Yesitmesilly Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
52	Ladies, how do we identify a high value man on a dating app?	STRATEGY	Yesitmesilly	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/21 07:01 AM
1	Sex on the first date	DISCUSSION	Yesitmesilly	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/03/21 11:48 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Update: reining in the sub Finally	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/06/21 07:57 PM
2	FDS being as large as it is shows how out of touch some women are and that doesn’t help get women results. Who said fds hates men of caliber?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/21 09:28 PM
7	and that’s on periodt And I hate that they assume that they hat a woman would want to be a mom at some point. The more time I spend here the more hope I lose	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/06/21 05:30 PM
11	It Never Ends Can you take this to the cops? I'm actually a little scared of you running into him in person. Could you change your online location setting for a few weeks so he thinks you moved out?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/05/21 10:32 PM
10	Why are relationship-seeking attractive men on OLD single? What’s the catch? Yeah, I met someone nice enough on one of these apps but he was bride hunting and I wasn't ready for that. He would tell me stories about his ex who cheated on him right from the first date 😂 he was shorter than his bumble DP and was definitely 5 years older from the date of the picture. In hindsight it was easy to see why I wasn't as attracted to him in person. Dude apparently was quite rich but he came to pick me in a hired car on the first date. On subsequent dates, he would bring a bike and …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/05/21 01:33 PM
19	narcissists and body dysmorphia: why you need to walk away before you're literally gaslit into forgetting WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE This. Also stay away from men with feeder fetish. They will feed you till you're an unhealthy weight and if you're naturally a skinny girl, stare at people with way rounder bodies than yours so that you're always comparing and feeling insecure about yourself. By the time you're plump you just can not relate to your new body type and have shit self esteem.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/05/21 01:08 PM
16	They were together for 8 years and wants a ring worthy of wearing the rest of her life. Most comments are calling her a gold digger...surprise surprise 😒 How much do you want to bet he won’t find anyone else & comes back crying on her doorstep? 💅🏻 Ughh, he won't. His mummy and daddy will probably find him a nice girl they can bully.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/05/21 08:04 PM
10	Saw this on Pinterest and thought I should share it with you all ❤️ Hey, it's alright. Been there too. You'll make it through. It's not always a permanent get better kinda thing but you get so much better at not making the dumb decisions we all once did 😂❤️ sending you strength, love	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/05/21 08:02 PM
5	Saw this on Pinterest and thought I should share it with you all ❤️ Omg yess. Just yesterday someone I used to sext texted saying he cared for me and that's why he was messaging me insoite of being blocked on other social median and told me to stop projecting my insecurities on to other people. But like. I get to have my boundaries right. And perhaps he was right about me projecting. That doesn't mean that I needed to actually engage with him. It's possible to take the lesson and ditch the person. So the path isn't always clear but if you make the right decision…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/05/21 08:00 PM
120	Update: I dumped him! I used to have these sub fantasies and then I went through a breakup and all of a sudden vanilla is sexy. Like why does sexuality have to be so confusing. The minute you see the logic behind some of the more bdsm kinks it's just a serious turnoff tbh	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/04/21 07:28 PM
1	Any good tips to when to sexually escalate Conversation? You could ask the girl about her best date so far? That could give u a good idea on what she likes and u can build from there. The best tip I'd have is this : customize your flirting style for every girl you flirt with.	/r/seduction	06/03/21 09:36 AM
1	Any good tips to when to sexually escalate Conversation? I don't see the harm in having sexual conversations right off the bat if the girl is game for it. As a highly sexual girl I get really annoyed if the guy takes ages to initiate things. Just be respectful of their boundaries and take it forward. It also helps to see what the girls are looking for before you swipe right. Someone who is looking for a relationship might not react very kindly to being sexed up. But if you just wanna keep it casual, and she does too, then I don't see the harm in being…	/r/seduction	06/03/21 09:35 AM
1	Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men) It's mostly. A bunch of don't and very few dos	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/21 12:26 PM