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ConversationYedya/r/seduction28/12/25 02:12 AM
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ConversationYedya/r/seduction04/03/26 07:25 PM
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ResourcesYedya/r/seduction05/06/25 03:34 AM
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Agreed, cold approach / nightgame should be your primary funnel
/r/seduction14/04/26 03:02 AM
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Honestly you will get better quality doing cold approach / gym approach. I've had success with em all, but dating apps the girls on avg, are less attractive.
/r/seduction05/03/26 07:58 PM
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Could you DM and review my insta? I'm a successful music artist. I do well doing approaches and nightgame
/r/seduction23/02/26 11:34 PM
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You should be cold approaching every opportunity you have
/r/seduction14/02/26 12:35 AM
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Are you actually taking action and doing cold approach? you will learn pretty fast doing this
/r/seduction11/02/26 09:12 PM
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Some women don't mind, the women I'm seeing kinda know
/r/seduction11/02/26 09:08 PM
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Dm me your profile I'll show you mine, I get a lot of matches and have a lot of success
/r/seduction11/02/26 09:07 PM
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Just try not to care about the outcome as much, if you have abundance you naturally won't care
/r/seduction10/02/26 10:54 PM
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Can confirm doing all this is great advice
/r/seduction10/02/26 10:54 PM
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Why, just cold approach?
/r/seduction06/02/26 03:22 AM
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Once I did a 10 min talk then love hotel, rare
/r/seduction09/01/26 10:01 PM
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Thanks man, I noticed.
/r/seduction08/01/26 04:52 PM
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The ones that wanted to, it and I'm still seeing them (5+ months ago)
/r/seduction08/01/26 04:52 PM
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Actually I'm Latino, again very high value comment. Stay jello
/r/seduction08/01/26 04:47 PM
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What? Can you dm me
/r/seduction08/01/26 04:44 PM
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Thanks, yea plenty of people reached out to me trying to coach but none of them seemed to even understand the root cause,so why would I work with them . No offense to some of the coaches too ,but none of them have solid receipts I trust. It's also worth noting, I'm still rejecting loads of dates. 99% of issues i can see in about 2 seconds What do you mean? Can you give me an example? Any idea why this is only happening to me on hinge and only in SF?
/r/seduction31/12/25 07:07 PM
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Your right, I have two dates from approaches yesterday Approached 4 girls
/r/seduction30/12/25 07:17 PM
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If we meet on night game , there's always a date next. But I don't do night game in SF anymore
/r/seduction30/12/25 07:17 PM
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Good point, I guess hinge is low effort low reward
/r/seduction29/12/25 10:38 PM
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That makes sense. Thanks for the advice, I know what I'm looking for , I'm just rarely finding it on hinge. I'm actually moving to an Asian country for a little bit next year , I work remotely
/r/seduction29/12/25 07:18 PM
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Interesting,my ex was super fine too, as well as my cold approaches
/r/seduction29/12/25 02:42 AM
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So it's actually a really good point.. I should do that. I also did a test where I made a hinge profile for a female and looked at their standouts and consistently they were all over 6+ ft and a lot of them were actually not that attractive or have high status
/r/seduction29/12/25 12:32 AM
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Out of the 20 ,none have been anywhere near as attractive as any of the 6 girls I've slept with /dated from cold approach In the past 2 years. Cold approach girls usually consistently 8s Hinge is always 6-7s consistently
/r/seduction28/12/25 11:59 PM
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Same I crush it abroad
/r/seduction28/12/25 11:56 PM
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Me always,if we're not back at my place. This is a new recent strategy since maybe 10/20 went on for 2 hours. It takes me about 2 hours to build comfort & connection before asking them back.
/r/seduction28/12/25 11:53 PM
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Please be honest,how attractive are these women?
/r/seduction28/12/25 11:49 PM
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No offense to those coaches but they don't actually pull very attractive women
/r/seduction28/12/25 01:44 PM
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I'm not clinging to it , but I'm obviously doing something wrong and it's not like I can get feedback
/r/seduction28/12/25 01:43 PM
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Well just focus on yourself then. I've spent years in the gym, focusing on my career and artistic passion ,so I already have things to focus on outside of game. It's not too late, if you're 37 I expect you to be in pretty good shape
/r/seduction28/12/25 01:40 PM
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Hmm get a better coach and sounds like you need therapy.
/r/seduction28/12/25 01:36 PM
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I'm sorry:( I would just focus on a cold approach and getting a gf asap then.
/r/seduction28/12/25 01:10 PM
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You think? I have several matches that my friends would say are attractive but I'm probably too picky
/r/seduction28/12/25 01:08 PM
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Low ROI, cold approach is far better
/r/seduction28/12/25 12:51 PM
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This is a terrible metric
/r/seduction28/12/25 12:50 PM
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Pretty rare until after I slept with them
/r/seduction28/12/25 12:50 PM
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I think being open to short is the same as casual sex? But some of the women I've met tell me in person they want casual
/r/seduction28/12/25 12:10 PM
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Yep, the more I do it, the more attractive the faster I do it
/r/seduction28/12/25 11:53 AM
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In my experience many Asian girls have been super inexperienced and timid
/r/seduction28/12/25 11:48 AM
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Escalate to what? Are you saying you're going to continue to escalate regardless of her receptivity? What is YOUR goal when you're escalating?
/r/seduction28/12/25 11:42 AM
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It's LTR,open to short
/r/seduction28/12/25 11:38 AM
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Looking for something casual but I'm open to something serious, I just haven't thought any of the girls I've met on dating apps were up to the standard of my exs
/r/seduction28/12/25 11:07 AM
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Seems like lots of advice is mixed ,so I'll talk to my old coach and update this thread if people are interested. It's also worth noting I don't have this problem in foreign asian countries when I got less matches I actually had more success, just an observation Reminder that in person meet to dates usually lead to a relationship
/r/seduction28/12/25 11:03 AM
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Not every single girl is going to respond to escalation, if I'm not getting cues , I'm not going to try and kiss her
/r/seduction28/12/25 10:49 AM
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Thanks for adding value to the thread, if you think it's not important idk what to tell you
/r/seduction28/12/25 10:48 AM
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That's good advice,thanks
/r/seduction28/12/25 10:35 AM
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Calm down bud, it's not that black and white, not every date is going to want to kiss on the first date.
/r/seduction28/12/25 10:35 AM
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Yea I'm definitely not ,don't worry, my game is not bad. Sometimes the girl is not ready for certain things so I hold back , sometimes the opposite is true. I'm also skeptical of the advice thrown around here without seeing receipts 😂😅
/r/seduction28/12/25 10:31 AM
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Not sure what you mean, I'm going to touch/escalate , hold hands, then kiss. Maybe you jump to kissing before holding hands would love to hear your approach
/r/seduction28/12/25 09:44 AM
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Where are you getting the idea that I'm not escalating?
/r/seduction28/12/25 09:41 AM
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its SF dude..
/r/seduction28/12/25 09:41 AM
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HMU
/r/seduction28/12/25 09:40 AM
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my bad, was on phone, fixed
/r/seduction28/12/25 09:40 AM
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+
/r/seduction28/12/25 09:40 AM
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I don't understand your question, if you can't get dates you need to fix your profile, I currently have 9+ matches over the past few days
/r/seduction28/12/25 09:39 AM
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I don't think this is success my friend
/r/seduction28/12/25 09:39 AM
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What makes you think I'm not escalating? Do you really think I don't know any of this stuff if I'm closing on cold approach? (currently 90% of the time)
/r/seduction28/12/25 09:38 AM
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you mean where? bars, < 90 mins
/r/seduction28/12/25 09:37 AM
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5'9, DM me if you want to chat
/r/seduction28/12/25 09:37 AM
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Don't be fooled, I've seen guys challenge girls to dance battles Are they getting their numbers, going on dates or closing that night? Stop going to clubs, its a low ROI. Go to bars.
/r/seduction28/12/25 02:08 AM
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Agreed, I've been told "I loved it, so brave"
/r/seduction07/04/23 04:40 PM
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This. I love how OP doesn't seem to grasp the notion of subjectivity.
/r/seduction12/04/22 11:54 PM
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the post title suggests you did..
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 02:31 PM
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Plenty of jacked tokers mate.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 08:18 PM
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Can direct me to a post/sidebar that covers escalation topics?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 03:49 PM
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Usually though it's the ones who didn't have to lose it
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 12:07 PM
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Feels good to read this knowing I'm already applying such values to my life.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 09:49 PM
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