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Okay, so shit test / ultimatum? If so, big risk for no reward. This shit did not convince me at all to commit more to that. It just gave me a bad taste in my mouth and distance myself more.
/r/askMRP13/04/21 06:21 PM
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If anything, this has made me realize how emotionally invested I really was. A good wake up call for the drama and headaches that come with LTR's. If Mommy's gonna ho, I know I can't control that. But I'm gonna let myself bitch and moan for 1 day.
/r/askMRP13/04/21 05:18 PM
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Overall, just freedom. I really don't see myself with BM long term. The "Cold War" stone faced dynamic we had before hooking up again was so uncomfortable and toxic. My main intention for our dynamic is to at least have a decent friendship. "hi, bye, how are you, have a nice day." The FWB has been extremely enjoyable, and even if she's just faking it while she pulls my strings, I'm fine with ending things when it's no more fun. My long term play here is to be a good example for our daughter. So …
/r/askMRP13/04/21 05:08 PM
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What if I start an OnlyFans with her? Win win?
/r/askMRP13/04/21 04:57 PM
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It would be the most surprising for sure. Since day 1 she's always been the white picket fence type of girl. She pushed for cohabitation, and pushed heavily for marriage. I won't say that every girl hasn't thought about dancing or selling nudes, but it's quite a shocker for this one.
/r/askMRP13/04/21 04:50 PM
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I, can deal with it. I personally dislike texting. I hate notifications, especially when I'm working. The text was just asking how she was feeling cause she'd mentioned she felt a cold coming in the night before. But we have a D/S relationship, so I can just punish her for the "read" next time we're in bed.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 02:08 PM
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The thing is that OP's plate IS initiating, in womanese. Remember boys, women handle rejection much worse than men. So them "sexting", sending lewds / nudes, or just saying, "I'm bored and have no plans today 😭" are all "initiations" in her head, only it gives them the plausible deniability to cushion the rejection if it comes.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 02:04 PM
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Some guys prefer it this way. I do. It means she's 100% revolving around your schedule. It's a bit annoying when plates start inviting you to places you don't really want to go to and you have to reject her, giving off that "I only want you for sex" vibe, which isn't bad if that's your genuine intention, but I personally like a sprinkle of emotion in my relationships. A few years back an old plate randomly invited me to a friends birthday party, and said if I could pretend to be her boyfriend bu…
/r/askTRP08/04/21 01:59 PM
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Just don't pay it any mind. Always keep in mind that girls have their own RP, their own "game", and their own way of making YOUR hamster spin. They honestly have more resources than us, because for them it's "empowerment", but for us it's "misogyny" and "manipulative". I had a plate text me, "babygirl wants to pass out on daddy so badly right meow. 😴😫" 2 nights ago. Yesterday morning I sent her a text and she hasn't replied, so idk 🤷‍♀️
/r/askTRP08/04/21 01:50 PM
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My mindset is always "can we establish a connection and a quality sexual relationship?" Think less, "Here are the right words to convince you to open your legs." Quality long term plates are the most fulfilling of the dynamics IMO. ONS are ok if you're just going for that quick rush and high n-count, but sex is never great without building up that trust, which takes a few fucks. Relationships have that trust, and are great, at first, but the rush and excitement dies off. They're too emotional. L…
/r/askTRP08/04/21 01:43 PM
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"Hey I've really enjoyed our time together, but we're gonna need to just be friends from now on."
/r/askTRP08/04/21 01:29 PM
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AA for girls, pressure flip for guys. Girl - I thought you were gay? You - yea I'm so gay that I'm straight and only fuck girls. Guy - I thought you were gay? You - why? Are you disappointed I'm not? Don't worry, I'll help you find someone. Or just ignore, I do this half the time. The comment is so insignificant that, at best, you'll give it a chuckle or smirk, but not acknowledge it any further.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 01:17 PM
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Nah. Drama is so lame, especially if you're 30. Plus the boyfriend. How much do you trust she won't tell her dude about you? If you're gonna do the "girl with boyfriend" thing, your address should be unknown. I'd just be cool with the neighbors and use them for social value. Take turns throwing parties at each other's houses, etc.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 01:13 PM
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3am is a booty call. I'm surprised you didn't smash. The "doesn't hookup without being more smashed" is a red flag. It sounds like she initially was trying to get drunk and dicked down to get her mind off something (Chad ghosted her?), but when you got there, she changed her mind. Was probably all up in her head. So yep, just soft next. If she invited you over at 3am before then she might set a meet again, but be aware that you're probably just a rebound.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 01:04 PM
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It's best not to give the ultimatum in this situation, but do take it into mind with your LTR consideration. Just cause it's not another dick penetrating her doesn't mean she's not going to be investing more time, energy, and attention to someone else. She's your main plate for a reason, but that don't mean you're hers.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 12:57 PM
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The best sex you're gonna get is when you move out, sign a parenting plan together that outlines who (when / where) gets the kid, and you apply enough dread so that she knows you'll walk away at any time if she isn't enough. It can be a long and dreadful road to get to where you want to be, but hard work is always better than mediocrity. I was rarely getting blowjobs as well when I was living with baby mamma. They'd be "big gifts", like on my birthday, and they were really just 80% hand / 20% mo…
/r/askTRP08/04/21 12:50 PM
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Status or money don't = Chad. You're in her frame, and most likely because of the kid, right? Are you afraid that if you start taking what you want, she'll leave, win full custody, and you'll be paying big child support to your kid that you don't see? Y'all live together, and it does making parenting a little easier, but do you want to live together? Who wanted to cohabitate in the first place? The BEST thing you can do is to take the child out of the equation (no, not like that), go talk to a f…
/r/askTRP08/04/21 12:27 PM
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How are they "super in to you?" Are they just making eye contact and smiling? Or are they deep throating you one day and cold texting the next?
/r/askTRP08/04/21 12:06 PM
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Telling you about being raped so "openly" and early on is one of the biggest red flags, along with having a big Adam's apple or asking if you've ever wanted to "be your own boss?" That plus those 2 personal questions is absolutely a deal breaker. IDC if it's AOC, hard next dude.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 12:04 PM
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Tomorrow is the first day of the rest of your life. Start from there.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 02:12 AM
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I lived with a "unicorn" (lots of green flags: financially responsible, owns a house, great job, cooks and bakes regularly for friends, overwhelmingly nice (never speaks ill of anyone), very attractive, etc.) but, predictably she had orbiters. She'd invite male friends over, and even take out of town trips with male friends. I knew for sure it was platonic cause some of those male friends would tell me that they made a move on her and she'd reject them. So there were never any signs of cheating,…
/r/askTRP22/02/21 07:01 PM
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You're way too attached to the girl and you're way too attached to that group. You have oneitis, clearly. You do not have the mindset, confidence, or self-respect to gain anything useful from continuing to try and be friends with this girl or this friend group. You're needy, you're doing this for validation, you have obvious oneitis, and you're making excuses for not opening new girls or trying to join new friend groups. Challenge yourself. When in doubt, go against the grain. I promise you, if …
/r/askTRP22/02/21 06:22 PM
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If you do it long enough and keep improving, then you will have success. Optimally being able to open a woman and being ok with rejection is high value, especially today. And yes it's hard. There's an extremely small percentage of men who can approach. It's to the point where not ever approaching doesn't even put you in the bottom, you're just average. If you choose not to approach people, at least for the sake of the challenge (which is why I like to do it imo), then you're never going to get t…
/r/askTRP21/02/21 07:23 PM
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Depends in the area. I currently live in an area that is almost all Hispanic and I rarely get IOI's from white girls. Last year I lived in an area that is pretty mixed up racially, and I get equal amounts of IOI's from brown and white girls.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 07:03 PM
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You have to be brutally honest with yourself because you could be rationalizing all this and not be fully aware that this is basic oneitis. If you're insecure about the rejection then obviously don't keep hanging out with her, cause that's a huge hit on your frame. How is she useful? You could use her for preselection, like post pictures online with her, or she could be a good wingwoman, but the worst situation you could be in is if you are out with her and friends, you approach a girl, bring he…
/r/askTRP21/02/21 06:59 PM
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The problem is that you don't want her to use sex to "reward" blue pill behavior. Like, "ok you've bought me dinner 5 times now, I guess I can give you starfish sex tonight." The important factor is if she is sexually attracted to you, and you should know this for sure by the 2nd date. I personally always at least k-close on the first date. I want plates who are "fuck yes" about me. And if I girl won't k-close on date 1, then she almost always is not the type of connection I'm looking for.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 06:35 PM
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She's probably just practicing some sex tips she learned on a podcast. You're DEERing to us about your masculinity which is low value behavior. If you're confident in your dick game then keep leading and enjoying the session. If you hate her voice, gag her.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 06:32 PM
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It's arguable on what to think about the slideshow thing. Some guys probably have excel sheets on f-closes too. But the fact that she presented it to you is a fully saturated red flag. The problem is that she is not aware that this is something unacceptable, so you can very well expect her to continue making unacceptable decisions.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 06:28 PM
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Just remember it's a numbers game. If you match with 10 girls on Tinder and only meet up with one, then those odds aren't bad. There are tips on this sub for matching and converting that to meeting up. Match > banter for a bit > say u want to meet up > n-close > call to set up date. Rinse and repeat.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 06:23 PM
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It's successful if you're good looking, or just have great photos. And then it's just a numbers game so don't put any value in it. Just swipe tinder when you're on the toilet
/r/askTRP20/02/21 09:01 PM
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What would she say to Chad? "Omg I'm so sorry, just tell me when you're free and I'll make it work!"
/r/askTRP20/02/21 08:23 PM
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The victimizing is the problem. "Poor me" gets you nowhere. Socializing is harder but it's not impossible.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 05:59 PM
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She's not into you enough for you to be thinking about it. Always try and have multiple options set up so that if someone flakes, you have a plan b and plan c. Abundance mentality bro.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 05:56 PM
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Oh it will. Do 10 minutes of meditation while listening to binaural beats before an important phone call and you're going to rock it brother
/r/askTRP20/02/21 05:45 PM
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Could be trying to "fake it till they make it". Like they go to the gym once after months off and they post a selfie with #backatit and a motivational post about caring for yourself, since and repeat months later
/r/askTRP20/02/21 05:41 PM
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Prevention is always better than recovery. A 10 minute meditation before going out will do so much more than trying to do damage control on the spot
/r/askTRP20/02/21 05:39 PM
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Meditation is #1, keeping your body in tip top shape (lifting, sleep, nutrition and vitamins, sunlight, hydration).
/r/askTRP20/02/21 04:39 PM
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Personally one of my favorites. It works best as an audiobook as half of it is in podcast format. It's a great read for pushing yourself, even when you have nothing in the gas tank, and great about overcoming childhood trauma.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 04:30 PM
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Be amused that she hit you up for a late night booty call. Use it to upgrade your frame since you know she's DTF, set up a meet.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 04:29 PM
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The guideline is plate for 6 months before considering LTR
/r/askTRP20/02/21 03:05 PM
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So OP, there's levels of attraction. She kissed you, but that's probably the farthest she's going to go, in her head. A woman wants orbiters, and it's like getting a raise at work. You get an extra dollar for your hard efforts, but you're not being immediately promoted to EVP (FWB). So from her point of view, you gave her a ton of attention and was orbiting her, without her even having to try. She notices you raising your SMV and giving her less attention than before, so, to being you back into …
/r/askTRP20/02/21 02:19 PM
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Plenty of terms are used on other media, like YouTube, podcasts, etc. so if you say "alpha fucks" in person, no one is going to immediately see your Reddit username tattooed on your forehead. They're just terms, especially all of the ones you mentioned. But never be the one to start babbling about fight club. If someone interacts with you about it, then respond in the same level as them. Think as you like, but behave like others.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 02:11 PM
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Learn to approach everyone, even men. There's some crying babies on this sub that will go the rest of their lives finding excuses on why they won't approach and open strangers. It's your responsibility, that is what you are lacking.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 02:08 PM
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Stress, anxiety, depression, low self esteem / confidence issues are all low value emotions. You can jot down 5 actions you can start making right now for each negative emotion to move farther away from them, thus naturally moving towards the high value behaviors.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 02:06 PM
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A mans biological objective is to spread his seed to as many women as possible. So 5-10 different women will get his attention in a single day. A woman's biological objective is to have children by the most alpha male. So the alpha male will have 5-10 different women try and get his attention in 1 day. So men are not very selective, where women are extremely selective. If you're top 1-5% of men, then you'll be thrown off by all the guys on this sub not getting pussy thrown at them.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 02:03 PM
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