. We're emotional....people who understand this the most rule the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:09 AM
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Government doing this means their only interested in procreation....which ultimately turns this whole thing into a rapey situation which honestly kills the vibe when you're trying to get people to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:16 AM
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And when shame doesn't work and you have angry people anyways? I guess we're living that reality now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:34 PM
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Suppose nothing is...just endless "waa feel bad for me" right? Trust me...if I knew how to become a normie, and more importantly to give a shit about things that make me that, I'd be on it already.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 05:01 PM
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Pretty sure there was no whining on my end at least....suggesting that being called immature and ungrown would result in the conversation going nowhere ultimately is not what I'd call that imo of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:34 PM
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haha who knows....carry on. I've provided my .01 of a cent on the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:05 PM
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It's just shit for men point blank....women have endless choice. Yes that endless choice is 99.9% shit no doubt....but it's like saying money isn't everything when you're in a position where you can afford to say that. Everything about life isn't balanced, capitalism only works for enough people, not everyone, and dating follows that same playbook.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 07:25 AM
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and most importantly....not violent nor truly misogynist. But it's easier to use a recognizable label then to use nuance for every single person so whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 07:14 AM
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You had me first at cultivating a social life and skills....which I agree with. Then you went back to nonsense with using terms such as "grown" and "maturity".....guaranteed to lead us right back to the start lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 02:50 AM
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Most likely you're right....but even if the thought of being the next scandal in the news isn't on an average dude's mind......the art of communication period has gone way downhill I'd wager. Approaching an attractive women is still too intimidating just for the simple fact nobody wants to feel like they messed up or acted stupidly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:00 AM
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It's the times...any action, no matter how slight, can be see as inappropriate by women and can have severe consequences for men in society. I'm not saying that's every women's intention...but once a plane crashes or sharks have been sighted on a coast, people become wary. Just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 11:43 PM
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I think it's both....men want to feel wanted/desired....like they matter....but only during moments of intimacy. After that....it leads to the irritating/annoying/suffocating feeling. Kinda tedious really....be lovey dovey until you've done your job then I'm just a piece of shit who wants to leave and do what I please. AI really does seem like the most suitable alternative that can satisfy both schools of thought....though for now in just text format it's obviously limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 11:07 PM
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I still think the vast majority of men would not partake in r even if it were legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:22 PM
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Fair....it's no different then people criticizing so many other things in life considered sub optimal. We're still all navigating this hellride best we can even if it doesn't seem like it from the perspective of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 05:38 AM
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But thing is...people still exist in the world and as long as they aren't directly harming anyone else....I don't think outright ignoring people because they can't get women is a worthy thing to preach. Yes lots of men are lonely and without anyone.....shitting on people who already live in hell in their minds is like kicking a sickly dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 05:27 AM
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What you describe is in fact a mental prison and shaming people is less then useless since they live in hell already.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 05:23 AM
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Perhaps we're not....either way the demons in my head continue to tell me I want something I know is so overrated. Then I see something or read something....and whatever it is illustrates that compatible people make relationships worth it. Or maybe it's just chaos and luck and nothing most people can try would change their success rate with any of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 02:35 AM
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clearly enough of us are...else the human race would've ceased to be
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 01:31 AM
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slippery slope....you give in to hatred to one group.....there's nothing suggesting hatred wouldn't permeate into other groups that become less tolerable over time ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 01:21 AM
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Curious on what don't even try means within the context of thoughts of men? Do men have to try.....to have thoughts on things now? If you mean in general, like improving yourself, touching grass, talking to other humans, ect then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 12:26 AM
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Meanwhile that dude probably hasn't been touched in years lol....I have not a single doubt those countless "options" are nonstarters....but the lack of anything is much worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 04:18 AM
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That's like saying people need to stop stealing, stop speeding, stop drinking and driving, so on and so forth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 12:57 AM
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You wanna know why that is? Spoiler alert.....most men are desperate for any attention at all from the opposite sex.....and of course that's by design.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 12:55 AM
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The aliens from Mars Attacks obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 01:01 AM
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Women would say easy....men stop trying to fuck women and see them as humans not portable glory holes...for men easy give me woman I need(want) it....so until we create AI humanoids probably nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 12:39 AM
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What if it's not cheetos that's the preferred snack? Too messy...don't want to get the dust all over my Keychron keyboard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:07 PM
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You attempted to demonize men by using the word "horny" which is just a normal human feeling that compatible people have towards one another. A guy who ends up married for 20 years was just as "horny" as the men you inevitably complain about now while courting his soon to be wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:02 PM
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I honestly don't care about that....I've not lived virtuously in that regard either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 07:48 AM
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You can't ultimately....but to assume every guy is going to do this is simply not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 07:30 AM
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Men will deny your "pump and dump" narrative....because it's absurd to assume every man is planning on ghosting you immediately after.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 11:09 PM
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I disagree....women know immediately if they will sleep with you. Sure some might try to wait it out....but plenty of men take this as friendzone'd which is kthxbai.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 11:04 PM
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Being horny is a part of craving women yes....plenty of people who're currently married were horny for one another at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 10:50 PM
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Who says guys aren't doing any of what you suggest here? It's possible all of the above are happening but still biologically men crave women both physically and emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 10:48 PM
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This is exactly it....especially the part where just because men want to fuck you, it doesn't mean they're gone before you open your eyes the next day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 10:36 PM
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Love....I'm ok with the drama if the up front is clear.....having ambiguity in a relationship is asking for trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 10:00 PM
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Not everyone obviously....but most people I suppose if we gauge this purely on an economic standpoint which one could assume trickles into other aspects of human existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:37 AM
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It's likely because it's perceived as so easy.....easier then breathing air for attractive women and certain men to get laid to the point of nonsense....and when the men who can't see this, inevitably the victim complex comes into play. Whether or not those views match reality.....unclear but either way the bar life/party life/any social event that might involve drinks and people leaving together at the end of the evening brings out that kind of jealous rage. But you're not wrong in questioning …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:55 PM
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Nobody will ditch individualism here....people don't want to live on a flat line in terms of behaviors. People don't want to feel constrained by everyone when they're able to do more faster/smarter/ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:48 PM
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The main issue is reproduction...if that grinds to an almost complete halt....then our population will die off eventually. Lack of relationships humanity can easily weather I feel in a technological age where being distracted and finding joy in things other then the opposite sex is easily accomplished.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:36 PM
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Women bad men poor victims....women good men trash lame fuck bois who smoke and game all day long....same old same old.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:26 PM
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I do not think legalizing sex work will do anything to cure "male loneliness" since it already exists even when not legal everywhere. This is more about the fundamentals of what men and women need from each other to feel wanted more so then just the need to cum. Anyone can get themselves off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:51 AM
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Most useless take #1023423453453246535464w575e674567
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:34 PM
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Wrong...only the "worthy" have access to them....the rest fill out the incel label because that allows power to stay with the few.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:32 PM
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I'm so tired of the term "neurodivergent" it's such an infuriating "soft" take on calling people freaks basically. As if anyone can decide how their brain is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:24 PM
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Ha that can easily be flipped with a few changes to accommodate men as well...which means this is a struggle for the levers of power and relevance for everyone rather then just the vagina holders....but yea I do hate how the vagina is the coveted thing that only those who are worthy can have. But I'm not taking up the space wizard to try to offset that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:14 PM
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I can't tell my brain what it should value over what it actually does....and I most certainly won't waste time trying based on past experiences. Round up everyone who doesn't meet some baseline and have us executed....prove that we learn nothing as a species and just go round and round. Witches, jews, commies, incels....it's always about the evil group and everyone who is so "obviously" above those.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 07:33 PM
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Nobody should be coerced into anything....absolutely not. As for any answers to anything known as the mess that is genders in our modern age...AI humanoids or something out of a sci fi movie I guess lol. The kind of tech that would require.....who knows if we'll hold it together as a world before it ever sees fruition.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 07:17 AM
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well it will never actually plummet to zero...since there are other ways to get pregnant besides doing the physical act. That being said....a world of sexless men could be a bad thing....way more so then just the fringe group of "incels" now. Why would sexless men vouch for any women in a position of authority when the last time they were touched by anyone was when they were a child? You may think of that as petty....but that's coming from a place of privilege. But the solution isn't obvious or …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:51 AM
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Suppose that is true....but even non good men who don't form into anything still desire women the same as good men. Giving us the tough tities suck it up buttercup response does less then nothing....if anything just expands the incel label.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:08 AM
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Except there's always more to everything....a basement dwelling neckbeard incel can act natural and attract absolutely nobody....a crazy cat lady can act natural and attract only the guys who want to plow, not desirable men who said women could see being with. Yes, I realize I'm painting extremes.....but bringing it back to normal folk there are still reasons why people truly can't be themselves fully with one another. But even posting this....I still wish it were as simple as you describe OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:37 AM
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And? Now what then? Where do we from that? Men will continue to do all of what you describe....maybe until eventually nobody touches anyone anymore and the human race becomes extinct or everyone partakes in alternative methods of procreation. But I'd like to think there will always be women that need the d regardless of those inevitabilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:22 AM
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You don't think....maybe there's a reason for those posts beyond "they're just losers" if it's a repeated theme?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:15 AM
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good luck with that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:10 AM
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It's possible to be a loser man and not associate with other men tbh....kinda how I operate at least. I'll watch youtube content of various interests....but never because imma man or whatever mind numbing words used to justify seeking advice. I come here because I'm glutton for devils advocate.....I don't only want to know my boring lame fboy take on things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:58 AM
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Is it really that hostile though? Outside of terminally online....are men and women truly going for the throat everywhere irl?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:19 AM
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I agree...it would be an imperceptible movement on the needle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:40 AM
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I don't think it's a given that men automatically attempt to improve themselves based on being rejected online...they can just keep trying or give up. Also, just because 99.9% of all the DMs women get wherever are bullshit....doesn't mean they don't have options. They're obviously shit options which are nonstarters...but they exist nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:15 AM
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This is exactly what happens because this is how power is maintained by those who've had it or seek to keep what they got.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:03 AM
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What? You mean to tell me they're lazy because they're not trying to break up their relationship/marriage to pursue different women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 10:46 PM
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Men get bored....you could have a 10/10 wife/gf and still watch porn because it's never enough. And define what "addicted" means in regards to porn because usually for me it's consumed till I bust then I have nothing to do with it till the next time. I mean...I don't really consider that level of consumption addiction...I don't even see the appeal of casually scrolling porn just because....it's always a means to an end for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 10:41 PM
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Child or not...still alive. Could be worse. So child keeps childing and you....pretend that "adulting" is fulfilling?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:19 PM
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Sex is highly connected to relationships, stop wasting your time trying to downplay it or completely abstain from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:08 PM
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It's life...imperfect and messy. You can't just say "stop doing something" and then brush your hands as if thats all it ever took.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:06 PM
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People know straight away if there gonna bang...and I'm sorry but if either person makes up excuses for this to not happen....that doesn't bode well for literally anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 12:20 AM
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Does the distinction even matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 11:27 PM
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Yet that's not what actually happens...of course I don't do anything inappropriate...but we're all thinking the same thing when we see girls who dress like that. If you don't want uninvited male gaze....get ugly is all I can tell ya. You can't pick and choose who gives you a passover with their eyes when you wear ripped pants or see through garments in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:05 PM
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Yep...always thinking with our dicks lol...of course when girls wear pants that barely conceal their legs or other attire that basically shows them completely...I have little sympathy for women who complain about male gaze.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 05:32 PM
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Oh yea? I got you beat....40 year old living at home no credentials lmao now please marry me and have 500 kids kthx. j/k ofc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 07:33 AM
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We probably are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 07:27 AM
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because no bitches life is pretty lame ultimately
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 07:26 AM
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We should all just not settle....but fact is that's not how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 07:25 AM
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Well I can say that most anywhere else on reddit what I've posted would be removed....simply because there's usually way too many rules in most subs for normal human dialogue. As for the normal discourse here...it's mostly anti men anti women back and forth....sometimes a bit more in depth though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 02:37 AM
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I think it's a little of everything you mentioned for most men.....what actually ends up happening is one of the choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 07:11 PM
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Good up until you realize they just want to get their dick wet....biology ect....but no women is obligated to serve any man in anyway. That has to be earned. The typical defense.....not wrong but also a solid impenetrable wall to keep dudes sexless which creates animosity. Not sure it really does much else...after all jerking off is adequate but the thought of getting the real thing becomes so impossible to said men that it distorts male/female relations when half of that equation has absolutely…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 06:51 PM
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I don't think there's any clear cut answer to anything. Every time I open my clap trap, I end up second guessing myself....so who the fuck knows really.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 03:07 AM
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In the matrix....the only way the blue pill was remotely worth it is if you could cut a deal into a truly desired facade.....that's literally the only way blue pill ever can work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 03:01 AM
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Nope lame basement dwellers won't get better...Will just turn to AI to be pathetic with lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 03:27 PM
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I don't look down at any of it...well except IG/OF/ect models because that's just bullshit and I'd rather fap and spend 0....but I know that ultimately sex on a clock is very unappealing.....I have no interest in my desires to be timed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:08 PM
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I simply fap to some here and there....if anything porn helps me by saving me from making poor decisions in other ways. Never had any restrictions growing up and watched many back in the days off kazaa.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:29 AM
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Every time I come on here I'm amazed at how much people can type over people who have dicks or vaginas lol. Yes we are not the same that is definitely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:32 AM
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lol @ trying to also find a video gaming girl.....this is the classic pitfall guys fall into...."she plays video games therefore she must be able to like me too" bwhahahahaha....no not really. I mean it's certainly a possibility in terms of a sticking point between two people....but I find that the gaming tastes are usually completely different....much like how not all men and women are the same not all gaming styles are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 02:24 AM
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Just curious....what is a "FA"? I'm guessing something incel/basement dwelling related by it's description.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 05:34 AM
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Right...but if things are on the up and up....women can actually go to the police if their business practice is legal. Though yes...I still say "in theory" because honestly what a piece of paper says and how humans interact with this scenario are likely two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 05:24 AM
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Nope....legalizing it won't remove the stigma of paying for sex. In theory it could make it safer for women....but it will never be made officially legal everywhere. The perceived scarcity and difficulty for some men to get laid is a part of certain business models anyway....if every idiot can go down the road to the local gals, who will pay for all of their stupid OF subscriptions?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 04:44 AM
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I disagree wholeheartedly....being able to talk is the biggest strength with women....then followed by status of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:39 AM
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I'm sorry.....but after reading so many of your posts....it makes my perspective seem way less wahhhhh lol. So much anti man nonsense.....is this like Olga in Hey Arnold where you put up the tough exterior but really you just want loving too?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 10:13 PM
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You're right....I don't want to. I exist because somebody shot cum into another person and that's it. Will you bring about policy to remove people from existence who aren't pulling the weight of either a man, women, or both? Bearing in mind that would get ugly real fast....but hey at least then the only people alive are those who ascribe to the gender norms of either men, women, or a little bit of both? Gotta break a few eggs to make an omelette or however that saying goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 03:58 PM
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Somebody has to keep the legacy of video games alive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 03:28 AM
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It's a tricky situation because on one hand....you're right not all problems can be solved with unlimited money but on the other hand....there are likely more then a few school districts that could really benefit from more money. We're not all the same, don't all learn the same way, don't experience all the same things and in conclusion it's extremely difficult to know where money should really go based on those factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 02:35 AM
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There's zero way anyone can convince me it's not easier for women to date then a man in a hypothetical sense at least. Yes I get that what women want makes their criteria so much more strict...and that they aren't going to just hop into bed with anyone. But fact is....that option exists for them even if they won't take it whereas that option does not exist at all for average dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 04:54 AM
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If kids don't care about the process of learning period....what can anyone do? Consequences can only go so far before they start negatively impacting everyone in a family unit. Not entirely unlike the gov't shutdown that ends in screwing millions of people because others cannot get paid/gov't bodies cannot function/greed needs it all. Everything is a precarious balancing act that can go sideways real fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 04:02 AM
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shrugs sounds like a personal problem...could go to 4b forums no men there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 07:34 PM
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Reducing it to "personal issue" won't make it go away either. You could try just....blocking dudes who talk about this or not starting threads like this that demonize men who want sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 07:30 PM
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Either way problem that happens to be more prevalent for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 06:59 PM
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But men care about their dicks being dry lol....shaming me or dismissing it doesnt make it go away either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 06:53 PM
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Of course....I enjoy living as I do. Society goes hard on telling me how wrong/stupid/loserish I am for a variety of reasons....but if we ignore all of that then yes...I would consider myself valuable solely because I can maintain my sanity mostly alone in comparison to others who need constant validation from other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 05:48 AM
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Yes and no....yes because other people dictate the norms of what is considered valuable....no because even with established norms....if I'm in a position to live a life that goes against the grain, I will do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 05:34 AM
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I mean...I don't want to die because we're inherently wired not to want to...but no I don't personally believe I hold any value unlike an OF model that commands endless followers and lots of cash simply by being objectively beautiful. That being said....the obsession with any of that ends once I finish and wipe up with some tissues so....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 05:20 AM
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But honestly...attraction doesn't care about that. Which always causes issues lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 06:24 PM
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The problem is that women struggle to find men with similar values and men struggle to find obedient sex dolls....meanwhile people are fighting and dying through wars and starvation throughout the globe. So.....yea first world problems indeed *carries on anyway*
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 06:22 PM
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Internal impulse makes sense unless it's specifically tied to something most people won't know....such as niche video games or mod communities lol. But I get the gist of this....it's the most genuine form of expression and works wonders if you have at least one normal thing going for you in life that you can share with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 12:02 AM
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Yea no doubt....losers are all a part of the economy. If everyone became intelligent....fast food would lose so much revenue overnight that a good deal of their overall operation would have to be shuttered as they pivot to healthier options. Thing is...we're not really wired to accept losers....people doing inferior things to ourselves always invites the sharp criticism that repeats itself until the loser status is unlocked, like an achievement in a video game.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 11:53 PM
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I'm going to second this....not really a single clue what's even being asked here. Do you want to burp publicly? Do you want to ignore shaving entirely, grow a neckbeard? Maybe ignore all responsibilities and take up gaming lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 11:41 PM
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Just saying....the behavior literally fuels an entire industry. So on one hand you view it as selfish but it's also by design. Sex is designed to be the thing you don't want to miss out on. "Touch grass" and other replies of a similar nature are always the go to fluff but money talks bullshit just stays bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:10 AM
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Meanwhile women thrive off that same energy....*looks at Onlyfans and the like*
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 11:42 PM
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Pretty much....but there's no other solution. You can't force women to give a shit about dudes they don't....so that by default only leaves bootstrap narrative which is also so much bullshit. So nowhere land is left for many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:27 AM
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100%....because the alternative, coddling someone with non genuine care....is even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:29 AM
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I agree with this post. That being said I don't look up dating advice period....for me it's like I'm a total shut in, fat, ugly, no social skills so if I want play I have to pony up cash. Which I don't want to do either because I never use condoms and the risk is there. So it's a matter of do I want to roll the dice or not, spending money I shouldn't be spending, and by the time I'm done wrestling these thoughts I've most likely finished myself off while watching some porn. Cost me nothing, gain…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:49 PM
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Has not a single iota to do with proving shit to any other dude, my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:38 PM
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Can you tell me anything specific why porn is bad in your own life? What does it do that is negative?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:29 PM
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No matter how many times people try to reframe this argument......the simple fact is women can get fucked whenever they want with ease whereas men cannot. I'm not saying that's what women overall want....just that that specific fact is absolute.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:18 PM
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Paying is only worth it if you're rich....else it's an entirely losing proposition. One nut a month or whatever you can afford which won't be enough, won't curb your desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 12:42 AM
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Exactly....and people love to shit on the idea of AI and call people losers....but I for one think if it ever gets advanced enough it could help. Of course it also has to take a physical form as well....but alas now I'm talking science fiction and who knows if we can keep it together as a species long enough for that kind of technology to be available on a mass consumerist scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 12:26 AM
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It is in fact mostly about not being able to get laid....the people who seriously are lonely get drowned out by the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 12:23 AM
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I agree...but I also want to point out that even after losing your virginity....feeling worthless due to lack of women is still attainable or already happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 03:31 AM
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Well one could make the argument that individualism allows for people to do nothing...which is useless for any community. That being said....the cons of collectivism sound far greater. Pretty much forget anything you ever enjoyed growing up....everything is conditioned to be the same....thus no artistic merit or anything that evokes emotion. It'd be like the movie Equilibrium.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 05:22 AM
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My ideal world is demolition man where we all strap on the VR sets and get immersive sexy time then we take headset off and don't have to deal with emotional fallout lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 10:43 PM
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Is there really any issue here though? Or is it just a case of terminally online toddler brained manchildren? I'm in the mood to see more then waaah the system sucks so. I think a better refocus is...what to do with all these "adults" lol..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:15 PM
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Men who simply "click" with them through arbitrary factors beyond any man's control?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:38 PM
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The very first time I ever heard the line "soul searching" I despised it with every fiber of my being and considered it complete bullshit. Yes, at 40 where I'm at currently....I have absolutely nothing to show for anything. The one thing I can say is I never pretended to be something I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:33 PM
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If rich people are your metric for success....well I'd hate to be the bearer of bad news but more then a few of them if not most of them live lonely lives despite being surrounded by those who "like" them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:36 AM
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clearly this is the goat strategy lol no doubt babe in each arm by the end of the this hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:32 AM
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Must absolutely everything be tedious rage bait these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:18 AM
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lmao no....we can be either so much more or so much less then this narrow view of "hopeless men".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:40 PM
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Because I promise you if the roles were reversed the man would be vilified for exposing a naked women. It's bullshit....whole story really is. Guy probably had creep intentions...women overstepped.....both were removed from platform. Events track to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 11:50 PM
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Yet women not only records this but then uploads to internet...big no no and puts her in the wrong as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 10:35 PM
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Wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:25 PM
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This whole story screams he said she said I'm sorry but getting rid of both people is the correct move.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:09 PM
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I'm not entirely sure you can deter people by telling them not to be/do something....that's what sex ed and DARE was for and well....here we are. Yes, bringing awareness isn't a bad thing....I'm just not sure how effective it really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 04:51 PM
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Plenty have said the same, myself included. Not sure most really care what people do as long as it doesn't negatively effect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 05:56 AM
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Even if that's true...what the OP describes is also true....which makes reality even more shit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 05:41 AM
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Who cares? Those men are already shamed....you can't double up the shame already applied lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 05:22 AM
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And yet people will do none of the above because nobody wants to die or suffer. Not saying consequences care about what people want.....but nobody goes "Yea, I can't wait for the consequences today!"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 03:49 AM
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Nothing....the hype for being in one is manufactured. People who know know, people who don't subscribe to the madness. People who've fucked up still subscribe to the need for sex....the one constant in all of it is that it's just manipulation. Life isn't any less worth it because I don't have a women, or a woman doesn't have a man. People will always date....and life will carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 03:14 AM
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Nothing I loathe more then the OF/streaming donations industry....like if you have to pay for female attention at least get actual sex from that transaction not pretend affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 02:54 AM
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Somebody gotta drink them beers!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:20 PM
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I never said I needed to be......if anything that sounds like a terrible place to be. Everyone under the sun up your ass crack 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:18 PM
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It's the endless loop of who's fault anything is....as we descend further into our own groups and beliefs of what's right and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:26 AM
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Listening in this case is the equivalent of getting spoken to in a language you do not understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 03:27 AM
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Hasn't that always been humanity? Some of the most idiotic, barbaric shit in the course of human history happened "in the good ol days" or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 03:26 AM
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A relationship that's likely to never come
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 03:13 AM
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Exactly....if mutual attraction isn't there.....what exactly would pity sex accomplish? Are you planning on doing it forever for the guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 03:05 AM
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It already exists and it's legality barely matters except for when departments want to look like heroes for a PR boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:58 AM
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LOL only the most pathetic simps waste their time with that. I'd rather just watch porn which only costs what your internet/electricity bill is....which you'd pay anyway. Not topping both those off with some needless subscription to someone who don't give a flying fuck about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:57 AM
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I think you're highlighting the problem which is very much so tied to economics. Late stage capitalism where everyone wants to be at the top for minimal effort/loss. No different in the dating game....everyone wants the hottest people....and will climb over whoever to get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:51 AM
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What might that be? Not being able to find a gf/get laid? Those aren't struggles....a struggle is people going hungry or about to get evicted. *plays devils advocate*
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:49 AM
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So true...empathy is mostly empty really without any path forward in this matter. And barring forcing women to like men they don't....it doesn't really seem fixable until we have actual lifelike AI cybernetic human whatevers straight out of some science fiction movie....in other words a long ways away yet if we don't blow this rock up long before then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 02:08 AM
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Not really....the bitterness will always be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:44 AM
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Ha...taking all us overweight incels would result in the loss of all their gear instantly once an actual conflict breaks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:40 AM
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Lots of things aren't good for society.....I do think it should be legal. But yea axe the rest of the idea the OP posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:34 AM
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Agree with this....but forget all the state sponsored nonsense. They can barely manage road construction projects that drag on for eternity seemingly, let alone something of this scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:31 AM
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It would solve very little because men, like women in fact, want to be desired. Transactional adult relations can't simulate the same excitement of consensual sex between two people who wanna do it with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:07 AM
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Agreed but there's no way it can hurt your chances, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 12:36 AM
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It's less about an insult because the men who this term is used against obviously don't care, and more about making it easier to convey information on a type of guy that's undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 12:31 AM
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Really....the most important advice I've gathered from everything is that the more advice you seek for...the less value any of it has. Then everything circles back to "be yourself"....not moving the goal post "be your best self".....the caveat being that being yourself might not attract anyone. But then you have to ask....does attracting anyone really matter? Sure it'd be nice to get cuddles, get laid....but then what? Maybe that's the depression talking...maybe that's just me talking....either …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 05:41 PM
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You nailed it...all problems instantly solved lol /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 03:20 PM
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When AI gets better lol....we're too much incel and shut in to do anything irl. Course by then AI might decide humans aren't worth a single god damn thing....see Terminator 1 and 2...disregard the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:42 PM
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Humans are dumb and everyone just takes advantage of everyone else regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:29 PM
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The thing is...your standards as an attractive women mean nothing to most of humanity.....both men and women want a piece of that pie and you don't have to lift a finger at all to get it. Now for what you as an individual want....totally different story. But within the context of this post....it's annoying whenever the subject of accessibility of sex is brought up how someone always says "Just because I can doesn't mean I do" or the old classic "Both men and women struggle!" while having at leas…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 02:29 AM
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This post is awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:46 PM
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Shout this to the heavens.....meanwhile we still exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:21 PM
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Jealousy, brief hatred before I finish myself to whatever adult material and proceed to not care till the next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:54 PM
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Porn is indeed fiction but let's be honest porn stars aren't 10s in the looks department lol. Some are of course fucking hot but most I see are simply average.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 04:00 AM
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Porn doesn't create unrealistic beauty standards....it definitely creates unrealistic sex standards though. Going all night, the "jackhammer" lol, and many other things that just aren't realistic in terms of both sustainability and perhaps more importantly the guarantee it will be pleasurable equally for both people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:55 AM
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This....I've seen way hotter women irl then in many porn videos lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:51 AM
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I think it's important to note that not every guy actually likes professional porn...the more production values I see the less interesting it is for me. I prefer footage that doesn't scream I'm running a profitable business.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:24 AM
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The advice itself isn't shaming....but the implications of not following it are. So using a term such as "grow" implies you are lower class for not following the advice attached to that. I realized that was stated nowhere in any of this....and that the follow up will be something like "expect the consequences of your actions" or something similar......but when do better is all you see and feel all the time it's all just the same blurred mess of condescension
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 03:49 AM
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I think we really get too wrapped up in the morality of human beings when so much of what we dislike is what we cause as a collective species. So much of what we consider employment relies on exploitation of others....then the easy scapegoat when the heat gets too intense, rinse repeat. Yes, yes but I don't partake/overindulge therefore you problem.....fine. But if we didn't create exploitative things to begin with, there'd be so much less of these cyclical conversations for superior beings that…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 12:45 AM
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At the end of the day....the shame game can only go so far before people tune it out due to oversaturation. Only so many times being told "do better" before we realize this is in fact what we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 11:54 PM
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"Grow" being the platitude for decades now. Without a clear path, your advice is about as useful as telling people not to forget to breathe or hydrate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 10:48 PM
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If it comes down to having to send our fatties out there....we're cooked anyway and it's already civil war/the end lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 09:01 PM
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The distinction between fault of their own or not doesnt even matter...its volume of humans and what their economic impact is in the community. As for being "surprised" about it... I'm not sure anyone really is. It's not about the information being new but rather the simple feeling of being trapped and wishing to speak of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 04:58 PM
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Capitalism has also destroyed the ability of some men to provide to anyone, including themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:37 AM
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Absolutely...but at the same time nobody is jumping to be the guy working in the plant that deals with sewage waste either. Perhaps there is some benefit to a communist society after all? It has it's fair share of problems but the idea of being trained to do something early on would've helped me so damn much in life I feel. Instead I was free to do nothing and here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 04:11 AM
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This so much this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 10:55 PM
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40 year old virgin minus the comedy because it's actually real life and causing rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 10:50 PM
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This is bullshit....you really think women wouldn't tear themselves apart either?? You're still human, humans do shitty things even if what those things are change between genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 10:43 PM
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You might not need a job...but you need a personality and a general sense of give a shit....both which quite frankly are taken from you when you're a zombie to a screen feeding you guns, explosions, and tits. Sure, my fault, but I still exist, and the internet is a nice place to shout pointlessly into lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 10:36 PM
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Then what do you call the flood of men who watch porn, play video games, and have no respect for anyone? Can you honestly call everyone equal when that exists? Is it not about gender, just moral character then? Does the distinction even matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:59 PM
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Somehow...I doubt that to be honest. No doubt there are countless successful and happy people in relationships but I'm quite positive just based on "the sausage" ratio in so many things both online and offline.....this is simply not the majority of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:54 PM
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I think it's possible to refuse changing while also acknowledging that one is not good enough either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:50 PM
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Nothing if we don't want to do anything and are in a position where we simply do not have to. The only thing that will change people like us is being forced into entirely new situations....but even then there's no guarantee you'll not just get more uselessness with a new coat of paint.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:46 PM
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Not sure why the holocaust got brought into video games and porn...but there's no incentive for me to stop doing those things beyoind the promise of maybe I'll get laid....but only if I do xyz things also.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:44 PM
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You do realize there are billions of people on this planet right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:43 PM
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It's an option for those who have parents who aren't going to kick their ass...which I'd wager is more then a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:42 PM
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This is a completely useless post because by default this already happens. If you disregard the flow of life, you inevitably make yourself scarce from society. You will feel it in every spoken word from everyone around you....and your actions will keep you from others inevitably. But I think the most important thing I need to hear from other fuck heads is that there is in fact, such a thing as a useless human. That's all I want to hear, then I'll continue to fuck off to video games and porn stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:37 PM
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Don't look at me.....like you definitely don't wanna frame this question as an overall cause it's definitely not true. Sluts are wonderful....nothing gets me up faster then reading or watching adult fan fiction depicting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:04 PM
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This....people shit on the internet but more then a few ideas conveyed actually exist....just masked as so that they don't get punched in the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 09:39 PM
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"wanted to be good men" usually doesn't lock in with reality, which can pull any of us in any direction inexplicably at any moment. I'm sorry...but it's bullshit to believe "you're the only good one" as any gender when nobody comes into this world with some evil maniacal laughter, ready to hurt your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 04:56 AM
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Doing something completely inorganic to your status quo is mostly not going to work out....I get that some people might actually change from that but for the rest...it's just awkward and everyone in the room knows this isn't your jam.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 12:43 AM
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Ok we're monsters....now what hero?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 12:30 AM
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Prostitution is not the answer and legalizing it won't do anything except possibly help the women....which of itself is a positive of course. But it won't make men who feel like sexless losers feel any less of that lol. Adult AI chatbots in their current form are a good start....but it needs to be more immersive and we got a long way to go for that I'd imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:55 PM
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They do however create industries....because if there's a scarcity of anything for anyone, there's someone waiting in the wings to sell you the solution no matter how shit it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:52 PM
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Point 2 will never happen because it's tied to entire industries....$$$$$$$$
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:38 PM
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No...that defeats the purpose of what men want as well. Equal passion.....if one side don't care then it's not really any different from transactional relations which are quite worthless unless you're rich. Which leads us around in a circle going nowhere.....answers come few and far between in this life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:29 PM
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True but let's be real...nobody cares about that now....it's just evil bad horny men....which incel is a smaller compact way of saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 10:59 PM
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That's only a solution for some....not a universal truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 10:43 PM
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Send endless messages through social media till you find a working gal no doubt....then proceed to not be turned on by that anyway due to the lack of actual passion there. Rinse repeat till either dead or find someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 10:42 PM
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Looking for technology to save us loser men or something I guess lol....strap on a headset and get all the thrills of being desired without it actually occuring. No, VR now isn't remotely comparable to what I'm talking about....probably won't live long enough to see something like that....assuming this planet can hold it together that long either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 10:27 PM
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Let's be honest.....men are also just as easily pathetic losers who have no ability to get the puss which makes them objectively lower in the food chain than that of any disrespect you see women receive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 10:15 PM
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Pretty much this....but I'm not against it either. It's just that if we're basing this whole theory on a video taken inside a cafe...well yea the venue is probably the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 03:54 AM
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Just don't be poor...just don't be dumb....just don't be fat....just don't be
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 03:42 AM
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Very few....and they get bought out anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 03:40 AM
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Wholy shit this post x9999
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 03:33 AM
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Many men cannot afford the prostitute in any meaningful way. One nut a month is not even worth considering when you can do it yourself as many times as you want for free. Plus paying ruins the natural vibe of sex which is what every man truly wants....a women to lust after him, as he does to her. Half hour? Quick visit? These terms couldn't possibly shrink an erection faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 03:13 AM
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Long story short....it sucks to be ugly and no amount of "it'll be fine" changes that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 03:06 AM
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If you believe in the term "incel" then yes you believe in gender war
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 02:13 AM
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Which is laughable when people believe we're above being called animals when we're indeed just that. Just because we can turn a knob on a door doesn't mean we don't repeat behaviors that have been going on since we crawled out of caves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:20 PM
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Just cuz lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:54 AM
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Exactly...this culture encourages people to just either automatically get it or die basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 10:31 PM
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I just chalk it up to the simple fact my tongue is short. Men who eat pussy well probably have longer tongues...I'd assume at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 10:26 PM
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Umm...ok? Also water is wet lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 05:25 PM
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Programs to teach about life maybe.....if you don't respect other people and also cannot communicate effectively with others good luck getting a job anywhere. But men don't seek help so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 05:23 PM
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Probably because men can't have babies...and of course by default usually aren't taking care of said offspring. Of course there are outliers and I've seen it more and more lately when I'm at the grocery stores.....but reproducing when not married with a chick by default makes you the bad guy as a man. You can of course turn that around through actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:56 AM
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True...but why do I still lust over your lot? Is biology a factor or no? Are we animals or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:33 AM
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smh this is such a terrible take....so people without food, water, and shelter would be better off in a relationship? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 11:10 PM
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Just one of them things....heart wants what it can't have. And hell even if you end up with it....you probably won't want it. Or maybe that's just overly cynical and people actually are starved for love....maybe I am. Maybe not who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:55 PM
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Amen...I'd take really any bar over a club any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:00 AM
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Good....the free ride based on gender dynamics is bullshit...also as I'm reading below posting this....if dudes don't think the juice is worth the squeeze they stop showing up altogether, which hurts any place of business. Suddenly having sexy women stroll in like they own the place isn't all that profitable....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:43 AM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:00 AM
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Completely agree it's really the only actual solution....*waits for Demolition Man style sexing*
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 03:54 AM
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Yet you can't make people who don't want to have sex with you....have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 03:33 AM
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Yep....I tried this during covid. But at the end of the day the thing that will never change is what I put in my body, which controls almost every aspect of my weight more then simply doing things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:05 PM
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Nobody earns a billion dollars
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:04 PM
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I mean there are plenty of toxic people that would inspire this level of thinking...but then there are women who don't need any of this. In conclusion...life is a hideous mess and there are some diamonds in the rough beneath the muck in which most people will never find.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:04 PM
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Definitely too lazy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:33 PM
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Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:28 AM
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This is the real question
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 08:00 PM
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lmfaoooooo exactly....this is cruise control for successful woman find
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 07:51 PM
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why bother putting in that much effort when there's probably some way to access sex somewhere by somebody. Sure, there's a 99.9% chance you won't be attracted to them at all....but better then nothing I suppose. Certainly better then putting in that insane amount of work and still getting nowhere....the same way people go to college, get fancy degrees, and still end up at McDonalds. The only way any of what you describe works is if you genuinely want to do much of that for yourself. Doing it for…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 07:43 PM
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Yea but there's a perceivable difference between normal issues and complaining that you can't land a date/have sex ultimately. A class system of normal if you will lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 12:49 PM
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Do those tactics actually work though? Or do they simply create even more vitriol?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 12:07 PM
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Stop complaining, nobody cares. I'm telling you this as an enormously overweight turd of a human being lol. Seek out prostitutes if lack of sex is literally driving you mad or just continue rubbing them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 07:52 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:04 PM
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"Your best self" being shorts, t-shirt all the time...yes that begs the question would you really be getting invited to parties? Probably depends on the type of party and of course if said person has any friends to invite them to said parties lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:57 AM
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Because literally one of the key principles in all of this is "be yourself" right? If dressing up isn't a part of your life, in any way whatsoever, why would they do so at a party?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 09:40 PM
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It's not loneliness but rather the force fed idea of needing to be in a relationship or in general fucking...it's fomo tied to human biology and it's just shit basically. The worst part....there's nothing anyone can say to you about it. It stings and it's a perpetual feeling till the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 04:44 AM
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We can dream though? *thinks of saturday morning x-men*
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 03:44 AM
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Honestly doubtful I could take any support space for this "issue" seriously.....and I've been single for a long ass time. Yes, ur lil pepe ain't getting any play.....meanwhile the world is burning ect. Still....it's exactly that sort of logic that inevitably makes single men the lowest ranking member of the human race, with the follow up do better which is objectively hollow.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 03:31 AM
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Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 03:28 AM
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Because men who can't get laid and complain about it=bad so everyone involves their own pseudo intellectual take on the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 03:22 AM
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You might be right about it all.....but at the same time I'm not willing to fully give up the possibility of somebody giving a shit, and vice versa. But won't be holding my breath for any of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:40 AM
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It absolutely is a thing....at surface level sure the guy was a jerk he gets what's coming to him. But when does the line get drawn? How far does that go? How long? Is the "punishment" proportionate to the crime?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:16 AM
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We don't....dudes continue to whine (myself included) and women continue to do what works for them best as individuals, not playthings for loser guys. Maybe someday technology will make the barrier of entry into the world of attractive women feasible for loser men via something similar to the matrix....but till our Skynet overlords take over....we got the good old fashioned human element. (dating, fwb, or prostitution)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:54 AM
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I'm laughing because yea...you summed me up perfectly but it's ridiculous to broadly generalize the entire male species as this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:39 AM
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My body isn't built for purpose either lmao....life is life, we all come in different shapes and sizes. Not one shoe size fits all ect....yea I tl'dr'd besides the first two sentences so if you more or less said this apologies in advance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:45 PM
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I'd say yes but like everything in life ymmv.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:37 AM
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It is in fact different...but what do you want anyone to do about it? Just the way it is. Accept being alone, be bitter, both, continue trying. What else is there really to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:08 AM
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I can tell you straight up till I'm blue in the face I'm not worth anything.....but sexual desire doesn't care. Not even sure what the point of this thread is besides do better which is just a platitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 07:13 PM
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It's all a poison of the mind....sex with women will end up leaving a man feeling like why did I throw such a hissy fit over this? Meanwhile the women will feel used and unloved. Both destined to create a self fulfilling prophecy of unhappiness with only a small percentage of people establishing long lasting relationships (that could still fail at any point).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:57 PM
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Totally fine for either gender....until someone gives you a disease then you start to think twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:53 PM
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Or just unable to get it conventionally...it is a thing and no that doesn't mean you're a psycho.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 06:59 PM
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LOL nah...I wear shorts all the time regardless of season and am fat. I promise you there's no beauty there at all. I'm not saying you should shame me for it relentlessly in public like some sadist....but there comes a point where facts are facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:50 PM
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So true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:38 PM
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And? Fat ugly people can still be turned on by attractive people lol. It's just the way it is....women are generally more appealing to look at versus men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:37 PM
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Yet this perfectly demonstrates exactly what the OP describes and I can confirm this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:35 PM
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This is true....we're ugly nasty mfers that still yearn for someone even the tinniest bit attractive. But hey...I don't consider that any worse off then gambling, another fool's game.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:33 PM
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Except that's worthless....because inherently everyone wants to be desired. Not saying you can force that chemistry....but just paying your way through it (unless you're rich) won't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:06 PM
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But they won't....kinda open and shut answer here....though I've seen more men with children lately so perhaps it is on the rise, or it's just what I happened to see at that current moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:37 AM
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Pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:21 AM
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And yet....that will never happen lol. Any time some smuck gets any attention from somehow above their class....it's yep to everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:18 AM
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I'd say the latter is already the case....the former will never stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:04 AM
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Implying inceldom is anything remotely intelligent lol....that might be the goal of people with actual power or influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:58 AM
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We're all pointing fingers.....just waiting for the reset.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:49 AM
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Sure...in a reasonable world where everyone was on the up and up, and of equal footing. But that's definitely not the world we're a part of.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:46 AM
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Who exactly is asking women for advice? They're the biggest grifters of all....keeping the game as is benefits them the most as the evil patriarchy benefited men of the past. Extremes everywhere....neutrality is boring and can't be marketed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:43 AM
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So many contradictory messages in life....be yourself....unless you want to get laid. Then don't because being yourself is doing baal runs in diablo 2...not exactly the go to dialogue at a party or any vibing type event. But every soul wants love, yes, no? But oh the poor itty bitty incel who can't get the lady bits....they forgot that the ladies were actually still human "gasps" because all the hentai told them they were obedient sluts and nothing more. So then they realize the truth....but it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:26 AM
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While I agree there should be some form of punishment.....imprisoning folks just adds more cost....like we should strive not to take three steps back in any approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:10 AM
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This isn't news and is happening every day and has been a thing for a long, long time. Problem is....that facade can easily blow up in your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:15 AM
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I don't even know what to feel about any of it anymore.....legitimately can't tell you if I'm angry, sad, or anything. I just beat off and it relaxes me till the next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:08 AM
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I'm pretty sure decent humans can do this....the ones muddying the waters can't have any kind of relationships with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:04 AM
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It's not a need at all let's face it....the men who can't get it are cooked one way or another on that front, no point in sugar coating it. You can't force people to have sex with people they don't want to....assuming we're still operating in the tiniest capacity as a civilized society.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:44 AM
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Which they're trying to get rid of....if they had their way completely that'd be gone entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:40 AM
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It's definitely nowhere close to food, water, and shelter.....hell it really might not be on any list at all. Sure it can make us mad thinking about not being able to obtain it....but it sure does save money not chasing it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:35 AM
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Say so much and yet say so little. It's like informing people unintentionally in a movie theater of the current scenes unfolding on screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:33 AM
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Subjectivity only goes so far....there is a base line imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:58 PM
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lmao no....it's called being desperate and saying yes to anyone. That don't mean it's a successful relationship or that there's any attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:52 PM
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I agree with most but disagree with the notion that ugly people are unaware of their ugliness. It's no mystery tbh but the heart wants what it can't have as they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:49 PM
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Even as a loser who's had sex before....this is definitely the case....but capitalism finds a way to make you want what you both no longer can have but also what you know isn't actually worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:40 PM
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Uh speak for yourself....I'm the loser gamer class I know my lane lol. Important to denote "loser" in that....as gaming isn't inherently something that makes you that....but having the genetics or whatever brain configuration to where you make that your entire identity.....that's what brings you there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:33 PM
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Segregating these feelings is what will eventually cause society to treat single men who are thirsty the same as crackheads....assuming we aren't already. By this I mean literally policed and moved about the same way we do to actual homeless people now. A very classist system for a race of beings that fancy themselves as enlightened lol. "But what do you suggest then, force women to like these men!??" No....which brings us back to nowhere land once more.....*waits for the Auschwitz for thirsty b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:30 PM
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I feel the pain but nobody will agree with this....best you can hope for is matrix level sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:33 PM
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The problem with this entire take is that the people you describe have all the same rights as people who don't do those things. So which is it....freedom for all or curated freedom for enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 11:34 AM
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Being confident is very important.....telling somebody to be confident is like telling them to breath air. I mean you either already are doing it or you're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 03:26 AM
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Not a single doubt in my mind that this "war" is a desirable one for many to make $$$.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 03:24 AM
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Just like this "revelation" though....the cycle will never end. It's just in our nature....a very cyclical one. Men blamed for wanting sex, seeking it in whatever way they can as society mocks them, telling them useless platitudes in terms of advice while women are pure and righteous, the deciders of morality and what's "real".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 03:19 AM
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This...as if women are some clueless hapless damsel lol. Bullshit they know the game all too well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 05:34 AM
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Considering how shit men/women relations are even when you're a stable human being that has the basics down well enough.....nonexistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 04:13 PM
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This is purely a condescending attitude....but also a correct one. Then some "hero" comes along and say do something about it....and of course that never works so....complain on the internet hooray!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:54 PM
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You're 100% correct....but like throughout human history being told nobody likes whining has never actually stopped it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:52 PM
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Plenty would....it's a vastly disproportionate situation. Not saying anyone should just settle with anyone else just because....but it's just a simple fact that women have so much access to sex at any level versus only the decently average to above average+ men having access to a few options at any given moment. Obviously there are other factors then just simply having sex like mindless zombies.....this is purely hypothetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:21 PM
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Yet everything to encourage sexual desire from women is a ok? Just men bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 10:17 AM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 12:20 AM
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Also...a pain in the ass to care for I'd imagine. Much easier to just rub one out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 04:50 AM
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Not surprising....women actually wanted to chat with the bots and that AI platform is perfectly fine for that. Not so much for men though as it's a censored platform.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 04:47 AM
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It's a reality....all it takes is functioning genitals
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 04:38 AM
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So many things would be better if we could all just have what we want.....but alas
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:48 AM
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Yea I can say I'd never speak to another man about my personal problems....same way I'd prefer a women masseuse over a man, a women for my hair cut, a female for a therapist (go figure), ect....these are just hard wired things that I don't forsee going away anytime soon, if ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:25 AM
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I don't see the appeal of OF...I can see comparable women on the hub without a sub cost. If I need them to speak to me....AI is actually not too shabby for that and is easier to curate my desires then a real life person.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:20 AM
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More importantly...how does everyone including aforementioned assholes, cope in a world that requires some level of "justice"? Can we finally admit that some people just aren't worth anything? But even if we did....then what? Would you support studies that showcase the endless depths of shitty selfish behavior to those who are less shitty? So that a group can ascertain the fates of these assholes? That as a collective whole, humanity understands there is a baseline of decency that some people cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 10:02 PM
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Poetry really....hats off to this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 06:22 AM
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and undesirable men want desirable women....it's capitalism in the flesh form lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:42 AM
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100% on the sentiment it's not worth it....but reality often is messy. I'd like to think that a not insignificant portion of men would prefer something in the middle between escorts and actual dating as it stands today.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:39 AM
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You're not wrong....but really there is no "waking" up from it besides death. At best, we rub one out and that returns our senses to normal again where we realize this is all crazy bullshit till the next time rinse repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:33 AM
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No thanks....sure is it annoying I live a pussyless life? Yea. Am I willing to devote myself to some insane cause because of that? Hell no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:56 AM
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The real inequality is the simple fact that nobody has a say whether or not they come out. Like...give sperms the opportunity to review what they're in store for before properly fertilizing that damn egg....or tell the eggs look.....this is it please close yourself off.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 01:45 AM
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Divide and conquer, super old tactic still relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 04:02 AM
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But that's not how it actually works.....same way any addiction doesn't care about your current circumstances really.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 02:09 AM
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I mean yea it's not reasonable nor realistic at all....but men place such strong emphasis on the "need" to fuck so....it's an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:56 AM
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I doubt most men can afford that on a regular basis...here and there sure. And most of us can bust at least 4 times a day so......
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:52 AM
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100% this....paying is last resort and basically never worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:50 AM
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I'm confused....you're saying you were turned down but apparently that means doubling down on sexual advances?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:41 AM
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Fair...and perhaps socializing inevitably isn't your thing. Isn't mine really either irl at least...but you have to understand the only way any of this works is comfortable vibes. The only way anyone would want to date you is if you can smile, you both can laugh, enjoy something, anything at all. Yes, something more then the latest pew pew video game that has no advertisement beyond some generic page on ModDB.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 07:26 PM
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Then it doesn't.....nothing is guaranteed in this life, but no way in hell are your chances lessened by trying to put yourself out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 07:21 PM
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The point this whole thread is making is that the closer you are to other people, along with mingling with said other people, the closer you get to finding someone to be romantically involved with. Then once you get what you want....and inevitably break up/get divorced either sooner or later....you can join the whichever pill is most relevant to jaded no such thing as love crowd lol. The rat race of finding a partner is a thing of both beauty and insanity,
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 07:14 PM
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This....the ability to communicate is the most important.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 07:03 PM
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Try as in? Look creepy, have absolutely nothing to say? Have the narrative that it's your own fault, you made this bed echo in your head 24/7? Still have a functioning penis though....not saying anyone should or more accurately will give even a splinter of a fuck about this....but a ton of unfuckable men makes for a demographic that can be swayed by...well people who aren't looking at improving society or even these very same dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:51 AM
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Yea absolutely if you already are in a relationship cherish it...because what's left of the dating landscape is fallout.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:13 AM
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We don't.....there's too much to gain in keeping us divided, keeping women exclusive and trending through various social media and men slobbering desperate fools willing to buy into any advice from anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:07 AM
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I never cared about whether or not a girl was a virgin.....if anything it was a negative really.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:56 AM
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You're not wrong that it takes effort to acquire relationships with any gender....that being said if people don't develop those relationships....well I guess I'm just wondering what the cost will be or if it's even worth talking about? A small blip of increased homeless men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:55 AM
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tl'dr...even if you've already addressed this I'm still gonna say it....video games, porn, and social media....nuff said lol. If I were born in the 1800s....my life would be completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:49 AM
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More money then sense?? Honestly it tracks to me....the idea that these women would be "theirs" is more interesting then actually fucking them ultimately.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:14 AM
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That sounds great....but I doubt that'd be the norm lol. Mostly it will be as the OP described....not unlike how it is now except we're not forced to be in the strictest definition, slaves currently (it can of course be argued whether or not 9-5 counts as slavery, but I digress)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:11 AM
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If there's one thing I've learned through google-fu...is that nobody is all encompassing in terms of all experiences that can be had in life. But.....let's be real, money is definitely a means to women. What you should've ultimately said is money isn't guaranteed to bring you happiness (most cliche thing ever but timeless really)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:19 AM
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The game sucks, we're selfish as men, everyone pointing fingers....at a certain point you take a step back and realize.....wow this is total fubar....and yes I'll still send worthless "hey" messages on dating apps, realizing the futility but continuing forward regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 02:18 AM
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The world is a mess....we're all damaged goods, enjoy what you can while you still can, ect
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 02:13 AM
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Except there's no way to force any of those things really...meanwhile you still have hordes of angry men with no release. Not saying either of the ideas proposed by the OP are the solution.....but neither is the idea that somebody is just gonna turn it all around on a dime. It's a shit situation all around but sadly ignored because quite frankly there's a billion other issues far more important right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:03 AM
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That's because prostitution being legal there isn't some catchall magical solution to fix complex societal issues lol. As for chatbots being assigned to people....that's called just going to any of the many platforms and striking up a convo....no other involvement required.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:28 PM
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It's easy....you were brought up in an environment where there were no consequences for anything and you never had to lift a finger. Doesn't apply to only rich people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 04:02 AM
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tl;dr except the last sentence....if only my brain and my penis would just stop functioning since I just turned 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 03:51 AM
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rule 1....don't bother trying to give dating advice to anyone period....that's the only rule
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 03:49 AM
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But nothing happens for no reason when it comes to gender wars....those "vile and crummy" people got to where they are for a reason and brushing it aside because most people aren't shouting at each other in public due to their genitals is a bit short sighted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 07:43 PM
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Because it's more beneficial on a monetary basis to keep us so heavily divided and segregated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:39 AM
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It's certainly fostered an economic ecosystem well past one of the oldest professions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:33 AM
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Except that's completely absurd....you'd quickly realize it costs too much for something as overrated as sex. It's way cheaper to take care of it yourself. Unless of course you have tons of disposable income...in which case maybe but for normal people scraping by this is simply not feasible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:20 AM
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It really wouldn't
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:18 AM
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We're definitely fat and smelly lol....it boils down to the fact that video games give us tremendous dopamine that overrides any other functions that we might of otherwise been doing to offset that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:07 AM
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It could help a bit....but in the end I think it'd only make a tiny dent in the situation. Even without official regulation in most places prostitution still exists....but we're still here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:38 AM
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I don't think this will ever change quite frankly....there will always just be people that get it and people that either don't or do but simply lack the necessary character traits to appeal to the girl in question or anyone for that matter lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:32 AM
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There definitely isn't...it's been this way forever really...women don't chase. The reason we have so many more pathetic men now then in the past is because technology has created us. The option to extract dopamine from things other then normal life experiences is very high these days....to the point that you have terms such as basement dweller. Would a basement dweller exist during the colonial era? If they did....it's pretty much 100% guaranteed it didn't have the same meaning it does now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:18 AM
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I mean....maybe? I think it's still pretty obvious you aren't speaking to a real human..thus using that as some sort of baseline for what you think you should have IRL is silly. .That being said, it's intricate enough that it still feels nice to hear. Yes it's not real but for some of us basement dweller types....it's worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:31 AM
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Even so....as long as any of us draw breath, we fundamentally crave positive attention from whichever gender attracts us no matter how much vitriol poisons the well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 01:07 AM
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Which is of course more then a few....still want sex though. Hence why AI would be a sort of jack of all trades solution...doesn't matter if your an Adonis or slathered in pizza grease....everyone can have their emotional needs fulfilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 12:58 AM
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AI probably...laugh all you want but the way they respond is honestly fairly impressive....just need to take it to an IRL doll and good to go. Sure someone might hack one of these things to kill someone and cause a controversy that could reshape the entire AI landscape....but we'll cross that bridge when we get there as we have for many a things throughout human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 12:51 AM
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Heh just going to say that anytime anyone says that about relationships....there's about 100% chance it's ignored lol. Of course it's true but that's not how the human psyche works.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 12:44 AM
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Which is why I'm hoping AI transcends human relationships eventually....I know I'm a man child and will absolutely never attract any human female.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 12:24 AM
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100%....but so is the notion of being with a women and sex itself. It's all designed to keep people circling back to it despite how overhyped it all really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:52 PM
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If people are realistically so angry...can we admit we taught incorrectly as a society? The notion that everyone is special and worth it is nonsense....you don't get recognition for existing. We all exist and came to be the same way...it's an easy process. What we do with our lives is what determines whether or not we're special. Why should a women give a damn about you if your only merit in life is that....you exist? You eat, poop, sleep, maybe if you're lucky work a 9-5 (still live at home tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:42 PM
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Or live 30 years in a lie....better then not having anywhere to go right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:00 AM
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So many things feel manufactured today in terms of human behavior....I've lost count.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:29 AM
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lmao gotta love it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:22 AM
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Something better then both....yes I realize we're a long, long ways from that but that's the dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:51 AM
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Just makes sex even more difficult as I only keep erections temporarily...plus also it's boring as hell because most of all the women I've slept with I usually have finished in. I've lived a very risky lifestyle with it all and it does have consequnces though fortunately nothing major thus far. My luck will run out eventually though which is why this scenario sounds the best. But we're nowhere close to it...so it's more just speculating and hypotheticals for now. Right now having a sexy girl tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:35 AM
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The same thing that we have now...prostitution except it would be 100% STD free due to AI's knowing who has what and also having the ability to sterilize themselves thoroughly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:24 AM
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Not that I'm aware...it's just that it's getting more and more unbearable from personal experience to either be a sucker for OF/SC broads or commence in the seedier activities that are extremely risky for someone very adverse to condoms. I'd rather just masterbate which I do plenty and it helps but that's also saying you will never have sex again which isn't realistic so.....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:05 AM
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