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| 3 | How did you handle the pettiness?German date her... I went on a date with a German woman once, who at the end, when it was time for the bill, wanted to separate according to who had ordered what. Not going half-half, essentially have 2 separate bills. This is a very German thing to do: whenever a common bill comes in, you can bet they have a key according to which items will be split, eg painting the window of a rented apartment is the responsibility of the tenant on the inside and the landlord on the outside. You account for e… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/25 11:40 PM |
| 6 | Considering divorce. Exhausted"I’m dreading her coming out here to live with me and disrupting my peace" There's your answer. If you are dreading seeing your wife, your feelings are telling you what's up. Cheating is typically only the last step and for many the final wake up call, but you don't have to wait until it happens (from either side) if you already know what's up. Your friends are rightfully worried it's only a phase, one of those ups and downs that are common in a relationship, but you are the only one who can rea… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/01/25 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Ex wife still trying to control my time and walletIt takes two to Tango. The father of an ex-gf used every excuse in the book to reduce alimony by a couple of bucks when he could. (Note: not child support) Get petty, use every little thing she does or doesn't do. Be clear with the kids that only you decide on anything on top of child support. Decide on what you think is sensible. Tell them why you think something is sensible it but. And don't hesitate to be clear to the kids on what you'll not do. Their mom might try to construe it as "evil dad… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/07/22 10:11 PM |
| 0 | Questions on Preparing for DivorceMoney aside, long term this is not a healthy environment for a kid to grow up. I would probably let her have all the money she wants as long as you get custody, tbh. Wealth can be rebuilt. Given that she'll be out to hurt you, you need to play this smart. Act as if you're after the money only and lead her to believe she "defeats" you by getting it while you get custody. This will take some acting but she has made you adversaries, so now it's a nasty fight. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/22 10:21 AM |
| 4 | Please Gentlemen, if your ex or STBXW says, “You’re the one that got away”, don’t believe her."What's next" is a really powerful question. Also keep that in mind - look forward. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/22 09:23 AM |
| 2 | Need support, I'm feeling close to my stbxw again and it's affecting my divorce plansI split from my Ex (on good terms, no drama, no kids) over 15 years ago and if we hang out longer then a couple of hours feelings still come back. We used to meet up maybe once a year and catch up but I've stopped that since it ultimately just pulls me down. You've made a decision for a good reason, stick with it. Maybe another thought helps you - there are so many other women out there who are so much better. Look forward to meeting them instead of looking back. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/22 08:06 AM |
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