YesIDoLiftBro Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Mini FR- Shit test and application of Law 36 I'll say no to sex if I am legitimately not in the mood and need to be doing something else. Granted, I have told her to just initiate since its pretty easy to get me from 0 to 100. Also, there is a bit of power in telling your wife no every once in a while, just don't do it in a butt-hurt way and don't do it for any bullshit machiavellian reasons and her hamster will roll.	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/12/16 10:31 PM
3	Feedback on routine, not cleared to lift heavy... I'm gonna go a bit off tangent here and say if you're fucking fat you and aren't cleared to lift heavy, focus on dieting first. Yes lifting has all sorts of benefits outside of aesthetics, but you still have a legitimate roadmap towards a fit body via nutrition. Do not ignore that and do not let your physical limitations get in the way between you and a fit body. Also, do not workout without professional guidance near you. You need someone who appreciates the shit your back has gone through to m…	/r/askMRP	15/12/16 10:23 PM
4	Had an argue with LTR yesterday, going to work Christmas party today You should really read the side bar material before posting. This is very basic stuff. You are enveloped in her feelings You have said in this thread how abundance mentality wouldn't help you here (wtf?? clearly you haven't read anything) Apologizing for no good reason Acting in a supplicating manner C'mon man, put the time and effort in before you ask us to put time and effort in responding	/r/askMRP	15/12/16 10:18 PM
5	Why doing the dishes to get sex from her isn't complete bullshit OP is correct with regards to my wife and background noise/relaxation for sex. However, I'm going to go against /u/TheFamilyAlpha and say go do your fucking dishes and clean. I think about what I would be doing if I were a single dad and you bet your ass my house would be clean. Clean if you need a clean house/environment but do it because you want it that way, not to get fucked. You make this a routine or way of life and suddenly you are leading her in keeping a place tidy. In theory if you are…	/r/MarriedRedPill	13/12/16 09:00 PM
3	Why are video games considered DLV? I appreciate your line of questioning. I would answer your question of "why is woodworking/tuning a bike different than gaming?" this way: Gaming and tv binging is all escapism. That's fine in small doses but as we work to make ourselves better you gain nothing from those activities. When you work on physical projects you are strengthening your hands, you are working on actual tangible skills that are productive in the real world. You want to make a woman wet go and fix a table/car issue she has…	/r/askMRP	13/12/16 05:20 PM
2	Were Most of Us Really Ever Alphas? I was fairly alpha and then something happened in high school. I'm writing up a longer post for the MRP subreddit about this. I went through an angsty period as many many male teenagers do. It's not until later that I figured out what that was all about. Teenage angst is anger and frustration at yourself for the realization of your lack of manhood. Leading up to a few years into high school I was always the straight-A's, captain of sports teams, top chair in orchestra kind of guy. I had friends …	/r/askMRP	02/11/16 06:54 PM
8	I am such a bitch My first reaction is to laugh and point and do the obligatory faggot name calling. However, I was in a similar spot a year ago. I did all the reading, I digested all the blog posts and Reddit comments, but my work outs fizzled out and I'd get lazy with leadership. By not going ALL IN I was in essence amplifying my misery rather than alleviating it and that only prolonged the anger phase. What did it eventually for me was one day where shit at work was blowing up and after a long week of that I g…	/r/askMRP	10/09/16 03:34 AM
4	Bros, Dogs, & Beer "Potential means the work hasn't been done yet. I'm doing the work." - this was my answer	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/09/16 11:33 PM
2	Low Self esteem wife giving me grief and shit Honestly man these are questions that have been covered ad nauseam. Do the required reading and study MRP and AskMRP. Without having a specific shit test as an example I'll say just STFU up until you can successfully laugh that shit away with confidence. More specific examples are littered throughout these communities	/r/askMRP	09/09/16 11:14 PM
2	Low Self esteem wife giving me grief and shit With regards to insecurities, recognize them and own them. Do not shy away from owning them, only way to blast them away. It also takes time	/r/askMRP	09/09/16 11:11 PM
1	Insecurity / Self Loathing Have you stopped to self-reflect on how you were raised? A therapist will help a lot but just for the sake of this community I'm wondering if you mind sharing your background a bit.	/r/askMRP	09/09/16 11:03 PM
2	Low Self esteem wife giving me grief and shit One thing is being in a wife's frame, the other is living in it you might as well take a mortgage on the damn thing. Buddy, fuck her insecurities right now. You can't combat those with your own insecurities. Work on you as already stated here. Lift like you mean it. Read and study like you mean it. And for fuck's sake start imagining a life without her to at least clue you in on how it feels to not be living in her damn frame so much. To not be in her frame is to be two things: confident in your…	/r/askMRP	09/09/16 10:57 PM