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| 3 | if withholding sex is not a good way to secure commitment, then what is?There was a thread both on AskReddit or Askmen and a thread here along the lines of “what advice (men) would you give to women looking for relationship” and a heavily mentioned piece of advice that the men gave was to withhold sex until commitment and not sleep on the first dates. So even lots of men themselves agree it’s a good idea lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 02:42 AM |
| 15 | Its hypocritical of men to criticize promiscious women, when those men want to engage in casual sex.“ You could also argue that it's hypocritical for women to prefer tall men when they themselves are short. But no one bats an eye there” Well yeah, because height isn’t a choice whereas promiscuity is. The point of hypocrisy—which the people disagreeing with OP are missing entirely—is when one shames choices in others that they actively do themselves. That’s why it’s fair to call out non-fit people for wanting a fit partner, messy people for wanting a clean/organized partner, people with poor sp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 10:02 PM |
| 16 | The male 'aesthetics' popular in South Korea are not attractive to western womenNo? Here’s a list of the most popular male groups and only 1 group in the list has an average height of 6ft+. In fact BTS, who apparently is the most popular group in world right now is of average height. https://www.koreaboo.com/lists/shortest-tallest-20-male-kpop-groups-based-group-average-height/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 04:05 PM |
| 5 | SOME men in your league will try to use you. But if you only go for men above your league, ALL OF THEM WILLNo I’m talking about standard relationships not FWB as in the guy lied saying he wanted a LTR in the sense that he wanted a standard relationship even though that was never his intention from the start and then disappeared after getting what he wanted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 11:43 PM |
| 5 | SOME men in your league will try to use you. But if you only go for men above your league, ALL OF THEM WILLYes I’m aware those types of men exist but I’m not talking about them. I’m talking specifically about guys who had no intentions from the start of wanting a LTR, who then lie to women who are looking for a LTR saying that they do, and who then disappear immediately after getting what they wanted. I know this because I have literally been in spaces where I’ve over heard guys admitting and laughing over how they lied to a woman who was looking for an LTR when they were not. ETA: from some of stori… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 11:29 PM |
| 20 | SOME men in your league will try to use you. But if you only go for men above your league, ALL OF THEM WILLYup. Go onto any dating or women centric sub and you’ll see plenty of stories from women who were with a guy who told her that he wanted a LTR with her even though it was a lie and where the woman waited before they were in a committed relationship to sleep with him only for him to immediately ghost/go radio silent right after he got what he wanted. ETA: Essentially, if the woman knew your true intentions, she never would have slept with you. But since you knew that and then actively lied about … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 10:56 PM |
| 10 | CMV: pushing RP theories like the wall encourages immature women with very little life experience to make rushed decisions about who’s genes to pass onThis is already happening and since TRP likes to bring in biology 24/7, this is how it’s supposed be. Look at the animal kingdom among birds, lions, monkeys, etc. the females reproduce with the most attractive males while the others lose out or the females decide not to mate. The same is happening now with humans in that women are now free to choose the most attractive males and reproduce with them, essentially creating a new generation of “chad-lings” while other males lose out. So maybe in the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Women giving dating advice to men doesn’t work because guys ask for vague advice.Thank you. I’ll make this into a post right now because why not. Edit: Actually Reddit’s not letting make a post for some reason. I’ll try another time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 06:32 PM |
| 9 | Women giving dating advice to men doesn’t work because guys ask for vague advice.“You (tend to) attract what you are” This is advice I give to anyone regardless of gender. If you want to attract a certain demographic you have to become what is attractive to that demographic, genuinely (have some self respect and don’t completely lose yourself for the sake of someone else and also because people can generally spot “posers” which is really unattractive) AND then place yourself in areas where those demographics tend to exist AND put yourself out there. 3 key steps. The break do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 03:42 PM |
| 1 | It's perfectly sensible for a woman to be rapidly promiscuous with some men, and have tougher criteria for relationship-material men"He will bail" and how would you know this ? Because they admit to it. Plenty of guys have said they’ve ghosted women who made them wait. Go onto any sub where women talk about their dating experiences and you’ll find plenty of stories of guys who ghosted them the moment they didn’t put out within 1-3 dates. “No he won't, since men get into relationships hoping for endless sex” There are definitely guys who lose interest in “easy” women when it comes to considering them for a relationship. You’v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 12:39 AM |
| 2 | It's perfectly sensible for a woman to be rapidly promiscuous with some men, and have tougher criteria for relationship-material men“ And those men are most guys ?” That’s not the point. I was giving an example. Go outside and talk to guys, many will say that if the girl doesn’t put out before commitment he will bail. BUT these same guys will also say that if a woman does put out on the first 1-3 dates, he views her as “easy” and loses interest in her as relationship material. I don’t understand these contradictory sentiments placed upon young women these days. “ Give me a break, women here always say traditionalism is outda… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 10:04 PM |
| 6 | It's perfectly sensible for a woman to be rapidly promiscuous with some men, and have tougher criteria for relationship-material men“ women who make guys wait for sex are not relationship material to many guys” There’s literally comments from men in this very thread stating if a woman is the type to not wait, she’s not relationship material. So which is it? Woman waits? She’s not into you and is not relationship material. Woman doesn’t wait? She’s a whore and not relationship material. You guys set up an impossible standard. No wonder you guys are still single. Geez. Also women who date traditionally don’t exist to you appar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 09:15 PM |
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