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| 7 | "Just be sad with me"So I just left a relationship like this last year. Some people put it down to women wanting to vent and men trying to find solutions. However, I believe that if you can't recognise the help someone is offering for what it is then they aren't right for you, and you aren't right for them. Always remember some people literally just want you to be as emotional as they are, and if that isn't a place you want to go to then that's absolutely fine and that's a boundary you are allowed to draw for yourse… | /r/MenSupportMen | 28/01/25 06:40 AM |
| – | [REVISED] Society needs to understand that men can easily be physically abused in straight relationshipsYour strength only matters if you are willing to use it. Far more common and I would argue more damaging is emotional abuse, where the man is unwilling to use force and unable to protect himself verbally. To me, the real crime is that verbal and emotional abuse is not viewed by society as serious, when in reality - it is far more devastating to a man and can destroy them for life. | /r/MenSupportMen | 25/01/25 07:03 AM |
| 8 | Buried my only daughter recentlyWell done, even in this terrible moment you should be proud that the change you have worked so hard for is allowing you to be there for your children. There won't be a medal, and you'll still be sad, but honestly, even in this dark time you should be proud of your self and recognise your strength. Be well brother. | /r/MenSupportMen | 18/01/25 06:40 PM |
| 3 | I feel hideousHey Dude, I got a squinty face and I got loads of girls over the years. Love yourself, do interesting shit so you have something to talk about. Also, work on your friendships first, then love will follow. | /r/MenSupportMen | 10/01/25 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Thinking about doing a paternity testLet's roll through the different options. Best Case: you ARE his bio father and you never have to worry about this again. Worst Case: you are NOT his bio father - you'll still love him, you'll still care for him and even though it might take a year or two to accept this new reality, you will get there, you will accept it and adapt and learn to love your son in the light of truth. Current Case: You carry on wondering for a few years before realising that it doesn't matter either way, or you carry… | /r/MenSupportMen | 05/01/25 12:34 PM |
| 9 | Almost 40, things are weird.That's really tough dude. I'm sorry you're dealing with all that. The only advice I can give is about the ADHD - and it's this - mindfulness meditation really does do a lot to bring the symptoms under control and help deal with some of the negative self image that builds up around living with undiagnosed ADHD. It's not impossible to make new friends either - I did it, aged 42! You got this! | /r/MenSupportMen | 17/06/24 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Why Robert Card (the maine shooter) is essential to know about and talk about.Violence as self-harm or an attempt at suicide? Most men who murder suicide have generally sought help beforehand and been rejected? Society fails them so they take the only life altering action available to them because 'something' has to change and this will at least change something. This is one of those paradigm shifting ideas that will take some time to process. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/10/23 07:51 AM |
| 3 | I’m at a group home nowWow. Really happy for you. I hope everything gets better from now on. | /r/MenSupportMen | 27/10/23 06:57 PM |
| 6 | I can't enjoy vaginal sex with my girlfriendHey Dude, There's a mental aspect to sex that there isn't with masturbation - so masturbation essentially involves using your imagination to get yourself over the line; but sex is more about being present with the other person without judgement either of them or yourself. I imagine that if you see your partner infrequently then you might experience a lot of 'headiness' and frustration when the moment finally arrives. Mindfulness mediation help with being more present in all aspects of life, and … | /r/MenSupportMen | 30/09/23 11:04 AM |
| 19 | “Men Deserve To Be Lonely!” Responding To Backlash Over ‘The Male Loneliness Epidemic’Women can be trolls too ... don't even think into it bro.x | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/09/23 04:30 AM |
| 6 | Sunak urged to appoint minister for menI heard this live and I was on tenterhooks listening, hoping for it to go well. I think it did, however I was struck by how timid and careful he was having to be - that’s not a criticism - talking about men’s issues in public or private is like dancing on the head of a pin. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/09/23 05:07 AM |
| 20 | A news on the front page of an Australian news paperThis is applalling. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/09/23 08:51 AM |
| 3 | The Toxic Matriarchy in all it's glory.You know, the more I think about this the harder time I have seeing it as not part of the matriarchy. We all here understand that women's behaviour is excused in many different areas of life, and so maybe it does lead to horrible things happening because we give women a free pass. However, then am I also to draw the conclusion that horrible things are done by men because they are enabled to? Food for thought anyway, more questions than answers. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/08/23 08:13 PM |
| 10 | The "Male Dominated History" of Earth's civilizations.It’s punishing men for the wrinkles of evolution! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/08/23 06:14 AM |
| 30 | Were Western societies really patriarchal before the 2000's?Things were very different. Like most of us were only two generations removed from a generation of men returning from the second world war with PTSD - so we were a generation raised by a generation raised by violent, alcoholic men and women who'd been raised by violent alcoholic men. It wasn't that women were singled out for especially bad treatment it was that by todays standards every one was horrible to everyone else almost all the time. We didn't need a reason to be nasty but if there was a … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/07/23 04:49 PM |
| 31 | In most heterosexual relationships, men still earn more than their wives, yet there persists a argument regarding household labor division.Every guy knows his entire day off is spent making up for all housework he didn’t do during the week because he was away at work | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/07/23 06:21 AM |
| 2 | Democrat repositioning on masculinity continuesThank you for trying to make positive change. One of my pet peeves is when men copy the tactics of feminism, it’s like ‘Yo! Dude! Sitting around bitching about how women ruined your life is the masculine approach to anything. We’re men! So get to fucking work and fix it. Stand tall. Speak your mind. State your needs. Then get to work making your life and the life of everyone in your life better. That’s what a man does. That’s what a human does … and steer clear of people who are obviously gonna … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/07/23 05:47 AM |
| 3 | Shit repeatsSounds like you need to get to somewhere safe. | /r/MenSupportMen | 07/07/23 05:18 AM |
| 4 | Shit repeatsI'm really sorry you're suffering and I wish I could help, but know this, you're strong, you must be to have made it this far. Now ask yourself the question - is the road from where you are now to happiness an easy road, or a hard road? It's going to be a hard difficult road, right? Here's the thing though, you've always been on that road, as long as you can remember, you've been on that road, a hard difficult road that has required you to be strong and resilient ... Now understand this ... this… | /r/MenSupportMen | 05/07/23 09:54 PM |
| 1 | If what the 'manosphere' says about society is real, I don't wanna live in it.Don’t think of it as value extraction. Think of it like this: women (and men) admire strength but strength takes many forms, some strength leads to wealth, some strength leads to compassion and some strength leads to offering protection and help. You help people because you are strong. However, some people are weak and these people also make money, and sometimes help people because people are taking advantage of them. The question of attraction doesn’t come down to what you do but instead why yo… | /r/MenSupportMen | 04/07/23 04:25 AM |
| – | Need some advice on relationshipsRemember that your ex wasn't 'toxic' she was damaged and not ready to be with anyone but she wasn't 'evil' - you're obviously a good person and increasingly a mature person - sounds like you've handled everything really well. Just keep talking and know that if it doesn't work out then you'll be sad for a time and then you'll heal once again. Also, make sure and keep your own life moving forward because the best way to trust someone when you've been hurt before is to build your own strength so th… | /r/MenSupportMen | 18/06/23 02:06 PM |
| 4 | Men, I had to share a positive storyWell done dude. I recently partnered up with a strong woman who compliments me constantly and it's honestly brings me so much confidence and strength. I give compliments myself now to as many people as possible, feels good man. | /r/MenSupportMen | 04/06/23 09:06 AM |
| 2 | Experience with FB Are we Dating the Same Guy groups having real world impact?Yeah. I had a look on them once. There is zero accountability. If you decide not to pursue a relationship with a women for any woman, she can freely go on there and trash your name without any consequences. Worse than that - the women you might reject because you sense she is unstable is even more likely to react badly. And the given there are several million women in somewhere for New York it’s statistically probable that some women will pop up and confirm you’re a ‘wrong in’ simply to troll - … | /r/MenSupportMen | 19/05/23 08:34 AM |
| 5 | Good men or nice guys?The stereotypes break down like this: ‘Nice guys’ do good things out of weakness and fear. ‘Good Men’ are strong and so do things from compassion kind. However, as men, I think we should reject these labels; as weak men can become strong, bad men can become good, and these labels are intended to be immutable. If we allow others to define us then we deny our own capacity both for growth and regress; and it is an effective and honest awareness of both that is (for me) the foundation of healthy mas… | /r/MenSupportMen | 19/05/23 08:20 AM |
| 2 | My latest attempt to curb my screen addiction.Hey, Yeah, I’m doing good but only because I got someone else to type my PIN number in and so I can’t undo my decision in moments of weakness. I’ve realised that this is a true addiction. I’m powerless over it. I also know that I’ll never grow as a person as long as I can access my phone every time I need a distraction from uncomfortable thoughts. First night of this I basically had to call a friend on the phone to distract myself, last night I couldn’t call anyone and I had difficulty sleeping.… | /r/MenSupportMen | 13/05/23 01:15 PM |
| 12 | Why do random people touch me?I hate to break it to you - but have you considered that you might just be really really attractive? | /r/MenSupportMen | 12/05/23 08:10 AM |
| 2 | My latest attempt to curb my screen addiction.How’d you get on dude? | /r/MenSupportMen | 11/05/23 02:27 PM |
| 2 | My latest attempt to curb my screen addiction.Try it for a night! Boredom breeds creativity. See what happens. | /r/MenSupportMen | 09/05/23 02:17 PM |
| 3 | My latest attempt to curb my screen addiction.Thanks dude. Yeah it’s really been an addiction for me. And it’s taken an awful lot to get to this point. I wish life had been different and I’d seen this before | /r/MenSupportMen | 09/05/23 02:15 PM |
| 3 | Weekend check-inMaking real good progress in everything - apart from my screen addiction. | /r/MenSupportMen | 06/05/23 03:25 AM |
| 2 | I DID IT!I really pleased that you took positive action and that someone is going to help - I hope your life gets better from now on. | /r/MenSupportMen | 05/05/23 07:13 PM |
| 7 | Men are being gaslit into thinking they are misogynists and it’s destroying their mental healthThat's the one. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/04/23 10:43 PM |
| 14 | Men are being gaslit into thinking they are misogynists and it’s destroying their mental healthI think the sentence was: 'You are making no sense, guy!' This was a trans person speaking to a cis man - so the gendered insult was as rude as calling someone a dickhead. TBF it might not read like an insult from one sentence but in context it was clearer. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/04/23 10:38 PM |
| 18 | Men are being gaslit into thinking they are misogynists and it’s destroying their mental healthI recently saw someone use the word 'guy' as an insult ... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/04/23 10:30 PM |
| 21 | The left is committing suicide: the increasing alienation of men is going to destroy our movementDude. I got hounded the other day for commenting on a FB post where a woman was asking if she was shallow for thinking about breaking up with a guy because he wasn't as tall as she was used to. She was 5'7 and he was 5'9 so not even short. I explained that I spent some time in r/malementalhealth (though I kept the exact forum from them) and that a lot of guys (some of whom were feeling suicidal) were showing up there with negative body image about their height and that women in general could do … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/03/23 10:55 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys meet women?Theshort answer is 'yes, you'l have to do something different if you want to meet someone' | /r/MenSupportMen | 18/03/23 05:45 AM |
| 1 | I'm finding it hard to ask for helpHey Dude, I absolutely think you've done the right thing - but a word of caution and inspiration. You're partner will want to see growth, and you want to see growth in yourself too - so don't let the idea put pressure on you - but know this the sexiest thing you can do for your partner is to grow into the person you know you already want to be. This means working hard, prioritising your own projects and health at times and if you think you can't afford to eat out AND go on holiday then say that … | /r/MenSupportMen | 13/03/23 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Stuck in an abusive relationshipAdd to all my other comments - if you move in a with a friend for a while, they can then act as a witness for you in any future disputes. If she comes round shouting etc, they can back up your word against her. | /r/MenSupportMen | 12/03/23 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Stuck in an abusive relationshipSell the car - you don't need it without a license. | /r/MenSupportMen | 12/03/23 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Stuck in an abusive relationshipDo you know the paradox of 'things aren't bad enough'? Basically says that until things are bad enough you won't make a significant change. Sounds to me like eviction isn't something you need to fear. Better to be in a new place, alone with your dogs and a debt consolidation payment each month than to live another day than you have to in that hell hole. My advice is skip one months bills and use that money on a deposit for a new place. Then just take the dogs and move - worry about all that mone… | /r/MenSupportMen | 12/03/23 06:18 AM |
| 2 | Stuck in an abusive relationshipScreen shot these - so she can't delete them - just in case after you leave she tries to concoct a story about you. | /r/MenSupportMen | 12/03/23 06:14 AM |
| 4 | I felt trapped with my misandrist ex-girlfriend, before breaking upYou do want her out - own that because it is a valid emotion and one you have every right to act upon. I normally council restraint and staying together in my advice to people who are in relationships but my recent experience tells me otherwise. The only way my ex would ever get to a good place was by realising her actions had consequences, in our case, losing me. I walked away, it was the hardest thing I ever did. I blocked her for 6 months so my recovery wouldn't be affected by her. It nearly … | /r/MenSupportMen | 12/03/23 05:07 AM |
| 2 | I felt trapped with my misandrist ex-girlfriend, before breaking upRemember also that anyone who accuses you of being a white man - is actually accusing you of being a racist. They are saying that somehow your masculinity is wrapped up in racist ideology - this is really unfair. | /r/MenSupportMen | 12/03/23 05:00 AM |
| 6 | I felt trapped with my misandrist ex-girlfriend, before breaking upSecond comment to add - this for anyone who needs to hear this. Lots of partners say they support you but only very few actually support you like they say that they do. This is also a good prism to analyse not only your partners behaviour but your own within a relationship. Actual support is very different to verbal support. Words aren't enough. | /r/MenSupportMen | 12/03/23 04:58 AM |
| 2 | I felt trapped with my misandrist ex-girlfriend, before breaking upDude. Run. I know this is hard to hear, but run. It's like if you were a POC but were dating a racist. | /r/MenSupportMen | 12/03/23 04:53 AM |
| 10 | Highlighting the hypocrisy of feminists with respect to the JK Rowling drama and Mens RightsConsider this: The reason JK Rowling doesn't like trans people is because of the male aspect - she actually portrays a deep mistrust of men for this. It's not the female bit she doesn't want around women in shelters, it's the male bit. So if I ... a man ... want to enjoy Harry Potter, as the victim of her misandry ... then you as a feminist can shut the fuck up. Also, your phone is made from rare earth metals that are mined using slave labour buy warlords in the Congo - so get off your fucking h… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/02/23 09:59 PM |
| 6 | Why I hate the term "male gaze": yet another example of how feminism perpetuates selectively conservative ideas like "traditional female gender norms = bad, traditional male gender norms = good".Yup. Except if you say that as a man then ... well you're part of the problem so shut up and check your privilege | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/02/23 03:21 PM |
| 17 | Why I hate the term "male gaze": yet another example of how feminism perpetuates selectively conservative ideas like "traditional female gender norms = bad, traditional male gender norms = good".The problem is that there is almost no aspect of society that benefits by analysing it by gender. As soon as you do, it's a lost cause. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/02/23 11:26 AM |
| 13 | Analysing feminist rhetoric: The hypocrisy of the "patriarchy that hurts men too."If you can't think of any way that the matriarchy hurts women then you aren't arguing in good faith. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/02/23 07:56 PM |
| 36 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!Similar thing happened me, wasn't exclusive. I wanted to be exclusive, she kept saying she didn't want to be exclusive ... wanted to be free ... fair enough then. So I hooked up with someone casually in a kink setting. Didn't really enjoy tbh it but hey, lesson learned ... I like this girl so I'll stick with her. The girl I was seeing who didn't want to be exclusive, said she didn't want to know ... so fair enough. Then one day sitting minding my own business. Who have you been with? Told her. R… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/02/23 11:48 PM |
| 2 | Can we please talk about the rest of the Left "waking up" to Men's issues??Ahh ... I don't know who!? Dm me? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/11/22 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Can we please talk about the rest of the Left "waking up" to Men's issues??What are these acronyms?? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/11/22 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Vaush showing a heavier MRA leanWhat I see here are the scales beginning to fall from his eyes, I'd say in about a year he'll truly see the light. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/10/22 09:26 AM |
| 12 | Ten years of Tinder, and how it changed the dating marketGot a link or ... ? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/09/22 06:49 PM |
| 8 | Found this infographic on Twitter claiming women work more than men.Also. And this is the purely anecdotal experience of my life. I don't know a single man who's in 'charge' of the home. As far as I can see the archetype of the man coming home expecting dinner and putting his feet up watching sports only exists on the telly. Every single man I know, is expected to do loads of stuff after work and the weekend, or you know, they've been dumped in favour of someone who will get shit done. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/08/22 06:58 AM |
| 1 | ‘Men have issues because they don’t talk’Jesus fucking christ. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/08/22 10:49 AM |
| 11 | Loneliness and the EconomyIt's called Burnout and I suspect many men unwittingly suffer from and then subsequently get dumped. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/08/22 07:37 AM |
| 26 | Why is Tik-tok so misandrist?It's because it's a soft power operation by the CCP. They want to undermine our faith in our society and destroy our motivation. This is not a conspiracy. The Chinese would like us to be discussing cybersecurity like this: https://www.cnbc.com/2021/06/25/tiktok-insiders-say-chinese-parent-bytedance-in-control.html But really it's a soft power exercise in the tradition of the BBC, or American film export, or Russian interference on Facebook. We'll do nothing about it you watch in 10 years there'l… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/08/22 06:01 AM |
| 35 | "Reforming masculinity" is a modern version of conversion therapy and should be seen as equally unscientific and backwardsHoly shit. This really brings it to light how snitty the view is ... reminds me of a comment from a few days ago. "Men are not defective women" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/07/22 04:15 PM |
| 9 | Can I ask what’s with the current backlash about female criminals being in prison in the UK?In this instance snopes was simply confirming that hilary Clinton did say actually say that. They make no analysis of whether she was right to say that, or that what she said was true or not and that's not actually within their remit in this case. They are simply confirming that the meme is not a hoax. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/07/22 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Ghosting and sacrificeI think that who ever you were talking to about this isn't really your friend, I think they are the problem in your life and not the people ghosting you. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/05/22 03:36 PM |
| 9 | Feminist misreading of the “you’re a pussy” insultYes. Because feminism actually internalises misogyny - they themselves view femine as an insult and manly as a compliment! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/05/22 12:35 PM |
| 5 | I will treat my girlfriend special. But I won’t treat female coworkers special. Why is this hard to understand.I think I'm strong mentally and physically enjoy helping people and have no problem asking anyone for help. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/22 11:02 AM |
| -1 | I will treat my girlfriend special. But I won’t treat female coworkers special. Why is this hard to understand.I think you might be stuck at 'cynical' https://youtube.com/shorts/JYGIRVC7I3c?feature=share | /r/MensRights | 30/03/22 11:00 AM |
| 0 | I will treat my girlfriend special. But I won’t treat female coworkers special. Why is this hard to understand.If you'd rather I denied the literal truth of my existence then fine. Fuck em. Cunts. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/22 08:59 AM |
| -1 | I will treat my girlfriend special. But I won’t treat female coworkers special. Why is this hard to understand.Yup | /r/MensRights | 30/03/22 08:58 AM |
| -89 | I will treat my girlfriend special. But I won’t treat female coworkers special. Why is this hard to understand.There's plenty of women in my life who'd help me move and have done in the past. But then I'd help anyone move. I think you're being a bit ridiculous here. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/22 04:12 AM |
| 16 | Hysterical women who can’t control their emotional state are a serious mental health issue for most menNext time tell her straight, that you won't tolerate bring disrespected anymore and then walk out of the house for 48hrs. When you get back if, she tells at you again and isn't ready to talk sensibly ... repeat, instantly. Don't get angry. Don't get sad. Simply act. Once she realises you don't need her at all and can simply walk, she'll soon calm down. | /r/MensRights | 22/03/22 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Apparently women are at the “highest risk” in Ukraine even though men are forced to stay and fightNow you simply aren't making grammatical sense, I can't even tell what point you're trying to make here. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/22 05:46 AM |
| 0 | Apparently women are at the “highest risk” in Ukraine even though men are forced to stay and fightAs I thought. A useful idiot. What part of morality makes you think anyone should have to negotiate under threat of being invaded? | /r/MensRights | 13/03/22 05:05 PM |
| 0 | Apparently women are at the “highest risk” in Ukraine even though men are forced to stay and fightWhy would Ukraine need to negotiate back in 2008 if it wasn't under threat of invasion by Russia? What needed negotiated in 2008? | /r/MensRights | 13/03/22 10:20 AM |
| 4 | Apparently women are at the “highest risk” in Ukraine even though men are forced to stay and fightYou're a useful idiot aren't you? | /r/MensRights | 12/03/22 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Any opinions on the Sarah Everard incident last year in the UK?Also. Can you tell me one thing you would like me to do, as a man, to fix the problems you just outlined? One thing that I can do, as a man, that a woman couldn't? Would you like me to travel to Africa and go to war with Boko Haram? Or maybe you'd like me to overthrow the repressive regime in Saudi Arabia? Or would you like me to walk the streets at night like batman to prevent the next Sarah Everard? | /r/MensRights | 09/03/22 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Any opinions on the Sarah Everard incident last year in the UK?I mean here's 25 women to be going on with https://list25.com/25-most-evil-women-in-history/ You'll note that what sets these women apart is they were in positions of power. However, I'm quite certain you'll chose the two or three that had male accomplices and try to say the women were the victims. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/22 03:22 AM |
| 1 | The right to not be okay. The right to a hug. The right to be the little spoon.It takes great strength to realise displaying vulnerability does not equal weakness and then to act upon that knowledge. | /r/MensRights | 07/03/22 06:07 AM |
| 3 | My sister just brought up the “Women can say they hate men, but men cannot say they hate women. It is objectively different” argument.There is a tactic called 'fogging' - just ask her what she means? Say you don't understand what it means to say 'Hate men'? | /r/MensRights | 15/02/22 05:34 AM |
| -46 | Once more, it's ok for a woman to be an abuser but not for a men to (obviously both are bad, don't abuse your spouses)How? Didn't see the second photo! | /r/MensRights | 10/02/22 06:02 AM |
| 2 | PE teacher, 23, accused of having 'sex with pupil, 18, at a hotel after downing shots and dancing inappropriately with students at the school prom'The Daily Mail is a fucking shit rag. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/22 05:06 AM |
| 21 | KAM is an abomination.Google SCUM for a little history lesson. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/22 10:57 AM |
| 5 | Zuby: I hate the way modern society constantly tries to tear down good men.He's just a guy who didn't ever want this influence or exposure, he's also a victim of circumstances. I'm not excusing what he's said or done, however back in 2010 there was still a section of the comedy world figuring out what the limits of free speech are, and he was just dumb enough to say stuff on camera. Like comedians back then used to joke about raping babies and horrific shit like that. Shock was a driving narrative in comedy at one point. So yeah, he shouldn't have said all those N-Bomb… | /r/MensRights | 06/02/22 09:37 AM |
| 1 | Single mothers only may apply for funding... Who knew "universal" meant gynocentric....🤷♀️No. That's just as important for UBI. Children too. | /r/MensRights | 05/02/22 09:32 AM |
| 3 | Mens point in lifeListen to some Alan Watts, meditate and understand that existence is absurd and you have to create your own meaning. The story you tell yourself about your life defines who you are. | /r/MensRights | 05/02/22 07:02 AM |
| 58 | "That's right, we only treat women" - Manchester Mental Health Trust UKStay strong dude.x | /r/MensRights | 04/02/22 12:46 PM |
| 3 | I saw a post on r/dating advice and it made me realize something about sex ed clearly lacking: sizeI'm well endowed. Sex is usually painful for the first few times I'm with a woman, then after a while it gets easier as she learns to relax. Foreplay, extended foreplay helps, but not totally. They can fit a tiny human through there, it'll adapt in time. I will say however that one specific partner, I just fit, like a glove and it was incredible ... and she'd never been with anyone my size and honestly I'll take the look on her face to my grave ... it was like the dawning of a new age for her! | /r/MensRights | 04/02/22 05:49 AM |
| 52 | Should I get a restraining order?This should be higher. | /r/MensRights | 04/02/22 01:57 AM |
| -2 | I think in the future most women and men will be single and marriage will become extinct.Guys this is actually cringe inducingly bad. Get out of your echo chamber, things aren't as bad as all that. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/22 06:02 AM |
| 1 | All the Gay men and Disabled people killed by the Nazis called, and they'd like to be remembered.I had no idea, I'm ashamed ... that's almost 1 in 3 Romani. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/22 01:44 AM |
| 93 | Just falsely accused of rape, in need of advice.This is attempted Blackmail, get proof in writing. Find out what he wants from you. Then tell the guy that he's never getting a penny from you and if it gets out, you'll make sure he gets charged with Black Mail. | /r/MensRights | 02/02/22 09:27 AM |
| 4 | All the Gay men and Disabled people killed by the Nazis called, and they'd like to be remembered.Actually, that's a really good point. | /r/MensRights | 02/02/22 08:03 AM |
| 1 | All the Gay men and Disabled people killed by the Nazis called, and they'd like to be remembered.You're a rubbish troll, like ... really poor. | /r/MensRights | 02/02/22 07:00 AM |
| 1 | All the Gay men and Disabled people killed by the Nazis called, and they'd like to be remembered.Absolutely 💯 | /r/MensRights | 02/02/22 06:28 AM |
| 5 | More EU countries continue to pass laws that make women's lives more valuable than those of men.Have you a source for this? Genuine question. | /r/MensRights | 02/02/22 05:56 AM |
| 17 | All the Gay men and Disabled people killed by the Nazis called, and they'd like to be remembered.It just reeks of Unthinking corporate wokism. | /r/MensRights | 02/02/22 05:40 AM |
| -12 | UK: Undercover female officers will walk streets to catch drivers shouting sexist commentsGuys. This is a good idea. Calm the fuck down ... are you really all gonna go white knighting for a bunch of slobs who give the rest of us a bad name? | /r/MensRights | 01/02/22 05:58 AM |
| 2 | "Dating apps don't bring out the worst in people, only men."Exactly dude! And imagine a guy going in a national newspaper and writing "Tinder gives whores the chance to have as much cock as they like, on tap!" It's actually disgusting. | /r/MensRights | 31/01/22 08:16 PM |
| 18 | "Dating apps don't bring out the worst in people, only men."The thing that really stood out for me about this article is that a man would NOT be given column inches in a national newspaper for an opinion piece saying dating apps turn woman into sluts. To me that's the problem. Are some guys arseholes? Absolutely! Are some women? Absolutely! But the fact that this is given air time shows how toxic the debate has become! | /r/MensRights | 30/01/22 02:00 PM |
| 10 | "Dating apps don't bring out the worst in people, only men."Did you miss out a *not in one of your sentences there? | /r/MensRights | 30/01/22 01:56 PM |
| 4 | "Dating apps don't bring out the worst in people, only men."I admire how you admitted your error. Excellent work! | /r/MensRights | 30/01/22 12:50 PM |
| 6 | "Dating apps don't bring out the worst in people, only men."The guy just didn't explain himself very well in this case, well spotted, but you'd have a nicer time in life if you applied the principle of charity to strangers on the Internet. | /r/MensRights | 30/01/22 12:50 PM |
| 29 | Any opinions on the Sarah Everard incident last year in the UK?"This is a men's problem, and men need to do something about it" - Heard on a radio interview. I remember hearing that and thinking 'What are you talking about? Do you want me to remind all my make friends and family NOT TO KILL STRANGERS ON THE STREET? Would you like me to personally go out and chaperone random women home to make sure their safe? DO YOU EVEN REALISE THAT I DON'T WALK THE STREETS AT NIGHT BECAUSE EVENTUALITY I'LL BE ATTACKED TOO???' Honestly, the response made me fucking sick. S… | /r/MensRights | 30/01/22 06:13 AM |
| 27 | A mother writes of her sadness about what is happening to boys and young men.An analogy would be to say 'rapey Asianess' is putting people at risk or 'crimey blackness' is ruining the area or 'hypergamus women' are destroying marriage. Some of the above work better than others and non of them are my own political views, I include them to highlight the logical trap we have fallen into. The phrase takes the essence of who we are, slaps a label on it and then blames it for all woman's and men's problems. It tells us: 'You know what will fix everything? Men, we want you to t… | /r/MensRights | 29/01/22 06:17 AM |
| 6 | Haters gonna hate, I’ll keep goingIt's also the case that we are the second wave of MRA's and the first wave were more misogynistic than the second wave. Its inevitable that first we express pain and anger before we move on the more enlightened and informed view points. It's important that we call misogynistic content without vilifying the content poster, in time this will lead to positive action. Women have had 60 years or more to process their anger and work out positive strategies for improving their place in society, Men are… | /r/MensRights | 28/01/22 01:40 PM |
| 1 | I'm afraid to speak about men's problems at university tomorrowSay 'I would like to see a male guidance Councillor - what can be done about this?' And simply avoid the final question all together as everyone will take the chance to derail the conversation and make it about women only spaces etc., etc. Focus on actionable change. Ask your questions and reiterate them if the conversation is derailed. If anyone says anything about your intentions reply. 'I've said nothing negative here about women - I think it's fantastic that they are getting better represent… | /r/MensRights | 26/01/22 05:07 AM |
| 1 | I'm afraid to speak about men's problems at university tomorrowMake no claims ro knowledge, and make no political points simply ask simple questions. Ask, why is men's access to study groups inferior and what, if anything can be done to address this? No don't say ' I feel unwelcome', don't say 'men are treated unfairly' focus on specific goals and exposes them through questioning. Do not elaborate, go mute if accused of anything. Do not lose your cool. Simply ask your question and wait, when you have received an answer respond 'thank you for listening - wou… | /r/MensRights | 26/01/22 05:02 AM |
| 11 | Reddit Mods call all MRA's "Misogynist Terrorists" and then try to gaslight me by implying my lack of parental rights is only a "belief".That's fucking horrific dude, my advice in future when dealing with logically fallacious bull shit like that is to avoid making any point at all but instead ask questions until their position melts in their hands. I mean you did really well all though this, but the term Gaslight is not applicable here and its misuse does you no favors. Gaslight is a really specific term, meaning a really specific thing and anytime any one uses it in a discussion on the Internet during a debate they just look rea… | /r/MensRights | 25/01/22 03:26 AM |
| 17 | #Killallmen. Just keep the all the skyscrapers, buildings, highways and bridges.This. I couldn't lay paving slabs for two decades. I'd be fucked. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/22 08:25 PM |
| 0 | I think I got sexually assaulted. I don’t know how to feel.I don't know. I've been working many years to improve my writing, so I'm pretty pleased either way. Cheers! | /r/MensRights | 24/01/22 11:10 AM |
| 20 | What do you guys think about the "male gaze"?It matters because it's reality. The truth is the truth, doesn't matter the source as long as its true. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/22 05:07 AM |
| 31 | What do you guys think about the "male gaze"?Everyone glances at Everyone on the street. The end. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/22 05:05 AM |
| -1 | I think I got sexually assaulted. I don’t know how to feel.I'm dyslexic dude ... so your compliment is a fucking triumph for me! Cheers! | /r/MensRights | 24/01/22 05:01 AM |
| 1 | I think I got sexually assaulted. I don’t know how to feel.Cool story, bro! No, actually ... genuinely glad you commented here! Thanks. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/22 10:45 PM |
| 1 | I think I got sexually assaulted. I don’t know how to feel.Cool story, bro.x | /r/MensRights | 23/01/22 07:08 PM |
| 0 | I think I got sexually assaulted. I don’t know how to feel.That is sound advice. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/22 06:55 PM |
| -1 | I think I got sexually assaulted. I don’t know how to feel.I'm being short to my critic, not OP, and quite possibly 'brief and to the point' would have been a more appropriate description. What level is your reading comprehension if you can't understand that? | /r/MensRights | 23/01/22 06:44 PM |
| -3 | I think I got sexually assaulted. I don’t know how to feel.You appear to have fallen wholesale for the strawman raised by my critic and followed his descent into derailment of this thread. You have neither told me something I didn't already know, or told me anything relevant to my original comment. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/22 06:25 PM |
| -1 | I think I got sexually assaulted. I don’t know how to feel.Where did I kick someone when they are down? | /r/MensRights | 23/01/22 06:23 PM |
| 0 | I think I got sexually assaulted. I don’t know how to feel.Ahh ... so you're a concern troll! Now it all makes sense.x | /r/MensRights | 23/01/22 04:10 PM |
| -1 | I think I got sexually assaulted. I don’t know how to feel.I'm not being rude. I'm being short and not getting dragged into the weeds of the culture war. OP. Asked a question, I answered. Then this person agreed with my response but took issue with it based on trite, over done and extremely obvious talking points that are so obvious they don't need stated. SA is bad mmmkay? Really? Well thank you for pointing that out! Now the world is a better place! Wonderful! What insight! Thank you for your expert opinion friend! And then they doubled down. Look. I … | /r/MensRights | 23/01/22 04:09 PM |
| -2 | I think I got sexually assaulted. I don’t know how to feel.Cool story, bro. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/22 02:59 PM |
| 14 | I think I got sexually assaulted. I don’t know how to feel.Why would I waste time saying up is up or down is down, when it doesn't have any relevance here? Jesus. What is wrong with people? Does everything have to be layered in seven layers of cotton wool? Why would I worry about what survivors of sexual assault think (I am one BTW) OP was NOT sexually assaulted, he had a consenual sexual encounter that he later regretted. He asked a question and I answered it. Learn. Move on. Existence is trial and error. Get used to it. State your opinion clearly and … | /r/MensRights | 23/01/22 11:18 AM |
| 28 | I think I got sexually assaulted. I don’t know how to feel.He helped himself to booze. She checked in to see if he was OK and he said yes. People aren't mind readers. OP. Go to sleep, rest and in future be prouder of who you are and say what you want in future. Learn from this, buy done throw all your toys out of the pram because you made a mistake. Just move on with your life. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/22 07:30 AM |
| 21 | An "ex-friend" is going around saying that i "abused her".The dude clearly had a party at his house while his folks were away and she was there | /r/MensRights | 23/01/22 05:53 AM |
| 1 | UK: Fury as AA says it does NOT 'prioritise' a lone woman over a man at roadside: Customers 'CANCEL memberships' as breakdown firm confirms it does not give priority 'based on gender'So is this one: https://twitter.com/natesilver538/status/988426684599885829?lang=en | /r/MensRights | 21/01/22 05:54 PM |
| -6 | They Somehow Twisted A Men's Rights Issue To Make It About Women!?Nah. What have you been reading? Those Indian guys are not cool at all bro, not cool at all. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/22 05:54 AM |
| 2 | UK: Fury as AA says it does NOT 'prioritise' a lone woman over a man at roadside: Customers 'CANCEL memberships' as breakdown firm confirms it does not give priority 'based on gender'Lads. It's the daily mail. | /r/MensRights | 20/01/22 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Feminists protest against equal retirement age in SwitzerlandI don't mind this, as long as once this fight is won the mens is also reduced to 64. No need to infight over this at all .. | /r/MensRights | 18/01/22 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Feminists judging all men. A dialogue.If you can't see how providing a real world example of men all being tarred with the brush of the minority backs up the satirical conversation in the OP then you aren't going to go far in life! | /r/MensRights | 18/01/22 02:51 PM |
| -1 | Feminists judging all men. A dialogue.You clearly can't recognise satire. | /r/MensRights | 18/01/22 06:31 AM |
| 2 | Feminists judging all men. A dialogue.I'm not OP. | /r/MensRights | 18/01/22 06:30 AM |
| 19 | Feminists judging all men. A dialogue.I began to satirise your comments when it became clear you weren't interested in good faith discussion, and had begun to make random non-sequiturs. Enjoy your day.x | /r/MensRights | 18/01/22 12:25 AM |
| 22 | Feminists judging all men. A dialogue.I don't think those words mean what you think they mean. | /r/MensRights | 18/01/22 12:19 AM |
| 9 | Feminists judging all men. A dialogue.Interesting ... | /r/MensRights | 18/01/22 12:02 AM |
| 23 | Feminists judging all men. A dialogue.There are also an infinite number of integers. | /r/MensRights | 18/01/22 12:01 AM |
| 28 | Feminists judging all men. A dialogue.You asked ... so I answered. The above conversation is one that highlights how feminism can at times (most of the time) treat men as a homogeneous blob of malice. The link I shared is a real world example of that un action. | /r/MensRights | 17/01/22 11:57 PM |
| 21 | Feminists judging all men. A dialogue.https://www.irishexaminer.com/opinion/columnists/arid-40247828.html | /r/MensRights | 17/01/22 11:52 PM |
| 29 | Feminists judging all men. A dialogue."All men are rapists" - Marylin French https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/8709479-all-men-are-rapists-and-that-s-all-they-are-they Just one example of men being judged by the actions of a minority. | /r/MensRights | 17/01/22 11:49 PM |
| 21 | Feminists judging all men. A dialogue."All men are rapists" - Marylin French https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/8709479-all-men-are-rapists-and-that-s-all-they-are-they | /r/MensRights | 17/01/22 11:48 PM |
| 3 | Men's International Day and Father's DayWhat? A crusade against fathers day? | /r/MensRights | 13/01/22 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Men's International Day and Father's DayCelebrate both equally! | /r/MensRights | 13/01/22 04:58 PM |
| 14 | In which universe is Men's right a male supremacy movement?Ahh no worries. I think he just got a bit confused and doesn't really understand what he's trying to achieve. People can have valid issues with porn and they can have valid issues with toxic feminism (and even feminism for that matter) but there's no point in conflating the two ... they're just different things entirely. And then after that - why would you even bring it up at this point, on this post? I strongly suspect his own personal bitterness is infecting his politics and clouding his judge… | /r/MensRights | 09/01/22 07:54 AM |
| 5 | Men are excluded from sex positivity movement aaand…..it’s Men’s fault due to lack of participation and toxic masculinity.One fairly obvious question arises: If there's a lack of straight men in the sex positivity movement then surely it follows that there must be either a lack of straight women, or lots of under served straight women? That's logic, right? | /r/MensRights | 09/01/22 07:27 AM |
| 5 | In which universe is Men's right a male supremacy movement?Nowhere have I have I defended the porn industry. I'm simply saying that the following statement of yours: "Pornstars are the same as feninists" Is both illogical and rude; further to that it doesn't mean anything and finally it is so stupid that it can be used as ammo by people who want to say this sub is full of misogynists. If you can't accept critique of the way you have made your arguments, then you should maybe reassess your thinking because it isn't yet built on firm grounds. | /r/MensRights | 09/01/22 07:22 AM |
| 5 | In which universe is Men's right a male supremacy movement?Yes. I want you to explain how having an Only Fans account or whatever, is the same as being a feminist. That statement is without internal logic. It's akin to saying that a male pornstar is the same as being an MRA. You also ignore, as so many do on this sub the difference between moderate feminism and toxic feminism - both of which exist. The first of which should be our ally because there can be no equality without ending the areas in which women are discriminated against, along with ending t… | /r/MensRights | 09/01/22 06:56 AM |
| 29 | In which universe is Men's right a male supremacy movement?The internal logic in your comment is inconsistent. You are also being needlessly rude. If you don't like someone's job then it is totally fine go on with life and not tell them this fact. | /r/MensRights | 09/01/22 06:32 AM |
| 2 | Relationship Fell Apart... How Do I Help The Kids...At the end of it all ... no one is going to care about your marriage breaking down, but they and you and your sons will care about your efforts as a father. Work for that moment. | /r/MensRights | 31/12/21 12:19 PM |
| 3 | Relationship Fell Apart... How Do I Help The Kids...Sounds like you're in a shitty situation but doing everything right. So keep going. | /r/MensRights | 31/12/21 10:30 AM |
| -4 | Male sexuality it innocent.You're missing my point. You made an excellent insightful comment that shifts the paradigm around male sexuality. It was enough on its own and you should look deeper into it and you should practice making that argument to different people and in different contexts. Then however you went on to bash women and all that accomplishes is to turn people from your cause. Stick to the first point. Deepen your understanding of it. And speak it proudly in all situations ... especially to women! | /r/MensRights | 25/12/21 04:37 PM |
| -4 | Male sexuality it innocent.I was explaining why he lost that guy at the end. | /r/MensRights | 25/12/21 04:26 PM |
| -15 | Male sexuality it innocent.I guess I'd suggest sticking with the first point, it's beautiful and I arguably positive ... its when you start negatively talking about women that you lose the argument. Focus on making a positive point. | /r/MensRights | 25/12/21 02:23 PM |
| 9 | Professional female e-sports team members are complaining they’re not equal to menThe only League player I know, his Girlfriend left him because he played too much League. So he stopped to get her back and now he doesn't play any games anymore! Shows the difference in attitude to Gaming. | /r/MensRights | 25/12/21 07:28 AM |
| 3 | Sex of the future.Nah. I think this is actually wrong. Once this gen Z get old and their own prejudices start to affect themselves because they suddenly become realise that not only are they old but that they don't hold a position of power because of their ages ... once that happens the new right to self identify will be that of identifying as a different age to their literal age. Age will be viewed then not as the metric that allows the old to abuse the young but as 'just a number' and 18 will be viewed as much … | /r/MensRights | 24/12/21 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Female Dating Strategy is disgusting and openly discriminatoryIncels aren't evil dude. | /r/MensRights | 24/12/21 04:28 AM |
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