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Haha.. you're source. Apparently, someone who dated a ton of short guys, but us now dating a tall guy, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:27 PM
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It was important for this context of your flair 'blue pill'. They generally tend to agree otherwise. You & blue pull tend to agree on completely different things. That's even weirder.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:25 PM
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Do you ever go outside I'm outside rn & and no, I don't see whatever dream scenarios you keep imagining in your head. You literally tried to gaslight me and my experience because it didn’t fit your statistics. Because statistics say much more about general human behavior than one woman. I shared my experience because it’s relevant. In the grand scheme of things, it's really not. And suddenly when I say I can relate to you on the other side of it you “have it worse”. I said if because it's tall w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:23 PM
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Aww, kiddo...😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:11 PM
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Aww, kiddo...😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:10 PM
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Oh no.. I don't have any reasonable arguments..umm let him just call him an InCeL & try to win the argument, lol. And the way you're responding, it does seem like you are a 10 year old kid. So, I'm almost there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:08 PM
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Because when we go outside, we don't see whatever dream scenarios you keep imagining in your head & spewjng it all over in your comments. I'm sure fat women are dating outside, too, but if short guys = fat women, it only proves how tough beauty standards for men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:07 PM
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Umm.. Men can talk to men about women. That happens a lot on this sub. And that's what we were doing too. Are you okay ??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:05 PM
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Majority of people simply do not care about your height all that much if it is somewhere close to their own height. Sligthly smaller percentage wants you to be taller than them, and an absolute tiny minority has some artifical height limit. No offense but do you have any source for whatever the fuck you're saying. Because I do for mine. But then again, you cannot exactly decide if you get attracted to someone or not. It just kinda happens. So someone who has an artificial height requirement migh…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:03 PM
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I find it hilarious that you don't think it is. I'm sure a 5 '1 guy has no trouble dating. You could be 7ft tall and absolutely nobody would want to date you in your current state. Okay, kiddo.. and I'm sure you're getting laid if you're a 5'7 "guy. At least I make more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:01 PM
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Hey.. when you figure out how tough beauty standards for men are as compared to women, just because of height, I'm here too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:53 PM
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This is much MUCH better then.. Oh no.. I don't have any reasonable arguments..umm let him just call him an InCeL & try to win the argument, lol. And the way you're responding, it does seem like you are a 10 year old kid. So, I'm almost there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:51 PM
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You don't have to ask out a random person. You could ask out someone you know. And they could reject you in a split second. Are you actually trying to prove that height is not a serious beauty standard for which men get rejected over ?? Jfc..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:49 PM
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Yeah, my mistake. What effort would you even put when you don't have any reasonable arguments to begin with ?? You actually think height doesn't form part of men's attractiveness. God..you're a fuckin weirdo. iNcEl InCeL lol .
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:46 PM
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Again, why are you sharing your own experiences & applying it to everyone ? Just because you're into short guys doesn't mean everyone is. 85% of men are shorter in height. Do you think 85% of women are into them ? god you short dudes and your lack of confidence and constant denial of women who literally find y’all attractive is what makes you unattractive. That’s the complex. No. It's the constant gaslighting from women like you, which is the problem. If you reject someone in a split second, jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:42 PM
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Nah.. I'm actually much more internalizing the fact, how much life is tough for me, just because I'm short. But you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:32 PM
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Nice comeback..dumbass 😂. InCeL..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:28 PM
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Or maybe you're just some short women who's dating a tall guy & pretending to be a 5'7 "dude. I actually have seen exactly these types of things on reddit. Height is part of men's attractiveness. If you don't know this by now, you're most probably just a 10 year old kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:26 PM
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'There'...I did just now. And no, I don't see it. Are you happy now dumbfuck ??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:23 PM
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When you cry about your height to this degree, yeah it's propably not your height that is letting you down in dating To what degree ? All the comments I have made are on this sub. That's what everyone does here. And you're stupid if you don't think height is not the most important part of men's attractiveness, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:22 PM
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I'm 5'6. Women who reject me end up dating guys a head taller than me. That's at least 6 ft. I am 5'7 so not exactly tall either. And..what am I supposed to do with that ? I have never seen a short gen z guy in a relationship, especially here in the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:19 PM
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Because you singlehandedly going fucking around short guys doesn't prove anything. Vist r/short, r/tall, r/tallgirls, r/ShortGirlProblems, r/tinder & see how tough beauty standards for men are. Also, you get downvoted exactly because of what you say. You and the million women on reddit who fucks 5 foot guys, but their current partner is 6ft & above. Hearing this is even more painful than not being into short guys at all. They aren't even enough 5-foot guys on earth, which women promise on reddit…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:57 PM
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Never said height was not a big deal. Just not to focus on it. That's seems contradictory. If height is a big deal, it's hard not to focus on it. In your perception what is short? I'm my perception, shorter than women, i.e. 5'4. But my perception is of little to no value. According to women, shortness is something that isn't tall. Tall is 6 feet & above. So, everything else is short. Also if you don't mind what is surprising about my flair? Blue Pill. Blue Pill women generally ( always) think th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:50 PM
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Now imagine how it is for 85% of men who are short. I'm surprised you have a blue pill flair. That sub is absolutely delusional into thinking how height is not a big deal for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:18 PM
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What about height ? My bf% is low. But how to increase height at the gym ? That's the main problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:59 PM
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Now imagine how it is for 85% of men who are shorter than 6ft ? You will realise how tough beauty standards for men are as compared to women. At least thanks for accepting as a blue pill fair user, then men get rejected for their height. Blue pill women usually gaslights men into thinking that height is not a big deal for men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:57 PM
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I'm having a really hard time imagining whatever you said actually happened, lol. But then again, it is reddit. Assuming it did happen, it really doesn't align with my rejections at all. As a short guy, whenever I get rejected for my height in college, women who rejected me always end up dating a guy taller than me. I would ask, how old are you ? Because it's pretty common among Gen Z women. Height is the most important trait to women now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:48 PM
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Or, you know, they can just reject you & then end up dating someone better looking than you. For example, I'm a short guy. Whenever I get rejected, women who reject me always end up dating a taller guy in my college. They don't always have to mention that before rejecting me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:42 PM
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The women willing to look past their appearance are probably ugly women that are invisible to them. Truly ugly men & ugly women make about 10% of the population. People on this sub are mostly average looking. If men only started going after ugly women, the problem would still be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:37 PM
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Bro, your post history clearly mentions that you're gay. So, how the fuck would you know about troubles of being 5'6 ? Height as a preference doesn't exist in gay relationships ( atleast not enough to make it a problem). I think you're understanding how much of men's height holds value among women. Height is the most important physical trait women look for in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:35 PM
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I think OP has just heard men saying they don't want to be in a relationship with a prostitute or someone with a high body count, so much, that she has started to assume that men hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:57 AM
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I have never heard a man saying they 'hate' sex workers. Not even once. All I have heard is that men just don't want to date women who are sex workers or any women with a higher body count. It's just a preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:55 AM
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Not being feminine. That's the reason. For years, I also wondered why women are attracted to taller guys. That's a preference I just never understood. Then I realized, 'being hot' which both short guys & prostitutes can be, aren't masculine & and feminine enough as per the patriarchal traditional beauty standards for people to consider dating. It's the same reason why short guys tend to marry later in life as compared to tall guys. And men have negative preferences for women with high body count…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:46 AM
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Where did I say only 6ft + men were attractive I never said you did. I’m using the metric you are - that tall = attractive to women because you said if Cavill was shorter, he’d struggle. You are telling that for a guy to be shorter than 6ft, he's not model level conventionally attractive. So, what's the difference is for women?? You are a champion at twisting things up. You're a champion at not answering questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:41 PM
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I never said Henry Cavil was only considered attractive for his height. But he was shorter than 6ft, he would have to make a lot of compromises & no he won't be considered attractive. Not to attractive women, he won't. Just like conventionally hot girls who could be models get more of a choice in men than less hot girls. OK, I'll explain everything. But first tell me, what's the difference between a conventionally hot girl model & less hot girl. Because I have no idea. For men, according to you,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 05:37 PM
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Most of the times these celebs are considered attractive because of the roles/characters they play. Do you really think Oscar Isaac or Zac Efron & especially Daniel Radclifee will ever get matches over Jason Mamoa/ Henry Cavil ? The only reason Henry Cavil is considered attractive is because of his height. Also, I have heard maybe 1 or 2 women crush over Daniel Radcliffe & that's only because they were HP fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:42 PM
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So many young women crush on Pedro Pascal Because he fits one of the most important beauty standards for men. He's tall. You really think women would find him attractive if he was 5'5, come on, lol. He's tall, rich & a celebrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:25 PM
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I occasionally will see a joke about short guys Because you're a short guy, that's why you don't see it. I'm a short guy & I see it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:17 PM
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Nope. Untrue & even if you think it's true, those standards for women are at least easy & controllable. However, millions of women say I dated a guy shorter than me & you go outside. You see, women rejecting men shorter than 6 feet or only dating guys 6 feet or tall is definitely true. "I only date nice girls." Dates, a nice girl dumps her for being "boring" and pursues drama queen woman. Source?? I can provide a source for mine if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:44 AM
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This is definitely a good faith conversation. It's funny how you ignored everything else in his comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:41 AM
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Women have weight preferences, too. That's the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:36 AM
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I’ve seen guys say they are gonna jet off to the Philippines because 3 women told them they weren’t tall enough. Like come on , bro. 3 women telling them back to back about not being tall enough is a serious thing to be considered, though.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 10:44 PM
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Anywhere on Earth. From r/tinder, it seems like women have options almost everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:38 PM
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we all know attractive men are all abusers If they weren't, then women wouldn't need feminism lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:36 PM
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There are a lot of sub which indicates these things. For example- Askfeminists. Women on that sub always perpetuates this stupid idea that 6ft thing for men is not real. When it's obvious from women on this sub & irl that it is. I think feminism hurt & manipulated men in a lot of ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:34 PM
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Show me where these definitions have been established? . Where would those definitions be established lol ? If those definitions were established, women would never face it in the first place. Abusers still make sure their victims lack independence and autonomy, or else they would leave Yeah. Because they have enough encouragement to do so from women. We’re not talking bout anything but dv here so idk how that’s relevant. Considering only few men could be abusers now, other becomes murderers, wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:41 PM
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Yup. And there are nowhere close to as much as women's whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:35 PM
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So what are the old and new definitions? What are the old and new tactics abusers use? That while old abusers had much more control over women of all types due to their lack of independence & autonomy. Abusers these days are extended limited & choose by women on top of hierarchy. School shootings are not a dv situation… Never said it was. It's a consequence of new type of abusers. and why do you think there’s a “reasonable” way to abuse women? Because wonen choose them on their own accord these …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:32 PM
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What's up with that fucked up English you're using lol ?Which 3rd world country are you from ??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:27 PM
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Both of my comments were with 30 seconds on each other. Chill out. Nice way to deflect from the real conversation. You could've ignored that part of the comment & focused on everything else. Are you sure you aren't beating up your husband because of being angry? lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:22 PM
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Lol you really dug into that sub to find a post from nearly a year ago. All the posts are saying that women are allowed physical preferences, not that all men over 6ft are gods and the rest are goblins Post like these get made almost every month. They get upvoted a lot. At the last minute, deleted by the moderators of that sub. Not really - you never addressed my point that you’re here making absolutist statements about domestic violence when you know nothing about it. The best response you got …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:18 PM
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I mean, decent parents should teach that you should be good/respectful to anyone regardless of gender? Yeah, but they had this idea perpetuated into them that it's men's fault that women are suffering & not their own. They didn't teach them how much they would suffer because of beauty standards being over the top tough for them. It’s hilarious that men here are genuinely mad that mummy told them how handsome they are and that they would have ladies fighting over them when they grew up and it tur…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:07 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/zef2d6/we_are_allowed_to_have_preferences/ https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/weva3q/women_are_allowed_to_have_physical_preferences/ That was such a lame rebuttal are you 15 dude Are you sure that you aren't just losing your shit over this conversation? You can accept defeat. It's not embarrassing. Are you a short woman dating a tall guy & feeling guilty about it, lol ??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:03 PM
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Where did I say I believed that dumbass ??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:41 PM
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Parents do. There are a lot of female role models during a childs growing age. They perpetuate the idea that you need to be good/respectful to women. And not that you only need to be those things when you're 6 feet tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:40 PM
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What are you reading , fanfiction or something 😂 ? they are bitter because of past rejections and tend to subconsciously seek revenge on their current partner in different ways. 🤷 Wrong again. They don't have a current partner to seek revenge on. Men who already have wonen never get rejected. They can easily ask out any other women they desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:37 PM
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Because abusing women has nothing to do with men's attraction level. Do you really think that only a man who has a lot of options abuses women? Very childish thinking. People are way more complex creatures than that No. It is. And how would a majority of men under 6 feet would know that ? They aren't the one getting into relationships. Women literally accept the fact that how much more physical attractiveness is important to women here. So, .🤷 Even if a man is nice to his partner because he thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:33 PM
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Aren’t 40% of men currently in a relationship? And out of the 60% that aren’t that doesn’t mean they’ll never be And that 40% includes the top 20% who has complete control of women. And the rest had to settle with women way under their league & are balancing being the women's victim in those cases. My point still stands. Don’t make claims and absolutist statements on a topic like domestic abuse which you clearly know nothing about. Nah.. I have been following on 2x sub for years now. Even they m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:27 PM
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Why ? I'm talking about the USA where I live. And obviously, Chad types won't there. Why do you think Passport Bros is much more prevalent now than before ??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:18 PM
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No the definition has not changed, nor have abusers tactics, they’re tried and true. If it has changed, what was it and what is it now? No, it has changed. It is based on the fact that women's power & autonomy have also changed throughout generations. So, it is prone to change abusers tactics & ways too. That's why invels who are involved in school shootings take that way out, because they aren't good-looking enough to abuse women in a reasonable way. And those who are, do it. Are only 20% of me…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:16 PM
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And she is clearly inviting every members opinion on it too. That's why men's posts also welcome women's responses by default. I'm sry, do you know how reddit works ? I don't see any moderator announcing gender based user flair on this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:07 PM
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Show me where I said it’s my opinion that 80/20 is true. I’ll wait. Why would it be your opinion? If it becomes your opinion, then men would already win. And that's what this sub is for. That's what men promote the idea in this sub for. *This is for only those of you that believe women biologically are only attracted to 5-20% of men,: If this is true, why be angry at women about it? (this is specifically about anger at women over their standards NOT whether they are being truthful, please stop c…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:03 PM
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How oblivious are you, lol ? What makes you think we are complaining to PPD women & not discussing it with other PPD men. Look at the name of this sub, lol. It definitely doesn't have women in it. If you want fake validation on yours go do it on 2x sub. It’s just annoying that you guys shout about it as if we’re supposed to do something about it No. Again. Nobody cares about what you do. But men usually blame it on themselves. That's its their personalities or some bs. We are helping them in rec…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:56 PM
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What you're saying used to be true in our grandparents' generation, when women had to be with men. Now, they choose to date the say extremely attractive guy who knows what he's getting into & the control he has over women. You aren't considering the point that men who control women always have the ability to control every woman who comes after that. He knows the number of women who want him. Hilarious if you that is why women need feminism. If you don't think that's true. Go ahead & try sharing …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:52 PM
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If you’re hoping to somehow get large amounts women to say differently and admit it…you’re fighting an uphill battle These kinds of beliefs are getting more & more recognition now. Incelism & RP ideologies among youngsters is on the rise way more than before. It doesn't matter if it's an uphill battle, there's still hope that that people who are right would still win in the end. All I can do is say it myself And. That's what this sub is for. So, why do women have so much problem that men do this…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:38 PM
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I'm though. You may mean well, but a majority of women will still consider that as below average/unattractive looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:16 PM
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Are you stupid ? You mean what will destroying half of feminism beliefs that men aren't misogynist will change, lol. If you really wanna accept, go tell that to women on askfeminists sub & twox sub, that's its not mens fault but women's fault they get abused in relationships & come out with a positive reaction. Go ahead. Beauty standards being tougher for women is one of their biggest pillars. If this gets disproven, their entire movement will start to crumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:13 PM
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Good way to deflect from everything I wrote. A majority of men don't need to be because they aren't gonna end up in relationships. And those who do, those care about it, because they are a lot oc fishes in the ocean for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:01 PM
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First of all, being abusive is not a matter of being able to afford it. It usually is. Any man can afford to be abusive. Nope. Not every. In fact, why would a man who has difficulty finding a relationship be less likely to abuse and control their partner, to ensure that he can not escape the relationship? Since it’s hard for him to find relationships, why wouldn’t he want to control where she goes, who she talks to, what she wears, out of a fear of her finding another man and leaving… Because me…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:59 PM
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What does that change? It changes the fact that women's abuse & whining on about men not sharing equal responsibilities is their own fault & not mens. Are you literally just sitting here waiting for a woman to tell you that so you can…do something? You couldn’t garner that from observation? No, I could. But women couldn't. Like…what are you even waiting for? For women to accept that it's not a guy's personality or misogny or some other made up bs, due to which men can't get into relationships or…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:51 PM
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Because women are the one who gives a lot more importance to physical attraction & ignore every possible red flag which accompanies that, just to be able to have a chance with a guy who has millions of options. Also you realise in instances of physical abuse, women are far more likely to be hurt/murdered after leaving How would men know this ? The majority of us aren't eligible to be in the dating scenario of wonen. We have absolutely no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:47 PM
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There's a pretty good chance she knows it already. That's just her way to deflect the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:43 PM
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Sure. But women definitely choose to be in that situation, too. So, the onus is on still majorly on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:40 PM
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Good for you. But considering how tough beauty standards for men are, it's definitely women's fault in that scenario. Men have to pass so many eligibility bars in terms of uncontrollable physical attractiveness, to finally even be able to be in a relationship in the first place. So, those who easily do, shouldn't be blamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:20 PM
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Sure. But does it really matter ? I don't know a single woman who believes that men can get abused/mistreated. And 99% of the time, it's women who complain about it. Not men. So, it's pretty obvious who's making the wrong decisions here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:13 PM
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Yeah, but that's the thing, autistic & ugly men have it even worse. And while women might be able to become mediocre, men can not. Beauty standards for men are majorly uncontrollable. They aren't for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:11 PM
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Again, you need to take all variables into consideration. What makes a men average looking & what makes a women average looking. It's way easier for a woman to be average looking. But men are usually stuck with how they were born. That's why beauty standards are tougher for men as compared to women. You just tend to focus on height a lot cause you are severely disadvantaged, which I acknowledge. Yes, I have acknowledged that you have acknowledged it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:06 PM
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Yeah..and they clearly deserve it too, considering physical attractiveness was so much more important to women in the first place. and most those stories end in the woman dumping the guy And then blaming all men, including those 90% of men who none of them wanted to date in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:00 PM
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It's not women's fault for being abused, but it is women's fault for going after the same men who already have plenty of options, that they can clearly afford to do all that. Should I say men deserve to lose all their money in a divorce because he chose an age gap relationship with a SAHM? She can afford to go get another beta right? Women already do that. Men who get in those relationships know what they are getting into. Don’t be complaining on the men’s rights or passport bro subreddit! Uhmm.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:56 PM
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Because if that was true, then crying on subs like two chromosomes & Askfeminists would disappear about their perceived mistreatment from men. When those men can clearly afford to be assholes to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:47 PM
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You literally just said it’s the woman’s fault for not being attracted to most men??? So you don’t think it’s biological, and this post wasn’t @ you. You are literally just blaming women, how does one change which men make their coochie wet? OK.. now I see, it's just your English, which is terrible, because I literally never said this here. Again.."we don't care if women feels attracted to those same men, but they need to accept that they can't cry about those men being abusive towards them on 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:39 PM
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We aren’t allowed to share the complete names of these subs here I think. Those comments get removed. Type on 'TwoXChromosomes'....that's the one I'm talking about..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:31 PM
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You need to spend more time in this sub I have been on this sub for years now. there are men out there who are actually mad at the standards themselves. Because they don't state the full facts when repeating the same things again n again. Doesn't mean they don't believe in that. Go through comments on this post & see what men are trying to tell you. It's the gaslighting & blaming men for their personalities or misogny or some bs, when it's just women's fault of not being physically attracted to …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:28 PM
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That sub has 13.6 million members & and obviously, the userbase keeps changing on there. And that's not the only sub. Literally, every women oriented sub believes in that. And what makes you think that women outside of reddit don't believe in that crap that 'BeAuTy StAnDaRds are TouGHer for WoMeN' crap ??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:21 PM
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Then maybe you need to get a grip & spend more time on this sub to understand what men are actually angry at. We don't care if you only feel attracted to the top 20% of men. Women clearly suffer & and pay for that. Crying on 2x sub is a perfect example of that. But women not accepting the fact that they aren't a monolith & only feel attracted to the same group of men is what irks men on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:16 PM
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No, the fact that women are considered beautiful across all heights, but men aren't, are what makes the beauty standard tough for men. This is what you need to understand. A woman who's 5'2 "or a woman who's 5'8, with average faces are still considered average looking. The same thing doesn't apply to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:11 PM
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I did not make a post about how women are only attracted to 20% of men Then that's the point you need to make. Literally, every comment is trying to tell you the same thing. How is this not getting through your thick brain ? truly believe that it’s 30+, and that men only find a similar percent of women truly attractive, even if they’ll fuck the less attractive ones out of necessity need to reread. Nope. Completely untrue. Women, no matter how ugly or how average looking, only feel attracted to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:09 PM
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5'5 "for a guy is equivalent to 5'8" for a woman. The fact that a 5'8 "woman has so much easier time as compared to a man just proves how tough beauty standards for men are. 20% of men are under 5'7 "in the USA & the fact that they are straightaway considered unattractive despite being good in everything else still proves how tough men have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:01 PM
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No, but it's usually a women based thing. That's what men want you to accept. It's women who have much shallow requirements for men & not the other way around which feminists & women on twox insists on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:56 PM
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You made an entire post about how it's not women's fault that they are attracted to top 20% of men. OK, good. Thank you. And then again, you start repeating that same bullshit here.. Not quite that few, but I don’t think these women find the same x% of men attractive, so it’s not like there’s different classes of men This is what makes us angry. It's the gaslighting that makes us angry. Because it puts the entire blame on men again. We want you to accept the fact that it's the same type of men t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:52 PM
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Every woman I know Only who you know. would be grossed out by a guy insisting on knowing her body count because it’s indicative of a set of views he holds about women A guy who is 6 feet & above lives a completely different life. Guys who have a lot of options don't care about these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:36 AM
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Is it true or not, though ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:32 AM
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Not every guy who treats women poorly is necessarily red pill. Considering the whining I hear from women on those subs & and its similarities with the RP ideologies, I might've to disagree. Wym with the second statement? That what you did personally has no impact on what happens generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:30 AM
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Is your English a little weak ? I never said that it has to do with men on this sub. I said they have height preferences about men.. and they have already mentioned that on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:27 AM
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Yeah I replied to you after her comment, she won't even see your crap about Tate etc Because she haven't even seen the comment I sent her directly. But it's obvious she understood what I was talking about. And if she replies to me, my comment would be the same. because you replied to my comment with it, not hers. Obviously, that's how reddit works. You are the one who asked, so I answered to you, not her. Either way, you're clearly an example of a hyper-agressive short man, get over it, insecuri…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:25 AM
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Religion, arranged marriages, traditions, social pressure, not being fluent in a western language, not enough money to travel to a western country, etc. I'm just curious.. Which country do you live in ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:16 AM
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Actually, you were the one who first replied to me, lol. So, the onus is on you to read all the comments & understand the context first. Otherwise, your comment might not make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:10 AM
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Nah.. it was just a pretty good example. Women like to think they have it worse because of this. But they forget that they also have height requirements for men on this sub, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:08 AM
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Yeah, you still didn't understand. Her point was that short guys, all 85% of them are super aggressive. Then I responded by dating, "How come the guys I mentioned are tall then ?" By her own logic, these guys should also be short. But they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:02 AM
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Why not, though ? It's a fair comparison. Men get rejected for being shorter than 6 ft. Women get rejected for being non virgin. What's the difference ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:52 AM
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I can't lump myself with them. I'm not 6 feet tall like them & I definitely don't get dates like them. I don't think you understand what's happening here ? Read all the above comments, first.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:49 AM
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Idk any woman who’d ever knowingly date a RP guy or just a guy who views/treats women the way a RP one does. If they wouldn't, then 2x sub, where women whine about their 6ft men not being good husbands/boyfriends would disappear. But it's still operating on 100 % capacity. One time a guy I was dating asked about my body count and would nottt let up so I dumped him. I’d only slept with one other person but the fact he had such a bee in his bonnet about it told me we were not going to workout Well…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:46 AM
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Yeah... and so are Tate Brothers, JP, Steven Crowder & Ted Bundy. But yeah.. I guess these guys were definitely calm and composed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:41 AM
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5'5 "is normal height, lol. Are you sure you don't live in the Philippines ? Because that's about the average women's height here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:37 AM
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A lotta better subs than this, especially for people who are in relationships. A lot less mentally draining too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:35 AM
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Depends. If they are someone who's tall & have plenty of options, they'll be fine. A lot of other girls available for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:34 AM
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It's weird that you're here then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:27 AM
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I think the parent comment is trying to say that 'virginity' is considered a feminine trait on women. Just like more partners is considered as a 'masculine' trait on men, according to patriarchy & everything. One can not exist without the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:25 AM
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I have been following up on that sub for 5 years on n off, thinking maybe they could help me. I can guarantee you that one is absolutely not. It used to be back in the day, but not anymore. Take a look. Also, if it was run by men, then my responses about height would get validated there from other short guys. Instead, I got downvoted to hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:15 AM
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Virtual women don't count. Okay... because we all know how virtual women aren't real women, lol. Just another way to not take accountability, I guess. How many women in real life have said this to you? I'm 5'5. So apparently, a whole lot. Short women will outright tell me that they ate into taller guys, not 6ft, but it's pretty obvious. Every single time a woman in real life is asked if they'd date a guy shorter than them, the answer is always the same: "Yeah I don't care." Have you ever been on…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:10 AM
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I never see couples Now, I can't tell you to walk around with me in California. But you can always visit r/tall or r/ShortGirlProblems. That is so ridiculously uncommon It's extremely common. If it wasn't, then tall women on r/tallgirls & r/tall wouldn't complain about this either, since you don't wanna believe guys. And if that ever happens, the dude is obese. I'm not obese. But there are always made-up reasons by women for not specifically wanting to date us, apparently. So, we have to deal wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:05 AM
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A short woman just told me that she doesn't date short guys because they are aggressive. Because we all know how Alpha/PUA like Tate Brothers & JP are so calm & composed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:58 AM
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It's easier to say that when you just have a fetish for tall guys, lol. Also, source ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:52 AM
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There's a difference between whining & stating a fact. but the attitude of whining about women supposedly wanting 6 foot men and not liking short guys is absolutely fucking insufferable. Not 'supposedly'. A lot of tall men are dating/married to women shorter than 5'4, as far as I've noticed around me. So, it is true. Edit: It's hilarious. A short woman just responded to me saying that short guys are aggressive & that's why she doesn't date them. You see, there are also made-up reasons by short w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:51 AM
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Hypocrisy can be ethical, too. For example- I have children with my ex. But now I only wanna date a childless single woman because it's women's fault if they are single and have children. Am I a hypocrite? Yup. Is it ethical? Yes, again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:58 AM
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It kind of is..by definition. "the practice of claiming to have moral standards or beliefs to which one's own behavior does not conform" But there's nothing wrong with being a hypocrite. Women are usually more hypocrites than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:38 AM
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Yeah, that would've been funny, too, if my example was in any way specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:37 AM
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Can you frame your comment differently? I don't understand what you are saying ? What 8 women ??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:57 AM
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Haha... sure bro. Yours is too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:56 AM
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Women who are attractive looking would want a guy who is conventionally attractive, too. And to be conventionally attractive, you have to be 6 ft tall. Being a conventionally attractive woman is way easier. Y’all saw a couple Tinder profiles of Insta model princess types and lost y’all fucking minds over it. I have seen way more profiles than I can count.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:55 AM
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What, huh ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:50 AM
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Nah..sry short dude. You already gave yourself away on me, making your wife shout.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:40 AM
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Sure, bro. But are those men considered attractive. Or did those men have to settle & marry under their league. You might've a point about guys who are average height.. I think 5'10. But a great majority of guys are shorter than that in the US & way more in Asian countries & they are definitely considered straightaway unattractive. And I'm one of those. So, my point will still stand that beauty standards are tough for men because 'height' as a standard applies majorly to men. Tall women, maybe 6…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:39 AM
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Sure. Not all. Maybe some women are okay with it. While the majority of men are shorter than 6 ft. Outliers don't usually change the general behaviour. So, yeah..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:28 AM
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Well, humor when based on true facts is always better. I am happy to have satisfied your wife 😊.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:26 AM
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Maybe you need to use a little more brain then, if you think a 5'5 "guy would be considered as attractive as a 6 ft guy to an attractive women. Maybe then you'll understand why.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:23 AM
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Exactly. Now you get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:19 AM
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Umm... okay dude 😂. I don't know what you are getting angry about. Initially, I had a hard time accepting it. But now I have. Just because I'm talking about this constantly online has no equivalence to me not coming to terms with this. This is the only reason I joined reddit & this sub. My height is my only problem. So, obviously, that's the only thing I'll talk about. Why would I talk about some problems which I don't have, lol ??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:19 AM
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Nope. It's a pretty common fact to come around if you have tried to date for just a week. Just because women don't like patriarchy doesn't mean they don't feel attracted to patriarchal men ( Tall & Strong). The same goes for men, too. A lot of men still consider feminine features to be more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:14 AM
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Except women don't want a man, half a foot taller. Attractive women of any height would want a guy 6 feet or above, which most men aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:08 AM
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Some women are clearly attracted While 85.5% of men are shorter than 6 ft. It just proves how fierce the competition for men is. So, you're still proving my point. People gotta work with what they've got The juice is not worth the squeeze. I'm 5'5. Your attractiveness reduces a lot with each decrease in inch. the woe is me, victim mentality is Nope. No 'woe'. I've accepted it for what it is. what makes them unattractive. Nope. Based on the woman who has rejected me for my height, it's just my he…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:03 AM
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1)The distance between clitoris and vagina predicts which women will orgasm during intercourse. A shorter span is better. This distance is often greater in taller women. 2) It could be coincidental that a tall guy would end up with a short woman. But considering most tall guys I see around me are dating short women & pedophilia is so much of a problem in our world, it can't be. Short people (both men & women) give the illusion of younger people in age. But I have a feeling you still won't believ…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:57 AM
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I'm not saying that they can/can't get married. But it's about what is considered attractive/unattractive on a man. Beauty standards for men are way more tough because 85.5% of men are shorter than 6ft & are straightaway considered unattractive. So, they have to adjust in their life & marry down. Or work way harder in their life, just to even be considered equivalent to a 6ft guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:47 AM
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OK, dude. Chill out. When people have to repeat the same common things again n again (like a whole majority of women having a preference for 6ft guys), they tend to over exaggerate out of anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:29 AM
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Who the hell knows ? First off, the only reason a fit women/men would date a fat men/women is when they have a specific fetish for it. As far as handling it ... I think a lot of tall guys who specifically go for short women is because 1) They are tighter down there. 2) Those tall guys are just pedo in disguise, no matter how much they would like to convince otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:27 AM
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That 95% one is wrong. It's most probably just that guy's metaphor for ' a whole lot of women'.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:21 AM
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Women prefer to date taller men; tall men attract more desirable partners. On average, women have a strong preference for tall men. In fact, women care more about dating taller men than men care about dating shorter women. A study on women's and men’s height preferences found that women are most satisfied when their partner was 8 inches (21cm) taller. Men are most satisfied when they are 3 inches (8cm) taller than their partners. You add 8 inches to average women height 5'4, you get 6ft. A surve…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:00 AM
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So is a 4'10 woman dating a 6 feet guy. Instant pedo vibes 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:57 AM
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Nah.. I support men having any kind of hypocritical preferences just like so many short women have. It's not a tough concept to grasp on. Yes, if women were nicer to me about my height, I would feel bad about this whole virginity/non virginity thingy. But since now I know how brutal they are about men's body, I've just lost any kind of sympathy for them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:45 AM
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I have heard from countless women on r/tallgirls that they got rejected by tall guys all the time because they preferred short women. So, it's pretty obvious that you shouldn't take whatever they say seriously. More tall women & short guys are single around me, as compared to short women & tall guys. Nope. Where I am from taller women are the beauty standard and praised more for their height than short women are. Good for you. But that's not how the majority of the world works. Especially USA, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:41 AM
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As I already told you before, virginity is not my preference either. But guess what, women still wouldn't date me. So, idk what's your logic here ? But hey if you're happy single then great. I kinda have to be, despite of what I believe in. Most probably passport bros in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:35 AM
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As I said, it never before either. So, there is no difference. But there is something called fair preferences among both genders, which i do support now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:28 AM
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It never worked in my favor before anyway. Good luck to you, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:23 AM
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I'm a 5'5 "guy. The amount of time I have spent on each n every height sub including r/tall is something which I wouldn't wanna accept. There is a difference between what men say on r/tall & what they actually do. Go for any relationship posts on r/tall. You would notice that 9 out of 10 times, they are either dating/married to women shorter than 5'3. In fact, this is something a lot of tall women on r/tall complain about tall guys too. Even on r/ShortGirlProblems & r/short, almost every short w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:22 AM
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Huh.. lucky you. Don't move to the USA. I never gave a rats ass about that, too. But as soon as I entered the dating scene, so many women started rejecting me based on my height. Now, I do support guys who reject women based on their virginity, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:14 AM
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Sure. Agree to disagree. Because I'm a 5'5 guy & my rejections have been extremely brutal. I would ask, where do you live ? Because it's mostly a US thing. And how old are you ? Because it's a new Gen z trend, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:03 AM
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would they rather have women to put out easier? I don't understand. What does it mean ? Can you frame your comment differently??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:55 AM
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Not really, if you think about it. In the end, these are all preferences. Aren't they ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:53 AM
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True. That's the same feeling I get from 4'10 women too who refuse to date any guy shorter than 6 ft. It's like she has daddy issues & and is literally looking for a pedo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:50 AM
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Clearly, you haven't met any alpha/PUA type guys. The world is full of them. All of those guys are 6ft + & obviously non virgin. And the funny thing is they can easily get women who are virgin too, because of having plenty of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:47 AM
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If you're a non virgin guy asking for a virgin woman, That's hypocritical, by your own definition. What's so hard to understand about that ? It's not wrong, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:39 AM
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are even being in situation where they have to choose one or the other? Umm..dating apps. Tall dudes prefer girls closer to their own height Hmm.. are you sure you wanna go down this road ? Because r/tallgirls & r/short would like a word with you. Edit: In fact, I had an interesting chat with the moderator of r/askfeminists like a month ago. The topic was about height. She said she's a short woman who's into tall guys. And she's dating a 5'11 "guy, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:23 AM
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Yeah.. you mentioned that in your post description, not your post title. That's why. Read your post title again. he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? Is it hypocrisy? Yup. But who the hell cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:15 AM
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That was a fast response.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:09 AM
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Why are you scared of being a hypocrite? That's okay, dude. Everyone in dating is a hypocrite. There are a lot of ugly men & ugly women who would only want to date Scarlett Johansson or Henry Cavil. Are they hypocrite? Yes. But are they wrong? NO. You do you, OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:06 AM
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Oh..wait. I have heard from so many tall women on r/tinder & r/tallgirls, that the only reason they want to date a tall guy is because they are insecure about their own height of feeling manly. So...is this the sane thing or not ??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:47 PM
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Yeah.. you don't really understand what I'm trying to say. People can reject anyone for any reason without having to explain themselves for it. A 4'10 "woman can't even tell the difference between a 5'11" guy & 6 ft guy. But she will still refuse to date a 5'11 "guy. There's no reason. She can do whatever she wants, can't she ??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:44 PM
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Your insecurity isn't anyone else's problem. Why did I say it was ? That's true for men and for women. Umm.. okay. My point is why can't men have extremely irrelevant & shallow requirements from women when clearly women have it all the time, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:40 PM
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Yup. There you go. That answers the post. Why can't men have insecurities ? Women have it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:37 PM
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Umm, idk. It's just is. Maybe he's insecure. Just like a lot of tall women are which drives them to date only tall guys. If you have a problem with that, then just don't date them. Easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:34 PM
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Exactly... Tall women want a tall guy. That's reasonable. Short women want a tall guy. That's a preference. Virgin guy wants a virgin woman. That's reasonable. A non virgin guy wants a virgin woman. That could be a preference, too. What does there have to be a reason for it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:31 PM
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You don't need a reason for having any kind of preferences. For example, a 4'10 foot woman can't tell the difference between a 5'11 guy & a 6 feet guy. But a lot of them will still refuse to date a 5'11 "guy because she only finds 6 feet guys attractive. There's no reason for that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:27 PM
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Yeah, obviously, it's going to be the same study. Statistics don't all of a sudden change with links. That's the beauty of it. Your point was that people in general wouldn't prefer something they are satisfied with. This is either laughable, or it proves you're just a bot with no idea how humans in general work. So, bot, let me explain to you how a normal human brain works. If I am someone who doesn't prefer a fat woman & even after that I had to settle for it, I wouldn't be satisfied with that …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:02 PM
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Ooooh...all the the studies which doesn't agree with my incorrect usage of English words are wrong, lol. I literally just typed these words on Google 'women's height preference for men'...and surprise surprise...this is the first link that showed up Good job finding psych clickbait which makes the same mistake you do, I suppose. Good job taking so much time to come up with this stupid comment by trying to move away from the fact that you don't know how the words 'satisfaction' & 'preference' wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:35 PM
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Men aren't required to stalk TwoX. They aren't. But they generally indicate that men should read on those subs to learn more about women's problem in general. Those women themselves prefer it. But it's pretty obvious that those problems are their own fault. It's both. A man can be physically attractive and also a woman-hating misogynist and that makes him undatable, too. No, but women can't know that for sure considering & as you accepted yourself that women only dates & finds a very small minor…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:14 PM
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Their dating pool is limited to men they are physically attracted to. That isn't a choice. But choosing not to cry about all men on 2x sub is & also not gaslighting men into thinking that it's their personality or misogny or some bs, which is stopping them from getting dates also is. Yes, that's how support forums work. Exactly. I hope you know that, because you were the one who brought up this point, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:04 PM
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Since you hate the word 'satisfaction' so much, I found a study where they stated that men & women preferred to date those whom they were more satisfied with. [Women prefer to date taller men; tall men attract more desirable partners. On average, women have a strong preference for tall men. In fact, women care more about dating taller men than men care about dating shorter women. A study on women's and men’s height preferences found that women are most satisfied when their partner was 8 inches (…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:54 PM
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No, they are not. The majority of beauty standards for women are controllable. And whatever minute uncontrollable beauty standards women have, either a majority of women don't have it or those sane things exist for men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:49 PM
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But yeah, men and women have different standards, and most people are more forgiving of too tall than too short Exactly. Considering 20% of men are shorter than 5'7, which is even higher in Asian countries, beauty standards are extremely tough for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:46 PM
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Women prefer men taller than they are which on average most men are. It's not at all an extreme preference. No, they don't. Women in general prefer a much higher difference as compared to them or the average height difference between men & women. What random sample? From which the research was conducted & statistics was made. The study that we are looking at literally states that in terms of satisfaction a "source" of compensating for height is going after a shorter woman since the optimal diffe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:43 PM
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Very few people marry the first person they date, and breakups are difficult. Except women just aren't complaining about the guys they date, but also who they marry. The search for a compatible partner is sometimes fraught, and probably seems more fraught if men are only receptive to complaints. But in the case of women, it's their own fault because they choose to make their dating pool so small. How many men here actually seek out success stories and enjoy reading women gloating about their hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:34 PM
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Of course there are. Even the study you linked touches on height preferences as expressed. Exactly. So, basically, tall height is a preference that women have. Finally. That was the whole point, if you didn't get it. You are insisting on extrapolating a statistical result as a conscious preference understood by every single woman. There is no guarantee of satisfaction from any height difference nor were the woman in this study aware of the optimal height difference for satisfaction before choosi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:27 PM
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A survey from Bumble of women who've come to the platform and bothered to enter height filters. It's not all the users on the app and it's certainly not a representative sample of women. No, your point was that no such statistics exist where '6ft' is supposed to be the edge of it all. Considering so many women does, it's obviously true. It's not all the users on the app and it's certainly not a representative sample of women. You do know that women keep getting in & out of dating apps right. Tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:16 PM
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There's never concrete evidence for a preference. Fat pepple aren't generally considered attractive. There's no concrete evidence for it because there are going to be outliers. But it's generally true & makes more sense. You don't seem to understand how does study actually works. No. Where the highest average satisfaction exists. That's not the same as where satisfaction exists. Not at all. If women have the option to do it, they will go for guys where they will be highly satisfied. An ugly look…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:04 PM
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Yup. And it's even more funny, considering who still choose to only date those men & still choose to cry about it too. That's hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:57 PM
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But that never happens. So of course "nothing compares" to the thing you just made up. Except it does. That's why the whole 6ft thing exists on social media. Unless you were born yesterday & it's your first day using it. No, it means taller than the woman. And that's not even a universal preference. This is the funniest shit I've ever heard. Go & ask it on any women's sub... What does 'tall' & 'average' for a guy means, lol. When women say tall, it doesn't mean taller. Which "statistics"? A surv…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:56 PM
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They can find those small category of men attractive, but then they should also know that if they get cheated on, abused, of men are not sharing equal responsibilities...then instead of whining about all men, they should accept that they deserve it. Those small numbers of men have enough options to portray such behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:45 PM
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There is no evidence that women are aware that they will be unsatisfied with the man's height based on that study. In fact, the evidence of highest satisfaction at a certain threshold is not even evidence of "dissatisfaction" at a lower value How come ? On r/short, I have heard a lot of guys stories about how they were dumped because their gf wasn't satisfied with their height. The same goes for r/tall, where the majority of short women are dating tall guys. That's not at all what the study says…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:33 PM
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don't know what this means. I meant 'not claiming'. ethnicity, body-type, breasts, butt, eyes, lips, hair color, so on and so forth, but the second a woman says she prefers to date tall guys, they act like she's the most shallow btch in the world. Most of these preferences aren't limited to women & really not what men goes after generally. Nothing compared to straightaway removing 85% of men from dating pool. They don't though. You haven't demonstrated that this is the case. They are citing men …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:27 PM
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5'8 for a woman is equivalent to 5'5 for a man. It does prove how tough beauty standards for men are considering a 5'8 "woman wouldn't have the same problems as a 5'5 guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:20 PM
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Because men's attractiveness comes from uncontrollable features like height, balding issues, receding hairlines, jawlines, etc. Women, on the other hand, just have to lose weight & apply makeup & voila. Beauty standards for men are extremely tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:17 PM
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If a short guy is going to approach a woman, then obviously, he's going to face many more rejections, considering women are going to be unsatisfied with his height. Women don't find things they are unsatisfied with 'attractive', lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:58 PM
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As a 5'5 "guy, I have never seen a guy around my height & age with an average/attractive face dating or at least a woman who isn't obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:56 PM
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The first one didn’t even mention height I keep seeing people triggered over women not liking or giving a chance to someone “just because he’s not 6’” Work on your reading comprehension. This is the first line. the second one used it as an example of hypothetical standards. Except I've never seen men, especially average men claiming to be going only after those women, which they keep imagining. There’s nothing about anyone’s own standards requiring a man to be 6 feet tall. And ? That was literal…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:53 PM
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If only online dating has only increased, I would guess. Women prefer men who are 21 cm taller than their partners. Average height of women 5'4. You add 21 cm ( 8 inches to it) you get 6 ft.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:23 PM
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It happens a lot. Obviously, the moderator removes those posts after it has been upvoted & supported a lot. https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/zef2d6/we_are_allowed_to_have_preferences/ https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/weva3q/women_are_allowed_to_have_physical_preferences/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:21 PM
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Do they ? Because I've seen even a bunch of 30 years old on dating apps mentioning 6ft or swipe left.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:51 PM
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I got on dating apps after I tried to date throughout my college years. A lot of women straightaway mentioned that it was my height that was a problem, and others didn't say anything at all. But it was pretty obviously. Why ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:49 PM
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Far more than a small minority of men date women. And are those men dating under their league ? I most certainly think so. The idea that these women are all complaining about slovenly, unambitious, porn-addled, unclean, immature partners who are also “Chad” is delusional. No, it's not. Every week, there is a hysterically ironic post on twox sub about how they should have extremely high physical standards for men, too. And that always starts with a 6 feet tall dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:47 PM
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Average women do. Average men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:43 PM
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Do you think just because that source was a decade ago, somehow that changed today ? Most simply prefer that the guy is taller. Is this after considering the fact that it's usually short women who have a requirement for 6 feet tall guys ? And tall women want guys their height or taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:42 PM
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I don't. But there are no statistics available for a 5'5 me dating irl. If I shared my personal experience with you, then that wouldn't be accurate considering you don't know me irl. Because that’s simply not what’s happening Also, women on this thread are literally accepting that they only feel attracted to a small minority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:34 PM
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Beauty standards for men are extremely rigid, which starts with being 6 feet. There are sources available for both...that women consider 80% of men as below average & only 60% of women only want to datw a guy whose height is above 6ft. Do you have any evidence for what you're saying ? I have never heard of this before.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:29 PM
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By that, I meant just the small minority of men they feel attracted to, not exactly 10%. Aldo, the person I was talking to, already accepted it to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:24 PM
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I mean I could share you my personal experience as a 5'5 guy who tried to approach irl, but considering you don't know me irl, so sharing my personal rejections won't be any sort of evidence at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:04 PM
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I guess they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:59 PM
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n my experience In your experience ..well, in my experience, most of the asshole men I've seem are PUA/misogynist influencers/dating coach like Jordan Peterson, Tate Brothers, Steven Crowder etc who are let's see.. almost always 6 feet tall & shredded. Except my experience is more prone to being true. And yes, I read your post and viewed the pic. I never respond to that kind of bait because men sometimes post their own pics or stats and pretend they are showing an average man and I don’t want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:57 PM
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I have already accepted that. Are you sure that you're even bothering to read all my comments. *I agree. But if women finds only that same small number of men attractive, then they need to stop blaming men for their 'bad personalities or misogny' considering they are talking about those men who are so out of their leagues that they can afford to be assholes. If you don’t, you don’t care about her “good personality”, do you? Except I'm not the one reducing my dating pool to 10% of women, then whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:39 PM
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Why is it always a woman vs man thing? New on this sub ? It's a men vs. women thing because it's women who gaslight men into thinking that ''beauty standards are tougher for women, when it's clearly not'' or ''it's men's personality or misogny which is holding them back, when it's obvious that women don't care for men's personalities in the least".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:30 PM
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If you believe that you’ll be happy marrying the least attractive women with a good personality I'm an average looking guy with an average height. I'll be happy marrying an average looking woman on a height between 4'5 to 6'5. My irl approaches & OLD swiping rate, which is 80-90% swpie right, says so. Can you say the same for women? Wait a minute, you already accepted that women don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:25 PM
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😂😂. I'm sry, but have you ever been on r/tinder & noticed any Tinder insights. Even the ugliest women wipes left on 90% men. Men, on the other hand, swipes right on 90% men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:22 PM
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Since you admit to spending so much time on TwoX, you’ve seen how many long term partners and husbands become shitty, selfish lovers. Exactly & considering how many women can smell misogny on men in a short span just by looking at their short height or average faces, explains that it's primarily women's fault that they are in this situation. So, gotta stop blaming the majority of men which they never wanted to be with in the first place. A good personality is no guarantee of sexual compatibility…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:20 PM
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I’m not sure that really relates to my comment, but to respond to fully blame women for their romantic woes when they are drawn to men with negative long term relationships attributes. Oh, good. Doesn’t mean average men should get upset at women about it, it’s the women’s lives to make those decisions and trying to tell them they ‘should’ be with average men is very wrong. I don't. But a lot of women consider it their forthright to tell men that it's their personalities or misogny or bs that's k…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:13 PM
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One of the risks women face is a shitty, selfish lover. Umm.. if the guy has a good personality, he wouldn't be a shitty, selfish lover. Obviously women prefer mutual physical attraction so they have some chance of enjoying sexual encounters for the duration of their relationship. I agree. But if women finds only that same small number of men attractive, then they need to stop blaming men for their 'bad personalities or misogny' considering they are talking about those men who are so out of thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:06 PM
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Desire, yes . But they don't actively seek them to end up in relationships. Women obviously do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:59 PM
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If women face such high risks with sex & relationships, then they will choose their partners only on the basis of their personalities & nothing else. According to women in this sub, physical attraction is of absolute importance to women. As far as I have learned from women on twoxchromosomes & Askfeminists is that they can smell misogyny on men within 5 minutes. And that's ironical, considering 90% of those women whine or cry about those top 10% of men they are fucked by.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:52 PM
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Then why do so many women whine on twoxchromosomes & paint all men as bad when they are only with the top 10% men ? By your logic, women on that sub deserve that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:45 PM
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You could just spend a week on dating apps or, rather, just spend some time on r/tinder. And you'll know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:42 PM
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Men need to up their game And that's the thing. Men can't up their game unless we go through painful & dangerous surgeries.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:40 PM
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Women are sexually & physically attracted to a very small minority of men. Men, on the other hand, are attracted to average looking women, too. You gotta read OP's post again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:38 PM
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Trust me, you're not alone. A lot of short women are insecure and consider themselves as weak, so they demand the tallest & strongest guy to make them feel protected.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 11:05 AM
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They dont need to be tall at all I can guarantee you feminine men are considered attractive when they are 6 feet, but not when they are 5'5.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:54 AM
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That's even more sad. What's the point of living your entire life on hookups or ONS.. if that never leads to a real relationship ? Beauty standards are way tougher for men as compared to women. If men are short, they will always be considered unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:45 AM
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So, femininity is fine as long as you're tall. Because we all know how being tall doesn't makes you masculine at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:35 PM
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If he turned out to be 5'5, then he won't score.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:31 PM
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I'm outside though. Ciggie break. And you still choose to scroll through this sub, lol. Lmao how pathetic. "Victim blame" LMFAO. For someone who was crying over hearing 'sad life' definitely knows how to do the same to others too. So, clearly you did deserve it. Now, go LMFAO at women who get assaulted too. You sound like a bully who already does. Not necessarily offended, however it's untrue and your remark was unnecessary. I guess it was pretty necessary lol. Scrolling reddit doesn't make my l…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:57 AM
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You called my life sad over a subreddit. And I gave you a pretty good reason for it too. Rather than getting offended at this, maybe learn from this. How could this subreddit be entertaining more than going outside is a mystery to me. Also, if it's the worst part of your day, why even participate in it? Do you get paid to participate in this sub ? Only if you knew how social media addiction & trigger works lol. The entire TikTok app is based on this. Why is anyone here? Clearly, nobody is gettin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:15 AM
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No personal attacks, please. Also, that's a lot of speculation about someone you don't know shit about. It wasn't an attack. This sub is one of the worst parts of my day. I'm pretty sure you could find something more interesting. You clearly are doing something wrong then. Your refusal to learn might be just what's stopping ya. I mean, once I tried changing my height to 6'1 on dating apps once & that increased my matches to 17x more. ( initially, it was 0-1). So, if your thing being short is som…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:59 AM
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Most couples I see around are similar in height. Well, that can't possibly be true considering men are on an average 5 inches taller than women. Yes, some girls will be 4'11 and refuse to date anyone under 6 foot. But usually they are shot down quick and they drop the attitude. And where do you think that attitude comes from ? Obviously, tall men are considered way more attractive. But usually they are shot down quick and they drop the attitude. Most of the tall guys I know are actually married …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:53 AM
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Yeah,.. nobody does. Exactly. But only if the world was fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 03:08 PM
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It's not a headache to me, it's entertainment That's a sad life. Also, you could learn a thing or two. Don't need to. I've been trying to date for years now. I don't have issues with women Why would you ? You do. Yeah, that should make sense. What does that have to do with what I said? You don't have to date someone to know them personally. If you accept or reject someone at a bar/dating app/through friends of friends, it means you're rejecting them on the basis of their initial impressions, i.e…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:08 AM
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I don't think you know how straight dating works. It usually shorter women who demand 6ft & above guys because they feel very weak so they look for protection from the tallest guy. Tall women want tall guys to feel feminine, which is reasonable, I guess. When women ask for our height, we're supposed to tell them our height barefoot. Women compare their heel height to the barefoot height of men. Otherwise, men start writing their height in heels on dating apps. And men who wear platforms are cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:59 AM
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Oh yeah..in that case, he's definitely lying. Women are okay with guys who are 6ft & above with average to model looks or model looking guy above 5'8.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:52 AM
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Your case could also be called confirmatiom bias. It can't be, cuz I never shared any personal experiences. The only difference is that you don't know them personally. You don't know how they act or what they're saying. There are statistics available to prove them. I don't know the tall, handsome guys either & neither do women, but they never have such problems. I however know the people I'm talking about. You know some people. Statistics never include personal bias. They apply equally to men at…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:54 PM
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Plus, initial encounters with strangers have nothing to do with abusive relationships Never said it had. I said some men have this privilege to be abusive to women, considering the number of options they have. Women become trapped in years-long relationships or marriages with abusive men, making it very difficult and dangerous to get away. And who's fault is that ? If you date/marry someone way out of your league, then you most probably do deserve that. It's a risk you take, so live with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:50 PM
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No offense, but why the heck are you here ?? This sub is just for straight men & women debate. Why are you taking in this headache?? You also don't have to date someone to know them personally. If first criteria of someone's acceptance or rejection is physical attractiveness, then you don't know them personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:46 PM
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And there you go, man. The person you're responding to was talking about an average height & average looking guy. Because majority of worlds population is average looking. Average looking men can get dates only when they are 6ft & above. Be thankful that you have a face that comes under the top 10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:58 PM
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They can call themselves whatever they want.. but to women, their body proportions won't look as good as a 6 ft guy. Also, I'm pretty sure women would dump a guy who ultimately turned out to be 5'10 "instead of 6 ft.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:55 PM
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Hmm.. interesting. How would you rate yourselves facially??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:57 PM
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It takes women to turn 30 to realize that only 15% of men are 6ft & taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:46 PM
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What about height? At least you can wear makeup to look attractive, but men can't get taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:44 PM
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You will only go on a date with guys who are handsome, which are like 15% of men's population. So, you don't know what the average guys are like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:19 AM
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In my experience, That's called confirmation bias. Yes, you're absolutely right. Men like Tate brothers, Jordan Peterson, Steven Crowder, Ted Bundy, alpha/PUA, etc..all of them are 6ft & above & have amazing personalities. They're so lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:18 AM
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Oh.. it's worse than TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:27 AM
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When women say they are concerned about their safety on dating apps, they are talking about that small minority of attractive men who can afford to be abusive or misogynist towards women, because they know women will still love them. A vast majority of average & ugly looking guys under 6ft or ugly guys above 6ft aren't even getting dates in the first place. So, they aren't the guys women are concerned about. Men need to understand that no one wants a physically unattractive partner; it’s not jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:33 PM
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When women say they are concerned about their safety on dating apps, they are talking about that small minority of attractive men who can afford to be abusive or misogynist towards women, because they know women will still love them. A vast majority of average & ugly looking guys under 6ft or ugly guys above 6ft aren't even getting dates in the first place. So, they aren't the guys women are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:32 PM
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Have you ever heard of Femaledatingstategy ??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:31 PM
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Women just have to be cautious for their own safety. If that was true, then women wouldn't give such huge importance to physical attractiveness in men. Safety is not a women's concern. It's height, handsome face, not balding etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:28 PM
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Yeah, but considering women find only that small number of men attractive, it basically means that personality is irrelevant in general. If you aren't attractive, which majority of men aren't, (according to women's selection criteria) nobody cares about your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:33 PM
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Men don't usually get enough matches or dates for vetting. This is a privilege only given to women. Technically, your vetting is not consistent if you swipe left on a majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:06 PM
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If proving double standards to you, is making you uncomfortable, then maybe those double standards do exist & you enjoy them a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:16 PM
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Go on, Tinder. See men's & women's insights. You will find that average man swipes right on a majority of women. But ugly women also want a minority of men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:37 PM
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You say that as if men don’t have sex with women, they find unattractive too. Men do. But women never have sex with men they find unattractive. Conversely, the men in that study rated most women as somewhat attractive but only messaged the most attractive women. That's because even good-looking men who have all the options still swipe right on all the women. That's why so many women don't get messages. Even ugly women aren't going for average guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:32 PM
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What do you mean...don't see most men ? Gender ratio is almost equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:41 PM
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Then why do so many women cry about men on twox.. or this entire feminism bs. If they are only marrying men who are way above their league ( as you said), then it's women's fault for not going for personality & taking a risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:31 PM
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If you're shorter in height, then you will be disregarded before a woman even tries to know your personality. So, physical attraction is more important in a man, then his personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:26 PM
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Because if they accepted how tough beauty standards for men are, it will make them look more shallow & it will literally destroy their whole idea of male privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:22 PM
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but women are not interested in a lot of men Didn't you just prove OPs point, then ? That women only feel attracted to a small minority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:19 PM
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According to women in the dating scene..yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:58 AM
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obese For fucks sake, you can control that. ugly in the face There are also ugly in the face women.p But height is a big one Exactly & it majorly applies to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 11:06 PM
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If he's fat, then he should. If not, then he's either have a fetish or plain stupid. I see fat women dating skinny guys, but never marrying them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:50 PM
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Umm..who is that, lol ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:41 PM
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Because for men, it's not just their attractiveness, but also their height. I'm 5'5 & average looking. Dating is not easier on the majority of guys because they are shorter than 5'10. I never see a short fit guy dating an attractive wonen. Never.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:31 PM
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I mean, I do agree with what you said. But I don't consider myself as a sub 5. Maybe reddit might or you might or all the women. But my short height is completely out of my control & I refuse to be judged on it. I'll try to maximize everything you said ( most of it I already have). And no, I'll never settle for a fat woman or woman I don't find attractive. I'll try dating for a few more years. If it doesn't work out, then I'll look into escorts or passport bro'ing and be content with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:15 PM
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In all my years of dating, I would guess that maybe 1 in 500 would seriously date a shorter guy, maybe even less. Man, I don't wanna be that guy, but I don't think I can take so many rejections. It starts to take a toll on you. It never becomes easy, but it does get easier as long as you maintain and don't slide with age. Most guys do, and that's where you can find comparative advantage. I'll definitely keep this in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:50 PM
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It kinda sounds similar to what I've been trying to do.. Like this guy, I was talking to. Check his comments & thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:47 PM
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A lot of women are weak. So, they think tall men can protect them in case of emergencies. It's stupid & funny, but it's women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:43 PM
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Thanks. I'll definitely give this a try before moving to alternative means.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:42 PM
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I wish there was a healthy community or subreddit for it here..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:41 PM
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For sex, yes. For relationships, no..considering gender ratio is almost the same. Even I'll fuck a fat women, but marry NO. I don't think I would've problem attracting fat women either. But I was talking to a guy earlier here & thinking of only using escort services (he does to & content with it) or passport bro'ing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:40 PM
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Oh.. okay. Thanks, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:36 PM
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What's whitepilled ? Does it mean passport bro or escort, or something??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:10 PM
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finer experience Sry, but can you explain in what context ? Do they do more things for you?? Or, do you have to spend money on expensive hotels, bars etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:08 PM
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I'm thinking of adopting the same lifestyle as you. I'm 5'5, so dating has not been easier on me either. Do you know anyone around you who has the same lifestyle as you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:06 PM
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Hmm.. interesting. I'll definitely do that. Thanks. But I'm 5'5 & fit, though. Idk how many of them would have height preferences ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:01 PM
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Can I ask what sets apart a high-class escort from a normal one ? It's attractiveness, right ? Sry, I'm not well versed on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:59 PM
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A lot of men kinda have to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:56 PM
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I know women like tall guys. I'm short & never had any luck in dating. So, at least I know what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:53 PM
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Exactly. Tate Brothers, Steven Crowder, Leo D Caprio, Jordan Peterson. All of them are tall with amazing personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:52 PM
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Most women only have to reduce their weight to be considered attractive. It's not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:48 PM
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Lol, why do you think we don't know this already ? But that doesn't prove that beauty standards aren't tough for men & extremely easy for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:46 PM
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I hit on single childless older women ( up to 10 years older) all the time. But I look very young for my age myself & they don't feel comfortable with that 😩 Also, finding women older than me, who doesn't already have children, is extremely tough, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:38 PM
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Does height stop someone from getting in shape? Making more money? Cultivating friendships? Discovering new hobbies? Treating themself to a nice date? I'm not fat. I earn average income. I have friends. I have hobbies. Treating myself to a nice date..what does it mean ?? And the more shorter man-taller woman relationships society is exposed to, the more normalized it'll become. Win-win for everyone. I don't have any kind of height preference in women. I ask out a lot of tall women, but they alwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:32 PM
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You should have no problems getting women. I'm not entirely sure, but I think a lot of women don't wanna date guys who have used escort services. Or, I don't wanna be offensive. Maybe he wants to attract women of much higher attractiveness than his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:28 PM
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If I ever feel the sexual urge I'll just book an escort. Veen doing that for ten years now and have had some awesome experiences. Here's to many more! 🥂 Can I ask how often you use escort services ? How much does it cost you ? Approximately, how much do you earn, if you don't mind ??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:25 PM
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Tone of my voice ? Meaning ?? I don't have attractive eyes. They are brown..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:43 PM
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I'm OK with my height, but women care a lot about it. I have never heard a woman show a preference for short guys. It always start with tall..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:32 PM
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They just want to sulk and cry online because out of their league women aren't clamoring for fat gamer dorks What if you're not fat, but short ??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:29 PM
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Taller height is the first thing women look for in men. How can men increase their height ??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:28 PM
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Then ignore those women??? I’m sure you would reject fat women before you got to know them. Let women do the same and find a woman who wants you. I wouldn't reject a fat woman if I was fat myself, though. Fat is a silly reason to throw around, though. You can easily lose weight. I wouldn't mind if a woman rejected me for being fat ( which I'm not).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:26 PM
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I mean, I'm not fat by any ideal. So, would getting buff help for a short guy ?? The difference between successful short males and the unsuccessful ones is the successful ones don’t give a shit what people think What if women reject you just on the basis of height before getting to know you ??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:15 PM
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It's my friends height. I'm 5'5. When I posted this, a lot of people said working out is useless if you are short.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:05 PM
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5'5/165cm
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:01 PM
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But if the males reduce their weight & women don't, those males still won't find dates, considering fit women are in the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:00 PM
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What can a short guy do to get hotter ??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:58 PM
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Men can't get hotter, tho. Their features are usually uncontrollable like height, hair, etc.. Only women can.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:51 PM
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I implore you to get out of these spaces. Go get in shape, get financially stable, grow your social circle, go communicate with more people, find some hobbies you're truly passionate about, and start taking yourself on dates What about height ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:49 PM
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Your personality is irrelevant if you are short.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:03 PM
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Yeah... I think height is the biggest dealbreaker of all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 11:06 AM
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If I were to have a one night stand and get pregnant from it, I’d yeet that baby Then why does the genes of that baby matter in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 11:04 AM
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It's a psychological thing. Women usually need protection from men. So, they look at the tallest guy & they feel protected.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:43 AM
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They usually get blamed because it's usually women with higher standards than men. So, even after that, if you fail, it's your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:18 AM
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But what if you got pregnant with a guy who was extremely attractive, but since he has so many options, he'll leave you, just like women on twox sub. But if the guy is ugly, he might stay with you after you get pregnant. Because you're the best he could do anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:12 AM
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But short men are not the same as single mothers. Being a short guy is not his mistake. Being a single mother most probably is. And the fact you think they are equal proves how tough beauty standards for men are. This gives the answer to your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:07 AM
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Yeah.. because you finally had to come to terms with the fact that how tough beauty standards for men are. I'm pretty sure you tried your best though 😂
/r/ExRedPill11/09/23 09:22 PM
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Lol.. if your only defense is the overwhelming majority who will downvote/upvote a certain kind of comment without reading, then even you know you were wrong.
/r/ExRedPill11/09/23 09:20 PM
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I'm not going to look up sources for something which I didn't claim. The fact that you can't even bother to prove yourself right in so long, proved everything I was saying. If you think there is no proof, then find where it is wrong? Apples are the same as Oranges. Wait you don't think so, then find where it is wrong. That's how stupid you sound. I think I am right. Yeah.. I've started to realise.. you're the only person who thinks you're right. If I think you are wrong and I am invested, I will…
/r/ExRedPill11/09/23 09:18 PM
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But you clearly meant it, lol. I feel like you enjoy watching women suffer, lol ...
/r/ExRedPill11/09/23 09:11 PM
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Oh..god. Where did I say that ? Like where...I can't find it.
/r/ExRedPill11/09/23 09:10 PM
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That's true. But I think she's just off her medications or something. She has been sending me long ass messages on how women have so many troubles because they are fat & can't control their weight, lol. Has she ever heard of gym lol ??
/r/ExRedPill11/09/23 07:34 PM
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Don't talk to u/Leeola_Mcgillicuddy...I think there's something wrong with her. I have been talking to her for hours about how men are also fat, aged or have children, but she keeps ignoring it & keep blaming short guys for it. Either she's a dumb teenager or English isn't even her second language. Check my comment history with her. I don't know, what can't she understand.
/r/ExRedPill11/09/23 07:17 PM
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If you're saying fat men should go for fat women, then i agree with you. Also average by weight for men is 197 pounds in America with what , 85 percent of men being not 6 feet tall. So the average man, like the average woman in America or the western world is FAT. Also, source?? But males think women are fat when they are a size 16, which is the average size for a woman in America . Yet average to delusional males is the small percentage of slim women that are under size 10. Now size 16 can be c…
/r/ExRedPill11/09/23 07:11 PM
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Nah..you are just saying that since women have multiple options, they should go for the sane men & then face domestic abuse & misogny from those men, because they deserve it.
/r/ExRedPill11/09/23 07:07 PM
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The comparisons are not fair to you. By that logic don't even compare because you are comparing "apples to tomatoes" because we are comparing women who have vaginas to men who have penis right? Same logic. Umm...yeah. Also where is the proof that ugly men are not abusive? 🤣🤣🤣 that sounds delusional! Lots of abusive men are very ugly. Where did I say that ?? But if you have a preference for 6 feet guys, you are looking at a very small population of men who has a lot of options. So, they get to be…
/r/ExRedPill11/09/23 07:04 PM
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Again, they have options both online or off line. Where does the data show the men are being very accepting of offers from fat women, older women, women with kids etc. Because average women aren't fat, date with their age range & don't have children. You are comparing Apple with tomatoes. Same goes for average men. You aren't making fair comparisons. Where does the data show that these groups of women have turned down the "average men" ? Average men should turn them down. However, if the guy is …
/r/ExRedPill11/09/23 06:32 PM
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What's psy ? Can you elaborate?? I don't understand your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:10 PM
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If you don't think enough Asians ( including Indians) are not in the USA, then you need to go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:26 PM
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But you are ignoring the Asian, Indian & every other minority population in the USA. According to you, to be average, a man has to be black or white ??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:02 PM
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5'10 The average height is 5'9, not 5'10.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:52 PM
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Yeah, but kind of options. Average looking women have a lot of options. But average looking men don't. Average women don't like men who are inexperienced, younger, fat & SHORT.
/r/ExRedPill11/09/23 10:02 AM
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But a majority of women prefer 6 feet height.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:51 AM
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No, they are not. Women literally wear makeup & post those pictures on dating apps. But men can not wear elevator shoes & add that height to their stated height.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:49 AM
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What about height lol ? You're telling me that women don't value height in a men ??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:47 AM
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It's not advice they give. It's more about acceptance of the fact that how tough beauty standards for men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:44 AM
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What..how ? 85% of men are literally not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:42 AM
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I disagreed with you that there is really huge support for them (and not the bits you support). Yes, there is huge support for them. But which part of their saying is supported by who ? When you click on their videos, we don't know what is going to be their topic of discussion ? Are they gonna talk some stupidity, or are they actually gonna talk about harsh beauty standards for men ?? And since we don't know, we all click on their videos, which increases their views, put them on top of the algor…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:39 AM
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I never said you or anyone need to do something. I’m just pointing out their existence since you dismissed red pill content as rage bait and no real support. And as I explained above, some of what they say is bs & need to be ignored. However, they are right when they say that beauty standards are tougher on men. I didn’t mean that women wanting attractive men is unpopular. I meant girls on tinder are shallow with high expectations is a very common opinion. They do that because they can since tin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:11 PM
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No, I don't. Because if I knew, then I would 1) Try to find 5-foot guys. 2) Filter out a 5-foot guy who gets laid. 3) Date alongside him by looking taller than him & get laid. But it's just women on reddit who knows a 5-foot playboy. I can't find a 5-foot guy to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:22 PM
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Cringy teens are still people. Consuming content like this isn’t going to help them not be cringy, And..what do you want me to do about them? We are actual adults with real-life problems. Should we try to solve it or think about those cringy teenagers. If you yourself weren't a perfect teenager, why do you expect them to be. I agree that women are pickier than men (mostly online since most people online dating are men), but that’s not what we are discussing here. We kinda are. If you aren't, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:17 PM
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Meh..I have had multiple rejections due to my short height. I dated for years with zero results. I have had a very discouraging & sad life. I'm done now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:04 PM
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They don’t just have followers but also engagement. Yes, because teenagers are stupid who believe feminist wanting to kill all men is true, when it's not. You should know it, you were once a stupid teenager too, as you mentioned. Everyone is at some point in their life. You literally just explained why you support them. Support them... but for what reasons - 1) Do I think feminists want to kill all men... No. 2) Do I think beauty standards are tougher for men as compared to women ( despite what …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:00 PM
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Yeah, I know. Everyone on reddit knows a 5 foot Brad Pitt. But not irl. I have tried platform boots. But the problem is - 1) When women ask for your height, you still have to tell them your height barefoot. Otherwise, women will blame you for lying. 2) Women compare their height in heels, with a guys height barefoot. It's a double standard, but women are allowed to do it. 3) Men who wear platforms are generally considered as insecure by women. 4) If you wear hidden insoles, a time will come when…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:50 PM
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Ummm, that's not how questioning works 😂. If I know, why would I ask lol. You just made a random comment outta nowhere & actually expect to not provide any explanation for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:42 PM
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I'm sry but what the hell are you talking about ?? It's not an anti sjw phase. Liberal adult feminists actually believe that beauty standards for women are tough. When in reality, beauty standards are tough for men. What make you think I have a problem with men making money. I’m just pointing out that they exist, and at least a huge portion of that money are coming from people genuinely agree and support them. They don't support them. That is called as 'clickbait' trigger. For example, make a vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:39 PM
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are the same guys who simultaneously always ask for it They don't, though. They usually turn to RP for it. But feminist don't like the fact that young men keep turning on to red pill, so they go out of their way to make up imaginary facts & give bad advice to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:07 PM
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Really where ? I can't find them. There aren't even enough 5-foot guys in this world, which women on reddit swear by they have slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:05 PM
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Ll surgery is seriously not worth it. I have considered it again n again. GH no..I'm 20+ in age. It will take a lot of years for scientists to come up with any new ways of increasing height.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:00 PM
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'Beauty standards are way more harsher on women as compared to men'...is literally one of the stupid talking points around which feminism was built. I'm sry, how have you not heard of this by now ? I have to ask, how old are you ?? are making money of saying things like “women ain’t shit”. And..what is your problem with men making money. People make money out of triggering people for views on social media. Is this a new concept for you ??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:53 PM
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But you also need to consider the fact that beauty standards for men are way more tough compared to women, despite what feminists keep on babling about. What women majorly demand from men is uncontrollable, what men demand from women is controllable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:44 PM
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Yeah.. but how to get your foot in the door if you don't have the height women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:32 PM
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Men can't change their attractiveness. Only women can. Height is one of the most important traits women look for in a men. How can you increase your height ??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:30 PM
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Bro, only 3 options are showing. It's either 'red' or 'blue' or 'all'. That's it. Also, check my previous edit. Is it 'all' ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 12:22 PM
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Give me a hint then.. which color is it ? Is it even a color ?? Now, you've actually gotten me curious. Edit : All pill ?.. but that's a small sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 12:14 PM
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Is that pill blue or red ??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:57 AM
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So some women care about height and others don't 85% of men don't have the height, which women want. And as you said, it's only some women who are okay with dating those guys. So, automatically, a lot of men under 6ft will get rejected for their height, come here & talk about it..but women will say ItS nOT yOuR HeIghT or '' I have dated thousands of 5 ft men in the past, I'm married to a 5'11 guy now, but don't focus on that". So, basically, a lot of women here gaslight men here into thinking it…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:35 AM
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Which sub is that ..??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:29 AM
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You're not evil, but your response on how you end up with a tall guy is just a coincidence..just makes our situation even worse. Your response is extremely demoralizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:18 AM
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A four-sentence comment, with the last one starting with "so." This is the definition of a conclusion, buddy. Yes. This was my conclusion. Thanks for pointing it out. Now read it, too. As I said above, if you hate the word 'expectation' so much, just accept that beauty standards are tougher for men. Easy. I can't tell you because it breaks a rule of the sub, but it doesn't matter anyway. Oh, great. How convenient 🙄 ? I have no idea why you had to put words in my mouth either. It doesn't have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 01:48 AM
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Exactly.. Apparently, every woman on reddit has dated a 5-foot guy & then got married to a tall guy, lol..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 01:36 AM
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Yeah, I know. Whatever you're saying, I have literally heard it all countless times on reddit. This is something which every 5ft woman who's married to a tall guy say in their defense. Apparently, every woman has dated 5 ft guys, but they are married to tall guys. But we gotta ignore the marriage part..pff.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 01:34 AM
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Some women. When 85% of men are shorter in height.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 12:08 AM
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Trust me, this sub definitely knows that women don't feel attracted to short guys. So, the question of requirement is not even worth mentioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:37 PM
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My husband is 5’11 and I find myself wishing I was taller so I can comfortably be the big spoon and my wrist hurts after holding hands when we go out. And that's literally the entire problem. Women who are into short guys, but still married to tall guys. Combine that with the fact that so many women who are only into tall guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:33 PM
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It literally was the entire conclusion of your comment. Umm.. no, it really wasn't. My entire conclusion was who has tougher beauty standards. Men do. Them's the breaks. I can't control a prominent physical feature of myself, yet I can't swing a big dick in a tight circle without hearing some man bloviate about how much he doesn't find women with my features attractive. Which physical feature ? What one uncontrollable physical feature only 85% of women have, which leaves them unattractive?? We a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:25 PM
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I'm not sure what's workable with having kids or aging when other party simply doesn't take you serioisly and just goes along to get laid and "see where it goes", even though they already know what kind of scenarios they want (a hint: scenarios that other psrty DOESN'T want). You're the one who decided to be with a guy who has a lot of options & and has kids with him. So, it's a risk you take when you go for attraction & not personality in a man. So, yeah, being a single mother is workable. As f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:41 PM
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OK, do you say that using the word 'expectation' was wrong ? It's like a grammatical mistake, lol.. However, if men want to be attractive, he would have to be tall, irrespective of whether they want to end up in a relationship or not. And being tall becomes the beauty standard for men. Which makes it tougher for them, considering 85% of men can't control it. Most of the time, women make a point that they are attracted to a wide variation of men, which is obviously untrue, considering that variat…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:32 PM
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I know a few put-together women. They have good careers, work lots, have clean homes, clean vehicles, and spend an amazing amount of time working out, running, jogging, in the gym, cooking healthy food, and taking care of their bodies, hair and skin. I know guys who literally do NOTHING for their bodies, their homes or their lives (can't even keep their cars interior clean) and they think they are in the league of these women I described. Oh my good, you know some women & some men..that will pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:21 PM
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anonymous people. Yes. People. Human people, ergo, women & men. Which proves that women do prefer tall men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:02 PM
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You're very obviously talking about what women find attractive, not the expectations placed on men. Jfc..if women only find 6 ft guys attractive, then obviously, these are the expectations put on men to even be able to get into a relationship. This is completely irrelevant to my point that it's something we can't control, and you are trying to make an argument that what we are attracted to somehow should be based on factors that are controllable. No, my point was that men are attracted to most w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:59 PM
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it’s ultimately not a competition between who has it worse. By that logic, women should stop comparing their oppression due to patriarchy as compared to men too, lol. Women & feminists in general promote this idea that beauty standards are tough for them. My only point was that this was completely false, considering 85% if men are straightaway unattractive due to short height.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:50 PM
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We're attracted to what we're attracted to. We can't control that, and it's not determined by what are "controllable factors." If that was the case, then men shouldn't be attracted to youth. After all, we can't control our age. So, you do agree that beauty standards are tougher for men as compared to women, right ? Because men's beauty standards are completely uncontrollable. And that was my entire point. Women & feminists in general should stop shouting that beauty standards are tough for them.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:45 PM
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Women prefer men who are 21 cm taller than their partners. Average height of women 5'4. You add 21 cm ( 8 inches to it) you get 6 ft.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:40 PM
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No offense, but were you born yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:14 PM
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Women prefer men who are 21 cm taller than their partners. Average height of women 5'4. You add 21 cm ( 8 inches to it) you get 6 ft.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:14 PM
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Yes, dating apps, just found that specific % of women who only consider 6ft guys as attractive. What is that logic ?? And women outside of dating apps have height preferences, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:23 PM
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men prefer thin women Thin is controllable. Tall is not. hourglass figure, There are more celebrity women who doesn't have an hourglass figure & still considered attractive. yet men find women who don't fit that standard Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:21 PM
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How does it not ? It proves that women in reality wouldn't find that 5'8 guy attractive as compared to a 6ft tall guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:19 PM
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Women prefer men who are 21 cm taller than their partners. Average height of women 5'4. You add 21 cm ( 8 inches to it) you get 6 ft. Also 20% of men in USA are under 5'7 & it will be more in Asian countries. So, they exactly aren't rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:16 PM
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So, why did OP mention 'tall' in her post. Why do women look for a guy 21 cm taller than her??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:09 PM
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I mean, OP literally mentioned "Tall" in her post, so they obviously aren't. Do you think a Henry Cavil would be considered attractive if he was 5'2 "instead of 6'1.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:59 PM
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ut why are they acting as if they don't care about physical appearance? We never said we aren't. But men will find an average woman attractive. Most of the beauty standards for women are within their control, as you mentioned. But for men, you are unattractive if you are shorter than 6ft. You are unattractive if you are balding. Both of them are uncontrollable. So, beauty standards for men are extremely tough as compared to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:57 PM
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How do you know they are crying? Can you look at their faces ?? We are literally just pointing out that beauty standards are tough for men as compared to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:51 PM
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And are those men considered attractive?? Women of most heights are considered attractive. While 85% of men aren't, just as OP mentioned in her post.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:49 PM
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Wrong comparison. 'Overweight' & and'unshaved' can be controlled. However, 85% of men are short in height, which is uncontrollable. So, it's women who have way more unrealistic expectations of what an attractive man is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:47 PM
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Exactly. OP literally mentions tall men in her post, who are only 15% of the population & can't seem to understand the problem. Beauty standards are way tougher for men, as compared to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:43 PM
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Because women have much much more unrealistic expectations of what an attractive guy is as compared to men. Women can have whatever preferences, but they should stop saying that beauty standards are tough for them, when only 15% of men are tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:40 PM
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So let's not pretend like it doesn't matter, there's plenty of women you don't want either and will rather be alone than "settle", such as aging women and single moms. They might be good enough for an occasional fun but you don't want to f*ck yourself up by getting bound. At some point you'll notice that you despise 90%+ of women in your demographics and your only interest in them might be an occasional orgasm, but you have to fake your interest and pretend being polite, yet you despise them eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:57 AM
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I think you're just an outlier & have never met a woman before. I think you're underestimating how important being 6 feet is to women Women who are attractive are compared with men who are 6 feet & above. Basically, men under 6 feet are straightaway unattractive. Unless you opt for dangerous, illegal & expensive surgeries, you really have no options. And you do have the option to change and look pretty, but most of you choose not to hence all the rejection Women don't like pretty guys. They like…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:15 PM
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Beauty standards are tougher for men? That's news to me. 85% of men are under 6 feet & not the beauty standard. That's news enough. I see a lot of women dolling themselves up, while a lot of guys just looking like they've rolled out of bed Because women can. Men can doll themselves up, but they'll still be under 6 feet. You should see the reactions when a woman decides not to shave, you'd think she was a criminal. You should see the reaction when a woman ends up on a date with a 5'2 "guy. Guys a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:36 AM
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but mainly what women worry about with their appearence is not just dating, but existing in society in general. Yeah, but it's their own insecurities. If not for the purpose of dating. In this case, it's women who are judging other women. Believe it or not, being fit is not the only beauty standard for women :)) It is. 90% of the times it is. 90% is enough to survive in society. For men, that 90% is their height.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:44 AM
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Yeah, but women need to stop saying BS like 'men need to step it up' or 'bar for men is so low'. What women want is something impossible for men to achieve. We can't step up & suddenly become tall & the bar is 6 feet high. It's pretty obvious that whatever most women go through on twox subreddit is all their own fault, considering they are only talking about those 15% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:41 AM
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Women aren’t hurt by beauty standards with men as the primary judge, but society. So basically, women are judged by women & not men. Beauty standards are difficult for both genders, but for different reasons Beauty standards for women can be solved by going to the gym. 85% of men under 6ft are judged harshly by women. Only men have tough beauty standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:53 AM
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Yeah, but women also need to accept that beauty standards are tougher for men & not for them. One of the biggest pillars of feminism is tough beauty standards for women, which is obviously untrue. It's women who are more shallow & not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:32 AM
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Every single woman I matched with no matter how good the conversation was asked me the holy grail of questions. HOW TALL ARE YOU. Whatever confidence I had died as I told her I am 5'8 and saw many a woman's attention taper off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:56 PM
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OP, you get constantly rejected for being average height, not short height. And then you act like it's all okay. 85% of men are under 6 feet. Your post is actually proving the point of how tough it actually is for men out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:39 PM
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Okay.. let's assume there are outliers that you keep imagining because you obviously can't provide any evidence for it. But you do agree that beauty standards for women in general are just easier as compared to men, right ??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:11 PM
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Dad-bod guys are medium weighted & hairy chested men without packs. They aren't fat guys, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:43 PM
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Exactly, lol. Women only find that small subset of men attractive & then turn around & say that beauty standards are tougher for them. Like, this is something I don't understand ? Like, they actually don't wanna accept how tough beauty standards for men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:39 PM
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How, lol ? Do you have any source for that ? Men are generally considered unattractive when they are both short & fat ? It's literally way worse for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:30 PM
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But we fucking work with what we've got and WE KEEP IT MOVING. Only women can do that, because as you said Tough shit. Women are meant to be more desired and sought after, that's nature. Her getting pregnant is significantly more important than you getting laid - go file a complaint with Mother Nature on this or go yell at other men about it. You literally answered your own query on why man will they dig their heels into this and it becomes difficult to feel sorry for you guys, because after a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:24 PM
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Men don't understand what's attractive for women because they have their own definition of what makes an attractive it does not align with women anywhere near as much as they think it does. Really, what's attractive to women ? 'Tall height' is one. Even Chris Pratt is 6'1 "in height. The thing is, the standards men hold each other to is extremely strict and unforgiving Give an example. And let's see if I think women in general finds it attractive or not??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:15 PM
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Yeah, but why do women keep saying that beauty standards are tough for them , lol ? Can you imagine a guy who's both short & fat being considered attractive to any women in the same amount as fat women are considered attractive by men ??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:11 PM
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Well, that's because women are more important than men i terms of nature. This is by design, this natural. It is more important that women get pregnant than you get laid. At this point, you may need to take your complaints up to mother nature herself because females being more desired (and considered more important) than males is a phenomenon seen across nature, and for a reason. Not every male is meant to reproduce. And there you fucking go. That was literally my fucking point. Beauty standards…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:01 PM
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No, and by control, I know that you're talking about weight, and even then, fat girls get into relationships with men that love them. This goes beyond weight. There you go. You're literally proving my point of how tough beauty standards for men are. Men could be considered unattractive both because of their height & weight. In fact, even women who are fat are fetished more as compated to a short guy or a fat guy. Have you approached a woman you consider unattractive recently? Who does that? And …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:50 PM
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A video? I don't even need a video, its everywhere. Men reject women with flat asses, who aren't shaped the right way I'm still waiting for that evidence. who aren't facially attractive. The fuck. An unattractive face is not only specific to women. Do you think women are going crazy over facially unattractive guys , lol ? In fact, tell me about the last time you approached an unattractive woman? For that, you have to explain what an unattractive woman is? Because most of women's attractiveness i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:51 PM
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I have seen men as a whole reject a woman for not having an ass. I KNOW femcels, they lack the general hourglass figure that's a make or break for men, and they aren't pretty. Men have their set of strict physical standards for women. Can you send me a video of such kind ? Because I can share with you a lot of YouTube videos, where women out loud said her height preference & even rejected them for it. No actually, how hot a guy is isn't determined exclusively by his height. Are you actively tell…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:41 PM
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Yeah, I see that claim with no evidence. Because the souce I mentioned is from those years, when height filter was free. (i.e., women who care enough about height to filter based on it). If something is literally free, people are going to use it. It was the second filter available to women after gender. Sure, it's right next to the sources for all the claims you are making. It's really not. But you've already disqualified any observation you would make as an "outlier."" You've demonstrated you h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:05 AM
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I don't think so man, you're giving off the kind of energy that you're not the guy who's exactly invited to parties or is out there leading a normal college experience, not even on a basic social level. Everyone on reddit gives that energy according to everyone. So again, have you experienced life outside of your classrooms, your dorm room? Like, do you...do things with other people? Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:30 AM
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For the same reason men have a preference for women with big, perky tits, a small waist, and bubbly butt. Physical ideals are just that - they're ideals. Yeah, but that's my point. They don't. There is no source to indicate that men are only swiping on a specific set of women with big boobs. Men find a variation of women attractive. You can visit the tinderinsight sub & observe the high number of men women swipe left on & the low amount women, men, swipe left on. You really cannot be so fucking …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:26 AM
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Then why do so many women have a preference for 6ft tall guys ??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:29 PM
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That's funny, because I'm in the USA. I'm a woman, and not only have I seen short guys in their 20s in a relationship, but I've dated them. And are you attractive looking ? My point wasn't just that they can't get dates, but they are considered ugly & unattractive because of their height because of unrealistic beauty standards for them. the entire world of men in relationships is not made up of nothing but 6ft squared jaws stacked on abs, balancing on a giant cock. Among the gen z population, 6f…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:20 PM
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I'm pretty sure I already mentioned that I'm a college student. So, that kinda requires me to go outside & MiNGLe wItH SoCiTeY
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:17 PM
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This is only women who use filters and pay for the premium version of bumble. This statistic was from when height as a filter was free. The vast majority of women do not use the premium version. But if they could, they would. So, it's pretty obvious only they are considered attractive & now women have to work harder & swipe right only on men 6' or above. This says nothing about women demanding men be at least 6'. You're also making the mistake that women all like the same things, and that women …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:09 PM
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No, that's red pill bullshit. A survey from Bumble found that 60% of women indicate that they are looking for a man over 6 feet tall in their search filters. However, that number drops steeply as the height of men lowers. 30% of women want to date men who are 5'11" and only 15% of women are willing to date men who are 5'8" or shorter.Women are much more selective & and find 80% of men unattractive on dating apps. Because people took surveys on them. And what do those surveys say ?? Women prefer …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:56 PM
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I see them all the time. Wait..do you live in the USA? Because I literally never see a short guy in his 20s in a relationship. All sorts of women. Source ? Because it's pretty obvious from dating apps that tall height is 90% of men's physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:31 PM
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But are those men considered attractive? What type of women are they dating ? I have only seen older couples where the guy was short. Gen Z short guys are someone I hardly ever see in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:23 PM
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Ha..is it ? There are statistics available on this topic. You don't even have to Google. You can easily find them spread throughout this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:25 PM
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Not even online You know Dating apps come under the category of online, right ?
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 09:09 AM
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attractive threshold What doss that threshold includes?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:47 AM
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lower standards they can meet. Realistic standards that they can meet. How is it their fault they are not 6ft+ ? 85% of men are under that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:38 AM
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What about height ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:28 PM
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If that was true, then women who are 25 or above won't have height preferences, but they still do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:27 PM
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Maybe he's talking about 2x or something. I have also stopped hanging out on that sub. It took a huge mental toll on me.
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