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| 1 | Poke holes in my plan please | YesImTheAsshole_ta | /r/MGTOW2 | 16/02/21 10:31 AM |
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| 7 | I’m not quite sure if I want to get married or notI’m married and pro marriage, but given your situation as described, if you were my little brother, I would almost certainly tell you not to marry this one. Here’s a few thoughts despite a lot seeming positive from outside you aren’t fully bought in. Listen to that little voice. I did when I had chance to settle down with my college girl, she was a solid 9 and I am very glad I did. at 25 having dated one for half of your adult life pretty much you are still inexperienced with women. I say this a… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/25 08:52 PM |
| 0 | Tattoos are, by far, the quickest and easiest way to make yourself more sexually attractiveIf you’re getting a tat for this reason you are doing it wrong. Pretty much same with beard | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 04:03 AM |
| 1 | What kind of hobbies would turn a woman off?Unless your being a devils advocate little shit, in general, Anything can be a turn on to a woman. There are not enough guys on their purpose succeeding in this life and doing them in a way that creates admiration from their community of whatever the fuck they might be doing. It doesn’t matter how traditionally cool or nerdy it is. If you are damn good at it, and have earn respect of males and hopefully but not necessarily females by doing it, AND you can speak on it casually, then it will be at… | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 11:56 PM |
| 2 | “Friend” and I like the same girlYoung man, this is an easy one to answer. And it’s more of a lesson about being a man and friendship and brotherhood and trust than it is about game and women. Women are attracted to real men. This is because real men are hard for them to find… also what you don’t yet realize, is that real men are hard for men to find. If you are a solid dude, you can get bitches. As you move through life and hopefully find success in your career, You want other friends in your circle that can also pull, not so … | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 11:38 PM |
| 3 | What are some signals that a girl is just the "break your bank" and take advantage of you type?You are smart to ask for help on this one. Many a man have gone wrong… but if they are all honest the signs were usually always there. Biggest thing is open your eyes and don’t get with one seriously that you aren’t 100% in control of your feelings and the relationship with. It’s not that women are such experts at tricking men here by hiding their gold digging ways, it’s that the men are chumps and inexperienced and lie to themselves because they are too emotionally or sexually needy. I make all… | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 11:28 PM |
| 1 | If you put it on music at the house with someone you invited over; which playlist are you putting?Put the shit on that you find chill and sexy. If a woman likes you, chances are she will like your taste their or appreciate it. Be able to talk about the music casually when you drop it on. Definitely have a playlist that makes the girls go nuts in the car on the drive home. You got to find what you like then invite her into your world my friend. | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 11:15 PM |
| 2 | How can I make women comfortable with our height gap?Here’s the thing homie…. Have you actually dated tall women extensively? You like what you like and everyone has their taste. But gut reaction is that if you’d had success with them already you wouldn’t be asking this here. Not too many little dudes luck their way into multiple tall girlfriends. I say all that to say this. I used to be into them too, it’s illusive and we always want what we can’t have. But then I dated them. And bro it ain’t always greener on the taller side. I love me some long… | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Not getting action at Night clubsFor sure brother, 50% of what I learned probably came from others on boards like this and the rest is just stuff you got to learn through experience. A lot is general, but a lot of it has to vibe with your style | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 03:51 PM |
| 5 | Not getting action at Night clubsTry going out without trying to get laid. Go out with your boys, go out with a group of female friends. Learn to have fun in non sexual social settings first (walk before you can run). Have the attitude that you can take or leave any women that may or may not come into your life that night. If they do vibe with you, start with the intention and goal of getting their contact to meet another time (aka byo Ho somewhere else so you don’t have to worry about picking them up in the club) Yes attitude … | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 09:24 PM |
| 0 | Going out with a teacherI got almost a decade on you but don’t envy your timing of getting with girls your age right now. That said, be cautious on two things: 1 - don’t let your own biases and bullshit get in the way of self realization if shit you need to work on that might keep you from getting girls your age. 2 - know that most woman your age and older are going to have vastly more experience than you for a while. If you develop game and get some experience under your belt it will eventually flip, but for now, a 26… | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a wingman or wingwoman in TorontoGood luck but these threads never get too much love in my experience I’ll drop a note of advice I try to share though: Become a master of befriending the bartender and you will never need another wingman. Solo game has its benefits and unique powers Few people in the bar have more social cred than the bartender, when them over and it’s some immediate social proof to up your value in that venue It’s actually not that hard, if you’ve been in the industry you know the struggle and game. If you have… | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 06:01 AM |
| 4 | I am decent at day game. I suck at solo night game. Any suggestions are appreciated.Idk man, women are an add on/bonus… be on your purpose and grind, that’s the most attractive thing you can do as a man… I’ve never known a real “1%” or whatever you want to call it dude that does “night game”, odds are fucking horrible to go out looking for chicks. Go out with your friends, be on business, enjoy some drinks at the hotel bar, do all that shit for YOU while being the attractive man with game, if opportunity presents itself, you will be ready, that’s night game. Going out to just f… | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 05:48 AM |
| 21 | The intuition chickYup yup, only response in my opinion is to confidently tell her what your intentions are… honestly, without shame. That should do the trick, | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Have several months off work with money saved up, how to take advantage+++ on the suggestions to travel. Bottom line is you are lacking in experience at your age. That’s not a bad thing, you are on a different timeline, so be it, don’t compare yourself, it’s dumb. My advice is to admit where you are at, and not fill yourself into the idea that you just need to add some ingredients and magic spells/ combos of words into getting into more girls pants… actually spend your time becoming the kind of man that women find attractive. But yes, in the meantime for heavens sa… | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 05:20 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]They are just as horny and kinkier than us brother… trust that yes it is different now, but rest assured that it will present better opportunities in newer ways than ever before. Your job is to awaken your third eye for aching pussy lol… that barista that gave you a smile with a little twinkle in her eye… That milf that mentioned that you are handsome… that x y or z that you would normally brush off, now is time to sack up and reciprocate to see where It leads your man 👍🤙👌 | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Last minute date cancellation/flake. How did I respond?You can be as rigid about your standards for this shit as you want to. Plenty of threads on the subject. I come only to offer a tid bit of wisdom that I didn’t catch in the boiler plate expected responses to this… that being, don’t let your own insecurities get in your way of a good thing when it comes to flakiness. Some chicks, especially of other cultures and value systems might get flaky right whatever and need a little more attention. I remember one time being so butt hurt that I let somethi… | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 05:06 AM |
| 3 | Giving your number vs getting a numberEveryone has their style. Mine ain’t the high energy straight forward, this is a guy asking a girl out thing… mine is more, hey - i’m effortlessly interesting and smart as fuck, if I want our numbers will end up in each other’s phones without you even realizing it and you will wonder if I did it out of attraction but deep down hope that i did. My game is laid back and mysterious. Here’s how it goes on a very basic level - build common ground on anything and have a good conversation. Show your mo… | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone have videos of Julien Blanc doing pickup back in the days? Infield footage? I wanna reference his style.Watched many hours of this shit on the edge of my seat…. Not ashamed to admit it. Good entertainers. Possibly staged. One of the most eye opening things I ever read here was along these lines: problem with most PUAs, is they teach you how to impersonate an attractive man, instead of just becoming that man. Why waste your time figuring out how to con women into the shit when you can just spend your time becoming that man!? Professional PUA is not a replicable/scalable lifestyle for men. Focusing … | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Should I try and keep this girl interested over the next month while I'm away for break?To long, didn’t read lol. If you like her so far, yes. Put in effort that correlates with where she ranks on your current options. Remember, 1 is none and 2 is 1 out there | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Is this how you're supposed to approach/rate my approach method?Any words that you aren’t confident and sure if are the wrong words. Be you brother. Have peace that you are still going to have a great night regardless of the reaction and you can’t go wrong. To say this combo of words/approach is better than another for x,y or analytical reasons is to miss the point by a mile. That line of thinking can reinforce bad habits because bottom line is, many cringe my ass dude can achieve “success” if their frame, even if misguided, is stronger Than the woman’s in h… | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 04:46 AM |
| 2 | Just got rejected by the girl i lovedWelcome to the game… you just learned lesson 1 of 1000… only players with balls to handle and learn from rejection get to advance to the many prizes along the way. Step right up big dog, you got this, I promise | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 04:43 AM |
| 2 | How far should you joke with guysFirst off, good on you for giving a fuck about how the dudes on the other side of tinder feel hahaha Step 1: school yourself up on the horrendous odds these bastards face as males on dating apps for having any success. Many of the more experienced, confident, smooth with words MFers on this sub who can get solid results IRL with attractive women are lucky to connect with a, let’s say, 6/10 on any given week. It’s a numbers game and those numbers ain’t in your favor, some of us get it and roll wi… | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 04:35 AM |
| 2 | Advice?Okie dokie… here’s the trick. You don’t… at least not how you are cooking it up in your head right now… it’s not a trick shot, logic problem or linear equation as us men tend to see the world. It’s a dance…. And the easiest way to do it is this: talk about all the other non sexual shit first…. And be good and interesting at it. Make her want you for non sexual reasons… your brain, your heart, your humor…. THEN, when she’s least expecting it but already bought in to the idea of being with you, yo… | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 04:20 AM |
| 2 | How do I, as an engineer, who is mostly doing and following things related to engineering, like coding and watching SpaceX videos, improve my social skills?I’ll respond from another approach. If you are successful in general and good with people in general... women will follow. Don’t try to take the short cut to act like the guy that gets women... actually become that guy. Change your paradigm from your nerdiness being a handicap to realizing how much of an opportunity you have. Being a techy or quant puts you in a great spot... people with silver tongues and no substance can be found very easily. You have an opportunity to be uniquely wel rounded … | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Need help asapWell first of all you have to be completely indifferent to the outcome or this shit won’t work... she’s knows you too well and will sniff out thirst easily. Here’s how I would do it: What was your typical lead up to hooking up? Watching a show? Going to a certain bar? If there’s any experience you shared besides sex that multiple times led to sex, keep it short and sweet, text her “Hey, I’m doing “x”. Want to join?”. Keep it short, don’t give a shit if she doesn’t reply... even if she doesn’t th… | /r/seduction | 11/03/21 01:01 AM |
| 1 | As long as you are not self-conscious about it, then there is nothing weird about going out alone.Going out alone can be highly successful with low effort. Here’s what’s made it easiest for me: pick the correct venue, it’s probably not a club. It’s somewhere there is a mix of other single guys and cute girls maybe coming in with a friend... idea is to look like the guy at the bar most worth getting to know. How do you do that? get to the bar early or already be a regular and know the staff. If you can learn to chat up bartenders you’ll have built in wings and status for life. If she thinks y… | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 05:21 AM |
| 2 | How does masculinity relate to boundaries?I like it... know what you want, why you want it, and I’d just add - know what type of girls are down to be a part of it. The rest is a piece of cake | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Need help asapI feel this bro. One of the ways I knew I had made a lot of progress recently was just having too much self respect to hit up an ex that broke things off but still wanted to fuck regularly, she was too much drama anyway. But top 3 tightest, wettest vagina I’ve ever been with and she was a freak. I’m a horny bastard. I would totally be hitting that earlier in life. But what I’ve learned and now internalized to the point that not even my penis can betray me is that if you want to be the kind of gu… | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 04:59 AM |
| 6 | How to GET HER BACK - 4 steps (the ONLY way)Totally agree. To add to that... your level of happiness after reaching the place where you can have her but don’t want her is so much higher than a) when you were with her b) after you broke up and c) what it would be even if you got had gotten back together right away... one of those lessons I wish I could have been there to tell my younger self | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 04:49 AM |
| 14 | Some guys lives just suck. No matter what they do, how hard they work, they're pathetic, they go back to where they started, nothing changes. This is just true. And there are guys who are just lucky. They have it all. Partner, friends, career, money, look they have it without much effort.Idk man. I know a lot of fucking people.. only one I’ve ever given up on straight up has Aspergers and doesn’t understand a single social cue, and that motherfucker even got a girlfriend recently. I agree with you’re point. You’re right. Working hard alone isn’t going to do it. Blindly applying someone else’s system to your unique situation isn’t going to do it either. But waking up, accepting responsibility that it’s in you to open your fucking eyeballs and being creative to figure out what wor… | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 04:31 AM |
| 6 | Guys- if we’re at a party, how do I tell him I’m DTF?Is he shy? Do you think he likes you? In general if he likes you and knows what he’s doing with women, just escalate things further every time he makes a move and you’re golden. He touched your knee, you hold his hand. He kisses you, you kiss back passionately and give those big excited fuck me eyes. He holds your hand again, you move it inside your thigh. If you’re trying to get in the pants of an inexperienced dude that is shy, you don’t want to move too fast because he’s already in his head w… | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 04:17 AM |
| 2 | Do you befriend someone before you start asking them out on dates?Welcome to the game grasshopper. You are in an information collecting practice phase right now. An intermediate skilled guy or above should never default into friend mode. Why? That’s where girls put you when they aren’t sexually attracted to you. And as a guy, you shouldn’t be sneaking and hiding your attraction... nice guying your way into bed might work on some teenage girls but it’s a horrible strategy that will just develop bad habits for you. Your job right now though is to interact and co… | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Hey guys, i need your thoughts and opinions on this.Funny is very good. Funny can open a world of opportunity and drop a world of panties, confidence and being more sure of yourself than she is of herself is what will close those opportunities every single time. If the 2nd base girl wasn't a true virgin and had already gone further with other guys, then you 100% did what you had to do get her in bed, you just fucked it up by being inexperience and she saw that you weren't confident in what you were doing. Nothing wrong with that, it takes time an… | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 07:34 AM |
| 5 | How do I transition out of business mode and into pickup mode?Bloody hell. I looked at your post history... You're in real estate sales but you can't connect the dots on how to sell yourself to a female? I'm a real estate guy that's worn every cap from front line sales to institutional executive so I'm not going to hold any punches. You deal with a dozen dumbasses, tire kickers and karens a week so I know you can handle my bullshit.... What have you learned from touring those hundreds if not thousands of prospective buyers over the years? Does the same shi… | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Hey guys, i need your thoughts and opinions on this.Hey guys, i need your thoughts and opinions on this. I'm a 21 year old virgin who wants to take my dating life to the next level. I've been researching and watching a lot of these "pick up artist" and "natural seduction" videos. There is one person in specific, his name is Justin Marc. Can you please share your thoughts about this as I'm planning to invest in this "Bootcamp" of his. What do y'all think? Should i do it or should i not? Haha, yeah - i'm in an intense mood lately and have a low tol… | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 07:14 AM |
| 1 | The struggle is realI can't stand getting into the nuances anymore. Sounds to me like you are beating yourself up over not being a slick enough bastard at your age to consistently get girls around your age... keep learning bro. I think it would do you some good to familiarize yourself with the old mating value over time/age of the sexes paradigm. Bro, these girls at 23 are at the peak of their physical beauty and attractiveness, they've been getting hit on since they were starting to grow tits by dudes in their tee… | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 06:30 AM |
| 87 | Is it true that when you find the one it will feel easy?90% of what you were raised being told about relationships and women ain’t reality young man. | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 06:07 AM |
| 6 | How does one secure a FWB after a drunken night at the bar with them?Yo ahowls.... bar pick ups that are same night lays are whores... nothing wrong with that... love me some whores as much as the next guy. Probably a little more than the next guy. But never forget that a whore/slut responds best to one thing and that is strength and indifference in a man. NEVER, EVER.... EVER escalate any element of commitment or lovely dovey “good night” “can’t wait to see you again” “good morning” type of talk with a whore. Her pussy will dry up and her attention will go to th… | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 06:00 AM |
| 4 | Hey guys, i need your thoughts and opinions on this.Fuck no. Guy is a douche. He looks like a 10 years too late knock off of simple pickup and that shit turned out to be reality TV. Nothing about my first impression of this fool is impressive. Earring in pic makes him look like a pussy. The blonde he’s kissing looks like a dude in that shot. His persona in the vid seems corny as hell. Were these fools meditating and doing the the old push-ups in the street? It’s like the worlds worst PUA meets sadghuru. Fuck this guy bro. I’ll keep it short, this… | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 05:45 AM |
| 12 | 35 year old virgin needs advice on escorts and international womenOh dude... Where to start? Lots to try to help with... The dichotomy you are projecting of ultra high value on your average woman vs describing hookers as being extremely low value, disease ridden money grubbing sluts shows your naivety. You have yet to open your eyes to the true nature of 99.9% of women, you will not yet appreciate this, but this is a part of why this shit has taken you so long. I guaranty you that with your lack of experience at your age, a dozen “regular” girls will pull the … | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Looking for a Wing in OrlandoGotcha man. Appreciate the original conversation and response because it made me think through how my game has changed when I otherwise haven’t given it too much attention. Just naturally been gravitating to what works for me over the years. I’m 28. Putting in the effort in a social, lively night game setting to open girls to the degree that a rejection makes me look like I was obviously trying to pick up is actually out of my natural lane and style, I’m short and don’t immediately physically co… | /r/seduction | 21/02/21 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Looking for a Wing in OrlandoNot sure of your age, but after undergrad I’ve done so much better when my boys just get out of my way lol. Just asking out of curiosity, what situations do you find a wing helping you in? I mean having someone to jump on a grenade is cool, but having an equal chance of you having to return that favor on any given nice is less cool lol. Just honestly don’t need one for day game / social circle game, maybe it’s just that I don’t do much Night game anymore... | /r/seduction | 21/02/21 07:01 AM |
| 3 | Reacting to a girls Instagram storyHave you ever tried teaching your parent or grandparent how to use modern technology and they end up thinking the process is some secret code sequence they must remember, but in reality they just need to learn the damn interface and they won’t have to ask you a million times for the details? This is the same thing. Brother, waiting to ask the internet isn’t necessary here. You’re a smart, logical guy, trust your wits, this is an easy one.. it’s either neutral or good. Probably good. Proceed like… | /r/seduction | 21/02/21 06:53 AM |
| 5 | There is a reason why girls who are 18-19 like guys in their early-mid 20sYes, guys at that age mature far slower socially than females. Girls that age have guys of every age trying to get with them... why would they settle for a a guy their age when they can get someone that’s smarter, more experience but looks about the same age? In general women always go after older men mate | /r/seduction | 21/02/21 06:44 AM |
| 2 | How can a low status man , build himself to reach something better or...If you’re the type that is concerned about status get your ass back in school. I had a rough couple of years myself with family loss so I know where you’re coming from. Yeah dude at 21 you don’t have a ton to offer women besides sex anyway. I understand the comparison game, but if there is ever a time that not having your shit together 100% is okay it’s now. Focus on getting your head and body right. There is no shortage of pussy out there, enjoy it. Dumb 18-19 year olds, milfs, and brainiac med… | /r/seduction | 21/02/21 06:11 AM |
| 6 | My heart keeps getting brokenIt’s all part of the process brother. Don’t be discouraged... I think it takes 99% of guys a few heartbreaks to understand the true nature of women and how to attract them. My experience is you make a little progress after each one, but you really turn the corner when instead of being sad that you lost the girl, you finally realized you didn’t like the girl that much anyway and you let go of the fictional idea of a happily ever after relationship with a woman... once you let all of those ideas d… | /r/seduction | 21/02/21 12:30 AM |
| 1 | HOW DO I?In your situation, if you’re not already on point physically, mentally, socially, career/education... get there. If you can’t get there tomorrow, get start making progress. Sex ain’t always about the bedroom for women, our dumb asses get turned on from lingerie and bikinis and short skirts, women get wet from a guy that’s dressed well in a suit or something else that communicates power in the world. If you’ve never been able to compare oral sex from the same girl before and after getting a new c… | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 11:28 PM |
| 9 | Does kino really make that big of a difference?Yeah it makes a difference. Women appreciate a man that knows when his touch is welcome and can deliver that touch confidently. You got to make it work for your personality though. Girls have a 6th sense for fake bullshit evolutionarily built in. I’m not a super tall dude so first dates I usually don’t go for immediate hugs and shit like some guys. In general, I okay the reserved, smart mysterious guy, not the fun loving touchy feely dude. PMing you some Jedi shit that I read years ago that’s wo… | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 08:24 PM |
| 2 | HOW DO I?Not sure. But if you’re a real kinky MF, be up front about that shit from day 1.... well maybe not day 1 but you know what I mean. Let her know how it works and be ready to cut ties if she can’t satisfy you. Much easier to do if you haven’t invested 2 years. But the fact that you make it clear that you aren’t going to give her more attention unless she satisfies what you crave, is more often than not exactly the type of thing that will make her want to do it. Negotiating sexual stuff tends to ha… | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 10:57 AM |
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